JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023


DELUSIONAL Woman ACCUSES Pearl Of MISOGYNY


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

206.95703

Word Count

3,068

Sentence Count

288

Misogynist Sentences

47

Hate Speech Sentences

23


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Exactly. No, no, no, no. I feel that this show, this show, I'm sorry, it almost caters for misogynist viewers, literally, because I agree with Pearl to a certain extent.
00:00:11.300 My problem where me and Pearl kind of like, I don't agree.
00:00:15.540 Misogynist. That's a tough accusation.
00:00:17.500 Can I just say what you said?
00:00:19.620 I got to address the first part.
00:00:21.540 I mean, that's my opinion.
00:00:22.640 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:00:26.500 It's exactly what you're saying.
00:00:27.700 No, what is it?
00:00:28.740 No, what is it?
00:00:30.000 I have to give you a definition.
00:00:31.140 I'm saying, yes, you do.
00:00:32.200 It's your message.
00:00:33.600 No, just let you be out to say she was married.
00:00:35.560 Okay, if I was, no, no, no, no.
00:00:37.780 If you're going to accuse me, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:40.780 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I'll tell you why.
00:00:44.640 Okay, thank you, thank you.
00:00:46.320 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:00:48.160 Jesus.
00:00:48.920 I just, if I'm going to call someone something, I know.
00:00:51.920 Okay, right.
00:00:53.340 The fact that you just base it, everything that you base and all the information that you base, it caters,
00:00:58.360 literally, for men's egos, right?
00:01:02.120 You basically eradicate any sort of work that women, okay, this is.
00:01:06.740 Just answer the question.
00:01:07.500 I don't have to tell you, I don't have to define, you know.
00:01:13.040 You can't call someone a word.
00:01:14.400 No, you have an agenda.
00:01:15.720 There is an agenda.
00:01:16.600 There's a narrative being played.
00:01:17.960 In society, in society, there are women who are toxic and there are women that play a field
00:01:23.200 that basically push this agenda.
00:01:26.660 It's like basically toxic masculinity.
00:01:27.840 That's what good I find.
00:01:28.520 It's the same thing as toxic femininity.
00:01:30.560 It's just, you're basically the opposite to what we basically do.
00:01:33.980 That's good I find.
00:01:34.420 That's good I find.
00:01:34.440 That's good I find.
00:01:34.640 That's good I find.
00:01:34.660 That's good I find.
00:01:34.840 Let me explain something.
00:01:35.660 The reason why we're asking you to define misogyny is not because we're trying to pick
00:01:39.860 on you.
00:01:40.220 There's a reason.
00:01:41.320 We've done this show.
00:01:42.400 If you can look at the thumbnail.
00:01:43.860 But that's just my opinion though.
00:01:44.940 Just one second.
00:01:45.680 You just keep cutting me off.
00:01:46.960 We've done this show.
00:01:47.820 This is episode 137, right?
00:01:49.800 Yeah.
00:01:50.280 And every single time a woman, think about it.
00:01:54.320 How many women are here?
00:01:55.480 So we've done 137 episodes.
00:01:57.380 That should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women in this room.
00:02:01.400 So every time a woman has used the word misogyny, she has not known the meaning of the word.
00:02:06.340 I just told you.
00:02:07.540 No, you haven't told us the meaning.
00:02:09.020 What's the meaning?
00:02:09.700 Oh my lord.
00:02:10.960 Oh my lord.
00:02:11.500 You basically, I just basically told you, your show is almost like the opposite to feminism.
00:02:17.020 No, what is the definition of misogyny?
00:02:19.160 What is the definition of misogyny?
00:02:21.300 It's sexist.
00:02:22.240 It's basically sexist.
00:02:23.560 It's a sex.
00:02:24.360 You're basically.
00:02:24.860 Okay, what is sexist?
00:02:25.500 Those are all adjectives.
00:02:26.760 These are all adjectives.
00:02:27.880 What have the meaning?
00:02:28.900 Listen, I'm not going, because I feel, I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of do.
00:02:33.020 You know exactly what I mean.
00:02:33.840 No, you don't know what we're trying to do.
