JustPearlyThings - DELUSIONAL Woman ACCUSES Pearl Of MISOGYNY

00:00:00.000 Exactly. No, no, no, no. I feel that this show, this show, I'm sorry, it almost caters for misogynist viewers, literally, because I agree with Pearl to a certain extent.

00:00:11.300 My problem where me and Pearl kind of like, I don't agree.

00:00:15.540 Misogynist. That's a tough accusation.

00:00:17.500 Can I just say what you said?

00:00:19.620 I got to address the first part.

00:00:21.540 I mean, that's my opinion.

00:00:22.640 What is the definition of misogyny?

00:00:26.500 It's exactly what you're saying.

00:00:27.700 No, what is it?

00:00:28.740 No, what is it?

00:00:30.000 I have to give you a definition.

00:00:31.140 I'm saying, yes, you do.

00:00:32.200 It's your message.

00:00:33.600 No, just let you be out to say she was married. 0.58

00:00:35.560 Okay, if I was, no, no, no, no.

00:00:37.780 If you're going to accuse me, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:00:40.780 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I'll tell you why.

00:00:44.640 Okay, thank you, thank you.

00:00:46.320 What is the definition of misogyny?

00:00:48.160 Jesus.

00:00:48.920 I just, if I'm going to call someone something, I know.

00:00:51.920 Okay, right.

00:00:53.340 The fact that you just base it, everything that you base and all the information that you base, it caters,

00:00:58.360 literally, for men's egos, right?

00:01:02.120 You basically eradicate any sort of work that women, okay, this is. 1.00

00:01:06.740 Just answer the question.

00:01:07.500 I don't have to tell you, I don't have to define, you know.

00:01:13.040 You can't call someone a word.

00:01:14.400 No, you have an agenda.

00:01:15.720 There is an agenda.

00:01:16.600 There's a narrative being played.

00:01:17.960 In society, in society, there are women who are toxic and there are women that play a field 1.00

00:01:23.200 that basically push this agenda. 0.86

00:01:26.660 It's like basically toxic masculinity.

00:01:27.840 That's what good I find.

00:01:28.520 It's the same thing as toxic femininity. 1.00

00:01:30.560 It's just, you're basically the opposite to what we basically do.

00:01:33.980 That's good I find.

00:01:34.420 That's good I find.

00:01:34.440 That's good I find.

00:01:34.640 That's good I find.

00:01:34.660 That's good I find.

00:01:34.840 Let me explain something.

00:01:35.660 The reason why we're asking you to define misogyny is not because we're trying to pick

00:01:39.860 on you.

00:01:40.220 There's a reason.

00:01:41.320 We've done this show.

00:01:42.400 If you can look at the thumbnail.

00:01:43.860 But that's just my opinion though.

00:01:44.940 Just one second.

00:01:45.680 You just keep cutting me off.

00:01:46.960 We've done this show.

00:01:47.820 This is episode 137, right?

00:01:49.800 Yeah.

00:01:50.280 And every single time a woman, think about it. 0.81

00:01:54.320 How many women are here? 1.00

00:01:55.480 So we've done 137 episodes.

00:01:57.380 That should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women in this room. 1.00

00:02:01.400 So every time a woman has used the word misogyny, she has not known the meaning of the word. 0.99

00:02:06.340 I just told you.

00:02:07.540 No, you haven't told us the meaning.

00:02:09.020 What's the meaning?

00:02:09.700 Oh my lord.

00:02:10.960 Oh my lord.

00:02:11.500 You basically, I just basically told you, your show is almost like the opposite to feminism. 1.00

00:02:17.020 No, what is the definition of misogyny?

00:02:19.160 What is the definition of misogyny?

00:02:21.300 It's sexist.

00:02:22.240 It's basically sexist.

00:02:23.560 It's a sex. 0.54

00:02:24.360 You're basically.

00:02:24.860 Okay, what is sexist?

00:02:25.500 Those are all adjectives.

00:02:26.760 These are all adjectives.

00:02:27.880 What have the meaning?

00:02:28.900 Listen, I'm not going, because I feel, I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of do.

00:02:33.020 You know exactly what I mean.

00:02:33.840 No, you don't know what we're trying to do.

00:02:34.720 You push an agenda with a specific type of women and you generalize all women in that sense.

00:02:40.280 You take away, literally, the society, what do you call it?

