JustPearlyThings - November 27, 2023


Deal Breakers In Relationships In Miami


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Length

11 minutes

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195.59181

Word count

2,254

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Hate speech

17

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In this episode, the guys talk about what it's like dating in your 20's, cheating, and why you should date if you're single. We also talk about the difference between a virgin and a cheater, and what it takes to be a good parent.

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00:00:00.000 uh well i don't i think one woman is enough but i think that men always have a natural instinct
00:00:05.840 to want to have other girls so if he doesn't exercise that option he's fighting against his
00:00:11.280 biology so yeah i feel like one woman he can he can suppress it but like it's always in his mind
00:00:18.240 that he wants to it depends what she's giving him as well i feel like men need that sexual
00:00:22.240 fulfillment the way women need the emotional fulfillment right women need their men to be 1.00
00:00:25.920 there for them in certain ways but if women are willing to reciprocate that in the form of 1.00
00:00:30.160 sexual gratification then he's definitely going to have a wandering eye and you can't blame anybody
00:00:35.360 but yourself you can't stop a wandering eye yeah no you can't stop a wandering eye from one we can't
00:00:46.720 that's right so what's your opinion are you always gonna have like are you gonna have a bunch of
00:00:52.400 chicks how's it gonna work for you i mean i think it depends on uh the woman that you have if she 1.00
00:00:57.440 can hold you down and she's enough then it might for some men it might be maybe some men they have 0.96
00:01:02.560 not necessarily low testosterone but maybe they have a low sexual drive and one woman is enough 1.00
00:01:06.640 maybe they really love that woman she's the greatest woman in the world to them and they're
00:01:10.240 just like they look at another girl and they're like ew like that's possible i mean if you get a
00:01:14.480 baddie and you guys like smash all the time like you don't feel the i mean this is from my experience if
00:01:19.680 i've had like consistent sex with the girl that's really attractive like 95 of other girls i look
00:01:25.280 at i'm like you're not even as hot as this one so why would i even want to put any effort i don't
00:01:28.720 want to hear your jokes and i don't want to explain the matrix to you i'll just go back to my girl
00:01:33.120 nobody's talking about the matrix you bring it up if you've been with a if you've been with a real
00:01:39.760 woman and you really like her and she really likes you and you spend enough time together i think
00:01:44.720 she's more than enough and uh if you want to cheat and she's fine with it then sure go ahead but 0.98
00:01:49.200 maybe it's like once a year maybe it's when you're drunk maybe yeah maybe you just around with her
00:01:53.680 who knows but the majority of cheating is the majority of cheating is a one-time thing though yeah yeah
00:02:00.320 i hear this a lot so what is a real woman i would say uh yeah i would say a uh very uh 1.00
00:02:09.440 uh obviously smart you want someone intelligent if you're a smart guy maybe you like fun but i guess
00:02:15.120 it's subjective to everyone but i would say low body count ideally zero that's the most important
00:02:22.720 one in my eyes i would say obviously smart attractive because attractive to you at least objectively
00:02:29.040 because that is what also really matters and comes from a good family also i would i wouldn't date
00:02:35.360 a woman unless she came from a wealthy respected family they have to be wealthy yeah for me for me 1.00
00:02:42.240 some some guys like they don't care but yeah are you well were you born well no i'm from pennsylvania
00:02:48.720 if you know what i have two questions one what's a low body count to you zero yeah okay so virgin
00:02:54.960 okay um and why a wealthy family i it would most likely she would be raised well versus another one 1.00
00:03:06.560 you can have a girl that's great from a non-wealthy family i'm just not risking it coming from a good
00:03:10.960 family and coming from like they can become they they can be from a wealthy family but they might not
00:03:16.160 be they might be like a you know so you gotta like actually meet her family see if they're good
