JustPearlyThings - Catholic Feminist Victimizes herself

00:00:00.000 society women like this raise children right eventually right how do you know 1.00

00:00:05.700 if she went if she goes to have children for me this type of psychology and the

00:00:15.120 way in which is so easily it's so easy to cheat and be like quote-unquote

00:00:20.700 sexually liberated to the point of I think to the detriment of society what

00:00:26.760 do you think if the women of this society continue to go down this road how do you 0.99

00:00:30.960 think society is gonna end up I don't think you can say like women I think you 1.00

00:00:36.420 can say that one person yeah it went viral because it's not normalized like

00:00:41.820 if it was normalized everyone just said oh yeah it's fine yeah like I don't

00:00:45.660 think anyone here was like oh yeah would you would you say by and large women are 1.00

00:00:49.720 getting more promiscuous though than like a hundred years ago yes but like it's

00:00:53.880 the whole like sexual liberation but it comes with the whole fact that we've

00:00:57.840 been like repressed for our sexuality for so so long and so now it's kind of but

00:01:02.040 also kind of mostly appreciated for our sexuality and there's this like

00:01:05.520 distorted divide where we're not allowed to be sexual but also we're expected to

00:01:09.180 be sexual and so like sexual liberation is essentially reclaiming the power back

00:01:13.260 on that so doing things like that but I guess it's a bit distorted just because

00:01:16.440 it's such a great area you know I feel like what you said is like perfect but I

00:01:24.180 feel like this woman didn't do it in the name of sexual liberation she's just one 1.00

00:01:27.060 random really weird person I don't think she did it in the name of this is for 0.84

00:01:31.140 women this is for sexual liberation this is for you know I think she's just 1.00

00:01:34.680 don't you think sexual liberation has led to women doing stuff like this feeling 0.98

00:01:38.380 more free to do it yeah I think it's all it's probably always happened it's just

00:01:41.640 like they're more vocal about it now and like statistically like the generation

00:01:46.600 before us were actually a lot more sexily sexually promiscuous than our

00:01:51.720 generation well actually like no one's can't swear no one's holding hands in 0.97

00:01:56.340 bed anymore like compared to they're like no one's fucking but now it's like more 0.98

00:02:04.060 accepted that you just go online and like you can just go viral for anything so 0.96

00:02:08.300 you're gonna say the most out loudest stuff like she might not have even done

00:02:11.100 that right yeah she might have just said expect I want to be famous yeah it's

00:02:16.320 possible this kind of stuff has happened I mean it's definitely happened I would

00:02:19.740 say at least once yeah so but to both genders oh yeah I mean it goes both ways

00:02:25.740 but the thing is that typically if you look at the sexlessness stats of our

00:02:30.420 generation it's usually the men that are sexless it's not the women yeah one out 0.99

00:02:34.840 of three men under 30 is a virgin or hasn't had sex in the past year okay so 0.52

00:02:38.820 like usually when you look at those stats like actually women are having sex 1.00

00:02:42.240 with more people and men are having sex with less because it's a smaller and

00:02:45.720 smaller percentage of men that are having sex with all the girls yeah because 0.97

00:02:49.020 women choose who are sex so yeah because like the more the more girls sleep around 1.00

00:02:52.560 like typically they sleep up like they date up and so it just becomes a smaller

00:02:57.180 and smaller percentage do you think sexual liberation has helped the Western

00:03:02.280 world or hindered it in what way um in the morals of the moral fabric of society do

00:03:10.260 you think it's helped it or hindered it I think there was always sex but it was 0.85

00:03:13.560 always far away from us so it was like magazines TV media and whatever but it's

00:03:18.540 now normal for just a normal person to be like super sexy and it's not you know

00:03:22.560 but I think I think it's helped I would say it depends on what you're trying to

00:03:27.960 accomplish really I think we're still working towards sexual liberation I feel

00:03:31.620 like there's still so many restrictions around it that even when you are six

00:03:34.680 sexually liberated you still have such a backlash you still have so many people

00:03:38.580 attacking you just because you can have the freedom to do what you want it

00:03:41.560 doesn't mean you don't get the repercussions of it and I think that's

00:03:43.800 still there so I don't think we're really sexually liberated because we still

00:03:46.980 have that judgment on it yes repercussions are just like a natural law of

00:03:50.460 nature it's not judgment in it it's about people judging obviously it's not a

00:03:56.400 great situation that's pretty messed up but well in my opinion sorry I lost my

00:04:02.820 train of thought I think the difference between this and then a woman just being 0.98

00:04:06.900 sexually liberated and shagging she wants is there's luck that you're lying to 0.77

00:04:11.760 someone here and it's it's not okay to do that to someone and I think that's what 0.89

00:04:18.540 is so shocking like if she was just like oh yeah my boyfriend lets me go sit with my

00:04:23.520 ex in the gas station he's really kind about that like and then he'll eat me

00:04:27.860 out into it then I'm like yeah go girl like you found someone who accepts what

00:04:32.340 you're into like so I agree with that but also like you you don't do that to

00:04:37.820 people that's awful and then you brag about it like what but then isn't that 0.83

00:04:42.980 what sexual liberation is isn't it about being able to have sex and be free and 0.98