00:02:44.400 The, oh my gosh.

00:02:45.680 The systemic oppression of women.

00:02:48.820 Okay, but are you going to answer the question?

00:02:49.480 You disregard the systemic oppression of women.

00:02:52.120 You do.

00:02:52.560 Are you going to answer the question?

00:02:53.960 I'm just, I'm trying to, but you don't want to hear it.

00:02:56.500 Okay, okay.

00:02:57.140 Oh my god.

00:02:57.960 I have my meaning.

00:02:58.380 I have your opinion and that's all.

00:03:00.540 But here's being respectful.

00:03:01.140 Can I ask you?

00:03:01.860 Can I ask you?

00:03:02.040 I am.

00:03:02.540 I don't have anything.

00:03:03.380 Can you please, can you kindly tell us the definition of the research?

00:03:05.800 I already told you.

00:03:06.720 No, you haven't.

00:03:07.640 You really haven't.

00:03:08.300 Okay, then I didn't.

00:03:09.680 Okay, then I didn't.

00:03:11.100 Then please kindly don't use the word again.

00:03:12.440 I mean, that's my opinion, but we move.

00:03:14.940 But what, what, what is untrue?

00:03:17.100 And this is the thing.

00:03:17.980 I'll tell you why.

00:03:18.880 Like, because a lot of, you know, people think that I'm super hard on women, right?

00:03:23.320 And my thing is, historically, women are just worse than we've ever been from a historical 1.00

00:03:29.280 point of view. 0.98

00:03:30.040 It's unprecedented.

00:03:31.520 You know what percent of women are virgins on their wedding days? 1.00

00:03:34.460 And some would say that what you're saying now is misogynistic.

00:03:37.340 This isn't misogynistic.

00:03:38.820 I'm about to give you stats.

00:03:40.000 I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats.

00:03:42.160 For where?

00:03:42.460 So, so, so, I mean, you could Google them pretty easy.

00:03:45.720 It's pretty simple.

00:03:46.540 It's pretty, you could Google.

00:03:48.320 One, one is, one is, I mean, this is what the left will try to do to like discredit you

00:03:52.520 is they, they just question every step, but it's, you can Google them pretty easy.

00:03:57.880 Okay.

00:03:58.180 So what percent of women, what percent of women do you think are virgins on their wedding 1.00

00:04:02.120 day?

00:04:02.780 Okay.

00:04:03.180 So if a woman was to be a virgin, then the man would have to be a virgin. 0.91

00:04:07.280 And the man cannot be a virgin, so the woman would not be a virgin. 0.83

00:04:10.500 Just, we're going to, we're going to go, we're going to go into this later, but, but,

00:04:13.760 but I want to say what percent of women are virgins on their wedding day? 0.92

00:04:17.320 What's that?

00:04:17.860 In the West, in the West, can we, can we answer the question?

00:04:23.100 Probably about 25%.

00:04:24.440 25%.

00:04:25.240 Okay.

00:04:25.740 Who, who thinks it's higher than 25?

00:04:27.260 I'm not even going to answer because I genuinely don't know.

00:04:28.480 Okay.

00:04:28.740 Okay.

00:04:29.000 Okay.

00:04:29.500 It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, all right.

00:04:31.320 All right.

00:04:32.440 To be honest.

00:04:32.820 It's 5%.

00:04:34.040 What percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life? 0.82

00:04:38.920 90%.

00:04:40.120 But what are the reasons why women are not on birth control? 0.92

00:04:42.880 Wait, wait, wait.

00:04:43.260 I've been on birth control before, but it wasn't because of sex.

00:04:45.180 Okay.

00:04:45.320 Okay.

00:04:45.420 Okay.

00:04:45.680 Fine.

00:04:46.080 That, which is all good and well until we start looking at the body count statistics, where the,

00:04:51.300 where after a woman has had five partners, her chance of a happy marriage drops to 20%. 0.56

00:04:56.880 Okay.

00:04:58.000 So, and the average woman has slept with more than five men.

00:05:01.120 Okay.

00:05:01.560 Which remember, historically, a hundred years ago, 85% of women were virgins on their wedding nights.

00:05:07.120 Now, what else does the men, men get out of marriage? 0.87

00:05:09.740 They get loyalty, but not today because half of women leave. 0.99

00:05:14.360 Then, then we start to go into weight where women are overweight. 1.00

00:05:18.280 The average woman is five, three, 170 pounds. 1.00

00:05:20.980 These are just numbers.

