JustPearlyThings - @CoachGregAdams UNCOVERS Female Manipulation

00:00:00.000 if if women don't use love how do they transact how do they get the relationship 1.00

00:00:05.840 if we don't use love sex you would use sex yeah okay but or you know they used to have like um

00:00:12.320 finishing schools finishing school so she could be the best woman she could be to provide something 0.95

00:00:17.360 in excess right now it's just sex i would say for most for most women which is dumb but but you know 0.99

00:00:24.560 there's cooking cleaning you know uh yeah i mean those things are uh outsourced those are outsourced

00:00:31.200 now because women want careers i tell you man i tell you women typically have fumbled the best 1.00

00:00:38.080 opportunity in the history of life and i think young women are figuring it out and that opportunity is

00:00:43.120 they had a better situation they were convinced that they could get a better situation many of

00:00:46.880 them are finding out they're not as happy as they thought they would be pursuing careers and jobs

00:00:51.360 they end up going why am i at work i could have laid on my back for my husband and did these

00:00:56.960 other things to fill in the void cooking cleaning and child raising and all these things which you know

00:01:02.880 women don't cook very well but that's neither here nor there they're not the best cooks neither the 1.00

00:01:07.680 best cleaner but that's what they had to use to transact the relationship right this is all

00:01:13.200 transactional yeah i agree people think there's some feeling involved with it but the feeling yes there

00:01:18.160 is feeling but that's not going to last long like two years it's going to last two years and then

00:01:23.040 you're going to say loyalty time commitment like those are the things that make a relationship

00:01:29.600 so when people say well what about love go have some love i mean but it's not going to lie as a man

00:01:34.400 that's known that part is if you base your relationship purely on that you're going to mess yourself up

00:01:40.880 do you think men and women love differently absolutely yeah how so well here's the thing women women want

00:01:46.960 to be loved a certain way and women uh men just want to be loved right so women want to dictate how 1.00

00:01:53.840 they're loved and men just want to be loved so women are the receivers of love that's what i this is what

00:02:00.400 i believe and in turn the woman gives respect back to the man however that's not what we're doing today

00:02:07.760 that's what's messing up the marketplace so women want to dictate how they want to be loved let me explain 1.00

00:02:12.160 that so i can provide love to you by displaying it by demonstrating i can support you i can come home

00:02:19.920 to you every night i can make sure i only have children with you i can make sure i don't embarrass

00:02:25.040 you and have other women out here in their neighborhood i'm not screwing the whole neighborhood 1.00

00:02:28.800 of women and embarrassing you right i provide for you i i bring everything that i do out in society i i

00:02:36.240 i do i do for you that's love that would be in the long-term frame a more survivable form of

00:02:43.760 relationship and love that guy's displaying it he doesn't have to express it in words you don't have

00:02:49.840 to write poetry he's not going to come home every night i love you darling but women want guys to do that 1.00

00:02:58.320 they don't care about the display they actually say that the displays of love they're entitled to that

00:03:04.400 you're supposed to work for me you're supposed to do they call it the bare minimum that's the

00:03:08.640 bare minimum what are you talking about that's everything that's how men do we're not expressive

00:03:14.160 we actually do i want to show you when we give you when we when we want to be endearing to a woman

00:03:19.920 we will gift you something we'll bring you a rock little shine a rock here we go it's the best i can do

00:03:25.920 but these people are like give me a spoil me give me a date here and do that please so women want to 1.00

00:03:31.760 dictate how they want to be loved and then they find out that their list is is is what we call 50 11

00:03:38.160 uh uh 50 11 things long he has to do this this this this this this this please man nobody's gonna do

00:03:45.440 that not when you out here fornicating with everybody you could possibly do it man man we ain't

00:03:50.560 doing all that but what happens is on the vice versa women love on the conditions that you do everything

00:03:56.800 she has on this list otherwise you get no respect back both people are wrong just so you know

00:04:03.680 both people in today's world got it all wrong why well first of all women are out of their freaking 1.00

00:04:09.360 mind with this right they've been influenced by romance you see saying women have been influenced 0.98

00:04:15.200 uh by romance like men have been influenced by pornography so women believe romance is something 0.93

