JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023


Deluded Feminist Can't Stop Contradicting Herself

Topics
abusive relationship
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Hannah Pearl Davis
The History Of The Manosphere ｜ Sandman @SandmanMGTOW Education and Career DESTROYS Women for Being Good Wives

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10 minutes

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1,872

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338

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20

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18

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In this episode, we talk about cheating, cheating, and why a woman should or shouldn t cheat on her husband if she doesn t want to have sex with him. We also talk about how long it takes for a woman to become a bad wife.

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00:00:00.000 Would a man cheat if his wife will not sleep with him? 0.98
00:00:03.820 Sure.
00:00:05.480 I mean, I'm not married, never been married,
00:00:09.140 but I've lived with different partners.
00:00:12.640 And sometimes it's painful because you get that look.
00:00:16.580 And it's like, almost like a, first it's a no, it's bad.
00:00:21.880 Then it's almost like a disgust after a while.
00:00:24.720 Like, ooh, like, why would I sleep with you? 1.00
00:00:26.600 I'm like, fuck, we've been together for like... 1.00
00:00:30.000 Together for like years. 0.99
00:00:33.760 So yeah, for sure.
00:00:35.700 After a while.
00:00:36.320 Yeah, or break up. 1.00
00:00:37.340 Fuck it. 1.00
00:00:39.920 How long can a woman not sleep with a man until she's a bad wife? 1.00
00:00:47.520 One week.
00:00:48.540 It's been a...
00:00:49.360 It wasn't...
00:00:51.040 Who said that?
00:00:52.980 Who said that?
00:00:53.700 A week.
00:00:56.940 They're going to be like, okay, we'll overlook the cheating.
00:01:00.000 It depends on the man's libido, if he wants it a lot.
00:01:09.360 And then all of a sudden it's gone for like a week.
00:01:11.100 Just in general.
00:01:11.800 We're just talking about in general.
00:01:13.760 For the average guy.
00:01:14.460 Bad wife. 1.00
00:01:15.100 A couple of months.
00:01:16.100 A couple of months.
00:01:16.780 Six?
00:01:18.140 Two.
00:01:18.820 Two.
00:01:19.440 Okay.
00:01:19.700 Okay.
00:01:19.760 That's rough.
00:01:20.360 Two or three months.
00:01:21.000 That is rough.
00:01:22.040 What?
00:01:22.520 One couple of months.
00:01:24.780 They're lower than it.
00:01:25.980 They're like, we're not dealing with this.
00:01:28.140 Okay.
00:01:28.960 What about you?
00:01:30.960 Okay.
00:01:31.420 On this, like, I have a different opinion.
00:01:33.720 I don't think it will make it a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with you. 1.00
00:01:37.000 I strongly believe that as a practical man, I should try to find why is that happening.
00:01:41.620 Maybe I'm doing something wrong.
00:01:42.700 Maybe I'm not.
00:01:44.260 But if, let's say, I'm doing everything right.
00:01:49.400 Yeah.
00:01:50.160 I wouldn't like way too.
00:01:51.640 Do you think women reward good behavior? 1.00
00:01:53.940 No.
00:01:54.240 So then, why would you look to see if you're doing everything right?
00:01:58.720 Recognize, but not reward.
00:02:00.020 No, not everything right.
00:02:01.520 I mean, like, maybe something, like, is major that makes her stay away.
00:02:06.500 Not for small things, because no one's perfect, right?
00:02:09.520 But, yeah, they definitely don't reward good behavior.
00:02:14.420 So if she keeps not sleeping with you, how long?
00:02:16.920 I don't know.
00:02:20.060 It never happened to me.
00:02:23.200 But I would address the issue immediately, probably the first few times of attempt.
00:02:29.860 Okay.
00:02:31.040 I cannot say days, because maybe you don't want to have...
