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00:01:06.440 Anyways, so today, so do name, age, relationship status, and a fun fact, starting here, go around,

00:01:14.700 and then second row.

00:01:16.180 My name is Kelly LaRock.

00:01:18.480 I am timeless.

00:01:19.360 I love DIY, and what's the last thing?

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00:01:27.840 That was my fun fact.

00:01:29.240 Do you do relationship status?

00:01:30.560 Oh, I'm super single and celibate.

00:01:35.000 Go ahead.

00:01:35.660 I'm Rinnia.

00:01:37.400 I am 34, and I am single.

00:01:42.520 Fun fact.

00:01:43.320 My first language is Dutch.

00:01:45.160 Oh, wow.

00:01:45.720 That's pretty fun.

00:01:46.980 I'm Sri Leon.

00:01:48.500 I'm 37.

00:01:50.020 I'm single, and really, I am very spiritual.

00:01:54.540 Like, I will not walk over, cracked.

00:02:00.200 Is that superstitious?

00:02:01.820 Superstitious.

00:02:03.740 Superstitious, interesting.

00:02:04.980 Superstitious.

00:02:05.600 Okay, wow.

00:02:07.380 Potato, potato.

00:02:08.380 You said spiritual.

00:02:11.200 I didn't realize the bar for spiritualism was not walking on your ass.

00:02:17.600 Go ahead.

00:02:19.480 I'm Marsha.

00:02:21.580 I'm 33.

00:02:22.840 My relationship status is private, and interesting fact is I have a song out now called Return to Sendar by Nua with my sister.

00:02:36.900 Me.

00:02:37.300 Stream it with sister Mel.

00:02:39.820 Are you guys twins?

00:02:41.540 Sisters.

00:02:42.140 Okay.

00:02:42.580 I was like, you guys look exactly like, wow.

00:02:44.900 Pretty much, pretty much like twins.

00:02:46.880 But yeah, that's the interesting fact of stream that, Return to Sendar, Nua, Nua.

00:02:50.560 Anyway, okay, go ahead.

00:02:53.580 I'm Tan.

00:02:54.680 I'm 37.

00:02:57.080 I'm in a relationship.

00:02:59.940 What else is it?

00:03:01.340 Name, age, relationship status, and fun fact.

00:03:04.000 Fun fact is I write scripts, and I'm a radio host and a podcast host and events coordinator.

00:03:14.440 All right, awesome.

00:03:15.920 Hi, I'm Jar Jar.

00:03:17.380 I'm 30.

00:03:18.620 I'm super single.

00:03:20.380 And fun fact, I'm a singer, producer, product manager who is an advocate of purple.

00:03:28.600 Purple?

00:03:29.360 Yeah.

00:03:29.880 Why purple?

00:03:30.600 Why not blue?

00:03:31.140 Um, to be honest, I first dyed my hair purple.

00:03:34.220 I know it's black now, but we'll get into that.

00:03:36.400 It's purple at the bottom.

00:03:37.600 I know, but this is like, I'm having like an identity crisis because there's so much black

00:03:41.680 here.

00:03:42.140 But anyways, I only dyed my hair because I was like, oh my God, I'm 18 now.

00:03:45.460 And then it just stuck forever.

00:03:46.480 And now everything has to be purple.

00:03:48.800 Okay.

00:03:49.440 It's nice.

00:03:49.880 I like purple.

00:03:50.700 Go ahead.

00:03:52.220 Hi, I'm Mel.

00:03:53.140 I'm 32.

00:03:53.700 Um, I'm single.

00:03:56.280 Fun fact is, uh, my sister and I are the stylist and creative directors for all of our videos,

00:04:02.700 our music videos.

00:04:05.140 Screw, screw.

00:04:06.540 Fun.

00:04:07.420 My name is Ola and I am 33 years old.

00:04:10.240 I am in a relationship.

00:04:11.720 And, um, fun fact, I have a podcast called The Real Happy Hour Podcast where I reveal

00:04:15.840 films and TV shows.

00:04:16.960 I also have a radio show called, um, Vibe Central.

00:04:19.640 Oh, cool.

00:04:20.160 Thank you.

00:04:21.420 Hi, I'm Miss Ling.

00:04:23.100 I am 32.

00:04:24.860 Fun fact, I am a singer, songwriter, hairdresser, barber, educator, and, um, I once picked up

00:04:32.740 50 cents from the airport.

00:04:34.000 Jeez.

00:04:34.500 Oh.

00:04:35.780 Is that when you was a taxi driver?

00:04:37.580 What do you say?

00:04:39.140 No, darling.

00:04:39.900 Are you guys, are you guys?

00:04:40.820 My son was the chauffeur.

00:04:42.100 Oh, I was like, are you?

00:04:42.560 And I was the assistant.

00:04:43.600 When you say picked up, do you mean like?

00:04:44.960 I literally met him at the gate and said, hello, hi, I'm May.

00:04:48.300 Come with me.

00:04:48.920 Well, tell him, you know, a show here.

00:04:51.820 You know what I mean?

00:04:52.360 Next time.

00:04:52.660 This was years ago.

00:04:53.300 Yeah.

00:04:55.380 Go ahead.

00:04:56.460 Troy Francis.

00:04:57.460 I'm 49 years old.

00:04:59.940 I am incredibly single and I'm a dating coach and content creator.

00:05:05.540 And a fun fact about me is I'm still a bit jet lagged because I was just in Miami, Mexico

00:05:09.560 City, Bogota, Colombia, and then New York City.

00:05:11.860 So I got back the other day.

00:05:13.560 No one's going to book you.

00:05:15.420 Why?

00:05:15.780 Because you're single and you're a dating coach.

00:05:17.140 No, but no, I get criticism.

00:05:18.600 I get, no, no, no, that's a good point.

00:05:19.800 I get criticism from both sides because you'll get criticism from people saying, oh, well,

00:05:23.580 Troy hasn't got a girlfriend, so therefore he doesn't know what he's talking about.

00:05:26.200 And then when you do have a girlfriend, people will say, oh, he doesn't know what he's talking

00:05:28.760 about because he's not in the trenches.

00:05:29.800 He's not dealing with those women because he's already like married off.

00:05:33.220 It's like.

00:05:33.680 So either way.

00:05:34.920 I disagree.

00:05:35.320 Either way, you're going to get haters.

00:05:36.980 You know what I'm saying?

00:05:37.440 It's like going to a hairdresser and her hair looks a hot mess.

00:05:39.100 But what if I'm catering to people who don't want a relationship?

00:05:43.460 They just want to have a bit of the old, you know.

00:05:45.720 You said you're a dating coach.

00:05:47.040 Yeah, dating, but that covers a multitude of sins.

00:05:49.720 There's no end game then.

00:05:51.040 There's no end game.

00:05:51.580 Does that have to be?

00:05:52.420 Then you're it.

00:05:52.800 What's the end game for any of us?

00:05:54.180 Well, yeah, to be fair, if you look at the numbers, the future's bleak for everybody.

00:05:58.760 Yeah, yeah, most of us will die alone.

00:06:05.360 Anyways, anyway, so speaking of that, so today's topic, we, I wanted to talk about, so I saw

00:06:13.700 this study, right, that talked about what percent of women do you think get to be housewives?

00:06:19.420 Don't, don't cheat and look.

00:06:22.120 What percent do you think?

00:06:23.840 I'm going to say 60.

00:06:25.100 60 percent?

00:06:26.020 Yeah.

00:06:27.220 I'm going to say 30.

00:06:28.040 30 percent.

00:06:29.280 40.

00:06:30.020 Okay.

00:06:30.780 What do you mean, specify housewives as in married?

00:06:35.020 They get to stay home with their children.

00:06:37.560 Oh, can I change it?

00:06:39.260 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

00:06:40.220 30.

00:06:40.820 30 percent?

00:06:41.460 50.

00:06:42.100 50 percent of women.

00:06:46.040 40, I said.

00:06:46.880 40?

00:06:47.260 Okay, go ahead.

00:06:49.840 35.

00:06:50.860 Okay, 35.

00:06:51.940 40.

00:06:52.760 Okay.

00:06:53.420 38.

00:06:54.140 38.

00:06:54.840 27.

00:06:55.400 So the question is how, what percent of women want to be housewives?

00:07:00.180 No, get to be.

00:07:00.980 Get to be.

00:07:01.580 Get to be.

00:07:02.800 That means their man can afford for them to be a housewife.

00:07:05.680 Maybe 30 percent.

00:07:06.660 30 percent?

00:07:07.440 I'd say 22.

00:07:09.100 22 percent, Troy?

00:07:10.460 20 percent.

00:07:11.740 It's like 1 percent.

00:07:12.900 So I hate to burst your bubble, everybody.

00:07:17.060 9.2 percent of women in the UK.

00:07:19.180 Yeah, I'm not surprised.

00:07:19.680 In the UK.

00:07:20.860 Oh, I thought we were like including, you know, Africa.

00:07:25.440 No, no.

00:07:26.260 This is Western stuff.

00:07:29.040 If you said UK, I definitely would have said UK.

00:07:30.760 So I thought to myself, and I guess we'd have to, you know, agree on this first.

00:07:37.200 I would say that the best position to be in as a woman is to be married to someone that

00:07:42.780 you want to be with the rest of your life and able to stay home with the kids if you so

00:07:47.860 want to.

00:07:48.400 Would you agree?

00:07:49.300 If you so want to, yeah.

00:07:50.840 Okay, so let's bring it up.

00:07:51.400 If you want to, yes.

00:07:52.200 Yeah, so this is, so it kind of question, it brought me to the question, who qualifies

00:07:57.540 to be a housewife?

00:07:59.860 Like if you were going to apply for a job, let's say like the men, only 10 percent of

00:08:04.040 men get a housewife, they take a housewife, and they basically say, ladies, ladies, ladies,

00:08:09.740 here's the application.

00:08:11.600 What should it say on it?

00:08:13.340 So I have a PowerPoint here.

00:08:16.500 Do you deserve to be a housewife?

00:08:18.280 So wait, and then number two, go to the second slide, I thought it would be fun to put what

00:08:25.560 you guys think housewife, like what you think you should bring to the table in order to be

00:08:29.620 a housewife.

00:08:30.700 And being able to sew.

00:08:33.600 I would do one each.

00:08:35.100 Yeah, one each.

00:08:35.820 One each, yeah.

00:08:36.340 Okay, you should.

00:08:37.400 That's a very nice, old-fashioned, because back in the day, you couldn't buy clothes.

00:08:43.040 Yeah, my grandmother used to sew.

00:08:43.420 So your wife had to be able to make clothes.

00:08:44.560 Okay, I just want to try this.

00:08:45.980 Show of hands, who can sew?

00:08:47.360 All right, all right.

00:08:49.720 You can really sew your own clothes?

00:08:52.180 Yeah, I make my own clothes.

00:08:53.240 I can customize.

00:08:54.440 Oh, I thought you meant to fix the whole.

00:08:56.040 I'm actually impressed.

00:08:57.160 Okay, go ahead.

00:09:01.800 A housewife.

00:09:02.860 You've already failed.

00:09:04.820 What do you mean?

00:09:06.820 Just be human.

00:09:07.860 What would you mean?

00:09:09.060 Okay, okay, okay.

00:09:10.700 Just have a post.

00:09:11.560 So women are human, women are human, but only 10% get to do it.

00:09:18.680 So there's something special about those 10%, right?

00:09:22.260 Yeah.

00:09:22.640 There's got to be something different about them.

00:09:24.280 They get it.

00:09:25.920 Okay, so cook.

00:09:26.780 Okay, this is going to be very controversial.

00:09:27.860 How many meals?

00:09:28.860 Okay, go ahead.

00:09:29.340 So I'd say, and don't crucify me for this.

00:09:34.400 I'm going to say be a female.

00:09:38.400 Female.

00:09:39.440 You mean?

00:09:40.400 Be a female.

00:09:41.260 Just woman.

00:09:41.900 You mean anatomically?

00:09:43.600 Anatomically.

00:09:44.240 You mean it's this gendered woman?

00:09:45.700 Excuse me?

00:09:46.560 Yeah.

00:09:46.960 But why would anyone crucify you?

00:09:50.480 I would think so.

00:09:52.220 We said housewife, not househusband.

00:09:55.200 So all right.

00:09:55.780 All right.

00:09:56.140 What about you?

00:09:56.940 I would say to be a good housewife, you'd have to be very good in bed to keep your husband.

00:10:03.060 All right.

00:10:03.540 So good at sex.

00:10:05.500 Good at sex.

00:10:08.260 I think good with routine and structure.

00:10:11.960 So if they're doing like a hard nine to five, whatever, when they come back, they know they've

00:10:18.300 got all the clothes are clean.

00:10:20.100 They've got the meals.

00:10:22.480 Nice massage.

00:10:23.620 Structure.

00:10:24.440 All right.

00:10:24.760 Clothes.

00:10:24.960 Structure.

00:10:26.140 All right.

00:10:26.480 Clothes, meals, massage, basically structure.

00:10:31.240 You're taking everyone's alters in one.

00:10:33.240 Sorry.

00:10:34.980 She did well in school.

00:10:37.100 She's an overachiever.

00:10:39.620 Go ahead.

00:10:40.180 I would say to be very supported.

00:10:42.580 Supporting.

00:10:44.400 Supportive.

00:10:45.020 Okay.

00:10:46.180 Supportive.

00:10:47.160 I'm putting them in the Google Doc.

00:10:48.680 Just, you know.

00:10:50.000 Go ahead.

00:10:50.960 I would say mine is to like be caring.

00:10:53.280 Like, I don't know if you actually need to be the one doing all the sewing, cooking, cleaning,

00:10:57.000 and massaging, but you need to care that somebody's taking care of it.

00:11:00.420 Okay.

00:11:02.820 That's actually good.

00:11:04.000 The nanny.

00:11:05.920 Okay.

00:11:06.420 Wait.

00:11:06.620 Let me get this straight.

00:11:07.500 10% of women qualify for this.

00:11:11.880 And they don't need to cook or clean.

00:11:13.620 They just need to care.

00:11:14.700 Not necessarily.

00:11:15.140 Yeah, not necessarily.

00:11:16.080 Like, if there is somebody who can cook and clean, you need to make sure they're doing

00:11:18.920 it to the standard that makes everyone in the house happy, right?

00:11:21.700 Okay.

00:11:22.160 So, they manage the cookers and the cleaners.

00:11:24.500 You make sure it's done.

00:11:25.820 Okay.

00:11:26.280 Okay.

00:11:26.740 Go ahead.

00:11:26.920 Yeah.

00:11:28.120 Be their piece.

00:11:29.900 Good one.

00:11:30.680 That's a very good one.

00:11:31.620 What does that mean?

00:11:32.380 Like, can I have some specifics?

00:11:34.180 Because I hear this a lot, but I never know what it means.

00:11:37.300 Yeah.

00:11:38.120 So, he comes home and I say, I am peace.

00:11:42.000 That's me.

00:11:44.100 You meditate together.

00:11:45.560 No unnecessary headache.

00:11:47.240 Just, when they come home, they want a place to relax.

00:11:52.540 Everyone wants a place to relax and retreat.

00:11:56.120 So, yeah.

00:11:59.060 A lot of women, where have you been?

00:12:01.360 What time did you call this?

00:12:03.260 Unnecessarily.

00:12:04.000 Okay.

00:12:04.400 So, you can't argue.

00:12:06.280 No arguing.

00:12:07.140 Well, you can argue, but within reason.

00:12:10.080 Yeah.

00:12:10.540 Unnecessarily.

00:12:11.860 There's a lot of gray area in that, though.

00:12:13.660 I know, but I'm super chilled.

00:12:15.100 You come home, I'm probably too more chilled than I should be.

00:12:18.680 I would just think the piece is no arguing, right?

00:12:22.620 Not nagging.

00:12:24.000 No nagging.

00:12:24.600 Not being nagging.

00:12:25.640 Yeah, no nagging.

00:12:27.100 Okay.

00:12:28.140 What do you think?

00:12:29.040 A loyal woman deserves to be a housewife.

00:12:31.840 Oh, you got to be loyal?

00:12:33.300 Yeah, you have to.

00:12:34.080 Damn.

00:12:34.400 Damn.

00:12:35.500 That's a prerequisite.

00:12:37.500 I was definitely almost a housewife until just now.

00:12:42.500 Okay.

00:12:42.980 What do you think?

00:12:45.180 Patient.

00:12:46.380 You need patience.

00:12:47.580 So much.

00:12:48.680 For the damn kids.

00:12:51.220 You got about three kids.

00:12:52.140 I've been waiting for someone to say, give you kids.

00:12:55.780 Oh, you don't have to do that.

00:12:56.700 You need to be patient.

00:12:57.720 Okay.

00:12:58.340 Wait, who said you?

00:12:59.100 Fatile.

00:12:59.720 You don't have to.

00:13:00.840 Fatile.

00:13:01.240 I don't think you have to do that to be a housewife.

00:13:04.240 You have to be patient.

00:13:05.140 You don't have to give them kids.

00:13:06.740 Yeah, not everyone wants, not every man wants kids.

00:13:09.320 You can still be a housewife.

00:13:10.820 Okay.

00:13:11.100 Do men typically.

00:13:13.020 I got production cutting me off.

00:13:15.840 Yeah.

00:13:16.720 I think it was like, I want to give you a slide.

00:13:19.600 Remember, remember, remember.

00:13:21.200 You might already have kids.

00:13:22.420 This is only 10% of women get this.

00:13:24.560 So this is cream of the crop, the best of the best, right?

00:13:28.860 So I would think they would give you kids, you know?

00:13:31.800 Yeah.

00:13:31.940 I thought we just said who qualifies, not who's like the best one.

00:13:36.520 Well, the best ones qualify.

00:13:39.060 I mean, 50% of them end up not having the job at the end of the day, right?

00:13:44.160 Yeah, because they're not the best.

00:13:45.940 Because none of us go home.

00:13:46.580 But they still qualify to initially become one.

00:13:48.660 No, 91%.

00:13:50.440 No, if you qualify for things, you get them.

00:13:53.800 So if you don't get it, then you don't qualify.

00:13:55.580 91% don't get it.

00:13:56.880 But if 9% of women are becoming housewives in the UK and 50% of marriages fail, then half

00:14:03.200 of those women didn't quite do a good job, right?

00:14:05.700 No.

00:14:06.480 Well, I would say they didn't qualify for the housewife role.

00:14:11.260 So there are men that can afford housewives.

00:14:13.260 There's just a very small percentage of them.

00:14:15.420 You know, prices are going up.

00:14:17.400 You know, most people need two incomes.

00:14:19.760 So, you know, only 10% of women could qualify.

00:14:23.320 I think a big part of that percentage is women that turn a blind eye to a lot of things.

00:14:30.940 Yes.

00:14:31.060 That's quite right.

00:14:33.200 Yeah.

00:14:34.840 Yeah.

00:14:35.440 Yeah, a lot of them.

00:14:36.520 We'll take it.

00:14:37.740 We need to take all the advice from him.

00:14:39.360 He knows.

00:14:39.880 I know.

00:14:40.580 Quite right.

00:14:41.540 Can that be my answer?

00:14:43.460 Turn a blind eye.

00:14:45.120 If they turn a blind eye to a lot of stuff, then they're ideal to be a housewife.

00:14:49.420 I think the other thing that I was going to mention is they've got to not put themselves

00:14:54.520 into positions where they could potentially be unfaithful in any sort of way.

00:14:58.600 And that probably includes social media.

00:15:00.120 So not...

00:15:00.420 No friends.

00:15:01.860 Loyal.

00:15:02.400 No friends, but not hoeing yourself out on social media and all that kind of stuff.

00:15:06.100 Be respectful.

00:15:07.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:15:07.880 What is hoeing yourself out on social media?

00:15:09.680 Well, I mean...

00:15:10.580 Thirstrapping.

00:15:11.000 I got it.

00:15:11.740 I got it.

00:15:12.220 No selfies.

00:15:13.940 Yeah.

00:15:14.760 Yes.

00:15:15.540 What about Justin Bieber's wife?

00:15:18.220 She's a model.

00:15:18.980 What's happened?

00:15:19.680 Well, I mean, Pearl often brings her up as an example, because if you look at her pictures

00:15:23.300 on social media, she's married to Justin Bieber, but she's showing her, you know, there's

00:15:27.000 a lot of flesh on display there.

00:15:28.520 Is that appropriate?

00:15:29.840 Beyonce is married to Jay-Z.

00:15:31.600 Do you think Jay-Z can say, you can't wear that?

00:15:33.960 She's Beyonce.

00:15:34.960 She's twerking on screen.

00:15:35.940 I mean, Beyonce took him screwing another chick, so I think he could tell her that.

00:15:41.120 She turns a blind eye.

00:15:43.780 I mean...

00:15:44.760 Balance.

00:15:46.040 I think they both make a lot of money off of it, but I'm saying, like, I think if he

00:15:50.880 told her to do something, she'd probably listen.