00:03:20.320 people see if they raise her right and yeah that's the main thing is coming from a good and wealthy 0.80
00:03:24.720 family i feel like it also eliminates gold diggers as well right like people who are only going to be 0.99
00:03:29.680 dating you for genuine intentions you know if they have their family to have their back they're never
00:03:34.240 going to rely it just fixes everything it's just so like you have a nice wealthy girl from nice family
00:03:39.280 all the stuff you don't even have to teach her anything she just knows she knows she knows class
00:03:43.120 she looks great and she doesn't listen to sexy rat and all this she doesn't have li-li-lis 1.00
00:03:48.000 you know but but also i don't think there's that was that was a love blow i don't think there's
00:03:53.760 anything wrong i don't think there's anything wrong with a with a woman dating a guy for money
00:03:57.440 though just for the record i don't think that's a problem i i'd prefer to date a woman that doesn't
00:04:02.480 obviously i don't say it doesn't work but also like wants me to be the breadwinner so you know i i
00:04:09.120 agree with what you're saying if she has a wealthy family maybe she'll be uh more likely to be a better 1.00
00:04:13.360 wife but i just think she says just has has to have a father in her life a good family and that's 1.00
00:04:18.800 enough i can kind of take it take it from there yeah i was gonna ask you that like is it important
00:04:24.880 for you for them to come from a two-parent household yeah that's important yeah that's valid not
00:04:31.440 necessarily no as long as they were raised right uh the parents could be divorced it's not the end of
00:04:36.720 the world so i'm curious i want you guys to raise your hands if these are deal breakers for you
00:04:43.520 the guys okay all right all right all right two bodies two bodies wait are we talking about like
00:04:51.280 a wife or what oh yeah if we're talking about a wife like yeah oh yeah wifey wifey okay all right
00:04:57.440 two bodies feel breaker bro i just wanted to see okay ten bodies oh come on that's crazy yeah for
00:05:04.400 sure that's insane your dna with another woman okay two is stretching like a wife seven bodies bro like 0.93
00:05:11.360 two is the max all right two so zero two seven would be a problem all right five uh five all right
00:05:18.400 tattoos deal absolutely not every tattoo is five bodies minimum uh like a sleeve
00:05:26.640 like a full sleeve or some yeah no okay there's tattoo math so if any back tattoo 20 bodies
00:05:32.800 maybe like you have a butterfly it means you're kind of basic you might be a bit of an npc
00:05:36.400 tram stamp ask gary the numbers guy you might have npc energy tram stamp how many
00:05:42.560 bro that's like 10 minutes let them talk about their standards without interrupting thank you
00:05:49.120 now all right so um tat one tattoo done or no so one tattoo they can get away with i don't know like
00:05:56.240 if her dad died or something and she got it on my name it's like it's different oh well that's kind
00:06:01.120 of a red flag too though okay all right all right we're gonna try this again raise your hand one
00:06:06.320 tattoo is that a deal breaker no problem okay two tattoos like three tattoos four tattoos we gotta
00:06:15.520 talk about square inches because like she could have like one that's kind of the point it's like 1.00
00:06:19.040 there's types of tattoos it's her tattoos deal breaker 100 deal breaker yeah yeah deal breaker for me
00:06:24.320 it's funny it's funny okay okay this one's actually for my dad i don't mind that yeah so like that's
00:06:30.240 more like wholesome that's the reason i don't mind that i have one here between my chest i have one
00:06:40.320 on my thigh and then i have one by my wrist is that a deal breaker 100 okay so yeah okay now cross i walk
00:06:47.760 all right god plastic plastic surgery is that a deal breaker yeah plastic boobs are ass my boobs are 1.00
00:06:55.920 okay so i'm rather natural but as long as it looks good right it's not a deal breaker deal breaker i
00:07:03.440 don't like that i don't like plastic like i like natural don't you feel like you're being catfished
00:07:07.120 out of like what your future children are going to look like i don't have a plastic baby pictures
00:07:12.720 whatever they'll just be fly i mean
00:07:14.320 okay they'll be fine okay she's chest she'll figure it out wait wait wait so she's very sweet