00:02:33.580 You give her, like, a week.
00:02:34.940 No, no.
00:02:35.380 It's not about time.
00:02:36.840 It's about, like, a few attempts, let's say.
00:02:40.140 Because maybe I don't want to either.
00:02:42.120 But let's say I won't, like, and there is no, like, something like women issue. 0.96
00:02:45.980 And she does say no one, no twice.
00:02:48.680 The third time I'm going to say, listen, what's going on?
00:02:51.500 And then it's done.
00:02:53.200 Maybe it's going to be the first day.
00:02:54.700 Who knows?
00:02:55.440 If not now, I'm going to leave you.
00:02:59.640 What do you think about men cheating if their wife doesn't sleep with them? 1.00
00:03:02.640 Is that the woman's fault or the man's fault? 0.58
00:03:08.420 That's an interesting question, you know.
00:03:10.940 It's common.
00:03:11.900 I think it's both.
00:03:13.080 It's equal?
00:03:14.060 No, it's not equal.
00:03:14.600 No, we've got to pick a fault.
00:03:16.640 Okay.
00:03:17.940 Do it.
00:03:20.640 If a man cheats, right?
00:03:22.460 Yeah.
00:03:23.080 And because the woman wouldn't sleep with them. 1.00
00:03:25.800 I think it's woman's fault. 1.00
00:03:27.700 But I don't strongly agree on that.
00:03:31.560 Okay, what do you think?
00:03:34.320 Whose fault is it if the man cheats because the woman won't sleep with him?
00:03:38.200 It's the woman's fault. 1.00
00:03:39.400 It's the woman's fault. 1.00
00:03:40.580 And you said a week till she's a bad wife? 1.00
00:03:42.540 Yeah.
00:03:42.780 See, this is why the men want to stay.
00:03:46.940 They're like, whatever.
00:03:47.580 I want to say, when you marry, it gets different.
00:03:51.280 Yeah.
00:03:51.980 It's different.
00:03:52.820 Now you're with that.
00:03:53.900 No, I haven't.
00:03:54.800 Okay.
00:03:55.320 I haven't.
00:03:56.040 Talking to you about...
00:03:57.300 Go ahead.
00:03:57.700 Yeah.
00:03:58.040 I just feel like when it gets to marriage and you're together forever, because you're
00:04:04.640 going to be forever, you just need to please each other with whatever the other person asks.
00:04:10.260 And that's why, again, I'm going back.
00:04:12.480 That's why from the beginning you should say, okay, I don't like this.
00:04:15.480 You don't like this.
00:04:16.820 Are you willing to do this?
00:04:18.580 Are you not willing?
00:04:19.700 And it's just like, it's just simple conversation for me.
00:04:22.460 Okay.
00:04:23.280 What about you?
00:04:24.540 Same.
00:04:25.000 I keep going back to like, what's the reason?
00:04:27.120 Why?
00:04:27.460 Talk.
00:04:28.320 Like, I think it's very...
00:04:29.640 Is there a good reason to not sleep with your husband?
00:04:33.220 No.
00:04:33.440 There could be.
00:04:34.280 You don't know.
00:04:34.700 What is...
00:04:35.120 What would be a good reason?
00:04:39.980 If you had a kid and it would be absolutely hurting you.
00:04:42.600 Something went down there and it's been absolutely painful.
00:04:44.380 Outside of a medical issue.
00:04:45.640 So, okay, take the medical issue out of it.
00:04:49.020 What would be a good reason to not sleep with your husband? 1.00
00:04:52.140 I've never been in that situation.
00:04:54.480 So, why does your automatic gut reaction to say like, but there could be reasons if you've never had...
00:05:01.020 There could be reasons.
00:05:01.760 But I'm saying if you personally have never had a reason, like, why is your gut reaction to go, there must be a reason?
00:05:07.560 Because why wouldn't you want to have sex? 0.77
00:05:09.060 Like, why wouldn't you want to sleep with your partner? 0.96
00:05:11.000 Do you think women can be controlling? 1.00
00:05:14.900 Absolutely.
00:05:15.840 Okay, okay.
00:05:16.340 Do you think women use sex to control men?
00:05:19.400 They can do.
00:05:20.520 So, you know that happens, right?
00:05:21.980 Of course.
