JustPearlyThings - Confessions of a 304

00:00:00.260 Why do men cheat?

00:00:01.800 Most women don't know. 1.00

00:00:02.920 You'll see them all the time.

00:00:04.040 Why do men cheat?

00:00:04.880 Oh, because men are just stupid.

00:00:06.240 And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick? 1.00

00:00:08.680 Why do men do all this stuff? 0.96

00:00:09.760 Do you know why?

00:00:10.720 I'll tell you why.

00:00:11.560 Let's go back to the first thing

00:00:12.500 I've been saying this whole time.

00:00:13.440 Status.

00:00:14.500 Yeah, that's my chick. 0.82

00:00:15.580 She's home.

00:00:16.580 Took this one home.

00:00:17.560 Yeah, I got that one.

00:00:18.320 She's chasing me.

00:00:19.160 Status, status, status.

00:00:20.720 But it's stupid to females, I get it. 1.00

00:00:23.440 But that's the male world 1.00

00:00:24.640 because sexual access is an easy indicator of status.

00:00:28.140 So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?

00:00:29.900 So you have to go back into the baseline

00:00:31.060 of why men even cheat in the first place.

00:00:32.320 I'm telling you, if you're a woman, 0.53

00:00:33.960 the smartest thing you can do is look after your man,

00:00:35.780 make him not want to cheat, be perfect.

00:00:37.840 But there's gonna be a time across a 20 year marriage

00:00:40.280 you might just need to be a little bit blind.

00:00:42.740 A little bit.

00:00:43.580 Just a tiny bit, just don't look at his phone.

00:00:45.480 And you'll be cool, you'll be cool.

00:00:47.540 Just make sure the bills are paid, he does his job as a man.

00:00:49.620 What if you can pay your own bills though?

00:00:51.800 But this is it, we'll talk about that in a second.

00:00:53.140 But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo. 1.00

00:00:55.440 I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, 0.99

00:00:57.100 lock you down and go cheat on you. 0.94

00:00:58.020 That's right.

00:00:58.860 I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough

00:01:00.420 of his other jobs.

00:01:01.260 As for you saying, what if you can pay your own bills?

00:01:02.900 Then what's the reality you face?

00:01:04.940 Just like I described earlier.

00:01:06.240 I'm gonna decide that the thing that I prioritize

00:01:08.880 above everything, above his resource,

00:01:10.540 above the amount he cares for me.

00:01:11.660 You'll see men cheat on a woman 0.70

00:01:13.040 and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back.

00:01:14.920 He still loves you.

00:01:15.880 It's not the same as if you cheated.

00:01:17.180 He loves you with all his heart.

00:01:18.120 He'd die for you, he'd take a bullet for you

00:01:19.500 and he'd still fuck that bitch, it doesn't matter. 1.00

00:01:21.420 It's a different game for men, right?

00:01:23.300 So you're sitting here going, well,

00:01:24.700 I'm gonna prioritize his sexual exclusivity 0.90

00:01:27.040 over all of his other attributes.

00:01:29.640 You're just gonna end up having

00:01:31.040 endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes.

00:01:34.140 And then what's gonna happen is

00:01:35.600 your psychology is gonna break

00:01:37.180 because females don't like to accept the fact 1.00

00:01:38.920 that if you sleep with enough men 0.64

00:01:40.280 and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick, 0.74

00:01:42.420 your instant answer is constantly new dick. 0.91

00:01:44.660 Ah, he didn't text me today, fuck it, someone else.

00:01:46.640 Ah, he was rude to me, fuck it, I'll cheat.

00:01:48.440 Ah, he was this, I'll just get a new boyfriend.

00:01:50.220 And then you end up just jumping on cock all day 0.96

00:01:52.140 and you're fucking done. 0.99

00:01:53.680 You need to, the reality is you have to come to a point

00:01:55.840 where you get a guy and he ticks the boxes

00:01:57.240 and you're like, you know what, I'm wifey, 0.97

00:01:58.880 I got the Bentley, he does whatever he does,

00:02:00.940 but my bills are paid.

00:02:01.960 That's it.

00:02:02.800 When would you say it's too far?

00:02:06.120 I'm just curious if there's a line that you would,

00:02:08.820 like if he spends money on another girl,

00:02:10.960 if he, like when does it?

00:02:12.180 Okay, that's a good question.

00:02:13.020 And another second question,

00:02:13.980 do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks? 1.00

00:02:16.400 Very good question.