00:15:53.460 If she's accepting cheating, you don't think he could tell her something?

00:15:58.500 No, he couldn't.

00:15:59.540 No, I don't think so.

00:16:00.260 Not when it comes to her art and her performance as her art.

00:16:04.080 Like, she's an artist.

00:16:04.980 And he had to accept her that way, and so did Justin Bieber have to accept his one as a

00:16:08.940 role.

00:16:09.240 Yeah.

00:16:09.820 Well, she's not quite on the level of Beyonce.

00:16:11.400 Yeah, what's her name?

00:16:13.040 She's a model in her own lane.

00:16:14.820 And she makes money from that.

00:16:16.320 Yeah.

00:16:16.840 Yeah, but it'd be better off having...

00:16:17.900 But isn't it, in an ideal world, though, just if we take the celebrities out of it, isn't

00:16:21.420 it better for the average dude?

00:16:22.940 You know, you're married to this woman, and she's all over social media.

00:16:25.560 She's got bikini shorts and all that.

00:16:27.260 You know, like Aya Napa, like 20, you know, 20, 2021 or whatever.

00:16:31.500 Isn't it...

00:16:31.920 Wouldn't it be preferable not to have that?

00:16:34.300 Do you know what?

00:16:34.740 Because it's kind of like...

00:16:35.620 I'm not coming to you with that in advice.

00:16:38.380 I'm going to go even further.

00:16:40.500 So, I think a lot of times in our culture, we always use examples of celebrities, right?

00:16:45.460 But they're actually not the real high-value men, typically.

00:16:48.540 It's a very small percentage of them.

00:16:50.240 If you look at high-value men, they're typically executives, lawyers, doctors, that sort of

00:16:56.400 thing.

00:16:56.820 And those men are not wifing up social media whores.

00:17:00.620 Not typically.

00:17:02.600 Does anyone disagree with that?

00:17:06.160 No.

00:17:07.080 Well, that's the thing.

00:17:08.320 No.

00:17:09.320 None of my friends are married to doctors.

00:17:12.020 No, a lot of my friends are doctors, and, you know, I've got, like, a variety of friends,

00:17:17.600 and they keep their private life private, they would not be going out with anyone that's

00:17:23.720 on social media.

00:17:25.040 So, that's the typical people they are, or they keep their private life very, very private.

00:17:29.800 There you go.

00:17:30.620 They're just low-key hoes, because why are they high-value?

00:17:33.820 They're just off the radar, that's all.

00:17:35.660 Like, what makes them high-value?

00:17:36.740 What, the guys?

00:17:37.540 Yeah.

00:17:39.280 What, a doctor is a low-key hoe?

00:17:41.860 No, no, no.

00:17:42.540 But I think, to be honest with you, I would rather be with someone that's not on social

00:17:46.980 media, so that you haven't got to worry about it.

00:17:49.920 But that's, I don't know, but see, yeah, because you are on a social media.

00:17:54.040 Yeah, but that's the point, is those guys aren't typically, like, the highest-value men

00:17:58.960 are not typically big on social media.

00:18:01.220 Yeah, they're not.

00:18:01.540 Like, I'm saying, we use celebrities often as an example, but even celebrities, the guys

00:18:06.060 that own the celebrities and are the people behind the scenes that make way more money

00:18:10.420 are not typically super public.

00:18:12.600 And celebrities, a lot of celebrities, like Jay-Z, blah, blah, blah, they're not really

00:18:17.160 high-value men, because they're, like, ex-roadmen, do you know what I mean?

00:18:21.840 And also, Troy, I feel like, if you're secure as a human being in yourself, and you're secure

00:18:28.120 in your relationship, those things are schematics, you shouldn't really care about things like

00:18:32.080 that.

00:18:32.420 Well, I knew someone would bring up that argument, so if you were a real man, you wouldn't

00:18:36.660 mind having...

00:18:37.120 I never said real man, I just said secure.

00:18:39.460 No, no, I do get it.

00:18:41.040 No, Kelly, I do get it.

00:18:42.220 I don't entirely disagree.

00:18:44.340 Because, look, I mean, if I date a girl and she's on social, like, I don't really care.

00:18:47.280 It's not a big deal.

00:18:48.140 All I'm saying is, in this specific example we're talking about here, if we're talking

00:18:50.960 about you're actually going to marry somebody and she's actually going to be in that 10%,

00:18:54.000 I think a lot of dudes would be like, do you know what?

00:18:56.600 I'd prefer it if she wasn't on social media or if it was very low-key.

00:18:59.800 But why?

00:19:00.660 Because it's just kind of like, why does anybody go on social media?

00:19:04.600 I mean, it may be to make money or it's to get attention.

00:19:07.440 Like, why do most women really...

00:19:09.060 Why do she follow in business?

00:19:09.740 Business.

00:19:10.340 Business.

00:19:11.280 Okay, so make money.

00:19:12.260 Women suck at business.

00:19:14.480 Yeah.

00:19:15.200 No, women, I'm sorry.

00:19:16.880 Even only...

00:19:17.560 Women can't even sell their butt for $5.99.

00:19:20.700 I swear.

00:19:21.400 They make, like, $500 a month tops.

00:19:24.120 No, I could do it for six pounds.

00:19:25.360 Look at that.

00:19:27.900 Go, Matt.

00:19:28.940 Go, Matt.

00:19:29.440 I would travel working like...

00:19:31.440 I'm saying, like, most women don't run successful businesses.

00:19:35.580 I disagree with that.

00:19:37.460 Well, the numbers do not.

00:19:39.060 I mean, I'm saying, let's take OnlyFans.

00:19:40.900 That's the easiest sell.

00:19:41.940 Like, wouldn't you agree sex to a guy?

00:19:44.180 That is the easiest thing to sell.

00:19:45.280 I don't think about showing my feet.

00:19:48.780 Like, you don't have to do sex on OnlyFans.

00:19:50.680 You can actually do other things.

00:19:52.000 But I'll speak about my feet.

00:19:53.320 Yeah, but the highest earning people on OnlyFans are managed by men, though.

00:19:56.420 Yeah.

00:19:57.260 I'm not up for putting the...

00:19:58.580 Highest manager.

00:19:59.500 ...on salary for a tenner.

00:20:01.480 Let me find it.

00:20:02.800 It's the average only...

00:20:04.160 Okay.

00:20:04.840 How much do you think the average OnlyFans model makes a month?

00:20:08.260 The average.

00:20:09.200 Five grand.

00:20:10.660 Five grand.

00:20:11.220 Okay, 500.

00:20:12.320 500.

00:20:13.060 What do you think?

00:20:13.460 That's not worth it.

00:20:14.380 What do you think?

00:20:14.980 I think around about 10,000.

00:20:16.960 What do you think?

00:20:17.300 What's average, though?

00:20:18.320 2,000.

00:20:19.520 The average OnlyFans model.

00:20:21.800 What do you think she makes?

00:20:23.880 I was talking about a corn model.

00:20:25.660 Just the average ones that ain't...

00:20:26.880 Someone that's doing corn.

00:20:28.340 No, it's OnlyFans.

00:20:30.120 No, is she doing corn on there?

00:20:31.440 No, not this.

00:20:31.940 I think the ones that ain't so popular...

00:20:34.720 You just want to say corn, don't you?

00:20:35.860 Okay, who said 200 pounds?

00:20:37.940 Me.

00:20:38.320 Because you can do it.

00:20:39.060 That's a 2,000.

00:20:39.820 2,000 pounds.

00:20:40.500 I'm around 200, 180.

00:20:44.060 A month?

00:20:45.040 Yeah, think about how many are getting like 20, 20 pounds a month.

00:20:47.900 They did one thing.

00:20:48.800 Someone said I'm 20 pounds.

00:20:50.100 What do you think?

00:20:50.580 It has to be higher.

00:20:51.680 Average.

00:20:52.360 Yeah, it's not worth it.

00:20:53.240 We're better off working in McDonald's.

00:20:54.340 The average.

00:20:55.260 I made like...

00:20:56.840 I think I made like 50 quid on TikTok in like half an hour.

00:21:00.340 Doing what?

00:21:01.180 I was just like...

00:21:02.040 Spreading your toes.

00:21:02.980 No, I was just singing and you know, you interact with people and people send you gifts.

00:21:07.180 Yeah.

00:21:07.620 Yeah.

00:21:08.000 But are you doing that on OnlyFans without having a platform behind you to begin with?

00:21:13.980 I think you just got to interact with the right people.

00:21:16.040 Okay, what do you think?

00:21:16.900 How much?

00:21:17.280 I would like to go with 2,000 minimum.

00:21:21.020 2,000?

00:21:21.580 What do you think?

00:21:22.340 500.

00:21:23.200 Okay.

00:21:23.960 I said 5K, hopefully.

00:21:26.020 No, 500.

00:21:26.780 That's why you're getting your clothes off.

00:21:27.640 150 pounds.

00:21:28.960 No!

00:21:29.180 I was going to say 180.

00:21:30.700 I was going to say 180 for the average.

00:21:32.640 Think about how many of us.

00:21:33.800 And this is my case.

00:21:36.260 And this is my case for why women are bad at business.

00:21:39.640 Yeah.

00:21:40.340 Because I look at...

00:21:41.480 And I'll tell you, I'm going to give you case number two, why most women are bad at business.

00:21:45.360 I'm going to say most.

00:21:46.200 There are exceptions, right?

00:21:48.460 But, you know, then we also look at the top earning women, and they got all their money from men.

00:21:55.280 It's typically divorce, or it's typically they get their money from their sexuality, like Kim Kardashian.

00:22:03.480 So, yeah, I think they're pretty bad, typically.

00:22:05.840 Is that a bad business, though?

00:22:07.880 Does that make us bad a business because we sell our best, like, resource?

00:22:12.100 I would say it takes significantly more skill to sell a product rather than your butthole.

00:22:17.380 I suppose it depends how you leverage it afterwards, right?

00:22:20.660 I mean, if you use that as the platform, but then you leverage it into something else afterwards.

00:22:23.980 But, I mean, how many women have done that?

00:22:25.680 Can you think of examples?

00:22:26.480 You've got to use what you've got to get what you want.

00:22:28.820 But, Bobby...

00:22:28.900 Emily Ratajkowski is, I think, is trying to transition to something else, isn't she?

00:22:33.900 But I'm not sure, will she be successful at that when she hits the wall?

00:22:37.600 They're not making money like that.

00:22:40.600 It's as a content creator, you can, like, tell who's actually making money.

00:22:44.220 Like, none of these chicks are.

00:22:45.800 Right, yeah.

00:22:46.440 It's very rare.

00:22:47.080 Yeah.

00:22:48.420 Okay, so my next question is, what disqualifies you from being a housewife?

00:22:55.680 She belongs to the streets.

00:22:59.040 I'm going to go first, OnlyFans.

00:23:01.340 I would say, once you put your butthole on the internet, I'm sorry.

00:23:05.920 Why are you always buttholes?

00:23:07.600 I mean, I just, you know, that's, you know.

00:23:11.180 But you don't have to show your butthole on OnlyFans.

00:23:13.700 You can show your toes.

00:23:16.020 Yeah, I think all of that will disqualify you from high-value men.

00:23:20.640 Yeah, definitely.

00:23:21.780 Yeah, okay, what do you think?

00:23:23.400 Name something.

00:23:26.560 Me?

00:23:26.960 Yeah, you.

00:23:27.340 We're going in the circle, yeah.

00:23:28.740 Oh, okay.

00:23:29.880 From not being a wife.

00:23:31.340 Housewife.

00:23:32.140 A housewife.

00:23:33.800 If you're just not, if you're not ready for it.

00:23:36.280 It's not your bag.

00:23:37.120 No, no, no.

00:23:37.940 I'm saying, like, what would disqualify the woman?

00:23:40.620 So, like, the woman comes to him and says,

00:23:42.840 Oh, I want to be your housewife.

00:23:44.200 I want to be your housewife.

00:23:45.540 What would disqualify her?

00:23:49.620 Onions.

00:23:50.760 Onions.

00:23:52.460 I'm joking, I'm joking, I'm joking.

00:23:53.580 High its feet.

00:23:54.220 It's true.

00:23:58.560 If she can't cook, I don't know.

00:24:00.600 I was going to say that.

00:24:01.680 But she will say that she can, she can, like, have a maid to cook for her.

00:24:06.380 She's like, who needs to cook?

00:24:08.240 She's going to have a maid.

00:24:09.440 I just saw that in your face.

00:24:10.820 I mean, is that really, like, I don't think that's, like, a deal breaker.

00:24:15.860 Yeah.

00:24:16.320 I knew it!

00:24:16.900 I just got back from Nigeria.

00:24:18.060 My mind is blown.

00:24:18.820 Because Nigerian men pay for their women.

00:24:20.960 You don't pay for anything when you're in Nigeria.

00:24:22.700 Yeah.

00:24:23.220 They're a whole different level.

00:24:24.540 She's like, yeah.

00:24:28.620 All right.

00:24:29.420 So, give me a deal breaker, then.

00:24:31.920 Give me one.

00:24:33.400 There's nothing a chick can do.

00:24:35.200 Nothing.

00:24:36.160 Okay.

00:24:36.600 If she's a corn star.

00:24:38.460 Okay.

00:24:40.900 Thank you for remembering that.

00:24:42.680 Thank you.

00:24:43.140 Go ahead.

00:24:43.760 Remember the highlight of my day.

00:24:47.240 What would disqualify you?

00:24:49.680 Bad money management?

00:24:51.440 Overspending?

00:24:52.380 Yeah.

00:24:53.000 He's going to be really rich.

00:24:54.360 No, no, no.

00:24:54.840 You can't.

00:24:55.420 But you've still got to, like, relax.

00:24:57.200 We need life next month as well.

00:25:00.720 Exactly.

00:25:02.220 Overspending?

00:25:02.800 Yeah.

00:25:03.280 Okay.

00:25:03.800 Go ahead.

00:25:04.260 If she's a cheater.

00:25:06.860 Cheater.

00:25:08.020 Or a lesbian.

00:25:10.600 Men like that.

00:25:11.640 That could be an advantage.

00:25:13.460 They like that.

00:25:14.880 I know people that love that situation.

00:25:17.360 That when they have pretensions.

00:25:19.060 I don't know.

00:25:19.560 I think there's someone for everyone.

00:25:21.400 You know, all those things, they're listed.

00:25:23.300 I think someone was still...

00:25:23.980 Well, there's only housewife positions for 10% of women.

00:25:27.400 Okay.

00:25:28.340 Infertile.

00:25:29.460 Ooh.

00:25:30.060 Ooh.

00:25:31.040 You say that?

00:25:32.160 Yeah.

00:25:32.520 Okay.

00:25:33.840 I'll go with that.

00:25:34.800 I would agree with that.

00:25:35.760 Yeah.

00:25:36.040 But unfortunately.

00:25:37.420 Yeah.

00:25:38.380 So by that logic, over a certain age, over, say...

00:25:41.940 I'm just saying infertile.

00:25:43.300 Somebody else can add that in.

00:25:45.660 What if they are infertile but hope to, like, have other treatments to have children?

00:25:50.960 Or even adults.

00:25:51.720 It depends if he's patient for that, you know?

00:25:54.320 But Pearl is saying, like, if they're, like, premenopausal.

00:25:56.740 Yeah.

00:25:57.400 Well, I'm...

00:25:58.360 Well, partially...

00:25:59.460 Somebody can say age.

00:26:00.640 Yeah.

00:26:00.880 Well, because I'm saying also...

00:26:03.140 I mean, why would a man choose that if he didn't have to?

00:26:06.220 Yeah.

00:26:06.540 Like, this is a guy with all the choice.

00:26:09.480 Okay.

00:26:10.020 So we're sticking at high-value men.

00:26:12.600 Disqualifying a housewife for a high-value man.

00:26:14.940 Okay.

00:26:15.520 Yeah.

00:26:16.020 I mean, I feel like I spoke to randomly two men recently that were saying that they went

00:26:21.640 through the whole IVF thing with their women.

00:26:24.040 I don't know how high-value they were, but they weren't low-value.

00:26:26.840 So I don't know.

00:26:27.520 I do think some men consider that.

00:26:28.880 But again, I'm sorry.

00:26:29.860 Were they successful?

00:26:30.960 I do believe they were successful.

00:26:32.360 Yeah.

00:26:32.480 You do believe or you know?

00:26:33.680 Yeah, I don't know.

00:26:34.300 That's why I said I don't know if they were high-value, but they were absolutely not low-value.

00:26:37.440 But they were, yeah.

00:26:37.980 But don't you think they probably found out that she couldn't have kids later?

00:26:43.160 Specifically, he told me his whole life story on this flight.

00:26:45.980 And it was like, no.

00:26:46.900 No, what I'm saying is like...

00:26:47.560 They knew before that she was going to have trouble having children.

00:26:50.560 They decided to get married.

00:26:51.540 He really got into it on that flight, didn't he?

00:26:53.260 Yeah.

00:26:54.520 Stop talking to me, but he was adorable.

00:26:56.860 But yeah.

00:26:58.100 Did you?

00:26:59.220 Did I what?

00:27:00.000 In it.

00:27:00.460 Mile high.

00:27:00.820 I did not anything.

00:27:10.200 Where were we in the circle?

00:27:14.360 Did you go?

00:27:15.200 Sheree?

00:27:15.560 Did you go?

00:27:15.920 I just took Miss Ling's answer for the infertility.

00:27:20.680 Because I guess for a high-value man, if he's trying to expand on his offspring, if his...

00:27:30.060 Whatever.

00:27:31.360 Expand his name.

00:27:32.200 Yeah, with his legacy.

00:27:34.320 The legacy.

00:27:35.340 You want to pass it down.

00:27:37.560 Over what age are you disqualified from being a housewife?

00:27:40.640 I don't know, because this is the thing.

00:27:42.080 I just think it's such a broad, vague question, because guys...

00:27:46.640 So in general.

00:27:47.640 In general for men.

00:27:48.020 So there's going to be exceptions to every rule, so we're just talking in general.

00:27:52.680 We're not talking about the one chick there.

00:27:55.820 But by and large, by the rule, over what age are women disqualified from being a housewife?

00:28:02.080 30.

00:28:03.160 Do you think?

00:28:03.720 No.

00:28:03.940 Yeah, I think so.

00:28:04.640 I know.

00:28:04.880 Because when you marry a man who's like 60...

00:28:06.840 She's an honest one.

00:28:09.640 And you could be in your 40s, you're still a young thing to him.

00:28:12.260 And he's the high-value guy as well, right?

00:28:14.580 I know, but you've probably already been a housewife once or twice prior to that.

00:28:17.720 And why do you want to have a baby for a 60-year-old?

00:28:19.400 But by 60, he's probably married.

00:28:22.800 Yeah, so he's like high-value by like 40, surely.

00:28:25.600 He's divorced, and he's looking for a new beans.

00:28:28.760 And then you're like...

00:28:31.000 Divorce him.

00:28:31.860 If you weren't talking to him because you're like in your 40s, and you look good for your

00:28:35.880 age, you're better than him.

00:28:37.060 And you're still fertile.

00:28:37.760 You know what percent chance you have of a man marrying over the age of 35, if he hasn't

00:28:45.640 already?

00:28:46.100 0.3%.

00:28:47.420 15% chance he marries.

00:28:51.400 And before Troy.

00:28:52.900 So there's still 15% charge?

00:28:55.140 No!

00:28:57.300 What about before then?

00:28:58.620 These statistics are based on people that are actually being honest.

00:29:04.200 Like, what are these numbers?

00:29:05.840 It's just like...

00:29:06.480 And it's in the UK as well, because globally...

00:29:08.440 Yeah, the UK and US are pretty similar.

00:29:12.260 So, I mean, sometimes there's a little differentiation.

00:29:14.780 It's what people report.

00:29:15.720 Is it not like the actual registry?

00:29:17.760 Can't they just look that stuff up?

00:29:19.220 Yeah.

00:29:19.760 Yeah.

00:29:20.280 Yeah.

00:29:20.620 So, it's pretty...

00:29:21.460 No chance of getting husbands in.

00:29:22.640 What is it below 35, though?

00:29:25.660 I don't know off the top of my head.

00:29:27.140 I just know that one.

00:29:27.180 Think you're stuck in Nigeria.

00:29:28.560 Honestly.

00:29:29.280 Girls.

00:29:30.640 You get married tomorrow in Nigeria.

00:29:32.460 Okay, what about you?

00:29:33.180 Not being attentive.

00:29:35.700 Okay, not being attentive.

00:29:37.860 Go ahead.

00:29:38.380 Super revolting personal hygiene.

00:29:40.920 Okay, smelly.

00:29:43.300 Okay.

00:29:43.640 Okay.

00:29:43.720 I'm going to go for something so obvious.

00:29:45.780 Being selfish.

00:29:47.160 Selfish.

00:29:47.700 Okay.

