JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


Confessions of a 304


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

245.35417

Word Count

2,689

Sentence Count

222

Misogynist Sentences

31

Hate Speech Sentences

39


Summary

Why do men cheat? Why do they do it? Why does it happen? How do they cheat? How can we stop men from cheating on their wives? What is the real reason why men cheat and how can we fix it?


Transcript

00:00:00.260 Why do men cheat?
00:00:01.800 Most women don't know.
00:00:02.920 You'll see them all the time.
00:00:04.040 Why do men cheat?
00:00:04.880 Oh, because men are just stupid.
00:00:06.240 And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick?
00:00:08.680 Why do men do all this stuff?
00:00:09.760 Do you know why?
00:00:10.720 I'll tell you why.
00:00:11.560 Let's go back to the first thing
00:00:12.500 I've been saying this whole time.
00:00:13.440 Status.
00:00:14.500 Yeah, that's my chick.
00:00:15.580 She's home.
00:00:16.580 Took this one home.
00:00:17.560 Yeah, I got that one.
00:00:18.320 She's chasing me.
00:00:19.160 Status, status, status.
00:00:20.720 But it's stupid to females, I get it.
00:00:23.440 But that's the male world
00:00:24.640 because sexual access is an easy indicator of status.
00:00:28.140 So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?
00:00:29.900 So you have to go back into the baseline
00:00:31.060 of why men even cheat in the first place.
00:00:32.320 I'm telling you, if you're a woman,
00:00:33.960 the smartest thing you can do is look after your man,
00:00:35.780 make him not want to cheat, be perfect.
00:00:37.840 But there's gonna be a time across a 20 year marriage
00:00:40.280 you might just need to be a little bit blind.
00:00:42.740 A little bit.
00:00:43.580 Just a tiny bit, just don't look at his phone.
00:00:45.480 And you'll be cool, you'll be cool.
00:00:47.540 Just make sure the bills are paid, he does his job as a man.
00:00:49.620 What if you can pay your own bills though?
00:00:51.800 But this is it, we'll talk about that in a second.
00:00:53.140 But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo.
00:00:55.440 I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up,
00:00:57.100 lock you down and go cheat on you.
00:00:58.020 That's right.
00:00:58.860 I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough
00:01:00.420 of his other jobs.
00:01:01.260 As for you saying, what if you can pay your own bills?
00:01:02.900 Then what's the reality you face?
00:01:04.940 Just like I described earlier.
00:01:06.240 I'm gonna decide that the thing that I prioritize
00:01:08.880 above everything, above his resource,
00:01:10.540 above the amount he cares for me.
00:01:11.660 You'll see men cheat on a woman
00:01:13.040 and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back.
00:01:14.920 He still loves you.
00:01:15.880 It's not the same as if you cheated.
00:01:17.180 He loves you with all his heart.
00:01:18.120 He'd die for you, he'd take a bullet for you
00:01:19.500 and he'd still fuck that bitch, it doesn't matter.
00:01:21.420 It's a different game for men, right?
00:01:23.300 So you're sitting here going, well,
00:01:24.700 I'm gonna prioritize his sexual exclusivity
00:01:27.040 over all of his other attributes.
00:01:29.640 You're just gonna end up having
00:01:31.040 endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes.
00:01:34.140 And then what's gonna happen is
00:01:35.600 your psychology is gonna break
00:01:37.180 because females don't like to accept the fact
00:01:38.920 that if you sleep with enough men
00:01:40.280 and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick,
00:01:42.420 your instant answer is constantly new dick.
00:01:44.660 Ah, he didn't text me today, fuck it, someone else.
00:01:46.640 Ah, he was rude to me, fuck it, I'll cheat.
00:01:48.440 Ah, he was this, I'll just get a new boyfriend.
00:01:50.220 And then you end up just jumping on cock all day
00:01:52.140 and you're fucking done.
00:01:53.680 You need to, the reality is you have to come to a point
00:01:55.840 where you get a guy and he ticks the boxes
00:01:57.240 and you're like, you know what, I'm wifey,
00:01:58.880 I got the Bentley, he does whatever he does,
00:02:00.940 but my bills are paid.
00:02:01.960 That's it.
00:02:02.800 When would you say it's too far?
00:02:06.120 I'm just curious if there's a line that you would,
00:02:08.820 like if he spends money on another girl,
00:02:10.960 if he, like when does it?
00:02:12.180 Okay, that's a good question.
00:02:13.020 And another second question,
00:02:13.980 do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks?
00:02:16.400 Very good question.
00:02:17.560 And this is a long and in-depth answer,
00:02:19.540 but it's a good question, let me peel my Clementine.
00:02:21.320 But no, but it's a good question, where is too far?