00:02:17.560 And this is a long and in-depth answer,

00:02:19.540 but it's a good question, let me peel my Clementine. 0.78

00:02:21.320 But no, but it's a good question, where is too far?

00:02:23.600 I think publicly disrespecting is too far.

00:02:26.120 So like, you'll notice, let's take the Moscow G, all right?

00:02:28.680 Let's take an oligarch, a billionaire from Moscow.

00:02:30.540 He has his wife, he has the girls he's in the club with.

00:02:33.200 The girls he's in the club with

00:02:34.260 wouldn't fucking dare message his wife. 0.54

00:02:37.060 They wouldn't dare step out of line.

00:02:38.900 Like they know their place, right?

00:02:40.220 So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place,

00:02:41.740 that's one way of doing it.

00:02:43.360 Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah, 0.98

00:02:45.200 because men show love primarily through our hard work.

00:02:48.380 Not just through our resource, but through our hard work.

00:02:50.700 If you take a man who's not particularly rich,

00:02:52.100 he shows his wife love by getting up every day,

00:02:54.940 going to work nine to five,

00:02:56.300 working his ass off and paying those bills. 0.72

00:02:58.080 That's how he shows love.

00:02:59.200 That's why he does it for his wife and his children.

00:03:01.620 Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, 1.00

00:03:03.540 carrying trash.

00:03:04.620 They're doing that to show love.

00:03:06.100 So giving money, yeah,

00:03:07.460 that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex.

00:03:10.940 Let me give you all an example.

00:03:12.420 I don't know if you all know my history,

00:03:13.540 but I used to run a webcam business long time ago.

00:03:15.160 Don't wanna talk about it, blah, blah, blah.

00:03:16.700 But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online 1.00

00:03:18.480 and talk to guys and they had laptops, right?

00:03:20.720 This is a long time ago.

00:03:22.100 And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls,

00:03:24.320 I'd say, this man who is sitting in 0.98

00:03:28.000 and logging in every night and sending you money every day

00:03:30.960 and telling you he's obsessed with you

00:03:32.480 from the other side of the world

00:03:33.580 and missing out on time with his family

00:03:35.200 to sit here and talk to you and send you money.

00:03:37.500 That is more cheating

00:03:38.740 than if he just went out and banged something.

00:03:40.180 If he went out and banged something and came home,

00:03:42.200 then done.

00:03:42.940 But he's sitting here giving you his time,

00:03:44.960 his money, his affection.

00:03:46.920 That's cheating for a man.

00:03:48.240 For a man to sit there and give money and time away, right? 0.95

00:03:50.960 So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity.

00:03:53.520 Yes, that's for females. 1.00

00:03:54.600 That's how females show their love to men. 1.00

00:03:56.080 It's not how high status, at least,

00:03:58.320 males show their love to females.

00:03:59.860 And anyone who wants to disagree with me,

00:04:01.320 call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit. 0.91

00:04:03.300 Look at a history book.

00:04:04.740 Every king, every sultan, every conqueror,

00:04:06.840 every emperor, every knight, all of them,

00:04:09.100 all of them had maidens, wives, all of them.

00:04:12.040 That's history.

00:04:12.860 What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat?

00:04:15.480 I wanna know.

00:04:16.320 It's not about even being allowed to cheat.

00:04:17.920 I'm not even saying that.

00:04:18.760 And it also depends on the partner you're with.

00:04:20.160 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men

00:04:21.740 to run around and fuck a bunch of women. 0.99

00:04:22.820 I'm not saying that.

00:04:23.660 That's what you're doing, man.

00:04:24.500 No, but I'm not.

00:04:25.340 No, no, no, no.

00:04:26.180 Let him explain, let him land, let him land.

00:04:27.620 It's about to come.

00:04:28.620 Now watch this, let him land though.

00:04:30.100 No, but I'm not, I'm not.

00:04:31.560 What I'm actually trying to do is describe

00:04:33.940 the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.

00:04:37.400 And I'm trying to explain now to the world

00:04:39.680 that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her. 0.99

00:04:42.380 If she's prepared to sacrifice

00:04:43.800 a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?

00:04:46.080 In the olden days, it was different.

00:04:47.580 The world was a different place.

00:04:49.620 It was a completely different place and it was better.

00:04:51.660 Now it's all fucked up.

00:04:53.080 It's fucked up on every level.

00:04:54.560 And men, especially the high status men,

00:04:56.780 most of them have struggled so hard to become high status.

00:05:00.120 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.

00:05:02.560 It's like telling him,

00:05:03.560 if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.