00:02:34.720 You push an agenda with a specific type of women and you generalize all women in that sense.
00:02:40.280 You take away, literally, the society, what do you call it?
00:02:44.400 The, oh my gosh.
00:02:45.680 The systemic oppression of women.
00:02:48.820 Okay, but are you going to answer the question?
00:02:49.480 You disregard the systemic oppression of women.
00:02:52.120 You do.
00:02:52.560 Are you going to answer the question?
00:02:53.960 I'm just, I'm trying to, but you don't want to hear it.
00:02:56.500 Okay, okay.
00:02:57.140 Oh my god.
00:02:57.960 I have my meaning.
00:02:58.380 I have your opinion and that's all.
00:03:00.540 But here's being respectful.
00:03:01.140 Can I ask you?
00:03:01.860 Can I ask you?
00:03:02.040 I am.
00:03:02.540 I don't have anything.
00:03:03.380 Can you please, can you kindly tell us the definition of the research?
00:03:05.800 I already told you.
00:03:06.720 No, you haven't.
00:03:07.640 You really haven't.
00:03:08.300 Okay, then I didn't.
00:03:09.680 Okay, then I didn't.
00:03:11.100 Then please kindly don't use the word again.
00:03:12.440 I mean, that's my opinion, but we move.
00:03:14.940 But what, what, what is untrue?
00:03:17.100 And this is the thing.
00:03:17.980 I'll tell you why.
00:03:18.880 Like, because a lot of, you know, people think that I'm super hard on women, right?
00:03:23.320 And my thing is, historically, women are just worse than we've ever been from a historical
00:03:29.280 point of view.
00:03:30.040 It's unprecedented.
00:03:31.520 You know what percent of women are virgins on their wedding days?
00:03:34.460 And some would say that what you're saying now is misogynistic.
00:03:37.340 This isn't misogynistic.
00:03:38.820 I'm about to give you stats.
00:03:40.000 I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats.
00:03:42.160 For where?
00:03:42.460 So, so, so, I mean, you could Google them pretty easy.
00:03:45.720 It's pretty simple.
00:03:46.540 It's pretty, you could Google.
00:03:48.320 One, one is, one is, I mean, this is what the left will try to do to like discredit you
00:03:52.520 is they, they just question every step, but it's, you can Google them pretty easy.
00:03:57.880 Okay.
00:03:58.180 So what percent of women, what percent of women do you think are virgins on their wedding
00:04:02.120 day?
00:04:02.780 Okay.
00:04:03.180 So if a woman was to be a virgin, then the man would have to be a virgin.
00:04:07.280 And the man cannot be a virgin, so the woman would not be a virgin.
00:04:10.500 Just, we're going to, we're going to go, we're going to go into this later, but, but,
00:04:13.760 but I want to say what percent of women are virgins on their wedding day?
00:04:17.320 What's that?
00:04:17.860 In the West, in the West, can we, can we answer the question?
00:04:23.100 Probably about 25%.
00:04:24.440 25%.
00:04:25.240 Okay.
00:04:25.740 Who, who thinks it's higher than 25?
00:04:27.260 I'm not even going to answer because I genuinely don't know.
00:04:28.480 Okay.
00:04:28.740 Okay.
00:04:29.000 Okay.
00:04:29.500 It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, all right.
00:04:31.320 All right.
00:04:32.440 To be honest.
00:04:32.820 It's 5%.
00:04:34.040 What percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life?
00:04:38.920 90%.
00:04:40.120 But what are the reasons why women are not on birth control?
00:04:42.880 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:43.260 I've been on birth control before, but it wasn't because of sex.
00:04:45.180 Okay.
00:04:45.320 Okay.
00:04:45.420 Okay.
00:04:45.680 Fine.
00:04:46.080 That, which is all good and well until we start looking at the body count statistics, where the,
00:04:51.300 where after a woman has had five partners, her chance of a happy marriage drops to 20%.
00:04:56.880 Okay.
00:04:58.000 So, and the average woman has slept with more than five men.
00:05:01.120 Okay.
00:05:01.560 Which remember, historically, a hundred years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding nights.
00:05:07.120 Now, what else does the men, men get out of marriage?
00:05:09.740 They get loyalty, but not today because half of women leave.
00:05:14.360 Then, then we start to go into weight where women are overweight.