00:04:21.200 they're entitled to when it's simply a myth men want want their woman to be a freak in the bedroom 1.00

00:04:28.240 and experience but then also don't want her to be experienced so when she's super experienced he gets

00:04:34.960 intimidated he'd be like you're a hoe and she could be a great cook he could cook for him and clean for 1.00

00:04:41.120 us he could do everything he wants and then and then he's like what but you're a hoe so it's we live in a 0.99

00:04:46.800 hoe culture so the idea that he's gonna eliminate all the women down to the no hoes is slim the none 1.00

00:04:54.400 well it's like rolling the dice that's it that's what you see it's like rolling the dice

00:04:59.120 for a guy on over 25 to find a woman that hasn't been defiled to the point of um she can't pair bond

00:05:07.360 like that that's slim the nun he's not finding that woman so maybe you need a new criteria can you

00:05:14.240 tell me about the term alpha widows that was something i learned that was something i learned

00:05:18.000 in the menosphere alpha widow yeah that's uh the idea that a woman has chased the top tier men 1.00

00:05:25.600 she takes a chase the top tier men she's had the top dogs and then once she comes out of that and 1.00

00:05:31.840 she's been spit out because that guy has access to whoever he wants right right and then she's been 0.99

00:05:37.120 spit out she gave her a chance she hoped to get the nba player i dated an nfl player once and 1.00

00:05:41.760 i thought it was gonna work but he had 18 girlfriends in 18 cities right and so then

00:05:45.760 she got spit out now when what she's gonna do is say you have to be that guy you have to live up to

00:05:51.120 that guy's expectations and i'll take no less so i have i have a theory that i've been developing so

00:05:58.320 i i feel like i've kind of turned into a guy on my show because i just i kind of i see firsthand what

00:06:05.520 the men go through because i recruit for my show right right and the women are so flaky it's like 1.00

00:06:11.040 god only knows if they're going to show up it's like 50 50. right it's like i can text them the

00:06:15.840 day of are you coming yeah i'm coming well no no warning no nothing yeah so you know what it's like

00:06:23.360 to date women right yeah so you're a bisexual what no no oh yo what is that all that i wouldn't say

00:06:31.440 i don't swing that way well you don't have to be in the bedroom but by by what i said what i mean is

00:06:36.080 but i know a lot of bisexual women they have the same complaint they have the same complaint they're like i 0.86

00:06:40.720 like women and a lot of men but it's tough date women it's tough dating women if they're the ones 1.00

00:06:46.080 that are reaching out they're flaky so now you have experienced that but on this level yes and i'm

00:06:52.560 like i'm offering you guys free drinks free podcast and yeah and so um i through this show i've developed

00:07:01.360 some theories okay um the first being that women like being cheated on and i'm telling you i don't

00:07:08.640 know why i've developed this i'll tell you why i've developed this i i know what you i i don't disagree

00:07:13.360 with you go ahead because i'll interview women after woman right right woman apps and it's like i just

00:07:20.000 noticed the same pattern right it's like they you're gonna be well on your way once you learn it learn

00:07:26.480 patterns of human behavior yeah yeah so it's like you guys hate being cheated on right right but you

00:07:32.160 all you want to do is talk about your ex that cheated correct and every time so every time when

00:07:38.800 he's cheating i say did you leave no of course not and so i'm like okay that's weird like right you

00:07:44.240 would think you know you would think most men would think this too yeah so then i'm like well did

00:07:49.280 so when when did you leave right he wasn't cheating correct and so i was like if he wasn't

00:07:54.800 cheating then isn't that what you wanted right and i was like do we like being cheated on it's still

00:08:02.720 it's not that you don't it's not that you like being cheated on what what's happening is you realize

00:08:07.680 that your man has value outside of you right so what typically happens is if this is gonna be the

00:08:14.960 opposite if if you find out no women like me and we're together no woman looks the other way nobody

00:08:23.440 inquires yeah i'm a straight loser and you're with me you're gonna question why you're with me but

00:08:28.960 there's no question when you're getting cheated on that you have a man with value so for women that guy's