00:05:05.940 And he climbs to the top of the mountain

00:05:07.360 and the second he's in the candy store,

00:05:08.740 after one piece of candy,

00:05:10.480 that bitch is saying, no, no more candy. 1.00

00:05:12.480 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.

00:05:14.280 I just got rich.

00:05:15.440 I just went through X, Y, Z.

00:05:17.280 I finally got here.

00:05:18.320 I'm finally in the candy store.

00:05:19.480 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?

00:05:21.180 Okay.

00:05:22.020 Can I ask a question?

00:05:23.280 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty 1.00

00:05:26.020 if she was there from the beginning?

00:05:27.500 Absolutely.

00:05:28.340 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.

00:05:29.880 Oh, sorry.

00:05:30.880 Sexual loyalty.

00:05:31.880 That's what I meant.

00:05:32.880 Sexual exclusivity is different.

00:05:34.880 Men, sorry.

00:05:35.880 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty

00:05:38.620 are completely disconnected for males.

00:05:40.800 Nobody wants to talk about this,

00:05:41.800 but it's the unfortunate reality is true.

00:05:43.620 I'm telling you, you can get a man.

00:05:46.000 He can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper,

00:05:49.380 can come home and you can lie detector test him.

00:05:51.540 Do you love your wife?

00:05:52.460 Would you die for your wife?

00:05:53.460 Would you take a bullet for your wife?

00:05:55.120 He'll pass the lie detector test.

00:05:56.660 He loves her with all his heart.

00:05:57.720 He'd do anything for her.

00:05:59.260 It's just pussy. 1.00

00:06:00.340 It's not a big deal.

00:06:01.340 It's different.

00:06:02.180 I feel like, I guess my question would be then

00:06:04.420 is how do you view sex?

00:06:05.940 Because sex at the end of the day

00:06:08.420 is spiritual unification.

00:06:10.260 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.

00:06:12.000 I've had a lot of different experiences

00:06:13.440 where I did not value myself,

00:06:15.280 so I never had a man that valued me.

00:06:17.260 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys

00:06:19.580 and guys you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.

00:06:21.720 But I feel like I understand that there is a difference

00:06:25.280 with how men view sex and how they move around in the world.

00:06:28.160 But it's like, sex is a sacred thing,

00:06:30.340 no matter a male or female is doing it.

00:06:32.480 So that's why for me, like my biggest,

00:06:35.100 like the hardest for me to understand is like,

00:06:37.780 this is such a sacred thing.

00:06:39.620 And it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.

00:06:42.400 Can I just say something?

00:06:43.400 Are you sure you weren't making love

00:06:44.480 to somebody who was having sex?

00:06:46.280 I'm sorry?

00:06:47.160 Are you sure that you weren't making love

00:06:49.020 to somebody that was just having sex?

00:06:51.520 A and T, that's a nice question there.

00:06:53.920 No, that's what it sounds like to me.

00:06:56.280 It sounds like as women, they make love to men 1.00

00:07:00.840 that are just having sex. 0.52

00:07:02.920 Right.

00:07:04.180 That's the difference.

00:07:05.180 That's not the point.

00:07:06.060 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.

00:07:08.560 So I think when men hear that though,

00:07:10.260 it's like if it was sacred to you,

00:07:11.620 you would have waited until you were married.

00:07:13.180 But it's like, I get, right.

00:07:14.640 No, I get, I get that.

00:07:15.660 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.

00:07:19.140 So I understand that there are these things in place

00:07:21.500 that worked and made sense.

00:07:23.300 And now we're approaching an era that like,

00:07:25.040 we don't know what's going to happen, but there's gray area.

00:07:27.420 You've had sex. 0.79

00:07:28.180 I've had sex.

00:07:28.780 She's had sex. 0.95

00:07:29.420 We've had sex with different guys.

00:07:30.780 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.

00:07:32.100 We're used goods.

00:07:32.700 I understand status is a big part of that.

00:07:34.380 I understand that sex is viewed differently,

00:07:36.120 but I feel like you should not, if you're,

00:07:39.200 if you're looking at face value,

00:07:40.520 I can understand why you'd be judged from your past.

00:07:43.020 But if, if I'm a guy interested in you,

00:07:44.760 I don't care about what you've done.

00:07:46.300 But that's the thing, like men do though. 0.68

00:07:49.160 That's the thing.

00:07:50.000 Like, like a virgin is more valuable to a man 0.99

00:07:53.480 than a girl that's had sex with multiple men.

00:07:55.900 Like it just is what it is.

00:07:57.300 There's a limit.

