JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


Catholic Feminist Victimizes herself


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

216.08592

Word Count

2,032

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

In this episode, we talk about sexual liberation, promiscuous women, and the recent scandal of a woman who went viral for cheating on her boyfriend, and how society reacts to it. We also discuss sexual liberation in the modern world, and whether or not sexual liberation is a good or bad thing.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 society women like this raise children right eventually right how do you know
00:00:05.700 if she went if she goes to have children for me this type of psychology and the
00:00:15.120 way in which is so easily it's so easy to cheat and be like quote-unquote
00:00:20.700 sexually liberated to the point of I think to the detriment of society what
00:00:26.760 do you think if the women of this society continue to go down this road how do you
00:00:30.960 think society is gonna end up I don't think you can say like women I think you
00:00:36.420 can say that one person yeah it went viral because it's not normalized like
00:00:41.820 if it was normalized everyone just said oh yeah it's fine yeah like I don't
00:00:45.660 think anyone here was like oh yeah would you would you say by and large women are
00:00:49.720 getting more promiscuous though than like a hundred years ago yes but like it's
00:00:53.880 the whole like sexual liberation but it comes with the whole fact that we've
00:00:57.840 been like repressed for our sexuality for so so long and so now it's kind of but
00:01:02.040 also kind of mostly appreciated for our sexuality and there's this like
00:01:05.520 distorted divide where we're not allowed to be sexual but also we're expected to
00:01:09.180 be sexual and so like sexual liberation is essentially reclaiming the power back
00:01:13.260 on that so doing things like that but I guess it's a bit distorted just because
00:01:16.440 it's such a great area you know I feel like what you said is like perfect but I
00:01:24.180 feel like this woman didn't do it in the name of sexual liberation she's just one
00:01:27.060 random really weird person I don't think she did it in the name of this is for
00:01:31.140 women this is for sexual liberation this is for you know I think she's just
00:01:34.680 don't you think sexual liberation has led to women doing stuff like this feeling
00:01:38.380 more free to do it yeah I think it's all it's probably always happened it's just
00:01:41.640 like they're more vocal about it now and like statistically like the generation
00:01:46.600 before us were actually a lot more sexily sexually promiscuous than our
00:01:51.720 generation well actually like no one's can't swear no one's holding hands in
00:01:56.340 bed anymore like compared to they're like no one's fucking but now it's like more
00:02:04.060 accepted that you just go online and like you can just go viral for anything so
00:02:08.300 you're gonna say the most out loudest stuff like she might not have even done
00:02:11.100 that right yeah she might have just said expect I want to be famous yeah it's
00:02:16.320 possible this kind of stuff has happened I mean it's definitely happened I would
00:02:19.740 say at least once yeah so but to both genders oh yeah I mean it goes both ways
00:02:25.740 but the thing is that typically if you look at the sexlessness stats of our
00:02:30.420 generation it's usually the men that are sexless it's not the women yeah one out
00:02:34.840 of three men under 30 is a virgin or hasn't had sex in the past year okay so
00:02:38.820 like usually when you look at those stats like actually women are having sex
00:02:42.240 with more people and men are having sex with less because it's a smaller and
00:02:45.720 smaller percentage of men that are having sex with all the girls yeah because
00:02:49.020 women choose who are sex so yeah because like the more the more girls sleep around
00:02:52.560 like typically they sleep up like they date up and so it just becomes a smaller
00:02:57.180 and smaller percentage do you think sexual liberation has helped the Western
00:03:02.280 world or hindered it in what way um in the morals of the moral fabric of society do
00:03:10.260 you think it's helped it or hindered it I think there was always sex but it was
00:03:13.560 always far away from us so it was like magazines TV media and whatever but it's
00:03:18.540 now normal for just a normal person to be like super sexy and it's not you know
00:03:22.560 but I think I think it's helped I would say it depends on what you're trying to
00:03:27.960 accomplish really I think we're still working towards sexual liberation I feel
00:03:31.620 like there's still so many restrictions around it that even when you are six
00:03:34.680 sexually liberated you still have such a backlash you still have so many people
00:03:38.580 attacking you just because you can have the freedom to do what you want it
00:03:41.560 doesn't mean you don't get the repercussions of it and I think that's
00:03:43.800 still there so I don't think we're really sexually liberated because we still
00:03:46.980 have that judgment on it yes repercussions are just like a natural law of
00:03:50.460 nature it's not judgment in it it's about people judging obviously it's not a
00:03:56.400 great situation that's pretty messed up but well in my opinion sorry I lost my
00:04:02.820 train of thought I think the difference between this and then a woman just being
00:04:06.900 sexually liberated and shagging she wants is there's luck that you're lying to
00:04:11.760 someone here and it's it's not okay to do that to someone and I think that's what
00:04:18.540 is so shocking like if she was just like oh yeah my boyfriend lets me go sit with my
00:04:23.520 ex in the gas station he's really kind about that like and then he'll eat me
00:04:27.860 out into it then I'm like yeah go girl like you found someone who accepts what
00:04:32.340 you're into like so I agree with that but also like you you don't do that to
00:04:37.820 people that's awful and then you brag about it like what but then isn't that