00:02:23.600 I think publicly disrespecting is too far.
00:02:26.120 So like, you'll notice, let's take the Moscow G, all right?
00:02:28.680 Let's take an oligarch, a billionaire from Moscow.
00:02:30.540 He has his wife, he has the girls he's in the club with.
00:02:33.200 The girls he's in the club with
00:02:34.260 wouldn't fucking dare message his wife.
00:02:37.060 They wouldn't dare step out of line.
00:02:38.900 Like they know their place, right?
00:02:40.220 So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place,
00:02:41.740 that's one way of doing it.
00:02:43.360 Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah,
00:02:45.200 because men show love primarily through our hard work.
00:02:48.380 Not just through our resource, but through our hard work.
00:02:50.700 If you take a man who's not particularly rich,
00:02:52.100 he shows his wife love by getting up every day,
00:02:54.940 going to work nine to five,
00:02:56.300 working his ass off and paying those bills.
00:02:58.080 That's how he shows love.
00:02:59.200 That's why he does it for his wife and his children.
00:03:01.620 Most men are out here working bullshit jobs,
00:03:03.540 carrying trash.
00:03:04.620 They're doing that to show love.
00:03:06.100 So giving money, yeah,
00:03:07.460 that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.
00:03:10.940 Let me give you all an example.
00:03:12.420 I don't know if you all know my history,
00:03:13.540 but I used to run a webcam business long time ago.
00:03:15.160 Don't wanna talk about it, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:16.700 But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online
00:03:18.480 and talk to guys and they had laptops, right?
00:03:20.720 This is a long time ago.
00:03:22.100 And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls,
00:03:24.320 I'd say, this man who is sitting in
00:03:28.000 and logging in every night and sending you money every day
00:03:30.960 and telling you he's obsessed with you
00:03:32.480 from the other side of the world
00:03:33.580 and missing out on time with his family
00:03:35.200 to sit here and talk to you and send you money.
00:03:37.500 That is more cheating
00:03:38.740 than if he just went out and banged something.
00:03:40.180 If he went out and banged something and came home,
00:03:42.200 then done.
00:03:42.940 But he's sitting here giving you his time,
00:03:44.960 his money, his affection.
00:03:46.920 That's cheating for a man.
00:03:48.240 For a man to sit there and give money and time away, right?
00:03:50.960 So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.
00:03:53.520 Yes, that's for females.
00:03:54.600 That's how females show their love to men.
00:03:56.080 It's not how high status, at least,
00:03:58.320 males show their love to females.
00:03:59.860 And anyone who wants to disagree with me,
00:04:01.320 call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit.
00:04:03.300 Look at a history book.
00:04:04.740 Every king, every sultan, every conqueror,
00:04:06.840 every emperor, every knight, all of them,
00:04:09.100 all of them had maidens, wives, all of them.
00:04:12.040 That's history.
00:04:12.860 What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?
00:04:15.480 I wanna know.
00:04:16.320 It's not about even being allowed to cheat.
00:04:17.920 I'm not even saying that.
00:04:18.760 And it also depends on the partner you're with.
00:04:20.160 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men
00:04:21.740 to run around and fuck a bunch of women.
00:04:22.820 I'm not saying that.
00:04:23.660 That's what you're doing, man.
00:04:24.500 No, but I'm not.
00:04:25.340 No, no, no, no.
00:04:26.180 Let him explain, let him land, let him land.
00:04:27.620 It's about to come.
00:04:28.620 Now watch this, let him land though.
00:04:30.100 No, but I'm not, I'm not.
00:04:31.560 What I'm actually trying to do is describe
00:04:33.940 the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.
00:04:37.400 And I'm trying to explain now to the world
00:04:39.680 that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her.
00:04:42.380 If she's prepared to sacrifice
00:04:43.800 a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?
00:04:46.080 In the olden days, it was different.
00:04:47.580 The world was a different place.
00:04:49.620 It was a completely different place and it was better.
00:04:51.660 Now it's all fucked up.
00:04:53.080 It's fucked up on every level.
00:04:54.560 And men, especially the high status men,
00:04:56.780 most of them have struggled so hard to become high status.
00:05:00.120 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.
00:05:02.560 It's like telling him,
00:05:03.560 if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
00:05:05.940 And he climbs to the top of the mountain
00:05:07.360 and the second he's in the candy store,