00:07:58.140 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin. 0.52

00:08:00.940 A modern man needs a partner, 1.00

00:08:02.060 somebody that's actually smart

00:08:03.500 and can survive in the world of today.

00:08:04.720 Look at, look at, look at.

00:08:05.560 And that's gonna be a lived woman. 1.00

00:08:06.720 The men with the most choice

00:08:07.880 are gonna pick women that are more pure in general. 0.94

00:08:10.840 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.

00:08:12.480 But that's the thing.

00:08:13.300 The reality is, the reality is that

00:08:15.560 there's a lot of men out there,

00:08:16.860 especially in the world that we live in today,

00:08:18.200 that need a partner. 0.96

00:08:19.180 So it's time for those masses of men

00:08:21.140 to start respecting women 0.99

00:08:22.220 for the role they can play in their lives.

00:08:23.980 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.

00:08:26.480 Do you know what it is?

00:08:27.300 It's this rhetoric that actually then

00:08:28.840 is pumped into these minds

00:08:29.960 and creates what people now complain about,

00:08:31.640 the misogynistic world.

00:08:32.860 That's what it is.

00:08:33.860 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all

00:08:36.160 and perpetuated.

00:08:37.000 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women

00:08:39.160 that are more pure?

00:08:40.360 But that's not the problem.

00:08:41.860 The problem is now, listen,

00:08:43.640 the maths is very simple.

00:08:44.740 You've got people like Andrew Tate

00:08:46.840 talking about these things with such clarity,

00:08:48.680 and it makes so much sense because it is true, right?

00:08:51.380 And then you have men that are in these situations

00:08:53.840 where just average, working an average job,

00:08:56.020 and they cannot fulfill whatever definition

00:08:58.720 is called to be a man in these definitions.

00:09:00.620 Yes, they can, and that's what he said.

00:09:02.140 He did say that.

00:09:02.980 Yes, they can.

00:09:03.900 A nine to five man can do it.

00:09:05.360 But then again, but wait, wait.

00:09:07.360 This is the thing.

00:09:08.220 What we're talking about as a man,

00:09:09.680 and this is why I say it's very important

00:09:11.040 for us to understand the person that we're speaking to,

00:09:12.760 and I'm very glad that you've clarified

00:09:14.180 everything that you mean.

00:09:15.200 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.

00:09:17.100 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically 0.91

00:09:20.920 demand for certain things from a woman. 0.99

00:09:22.500 So the same way women need to compromise 1.00

00:09:25.080 if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her 1.00

00:09:26.960 because he's a top G,

00:09:28.220 is the same way men are going to have to compromise

00:09:30.020 and stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.

00:09:33.640 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.

00:09:36.480 I made my point.

00:09:37.240 That was the whole point.

00:09:38.600 What point?

00:09:39.440 Well, duh, because you just quoted him.

00:09:41.080 You just said about his thing, and you didn't know.

00:09:42.720 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.

00:09:45.080 I said the average man does not have what it takes 0.59

00:09:48.220 to demand for a virgin or no more.

00:09:50.580 Hang on a minute.

00:09:51.580 It already said that.

00:09:52.580 It already said that.

00:09:53.580 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content,

00:09:55.580 for my page, and so what?

00:09:56.580 Do you know what it is, right?

00:09:57.580 Is that too many women, they see regular guys, 1.00

00:09:59.580 and they feel they're settling.

00:10:00.760 You're not settling.

00:10:01.920 You're getting what you deserve.

00:10:03.200 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.

00:10:04.580 You're not settling.

00:10:05.580 You're not settling.

00:10:06.580 But the difference is men know this.

00:10:08.580 Like, most average men aren't demanding.

00:10:10.580 The average men never say they want a virgin.

00:10:12.580 Kind of.

00:10:13.580 But the difference is the difference.

00:10:15.580 Wait, wait, wait.

00:10:16.580 The difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.

00:10:18.580 They know they don't deserve an 8.

00:10:19.580 They know they don't even deserve a 7.

00:10:21.580 And they still go messaging them on the stories

00:10:23.580 and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly. 0.64

00:10:24.580 No, they're not, though.

00:10:25.580 Like, most men in history haven't even reproduced.

00:10:28.580 And so it's like men know, but the women are the ones 1.00

00:10:31.580 that are delusional.

00:10:32.580 There's regular men out there.

00:10:33.580 There's regular men out there.

00:10:34.580 There's regular men out there.

00:10:35.580 There's regular men out there.

00:10:36.580 There's regular men out there that will have you down. 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022

Confessions of a 304

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