00:29:49.840 I'd say a liar.

00:29:52.840 Selfish.

00:29:55.300 Liar.

00:29:56.300 There's some basic ones I'm surprised no one's getting.

00:29:58.940 Let's see if you get it.

00:30:01.920 Who have got?

00:30:03.020 No pressure.

00:30:03.760 No pressure.

00:30:05.600 Sorry, I wasn't ready.

00:30:07.420 Being a hoe.

00:30:09.180 I didn't know when you were going to say that.

00:30:11.420 Did you never say that?

00:30:12.480 Oh, my gosh.

00:30:13.880 These hoes ain't no.

00:30:15.260 You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

00:30:18.460 A hoe is your favourite word.

00:30:19.720 Kanye tried.

00:30:20.960 He tried it back.

00:30:22.680 He did what he did.

00:30:24.140 Yeah.

00:30:24.560 That was deja vu.

00:30:25.600 Okay.

00:30:26.000 Okay.

00:30:26.280 I want to see.

00:30:26.820 You have to get it, Troy.

00:30:27.760 Well, I don't know.

00:30:29.820 BPD, I think.

00:30:31.100 Personality disorders.

00:30:33.220 Otherwise, you end up with Amber Heard.

00:30:34.820 Right?

00:30:34.980 Yeah, right.

00:30:35.620 Oh, my God.

00:30:36.000 So, like, addictions you could probably put under the same thing.

00:30:38.700 If she's like, well, if she's a drug addict or she's an alcoholic, that's going to be a problematic

00:30:43.000 if she's using.

00:30:43.900 Awkward.

00:30:44.260 And if she's got that kind of personality disorder.

00:30:50.780 I mean, if you could identify it before, she's definitely not in the field for being a housewife.

00:30:55.580 Okay.

00:30:56.160 So, I'm going to add some of mine.

00:30:58.700 Yes.

00:30:58.980 Enlighten us.

00:30:59.580 Yeah.

00:30:59.920 Yeah.

00:31:00.160 So, number one, you can't be fat.

00:31:02.480 Yeah.

00:31:03.080 Yeah.

00:31:03.240 That's why you will not get in the door.

00:31:08.040 What's considered fat?

00:31:10.680 Size UK 10 and over?

00:31:12.960 I would say look up your BMI, and if it's over, that's a rule of thumb.

00:31:19.200 I know there's exceptions, right?

00:31:21.740 I know there's the women that have the very shapely whatever.

00:31:25.620 Because I thought we were talking pH fat.

00:31:27.460 I was like, yeah, well, fat.

00:31:29.320 Oh, no.

00:31:29.560 But, yeah, there's none of this, like, thick, where it's like the girls pretend they're thin.

00:31:36.460 Yeah.

00:31:36.840 But they're really fat.

00:31:38.360 I think you need to ask an Nigerian producer.

00:31:40.220 Is there a producer there?

00:31:41.080 Because he, I'm sure, what's your preference?

00:31:44.100 We're all skinny to you, aren't we?

00:31:46.100 Yeah, we're all skinny to you.

00:31:48.060 The biggest girl here is like a...

00:31:50.060 I mean, I mean...

00:31:50.820 I mean, I mean...

00:31:50.880 Galatine.

00:31:51.220 Galatine.

00:31:51.300 Galatine.

00:31:51.340 Galatine.

00:31:51.740 Galatine.

00:31:51.840 Galatine.

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00:31:52.580 Galatine.

00:31:52.700 Galatine.

00:31:52.740 Galatine.

00:31:53.240 Galatine.

00:31:53.740 Galatine.

00:31:54.180 Galatine.

00:31:54.740 Galatine.

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00:32:03.180 Galatine.

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00:32:24.180 Galatine.

00:32:24.240 Galatine.

00:32:25.160 Yeah, but it's curvy.

00:32:27.820 But you think it's a small waist, though, don't you?

00:32:30.360 There's European fat, there's Jamaican fat, and there's African fat.

00:32:34.560 African fat.

00:32:36.020 They're all different things.

00:32:39.200 Men do like a bit of meat on them.

00:32:41.320 Look at it.

00:32:42.140 I'm not even disputing that men like curvy women.

00:32:45.320 I'm saying they don't like fat women.

00:32:47.020 Some men like skinny women.

00:32:48.900 My friend is really, really skinny.

00:32:50.980 And when we're out, certain men just gravitate towards her

00:32:54.300 because she's cute.

00:32:55.300 And she's like a twig.

00:32:56.800 That sounds childlike.

00:32:58.180 Some men love twiggy women.

00:32:59.700 They're like, oh, she's so heroin-looking.

00:33:01.400 Yeah, I'm into the heroin-cheeks thing.

00:33:05.520 You know, like the Kate Moss back in the day.

00:33:08.460 We call them manga.

00:33:09.440 Okay, number two that disqualifies you from being a housewife.

00:33:14.680 A child.

00:33:15.680 Another man's child.

00:33:17.540 Yeah.

00:33:18.040 Now, I know Ciara pulled it off, but do you look like Ciara?

00:33:23.580 Ciara probably not, right?

00:33:25.720 Yes, we do.

00:33:26.780 I look better than Ciara.

00:33:28.800 I don't like Miss Lynn.

00:33:29.720 You know, I can't.

00:33:30.800 Ciara.

00:33:32.680 All right.

00:33:33.320 So, I would say a child, in general, disqualifies you from being a housewife.

00:33:40.700 Not even.

00:33:42.320 It will definitely impact it somewhat.

00:33:46.320 I don't think that a guy will completely dismiss you for it,

00:33:50.060 but it will impact it somewhat because they know that's an additional person

00:33:54.240 they have to provide for.

00:33:55.920 It's baggage.

00:33:56.980 Then they've got your child's attitude.

00:34:00.460 Yeah.

00:34:03.800 What percent of single mothers remarry?

00:34:07.720 If they want to.

00:34:08.780 Six percent.

00:34:10.060 Wow.

00:34:11.380 Higher than that, slightly.

00:34:12.580 Sixteen.

00:34:13.500 What?

00:34:13.960 Sixteen.

00:34:15.180 No.

00:34:15.680 Okay.

00:34:16.220 Off the top of my head, I know what it roughly was.

00:34:19.160 It was between, like, ten and, like, eight, like, seventeen percent.

00:34:23.040 It was somewhere between there.

00:34:24.540 Twenty-two percent of single mothers get a guy to live with them.

00:34:28.280 So, overwhelmingly, sixty percent, roughly, of single mothers do never.

00:34:32.880 I can get a guy to live with me now.

00:34:34.900 You can give me one hour.

00:34:36.540 I don't know.

00:34:37.480 Why is it?

00:34:37.940 No.

00:34:38.960 Look it.

00:34:39.780 Look it.

00:34:40.660 I don't.

00:34:41.380 I don't know.

00:34:41.760 There's a couple in the car park in Tesco.

00:34:43.360 I don't know.

00:34:44.460 There's a couple waiting outside.

00:34:46.400 I don't know.

00:34:47.320 There's a couple in here right now.

00:34:47.980 I would change the statistics right now.

00:34:50.220 Look it.

00:34:51.080 I don't know what to tell you.

00:34:52.480 Actually, like, FaceTime.

00:34:53.180 But also, I would say that some housewife, right?

00:34:56.180 So, this is, like, housewife status.

00:34:58.200 This is the best of the best women.

00:35:00.040 But I would say some women that have kids, because I know that if I had kids,

00:35:03.780 I would be very reluctant to just pick up with any man.

00:35:06.200 So, maybe some women, for the sake of their kids,

00:35:09.000 they don't want to expose them to certain people.

00:35:10.820 So, they're just like, for now, I'm just going to be single

00:35:12.960 and not have another man in my household.

00:35:15.460 I think that's admirable, actually.

00:35:17.740 I think it's better for the kids.

00:35:19.220 But I think that affects the statistic, definitely.

00:35:21.400 Because I know that there will be women that will think.

00:35:23.480 I disagree.

00:35:24.460 I disagree.

00:35:25.220 I think we're being so soft on the single ones.

00:35:28.080 I'm a single.

00:35:29.720 We said high-value men.

00:35:31.440 I think it's the other way around.

00:35:33.040 I think a lot of women would immediately start looking for another man to replace.

00:35:37.560 No.

00:35:38.420 No way.

00:35:39.140 My son has his dad.

00:35:40.960 I'm a single woman.

00:35:41.600 I'm a single woman.

00:35:42.420 Thank you.

00:35:43.000 We're not talking about...

00:35:44.600 See, the thing about women is you guys always think that your situation is what goes around

00:35:49.900 in society.

00:35:51.120 But if you look at society and look at what actually happens...

00:35:53.680 I'm a single woman.

00:35:54.280 There are a lot of irresponsible women out there.

00:35:56.660 Yeah.

00:35:57.000 And that's the fact.

00:35:57.540 Yeah, but I do feel like when you have a child, that child has to come first.

00:36:02.260 So you have to be very careful who you bring around your child.

00:36:05.060 And I know that would definitely affect my decision.

00:36:08.400 I totally agree with you.

00:36:10.460 But I don't think most single mothers are responsible.

00:36:12.760 I'm a single mom.

00:36:14.820 I'm a single mom.

00:36:16.040 And there's no way I would be rushing into any relationship with any man.

00:36:21.720 I'm very protective over my daughter.

00:36:24.160 There's no way.

00:36:25.080 Especially when you've got a daughter.

00:36:26.340 I would say if single mothers were responsible by and large, then the most likely person

00:36:36.240 to abuse the kid wouldn't be the next man.

00:36:39.760 If it's not the mother.

00:36:40.880 It's actually the mother's the most likely.

00:36:42.320 But second most likely is the man they bring around.

00:36:44.260 Anecdotally, you do hear a lot about guys who are on dating apps.

00:36:47.000 They're meeting single moms.

00:36:48.220 And the single mom is then like, oh, you know, how do you feel about, you know, I've got

00:36:52.180 a kid.

00:36:52.820 And they're sort of angling for somebody to become the new baby daddy, you know?

00:36:56.020 I mean, again, that's not statistics.

00:36:58.200 But there's also men.

00:36:59.680 There's also men that they actually.

00:37:01.240 You can be a single mom and the dad's still active.

00:37:02.840 I would say there's also men that actually prey on single moms.

00:37:06.760 Yeah.

00:37:07.500 Because they're.

00:37:08.080 I think if we're being general, I don't think a lot of men are out here looking for single

00:37:12.640 mothers.

00:37:13.120 I don't.

00:37:13.460 Absolutely.

00:37:14.060 You're not looking for a single mother.

00:37:14.920 No, I'm not.

00:37:15.740 I mean, I'm 33 years old and I've never, I've never had any conversation with anyone, any

00:37:21.700 guy and they're going, oh, you know what?

00:37:23.580 Let's get out single, single mother.

00:37:25.180 No, you're not looking for a single mom, but there are, there are some.

00:37:28.080 That prey.

00:37:29.240 Ominous men out here that they, they prey on single mothers.

00:37:32.860 So what about the high value and actually desirable ones?

00:37:36.000 There's a lot of men out here that are just trying to bum off rich women as well.

00:37:41.120 That's a new phenomenon.

00:37:42.500 Yeah.

00:37:42.680 The nowadays, I think men, men, they're like trying to like.

00:37:46.320 Women, women wanted equality.

00:37:48.360 Here you go.

00:37:49.420 Here you go.

00:37:50.120 They want a sugar mama.

00:37:51.580 Yeah, they want a sugar mama.

00:37:52.920 Well, yeah.

00:37:53.840 I think that's admirable.

00:37:56.840 I mean, I think, I think that's admirable.

00:37:58.180 I mean, I'm absolutely in the market for a sugar mama for a hundred percent.

00:38:01.940 Same here.

00:38:02.520 Same here.

00:38:03.940 I mean, I can always go to the gym.

00:38:06.160 I look good.

00:38:06.480 You better start stripping.

00:38:07.860 Exactly.

00:38:08.440 But I would agree with you.

00:38:09.460 I would agree with you.

00:38:10.180 I don't think there's many guys who are out there actively looking for single mothers.

00:38:13.120 I think it's a bit more like, you know, you meet the girl and then she turns out to be

00:38:16.220 a single mother and you're like, yeah, well, okay, maybe I can overlook that.

00:38:19.120 Exactly.

00:38:19.320 You mean after you breed her and leave her?

00:38:21.480 Exactly.

00:38:22.080 Exactly.

00:38:23.060 If there's a connection, then yeah, you're open to whatever can happen.

00:38:26.060 But you're not actively seeking a single mom.

00:38:28.600 Yeah.

00:38:28.740 She just happens to be a single mom.

00:38:30.140 You're not actively seeking a single mom.

00:38:32.180 But some men are.

00:38:33.500 I'm saying this.

00:38:34.500 There's a demonstration.

00:38:35.820 No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:38:36.360 I've heard stories that don't want to have heard of this.

00:38:39.520 I understand what she's saying, though.

00:38:40.600 I think what you're saying is the men that are looking for single mothers because they

00:38:44.100 feel it's an easy shag.

00:38:45.540 They want to accept family.

00:38:46.140 No.

00:38:46.820 I'm not even saying it's an easy shag.

00:38:48.300 I'm saying when she was saying about the statistics and I was saying, but in that there are some

00:38:55.220 men that actually prey on single women because they want to be around their kids.

00:39:00.720 Oh, shit.

00:39:02.200 That's a small percentage.

00:39:03.480 That's like a tiny percentage.

00:39:04.720 There's loads of pedos out there, mate.

00:39:06.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:39:06.640 I believe Christmas is coming.

00:39:10.000 I think that women actually prey on young men more than men prey on young women.

00:39:17.040 I disagree.

00:39:18.580 I did hear you.

00:39:19.800 You did hear us.

00:39:20.540 Something like that.

00:39:21.740 Young men always chase me.

00:39:23.380 And I'm just like, I don't chase them when they chase me.

00:39:25.860 I disagree.

00:39:26.560 Well, I'm talking about like, I see it more commonly now where a woman gets in trouble

00:39:31.520 for sleeping with a student than vice versa.

00:39:34.600 You see them all the time in the news.

00:39:36.080 I think they're mentally ill because I don't know why they would want to sleep with a child.

00:39:39.200 Besides, most of my friends growing up that lost their virginity as little kids all lost

00:39:43.820 it to older women.

00:39:44.840 Same with the guys I know as well.

00:39:48.000 Would you go younger, Kelly, then?

00:39:50.000 I have dated younger, but I wouldn't date someone underage or like...

00:39:53.520 Not underage, but like...

00:39:55.260 If someone was juvenile to me, God no.

00:39:57.540 What about 23, 24?

00:39:59.440 Definitely not.

00:40:00.620 Actually, I have a question.

00:40:02.580 I have a question kind of pertaining to this.

00:40:05.260 Who's more sexual, men or women?

00:40:08.320 Men.

00:40:08.920 Women.

00:40:09.360 Because of different times.

00:40:10.420 Women.

00:40:11.260 Women when they're older, men when they're younger.

00:40:13.700 Okay, we have to go one at a time, one at a time, and then tell me why you think that.

00:40:18.120 So here.

00:40:18.480 I would say women because I think we're very sensual.

00:40:21.200 We're very emotional.

00:40:22.140 And I think that when we're in the throes of passion, we're kind of led by that sensuality.

00:40:27.560 Oh, yeah.

00:40:31.960 I'm also saying women.

00:40:33.680 Wow.

00:40:34.340 Okay, women.

00:40:35.100 Why?

00:40:35.780 I think also emotionally we're just more attached to that kind of stuff.

00:40:39.120 Okay.

00:40:40.300 I think men.

00:40:42.100 Why?

00:40:42.640 Because men can just have so many different partners and have so much sex.

00:40:48.620 Sexually.

00:40:48.980 Sexually, yeah.

00:40:49.400 And I just think they could just go from one to the other and just not even worry about it.

00:40:53.420 With a mental connection.

00:40:54.600 Yeah.

00:40:55.620 I would say men also because I saw this documentary where there was this woman that she was like trans.

00:41:01.980 She wanted to see trans into a male.

00:41:06.000 Who laughs?

00:41:09.380 But anyways, that's what she was doing.

00:41:11.560 And she said, like, as a woman, her sex drive was healthy.

00:41:16.520 And then when she started taking the testosterone, she was like, oh, my God, my sex drive went through the roof.

00:41:21.640 I think hormonally, men are going to feel more, mm.

00:41:27.560 Mm.

00:41:28.160 Yeah, definitely.

00:41:29.380 Sorry, Pearl.

00:41:30.060 Say, what was the question again?

00:41:31.120 Who's more sexual, men or women?

00:41:32.720 Oh, okay.

00:41:33.020 Men.

00:41:33.300 I think definitely men.

00:41:34.420 I think you're right.

00:41:35.100 Because they could just bang it.

00:41:36.740 Bang, bang, bang, bang.

00:41:37.520 See, okay, this is what's got me.

00:41:39.600 I could honestly be convinced either way, but I've started to think it's women.

00:41:46.940 And the reason I think it's women, this is just my thoughts, we talk about relationships 24-7.

00:41:54.460 It's like when we're with our friends on wine, what do women talk about, boys?

00:41:58.060 Men.

00:41:58.140 But not sex, though.

00:41:59.600 That's like power struggles.

00:42:00.960 That's like, oh, my God, he didn't do this or he did this.

00:42:02.840 Well, yeah, but I think we seek attention and men seek sex, and that's what we get, like, validation through.

00:42:07.740 That doesn't make us more sexual, though, does it?

00:42:10.040 Well, I would say yes.

00:42:11.340 More emotional.

00:42:12.400 I would say because the ways we seek attention is sexual and wearing tight clothes, taking off our clothes, like, dressing very sexually, I would say, is how women seek sexual attention.

00:42:21.960 Majority of women?

00:42:23.460 Oh, yeah.

00:42:24.020 I think if you go into a gym, the clothes that women wear today would have been banned, like, 20 years ago.

00:42:30.540 In some cities, like Vegas in America, the women wear, like, stickers on their boobs.

00:42:37.380 You go to bikinis, like, when I was growing up, most people wore one pieces, and then, like, the bikinis were kind of, like, out there now wearing thongs.

00:42:44.540 People used to get sent off the beach for bikinis, didn't they?

00:42:46.440 Yeah.

00:42:47.280 Do you know the other thing as well?

00:42:48.640 I don't know if you guys have ever read the book My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday, but it was this book that came out in the 70s or the 80s, but it's this book of sexual fantasies that this psychologist collected.

00:42:58.920 Women's sexual fantasies.

00:43:01.000 And, I mean, some of the stuff in there is, frankly, crazy.

00:43:03.880 You know, this is some of the stuff that women fantasize about.

00:43:05.640 Am I able to Google it?

00:43:06.580 Yeah, yeah.

00:43:07.140 My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday.

00:43:09.500 It's really eye-opening to read.

00:43:10.920 And the other thing, of course, was the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon.

00:43:13.600 You know, it's the best-selling book ever.

00:43:15.160 You know, and it was this complete...

00:43:16.340 So, I think that while I agree on the point about testosterone and, yeah, guys, like, bang, bang, bang, whatever, but I think women, once they get into it, they're really fucking into it.

00:43:24.340 They're really into the whole fantasy side of it and the sensuality side of it.

00:43:27.940 I think probably more than men, because let's be honest, men want to just get their end away and then have a cigarette and, you know, go to sleep.

00:43:33.640 Whereas women, they get much more bought into the whole, you know, the whole drama of the whole thing.

00:43:37.800 A bit more depth in it with women, I think.

00:43:40.380 A bit more passionate.

00:43:41.740 Are you changing your answer now?

00:43:43.880 No, no, because we wouldn't...

00:43:45.040 No, no.

00:43:45.780 I still say men.

00:43:46.520 I still say men.

00:43:46.960 You still say men.

00:43:47.900 Okay, what do you think, men or women?

00:43:49.260 I was going to say both, but I do think it is women, because I feel like...

00:43:53.060 I do think it's women, because I feel like with us, it's true, we use our looks, we use, like, obviously, in terms of the way we look, when a guy approaches us and all of that, we can come across very seductive at times.

00:44:06.800 I think it's women.

00:44:08.140 Who breathed like that into the mic?

00:44:13.260 That was one of the rules.

00:44:14.680 One of the rules was don't breathe into the mic.

00:44:16.260 I was getting carried away.

00:44:17.820 I was getting carried away.

00:44:18.480 Yeah, a man, obviously.

00:44:19.760 But I think it's just, like, if I talk to guy friends, and they're like, oh, yeah, I met this girl, and, you know, yeah, she came back to mine, and, yeah, we banged, or whatever.

00:44:28.280 It's very, sort of, perfunctory, and it's like, right, yeah, we did that.

00:44:31.660 With women, and then when I deal with women, it's very, sort of, like, they go into this whole...

00:44:35.940 And then you took me against the rule.

00:44:39.220 It's just, even when I've dealt with women that maybe I've dated and stuff like that, there's just so much more to it.

