@CoachGregAdams UNCOVERS Female Manipulation
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In this episode, we discuss the difference between love and romance and how it has changed over the years. We discuss the differences between the two and how they differ in the modern dating culture and in the market place.
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if if women don't use love how do they transact how do they get the relationship
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if we don't use love sex you would use sex yeah okay but or you know they used to have like um
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finishing schools finishing school so she could be the best woman she could be to provide something
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in excess right now it's just sex i would say for most for most women which is dumb but but you know
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there's cooking cleaning you know uh yeah i mean those things are uh outsourced those are outsourced
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now because women want careers i tell you man i tell you women typically have fumbled the best
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opportunity in the history of life and i think young women are figuring it out and that opportunity is
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they had a better situation they were convinced that they could get a better situation many of
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them are finding out they're not as happy as they thought they would be pursuing careers and jobs
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they end up going why am i at work i could have laid on my back for my husband and did these
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other things to fill in the void cooking cleaning and child raising and all these things which you know
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women don't cook very well but that's neither here nor there they're not the best cooks neither the
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best cleaner but that's what they had to use to transact the relationship right this is all
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transactional yeah i agree people think there's some feeling involved with it but the feeling yes there
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is feeling but that's not going to last long like two years it's going to last two years and then
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you're going to say loyalty time commitment like those are the things that make a relationship
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so when people say well what about love go have some love i mean but it's not going to lie as a man
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that's known that part is if you base your relationship purely on that you're going to mess yourself up
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do you think men and women love differently absolutely yeah how so well here's the thing women women want
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to be loved a certain way and women uh men just want to be loved right so women want to dictate how
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they're loved and men just want to be loved so women are the receivers of love that's what i this is what
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i believe and in turn the woman gives respect back to the man however that's not what we're doing today
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that's what's messing up the marketplace so women want to dictate how they want to be loved let me explain
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that so i can provide love to you by displaying it by demonstrating i can support you i can come home
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to you every night i can make sure i only have children with you i can make sure i don't embarrass
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you and have other women out here in their neighborhood i'm not screwing the whole neighborhood
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of women and embarrassing you right i provide for you i i bring everything that i do out in society i i
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i do i do for you that's love that would be in the long-term frame a more survivable form of
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relationship and love that guy's displaying it he doesn't have to express it in words you don't have
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to write poetry he's not going to come home every night i love you darling but women want guys to do that
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they don't care about the display they actually say that the displays of love they're entitled to that
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you're supposed to work for me you're supposed to do they call it the bare minimum that's the
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bare minimum what are you talking about that's everything that's how men do we're not expressive
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we actually do i want to show you when we give you when we when we want to be endearing to a woman
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we will gift you something we'll bring you a rock little shine a rock here we go it's the best i can do
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but these people are like give me a spoil me give me a date here and do that please so women want to
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dictate how they want to be loved and then they find out that their list is is is what we call 50 11
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uh uh 50 11 things long he has to do this this this this this this this please man nobody's gonna do
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that not when you out here fornicating with everybody you could possibly do it man man we ain't
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doing all that but what happens is on the vice versa women love on the conditions that you do everything
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she has on this list otherwise you get no respect back both people are wrong just so you know
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both people in today's world got it all wrong why well first of all women are out of their freaking
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mind with this right they've been influenced by romance you see saying women have been influenced
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uh by romance like men have been influenced by pornography so women believe romance is something
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they're entitled to when it's simply a myth men want want their woman to be a freak in the bedroom
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and experience but then also don't want her to be experienced so when she's super experienced he gets
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intimidated he'd be like you're a hoe and she could be a great cook he could cook for him and clean for
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us he could do everything he wants and then and then he's like what but you're a hoe so it's we live in a
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hoe culture so the idea that he's gonna eliminate all the women down to the no hoes is slim the none
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well it's like rolling the dice that's it that's what you see it's like rolling the dice
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for a guy on over 25 to find a woman that hasn't been defiled to the point of um she can't pair bond
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like that that's slim the nun he's not finding that woman so maybe you need a new criteria can you
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tell me about the term alpha widows that was something i learned that was something i learned
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in the menosphere alpha widow yeah that's uh the idea that a woman has chased the top tier men
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she takes a chase the top tier men she's had the top dogs and then once she comes out of that and
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she's been spit out because that guy has access to whoever he wants right right and then she's been