00:05:22.120 And yet we scream misogyny at me, but these are, these are just numbers.

00:05:26.960 Now I'm, and it's like, I can't say numbers without being called sexist when they are true. 0.94

00:05:33.820 Can I tell you something?

00:05:35.120 I'm going to, I'm going to let you go.

00:05:36.460 I'm going to let you go.

00:05:37.120 Firstly, I'm family therapist and I make big research and I have a lot of numbers.

00:05:40.740 80% of women decide to divorce.

00:05:43.500 You're totally right.

00:05:44.240 And you're totally right that women choose, but women choose from men who choose her and 0.79

00:05:49.720 have, wait, sorry that she, I didn't, I didn't, women choose, but first, for example, if you 0.81

00:05:54.000 are one woman, you have five men, uh, from these five men, you choose men who choose you.

00:05:59.000 One man make you signal, I like you, I smile you, you go and you choose from men who choose

00:06:04.580 you.

00:06:05.580 If men don't like you, if not has sex attraction, you cannot do anything.

00:06:10.580 If men need to go up and say, I want this woman. 0.99

00:06:14.620 And then you choose from men who choose you.

00:06:16.820 First.

00:06:17.820 Second, you're totally right.

00:06:18.820 We are women. 0.94

00:06:19.820 I make my book about entrepreneur and it's absolutely in numbers.

00:06:24.620 We are women. 0.94

00:06:25.620 We are not so smart like men.

00:06:27.080 We cannot make many things which make men never ever because our brain is different.

00:06:32.940 It's different.

00:06:33.940 We cannot, we cannot run so fast.

00:06:35.220 We cannot make some big numbers.

00:06:37.460 We are totally right that the business, which make we are women, it's psychologist, coaching 1.00

00:06:42.060 beauty.

00:06:43.060 It's cannot be male men. 0.99

00:06:44.520 And if a woman forgot that she is a woman, she become to be sick. 1.00

00:06:49.140 Every day I work with women who cannot be pregnancy.

00:06:51.420 Today is the biggest problem in our society, in UK.

00:06:54.980 And what they are do, they become to be men.

00:06:57.440 She have a lot of cortisol. 1.00

00:06:58.680 She has opinion about it.

00:06:59.680 It messes up your hormones.

00:07:00.680 She wants to be a feminist. 1.00

00:07:02.220 And after she came to me, like family therapist, Natalia, I want to be pregnancy. 0.91

00:07:05.820 What you do 40 years? 0.97

00:07:07.420 You hate men. 0.99

00:07:08.420 You hate your father. 1.00

00:07:09.420 You try to show that you have big balls. 1.00

00:07:12.280 And after you say, I want to be a woman. 1.00

00:07:14.660 What you did before.

00:07:16.080 You need first to be a woman and woman, it's totally different quality, quality which you 1.00

00:07:20.100 need to survive as a man.

00:07:22.460 You need to be strong.

00:07:23.460 And we know usually what women today tell to me, Natalia, I want to find a man which 0.99

00:07:28.340 very kind, very rich, very good looking, very sexy, love me like a crazy. 0.55

00:07:33.780 He's very crazy to accept my child.

00:07:36.580 He wants to take care about him, about my child. 0.79

00:07:39.360 He wants to marry me.

00:07:40.360 And from some reason, he's single in 40 years old.

00:07:44.720 And of course, she couldn't find it after she's very disappointed.

00:07:48.960 And you are right that woman choose. 0.62

00:07:50.560 But probably that woman has too high acceptation. 1.00

00:07:53.900 She wants to be a princess. 0.78

00:07:55.420 She doesn't want to change herself, to go to fitness, to take care about how she looks, 0.99

00:07:59.680 how she speaks with men, how she listens to men, because the woman must listen, not to 1.00

00:08:04.680 speak.

00:08:05.680 You need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen and to speak exactly admiring.

00:08:11.740 Admire your man, admire to him, admire him.

00:08:14.460 And about single and separation has a big difference.

00:08:16.840 You can be separated with your partner, but he continues to help you.

00:08:21.380 He continues to help your child.

00:08:22.860 He continues to take care about you.

00:08:24.280 He continues to be your best friend and to call you every time when you need him.