00:44:45.040 It's this whole, like, sexual, like, fantasy, and this kind of imagination and everything.

00:44:49.400 And he didn't just say, goodnight, babe.

00:44:51.060 He sent me a smiley emoji with heart eyes.

00:44:55.460 We read into all that.

00:44:56.260 It's got to be the aubergine, doesn't it?

00:44:58.360 The aubergine.

00:44:59.140 Oh, yeah.

00:44:59.660 Oh, yeah.

00:45:00.900 Because shops like Anna Summers and stuff like that.

00:45:02.200 I still think it's men, because I feel like everything we've just described is, like, a woman uses sex to get the emotional connection, to get the spiritual connection.

00:45:11.800 When we are in our bag, we're so sensual, because we're trying to get to that place.

00:45:15.940 And I kind of rate men for being able to be like, this is sex.

00:45:19.300 I'm going to do it.

00:45:20.100 Here it is.

00:45:20.600 Love it.

00:45:21.000 All right.

00:45:21.380 Cool.

00:45:21.760 Move on.

00:45:22.460 Whereas women, it's always like, I'm doing this for this and that and this.

00:45:24.740 And then it's not, like, about the sex.

00:45:26.900 Yeah.

00:45:27.320 But no, just out of interest, do you genuinely think that?

00:45:29.380 Or do you not think that the women are actually getting off on that as well?

00:45:32.400 I think women are sexier than men.

00:45:34.460 Right.

00:45:34.760 But I think men are more sexual than women.

00:45:38.120 Like, if it was, like, a man's going to give me, like, the spiritual and emotional connection I thought I would get if I was having badass sex with him, then I would probably just have that conversation.

00:45:46.780 What is the spiritual and emotional connection?

00:45:49.460 That's when you're, like, looking at him and it's like, this is it.

00:45:53.480 We are so connected.

00:45:55.560 We are, like, you just look at a guy and you're, like, so connected.

00:46:00.000 It's, like, adding more meaning to everything because you're having this great time and it's, like, yeah.

00:46:07.020 So if you were to tell a guy, he says, I want to make a spiritual and emotional connection, how would you do that?

00:46:12.780 If he just, like, wanted to see, he sat me down and he was, like, I'm just, like, so fucking into you.

00:46:17.760 I think you're great.

00:46:18.880 And I think we're going to have this amazing life together.

00:46:20.960 And he just, again, the fantasy thing.

00:46:22.700 He leaned into all the fantasies of this wonderful life I want to live.

00:46:25.840 Then I'd probably, like, just, like, orgasm.

00:46:28.080 Do women?

00:46:28.860 Okay.

00:46:29.100 Do women typically like the men that like them or that don't like them?

00:46:38.680 Typically don't, I would say.

00:46:40.580 Okay, so aren't you giving them the wrong advice then?

00:46:43.000 Giving who?

00:46:43.600 What advice?

00:46:43.840 The guys, when I asked you how to give you a spiritual and emotional connection.

00:46:48.040 For me.

00:46:49.020 Oh, for you.

00:46:49.720 For me.

00:46:50.360 I don't know about anyone else.

00:46:52.020 But for me, there's going to be a lot of boxes he needs to tick in the first place.

00:46:56.080 And then there's going to be the life and the fantasy and the experience I want being here.

00:47:00.840 I think, like, with a lot of women's advice, it's probably you would want that.

00:47:04.980 But you would want that from a dude that you're already attracted to.

00:47:07.560 Oh, hell yeah.

00:47:08.960 Don't, like, chat me up on Tinder and be like, I'm going to get into your mind.

00:47:11.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:47:12.680 So if it's like Chris Hemsworth or whoever, right, or whoever you like, and he's coming out with this.

00:47:19.380 Morris Chestnut.

00:47:20.580 And he's coming out with this stuff, then you're going to be into that.

00:47:23.360 Morris Chestnut.

00:47:23.740 Morris Chestnut ain't got to shake my hand.

00:47:26.140 I like how you went for four.

00:47:27.580 Mine went for four.

00:47:28.540 But that's the problem with female dating advice, though, sometimes when it's aimed at guys.

00:47:34.060 Because women will say, well, we want a guy who's this.

00:47:36.340 We want a guy who's honorable, who's noble, who does these things.

00:47:38.640 He's chivalrous, blah, blah, blah.

00:47:40.000 And guys think, right, I've just got to do those things.

00:47:42.120 But actually, it's about so much more than that.

00:47:44.000 Because women want it from the guy that they're already attracted to.

00:47:46.680 And I still want to have sex.

00:47:48.160 Sorry?

00:47:48.680 And I still want to have sex.

00:47:49.760 Yeah.

00:47:49.780 We want men that are good in bed.

00:47:52.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:47:52.780 And know how to, like, treat as well, but also in good in bed.

00:47:56.240 But would I use it as much if I felt like I could connect with you on a different basis?

00:48:00.240 I don't think men are capable of connecting the same way women can, so I don't know if I would.

00:48:04.160 Well.

00:48:05.280 I feel like I'm more basic than that.

00:48:06.820 I actually think.

00:48:07.400 I feel like you need to be like.

00:48:08.840 I think men connect better than women.

00:48:12.560 Fucked.

00:48:13.060 Yeah.

00:48:13.580 They're more straight.

00:48:14.220 I think men are, women are a lot more heartless.

00:48:18.060 Where men actually have hearts.

00:48:20.400 Absolutely.

00:48:21.340 Actually, I think you're right.

00:48:23.580 Because I think men get upset because you can break their heart.

00:48:27.360 And sometimes I think men can take things, like, really to their heart.

00:48:31.840 After they've broken yours.

00:48:33.700 Yeah.

00:48:34.100 But women can just forget about it.

00:48:35.500 But if you ever, like, let someone down and they're absolutely heartbroken, and they really take it in, don't they?

00:48:41.440 When they're heartbroken.

00:48:42.820 What do they do when they take it in?

00:48:45.260 What is the characteristics of a man that's taking something to heart?

00:48:48.060 Yeah.

00:48:48.600 So tell me.

00:48:49.260 Do you know when you've just, like, you know, you're not bothered with them, and they've taken you out on a date, and you just say, oh, no, I can't be bothered with him.

00:48:57.340 He's not my sort of type of guy.

00:48:59.260 And he's absolutely wounded because they take it to heart.

00:49:02.640 You can tell you're speaking from personal experience here.

00:49:05.020 And so some poor bloke who's watching this now going, no!

00:49:07.260 I'll tell you why I think women are more heartless.

00:49:17.160 Because the amount of women that I've met that left the father of their children because they outgrew them is just, like, ridiculous.

00:49:25.320 I've met so many women that have left the father of their kids, broken up their entire family because they outgrew their husbands.

00:49:32.420 Yes, but ultimately, I feel like the fact that they outgrew them, the man was probably more heartless than them in the relationship where they felt that they had to leave.

00:49:41.660 I think when women want to do something, they make up any excuse they can to do it.

00:49:47.020 Yeah.

00:49:47.620 And I think typically the women are not innocent.

00:49:51.140 A lot of times they play innocent.

00:49:52.440 I'm not saying women are innocent, but having outgrown somebody, I feel like things, like, I mean, the fact that the term outgrow is that they're still quite juvenile in some aspects.

00:50:02.880 And in that, I feel like men can just be really callous sometimes and just really not kind of, like, elevated on their levels of, like, caring and just kind of.

00:50:13.140 Can I have an example?

00:50:16.880 So, I feel like women are more, obviously women are more emotional and women are more kind of, like.

00:50:24.480 Mature.

00:50:25.520 Yeah, mature.

00:50:26.360 No, I disagree.

00:50:27.520 I'm going to say emotionally mature.

00:50:30.280 I disagree.

00:50:30.740 I think women are more emotionally immature.

00:50:33.320 You think so?

00:50:33.900 I think we have all this propaganda.

00:50:35.420 We are neurotic.

00:50:36.480 They're more, like, sensitive.

00:50:37.760 I'm not going to say.

00:50:38.480 I think women stop aging, like, mentally when they hit their, like, attention peak.

00:50:44.500 So, if women, like, become pretty at 16, I think they just stay 16 forever.

00:50:49.340 I think most women mentally are in high school.

00:50:51.040 I just got pretty.

00:50:52.500 I mean, you know, potato patah.

00:50:54.780 But, you know, I feel like, yeah, in that aspect, from the point I was trying to make, it's like, if you're with a guy and he's emotionally immature, so he might do things that are very juvenile.

00:51:06.420 Like, you'd be like, oh, I'm looking after the kids.

00:51:08.300 He's like, I'm going out with the boys.

00:51:09.340 And you're like, but what about the kids?

00:51:10.560 He's like, oh, you know, you saw it out.

00:51:12.280 And when I get back.

00:51:12.980 Oh, you know them ones when you're like, oh, I'm going out on Friday.

00:51:15.340 He's like, I'm going out on Friday.

00:51:16.800 And you're like, oh, who's going to look after the kids?

00:51:18.420 You get a babysitter.

00:51:19.300 Okay, wait, wait, wait.

00:51:20.620 So, the big issue is that he wants to go out with the boys.

00:51:23.920 Not that he wants to go out with the boys.

00:51:24.400 You ask for one example.

00:51:25.540 You ask for an example.

00:51:26.360 I'm giving an example.

00:51:27.060 Because I find that with a lot of relationships, women will say to me, like, the man will expect me to get a babysitter.

00:51:33.020 It's like, the kids are my job.

00:51:35.380 It's on me.

00:51:36.460 As opposed to, it's an equal thing.

00:51:38.360 Like, oh, we both booked the same day.

00:51:40.440 How are we going to sort this out?

00:51:41.520 Because you're the mom.

00:51:43.720 It should be.

00:51:44.420 What else are you supposed to?

00:51:45.900 That's your job.

00:51:46.160 You both had those kids together.

00:51:47.660 And actually, I did more.

00:51:49.380 But then how is the solution outgrowing him?

00:51:51.540 I did more.

00:51:52.460 I carried them for nine months.

00:51:54.060 I breastfed them.

00:51:55.040 They came out of my vajayjay.

00:51:56.460 But the men typically pay more.

00:51:58.140 So, even in 50-50 relationships, they still pay more, typically.

00:52:02.180 I've been a breadwinner in many relationships.

00:52:03.720 So, that's alleged.

00:52:05.180 Yeah, but I'm not talking about you.

00:52:07.060 But I'm saying, I disagree.

00:52:08.300 If I can only speak of myself, I can only speak of myself.

00:52:10.940 Right, but we're talking about, like, if you are in a single mother home, you're at every statistical disadvantage ever.

00:52:16.800 Right?

00:52:17.660 No.

00:52:18.020 So, you are.

00:52:18.860 You're more likely.

00:52:19.240 I could be a millionaire, but I just have my kids by myself.

00:52:22.900 No, I mean, well, it doesn't even matter.

00:52:25.360 Like, money doesn't replace a father.

00:52:27.000 I think we've seen that with Kim Kardashian when you see the clips of the kids now.

00:52:31.200 And they're kind of going crazy.

00:52:32.540 But you're attributing it to the fact, oh, the guy must have done something wrong and blah, blah, blah.

00:52:36.820 But that's what people, that's what women will often say when these conversations come up.

00:52:40.240 But is it that?

00:52:41.120 Or is it the woman's just got a bit bored?

00:52:43.120 Yeah.

00:52:43.300 It's like, oh, we're a few years in.

00:52:44.960 I'm just playing devil's advocate.

00:52:46.500 I'm just saying.

00:52:47.040 The sex has got a bit boring.

00:52:48.760 You know, the grass is maybe greener on the other side.

00:52:50.820 The personal trainer for a bloody, you know, virgin active or whatever is pretty hard.

00:52:54.980 Yeah.

00:52:55.400 We get irritated.

00:52:56.000 You know, the grass is greener, right?

00:52:58.140 And that seems to me to be what happens more often than not.

00:53:01.260 I think social media kills relationships.

00:53:03.440 Yeah.

00:53:04.340 Social media kills relationships.

00:53:06.260 Years ago, I think, when there was no social media, there was no phones.

00:53:11.920 People were still cheating in the side.

00:53:14.460 Are you just going to find out until their funeral when their 10 kids came out?

00:53:18.020 The high profile doctors and everything that you speak of, you found out at their funeral.

00:53:22.560 They're just keeping it on the low.

00:53:23.580 Yeah, but I think it's allowed women to just be, like, openly look for new men.

00:53:33.460 When you look at Instagram profiles today, that's what it is.

00:53:36.840 And that's why I was sort of saying, when I was saying before about being married and, like, not being on social media.

00:53:42.840 I mean, I'm not some, like, red pill, like, you know, thumping the table.

00:53:45.680 Women shouldn't be on Instagram.

00:53:46.820 I'm not really like that.

00:53:47.600 But I do see the point because it's like, basically, you're putting out sexy pictures of yourself on Instagram.

00:53:51.980 But even if you're not intentionally doing that, what's that going to do?

00:53:56.300 It's going to attract the attention of other dudes.

00:53:58.220 They could be sliding into the DMs.

00:53:59.960 You know, things in your main relationship, things in your marriage getting a little bit dry, a little bit stale.

00:54:03.700 And then the temptation's there.

00:54:05.220 It's been like, well, you know.

00:54:06.480 You kind of see where you fare in the sexual market.

00:54:09.640 I would never date a man of Instagram.

00:54:11.200 Yeah, but the thing is, if you're loyal, then it doesn't matter how many DMs that you'll get.

00:54:15.540 Yeah, but it kind of tells you, like, oh, wow, like, Michael B. Jordan is into me.

00:54:19.800 You get, like, an idea of, like, oh, I'm still, I still got it.

00:54:22.700 Do you know what I mean?

00:54:23.080 Exactly, exactly.

00:54:23.580 And then someone else on another hand is, oh, man.

00:54:26.180 I don't think you're for Michael B. Jordan.

00:54:26.900 Sorry.

00:54:27.360 I mean, come on.

00:54:29.960 Then isn't that going to be the guy's brother?

00:54:32.040 If you're loyal, then you're loyal.

00:54:33.540 And secure in yourself.

00:54:34.000 It doesn't matter if anyone's slipping into your DMs.

00:54:36.620 Yeah.

00:54:36.920 If you love your man, you love your man.

00:54:39.220 You will not cheat on him.

00:54:40.280 If you're loyal, if you're loyal, but how does the, before the guy goes into the marriage,

00:54:45.040 or even before the woman goes into the marriage, how do you know that they're going to be loyal?

00:54:47.520 And how do you know they're going to be loyal over the long term?

00:54:49.720 You just have women.

00:54:50.700 You got to have faith, Troy.

00:54:52.140 You got to have faith.

00:54:54.980 But women, by and large, are not loyal.

00:54:58.680 Women, I mean, even when women win the lottery, they leave their husbands.

00:55:02.780 They tend to.

00:55:03.640 When men win the lottery, they tend to stay.

00:55:05.320 I don't know who these people are.

00:55:06.440 I don't know who you're talking about.

00:55:08.100 I do actually agree.

00:55:10.120 It's not, it's not just the lottery.

00:55:12.380 It's also when women get promoted at work, they're more likely to divorce, where men are more likely to stay.

00:55:17.800 Is that because of the divorce?

00:55:19.120 Probably.

00:55:20.040 When women get leverage in the relationship, they tend to leave.

00:55:23.900 Men, when they get leverage, they tend to stay.

00:55:26.060 Okay, because probably the woman leveraged that man up to that position.

00:55:29.440 And the woman happened to be with that guy at that position, and then she leveraged up herself.

00:55:35.760 But didn't he leverage her?

00:55:38.340 Probably not.

00:55:38.960 But I want to show, like, this is gynocentric thinking.

00:55:44.240 So there's gynocentric propaganda.

00:55:45.920 Like, gynocentrism basically is women are amazing and special and more awesome than we are.

00:55:50.220 Whenever a man accomplishes something, we always attribute it to women.

00:55:53.220 But whenever a woman accomplishes something, we never attribute it to the man she's with.

00:55:56.820 But did you not say that women are less likely to succeed in their own companies?

00:56:03.260 So, obviously, so then they're not being supported by men.

00:56:06.640 No, no.

00:56:07.460 I would say women only succeed when they are supported by men, typically.

00:56:11.440 So, like, Kim Kardashian didn't become a billionaire until she was with Kanye.

00:56:14.800 It's like a trend that I see where it's like when women come successful, typically they have a strong man behind them somewhere.

00:56:21.120 So this is why they're leaving them, because women typically are supporting men, and then men are typically not supporting women.

00:56:27.100 So that's why they're leaving them, isn't it?

00:56:29.260 They support her.

00:56:30.000 No, yeah, I would say the men are supporting the women, and a lot of times the men support the women and get them to a certain point, and then the women leave.

00:56:38.460 Because women are hypergamous, you know?

00:56:39.800 Women always want the guy to be above them.

00:56:41.980 So you hit that level.

00:56:43.580 What's that word?

00:56:45.140 Hypergamous.

00:56:45.720 Hypergamous.

00:56:46.000 You took me nowhere today, thank you.

00:56:47.640 There you go.

00:56:48.800 Hypergamous.

00:56:49.260 Can you spell that?

00:56:50.760 Hypergamous.

00:56:51.720 Hypergamous.

00:56:52.200 Yeah.

00:56:52.560 Thank you.

00:56:53.040 I'll give you another example of a trend that I see, because the biggest thing is I kind of just look for patterns in, like, society and relationships,

00:56:59.700 and just, like, trends that I see.

00:57:01.540 One of them is women politicians.

00:57:04.580 They always seem to get, like, they get elected into an office, and then they screw someone at work.

00:57:11.320 I don't know.

00:57:13.440 There's a girl in the U.S. that's just happened with Lauren Boebert, something Boebert.

00:57:18.400 She had four kids.

00:57:19.800 She literally gets elected.

00:57:21.420 One baby daddy.

00:57:22.540 No, yeah, one husband, a baby daddy.

00:57:25.900 But then she divorces her husband, and then, like, six months later, she's in the movie theater with some guy, and, like, went super viral.

00:57:33.540 Did you see that?

00:57:34.400 You know what I'm talking about?

00:57:35.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:57:35.680 Well, Liz Truss got voted into office in the U.K., and she screwed the whole country.

00:57:39.580 Wow.

00:57:39.980 Political joke there.

00:57:41.200 Political joke there, guys.

00:57:42.500 Who?

00:57:43.320 A bit of stagio there.

00:57:44.760 Yeah.

00:57:45.080 Do you like it?

00:57:45.900 Because she took the economy, and then she got chucked out.

00:57:48.320 So, a little bit of a...

00:57:49.420 Well, and that's another trend I see, like, where I say women are bad at business and typically leadership roles.

00:57:55.580 All of the shortest terms of, like, prime ministers and presidents are all, like, typically women.

00:58:01.520 She was the shortest term ever.

00:58:03.300 She stayed, like, two days.

00:58:04.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:58:05.500 Like, really?

00:58:06.040 You want to attribute that to any other...

00:58:07.520 Because men have had more opportunities.

00:58:09.580 Yeah, constructs.

00:58:10.260 No, that's what they say.

00:58:12.380 Women have more opportunity than men in 2023, and we just still kind of suck with it.

00:58:17.200 Well, it's only 2023 that you're gauging off of, isn't it?

00:58:19.600 So, maybe in another decade, then you can give a more realistic statistic.

00:58:23.040 No, that's what they say, but it's been, like, 50 years of this.

00:58:27.980 Yeah.

00:58:28.160 So, we've had 50 years of, like, women's empowerment, and we still...

00:58:30.940 That's super short.

00:58:31.540 But that's very short.

00:58:32.480 It's a patriarch, and at the end of the day...

00:58:34.280 Let's have this conversation again when we're, like, in, like, 20 years.

00:58:37.800 Tell me, what did you think?

00:58:39.900 Everyone here is under 50, right?

00:58:41.980 Mm-hmm.

00:58:42.240 Maybe.

00:58:43.060 Right?

00:58:43.260 What?

00:58:43.460 So, I'm saying everybody's lifetime has had a ton of women's empowerment.

00:58:49.840 Mm-hmm.

00:58:50.160 So, you know, it's a little bit more.

00:58:51.720 It's all new.

00:58:52.000 It's all new.

00:58:52.520 You know what?

00:58:53.180 I was alive.

00:58:54.580 How is it new if you have born into it?

00:58:55.720 You're saying that women's empowerment, but I was alive when there weren't any black people on the TV.

00:59:00.680 So, I feel like the women's empowerment came after the black people on the TV.

00:59:05.300 In what era?

00:59:06.720 Even now, in music.

00:59:07.300 When I was young, there was hardly any black people on the TV.

00:59:10.060 Were you born in the UK?

00:59:10.780 Yes.

00:59:11.220 Yes, guys.

00:59:11.940 Now, there's black people everywhere on the TV.

00:59:14.140 Like, literally.