00:05:22.420 But it's just interesting because you've never had a reason to not have sex yet.
00:05:27.080 But you know that women can control men through sex. 1.00
00:05:29.760 But your gut reaction is still to protect the woman.
00:05:33.040 Men can force women to have sex as well. 0.54
00:05:36.160 Right? 0.99
00:05:36.960 Men can force women to have sex as well. 0.99
00:05:39.180 Like, we agreed that men are stronger, right? 0.84
00:05:41.000 Not legally.
00:05:41.600 But it's not intelligent then to make this other question, you know, if you're not considering the other things as well.
00:05:46.940 And I think last...
00:05:47.860 I know we were talking about generalization.
00:05:50.440 What happens if a man forces a woman to have sex? 0.97
00:05:52.840 Then it's rape. 0.99
00:05:53.160 He will go... 0.99
00:05:53.720 So, what will happen to him?
00:05:56.160 He's going to go to court, right?
00:05:58.040 Okay, so he'll likely go to...
00:06:00.280 Yes.
00:06:00.720 Do you think the justice system favors men or women?
00:06:04.040 In this case, a man is forcing a woman physically... 0.97
00:06:06.460 No, no, no, I'm saying...
00:06:07.140 Do you think...
00:06:07.680 Do you think the justice system favors men or women?
00:06:08.980 Of course, he will protect the women.
00:06:09.760 Do you think the justice system...
00:06:11.240 Okay, okay.
00:06:11.960 So, it favors women. 0.99
00:06:12.800 Are you all pro...
00:06:14.360 So, my question is... 0.93
00:06:17.040 He cannot just have sex with her because the court will prosecute him, right? 0.95
00:06:22.340 If it's physically forced. 0.95
00:06:24.000 Correct.
00:06:25.160 Right? 0.92
00:06:25.320 So, he can't just force sex? 0.89
00:06:28.000 No.
00:06:28.820 Physically.
00:06:29.780 Physically.
00:06:30.340 Correct.
00:06:30.820 Even if they're married.
00:06:31.700 Physically.
00:06:31.740 Correct.
00:06:32.340 Even if they're married.
00:06:34.480 He can do...
00:06:35.120 You signed the paper.
00:06:36.080 You're mine.
00:06:36.500 I'm yours.
00:06:37.140 I can do whatever.
00:06:38.800 No.
00:06:39.160 No.
00:06:39.300 No, you are wrong.
00:06:41.040 Excuse me.
00:06:42.020 You are wrong.
00:06:43.200 Very wrong.
00:06:43.600 If you say someone, like, that's wrong.
00:06:47.200 Doesn't matter if you are married or not.
00:06:49.100 Yeah.
00:06:49.740 I don't know.
00:06:50.460 No one has a new life to no one.
00:06:53.100 No, no.
00:06:53.600 It used to be thought of that way.
00:06:55.280 It's like lifetime consent.
00:06:57.240 But now the feminists kind of get in there. 1.00
00:07:00.460 I don't know if this, like...
00:07:02.340 But similar things to this happened to my mother.
00:07:05.560 My mom and dad, they're married 34 years.
00:07:08.140 And they're still together just because my mom sits down and just...
00:07:11.120 Okay.
00:07:11.600 You're my husband anyway, so...
00:07:13.600 Okay.
00:07:14.440 Why do you...
00:07:14.920 So, I'm curious.
00:07:16.160 Yeah.
00:07:16.360 Why...
00:07:16.840 If your parents were together 34 years, why are you so anti-relational?
00:07:20.460 It seems like you have been a really good model.
00:07:23.080 Yeah.
00:07:23.360 I've been to, like, quite many relationships.
00:07:26.620 And I just feel like it comes to how deep is the people that I'm...
00:07:34.020 Because I believe I'm a very, like, giving person.
00:07:37.740 Okay.
00:07:38.500 And I've just been giving too much and not really appreciated.
00:07:44.240 And then...
00:07:44.540 And they didn't do anything in return.
00:07:47.260 Not really.
00:07:48.300 Nothing.
00:07:48.500 They didn't take...
00:07:48.800 And I also...
00:07:49.580 I also been in an abusive relationship.
00:07:52.020 So, they didn't ever took you on dates?
00:07:53.980 They never...
00:07:54.660 Maybe one time.
00:07:56.900 Okay.
00:07:57.260 So, you went on one date, the whole relationship.