00:08:28.560 If you make a normal relationship, you must do divorce only when you have financial dependence,

00:08:34.360 loyal independence, your emotional stability.

00:08:37.280 You love yourself, you love your partner, but you can develop because you say, I want something

00:08:42.820 else.

00:08:43.820 And you continue to say your child, your father is the best man in the world and your child,

00:08:47.900 if he can be divorced, but he can love both of parents and not have psychological trauma.

00:08:55.180 You can be in marriage to be in toxic relationship and you can destroy your child.

00:09:00.160 Woman must to love.

00:09:01.720 It's the most important mission of women, which for God, not compare with men. 0.73

00:09:06.380 You are not a man, you are a woman. 0.99

00:09:08.780 I agree with that.

00:09:09.780 Can I follow on from what you're saying?

00:09:10.780 I agree with a lot of what you're saying in the terms of when women and men were physiologically

00:09:16.440 different, mentally were different.

00:09:18.060 Our brains are wired differently.

00:09:19.560 I think men crave and demand respect, even in marriage.

00:09:24.220 If I don't respect my husband, I can't expect my husband to love me in the way that I want

00:09:27.980 to be loved.

00:09:28.980 If I don't give him the respect, there's a book I read.

00:09:29.980 I can't remember the artist, the artist, the author's name.

00:09:33.060 It's literally called Respect and Love.

00:09:35.100 And if you don't give each to the other, what the other needs and what the other wants,

00:09:38.840 it becomes a crazy cycle.

00:09:40.660 So if I don't give my husband the respect, he's not going to love me in the way that I want.

00:09:44.300 And he will give me love, but ultimately he wants me to respect him and not a respect

00:09:48.420 that I should be submissive and, oh, yes, sir.

00:09:50.500 You know, kneeling on the floor, he says jump and I say, oh, how high?

00:09:53.180 No, he needs to give me a level of respect too.

00:09:55.260 Do you understand?

00:09:56.260 Can I say it will only work if you love and respect yourself.

00:09:59.260 A hundred percent.

00:10:00.420 Can I just carry on from what you mentioned?

00:10:03.120 When I started to live with my husband, he said to me that you need to remember that you

00:10:11.700 have a man because I'll do things that carry all the bags independently by myself to the

00:10:16.920 door and he'd say, why didn't you call me?

00:10:19.200 So it's just learning little things that I had to do to be more feminine and understand

00:10:22.960 that I am in a marriage and there are roles.

00:10:25.380 I know people don't like the terminology of gender roles, but sometimes they are in a marriage

00:10:31.400 or in a relationship where men need to feel like they are men.

00:10:35.120 They need to feel like their woman needs them to some extent. 0.94

00:10:38.540 And that's what I had to learn.

00:10:40.000 I had to learn.

00:10:40.920 I had to relearn how to be feminine because I was single for so long.

00:10:44.000 But I kind of forgot how to depend on a man.

00:10:49.520 I had that with my father, oh, daddy, please, daddy, please.

00:10:52.240 Oh, yes, yes, yes.

00:10:53.000 And he'd give me whatever I wanted.

00:10:54.280 But that's also the sense of him being needed.

00:10:57.240 My father knew that I needed him and he provided.

00:11:00.400 So it was the same in my marriage.

00:11:02.540 I need you and he provided.

00:11:04.280 But when I don't let him know that he's needed, like me getting up on a chair and trying to

00:11:08.440 change a light bulb myself, I know how to do it, but baby, can you come and please, you

00:11:13.560 know, I don't really want.

00:11:13.960 Can you?

00:11:14.960 Yeah, of course.

00:11:15.960 He'll come and do it.

00:11:16.960 So it's those little things that also add to making your man know that you do need him.

00:11:22.040 You might not need him, but you allow him to feel needed, even though you can do it.

00:11:27.080 And that's kind of the femininity and masculinity in the relationship, the yang that goes together

00:11:33.040 collectively.

00:11:34.040 Pearl, I would like to just stand up for your show.

00:11:38.880 I think they're trying to essentially say that this show is promoting misogyny, when

00:11:43.900 literally all you did was give all of these ladies a platform to speak on. 0.54

00:11:49.800 It's not Pearl's fault that these ladies speak the way they do.

00:11:56.360 For example, the lady over here is screaming misogyny, yet she doesn't even know the definition. 1.00

00:12:01.880 You know exactly what I meant by carry on.