00:59:14.740 Like commercials.

00:59:15.660 The phone would ring because they'd be like, oh, my God, there's a black person on the TV.

00:59:18.900 And I feel like this kind of empowerment of women and, like, that's come after the black people on the TV.

00:59:23.980 And it's going to take time.

00:59:25.380 It's going to take time.

00:59:26.700 I don't like women's empowerment.

00:59:29.360 I think it's actually really insulting.

00:59:31.360 Why?

00:59:32.200 To women.

00:59:32.620 I think it's very insulting because you're saying we need special treatment and privileges to do things.

00:59:37.560 More opportunities.

00:59:38.280 We just need more representation.

00:59:40.820 Treatment.

00:59:41.460 We just need to.

00:59:42.160 Representation matters.

00:59:43.600 Yeah, it's very, you know.

00:59:45.020 We all have feelings.

00:59:45.940 We all have emotions.

00:59:47.080 We all have.

00:59:48.180 No, of course we do.

00:59:49.720 You say, no, no, no.

00:59:50.740 We do.

00:59:51.300 No, we don't.

00:59:51.640 Boris did the exact same thing as that female politician, but it's to stand up.

00:59:54.820 What I'm shaking my head is to you when you said we need representation.

00:59:57.680 I'm saying, no, I don't think we do need representation.

01:00:00.140 I think we need qualified people that are smart and competent.

01:00:03.200 And I think we keep putting women into positions we're not good at.

01:00:07.560 Well, maybe they're putting these certain women into positions.

01:00:10.260 They're putting the wrong women into these positions to make an example of them.

01:00:13.340 See, this is what happens when you put a woman in this position.

01:00:15.620 Because, again, it's still a patriarchy.

01:00:17.560 And I ultimately feel like.

01:00:18.740 No, I disagree.

01:00:19.700 You disagree.

01:00:20.060 Women have not had the opportunity to be in this position.

01:00:22.660 So you don't think women should be put in positions of power?

01:00:26.520 No.

01:00:26.700 But you don't think that it's a patriarchy?

01:00:28.400 I think it's a matriarchy, actually.

01:00:30.780 I think women typically live life on easy mode.

01:00:33.480 I think a woman's life is much easier than a man's life.

01:00:36.520 Some women.

01:00:37.320 Women.

01:00:37.620 No, no.

01:00:38.200 So.

01:00:38.880 But what.

01:00:40.280 Actually.

01:00:40.980 It really is actually.

01:00:42.060 I'll tell you.

01:00:42.580 You turn 21, you have the option to monetize your beauty.

01:00:47.560 That's number one.

01:00:48.400 What if you're ugly?

01:00:49.440 Yeah.

01:00:49.940 Even an ugly woman gets more attention than an average man.

01:00:53.420 Oh, I disagree.

01:00:54.040 Women.

01:00:54.540 And I'll give you an example.

01:00:56.520 Women rate.

01:00:56.980 Hold on.

01:00:57.400 Girls, we know we get easier than guys, though, for real.

01:00:59.640 Women.

01:01:00.140 If you're pretty.

01:01:01.900 We do get easier.

01:01:03.260 Even the fuckly ones.

01:01:04.360 Women rate 80% of guys as unattractive.

01:01:07.140 Even if you're unattractive.

01:01:08.440 I'll give you an example.

01:01:09.460 Lizzo has built an entire brand off of being unattractive.

01:01:12.780 She's not unattractive.

01:01:14.200 She's just overweight.

01:01:16.620 She's not ugly.

01:01:17.620 She's got a beautiful face.

01:01:18.800 Yeah.

01:01:19.000 Some men like all that.

01:01:22.260 Men don't, by and large, like fat chicks.

01:01:24.680 Some men do, though.

01:01:25.420 I'm saying, like, okay, if you go back 50 years, right?

01:01:30.240 Some men like a big gal.

01:01:31.680 Some men, and she's not ugly.

01:01:33.640 If she was fat and not ugly.

01:01:34.400 No, I don't think she's ugly.

01:01:35.580 Exactly.

01:01:36.300 So, I don't think she's a good example.

01:01:38.460 I would say she's unattractive because she's severely overweight.

01:01:41.920 In your opinion.

01:01:43.160 I would say.

01:01:43.760 Jamaican men love fat gal.

01:01:46.640 I think, I think, I think, you know, I've had, I've had.

01:01:50.100 King, do African men love fat gal?

01:01:52.220 No.

01:01:52.700 You don't like Lizzo?

01:01:53.500 Life.

01:01:54.360 Jamaican men love fat gal.

01:01:56.800 Okay, okay.

01:01:57.820 Good, good point.

01:01:58.740 So, what kind of Jamaican men like fat girls?

01:02:01.460 Is it the ones that typically have a lot of resources or the ones that are broke and don't

01:02:04.500 have anything?

01:02:04.840 I'll be honest and say, I don't know the answer to that.

01:02:07.340 But I know for a fact.

01:02:09.400 I do.

01:02:09.900 That a lot of Jamaican men love fat gal.

01:02:12.160 A lot of guys feel that women with big hips are childbearing.

01:02:16.780 If you look at all the most successful men that have ever walked the earth, how many of

01:02:21.720 them have you seen walking around with a fat woman?

01:02:24.360 But also, maybe they like fat girls, but because they see all the other.

01:02:27.660 I'm going to guess.

01:02:27.960 I'm going to guess something right now.

01:02:29.280 What about Trisha?

01:02:30.120 I'm saying all the other successful men have skinny girls.

01:02:32.160 I'm going to guess something.

01:02:33.300 I'm going to look up Jamaica's richest man.

01:02:36.800 Okay, I'm going to guess.

01:02:38.420 I'm going to guess.

01:02:39.680 You can't even look up who's in both.

01:02:41.820 Yeah, and his missus.

01:02:43.140 That's a good question.

01:02:44.480 And let's look at what the men with the most choice pick.

01:02:48.160 Okay.

01:02:48.400 I have no idea.

01:02:48.800 Jay-Z and Rebecca.

01:02:49.860 I could be wrong.

01:02:51.460 That's his wife.

01:02:52.160 You're not even including his side chick.

01:02:54.680 Michael Leachin is one of them.

01:02:56.700 So, I'm going to pick this guy.

01:02:58.080 Let's see.

01:02:58.380 Let's see what his wife looks like.

01:02:59.320 Michael Leachin.

01:03:00.620 And it depends on your definition of fat, because what you may think is fat.

01:03:03.840 No, side chicks as well.

01:03:04.760 No, no, no.

01:03:05.260 Guys, that's it.

01:03:06.500 We know.

01:03:07.060 But again, you know.

01:03:07.780 What do you think?

01:03:08.600 Some men like big women.

01:03:09.800 Nah.

01:03:10.420 Yeah.

01:03:10.760 Not a fat chick.

01:03:11.820 Some of them.

01:03:12.360 Not a fat chick.

01:03:14.100 Yeah, but some men do.

01:03:14.960 At least half Chinese.

01:03:16.140 There's a huge Chinese.

01:03:17.360 I think when we have conversations about men liking big women, we should also factor in.

01:03:28.120 If we're making the argument, then we should also argue that women like short men, like

01:03:31.840 they're going for short men.

01:03:34.840 I'm leaving.

01:03:36.820 Some women do like short men.

01:03:38.100 So why are you having that reaction to women?

01:03:40.320 Women tolerate short men, but they don't necessarily like short men.

01:03:42.580 Because voluptuous.

01:03:43.460 Exactly.

01:03:44.240 I have friends that like short men.

01:03:45.860 No, but that's.

01:03:46.280 Oh, she's looking at the club and she's like, oh, a bit one.

01:03:49.320 But she's.

01:03:50.220 Because she's short, so she doesn't like men.

01:03:51.820 That's not.

01:03:52.380 Okay, so that's like.

01:03:53.180 But she's right, though.

01:03:54.820 In the same way, like women tolerate short men, men tolerate fat women.

01:03:58.900 Exactly.

01:03:59.260 It's the exact same thing.

01:04:00.100 Some men like fat women.

01:04:01.420 They don't.

01:04:01.900 And some women like short men, but not the majority.

01:04:04.740 I'll tell you why that's not true, because when you look at the men with the most choice,

01:04:10.300 if you say, if I say, okay, if I'm broke and I say, I don't like Gucci bags.

01:04:15.700 Well, you're broke.

01:04:16.500 Of course you don't freaking like Gucci bags.

01:04:18.760 Yeah, but I also feel like.

01:04:20.040 So if you look at the men with the most choice, the most ability to choose.

01:04:23.900 I just looked up Jamaica's richest guy.

01:04:25.940 I know you said he was half Chinese, but he's still half Jamaican too, right?

01:04:30.000 He has a thin wife.

01:04:31.280 But I also feel like there are people that when they get to a certain position, like,

01:04:37.220 for example, and I'm going to use it again, like a lot of black footballers, when they

01:04:41.000 got to a certain position, they all dated white skinny models.

01:04:44.680 Yeah?

01:04:45.640 Prior to them being footballers, they weren't dating white skinny models.

01:04:49.080 But when they got to a certain level.

01:04:50.100 Because they couldn't get white skinny models.

01:04:51.180 No, but they felt like.

01:04:52.600 No, but they felt like it was the status quo.

01:04:55.080 Society.

01:04:55.620 So they felt like that's what they were expected to do.

01:04:58.040 I don't.

01:04:58.600 I don't.

01:04:59.080 I don't.

01:04:59.220 Even if that's the case, even if that's the case, it supports this argument.

01:05:04.020 That's a narrative women tell themselves because of what they see happening.

01:05:07.500 That's a narrative I've been told by these footballers, actually.

01:05:10.360 No.

01:05:10.820 They feel like they're more accepted.

01:05:12.440 They're more accepted as a black man when they've got a skinny white woman by their size.

01:05:17.680 I think when they become a rich black guy, they can actually date certain white girls.

01:05:22.040 So they give that a go.

01:05:23.000 No, but also, I feel like they feel more socially accepted.

01:05:26.180 I don't believe that any guy dates somebody seriously for the social credit that they're going to get for that.

01:05:32.280 I think they date them for social reasons.

01:05:34.980 You say that as a white man, Troy.

01:05:36.520 I'm saying as a black man, when he's in certain environments, to feel socially accepted,

01:05:41.120 he sometimes feels like he has to have a skinny, beautiful white woman in his arm instead of bringing a black woman on his arm.

01:05:46.280 How do you know?

01:05:46.380 Guys, guys, guys.

01:05:47.480 I don't think it's real.

01:05:49.140 I'll actually say, I agree with you.

01:05:51.500 He sometimes feels he needs a skinny woman, not necessarily white.

01:05:54.820 The problem is that there are too many black women that are just overweight.

01:05:57.840 So there are less skinny black women to pick from.

01:06:01.160 That's the reality.

01:06:01.720 You need to get me for the opening woman.

01:06:03.820 Okay, okay, okay.

01:06:04.200 He makes a good point.

01:06:06.440 Because what about a skinny black woman?

01:06:08.860 Because I've dated various black women who were quite slender and quite shapely.

01:06:12.740 That's great.

01:06:13.400 But I would agree with the general sort of concept here.

01:06:16.560 That fatness is just not sexy for guys, right?

01:06:19.860 Whether they're black, whether they're white, whether they're Asian, you know, whatever.

01:06:22.500 Some men like fat women, though.

01:06:24.120 You cannot rule that out.

01:06:24.960 But we're talking about the majority general, right?

01:06:27.460 Well, women like short men, but it's not the majority.

01:06:31.540 But it doesn't matter.

01:06:32.760 We're just talking about what floats your boat.

01:06:35.140 There could be a rich man.

01:06:36.160 It does matter.

01:06:38.200 It does matter.

01:06:39.080 And the reason it matters is because if you keep lying to women about what men want,

01:06:43.360 they don't become what men want.

01:06:45.080 And half of women are projected to die alone.

01:06:47.780 I'm not trying to be what a man wants.

01:06:49.860 I'm just being me.

01:06:51.420 Height, you're born with that height, isn't it?

01:06:54.000 But to be a certain weight, sometimes I...

01:06:57.460 Why do...

01:06:57.940 It takes a certain...

01:06:59.040 Actually, I have a question.

01:06:59.820 Why do women lie to each other?

01:07:01.480 About?

01:07:02.000 Makes us feel better.

01:07:03.100 Yeah, like why...

01:07:03.840 I don't know why you keep lying when you know that men like thin women.

01:07:07.540 Like, I know...

01:07:08.100 Why?

01:07:08.120 Some men like thin women.

01:07:09.320 Let's just...

01:07:09.720 I just want to be...

01:07:10.220 Most men...

01:07:10.560 I just want to be...

01:07:11.400 The men you're around.

01:07:12.620 The men you're around.

01:07:13.680 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:07:14.560 No, I just want to be real here.

01:07:16.200 You know that men prefer thin women.

01:07:18.000 I've got a fat...

01:07:18.640 I've got a fat friend.

01:07:19.840 Wait, wait, wait.

01:07:20.240 I've got a fat friend.

01:07:21.160 Okay, okay, wait, wait.

01:07:21.780 She's very beautiful, yeah?

01:07:22.860 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:07:23.860 You know that men prefer thinner women.

01:07:25.980 Some men.

01:07:26.600 Some men.

01:07:27.020 You know...

01:07:28.120 My brother likes fat women.

01:07:29.900 You know...

01:07:30.900 My brother goes out with a very, very large girl.

01:07:33.680 Can I just say something really, really quick?

01:07:35.540 Real, real, real quick.

01:07:36.760 I believe that men prefer more of a woman in shape, but there are a small percentage.

01:07:42.900 Like fat women.

01:07:43.780 That's right.

01:07:44.540 And that's it.

01:07:45.420 And that's a thin friend.

01:07:46.540 But my question is, why do we sell women dreams?

01:07:50.660 Well, no.

01:07:51.180 I'm not selling anyone dreams.

01:07:52.200 The fact is.

01:07:52.980 The fact is that my friend, she's a big girl, yeah?

01:07:55.500 She's very beautiful.

01:07:56.540 Beautiful girl.

01:07:57.140 And, like, she goes on dating sites sometimes and she'll meet a guy and she'll be like,

01:08:01.040 oh, you know, when he sees me in real life, do you think he's not going to like me because

01:08:04.300 I'm fat?

01:08:04.680 And I said, babe, you look fat in your pictures.

01:08:07.000 He knows you're fat.

01:08:08.300 So when he's meeting you, he knows you're a fat girl.

01:08:10.740 So he must like fat girls, otherwise he's not going on a date with you.

01:08:13.920 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:08:16.320 If I go on Hinge and a man's five foot six...

01:08:18.760 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:08:18.860 Why wouldn't you tell her what would help her, which is that if you're insecure about it,

01:08:22.740 you should lose weight?

01:08:23.540 She does go on a diet.

01:08:24.800 She does diet all the time, but she's just a bigger girl.

01:08:27.140 I'm saying one thing would help her if her problem is that she thinks men are going to think that she's fat.

01:08:35.560 The truth is, wait, wait.

01:08:38.180 The truth is that they will think she's fat.

01:08:40.140 Some men.

01:08:40.840 And that the truth is they will think she's fat because even those men are not blind and she should lose weight.

01:08:47.260 I feel like they can already see that she's fat.

01:08:50.100 I have a lot of clients that come into my salon.

01:08:53.760 What's your?

01:08:54.900 I have clinics around Essex.

01:08:58.460 And I have a lot of clinics.

01:08:58.900 Clinics for what?

01:09:00.300 STD?

01:09:03.180 How did you know?

01:09:06.240 A beast woman.

01:09:08.160 And some of my large ladies have more confidence than the smaller, thinner ladies.

01:09:14.680 You know, their confidence is through the roof.

01:09:16.540 They don't want to lose weight.

01:09:17.980 They're happy in their skin.

01:09:19.180 Okay, so I don't care about confidence.

01:09:22.620 I care about results and fat women have a harder time attracting men and fat women are more likely to die early and die alone.

01:09:32.260 You see, the problem we're having here in this society is that women get very confused very quickly because men will give sexual attention to any type of woman.

01:09:44.320 That is the problem.

01:09:45.260 So a woman will sit here and argue, yeah, men like fat women because they know that men will still sleep with them.

01:09:49.520 Because they know they want to sleep with a girl with a big fat bum.

01:09:52.440 Exactly.

01:09:53.080 And big, yeah, that's just a fuck.

01:09:53.660 But the reality, if you have to think about it, if you have to really think about it, when men want to settle down, they are not going to step out and pick the first fat woman that they can find.

01:10:02.080 If you like fat girls, you like fat girls.

01:10:04.200 No, but I'll tell you why.

01:10:05.120 I'll tell you why.

01:10:05.620 I'll tell you why.

01:10:06.360 Most men that will do that are probably very ignorant because the reality is when you're overweight, it comes a lot of health complications.

01:10:11.700 And if you're choosing a life partner, that is you literally picking potential future problems.

01:10:18.640 Okay.

01:10:19.180 What's the statistics about how many larger women there are in the country to how many thinner the women are in the country?

01:10:26.640 I know in the U.S. it's about the average woman's 170 pounds.

01:10:31.240 It's like average size is like 14 or 16 in the U.K., right?

01:10:34.100 That's what I heard.

01:10:34.860 Yeah.

01:10:35.120 It's like 14 or 16.

01:10:36.160 Yeah.

01:10:36.580 Yeah.

01:10:37.600 And women are not getting married as much as they used to.

01:10:40.660 It takes about three years to get an engagement from a guy.

01:10:43.780 We're not having kids like we're used to and we're not in relationships like we used to.

01:10:47.280 I think because they're not settling.

01:10:49.240 I would say that men are refusing to settle for women.

01:10:53.180 I would say it's the other way around.

01:10:54.660 I would say that women think they're the ones in charge, but we're really not because really most women are just chasing after 10% of men because the number one way people are meeting now is Instagram and dating apps.

01:11:07.580 Women find 80% of men is unattractive and ugly.

01:11:10.820 And I have a plethora of women that tell me about their ex-boyfriends that cheated on them, meaning that a lot of us are sharing men, meaning that really we're all just fighting over a small percentage of guys.

01:11:21.360 I mean, we'll set into different statistics because that's probably your statistic because I may not be trying to chase that.

01:11:28.580 Oh, it's worse for us, baby.

01:11:30.820 Actually, let me, let me, let me.

01:11:32.440 Maybe that's how you.

01:11:33.180 It's even worse for us, girl.

01:11:34.800 Okay, let me, let me, let me break it down.

01:11:36.640 You have a boyfriend?

01:11:38.120 Yeah.

01:11:38.400 My status is private, but yeah.

01:11:43.560 It's completely private, but yes, I do.

01:11:46.200 Let's say either your boyfriend now or your last boyfriend, let's say.

01:11:50.460 How tall is he?

01:11:51.220 Um, just an irrelevant height.

01:11:57.360 Let's say.

01:11:58.580 Come on, come on, be honest.

01:11:59.540 Hypothetically, I would not tend to typically go below six foot, but yeah.

01:12:04.340 Okay, so six foot.

01:12:05.360 How much money does he make?

01:12:07.020 Typically rich, but.

01:12:11.200 Hypothetically.

01:12:11.680 Would you say he's good looking?

01:12:14.740 This is the thing.

01:12:16.220 That's very subjective, isn't it?

01:12:17.960 Because for me.

01:12:18.800 But the pause is telling.

01:12:19.680 Okay, okay, but.

01:12:20.620 I know, but I mean, let's.

01:12:21.920 Let's say why.

01:12:22.500 The clarification is tennis.

01:12:23.820 I'll tell you why.

01:12:24.580 Okay, fine, fine.

01:12:25.440 Let's just say he's ugly, even if he's ugly.

01:12:27.440 Six foot.

01:12:27.900 Yes, to you.

01:12:28.320 Six, I don't, I don't believe he is, but let's just say he is.

01:12:31.720 Just.

01:12:32.020 To you.

01:12:32.360 Just for stats.

01:12:33.020 Possibly, yeah.

01:12:33.340 For stats.

01:12:34.040 Yes.

01:12:34.620 Okay, so this, you're, and does he make over six figures?

01:12:38.600 Uh, you said rich, so I don't know.

01:12:40.760 What is rich to you?

01:12:41.600 This is the thing.

01:12:42.420 He's a ballpark figure, isn't it?

01:12:43.660 You know, to one person's rich.

01:12:44.760 Give me, okay, okay.

01:12:45.720 He's poor.

01:12:46.100 Over six figures.

01:12:47.100 He's a midget, he's poor.

01:12:49.340 Let's go with that.

01:12:50.100 Okay.

01:12:50.520 She's cupping out.

01:12:51.980 Don't, no, come on, don't cap out.

01:12:53.520 Be honest, be honest.

01:12:54.480 Just to say he's of average height and of average income.

01:12:56.440 Let's go.

01:12:56.660 Okay, okay.

01:12:57.620 No, no, I want you to be honest.

