JustPearlyThings - November 27, 2023


Deal Breakers In Relationships In Miami


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

195.59181

Word Count

2,254

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

24

Hate Speech Sentences

17


Summary

In this episode, the guys talk about what it's like dating in your 20's, cheating, and why you should date if you're single. We also talk about the difference between a virgin and a cheater, and what it takes to be a good parent.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 uh well i don't i think one woman is enough but i think that men always have a natural instinct
00:00:05.840 to want to have other girls so if he doesn't exercise that option he's fighting against his
00:00:11.280 biology so yeah i feel like one woman he can he can suppress it but like it's always in his mind
00:00:18.240 that he wants to it depends what she's giving him as well i feel like men need that sexual
00:00:22.240 fulfillment the way women need the emotional fulfillment right women need their men to be
00:00:25.920 there for them in certain ways but if women are willing to reciprocate that in the form of
00:00:30.160 sexual gratification then he's definitely going to have a wandering eye and you can't blame anybody
00:00:35.360 but yourself you can't stop a wandering eye yeah no you can't stop a wandering eye from one we can't
00:00:46.720 that's right so what's your opinion are you always gonna have like are you gonna have a bunch of
00:00:52.400 chicks how's it gonna work for you i mean i think it depends on uh the woman that you have if she
00:00:57.440 can hold you down and she's enough then it might for some men it might be maybe some men they have
00:01:02.560 not necessarily low testosterone but maybe they have a low sexual drive and one woman is enough
00:01:06.640 maybe they really love that woman she's the greatest woman in the world to them and they're
00:01:10.240 just like they look at another girl and they're like ew like that's possible i mean if you get a
00:01:14.480 baddie and you guys like smash all the time like you don't feel the i mean this is from my experience if
00:01:19.680 i've had like consistent sex with the girl that's really attractive like 95 of other girls i look
00:01:25.280 at i'm like you're not even as hot as this one so why would i even want to put any effort i don't
00:01:28.720 want to hear your jokes and i don't want to explain the matrix to you i'll just go back to my girl
00:01:33.120 nobody's talking about the matrix you bring it up if you've been with a if you've been with a real
00:01:39.760 woman and you really like her and she really likes you and you spend enough time together i think
00:01:44.720 she's more than enough and uh if you want to cheat and she's fine with it then sure go ahead but
00:01:49.200 maybe it's like once a year maybe it's when you're drunk maybe yeah maybe you just around with her
00:01:53.680 who knows but the majority of cheating is the majority of cheating is a one-time thing though yeah yeah
00:02:00.320 i hear this a lot so what is a real woman i would say uh yeah i would say a uh very uh
00:02:09.440 uh obviously smart you want someone intelligent if you're a smart guy maybe you like fun but i guess
00:02:15.120 it's subjective to everyone but i would say low body count ideally zero that's the most important
00:02:22.720 one in my eyes i would say obviously smart attractive because attractive to you at least objectively
00:02:29.040 because that is what also really matters and comes from a good family also i would i wouldn't date
00:02:35.360 a woman unless she came from a wealthy respected family they have to be wealthy yeah for me for me
00:02:42.240 some some guys like they don't care but yeah are you well were you born well no i'm from pennsylvania
00:02:48.720 if you know what i have two questions one what's a low body count to you zero yeah okay so virgin
00:02:54.960 okay um and why a wealthy family i it would most likely she would be raised well versus another one
00:03:06.560 you can have a girl that's great from a non-wealthy family i'm just not risking it coming from a good
00:03:10.960 family and coming from like they can become they they can be from a wealthy family but they might not
00:03:16.160 be they might be like a you know so you gotta like actually meet her family see if they're good
00:03:20.320 people see if they raise her right and yeah that's the main thing is coming from a good and wealthy