00:05:08.740 after one piece of candy,
00:05:10.480 that bitch is saying, no, no more candy.
00:05:12.480 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.
00:05:14.280 I just got rich.
00:05:15.440 I just went through X, Y, Z.
00:05:17.280 I finally got here.
00:05:18.320 I'm finally in the candy store.
00:05:19.480 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?
00:05:21.180 Okay.
00:05:22.020 Can I ask a question?
00:05:23.280 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty
00:05:26.020 if she was there from the beginning?
00:05:27.500 Absolutely.
00:05:28.340 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.
00:05:29.880 Oh, sorry.
00:05:30.880 Sexual loyalty.
00:05:31.880 That's what I meant.
00:05:32.880 Sexual exclusivity is different.
00:05:34.880 Men, sorry.
00:05:35.880 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty
00:05:38.620 are completely disconnected for males.
00:05:40.800 Nobody wants to talk about this,
00:05:41.800 but it's the unfortunate reality is true.
00:05:43.620 I'm telling you, you can get a man.
00:05:46.000 He can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper,
00:05:49.380 can come home and you can lie detector test him.
00:05:51.540 Do you love your wife?
00:05:52.460 Would you die for your wife?
00:05:53.460 Would you take a bullet for your wife?
00:05:55.120 He'll pass the lie detector test.
00:05:56.660 He loves her with all his heart.
00:05:57.720 He'd do anything for her.
00:05:59.260 It's just pussy.
00:06:00.340 It's not a big deal.
00:06:01.340 It's different.
00:06:02.180 I feel like, I guess my question would be then
00:06:04.420 is how do you view sex?
00:06:05.940 Because sex at the end of the day
00:06:08.420 is spiritual unification.
00:06:10.260 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.
00:06:12.000 I've had a lot of different experiences
00:06:13.440 where I did not value myself,
00:06:15.280 so I never had a man that valued me.
00:06:17.260 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys
00:06:19.580 and guys you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.
00:06:21.720 But I feel like I understand that there is a difference
00:06:25.280 with how men view sex and how they move around in the world.
00:06:28.160 But it's like, sex is a sacred thing,
00:06:30.340 no matter a male or female is doing it.
00:06:32.480 So that's why for me, like my biggest,
00:06:35.100 like the hardest for me to understand is like,
00:06:37.780 this is such a sacred thing.
00:06:39.620 And it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.
00:06:42.400 Can I just say something?
00:06:43.400 Are you sure you weren't making love
00:06:44.480 to somebody who was having sex?
00:06:46.280 I'm sorry?
00:06:47.160 Are you sure that you weren't making love
00:06:49.020 to somebody that was just having sex?
00:06:51.520 A and T, that's a nice question there.
00:06:53.920 No, that's what it sounds like to me.
00:06:56.280 It sounds like as women, they make love to men
00:07:00.840 that are just having sex.
00:07:02.920 Right.
00:07:04.180 That's the difference.
00:07:05.180 That's not the point.
00:07:06.060 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.
00:07:08.560 So I think when men hear that though,
00:07:10.260 it's like if it was sacred to you,
00:07:11.620 you would have waited until you were married.
00:07:13.180 But it's like, I get, right.
00:07:14.640 No, I get, I get that.
00:07:15.660 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.
00:07:19.140 So I understand that there are these things in place
00:07:21.500 that worked and made sense.
00:07:23.300 And now we're approaching an era that like,
00:07:25.040 we don't know what's going to happen, but there's gray area.
00:07:27.420 You've had sex.
00:07:28.180 I've had sex.
00:07:28.780 She's had sex.
00:07:29.420 We've had sex with different guys.
00:07:30.780 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.
00:07:32.100 We're used goods.
00:07:32.700 I understand status is a big part of that.
00:07:34.380 I understand that sex is viewed differently,
00:07:36.120 but I feel like you should not, if you're,
00:07:39.200 if you're looking at face value,
00:07:40.520 I can understand why you'd be judged from your past.
00:07:43.020 But if, if I'm a guy interested in you,
00:07:44.760 I don't care about what you've done.
00:07:46.300 But that's the thing, like men do though.
00:07:49.160 That's the thing.
00:07:50.000 Like, like a virgin is more valuable to a man
00:07:53.480 than a girl that's had sex with multiple men.
00:07:55.900 Like it just is what it is.
00:07:57.300 There's a limit.
00:07:58.140 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin.
00:08:00.940 A modern man needs a partner,
00:08:02.060 somebody that's actually smart
00:08:03.500 and can survive in the world of today.