01:12:59.000 I don't want to say, let's just say.

01:13:00.460 I just want, I want to have an honest, like, a real conversation.

01:13:02.640 But we're an hypothetical person, aren't we?

01:13:03.960 No, no.

01:13:04.660 Yeah.

01:13:05.000 Because she's single.

01:13:06.300 She's a missing person.

01:13:07.800 What's the point?

01:13:08.280 You're not, I know, you're not answering the question because I'm going to prove a point.

01:13:11.880 You said over six foot.

01:13:12.960 But even by that alone, you're only going for 15% of guys.

01:13:16.320 15% of men are over six foot.

01:13:18.300 This is general because I have had partners of different heights.

01:13:22.540 And they're probably top 10% good looking because women find 80% of men ugly.

01:13:27.540 Depends on your perception of good looking.

01:13:29.460 It's not depends.

01:13:30.340 It's not depends.

01:13:30.960 Of course it is.

01:13:31.540 Because some people might think I'm hideous.

01:13:33.100 Some people might think I'm attractive.

01:13:34.320 No, no, it's about, no, there's generally.

01:13:35.280 Nobody thinking hideous.

01:13:36.180 No, women tend to, so they've replicated these studies and, like, dating events.

01:13:46.260 So, like, when people go one-on-one and do, like, speed dating, you can even see these studies

01:13:52.280 in real time if you watch, like, The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, if you watch any of those

01:13:56.200 Love Island shows, they're always competing for the same guys.

01:13:59.600 I've had some guys that people think are actually hideous looking.

01:14:03.540 And I think they're the sexiest thing.

01:14:06.200 But...

01:14:06.260 Yeah, we can't really go with glasses.

01:14:08.000 But that's because they're probably rich.

01:14:10.140 Don't play with us.

01:14:11.020 That's because they're probably rich.

01:14:11.700 Guys, guys.

01:14:12.160 No, but even if there's a little bit of a disagreement, if you think, oh, he's all right looking,

01:14:19.360 he's still in the top 20% of men.

01:14:21.320 The reality is, if women really thought beauty was subjective, women wouldn't be swiping

01:14:28.400 right 5% of the time on Tinder.

01:14:30.880 This is the thing.

01:14:31.440 Women swipe right 5%.

01:14:32.440 Women swipe right 5%.

01:14:33.940 Yeah, you need to have that sex appeal and confidence.

01:14:36.100 For me, that's what I need.

01:14:37.340 Right?

01:14:37.960 Dating apps tell the truth when it comes to beauty standards.

01:14:40.820 Well, I'm telling you my opinion.

01:14:42.900 I've never been on Tinder.

01:14:44.680 But, guys, you could do the same thing with Instagram.

01:14:47.500 You could do...

01:14:47.940 Everyone is on Instagram here, right?

01:14:49.200 I'm assuming that's how you got recruited, right?

01:14:51.200 By the way, I would say what they just said is an argument for people doing cold approach,

01:14:55.620 like approaching real life.

01:14:56.640 I mean, maybe you disagree, Paul, because you'll say the real life studies sort of bear

01:15:00.740 out the online stats.

01:15:01.920 But I do think when you're approaching real life, you tend to get a few additional points

01:15:05.280 as a dude.

01:15:05.780 Yeah, definitely.

01:15:06.500 You're not going to get...

01:15:08.000 100%.

01:15:08.680 It's a completely different interaction.

01:15:10.680 In a picture, you might not be...

01:15:12.140 You might not be phyogenic.

01:15:13.800 To that point, any guy who is confident enough to approach a woman in public...

01:15:17.920 He's probably top 10% of men because he has been doing it.

01:15:21.060 No, not true.

01:15:22.260 I'll tell you why.

01:15:23.260 I'll tell you why.

01:15:24.120 A guy who is not attractive and who doesn't get women is not just going to, out of the

01:15:28.820 blue, approach a beautiful woman.

01:15:30.340 Lies.

01:15:30.660 Because that's not true.

01:15:31.860 That's not true.

01:15:32.760 That's the fact.

01:15:33.760 You guys don't live the life of a man.

01:15:35.540 I'm telling you.

01:15:36.180 King, we live the life of women that men approach.

01:15:38.260 Yes.

01:15:38.560 And I'm telling you that the men that approach you have been successful at approaching

01:15:45.680 other women.

01:15:46.340 I have children I have met.

01:15:46.900 That's the truth.

01:15:47.460 Allegedly.

01:15:48.360 Uncles.

01:15:48.760 Because that's how...

01:15:49.580 Okay, okay, okay, okay.

01:15:50.840 I just want to...

01:15:51.600 Okay, shh.

01:15:52.920 Okay, I have a question.

01:15:53.520 So you really think that if a man has approached 100 women and all of them have rejected

01:15:57.680 him, you would accept him?

01:15:59.240 No.

01:15:59.780 Oh, he would even...

01:16:00.420 It's possible.

01:16:00.660 It's possible.

01:16:01.480 It's actually impossible.

01:16:03.060 Why?

01:16:03.460 I'll tell you why.

01:16:04.500 I never...

01:16:04.900 For the fact that 100 women...

01:16:06.840 No.

01:16:07.280 It's not impossible.

01:16:08.380 Think about it.

01:16:08.920 Think about it like this.

01:16:09.620 It's not impossible.

01:16:10.220 We get chatted up all the time.

01:16:11.880 King, Pearl wanted to say something.

01:16:13.340 What did you want to say, Pearl?

01:16:15.660 So, question.

01:16:17.600 I like ugly men, by the way.

01:16:19.000 Just seen it.

01:16:19.420 Who here has had a boyfriend that's cheated on them?

01:16:22.040 Cheat.

01:16:24.040 Okay.

01:16:24.540 Probably.

01:16:24.960 All right.

01:16:25.820 Everyone...

01:16:26.540 Shit, me too.

01:16:27.280 All right.

01:16:28.480 We're sharing...

01:16:29.080 That's the point.

01:16:29.680 We're sharing men.

01:16:30.520 We're literally sharing men.

01:16:32.000 Yeah.

01:16:32.840 But who has cheated on their man?

01:16:35.740 When I was young.

01:16:36.860 When I was young.

01:16:37.680 I was young, but I cheated.

01:16:39.660 Look, if we want to argue that women...

01:16:41.120 I was not young.

01:16:41.800 If we want to argue...

01:16:43.560 If we want to argue that women are promiscuous, this is the show.

01:16:46.840 I'm just saying everyone cheats.

01:16:48.480 I actually get to finish my class.

01:16:50.540 No, no, no.

01:16:51.280 But the point is it's still a small percentage of men that we are going after.

01:16:57.580 That is the point.

01:16:58.420 Yes.

01:16:58.680 And my point is you are lying to your friend.

01:17:01.500 You're lying to women.

01:17:02.760 I'm not.

01:17:03.000 I'm not.

01:17:03.280 I don't think it's true lying.

01:17:04.480 Yeah, you are.

01:17:05.280 You are.

01:17:05.540 I'm also lying.

01:17:07.080 Right now, the way society is set up, you can't...

01:17:11.420 It's not...

01:17:11.840 I don't call it lying.

01:17:13.360 It's the way that society is set up.

01:17:15.320 You can't tell somebody that they're unattractive or you need to go and lose weight.

01:17:18.820 Because, no, you can't do unattractive.

01:17:21.740 But she's not unattractive.

01:17:21.760 She's beautiful.

01:17:22.460 No, but the problem...

01:17:23.000 Yeah, exactly.

01:17:23.760 And that's the problem.

01:17:24.920 Because you tell everybody they're beautiful.

01:17:26.660 The problem you're having is...

01:17:29.440 But I'm saying, like, you need to be honest with women.

01:17:32.440 And I'm saying, I don't understand why you keep arguing for the exception.

01:17:35.120 No, but I was honest.

01:17:36.000 I told her she's fat.

01:17:37.180 I said that.

01:17:37.820 Okay, but would you also be able to tell her that the majority of men...

01:17:41.520 But you're beautiful.

01:17:42.180 If a man sees you on your Tinder and he sees your body shape because you show it on your pictures...

01:17:48.100 I love guys.

01:17:48.120 Do you like that?

01:17:48.500 And he wants to go on a date with you.

01:17:50.200 When he sees you, he'll laugh and look at me.

01:17:51.420 Oh, she's fat.

01:17:52.220 No.

01:17:52.700 You can see you're fat.

01:17:53.400 But her pool of potential dudes would be bigger if she slimmed down a bit.

01:17:58.560 And that's by the by.

01:17:59.760 But the point I'm making is when she...

01:18:01.480 If she wants to maximise her opportunities...

01:18:04.020 Her question to me was, do you think when they meet me, they'll be like, oh, she's fat?

01:18:07.420 And I said, no, because they can see your fat from your pictures.

01:18:10.120 And if...

01:18:10.400 Sorry, babe.

01:18:10.760 And if you still chose to go on a date with you, so they must like fat girls.

01:18:14.940 No, no, but that's not what I was...

01:18:16.920 I was referring to during this show.

01:18:19.320 I keep saying that men don't like fat chicks and you keep arguing with me.

01:18:22.900 Some men like fat chicks.

01:18:24.160 And before, you're right, you keep arguing with me for the exception.

01:18:28.140 And I'm saying that's dishonest.

01:18:29.580 So if I say that, and I'll tell you why.

01:18:31.900 If I say that women like rich men, you know, you could say, but some women like broke men.

01:18:37.980 You know, that would be...

01:18:39.900 I'm dating broke men.

01:18:41.120 I've been the breadwinner in relationships.

01:18:42.500 I don't know if that's a flex.

01:18:44.980 But my question is, are you with them now?

01:18:49.280 No.

01:18:50.020 Exactly.

01:18:51.220 I'm not with rich guys.

01:18:52.240 Exactly.

01:18:53.240 So it's the stakes.

01:18:54.040 But my point, if they had the things you were looking for, you'd be with them.

01:18:58.540 Women don't leave the men that have the things they want.

01:19:00.720 Yeah, but money wasn't the thing.

01:19:01.720 And lack of money wasn't the thing.

01:19:03.220 It was obviously something...

01:19:04.240 And weight wasn't the thing.

01:19:04.400 It obviously was something else.

01:19:06.260 So that's still...

01:19:06.720 Okay, tell me, what was it?

01:19:08.260 What was it?

01:19:09.280 What was it?

01:19:09.820 Okay, I know I want to hear.

01:19:10.720 What was it?

01:19:11.140 So the last main relationship I was in, I just found him a little bit emotionally detached.

01:19:16.000 Emotionally detached.

01:19:16.680 So this is what I call things women make up when they don't like the guy because he doesn't do well enough.

01:19:23.420 I'm very tactile.

01:19:24.600 I'm very emotional.

01:19:25.720 I'm very loving.

01:19:26.620 And I just found him not to be that type of person.

01:19:28.580 Doesn't make him a bad person.

01:19:29.940 Just makes us very different people.

01:19:31.800 And that's okay.

01:19:32.840 You can come to that conclusion.

01:19:34.200 What do you thought?

01:19:35.340 Without knowledge.

01:19:36.980 Yeah.

01:19:37.480 How long were you together for?

01:19:38.620 Women generally don't.

01:19:39.600 Yeah.

01:19:40.980 Okay.

01:19:41.900 I gave it a good run.

01:19:43.800 We gave it good innings.

01:19:44.860 Didn't work.

01:19:45.440 It's okay.

01:19:45.980 So obviously, come on stripper, how long was you...

01:19:49.300 How long has been your longest relationship?

01:19:55.080 About six hours.

01:19:57.300 Do you like...

01:19:58.300 About six hours, 49 minutes when I was flying from New York to London.

01:20:03.120 And most of it was conducted in the...

01:20:06.020 Toilets.

01:20:06.500 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:20:11.120 The physical intimacy didn't last for the six hours, by the way.

01:20:15.200 I think if the stats are...

01:20:16.660 But back to...

01:20:17.820 Wait, sorry, go ahead.

01:20:18.680 I think if the stats are that most majority of men like in a woman...

01:20:25.980 Is her mic off?

01:20:27.900 As a fat woman...

01:20:29.380 As a fat woman, you just say, just give up her love.

01:20:32.300 No, but she can maximize her pull.

01:20:34.140 Well, I would say reality will hit you in the face anyways.

01:20:39.220 And I think a lot of times as women, we shield each other from reality.

01:20:42.500 We say, oh, there's someone for everyone.

01:20:45.020 I hear this all the time.

01:20:46.560 You realize 50% of us will end up alone.

01:20:50.320 50% of women are going to be single.

01:20:53.340 Half of women are going to be single and childless.

01:20:56.000 Half of the...

01:20:57.380 And that doesn't even include the women that are single mothers.

01:20:59.920 They don't typically remarry.

01:21:01.640 Really, it's like less than, I would argue, roughly 20% of women that are predicted to have a happy ending.

01:21:07.900 So where do you feel like...

01:21:09.100 Do you have a vision board?

01:21:11.160 Where do I...

01:21:12.020 I think there's a lot of people that lie to women.

01:21:14.480 I think women lie to each other.

01:21:15.920 And like they often make us like cope with poor choices.

01:21:19.840 So, for example, the fat friend.

01:21:22.140 Instead of saying, lose weight, your life will be better if you lose weight.

01:21:25.280 You'll be healthier if you lose weight.

01:21:26.600 And you won't be insecure.

01:21:28.080 But I think we're trying to lose weight again and again.

01:21:30.540 And I think it's backed up by the media.

01:21:33.920 And they have an entire industry dedicated to keeping us fat and alone.

01:21:38.160 And they just want to make money off of us.

01:21:39.380 I have a friend, one of my best friends, very large.

01:21:43.860 She's been with our husbands for years.

01:21:45.940 She's fat.

01:21:46.900 She likes being bigger.

01:21:48.120 Was she fat when they got married?

01:21:49.840 Yeah, she was over, over, overweight when she got married.

01:21:52.840 She's in a happy relationship.

01:21:54.460 She's got two beautiful kids.

01:21:56.560 She likes being bigger.

01:21:57.860 She's a model as well, an influencer.

01:22:00.760 And she's so happy in her life being fat.

01:22:03.700 And I think it's actually quite selfish to be fat.

01:22:06.800 I think it's really selfish because your kids are the ones that are going to have to take care of you.

01:22:10.880 So you're basically saying, I don't have any self-control.

01:22:14.920 And now my kids, you're not going to have as long of a life with your children.

01:22:18.520 Not everyone's fat because of lack of self-control, though.

01:22:21.240 So I think that's very generalizing.

01:22:23.160 No, I would say you're fat because you eat too much and you don't exercise enough.

01:22:28.740 I hardly eat anything and I'm not skinny like a twig.

01:22:31.540 So what does that mean?

01:22:32.120 I would say that you probably eat more than you say.

01:22:35.120 I think women probably, like women tend to lie about that.

01:22:39.500 If I had a dollar for...

01:22:41.480 Your waist is definitely very slim.

01:22:42.500 I might extend off.

01:22:43.720 Yeah, no one cares.

01:22:45.000 We're very, very honest, aren't we?

01:22:47.140 But to the point of being very blunt.

01:22:49.060 So it's like we're not protecting anyone's feelings.

01:22:51.300 Sorry.

01:22:51.580 I'll be saying like, oh, babe, maybe you could look better.

01:22:54.760 Be a bit more slim down.

01:22:55.780 That's my sister.

01:22:56.680 She'll be like, all right, well, you're a bit of fat now.

01:23:00.900 These triceps have got a bit loose.

01:23:03.860 A bit tricepy.

01:23:05.080 And honestly, for me, a lot of guys that I date, they tend to say to me, oh, when I'm training, you're too slim.

01:23:14.340 They don't like it.

01:23:15.240 Well, I think they like, I think men, I think, I think men typically like slim thick.

01:23:24.340 Yeah.

01:23:24.620 You know, you know, they might like a big butt, but they have, you have to have the small waist.

01:23:29.040 It's like, they've been like an hourglass figure.

01:23:31.500 Who's hotter, Aaliyah or Lizzo?

01:23:34.760 None.

01:23:35.540 Aaliyah.

01:23:36.860 Obviously, Aaliyah's hot, but it's no comparison.

01:23:41.680 You just compare.

01:23:42.520 Let's be real, Aaliyah.

01:23:43.220 Aaliyah's dead, Aaliyah's hot, but there's no comparison.

01:23:46.300 Aaliyah's dead.

01:23:47.700 What'd you guys say?

01:23:48.780 What'd you guys say?

01:23:49.680 I have a question.

01:23:50.880 If I have a question, women, raise your hand.

01:23:53.160 If I said you have a body like Lizzo, would you take that as a compliment?

01:23:56.800 Raise your hand if yes.

01:23:57.940 No.

01:23:59.140 This is what I mean when I say women lie.

01:24:01.620 I would.

01:24:02.740 No, you all know.

01:24:03.760 No, I said we want, who said we want a body like Lizzo?

01:24:06.860 No, we just, yeah.

01:24:07.780 But my point is before, no, but the reason I said that is earlier, I said that women,

01:24:12.820 but, or Lizzo, I said that Lizzo was unattractive, and she said, or I think there was a couple

01:24:17.900 of you maybe that said that Lizzo is attractive.

01:24:21.760 I said she's pretty.

01:24:22.660 Facially.

01:24:23.260 I said she's fat, but she's pretty.

01:24:25.220 That's what I said.

01:24:26.000 Facially.

01:24:26.900 We all know that she's a baby hippo.

01:24:28.620 If you said, do I want Lizzo's face?

01:24:30.860 This is a different problem.

01:24:31.640 I would say the fat ruins her face, because there's all this blubber around it.

01:24:36.600 Yeah.

01:24:36.800 I mean, she's pretty.

01:24:38.220 I mean, she's pretty, but if you, she's overweight, let's be built.

01:24:42.040 She's overweight, though.

01:24:43.260 Come on, let's not be married.

01:24:44.760 Exactly.

01:24:45.320 She's definitely overweight.

01:24:46.400 So I would say, I'm going to, I'm going to say, so I think that the second, I think that

01:24:51.000 the second thing that women lie to each other about, and this kind of goes to the housewife,

01:24:55.260 because for whatever reason, when I have these conversations about like, what, what does

01:24:59.940 it take to deserve to be a housewife?

01:25:02.180 We can always like talk about it in the abstract, but when it comes to reality, it's like, we

01:25:06.380 could never be honest.

01:25:08.480 And the second thing I think that we lie to each other about is just how hard women have

01:25:12.660 it.

01:25:12.800 I think women have it pretty easy, especially compared to men.

01:25:16.240 I think you mentioned a patriarchy earlier.

01:25:18.540 I don't believe in that in the slightest.

01:25:20.520 I think you're given far more opportunity as a woman.

01:25:22.900 You're entitled to your opinion, babe.

01:25:23.860 Um, and I think typically the women that argue about patriarchy are usually just lazy.

01:25:29.700 I can't lie.

01:25:30.360 I think we have it so easy and I'm so glad to be a woman.

01:25:33.880 It is.

01:25:34.200 Ha, ha, ha.

01:25:35.220 To the men.

01:25:36.020 Ha, ha, ha.

01:25:36.640 I don't have to have periods.

01:25:38.780 I don't have to carry a baby for nine months.

01:25:40.460 We have it easy.

01:25:41.360 Yeah.

01:25:41.820 And I think there's a couple.

01:25:42.980 We have to carry the baby.

01:25:43.980 I don't have to have hormones.

01:25:46.080 I would say there's a couple.

01:25:47.240 I would say there's a couple of reasons.

01:25:48.920 When it comes down to a solid, solid, solid relationship.

01:25:53.140 Between a man and a woman.

01:25:55.300 Who has got to do the most providing, technically?

01:25:58.560 A woman?

01:25:59.380 A man.

01:25:59.860 Yeah, but the woman usually wants that life more than the man anyways.

01:26:03.680 Women usually want kids more than the man and want that lifestyle more than the man.

01:26:06.920 I think when we get easy, we go into a club and we flutter our eyelids.

01:26:09.800 Of course.

01:26:10.100 I'll be real.

01:26:10.920 You might do.

01:26:12.700 Yeah.

01:26:13.480 We have it ten times easier.

01:26:15.040 There's all these special programs for women.

01:26:17.280 In most of my relationships, I don't see it like that.

01:26:20.360 Well, yeah, right.

01:26:21.060 But wait.

01:26:21.360 Okay.

01:26:21.660 What do you do again?

01:26:23.240 What do I do?

01:26:24.000 Yeah.

01:26:24.120 What do you do for a living?

01:26:24.920 I dance on a poem.

01:26:28.760 No, no, I don't really.

01:26:29.840 I'm a singer.

01:26:30.820 I'm an artist.

01:26:31.980 Okay.

01:26:32.440 Well, I would argue that artists, performers, podcasters, social media influences are all

01:26:37.720 monetizing their looks.

01:26:38.980 You absolutely have an advantage as a woman, as an entertainer.

