DELUSIONAL Woman ACCUSES Pearl Of MISOGYNY
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the accusations of misogyny on the show, and how the show almost caters to misogynist viewers. We also discuss the difference between misogyny and toxic femininity, and what it means to be a misogynist.
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Exactly. No, no, no, no. I feel that this show, this show, I'm sorry, it almost caters for misogynist viewers, literally, because I agree with Pearl to a certain extent.
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My problem where me and Pearl kind of like, I don't agree.
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No, just let you be out to say she was married.
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If you're going to accuse me, wait, wait, wait, wait.
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I'll tell you why.
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I just, if I'm going to call someone something, I know.
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The fact that you just base it, everything that you base and all the information that you base, it caters,
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You basically eradicate any sort of work that women, okay, this is.
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I don't have to tell you, I don't have to define, you know.
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In society, in society, there are women who are toxic and there are women that play a field
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It's just, you're basically the opposite to what we basically do.
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The reason why we're asking you to define misogyny is not because we're trying to pick
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That should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women in this room.
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So every time a woman has used the word misogyny, she has not known the meaning of the word.
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You basically, I just basically told you, your show is almost like the opposite to feminism.
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Listen, I'm not going, because I feel, I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of do.
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You push an agenda with a specific type of women and you generalize all women in that sense.
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You take away, literally, the society, what do you call it?
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Okay, but are you going to answer the question?
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You disregard the systemic oppression of women.
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I'm just, I'm trying to, but you don't want to hear it.
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Can you please, can you kindly tell us the definition of the research?
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Like, because a lot of, you know, people think that I'm super hard on women, right?
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And my thing is, historically, women are just worse than we've ever been from a historical
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You know what percent of women are virgins on their wedding days?
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And some would say that what you're saying now is misogynistic.
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So, so, so, I mean, you could Google them pretty easy.
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One, one is, one is, I mean, this is what the left will try to do to like discredit you
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is they, they just question every step, but it's, you can Google them pretty easy.
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So what percent of women, what percent of women do you think are virgins on their wedding
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So if a woman was to be a virgin, then the man would have to be a virgin.
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And the man cannot be a virgin, so the woman would not be a virgin.
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Just, we're going to, we're going to go, we're going to go into this later, but, but,
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but I want to say what percent of women are virgins on their wedding day?
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In the West, in the West, can we, can we answer the question?
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I'm not even going to answer because I genuinely don't know.
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It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, all right.
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What percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life?
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But what are the reasons why women are not on birth control?
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I've been on birth control before, but it wasn't because of sex.
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That, which is all good and well until we start looking at the body count statistics, where the,
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where after a woman has had five partners, her chance of a happy marriage drops to 20%.
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So, and the average woman has slept with more than five men.
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Which remember, historically, a hundred years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding nights.
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Now, what else does the men, men get out of marriage?
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They get loyalty, but not today because half of women leave.
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Then, then we start to go into weight where women are overweight.
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And yet we scream misogyny at me, but these are, these are just numbers.
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Now I'm, and it's like, I can't say numbers without being called sexist when they are true.
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Firstly, I'm family therapist and I make big research and I have a lot of numbers.
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And you're totally right that women choose, but women choose from men who choose her and
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have, wait, sorry that she, I didn't, I didn't, women choose, but first, for example, if you
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are one woman, you have five men, uh, from these five men, you choose men who choose you.
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One man make you signal, I like you, I smile you, you go and you choose from men who choose
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If men don't like you, if not has sex attraction, you cannot do anything.
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If men need to go up and say, I want this woman.
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I make my book about entrepreneur and it's absolutely in numbers.
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We cannot make many things which make men never ever because our brain is different.
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We are totally right that the business, which make we are women, it's psychologist, coaching
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And if a woman forgot that she is a woman, she become to be sick.
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Every day I work with women who cannot be pregnancy.
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Today is the biggest problem in our society, in UK.
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And after she came to me, like family therapist, Natalia, I want to be pregnancy.
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You need first to be a woman and woman, it's totally different quality, quality which you
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And we know usually what women today tell to me, Natalia, I want to find a man which
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very kind, very rich, very good looking, very sexy, love me like a crazy.
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He wants to take care about him, about my child.