00:05:18.280 The average woman is five, three, 170 pounds.
00:05:20.980 These are just numbers.
00:05:22.120 And yet we scream misogyny at me, but these are, these are just numbers.
00:05:26.960 Now I'm, and it's like, I can't say numbers without being called sexist when they are true.
00:05:33.820 Can I tell you something?
00:05:35.120 I'm going to, I'm going to let you go.
00:05:36.460 I'm going to let you go.
00:05:37.120 Firstly, I'm family therapist and I make big research and I have a lot of numbers.
00:05:40.740 80% of women decide to divorce.
00:05:43.500 You're totally right.
00:05:44.240 And you're totally right that women choose, but women choose from men who choose her and
00:05:49.720 have, wait, sorry that she, I didn't, I didn't, women choose, but first, for example, if you
00:05:54.000 are one woman, you have five men, uh, from these five men, you choose men who choose you.
00:05:59.000 One man make you signal, I like you, I smile you, you go and you choose from men who choose
00:06:04.580 you.
00:06:05.580 If men don't like you, if not has sex attraction, you cannot do anything.
00:06:10.580 If men need to go up and say, I want this woman.
00:06:14.620 And then you choose from men who choose you.
00:06:16.820 First.
00:06:17.820 Second, you're totally right.
00:06:18.820 We are women.
00:06:19.820 I make my book about entrepreneur and it's absolutely in numbers.
00:06:24.620 We are women.
00:06:25.620 We are not so smart like men.
00:06:27.080 We cannot make many things which make men never ever because our brain is different.
00:06:32.940 It's different.
00:06:33.940 We cannot, we cannot run so fast.
00:06:35.220 We cannot make some big numbers.
00:06:37.460 We are totally right that the business, which make we are women, it's psychologist, coaching
00:06:42.060 beauty.
00:06:43.060 It's cannot be male men.
00:06:44.520 And if a woman forgot that she is a woman, she become to be sick.
00:06:49.140 Every day I work with women who cannot be pregnancy.
00:06:51.420 Today is the biggest problem in our society, in UK.
00:06:54.980 And what they are do, they become to be men.
00:06:57.440 She have a lot of cortisol.
00:06:58.680 She has opinion about it.
00:06:59.680 It messes up your hormones.
00:07:00.680 She wants to be a feminist.
00:07:02.220 And after she came to me, like family therapist, Natalia, I want to be pregnancy.
00:07:05.820 What you do 40 years?
00:07:07.420 You hate men.
00:07:08.420 You hate your father.
00:07:09.420 You try to show that you have big balls.
00:07:12.280 And after you say, I want to be a woman.
00:07:14.660 What you did before.
00:07:16.080 You need first to be a woman and woman, it's totally different quality, quality which you
00:07:20.100 need to survive as a man.
00:07:22.460 You need to be strong.
00:07:23.460 And we know usually what women today tell to me, Natalia, I want to find a man which
00:07:28.340 very kind, very rich, very good looking, very sexy, love me like a crazy.
00:07:33.780 He's very crazy to accept my child.
00:07:36.580 He wants to take care about him, about my child.
00:07:39.360 He wants to marry me.
00:07:40.360 And from some reason, he's single in 40 years old.
00:07:44.720 And of course, she couldn't find it after she's very disappointed.
00:07:48.960 And you are right that woman choose.
00:07:50.560 But probably that woman has too high acceptation.
00:07:53.900 She wants to be a princess.
00:07:55.420 She doesn't want to change herself, to go to fitness, to take care about how she looks,
00:07:59.680 how she speaks with men, how she listens to men, because the woman must listen, not to
00:08:04.680 speak.
00:08:05.680 You need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen and to speak exactly admiring.
00:08:11.740 Admire your man, admire to him, admire him.
00:08:14.460 And about single and separation has a big difference.
00:08:16.840 You can be separated with your partner, but he continues to help you.
00:08:21.380 He continues to help your child.
00:08:22.860 He continues to take care about you.
00:08:24.280 He continues to be your best friend and to call you every time when you need him.
00:08:28.560 If you make a normal relationship, you must do divorce only when you have financial dependence,