01:26:41.980 No, but I'm just talking about being the breadwinner in a relationship.

01:26:47.680 What?

01:26:47.900 Say that.

01:26:48.340 What did you say?

01:26:48.800 You're a podcaster.

01:26:49.660 You're like, the podcasters monetize their looks.

01:26:51.960 Oh, yeah.

01:26:52.440 No, I think, I think, I think, I think women have it easier.

01:26:57.240 I think it's, and I've managed, I could say this from managing.

01:27:00.780 I've managed social media accounts for women and for men.

01:27:03.780 Oh, my gosh.

01:27:04.340 It's so much easier if you're a chick.

01:27:06.200 Chicks just have to do some reactions.

01:27:07.980 They're like, ah.

01:27:08.660 No, but if you're a hot man, yeah, I'll go crazy for that.

01:27:11.400 So, I disagree.

01:27:12.800 Well, but, so, so.

01:27:14.760 But men pay more because, firstly.

01:27:16.880 Well, I, it's been real.

01:27:18.040 No, even as a hot guy, it's way harder.

01:27:20.220 But everybody still have it easier because nobody's going to get up for a hot guy on

01:27:23.440 the train, but they'll get up for a hot girl on the train.

01:27:25.900 I would, I would rather, if I had to manage one or the other, I would rather manage the

01:27:30.460 average, the slut, the cute chick over the hot guy.

01:27:33.600 It's easier.

01:27:34.100 I'd manage the hot guy.

01:27:36.460 Can he sell more, though?

01:27:37.900 Can he actually sell more than a woman?

01:27:39.580 Can he, can he genuinely sell you more products?

01:27:41.800 I mean, if you look at, if you look at social media accounts, I mean, even guys who are like

01:27:45.880 Is his mic off, guys?

01:27:47.600 Even guys, is my mic off?

01:27:48.700 No, I can't hear him.

01:27:49.600 I don't feel like mine is either.

01:27:52.420 It's my mic.

01:27:53.200 Yeah, some of these mics are right.

01:27:54.280 I can't hear myself either.

01:27:55.840 What?

01:27:56.920 Huh?

01:27:57.260 We didn't get to answer the question.

01:27:58.720 Engineer.

01:27:59.360 I'm still there.

01:28:00.280 We've been going on about, you know, size.

01:28:02.560 Who do you think is more sexual?

01:28:04.000 I think, I think the way the media, can everyone hear me?

01:28:07.600 Yeah, I can hear you.

01:28:08.380 Not really.

01:28:09.140 Not in the mic.

01:28:11.100 That's what it is.

01:28:12.760 So I think the way the media sort of, has sort of created this perception of life, of reality

01:28:20.420 is, you know, right from when we're young and growing up, you know, we see the images

01:28:23.900 of men being very sexual with TV, American Pie, another teen movie, a lot of movies, and

01:28:29.540 just a lot of things in media centered around men being sexual.

01:28:33.480 But the reality is women are more sexual.

01:28:35.820 And we see this everywhere.

01:28:37.260 Like on the train, we see women openly reading Fifty Shades of Grey.

01:28:40.360 But whereas obviously men are probably indoors watching porn.

01:28:43.840 But men are, women are more like liberated and sort of have this sort of standard of being

01:28:51.700 able to express discreetly that they're sexual and is accepted.

01:28:56.200 Whereas men are then seen by the society as this overtly sexual people.

01:29:00.860 And that's what this whole image is about, you know, men, if a man is looking at you too

01:29:04.620 much, you know, they're probably thinking too much about it, too much about sexual stuff

01:29:08.200 and things like that.

01:29:09.140 Whereas the real truth is like women are just more sexual, in my opinion.

01:29:12.040 I think that's where feminism, like, makes it easier for women then.

01:29:16.780 It's only now that we're seeing content around women being sexual.

01:29:21.180 No.

01:29:21.660 Well, I mean, when you think about it, women, we could...

01:29:24.960 When you think of...

01:29:26.760 Blessing, I don't know what's going on.

01:29:28.300 I can hear you.

01:29:29.260 Can you hear me?

01:29:30.060 When you think about it, though, it's like women could have chosen to be anything.

01:29:35.400 You know, we got all this freedom.

01:29:37.160 And a lot of us chose OnlyFans.

01:29:38.660 There's more OnlyFans models than teachers right now.

01:29:41.040 I'm a teacher.

01:29:41.580 I'm a qualified teacher.

01:29:42.760 What about both men?

01:29:44.600 Are there more OnlyFans men than men teachers?

01:29:48.480 Are there more women teachers than male teachers?

01:29:50.260 What's the statistics?

01:29:51.080 I want to know as we're talking about it.

01:29:52.980 Male to female teacher breakdown.

01:29:54.900 There's far more female teachers than male.

01:29:56.800 Well, we're winning already then.

01:29:57.880 Okay, so we're winning.

01:29:58.880 Well, I would say that they're not winning because women ruined education.

01:30:02.880 So in the 1850s, it was primarily male teachers.

01:30:05.660 And you've seen IQ drop really since the 1850s.

01:30:08.460 Okay, I actually have a child.

01:30:09.640 How do you know that's not been a change of the curriculum?

01:30:11.640 And he's elevated since having a female teacher.

01:30:14.800 How do you know that wasn't a change in the curriculum as well?

01:30:17.040 Well, it did change the...

01:30:18.740 So the problem is when women go into a space, and you kind of see it in this conversation,

01:30:23.680 women don't like to have hierarchy and rank each other.

01:30:26.160 So the same way I'll say, hey, men don't like fat chicks.

01:30:29.300 Some of you are like, okay, yes, true.

01:30:32.160 But then like some other people are like, well, but, oh no.

01:30:35.460 Women tend to like everything to be more egalitarian, fair, everyone's special, participation trophies.

01:30:40.640 So when women infiltrate an industry, it tends to get less competitive.

01:30:46.280 What happened in education is they started grading things like papers, homework, and essays,

01:30:50.360 and attendance, which kind of fluff up the grade where it used to just be IQ tests.

01:30:54.980 So you don't think we should lead?

01:30:56.520 You don't think we should teach?

01:30:57.720 Do you think that we should just be happy with the average lives?

01:31:00.620 And when I say average, it means like, yeah, I have a house.

01:31:03.040 Yeah, I have things taken care of for me, but I can't customize that life.

01:31:05.780 I didn't say that women shouldn't teach.

01:31:10.860 I just think that women, by and large, are not as good at teaching,

01:31:14.700 and they should be out of the managerial positions that are making decisions on education.

01:31:19.400 So they shouldn't lead education or in politics?

01:31:22.420 Yeah, no, I don't think women should be in politics.

01:31:24.160 They should be led by men in all industries.

01:31:26.820 Just a quick question, but why?

01:31:28.820 Okay, so I think there's a natural order in the world.

01:31:31.920 And this kind of goes, I'm Catholic, so it kind of goes to a religious point of view.

01:31:35.120 So I think it goes God, men, women, children.

01:31:39.360 And I think when you start putting women above men, that is typically where you see evil happen.

01:31:45.200 Really?

01:31:46.140 Yeah, and you see it in society.

01:31:48.420 I'll give you an example.

01:31:49.580 Like before, really, I just think egalitarianism is evil.

01:31:54.300 And the reason I think that, sorry, my voice is so much louder.

01:31:57.760 It's like distracting.

01:31:58.400 But so typically what you'll see is when women get power over men, they're just not nice with it.

01:32:07.380 Even when like women become queens and rulers, they're more likely to be violent.

01:32:11.160 When women get power over children, they're more likely to kill them.

01:32:14.400 Women, it's almost unheard of for men to kill their kids in the first year.

01:32:17.220 Women do it all the time.

01:32:18.140 Well, you were talking earlier about female employers, right?

01:32:22.340 And even women prefer to have male employers.

01:32:24.400 And I mean, in my experience working in corporate, right?

01:32:26.320 When there's female bosses, it can be a complete nightmare.

01:32:29.800 You know, very Machiavellian, very dark triad, very sort of like tough environment.

01:32:35.000 And when you have male bosses, that could also be a tough environment.

01:32:38.640 But it tends to be a bit, I hate to say it, but it tends to be a bit fairer.

01:32:42.080 And it tends to be a bit clearer and sort of more above board, you know?

01:32:44.820 Yeah, even women don't.

01:32:46.140 Yeah, exactly, exactly.

01:32:47.620 Yeah, I've worked with women and they've said, Jesus, you know, I wish we had our previous male boss again, because this woman now is just a nightmare.

01:32:54.120 Well, women have, again, women default to egalitarianism.

01:32:58.000 So men are much more direct.

01:32:59.560 They prioritize information where women prioritize our feelings, unfortunately.

01:33:04.160 So when you see women take over an industry, the industry tends to go downhill.

01:33:08.400 An example of that is education.

01:33:10.000 It used to be primarily male and the results were much better.

01:33:12.980 Now you see IQ tests dropping.

01:33:15.460 You have people graduating high school.

01:33:17.020 They can't even do basic math.

01:33:19.000 So typically when women take over an industry, it just doesn't do as well.

01:33:22.580 Do you not think that we're evolving at all?

01:33:24.940 No.

01:33:25.620 I think we're devolving.

01:33:30.340 And I'll answer that question.

01:33:32.240 I think we're devolving.

01:33:33.280 I think women are getting worse.

01:33:35.080 And I say that because I see women in thongs at the beaches.

01:33:38.540 I think we're kind of prioritizing the wrong things.

01:33:40.980 Okay, forget the minority that are in thongs at the beaches.

01:33:45.060 Oh, I would.

01:33:46.800 That's the majority.

01:33:48.060 So, yeah, I know.

01:33:48.800 I get this a lot.

01:33:49.860 So, yeah.

01:33:50.580 So, you're doing a lot of things.

01:33:52.260 And there's women that do you want to elevate.

01:33:53.960 So, I would say that the reason I have been successful is I take a lot of guidance from my dad.

01:34:02.760 I don't think I know.

01:34:04.560 So, your mom has nothing to do with it?

01:34:06.080 My mom does not give me the same type of guidance that my dad does.

01:34:10.900 She built your dad.

01:34:11.600 So, you know, I mean, they work together.

01:34:15.800 They were a team.

01:34:16.840 But I would say my dad just, men give you a different type of guidance that has more structure.

01:34:22.360 And that's typically what women need.

01:34:23.860 You know, I think I'm very, I'm very, my brother's helped me too, actually.

01:34:27.980 So, do your brother get guidance from your mom or your dad?

01:34:32.920 I would say for the things that require structure, they go to my dad.

01:34:38.020 Because my dad is very logical, very structured.

01:34:41.180 He can help me with the accounting.

01:34:42.760 He helps me.

01:34:43.260 He helps me make.

01:34:44.020 Is your mom a housewife?

01:34:44.620 My mom actually quit her job.

01:34:47.680 She was going to be a teacher.

01:34:49.040 She's a husband.

01:34:49.840 She quit.

01:34:50.920 Wait.

01:34:52.220 My mom actually, she was going to.

01:34:54.900 High value.

01:34:55.540 I'm joking.

01:34:56.340 My dad owned a company growing up.

01:34:59.320 And he was going to, my mom was going to be a teacher.

01:35:03.280 And then she quit that to go work for my dad.

01:35:05.460 To be a husband.

01:35:06.140 And they, well, they worked together.

01:35:07.860 They built like their business together.

01:35:09.720 So, I mean, it wasn't like a who did it.

01:35:11.920 It was like a, it was like a teamwork thing.

01:35:13.760 But, you know, it wasn't like keeping score, housewife, you know.

01:35:16.680 I get the foundation of your knowledge and how you feel.

01:35:20.320 But it's just, everyone has a different upbringing.

01:35:24.020 They have their parts to play.

01:35:25.660 For us, for my sister and I, we was solid for my mom.

01:35:31.400 My mom worked, she worked on a building site.

01:35:34.160 She had a decorating company.

01:35:36.640 And she took us on all trips.

01:35:39.420 How many employees did the decorating company have?

01:35:42.040 She had seven.

01:35:42.600 Okay, yeah, that's typically female businesses are not over.

01:35:46.220 It is, I know.

01:35:47.340 However, where was my dad?

01:35:49.560 In those times as well.

01:35:50.620 And where was my dad?

01:35:51.480 We're evolving, aren't we?

01:35:52.560 So, wait, where was your, what's your, where was he?

01:35:56.100 Okay, what happened?

01:35:57.100 Your dad, they got.

01:35:57.780 He was not around.

01:35:58.320 He was not around.

01:35:58.940 Okay, what, they were divorced?

01:36:00.800 He was just not around.

01:36:01.300 Okay, what was, were they dating before?

01:36:03.520 Like, how did you get to that point?

01:36:05.000 He was just not around.

01:36:05.340 He was not around.

01:36:06.240 Okay.

01:36:07.280 No, but I'm asking, like, were they together when you were born?

01:36:10.480 The point is, wait, wait, wait, wait, so I'm asking, were they together when you were born?

01:36:15.180 Oh, that's irrelevant.

01:36:15.760 Yeah, yeah.

01:36:16.500 No, no, it's really, it is really relevant.

01:36:18.400 They were, and when did he go out of the picture?

01:36:20.960 I have no idea.

01:36:22.020 Okay, and this is based off of, like, what your mom told you?

01:36:25.740 That you know he's not around?

01:36:26.580 Well, they both told us.

01:36:28.100 He's now here.

01:36:28.920 For our lives.

01:36:29.940 Yeah.

01:36:30.260 No, no, I'm asking, like, have you ever spoken?

01:36:32.540 Yeah, of course, he's about, he's about now.

01:36:34.200 Oh, so you, you see him now?

01:36:35.900 Yeah.

01:36:36.400 And what did he say?

01:36:37.680 He's in regret.

01:36:39.140 Okay, so he wasn't around, like, he, she.

01:36:41.580 Like, how he should have been, and she stepped up to the plate.

01:36:44.060 Mm-hmm.

01:36:44.680 Yeah, and she, well, I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I don't.

01:36:48.320 Unfortunately, everyone has their different, their plans, hands don't differently.

01:36:52.200 Are you saying that your life would have been better with him there?

01:36:55.780 It would have had a different level of.

01:36:58.000 Of course it would have.

01:36:58.880 Two people.

01:36:59.760 Exactly.

01:37:00.080 Two people, three people, four people.

01:37:01.640 And it shows you, well, and it shows you the value of a father, and men bring structure.

01:37:06.660 So we agree.

01:37:07.860 But I wouldn't say that one sex brings more value than the other.

01:37:11.220 That's the point.

01:37:11.720 Correct, because if our father had done the same thing.

01:37:14.400 I don't think he would have stepped up to the plate.

01:37:15.800 And your mom wasn't around you.

01:37:16.860 Correct, yeah.

01:37:17.960 You would have missed having a mother.

01:37:19.420 Do you think people always better than one?

01:37:20.400 Well, but.

01:37:21.080 They say it takes a child to raise a village.

01:37:24.020 Well, I guess my first question would, was, my first question would be,

01:37:28.000 why did your mom pick your dad?

01:37:29.660 It sounds like he wasn't too good of a guy.

01:37:31.560 We're not in her head.

01:37:32.400 You're not in her head.

01:37:32.860 But that's, that's, that's my, that's, that's my point.

01:37:35.240 It's probably sexual.

01:37:35.620 Who knows?

01:37:36.460 You know.

01:37:36.640 I don't know.

01:37:37.680 I don't know.

01:37:38.620 Love you.

01:37:39.440 Bye, baby.

01:37:40.120 What we need to do is get her on the show.

01:37:42.160 But my, my, my point, my point is, I just think that both sexes bring different values.

01:37:47.720 And I think the value that men bring is typically better in business because they have more order.

01:37:53.780 Women are very creative.

01:37:54.940 I think women are more creative a lot of the times.

01:37:57.960 No.

01:37:58.360 No, I don't.

01:37:58.940 Sorry.

01:38:00.900 I was just, I was, I thought about that.

01:38:03.820 And then I started thinking about all the, like, great architecture that, like, men have.

01:38:07.940 I'm like, ah.

01:38:08.200 As a Freudian slip, you think women do have better.

01:38:11.440 You know we.

01:38:12.060 You know we're bosses, really.

01:38:13.040 Come on.

01:38:13.460 Come on, come on.

01:38:13.940 No, no, no, no, I don't.

01:38:16.040 I think that if, if women were bosses, the results would show that.

01:38:20.020 Do you think there's anything that women do better?

01:38:21.880 Yeah.

01:38:22.520 I tried for months to think of something.

01:38:25.020 Well, it needs to be.

01:38:26.300 I tried.

01:38:26.900 I swear.

01:38:27.340 I seriously tried so hard.

01:38:29.160 I thought we were more nurturing.

01:38:30.960 And then I found out the stats don't back it up.

01:38:33.040 Like, I'm big.

01:38:33.580 Like, there has to be numbers in a way to measure it.

01:38:35.620 Well, women are better at OnlyFans.

01:38:37.080 Because it's just female OnlyFans creators.

01:38:39.520 We've got that down.

01:38:40.580 Yeah.

01:38:41.680 I think we're better at sex.

01:38:43.760 They earn 78% more than their male counterparts on average.

01:38:46.780 Thank you, Troy.

01:38:47.860 Thank you.

01:38:49.060 Something we're better at.

01:38:50.300 Yeah, we are.

01:38:50.900 They are better at sex.

01:38:52.060 No, but that's not because women are better.

01:38:53.700 That's because it's men that pay for OnlyFans.

01:38:55.780 Well, and actually, try.

01:38:57.900 But here's the problem.

01:38:59.280 We're not even better.

01:39:00.520 The top OnlyFans models are always managed by men.

01:39:03.420 Yeah, yeah.

01:39:04.120 And the average is only 150%.

01:39:06.220 Yeah, and that's my point.

01:39:08.020 Like, if we were making all of this money and so good at this stuff, there would be results.

01:39:13.340 So, you want to be just a housewife then?

01:39:15.780 Do you want to be a man?

01:39:17.100 Or, yeah, what do you feel comfortable being?

01:39:19.900 Yeah.

01:39:20.240 A man?

01:39:20.980 Would you prefer to be a man?

01:39:22.280 I love being a woman.

01:39:23.700 Honestly.

01:39:24.260 But why?

01:39:25.220 Because the men are so imperial.

01:39:26.900 Well, I don't.

01:39:28.100 Just because someone's superior, it doesn't mean you're bad.

01:39:31.160 I think that adults are superior to children, but children are not bad.

01:39:35.980 You're not a high-value woman, though, are you?

01:39:38.720 Because you can't sew.

01:39:39.440 You've got holes in your socks.

01:39:42.260 I didn't even see that.

01:39:44.060 Joking.

01:39:45.620 No, no.

01:39:46.540 I think that the most high-value women are married before 25.

01:39:51.220 How old do you now?

01:39:51.720 And just, I'm over 25.

01:39:53.680 Awkward.

01:39:55.440 But it's not an insult, guys.

01:39:57.680 It's really not.

01:39:58.720 It's fact-based.

01:39:59.500 That's the thing.

01:40:00.480 Like, the best women get married before.

01:40:02.300 You get married, I'm sure.

01:40:03.840 That's not my point, though.

01:40:05.420 I'm saying just because it's like if we point in an NBA player or the rec team mad, no.

01:40:15.220 It just is what it is.

01:40:16.280 Everything has hierarchy.

01:40:17.320 So, I think people are entitled to their own opinions as well.

01:40:22.180 No, but I don't, see, I don't believe that, though.

01:40:24.620 I believe in results.

01:40:26.040 I believe that there is an alleged status quo, and that's fine.

01:40:29.980 It exists.

01:40:31.280 Statistics exist.

01:40:32.660 But there are some men that are like fat women.

01:40:34.460 We're still going about fat women.

01:40:39.720 Okay, quickly, guys.

01:40:41.880 Just say something.

01:40:42.840 Going by results.

01:40:44.340 If we're going by, oh, statistically, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:40:47.580 So, you're now out of the statistics because you're not a high-value woman because you're

01:40:52.920 out of the statistics.

01:40:54.000 Are you not high-value?

01:40:55.060 Well, I don't really believe that high-value women exist.