00:07:59.520 Yes.
00:08:00.300 Okay.
00:08:00.500 And one holiday out of 10 with his friends.
00:08:02.880 Was there...
00:08:03.420 What?
00:08:04.640 In one holiday out of 10 with his friends.
00:08:08.020 So, he went 10 times with his friends and one with me.
00:08:10.940 Okay.
00:08:11.240 So, how long were you with him?
00:08:12.720 One and a half year.
00:08:13.880 One and a half years.
00:08:14.820 So, why did you stay so long if he wasn't treating you well?
00:08:19.160 Because I tried and I tried and I tried.
00:08:21.360 I said, okay, cool.
00:08:22.340 Maybe it's fine.
00:08:23.240 Maybe...
00:08:23.540 How old were you?
00:08:25.220 Just two years ago.
00:08:26.880 Was he rich?
00:08:28.040 I'm 28.
00:08:29.320 Okay.
00:08:29.640 So, it was when you were 26.
00:08:30.720 Before that, did you want to get married?
00:08:33.140 I never wanted to get married.
00:08:34.180 So, I'm asking, like, why is that?
00:08:36.660 If you had...
00:08:37.140 It seems like you had...
00:08:37.940 Because...
00:08:38.860 I just don't feel nowadays people like they're together for the right reason.
00:08:44.220 Like, especially here.
00:08:45.540 I'm not from here.
00:08:46.160 Were your parents together for the right reason, you think?
00:08:48.800 I think so, yeah.
00:08:49.820 Okay.
00:08:50.160 So, when did you start feeling like that?
00:08:53.840 Basically, when I came here.
00:08:55.460 Okay.
00:08:55.820 So, when you came...
00:08:56.700 I just...
00:08:57.220 How old were you?
00:08:58.960 21.
00:08:59.760 Okay.
00:09:00.080 So, when you were 21, your view changed on relationships.
00:09:02.580 No, I came here.
00:09:04.580 And I came in this country, right?
00:09:07.120 Okay.
00:09:07.760 Right.
00:09:08.460 And I just, like...
00:09:10.420 So, that here, things are different.
00:09:13.280 It's not like, okay, we like each other.
00:09:15.520 We love each other.
00:09:16.360 We already like to do compromise and all of that stuff.
00:09:18.980 Here is completely different.
00:09:20.520 Here is, like, what you bring to the table.
00:09:22.140 Where are you from again?
00:09:22.980 Greece.
00:09:23.560 Okay.
00:09:23.860 So, you're from Greece.
00:09:24.580 So, relationships were more simple there.
00:09:26.360 More simple and more like, we like each other.
00:09:29.120 We love each other.
00:09:30.180 I'm Greek, too.
00:09:33.480 It's not simple at all.
00:09:35.300 I don't know.
00:09:35.920 This is how I felt there.
00:09:38.160 When here, it's like...
00:09:39.340 How many years ago?
00:09:42.480 Yeah, a lot.
00:09:43.900 Yeah.
00:09:44.480 When I was there.
00:09:45.660 Are you from Greece?
00:09:47.300 Yes.
00:09:47.820 Okay.
00:09:48.180 So, has it changed?
00:09:50.800 Absolutely.
00:09:51.240 Like, dating there?
00:09:52.040 Like, what was dating like?
00:09:54.720 I don't know.
00:09:55.720 Was it more traditional 10 years ago?
00:09:57.860 Yeah.
00:09:58.280 Speak about when we were there.
00:09:59.700 Not now.
00:10:00.220 Because I haven't been there.
00:10:01.320 So, yeah, 10 years ago, I was seeing it different than how it is right now.
00:10:07.160 I think social media, like, played a big role on that.
00:10:09.600 Because they somehow diluted the quality of relationships and all the reasons why women do stuff. 1.00
00:10:17.620 And men.
00:10:18.900 It's tested the loyalty and respect that we have for each other and for the people that are around us.
00:10:25.960 Sorry.
00:10:26.200 Sorry.
00:10:26.760 I think it's the social media tested our loyalty and respect that we have for the people around us and for ourself as a person.
00:10:35.200 I don't think it tested, sorry, I don't think it's an important country because it changed it to the world.
00:10:40.540 It changed it globally, not in Greece, not in England.
00:10:43.860 And it's everywhere.
00:10:44.700 Obviously, yeah.
00:10:45.200 Obviously, yeah.