00:07:21.760 but dumb deal breaker for a wife i think that might be a bit of a deal breaker yeah all right what about 1.00
00:07:28.800 you depends what you like if you're a very very masculine man i know i'm just talking about you no
00:07:37.120 dumb girls are so annoying you can make them smart it's not hard to make a dumb girl above average 1.00
00:07:43.280 intelligence of all the other girls in the world just teach them okay you teach them but if they're 1.00
00:07:47.120 dumb they're not going to catch up it doesn't matter i'm smart i i'm smart so i don't need her to be
00:07:53.280 smart okay so she can be dumb and sweet okay um if she has a only fans deal breaker come on like 1.00
00:08:01.920 obviously like what the okay what if it only has bikini pictures on it bro what the are these miami 0.80
00:08:09.120 questions like that is the craziest thing i've ever heard in my life that is for miami logic like a 0.76
00:08:14.480 lot of my friends here they're like yeah no she uh she had an only fans or maybe she just sold titty
00:08:20.080 pics in high school it's not that bad i'm like you insane like that is a no i have more questions 0.70
00:08:27.440 if she's been divorced but no kids i'm 20 like obviously like okay yeah yeah deal breaker uh no
00:08:36.320 not for me i'm 35. i don't know okay a kid uh yeah deal breaker breaker yeah you're sharing your dna
00:08:44.720 with another man any man that's been inside of her it's a thing it's called to log me you're sharing
00:08:49.200 your dna with that woman or with that man so if someone else railed a girl before you you're why
00:08:54.480 do you think siblings look different whoa okay well not only are you sharing your dna you're
00:08:59.600 pretty much in like a poly relationship you're in a relationship with her kid from some other guy
00:09:03.280 and then you're in a relationship with him if he's in the kid's life so by default well that's
00:09:08.400 different but i'm saying by default i have to deal with him you and his and your kid by some other guy
00:09:16.000 it would still be a deal breaker yeah it would still be a deal breaker what did you call telogamy
00:09:20.320 what did you call that that's what it's called yeah basically of another man never heard of that
00:09:23.440 before it's better yeah i mean why do you think siblings look different it's interesting okay
00:09:30.080 siblings look different okay well let me get this that's a crazy gavin take some really crazy
00:09:35.600 i'm not even i'm not even completely doubting what you're saying but i'm not sure that all the
00:09:42.400 siblings would look exactly the same regardless do you think the most powerful thing human sperm is
00:09:47.920 just going to go away from inside of a woman it's meant to be there it's going to stain the walls and 1.00
00:09:52.560 shit i'm not even i'm not even i'm sure there's something to it but once they're in there they camp 0.53
00:10:00.240 out they're staying so so she's a virgin all all the siblings look exactly the same 0.99
00:10:04.880 not exactly the same but like not you know one sibling is not going to have different colored eyes
00:10:13.360 and hair than another sibling okay it can still happen is very rare though but you see it happen
00:10:18.000 all the time with siblings oh my brothers look so different yeah so wait sorry i don't know how many
00:10:25.440 guys they use protection um to look it doesn't apply if sorry the sperm never technically enters her 1.00
00:10:32.240 does it apply then no that's what with protection yeah so if she's a safe three or four what if he
00:10:37.760 comes out black every time your mom gets railed the baby's face changes the eyes change the nose 0.99
00:10:45.840 it doesn't matter if he has a condom or not oh my goodness changes after 100 it turns into like a
00:10:52.400 fucking alien yes exactly are there any jobs that are deal breakers for you guys nurses nurses bartenders 0.92
00:11:00.960 no bartenders uh nothing nothing really i mean after a certain period she wouldn't work at all if
00:11:09.280 she wanted to then sure she can but certain jobs now like she's obviously not going to be a uh yeah i 1.00
00:11:15.120 wouldn't i wouldn't do a nurse only fans girl influencer like she wouldn't do that stuff but bottle girl 1.00
00:11:20.080 yeah for sure yeah anything involving another man that's around her flirting with her like you 1.00
00:11:25.440 wouldn't want being a pa too that's some bottle girls over there oh no i'm not a bottle girl what 1.00
00:11:29.360 are you talking about i sell insurance from home