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spit out she gave her a chance she hoped to get the nba player i dated an nfl player once and
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i thought it was gonna work but he had 18 girlfriends in 18 cities right and so then
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she got spit out now when what she's gonna do is say you have to be that guy you have to live up to
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that guy's expectations and i'll take no less so i have i have a theory that i've been developing so
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i i feel like i've kind of turned into a guy on my show because i just i kind of i see firsthand what
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the men go through because i recruit for my show right right and the women are so flaky it's like
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god only knows if they're going to show up it's like 50 50. right it's like i can text them the
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day of are you coming yeah i'm coming well no no warning no nothing yeah so you know what it's like
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to date women right yeah so you're a bisexual what no no oh yo what is that all that i wouldn't say
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i don't swing that way well you don't have to be in the bedroom but by by what i said what i mean is
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but i know a lot of bisexual women they have the same complaint they have the same complaint they're like i
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like women and a lot of men but it's tough date women it's tough dating women if they're the ones
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that are reaching out they're flaky so now you have experienced that but on this level yes and i'm
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like i'm offering you guys free drinks free podcast and yeah and so um i through this show i've developed
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some theories okay um the first being that women like being cheated on and i'm telling you i don't
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know why i've developed this i'll tell you why i've developed this i i know what you i i don't disagree
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with you go ahead because i'll interview women after woman right right woman apps and it's like i just
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noticed the same pattern right it's like they you're gonna be well on your way once you learn it learn
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patterns of human behavior yeah yeah so it's like you guys hate being cheated on right right but you
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all you want to do is talk about your ex that cheated correct and every time so every time when
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he's cheating i say did you leave no of course not and so i'm like okay that's weird like right you
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would think you know you would think most men would think this too yeah so then i'm like well did
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so when when did you leave right he wasn't cheating correct and so i was like if he wasn't
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cheating then isn't that what you wanted right and i was like do we like being cheated on it's still
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it's not that you don't it's not that you like being cheated on what what's happening is you realize
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that your man has value outside of you right so what typically happens is if this is gonna be the
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opposite if if you find out no women like me and we're together no woman looks the other way nobody
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inquires yeah i'm a straight loser and you're with me you're gonna question why you're with me but
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there's no question when you're getting cheated on that you have a man with value so for women that guy's
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a top top guy so she looks at it as that guy's valuable at least to other women so that makes
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that makes her in a sense want him more that's also the same as abuse victims right they typically
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don't leave either that's gonna be my next thing that's my next my next this is that's my next theory
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that i've developed okay because i used to like when girls would say they were abused or or graped
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right yeah i i would just believe them exactly because like you know you got that like empathy yeah and
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i think it's gone now for me it's gone right so you've been red-filled in the sense yeah yeah
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because i'll ask because he could first i wouldn't really ask questions because it's kind of awkward
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right so they're like i was this this but then i started to think about it and i'm like did you press
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charges exactly that's you're asking the right question so then and then they'll say no and i'll be
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like why well i was too scared and so i'm like but what are you doing on my podcast right you're not
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scared to be out here talking about it yeah and that's that's what i was like are these hosts lying
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well the first the first thing is you got to find out i mean this is in our society we've gotten to
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the point where we're afraid to question women right so that's called victim blaming because
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somehow if you wanted the details of the situation that she's you know she's saying there's a very
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vicious crime if you want the details she knows you're going to blame her so she's like i i don't it's
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i'm it's inappropriate to question a woman so now at that point she's got you in a situation where
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you just got to believe it hashtag believe all women so now you got to believe believe it and let
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everything carry out but like anything any relationship is going to have some things that
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are weird like first of all we thought of grape as someone some man jumping out the bushes in the ski
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mask then it developed into some dating encounter then it's now marital situations that can be
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interpreted and then they went away from the word now it's sexual assault that's
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essentially what what but sexual assault opens it up to anything that could be any damn thing
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that's oh my gosh okay i was on this podcast the other day and this girl said she was coerced
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right right and i and i was like okay so then i was like that's where did you sleep with him again
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trying to make too too much sense but but here's the thing there's people that can claim that their
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husbands assaulted them eight years ago in their marriage but they continued to sleep with him live
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with him and so forth and then she can come out well you know he did this at this particular point so
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the problem is we have a lot of propaganda out here that's telling men that we need to take
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women's word at face value when historically that's one of the worst things you can ever do