00:08:34.360 loyal independence, your emotional stability.
00:08:37.280 You love yourself, you love your partner, but you can develop because you say, I want something
00:08:42.820 else.
00:08:43.820 And you continue to say your child, your father is the best man in the world and your child,
00:08:47.900 if he can be divorced, but he can love both of parents and not have psychological trauma.
00:08:55.180 You can be in marriage to be in toxic relationship and you can destroy your child.
00:09:00.160 Woman must to love.
00:09:01.720 It's the most important mission of women, which for God, not compare with men.
00:09:06.380 You are not a man, you are a woman.
00:09:08.780 I agree with that.
00:09:09.780 Can I follow on from what you're saying?
00:09:10.780 I agree with a lot of what you're saying in the terms of when women and men were physiologically
00:09:16.440 different, mentally were different.
00:09:18.060 Our brains are wired differently.
00:09:19.560 I think men crave and demand respect, even in marriage.
00:09:24.220 If I don't respect my husband, I can't expect my husband to love me in the way that I want
00:09:27.980 to be loved.
00:09:28.980 If I don't give him the respect, there's a book I read.
00:09:29.980 I can't remember the artist, the artist, the author's name.
00:09:33.060 It's literally called Respect and Love.
00:09:35.100 And if you don't give each to the other, what the other needs and what the other wants,
00:09:38.840 it becomes a crazy cycle.
00:09:40.660 So if I don't give my husband the respect, he's not going to love me in the way that I want.
00:09:44.300 And he will give me love, but ultimately he wants me to respect him and not a respect
00:09:48.420 that I should be submissive and, oh, yes, sir.
00:09:50.500 You know, kneeling on the floor, he says jump and I say, oh, how high?
00:09:53.180 No, he needs to give me a level of respect too.
00:09:55.260 Do you understand?
00:09:56.260 Can I say it will only work if you love and respect yourself.
00:09:59.260 A hundred percent.
00:10:00.420 Can I just carry on from what you mentioned?
00:10:03.120 When I started to live with my husband, he said to me that you need to remember that you
00:10:11.700 have a man because I'll do things that carry all the bags independently by myself to the
00:10:16.920 door and he'd say, why didn't you call me?
00:10:19.200 So it's just learning little things that I had to do to be more feminine and understand
00:10:22.960 that I am in a marriage and there are roles.
00:10:25.380 I know people don't like the terminology of gender roles, but sometimes they are in a marriage
00:10:31.400 or in a relationship where men need to feel like they are men.
00:10:35.120 They need to feel like their woman needs them to some extent.
00:10:38.540 And that's what I had to learn.
00:10:40.000 I had to learn.
00:10:40.920 I had to relearn how to be feminine because I was single for so long.
00:10:44.000 But I kind of forgot how to depend on a man.
00:10:49.520 I had that with my father, oh, daddy, please, daddy, please.
00:10:52.240 Oh, yes, yes, yes.
00:10:53.000 And he'd give me whatever I wanted.
00:10:54.280 But that's also the sense of him being needed.
00:10:57.240 My father knew that I needed him and he provided.
00:11:00.400 So it was the same in my marriage.
00:11:02.540 I need you and he provided.
00:11:04.280 But when I don't let him know that he's needed, like me getting up on a chair and trying to
00:11:08.440 change a light bulb myself, I know how to do it, but baby, can you come and please, you
00:11:13.560 know, I don't really want.
00:11:13.960 Can you?
00:11:14.960 Yeah, of course.
00:11:15.960 He'll come and do it.
00:11:16.960 So it's those little things that also add to making your man know that you do need him.
00:11:22.040 You might not need him, but you allow him to feel needed, even though you can do it.
00:11:27.080 And that's kind of the femininity and masculinity in the relationship, the yang that goes together
00:11:33.040 collectively.
00:11:34.040 Pearl, I would like to just stand up for your show.
00:11:38.880 I think they're trying to essentially say that this show is promoting misogyny, when
00:11:43.900 literally all you did was give all of these ladies a platform to speak on.
