Cheating Woman MANIPULATES Her Ex And His Mother
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Summary
In this week's episode, we're talking about cheating, cheating on a partner, cheating in a relationship and cheating on friends and family. We also hear about a woman who cheats on her partner and how she copes with it.
Transcript
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We always do this at the end of Pal Daily, there is a surprise Reddit story, we were
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just having a conversation before the show, Nazrin didn't know what Reddit is, so I think
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I've now got you up to date, it's just a forum, people tell their stories, and yeah, we get
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a decade, and I genuinely love him, he is
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the nicest person I know, but due to some differences between us during the past few
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months, I used sex with other people as an outlet and cheated on him, he found out and
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broke up with me, and I fully understand and respect his decision, I'm seriously not this
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type of person, and I'm a good human being, I just happen to do something bad.
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His mother and I have been close for a long time, she absolutely adores me and I love her
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too, we have a very close relationship, she has taught me how to knit, and I have taught
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her how to make presentations and stuff, we bond really well, we are really close, and
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I asked my ex if he could hide my cheating, it is something between me and him, and no
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Thankfully he agreed, and told his mum that we had an amicable breakup due to mutual differences,
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I still visit his mum at times, and he ignores me, which hurts a lot, but he is friendly enough
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at times and even smiles at me when I am around his mother.
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I explained to my friend the complex situation I am in and she told me that I am being an arsehole
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by letting my ex not have any room to vent, since he has told everyone that it was an amicable
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Honestly, it was a mutual decision and he agreed to it, so I do not think I have done anything
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wrong when it comes to keeping it between ourselves.
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I feel like when someone really needs to justify that they are a good person, chances are they're
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If you have to constantly say, I promise I am good, chances are you have done a lot of stuff
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Now, we don't know this lady really and truly, this is all we know, but from this, I would
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And I actually think that she is surrounded by amazing friends, because the friends have
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You've put him in a position where he has to lie to everyone about what's actually happened,
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he can't get the emotional support that he probably needs during this very distressing
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Because how many friends in this day and age would actually be that brutal and honest
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Usually it's like, you go girl, well done for cheating.
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Whoever this girl is, you've got an amazing friend.
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The friend who said this to you, keep her around, because that is a very good friend.
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I'm sorry, this isn't an accident, because it wasn't just once.
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Like, if it just happened once, I would be much more, I mean, not understanding, because
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I still don't understand it, but I'd be a little bit more understanding.
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But the fact that it's like multiple people, I just can't, it's not an accident.
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Also, this whole thing is about her, you know, there is nothing about him.
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So, the only thing that she actually mentions as to why this happened, because I think we
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all know, like, if a woman cheats, chances are that that's because something was going
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wrong for well down the line, and then she's, instead of being an adult about it and bringing
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it up, she's gone and cheated on him because she's not able to have a conversation about
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You know, she just seems to be overcompensating for a lot.
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He is the nicest person I know, but due to some differences between us during the past
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few months, she doesn't then go to clarify what those differences are.
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Actually, what I think she wants is to be reinforced that, don't worry, you're a good
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person, because she didn't get that from the friend.
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So, now she's come on the internet and aired out her dirty laundry.
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Because she wants someone online to do it for her, instead of just accepting, no, I
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I should probably fix myself to make sure I don't hurt someone like this in the future.
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And again, the whole middle section is just about her relationship with his mum.
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She's not even recognising what her friend is saying.
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She's literally come online and told the internet what her friend is saying.
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And she can't even say, do you know what, I see, I do see what she's saying.
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There's no acknowledgement or responsibility here.
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No, but also if you love him and you love his mum and you love being around his family,
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Because, you know, I mean, you would know that he's going to air that to them.
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But he probably would have if she didn't tell him not to.
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She's put her own relationship with a guy's mother before his relationship with his mother.
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But also, he's not being strong enough to be like, no.
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I'm now going to cut you out of my life and my husband's life.
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And I'm going to tell her what you did because, you know, people deserve to know what you're really like.
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Why is he even allowing her around his mum knowing that she's got the capability to hurt people like that?
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No, he needs to completely get this girl out of his life completely.
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It's just, I guess my heart just goes out to him because he's already been through so much.
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He needs to completely bin this girl off and get her out of his life.
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Just straight up tell the mum because I can guarantee you, the mum would not be having this relationship with her.
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So it's almost like he's joining in on the manipulating side as well.
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Yeah, he's almost hurting himself further by allowing this to happen.
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And his mum because it's ultimately a lie, isn't it?
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I feel like a lot of you are calling me a bad person because I cheated.
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People are calling you a bad person because you cheated.
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If my boyfriend broke up with me, I think I have suffered the consequences.
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I am a good person and I try to be a better one each day.
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I genuinely want opinions on the mutual decision my boyfriend and I made not to tell his mother.
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In the end, it was an agreement from both sides.
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So I did use my tactics of feminine manipulation, which we all know are the tears and I'm just a weak, frail little girl that doesn't know any better.
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So not only have I manipulated him into a situation, but I'm also going to sit here and say that it was mutual.
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Look, guy, if you happen to come across this and see us reading this story, please get rid of her.
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If you are not in the position to be a man right now, that is what your mum is for.
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It's just like, I understand people are flawed.
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Like, yeah, we sin, we make mistakes, but not multiple times.
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It's not, that's the thing that's affecting me.
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And she says everyone has come back and said that she's a bad person.
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And instead of listening to everyone, this is how you know that a lot of modern women are narcissistic.
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Because if loads of people are screaming something at you, chances are.
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So instead of coming back to edit and try and justify again, I'm still a good person.
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It's actually hard to, it's hard to live in this society when everyone's just like, it seems like everyone's crazy but you sometimes.
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And that's why it's great to have you here Nazrin because you remind me that there are other people who are not completely bewildered with delusion.
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So unlike people who come in between in the world you have this mumble.