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And from some reason, he's single in 40 years old.
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And of course, she couldn't find it after she's very disappointed.
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But probably that woman has too high acceptation.
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She doesn't want to change herself, to go to fitness, to take care about how she looks,
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how she speaks with men, how she listens to men, because the woman must listen, not to
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You need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen and to speak exactly admiring.
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And about single and separation has a big difference.
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You can be separated with your partner, but he continues to help you.
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He continues to be your best friend and to call you every time when you need him.
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If you make a normal relationship, you must do divorce only when you have financial dependence,
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You love yourself, you love your partner, but you can develop because you say, I want something
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And you continue to say your child, your father is the best man in the world and your child,
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if he can be divorced, but he can love both of parents and not have psychological trauma.
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You can be in marriage to be in toxic relationship and you can destroy your child.
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It's the most important mission of women, which for God, not compare with men.
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I agree with a lot of what you're saying in the terms of when women and men were physiologically
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I think men crave and demand respect, even in marriage.
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If I don't respect my husband, I can't expect my husband to love me in the way that I want
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If I don't give him the respect, there's a book I read.
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I can't remember the artist, the artist, the author's name.
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And if you don't give each to the other, what the other needs and what the other wants,
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So if I don't give my husband the respect, he's not going to love me in the way that I want.
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And he will give me love, but ultimately he wants me to respect him and not a respect
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You know, kneeling on the floor, he says jump and I say, oh, how high?
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No, he needs to give me a level of respect too.
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Can I say it will only work if you love and respect yourself.
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When I started to live with my husband, he said to me that you need to remember that you
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have a man because I'll do things that carry all the bags independently by myself to the
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So it's just learning little things that I had to do to be more feminine and understand
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I know people don't like the terminology of gender roles, but sometimes they are in a marriage
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or in a relationship where men need to feel like they are men.
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They need to feel like their woman needs them to some extent.
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I had to relearn how to be feminine because I was single for so long.
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I had that with my father, oh, daddy, please, daddy, please.
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My father knew that I needed him and he provided.
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But when I don't let him know that he's needed, like me getting up on a chair and trying to
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change a light bulb myself, I know how to do it, but baby, can you come and please, you
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So it's those little things that also add to making your man know that you do need him.
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You might not need him, but you allow him to feel needed, even though you can do it.
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And that's kind of the femininity and masculinity in the relationship, the yang that goes together
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Pearl, I would like to just stand up for your show.
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I think they're trying to essentially say that this show is promoting misogyny, when
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literally all you did was give all of these ladies a platform to speak on.
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It's not Pearl's fault that these ladies speak the way they do.
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For example, the lady over here is screaming misogyny, yet she doesn't even know the definition.
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Yeah, just, I don't have to take a dictionary, I don't have to say to you in a dictionary English
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You know, I just said to you, I basically reply to you is when you take away, where you
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basically don't acknowledge, you don't acknowledge a woman, what women go through the systemic,
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it's almost, it's very, that is not the meaning of misogyny.
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Even before we get to that, I need to reiterate the rules.
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Because if you keep doing this, you'll be kicked off the show, unfortunately.
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But the reality is, whether you like it or not, language exists for a reason.
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Women keep talking about, oh, communication this, communication that women are better at
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Yet, in the same breath, you would say a word and misuse it and then still argue that what
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you think it means is the definition when it clearly isn't.
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And the reason why I can confidently say this is because like I said before, this is episode
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137, we've done this show 137 times and every single time a woman has used the word misogyny,
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we have come to find out that she doesn't know the meaning.
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So is it wrong for me to be able to now make an analytical, logical conclusion that you probably
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I literally gave you examples of it, but you...
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If I were to ask you what's the definition of a woman, I'm sure you probably don't even
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A hundred percent, but it's not a gender that they want to push.
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Like you've talked the most of this show out of all the guests.
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No, you were just talking the whole show and you'll say it to me pushing an agenda.
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And the crazy thing is, I'm just so tired of this narrative that women are oppressed
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Women are more likely to get custody of their children.
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Women are more likely to get child support, alimony.
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Men are more likely to commit suicide as men do the hardest jobs.
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And yet women will live in a society that men built and cry misogyny and oppression.