00:08:04.720 Look at, look at, look at.
00:08:05.560 And that's gonna be a lived woman.
00:08:06.720 The men with the most choice
00:08:07.880 are gonna pick women that are more pure in general.
00:08:10.840 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.
00:08:12.480 But that's the thing.
00:08:13.300 The reality is, the reality is that
00:08:15.560 there's a lot of men out there,
00:08:16.860 especially in the world that we live in today,
00:08:18.200 that need a partner.
00:08:19.180 So it's time for those masses of men
00:08:21.140 to start respecting women
00:08:22.220 for the role they can play in their lives.
00:08:23.980 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.
00:08:26.480 Do you know what it is?
00:08:27.300 It's this rhetoric that actually then
00:08:28.840 is pumped into these minds
00:08:29.960 and creates what people now complain about,
00:08:31.640 the misogynistic world.
00:08:32.860 That's what it is.
00:08:33.860 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all
00:08:36.160 and perpetuated.
00:08:37.000 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women
00:08:39.160 that are more pure?
00:08:40.360 But that's not the problem.
00:08:41.860 The problem is now, listen,
00:08:43.640 the maths is very simple.
00:08:44.740 You've got people like Andrew Tate
00:08:46.840 talking about these things with such clarity,
00:08:48.680 and it makes so much sense because it is true, right?
00:08:51.380 And then you have men that are in these situations
00:08:53.840 where just average, working an average job,
00:08:56.020 and they cannot fulfill whatever definition
00:08:58.720 is called to be a man in these definitions.
00:09:00.620 Yes, they can, and that's what he said.
00:09:02.140 He did say that.
00:09:02.980 Yes, they can.
00:09:03.900 A nine to five man can do it.
00:09:05.360 But then again, but wait, wait.
00:09:07.360 This is the thing.
00:09:08.220 What we're talking about as a man,
00:09:09.680 and this is why I say it's very important
00:09:11.040 for us to understand the person that we're speaking to,
00:09:12.760 and I'm very glad that you've clarified
00:09:14.180 everything that you mean.
00:09:15.200 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.
00:09:17.100 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically
00:09:20.920 demand for certain things from a woman.
00:09:22.500 So the same way women need to compromise
00:09:25.080 if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her
00:09:26.960 because he's a top G,
00:09:28.220 is the same way men are going to have to compromise
00:09:30.020 and stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.
00:09:33.640 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.
00:09:36.480 I made my point.
00:09:37.240 That was the whole point.
00:09:38.600 What point?
00:09:39.440 Well, duh, because you just quoted him.
00:09:41.080 You just said about his thing, and you didn't know.
00:09:42.720 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.
00:09:45.080 I said the average man does not have what it takes
00:09:48.220 to demand for a virgin or no more.
00:09:50.580 Hang on a minute.
00:09:51.580 It already said that.
00:09:52.580 It already said that.
00:09:53.580 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content,
00:09:55.580 for my page, and so what?
00:09:56.580 Do you know what it is, right?
00:09:57.580 Is that too many women, they see regular guys,
00:09:59.580 and they feel they're settling.
00:10:00.760 You're not settling.
00:10:01.920 You're getting what you deserve.
00:10:03.200 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.
00:10:04.580 You're not settling.
00:10:05.580 You're not settling.
00:10:06.580 But the difference is men know this.
00:10:08.580 Like, most average men aren't demanding.
00:10:10.580 The average men never say they want a virgin.
00:10:12.580 Kind of.
00:10:13.580 But the difference is the difference.
00:10:15.580 Wait, wait, wait.
00:10:16.580 The difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.
00:10:18.580 They know they don't deserve an 8.
00:10:19.580 They know they don't even deserve a 7.
00:10:21.580 And they still go messaging them on the stories
00:10:23.580 and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.
00:10:24.580 No, they're not, though.
00:10:25.580 Like, most men in history haven't even reproduced.
00:10:28.580 And so it's like men know, but the women are the ones
00:10:31.580 that are delusional.
00:10:32.580 There's regular men out there.
00:10:33.580 There's regular men out there.
00:10:34.580 There's regular men out there.
00:10:35.580 There's regular men out there.
00:10:36.580 There's regular men out there that will have you down.
00:10:41.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:45.580 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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