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i would never take any particularly women i would never take their word at face value because
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historically they've they've um they've accused people of doing things and people have lost their
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lives and later to find out that that wasn't true i i swear i used to believe them i would never ever
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yeah see i mean just like they they would seem so sad and then but then it's like then you think
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about it even further right because because i just keep i keep thinking i'm a thinker right and
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outside of the normal so yeah so i was thinking i'm like okay if he hit you right right the average
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guy like i'm strong i don't know if you i'm okay yeah i'm built like an athlete okay i play semi-pro
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volleyball oh there you go yeah yeah so you're not free i i deadlift 300 pounds okay yeah i kill it
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you know when it comes to lifting so nobody's gonna beat you up no no no average guy could still beat me
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up oh i say yeah so you're still getting yeah if someone if someone punched me that's a dude like
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my face would be well that's the problem with with women they might be able to dish out a couple of
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hits which aren't going to be very significant but getting hit is always different so i'm like if he
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abused you why is your face intact that doesn't make sense to me and so then i'm like then the other
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thing i was wondering is and then i'd say did you hit him of course and she may have hit she may
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have hit him first and still claims abuse but here's a you know uh we we we we want to inform
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your audience check this out did you know that uh in domestic of physical abuse 70 of those cases
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are con are the woman instigated she could have either hit or use verbal abuse or emotional abuse
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to get him to respond so when there's physical abuse where the man hits the victim which would
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be the woman 70 of the time the woman instigated meaning she wasn't a passive participant meaning he
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didn't walk in the door and kick her it was instigated by something sometimes it was instigated
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by physical abuse or by the woman so but but these are things that people can't talk about because
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in our society is considered misogynist to talk about these things things are true and then the
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other thing the other thing this is the same umbrella the abuse the the the grape i say great
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so so the girls will say tell me they'll be like i was great and i and i'll be like oh that's a lot
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like that sucks we're gonna go there now but i ask questions right and one girl straight up tells
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me well i didn't know i was great oh no yeah that's so yeah and i'm just thinking like okay okay
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how do you not know right because if i was if i was great i feel like i would yeah but you would have
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to determine i feel like you would have to determine if you'd have to have a true definition of what that
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is but now we've gone up we've had multiple definitions of what it is so typically you can
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have a woman say i was assaulted but she only discovered that after her reputation was dragged
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in the mud right so she went to school and she slept with this guy at a party she went back on monday
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to school and everybody knew about it and then the girl said did you sleep with that guy you a hoe
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then another girl okay did you sleep with him oh well i really didn't want to oh you were great
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see now now now she's great because reputation is on the line so these things happen once the
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reputation gets dragged you have a person that is getting great also you do have women that do
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i don't know if people know this most of these what you would call grapes aren't violent
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most people who report report one they're not normally violent but see the idea what we have in
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our head is that somebody jumped out the bushes and shocked her and then she was there and he had to
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beat her up that's typically not what women are reporting they're reporting someone close to them
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took advantage or they stayed at the person's house too long or they were drinking together
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and they fell asleep in the bed and then he or she passed out and the person she trusted that's what
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that's what people are reporting so what we have in our mind is not what people are reporting
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but sometimes those things are misconstrued too yeah man i think most of the time let me tell
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you something if you drink alcohol you're probably you know you're partying and all that stuff and
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you're dealing with late nights those are the most of the time that are going to get into some sort of
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sexual assault well and that's that's what i said i'm like you know i feel like as women we have a
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responsibility to like not put ourselves in those situations but they look like i'm crazy like
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how dare you hold me accountable and responsible yeah i tell them that i'm going um because they'll
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always say like oh i can't walk home alone at night in a dark alley and i'm just like what where are
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all these dark alleys that's my first question and i'm like i'm like nobody can walk home alone
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nobody and at least if i get attacked as a girl another dude's gonna help me right we do hear that
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women are unsafe out there we're unsafe and people can attack us i'm like i could get attacked too what
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are you talking about like like i can walk through an alley and everybody be like oh you're good but um
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yeah these are all things that we've been fed to be truth and that's not necessarily true we're
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vulnerable i think men are more vulnerable uh in instances you know if i'm dressed nice if i have
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jewelry right i could lose my life and actually every day you know women women want to be the
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purveyors of being vulnerable but um if if i look at a man wrong if he has a bad day i could lose my
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life too i can get beat up too so we have to always men always have to be on guard to protect ourselves
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