00:08:34.800 a top top guy so she looks at it as that guy's valuable at least to other women so that makes 0.99

00:08:41.840 that makes her in a sense want him more that's also the same as abuse victims right they typically 1.00

00:08:47.520 don't leave either that's gonna be my next thing that's my next my next this is that's my next theory

00:08:54.560 that i've developed okay because i used to like when girls would say they were abused or or graped

00:09:01.120 right yeah i i would just believe them exactly because like you know you got that like empathy yeah and

00:09:07.600 i think it's gone now for me it's gone right so you've been red-filled in the sense yeah yeah

00:09:11.920 because i'll ask because he could first i wouldn't really ask questions because it's kind of awkward

00:09:16.560 right so they're like i was this this but then i started to think about it and i'm like did you press

00:09:22.480 charges exactly that's you're asking the right question so then and then they'll say no and i'll be

00:09:27.040 like why well i was too scared and so i'm like but what are you doing on my podcast right you're not

00:09:33.360 scared to be out here talking about it yeah and that's that's what i was like are these hosts lying

00:09:40.000 well the first the first thing is you got to find out i mean this is in our society we've gotten to

00:09:46.160 the point where we're afraid to question women right so that's called victim blaming because

00:09:50.560 somehow if you wanted the details of the situation that she's you know she's saying there's a very

00:09:55.200 vicious crime if you want the details she knows you're going to blame her so she's like i i don't it's 1.00

00:10:02.480 i'm it's inappropriate to question a woman so now at that point she's got you in a situation where

00:10:08.400 you just got to believe it hashtag believe all women so now you got to believe believe it and let 1.00

00:10:13.520 everything carry out but like anything any relationship is going to have some things that

00:10:17.280 are weird like first of all we thought of grape as someone some man jumping out the bushes in the ski

00:10:22.480 mask then it developed into some dating encounter then it's now marital situations that can be

00:10:28.160 interpreted and then they went away from the word now it's sexual assault that's

00:10:32.160 essentially what what but sexual assault opens it up to anything that could be any damn thing

00:10:36.800 that's oh my gosh okay i was on this podcast the other day and this girl said she was coerced 0.99

00:10:43.120 right right and i and i was like okay so then i was like that's where did you sleep with him again

00:10:48.480 yes yeah yeah yeah

00:10:53.040 trying to make too too much sense but but here's the thing there's people that can claim that their

00:10:59.600 husbands assaulted them eight years ago in their marriage but they continued to sleep with him live 0.99

00:11:05.040 with him and so forth and then she can come out well you know he did this at this particular point so

00:11:10.720 the problem is we have a lot of propaganda out here that's telling men that we need to take

00:11:16.080 women's word at face value when historically that's one of the worst things you can ever do 1.00

00:11:20.720 i would never take any particularly women i would never take their word at face value because

00:11:25.040 historically they've they've um they've accused people of doing things and people have lost their

00:11:29.760 lives and later to find out that that wasn't true i i swear i used to believe them i would never ever

00:11:37.120 yeah see i mean just like they they would seem so sad and then but then it's like then you think

00:11:44.800 about it even further right because because i just keep i keep thinking i'm a thinker right and

00:11:49.360 outside of the normal so yeah so i was thinking i'm like okay if he hit you right right the average

00:11:56.720 guy like i'm strong i don't know if you i'm okay yeah i'm built like an athlete okay i play semi-pro

00:12:03.200 volleyball oh there you go yeah yeah so you're not free i i deadlift 300 pounds okay yeah i kill it

00:12:08.880 you know when it comes to lifting so nobody's gonna beat you up no no no average guy could still beat me

00:12:13.360 up oh i say yeah so you're still getting yeah if someone if someone punched me that's a dude like

00:12:19.280 my face would be well that's the problem with with women they might be able to dish out a couple of 1.00

00:12:24.320 hits which aren't going to be very significant but getting hit is always different so i'm like if he

00:12:28.640 abused you why is your face intact that doesn't make sense to me and so then i'm like then the other

00:12:33.520 thing i was wondering is and then i'd say did you hit him of course and she may have hit she may

00:12:42.800 have hit him first and still claims abuse but here's a you know uh we we we we want to inform