00:04:46.940 tell people look I'm allowed to have sex I can do what I want as a woman I can 0.68

00:04:50.940 have sex with who I want the way I want if it's open and honest and if both 0.90

00:04:54.600 people are in on it but in like that situation it seemed like the guy wasn't 0.75

00:04:58.020 in on it so in that case that yeah don't you think sexual liberation hurts

00:05:02.460 women though in the end and what's that what so like women that sleep with more 1.00

00:05:06.240 people have higher rates of depression they're more likely to be on anti

00:05:09.720 depression drugs drugs and the more people they sleep with the less likely

00:05:13.540 they are to have a happy marriage so I think that comes sorry and so basically like

00:05:19.080 when you the more women are sleeping around it's like a smaller percentage of 1.00

00:05:22.620 men get to have sex with all the girls and so it's like you're basically a side 0.50

00:05:26.540 chick no because you you get a lot of data from like dating apps yeah so you can

00:05:33.300 really see where few people are sleeping with I would I would say that that that 0.99

00:05:37.240 boom and kind of like sexuality especially in like woman is is more kind of 0.97

00:05:41.040 like a time thing where we haven't really been able to be that open with our

00:05:44.960 sexuality and that free with our sexuality especially like as soon as like 30

00:05:48.800 years ago there was still so many restrictions on that so many

00:05:51.340 expectations and we're only now breaking past that expectations where it has to

00:05:54.180 go so much further the other way before it can be brought back a little bit so I

00:05:57.740 think it's people chasing that because they think that's what's gonna bring them

00:06:01.180 that fulfillment but just because they don't know they haven't explored that

00:06:03.600 they haven't had the opportunity to explore that before so how much time do

00:06:07.140 you think needs to pass because birth control was developed in the 70s and the US

00:06:11.420 at least that's when Roe versus Wade was passed which I know is overturned now but but

00:06:16.020 that's still a lot of time like that's longer than I've been alive yeah like so

00:06:20.360 my whole life like we've been liberated you know I think when it's not like a

00:06:26.020 systematic thing so like back in the day the further back you go the more sort of

00:06:30.680 worse it is so that women have never been sort of integrated in society in a way of 0.99

00:06:33.740 like I don't know I lost my track of thought gang sorry

00:06:38.080 do you mean in the sense that they weren't able to vote yeah yeah yeah so I think what

00:06:43.480 I'm trying to say is um before it was so bad now it's like okay and we need to get

00:06:49.520 it to like perfect and I think even if there's like kind of legal restrictions that have been

00:06:53.760 removed there's still a lot of conservative spaces where sexuality isn't really free and

00:06:57.880 it still affects this generation like our parents generation who like for example my parents

00:07:02.000 are Catholic or come from Catholic backgrounds and there's a very conservative mindset there

00:07:06.040 where sex wasn't talked about I wasn't even talked to about my period when I was a kid

00:07:09.960 so even though like legally and kind of in the like social world yes that's still we're past

00:07:15.080 that I think it still like affects us generationally even like our generation where we're still

00:07:19.800 getting that flack from being sexually open and we still don't really know how to navigate

00:07:23.080 that space wouldn't you say the internet though is the great equalizer because any information

00:07:27.400 you really want is available so like I've had a smartphone since I was in eighth grade so if I

00:07:33.800 if I really I was a pretty innocent kid to be honest and it didn't like I was fine with that yeah but

00:07:38.820 like honestly if I wanted to google something it's it's pretty easy it's right there I was uh

00:07:44.300 completely but I think it it's social media is kind of like um a detached way of looking at

00:07:49.520 things I think when you learn certain patterns from your parents certain mindsets when you learn not

00:07:53.200 to talk about certain things like I was sexual quite early on just because of my family dynamic

00:07:57.280 but I received a lot of shame for it and I was shamed for kind of the way I was acting and it wasn't

00:08:02.520 necessarily a healthy thing but because it wasn't spoken about and it was kind of shut out I didn't

00:08:06.480 really learn how to deal with it healthily what do you mean by shamed um so I found myself in a lot

00:08:13.680 of kind of quite sexual situations early on um that was kind of the way I searched for physical intimacy

00:08:18.240 because I didn't really know how else to do it it was kind of the way um and I received

00:08:22.700 a lot of backlash coming from people who found out about it like um teachers friends friends of

00:08:27.680 parents who didn't want the kids to be friends with me because I was sexually active um my mom

00:08:32.120 never really spoke to me about it but I could feel kind of that disappointment in her so it's never

00:08:37.120 like outright but it's more like a shut out you're kind of freezed out for acting a certain way that

00:08:42.400 doesn't really um go with those conservative values do you do you feel like we should be encouraging

00:08:46.840 young girls to be more sexual I think we should encourage the conversation about it okay I think 1.00

00:08:51.180 that's the issue the issue is that we don't talk about it it's not necessarily encouraging girls

00:08:54.640 to be more sexual but knowing that if they have certain urges they have certain feelings if we

00:08:58.560 can know about it and have that conversation about it because you can learn all types of stuff from

00:09:02.160 the internet right it's it's a great place to find information but it's also a great place to find

00:09:05.440 misinformation and so I think it's just important to be having that conversation about it I was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023

Catholic Feminist Victimizes herself

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