00:03:24.720 family i feel like it also eliminates gold diggers as well right like people who are only going to be
00:03:29.680 dating you for genuine intentions you know if they have their family to have their back they're never
00:03:34.240 going to rely it just fixes everything it's just so like you have a nice wealthy girl from nice family
00:03:39.280 all the stuff you don't even have to teach her anything she just knows she knows she knows class
00:03:43.120 she looks great and she doesn't listen to sexy rat and all this she doesn't have li-li-lis
00:03:48.000 you know but but also i don't think there's that was that was a love blow i don't think there's
00:03:53.760 anything wrong i don't think there's anything wrong with a with a woman dating a guy for money
00:03:57.440 though just for the record i don't think that's a problem i i'd prefer to date a woman that doesn't
00:04:02.480 obviously i don't say it doesn't work but also like wants me to be the breadwinner so you know i i
00:04:09.120 agree with what you're saying if she has a wealthy family maybe she'll be uh more likely to be a better
00:04:13.360 wife but i just think she says just has has to have a father in her life a good family and that's
00:04:18.800 enough i can kind of take it take it from there yeah i was gonna ask you that like is it important
00:04:24.880 for you for them to come from a two-parent household yeah that's important yeah that's valid not
00:04:31.440 necessarily no as long as they were raised right uh the parents could be divorced it's not the end of
00:04:36.720 the world so i'm curious i want you guys to raise your hands if these are deal breakers for you
00:04:43.520 the guys okay all right all right all right two bodies two bodies wait are we talking about like
00:04:51.280 a wife or what oh yeah if we're talking about a wife like yeah oh yeah wifey wifey okay all right
00:04:57.440 two bodies feel breaker bro i just wanted to see okay ten bodies oh come on that's crazy yeah for
00:05:04.400 sure that's insane your dna with another woman okay two is stretching like a wife seven bodies bro like
00:05:11.360 two is the max all right two so zero two seven would be a problem all right five uh five all right
00:05:18.400 tattoos deal absolutely not every tattoo is five bodies minimum uh like a sleeve
00:05:26.640 like a full sleeve or some yeah no okay there's tattoo math so if any back tattoo 20 bodies
00:05:32.800 maybe like you have a butterfly it means you're kind of basic you might be a bit of an npc
00:05:36.400 tram stamp ask gary the numbers guy you might have npc energy tram stamp how many
00:05:42.560 bro that's like 10 minutes let them talk about their standards without interrupting thank you
00:05:49.120 now all right so um tat one tattoo done or no so one tattoo they can get away with i don't know like
00:05:56.240 if her dad died or something and she got it on my name it's like it's different oh well that's kind
00:06:01.120 of a red flag too though okay all right all right we're gonna try this again raise your hand one
00:06:06.320 tattoo is that a deal breaker no problem okay two tattoos like three tattoos four tattoos we gotta
00:06:15.520 talk about square inches because like she could have like one that's kind of the point it's like
00:06:19.040 there's types of tattoos it's her tattoos deal breaker 100 deal breaker yeah yeah deal breaker for me
00:06:24.320 it's funny it's funny okay okay this one's actually for my dad i don't mind that yeah so like that's
00:06:30.240 more like wholesome that's the reason i don't mind that i have one here between my chest i have one
00:06:40.320 on my thigh and then i have one by my wrist is that a deal breaker 100 okay so yeah okay now cross i walk
00:06:47.760 all right god plastic plastic surgery is that a deal breaker yeah plastic boobs are ass my boobs are
00:06:55.920 okay so i'm rather natural but as long as it looks good right it's not a deal breaker deal breaker i
00:07:03.440 don't like that i don't like plastic like i like natural don't you feel like you're being catfished
00:07:07.120 out of like what your future children are going to look like i don't have a plastic baby pictures
00:07:12.720 whatever they'll just be fly i mean
00:07:14.320 okay they'll be fine okay she's chest she'll figure it out wait wait wait so she's very sweet