00:04:42.980 what sexual liberation is isn't it about being able to have sex and be free and
00:04:46.940 tell people look I'm allowed to have sex I can do what I want as a woman I can
00:04:50.940 have sex with who I want the way I want if it's open and honest and if both
00:04:54.600 people are in on it but in like that situation it seemed like the guy wasn't
00:04:58.020 in on it so in that case that yeah don't you think sexual liberation hurts
00:05:02.460 women though in the end and what's that what so like women that sleep with more
00:05:06.240 people have higher rates of depression they're more likely to be on anti
00:05:09.720 depression drugs drugs and the more people they sleep with the less likely
00:05:13.540 they are to have a happy marriage so I think that comes sorry and so basically like
00:05:19.080 when you the more women are sleeping around it's like a smaller percentage of
00:05:22.620 men get to have sex with all the girls and so it's like you're basically a side
00:05:26.540 chick no because you you get a lot of data from like dating apps yeah so you can
00:05:33.300 really see where few people are sleeping with I would I would say that that that
00:05:37.240 boom and kind of like sexuality especially in like woman is is more kind of
00:05:41.040 like a time thing where we haven't really been able to be that open with our
00:05:44.960 sexuality and that free with our sexuality especially like as soon as like 30
00:05:48.800 years ago there was still so many restrictions on that so many
00:05:51.340 expectations and we're only now breaking past that expectations where it has to
00:05:54.180 go so much further the other way before it can be brought back a little bit so I
00:05:57.740 think it's people chasing that because they think that's what's gonna bring them
00:06:01.180 that fulfillment but just because they don't know they haven't explored that
00:06:03.600 they haven't had the opportunity to explore that before so how much time do
00:06:07.140 you think needs to pass because birth control was developed in the 70s and the US
00:06:11.420 at least that's when Roe versus Wade was passed which I know is overturned now but but
00:06:16.020 that's still a lot of time like that's longer than I've been alive yeah like so
00:06:20.360 my whole life like we've been liberated you know I think when it's not like a
00:06:26.020 systematic thing so like back in the day the further back you go the more sort of
00:06:30.680 worse it is so that women have never been sort of integrated in society in a way of
00:06:33.740 like I don't know I lost my track of thought gang sorry
00:06:38.080 do you mean in the sense that they weren't able to vote yeah yeah yeah so I think what
00:06:43.480 I'm trying to say is um before it was so bad now it's like okay and we need to get
00:06:49.520 it to like perfect and I think even if there's like kind of legal restrictions that have been
00:06:53.760 removed there's still a lot of conservative spaces where sexuality isn't really free and
00:06:57.880 it still affects this generation like our parents generation who like for example my parents
00:07:02.000 are Catholic or come from Catholic backgrounds and there's a very conservative mindset there
00:07:06.040 where sex wasn't talked about I wasn't even talked to about my period when I was a kid
00:07:09.960 so even though like legally and kind of in the like social world yes that's still we're past
00:07:15.080 that I think it still like affects us generationally even like our generation where we're still
00:07:19.800 getting that flack from being sexually open and we still don't really know how to navigate
00:07:23.080 that space wouldn't you say the internet though is the great equalizer because any information
00:07:27.400 you really want is available so like I've had a smartphone since I was in eighth grade so if I
00:07:33.800 if I really I was a pretty innocent kid to be honest and it didn't like I was fine with that yeah but
00:07:38.820 like honestly if I wanted to google something it's it's pretty easy it's right there I was uh
00:07:44.300 completely but I think it it's social media is kind of like um a detached way of looking at
00:07:49.520 things I think when you learn certain patterns from your parents certain mindsets when you learn not
00:07:53.200 to talk about certain things like I was sexual quite early on just because of my family dynamic
00:07:57.280 but I received a lot of shame for it and I was shamed for kind of the way I was acting and it wasn't
00:08:02.520 necessarily a healthy thing but because it wasn't spoken about and it was kind of shut out I didn't
00:08:06.480 really learn how to deal with it healthily what do you mean by shamed um so I found myself in a lot
00:08:13.680 of kind of quite sexual situations early on um that was kind of the way I searched for physical intimacy
00:08:18.240 because I didn't really know how else to do it it was kind of the way um and I received
00:08:22.700 a lot of backlash coming from people who found out about it like um teachers friends friends of
00:08:27.680 parents who didn't want the kids to be friends with me because I was sexually active um my mom
00:08:32.120 never really spoke to me about it but I could feel kind of that disappointment in her so it's never
00:08:37.120 like outright but it's more like a shut out you're kind of freezed out for acting a certain way that
00:08:42.400 doesn't really um go with those conservative values do you do you feel like we should be encouraging
00:08:46.840 young girls to be more sexual I think we should encourage the conversation about it okay I think
00:08:51.180 that's the issue the issue is that we don't talk about it it's not necessarily encouraging girls
00:08:54.640 to be more sexual but knowing that if they have certain urges they have certain feelings if we
00:08:58.560 can know about it and have that conversation about it because you can learn all types of stuff from
00:09:02.160 the internet right it's it's a great place to find information but it's also a great place to find
00:09:05.440 misinformation and so I think it's just important to be having that conversation about it I was just
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