00:11:49.800 It's not Pearl's fault that these ladies speak the way they do.
00:11:56.360 For example, the lady over here is screaming misogyny, yet she doesn't even know the definition.
00:12:01.880 You know exactly what I meant by carry on.
00:12:04.720 Oh, you don't know the definition.
00:12:06.720 Yeah, just, I don't have to take a dictionary, I don't have to say to you in a dictionary English
00:12:13.520 word by word.
00:12:14.520 You know exactly what I mean.
00:12:15.520 But the reason why I'm saying.
00:12:16.520 You know, I just said to you, I basically reply to you is when you take away, where you
00:12:21.280 basically don't acknowledge, you don't acknowledge a woman, what women go through the systemic,
00:12:26.740 it's almost, it's very, that is not the meaning of misogyny.
00:12:31.580 It's a form of oppression.
00:12:32.580 It's a form of oppression towards women.
00:12:34.580 Yes it is.
00:12:35.580 Misogyny has a specific definition.
00:12:37.580 Tell me.
00:12:38.580 But you see, this is the problem.
00:12:39.580 Can we have it then?
00:12:40.580 I feel like.
00:12:41.580 No, listen, listen.
00:12:42.580 What is it then?
00:12:43.580 Tell me.
00:12:44.580 Educate me.
00:12:45.580 I could actually tell you.
00:12:46.580 I could.
00:12:47.580 Do you want to know?
00:12:48.580 I bet he could tell you too.
00:12:49.580 Even before we get to that, I need to reiterate the rules.
00:12:52.380 Because if you keep doing this, you'll be kicked off the show, unfortunately.
00:12:55.720 But the reality is, whether you like it or not, language exists for a reason.
00:13:01.620 Women keep talking about, oh, communication this, communication that women are better at
00:13:05.000 communicating than men.
00:13:06.000 Yet, in the same breath, you would say a word and misuse it and then still argue that what
00:13:13.760 you think it means is the definition when it clearly isn't.
00:13:16.760 Okay.
00:13:17.760 And the reason why I can confidently say this is because like I said before, this is episode
00:13:21.300 137, we've done this show 137 times and every single time a woman has used the word misogyny,
00:13:28.520 we have come to find out that she doesn't know the meaning.
00:13:30.740 So is it wrong for me to be able to now make an analytical, logical conclusion that you probably
00:13:36.280 don't know the meaning as well?
00:13:37.600 That's your opinion?
00:13:38.600 It's not an opinion.
00:13:39.600 That's your opinion.
00:13:40.600 I told you the examples.
00:13:41.600 This is how science is propagated.
00:13:43.600 I literally gave you examples of it, but you...
00:13:45.600 No, I asked for an example.
00:13:46.600 I asked for a definition.
00:13:47.600 Oh, Lord.
00:13:48.600 If I were to ask you what's the definition of a woman, I'm sure you probably don't even
00:13:52.820 know that as well.
00:13:53.820 I think it's too much attacking to this lady.
00:13:57.820 A hundred percent, but it's not a gender that they want to push.
00:14:00.040 It's an agenda that they want to push.
00:14:02.040 No, it's not an agenda.
00:14:03.040 I gave my opinion.
00:14:04.040 I think it's better.
00:14:05.040 He's been a gentleman.
00:14:06.040 I think it's better.
00:14:07.040 Excuse me.
00:14:08.040 I think it's better.
00:14:09.040 Wait, wait, wait.
00:14:10.040 Do you know what the crazy thing is?
00:14:11.040 You've talked more than anyone.
00:14:13.040 Like you've talked the most of this show out of all the guests.
00:14:16.040 Who are you referring to?
00:14:17.040 You.
00:14:18.040 I'm not even saying anything.
00:14:19.040 No, you were just talking the whole show and you'll say it to me pushing an agenda.
00:14:22.340 I can't make words come out of your mouth.
00:14:24.960 And the crazy thing is, I'm just so tired of this narrative that women are oppressed
00:14:28.320 in any way.
00:14:30.820 Women are more likely to get custody of their children.
00:14:34.900 Women are more likely to get child support, alimony.
00:14:38.800 Men are more likely to commit suicide as men do the hardest jobs.
00:14:41.960 Men are the majority of workplace deaths.
00:14:44.120 And yet women will live in a society that men built and cry misogyny and oppression.