00:07:21.760 but dumb deal breaker for a wife i think that might be a bit of a deal breaker yeah all right what about
00:07:28.800 you depends what you like if you're a very very masculine man i know i'm just talking about you no
00:07:37.120 dumb girls are so annoying you can make them smart it's not hard to make a dumb girl above average
00:07:43.280 intelligence of all the other girls in the world just teach them okay you teach them but if they're
00:07:47.120 dumb they're not going to catch up it doesn't matter i'm smart i i'm smart so i don't need her to be
00:07:53.280 smart okay so she can be dumb and sweet okay um if she has a only fans deal breaker come on like
00:08:01.920 obviously like what the okay what if it only has bikini pictures on it bro what the are these miami
00:08:09.120 questions like that is the craziest thing i've ever heard in my life that is for miami logic like a
00:08:14.480 lot of my friends here they're like yeah no she uh she had an only fans or maybe she just sold titty
00:08:20.080 pics in high school it's not that bad i'm like you insane like that is a no i have more questions
00:08:27.440 if she's been divorced but no kids i'm 20 like obviously like okay yeah yeah deal breaker uh no
00:08:36.320 not for me i'm 35. i don't know okay a kid uh yeah deal breaker breaker yeah you're sharing your dna
00:08:44.720 with another man any man that's been inside of her it's a thing it's called to log me you're sharing
00:08:49.200 your dna with that woman or with that man so if someone else railed a girl before you you're why
00:08:54.480 do you think siblings look different whoa okay well not only are you sharing your dna you're
00:08:59.600 pretty much in like a poly relationship you're in a relationship with her kid from some other guy
00:09:03.280 and then you're in a relationship with him if he's in the kid's life so by default well that's
00:09:08.400 different but i'm saying by default i have to deal with him you and his and your kid by some other guy
00:09:16.000 it would still be a deal breaker yeah it would still be a deal breaker what did you call telogamy
00:09:20.320 what did you call that that's what it's called yeah basically of another man never heard of that
00:09:23.440 before it's better yeah i mean why do you think siblings look different it's interesting okay
00:09:30.080 siblings look different okay well let me get this that's a crazy gavin take some really crazy
00:09:35.600 i'm not even i'm not even completely doubting what you're saying but i'm not sure that all the
00:09:42.400 siblings would look exactly the same regardless do you think the most powerful thing human sperm is
00:09:47.920 just going to go away from inside of a woman it's meant to be there it's going to stain the walls and
00:09:52.560 shit i'm not even i'm not even i'm sure there's something to it but once they're in there they camp
00:10:00.240 out they're staying so so she's a virgin all all the siblings look exactly the same
00:10:04.880 not exactly the same but like not you know one sibling is not going to have different colored eyes
00:10:13.360 and hair than another sibling okay it can still happen is very rare though but you see it happen
00:10:18.000 all the time with siblings oh my brothers look so different yeah so wait sorry i don't know how many
00:10:25.440 guys they use protection um to look it doesn't apply if sorry the sperm never technically enters her
00:10:32.240 does it apply then no that's what with protection yeah so if she's a safe three or four what if he
00:10:37.760 comes out black every time your mom gets railed the baby's face changes the eyes change the nose
00:10:45.840 it doesn't matter if he has a condom or not oh my goodness changes after 100 it turns into like a
00:10:52.400 fucking alien yes exactly are there any jobs that are deal breakers for you guys nurses nurses bartenders
00:11:00.960 no bartenders uh nothing nothing really i mean after a certain period she wouldn't work at all if
00:11:09.280 she wanted to then sure she can but certain jobs now like she's obviously not going to be a uh yeah i
00:11:15.120 wouldn't i wouldn't do a nurse only fans girl influencer like she wouldn't do that stuff but bottle girl
00:11:20.080 yeah for sure yeah anything involving another man that's around her flirting with her like you
00:11:25.440 wouldn't want being a pa too that's some bottle girls over there oh no i'm not a bottle girl what
00:11:29.360 are you talking about i sell insurance from home