00:12:48.880 your audience check this out did you know that uh in domestic of physical abuse 70 of those cases

00:12:55.760 are con are the woman instigated she could have either hit or use verbal abuse or emotional abuse

00:13:02.640 to get him to respond so when there's physical abuse where the man hits the victim which would

00:13:09.680 be the woman 70 of the time the woman instigated meaning she wasn't a passive participant meaning he

00:13:16.800 didn't walk in the door and kick her it was instigated by something sometimes it was instigated

00:13:21.840 by physical abuse or by the woman so but but these are things that people can't talk about because

00:13:28.720 in our society is considered misogynist to talk about these things things are true and then the

00:13:32.960 other thing the other thing this is the same umbrella the abuse the the the grape i say great

00:13:44.000 so so the girls will say tell me they'll be like i was great and i and i'll be like oh that's a lot

00:13:52.400 like that sucks we're gonna go there now but i ask questions right and one girl straight up tells 0.72

00:14:01.440 me well i didn't know i was great oh no yeah that's so yeah and i'm just thinking like okay okay

00:14:07.440 how do you not know right because if i was if i was great i feel like i would yeah but you would have

00:14:13.840 to determine i feel like you would have to determine if you'd have to have a true definition of what that

00:14:20.160 is but now we've gone up we've had multiple definitions of what it is so typically you can

00:14:26.560 have a woman say i was assaulted but she only discovered that after her reputation was dragged 1.00

00:14:34.160 in the mud right so she went to school and she slept with this guy at a party she went back on monday 0.75

00:14:40.880 to school and everybody knew about it and then the girl said did you sleep with that guy you a hoe 1.00

00:14:45.440 then another girl okay did you sleep with him oh well i really didn't want to oh you were great

00:14:50.720 see now now now she's great because reputation is on the line so these things happen once the 0.97

00:14:57.280 reputation gets dragged you have a person that is getting great also you do have women that do

00:15:02.480 i don't know if people know this most of these what you would call grapes aren't violent

00:15:08.000 most people who report report one they're not normally violent but see the idea what we have in

00:15:12.800 our head is that somebody jumped out the bushes and shocked her and then she was there and he had to

00:15:16.880 beat her up that's typically not what women are reporting they're reporting someone close to them 1.00

00:15:22.880 took advantage or they stayed at the person's house too long or they were drinking together

00:15:28.960 and they fell asleep in the bed and then he or she passed out and the person she trusted that's what

00:15:35.840 that's what people are reporting so what we have in our mind is not what people are reporting

00:15:42.800 but sometimes those things are misconstrued too yeah man i think most of the time let me tell

00:15:48.400 you something if you drink alcohol you're probably you know you're partying and all that stuff and

00:15:54.400 you're dealing with late nights those are the most of the time that are going to get into some sort of

00:15:58.880 sexual assault well and that's that's what i said i'm like you know i feel like as women we have a

00:16:04.160 responsibility to like not put ourselves in those situations but they look like i'm crazy like

00:16:12.800 how dare you hold me accountable and responsible yeah i tell them that i'm going um because they'll

00:16:20.480 always say like oh i can't walk home alone at night in a dark alley and i'm just like what where are

00:16:25.040 all these dark alleys that's my first question and i'm like i'm like nobody can walk home alone

00:16:31.920 nobody and at least if i get attacked as a girl another dude's gonna help me right we do hear that

00:16:37.280 women are unsafe out there we're unsafe and people can attack us i'm like i could get attacked too what 0.90

00:16:41.840 are you talking about like like i can walk through an alley and everybody be like oh you're good but um

00:16:47.600 yeah these are all things that we've been fed to be truth and that's not necessarily true we're

00:16:51.920 vulnerable i think men are more vulnerable uh in instances you know if i'm dressed nice if i have

00:16:58.640 jewelry right i could lose my life and actually every day you know women women want to be the 1.00

00:17:03.920 purveyors of being vulnerable but um if if i look at a man wrong if he has a bad day i could lose my

00:17:12.000 life too i can get beat up too so we have to always men always have to be on guard to protect ourselves

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JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023

@CoachGregAdams UNCOVERS Female Manipulation

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