00:12:04.720 Oh, you don't know the definition.

00:12:06.720 Yeah, just, I don't have to take a dictionary, I don't have to say to you in a dictionary English

00:12:13.520 word by word.

00:12:14.520 You know exactly what I mean.

00:12:15.520 But the reason why I'm saying.

00:12:16.520 You know, I just said to you, I basically reply to you is when you take away, where you

00:12:21.280 basically don't acknowledge, you don't acknowledge a woman, what women go through the systemic,

00:12:26.740 it's almost, it's very, that is not the meaning of misogyny.

00:12:31.580 It's a form of oppression.

00:12:32.580 It's a form of oppression towards women. 1.00

00:12:34.580 Yes it is.

00:12:35.580 Misogyny has a specific definition.

00:12:37.580 Tell me.

00:12:38.580 But you see, this is the problem.

00:12:39.580 Can we have it then?

00:12:40.580 I feel like.

00:12:41.580 No, listen, listen.

00:12:42.580 What is it then?

00:12:43.580 Tell me.

00:12:44.580 Educate me.

00:12:45.580 I could actually tell you.

00:12:46.580 I could.

00:12:47.580 Do you want to know?

00:12:48.580 I bet he could tell you too.

00:12:49.580 Even before we get to that, I need to reiterate the rules.

00:12:52.380 Because if you keep doing this, you'll be kicked off the show, unfortunately.

00:12:55.720 But the reality is, whether you like it or not, language exists for a reason.

00:13:01.620 Women keep talking about, oh, communication this, communication that women are better at 1.00

00:13:05.000 communicating than men.

00:13:06.000 Yet, in the same breath, you would say a word and misuse it and then still argue that what

00:13:13.760 you think it means is the definition when it clearly isn't.

00:13:16.760 Okay.

00:13:17.760 And the reason why I can confidently say this is because like I said before, this is episode

00:13:21.300 137, we've done this show 137 times and every single time a woman has used the word misogyny, 1.00

00:13:28.520 we have come to find out that she doesn't know the meaning.

00:13:30.740 So is it wrong for me to be able to now make an analytical, logical conclusion that you probably

00:13:36.280 don't know the meaning as well?

00:13:37.600 That's your opinion?

00:13:38.600 It's not an opinion.

00:13:39.600 That's your opinion.

00:13:40.600 I told you the examples.

00:13:41.600 This is how science is propagated.

00:13:43.600 I literally gave you examples of it, but you...

00:13:45.600 No, I asked for an example.

00:13:46.600 I asked for a definition.

00:13:47.600 Oh, Lord.

00:13:48.600 If I were to ask you what's the definition of a woman, I'm sure you probably don't even 1.00

00:13:52.820 know that as well.

00:13:53.820 I think it's too much attacking to this lady. 1.00

00:13:57.820 A hundred percent, but it's not a gender that they want to push. 1.00

00:14:00.040 It's an agenda that they want to push.

00:14:02.040 No, it's not an agenda.

00:14:03.040 I gave my opinion.

00:14:04.040 I think it's better.

00:14:05.040 He's been a gentleman.

00:14:06.040 I think it's better.

00:14:07.040 Excuse me.

00:14:08.040 I think it's better.

00:14:09.040 Wait, wait, wait.

00:14:10.040 Do you know what the crazy thing is?

00:14:11.040 You've talked more than anyone.

00:14:13.040 Like you've talked the most of this show out of all the guests.

00:14:16.040 Who are you referring to?

00:14:17.040 You.

00:14:18.040 I'm not even saying anything.

00:14:19.040 No, you were just talking the whole show and you'll say it to me pushing an agenda.

00:14:22.340 I can't make words come out of your mouth.

00:14:24.960 And the crazy thing is, I'm just so tired of this narrative that women are oppressed 0.99

00:14:28.320 in any way.

00:14:30.820 Women are more likely to get custody of their children. 0.99

00:14:34.900 Women are more likely to get child support, alimony. 1.00

00:14:38.800 Men are more likely to commit suicide as men do the hardest jobs.

00:14:41.960 Men are the majority of workplace deaths. 0.55

00:14:44.120 And yet women will live in a society that men built and cry misogyny and oppression. 1.00

JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023

DELUSIONAL Woman ACCUSES Pearl Of MISOGYNY

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