01:40:57.840 so i don't i'll explain so so i don't for one i i only believe that high value women have to be

01:41:04.980 selected by a high value man so i again i i think that high value men are only like 10 percent of

01:41:10.780 men i think it's very rare i think it's the equivalent of high value no no i wouldn't think

01:41:15.560 that i am i i think i'm a high value man no i i think that i think i'm a normal chick i think

01:41:22.160 most people are normal most people are average it doesn't make you evil bad it just i think most

01:41:28.240 people are normal can i just say in the comments if you like fat women can you just comment

01:41:32.940 that you like fat women like normal women give it up for the fat women in fact fat women would be

01:41:39.820 considered normal who's skinny nowadays she just said herself if you're everyone's normal it just

01:41:46.760 there's she said it herself so that's what i'm talking about all of this all of this propaganda

01:41:53.860 like we just have so much marketing towards us that's saying you're so special amazing awesome

01:41:58.640 like women call themselves queens like bitch you're normal not everyone can be a queen everyone's a

01:42:04.220 queen i'm sorry i'm on that everyone is a queen no no no like we even say we even say princess

01:42:11.960 princess treatment why why are you a princess i want it no some men think picking up from the

01:42:17.160 airport is princess treatment i'm just gonna put that out so there's a level to the princess

01:42:21.520 that's standard behavior standard protocol is not princess treatment in yourself and what you're

01:42:26.480 doing 100 why would you not no i i actually think that we have a society that values confidence

01:42:32.340 too much i think humility is much more important yeah i think if okay so if a guy says to you

01:42:37.740 what you deserve mcdonald's girl like you know what actually you deserve mcdonald's girl i'm not

01:42:44.820 a high value girl i just don't well i don't really to be honest like i just okay what what is this

01:42:50.220 situation like why are we going to mcdonald's you're a high value girl put yourself up there i can go to

01:42:57.940 mcdonald's that's fine i will go to nando's i will go to chipotle nando's is good oh chipotle that's my

01:43:04.120 number one did you see that little clip where we were asking the dude if chipotle for a first

01:43:11.380 date and he's like no i don't care that's fine that's exactly exactly but you need don't don't

01:43:17.880 disrespect to your yourself what is what is i don't think it's disrespecting yourself to be average

01:43:25.260 i don't think most people are average most people everyone has a different average for me if you

01:43:32.420 say oh i'm going to take your pound shop i think everybody in this room is average i think most

01:43:37.500 people are average all normal human beings but if you feel like you want to impress me so if i win

01:43:43.820 oscar tomorrow then i'm above average you have to go above average if you want to impress someone

01:43:49.280 it depends in like with me like all right i know this guy like oh he shops at 99p show i'm like

01:43:55.740 what are you talking about there's no such thing as pound land anymore pound land is like two pound 50

01:44:04.320 but like you have to go above and beyond that's what you prefer in the in the guys that are

01:44:10.900 you're dating is what you're saying yeah what do you i'm not saying you need to go and take me to

01:44:15.660 huh what do you call it i think i think the problem is the ego it's the ego trap isn't it you

01:44:19.840 know we're all encouraged to be super egotistical now and it's all this you go girl you know it's

01:44:23.940 my i'm going i'm in my queen phase i'm in my princess phase and all that sort of shit you know

01:44:27.840 i suppose i guess i think what pearls you know like the reality is we're most of us the majority

01:44:34.620 of people are just just kind of average and that's okay but we are encouraged as a society to be

01:44:39.520 incredibly egotistical to really puff ourselves up particularly through social media

01:44:42.820 i don't think i don't think loving yourself is having is being egotistical i think if you're

01:44:48.000 ugly if you're fat well you're supposed to be crying i'm just talking about the princess

01:44:52.680 treatment we're talking about soft white princess treatment now there's even like deluded

01:44:58.480 humble what does the average even mean but saying you're a beautiful person doesn't necessarily

01:45:02.740 apply to your exterior let's take it another level when i'm like i'm only messing with people

01:45:07.520 that are giving me princess treatment i think the conversation is saying that maybe we are

01:45:11.820 alluding to a certain type of treatment that not everybody can actually access as a pop culture

01:45:17.900 but that's okay babe i'm gonna if that's your bag i'm that percentage i agree i don't agree but i think

01:45:24.000 we also need to admit that if everyone is saying this a lot of these people are saying this and they

01:45:29.420 don't really know what it means and they don't actually really qualify for what they think they are

01:45:33.160 your friend is fat and your friend is ugly you should be saying babes you're really ugly you know

01:45:37.220 you're really fat why can't you tell me she's saying like oh my name in a world where you can

01:45:41.060 be anything be nice but you've got to go back you've got to go back to the statistic which is

01:45:45.340 that only a minority of women are going to get married and have kids is that that's correct isn't

01:45:49.140 it even even hot women aren't going to get married and have kids how about that but why not skinny hot

01:45:54.520 women why not opt why not optimize your chances in the market though because if being say bigger is

01:45:59.720 going to reduce the chances that you've got in the dating marketplace doesn't it make sense to at

01:46:04.020 least because there's going to be a handful of men there's going to be a handful of men that like

01:46:08.700 fat women yeah so wait so you still got a good chance then i would get i would be on board i get

01:46:16.760 what you're saying it's like it's still like the women who are over eight who are really like doing

01:46:20.520 what they want to do out here even princess treatment women don't like the men that give

01:46:25.140 them princess treatment women no women don't typically i do what women don't what woman doesn't

01:46:31.820 like to be treated like a princess women women okay i want my big okay love i i okay so i have a

01:46:39.880 question i have a question i have a question wait wait wait wait have you ever have you ever felt like

01:46:49.860 in a relationship that you did more for someone than they did for you uh yeah okay and how long

01:46:56.080 were you with them i was with them for a long time but however okay so there's my point that's my point

01:47:01.860 that's my point is women right now you just said you just no no you have to choose you have to choose

01:47:06.840 if you have one headline so guys guys what i do is i just look for patterns and trends that's what i do

01:47:14.320 i just look at society i interview all these people i see patterns and white but yeah it's not it's not

01:47:19.540 black and white i always i've said so many times there's exceptions to every rule but women like

01:47:24.240 the men that they do things for not the men that do things for them so we're taught by this society

01:47:29.280 no you don't we're taught by you were with the guy for years that you said you did more than

01:47:33.640 the women if i talk to you physically and emotionally okay financially he did more for

01:47:40.040 that's you cannot tell me because like he would get louis vuitton on his birthday okay okay gucci

01:47:45.900 on his birthday okay i'm happy you got your bag but but but typically it's it's the men that you like

01:47:52.720 the most are the ones that you did the most for typically and that's what we're told all this media

01:47:58.060 there's all this marketing there's all this okay there's all this marketing saying they have to do all

01:48:03.540 this stuff for us and it doesn't work yeah women like the men that they do the most for i'm not

01:48:09.080 saying they can't be nice i think it's the other way around i think if you really like them you do

01:48:13.600 stuff for them is that personally true for you is that personally true for you there's a harsh the

01:48:19.080 harsh the harsh reality the harsh reality of the dating marketplace is when guys are too nice to

01:48:24.740 women women reject them so i was talking to i was talking to well it does yes it does but i was

01:48:29.820 talking to donovan sharp uh in miami a couple of weeks ago and he said on on this podcast we were

01:48:34.460 on he said he said if you the best way to lose a girl in miami is to send her a good morning

01:48:39.720 dear text all right send her that good morning darling text and she depends on the girl she

01:48:44.220 blocks you okay and this is the point because if you're too nice if you're too much of a like

01:48:48.140 inverted commas sim the girl's like fuck this dude i want the unavailable i love a good morning

01:48:52.660 beautiful if women really if women really if women really liked this stuff then why do we have

01:49:04.260 sayings like nice guys finished last because some of them do some some of them do guys guys guys guys

01:49:11.300 but this is so i've noticed i've noticed that it's it's too black and white comes in whenever i say

01:49:19.220 something that makes women look bad no we just don't always agree with you and that's okay

01:49:27.700 but you wouldn't it's usually true it'll tell you why i'll tell you i'll tell you why it's usually true

01:49:33.220 when people say it's too black and white because you would say you're wrong if i wasn't true no i just

01:49:39.860 said it's not just that is not the status quo i would say yes maybe the majority or the statistics show

01:49:46.100 that the like that there's a larger percentage however there's still a smaller percentage that

01:49:51.140 think that and that's okay yeah and and i know but how many times do i have to say in this conversation

01:49:56.740 yes there are exceptions i've said it so many times i know there are exceptions yes but you keep saying

01:50:01.940 that my fat friend should just get lose weight and give up on men until she loses weight i don't agree with

01:50:07.060 that yeah but also why can't two things be true why can't we have two things that are true exactly two things can

01:50:12.580 be true but we're not saying that they're not both true i feel like we're only pearl is saying

01:50:16.660 they're not true she isn't they have to agree to disagree my friend doesn't have to go on a diet to

01:50:21.700 get a man i think i think i think you know but she can extend her pool to get it might not be better

01:50:25.860 for her if you have a best friend she's she's quite large yeah right she's not even that big

01:50:33.220 i'm not specifically talking about your best friend okay i'm just saying if you have a best friend

01:50:37.780 yeah this best friend is quite large yeah and you know that statistically men like slimmer woman

01:50:43.620 and you know that she's the type of person that she would do so well in love but i'm jamaican yeah

01:50:48.340 hold on but would you then genuinely say to her no you're beautiful white like being fat and

01:50:53.700 everything else now they have to accept you the way you are i didn't say i just i didn't say i didn't

01:50:58.020 say she was beautiful being fat i said she was beautiful which she is externally internally but i'm

01:51:02.820 jamaican jamaican men love fat women so that's not my reality can i say something can i say

01:51:09.380 something standard of beauty can i say something let's remove let's remove men he's jamaican let's

01:51:13.300 remove men from this excuse me excuse me excuse me hello hello hello hello hello let's focus on the

01:51:21.700 under on the people on the show please um let's remove men from the equation yeah let's let me ask

01:51:28.260 a real question how many fat old people have you seen walking around loads of them

01:51:33.300 no i'm talking about old people like above 70. loads of old people are fat

01:51:38.900 i said walking about i said walking are you going to say because they've all died

01:51:42.500 yes that's the reality either they are all dead or they have some health issues they're skinny fat

01:51:49.620 people and can i make my point either they are all dead or they have some health issues that have

01:51:54.580 impacted their lifestyle so they can't they can't live a healthy happy lifestyle anymore they're either

01:52:01.220 bedridden they have to be in strollers they have to like they have to have people help them about

01:52:05.940 it's a problem so when you keep making this oh yeah but she's busy you're actually contributing to

01:52:11.780 the problem how fat do you think she is bloody hell

01:52:16.740 it's not about how fat she is the fact is that if you're she's not immobilized yes she might not be

01:52:22.340 now she might not be now but there's a trajectory that it goes through you don't just skinny people

01:52:28.180 die young as well because they're too skinny and they're not getting all the nutrients they need

01:52:32.660 if she was too skinny though you would probably say so

01:52:35.060 okay so my best friend no wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

01:52:38.420 wrong wrong wrong wrong you keep saying things that are just not true

01:52:41.620 women are not dying from anorexia it's rare it isn't rare no come on statistically what percent

01:52:52.980 of okay okay what percent of women do you think are underweight google it go on what

01:52:58.020 underweight you tell us do you affect no one's underweight under european standards

01:53:02.180 honestly we're all obese that given these statistics what it it's less than five percent

01:53:08.980 mel you're right it is not it is not i i don't even know i am clinically obese yeah we're all

01:53:14.660 obese according to european standards we are obese imagine that i have abs over my vital organs

01:53:22.100 but i'm clinically obese we're all obese we're obese my bad sorry vmi what are we gonna do

01:53:29.540 bmi i said as i said earlier there's exceptions to every rule yes we know but in general bmi works

01:53:38.500 works for identifying so are you obese no are you overweight no are you sure not not by not by bmi no

01:53:49.620 i'm like in the at like the normal section on the uk sizing what what size do you wear i don't even

01:53:56.660 know i get my clothes from america you're like i would say you're 12 to 14 and i would say 12 to

01:54:01.780 14 would be considered fat here no no no no 12 to 14 is not fat why are we saying that that's not

01:54:12.260 european standards that would be considered no i disagree okay i don't really care i don't really

01:54:17.540 care like it's like like it's like but you guys are missing the point the whole the whole point is

01:54:25.860 she keeps trying to lie see this one's a liar this one's a liar because even the anorexia you kept

01:54:31.540 saying that like women die of anorexia i'm pragmatic i didn't say anyone died of elect of anorexia i said

01:54:38.020 there is going to be people that are elderly and have died because they're too skinny because they're

01:54:41.620 malnourished that's what i said i didn't say because they're anorexic i never used the term

01:54:46.580 anorexia at all older people die for a lot of reasons but he did make a very good point which is

01:54:51.220 you don't see a lot of a lot of fat older people walking around the streets you just don't but also

01:54:56.180 i have skinny friends they're bedridden and i feel like they can't get men because they're too skinny

01:55:01.060 yep i've been a support worker for a number of years so i do see these overweight elderly people

01:55:06.580 they do exist they're within the house are they totally bedridden they just like they have to

01:55:09.940 get yeah they need assistance but they they're alive they're still about they and there are

01:55:14.580 normal there are normal elderly people that have the same situation they can't get about they need

01:55:18.820 assistance yeah but in general in general surely we could agree that being slimmer keeping in shape

01:55:25.540 is going to be better for your overall health yes yes i agree for your joints i agree yep yeah but i don't

01:55:30.420 think it makes you it makes you less desirable because you're fat because someone's gonna like you

01:55:34.740 but it does make you less desirable wait wait wait wait we could have saved 45 minutes

01:55:41.380 i'm gonna read super chats okay um shade w um honestly women keep talking over each other tonight

01:55:48.580 dane my wife of 34 years is modern only in that she works out of the home she's an oil refinery

01:55:54.580 mechanic earning six figures but she calls it our money one bank account cooks dinner makes my plate

01:56:01.460 boundless guardian question for the panel do you think the average man has access to the top 20

01:56:06.820 of attractive women i think most people can't date outside of their socioeconomic status or

01:56:13.220 attractiveness or because they haven't been around them dane uh schneider what what are women better at

01:56:21.460 or what are healthy women better at the challenge is finding a healthy woman but a healthy woman is so

01:56:26.980 good for a man's peace but i know she's the exception not the rule boundless guardian question for the

01:56:32.260 panel do you think the average woman has access to the tower you did that twice okay i'll read that

01:56:39.140 after i read the rest okay dane schneider pearl i'm dane 54 father of six and i ain't even catholic i've

01:56:46.100 been married 34 years my wife is traditional except she works outside the home um dane schneider pearl i'm using

01:56:53.380 your content a modern woman i know um she's a classic 34 year old single mom has her mba

01:56:59.380 she's a realtor and follows the zodiac i'm a i'm baptist but pray for me dan schneider pearl

01:57:06.820 gynocentrism is simply saying that the culture revolves around women i see that you are struggling

01:57:11.860 to define it it means that they are the center i tweeted a shirt shirt at i i tweeted a shirt t-shirt picture

01:57:19.860 at you um i posted my wife in her t-shirt on facebook and two when commenting asked where they

01:57:26.500 could buy one i'm buying one for each of them i'm in alabama and so many women here love them

01:57:34.420 jayman 90 of whales use filters and angles to highlight their face that only show their pictures

01:57:39.300 on dating sites to catfish men um don't gaslight these whales into thinking they're attractive

01:57:47.140 doug mpa lizzo is 320 pounds 22 stone women say lizzo is pretty ladies if a man tells you you look

01:57:54.100 like lizzo how do you feel jay yolem um omg omg these women need to shut it off about the patriarchy the

01:58:02.260 world is built on the backs of men if you don't like it go live in a cage hunt and gather your food put

01:58:07.140 on leaves for clothing scott um maternity mandatory paternity testing should be performed at birth

01:58:16.500 before the birth certificate is a field without exception um purple um ginger something women

01:58:23.940 don't like to be perceived as shallow they will never admit they like it women don't like to be

01:58:29.220 perceived as shallow they will never admit that it's a tyrone or a chad they're talking about it's all

01:58:34.260 about accountability they didn't pick him because he was tall in all the right places see um blake

01:58:40.340 when you do of work or any other kind of sex work you essentially give up your reputation and morality

01:58:45.140 make better choices in your next life boo boo jay um says no one is going to say argumentative women

01:58:50.900 really let's include hyenas laughter in there uh let me refresh it really quick yeah guys make sure you

01:58:57.220 get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt guys look at this women we can't the women on the panel

01:59:03.380 tonight can't even admit that fatter women have less options no offense guys should we have the right

01:59:10.420 to vote no no no no no take it away you've seen you've seen this struggle session for 45 minute get

01:59:18.500 your t-shirt right now the link is in the description the audacity network dot store that's the audacity

01:59:24.740 network dot store um my honestly okay i read that okay so going back to my powerpoint my very nice one

01:59:33.620 here so disqualified from being a housewife only fans porn star over spender cheater um over 30 not being

01:59:46.180 attentive smelly selfish a liar not fat argumentative um a child um so of being a hoe on social media so

01:59:58.180 i have a question would you give up your social media presence to be a housewife

02:00:05.220 yes i'm gonna go start here and then go around and then tell me yes or why yes or why no i would say

02:00:10.260 no because i get a lot of work from my social media presence and yeah but now you don't have to work

02:00:17.540 well but i like it i enjoy working okay i love my job okay no go ahead no i would i would give up my

02:00:23.380 social media presence what about you i would as well um depending on the the value of what he's

02:00:32.100 compensating if he's going to be bringing in more than what i'm earning yeah hundred percent

02:00:35.940 by your social media you gotta talk into your mic make sure you're talking to your mic i would so

02:00:41.700 easily compensate if it was um can you talk like that i would easily

02:00:52.820 something gentle like a woman shoot okay so you you would delete your instagram gone tomorrow

02:00:59.380 it has to match the energies have to match no he says i'm gonna marry you let's have kids

02:01:03.940 mm-hmm instagram gone yeah and yours gone you have an artist he he still has his you don't have

02:01:10.820 yours no for what reason does that change your answer

02:01:16.740 you're an artist okay could you put your phone away while you're on the show please

02:01:23.300 thank you um what about you i would prefer to rebrand but if i had to completely shut off my

02:01:29.140 social media we're talking like oil money like how much is your social media worth now then it's

02:01:35.300 more so about like what i love to do i love i love creating um i'm gonna need to be able to put on

02:01:41.620 some fucking exhibitions and somebody else needs to put on their social media can i just say if there's

02:01:45.460 any sugar mummies watching this i'm a hundred percent ready to delete all of my social media tonight

02:01:50.580 um in exchange for a life of luxury and uh doing nothing and king as well i think i just want the

02:01:57.700 piece of it it would literally be for the peace yeah i i don't think deleting my social media is like

02:02:03.940 the worst thing i can do i do think there's more outside of life than having to like make money or use

02:02:10.100 it but yeah what about you guys for a sugar mama would you do it i would not even for a sugar mama like

02:02:19.220 i'm not in an ideal world if you could just get rid of social media i'm happy to jump on board with

02:02:24.180 that i'll jump on that okay what about bank accounts so would you give up your bank account for a guy

02:02:31.220 he handles 100 of the money you make zero financial decisions for a lifetime lifetime i've had a joint

02:02:37.380 account and i put all the money in it and he helped spend it and would i do that again no so i think in

02:02:45.300 order for us to have a joint bank account he he would have to be the main breadwinner and he'd have

02:02:49.860 to make yeah you're i said you're a housewife oh oh he's making this a significantly larger you have

02:02:55.540 you have zero choice though you can't decide what you buy you can't decide um what your allowance is

02:03:02.740 you don't get to decide where your house is where you like every financial decision no thank you

02:03:07.140 you wouldn't do it okay i have no control over anyone no control so i'm not allowed to go

02:03:20.020 yeah you you hand i mean you give them your body you can't give them your paycheck

02:03:25.380 it's kind of backwards yeah like it's not i'm not thinking about oh i giving him my paycheck it's just

02:03:32.580 i'm literally thinking okay but what when when hits the fan sorry then what happens you trust him

02:03:41.300 no you you trust him i mean in this situation you're your housewife okay if i'm a housewife

02:03:47.220 and i 100 trust you then okay okay what about you no she's honest she's uh these two are honest go ahead

02:03:58.020 um you said a lifetime like what if i want to get divorced but um so it's not i mean as long as

02:04:06.420 we're together nothing in your as long as we're together do you know how much is in my bank account

02:04:10.660 now so the answer is yes for me yeah you would you'd give up your bank account for a lifetime yeah okay

02:04:16.580 a lifetime for whilst i'm with that person yeah sure as long as it doesn't extend past i decide i don't

02:04:22.420 want to be with that person well i think i'll be fine yeah you get zero dollars if you leave i have zero

02:04:26.740 dollars now okay yeah okay what about you uh you said no oh i'll contact my music lawyer

02:04:38.820 and discuss it formally no no okay so what's the question sugar mama would you give up your bank

02:04:44.820 account surely i'm in need of nothing i don't know i don't know that's a weird one i never thought about

02:04:50.500 that before well i used to because there used to just be one bank account and the guy got access to it

02:04:56.340 typically then i'm in control of the expenses and all of that yeah she's in control

02:05:01.940 i don't know i don't know even if i had a sugar mommy i'd still want to have make my own money like

02:05:19.540 no i think for me personally like the way i am just set up like i need to have my own yeah she can

02:05:38.340 have a lot of money you won't travel somewhere private jets or that but like i need to just be

02:05:43.140 outside doing something i always just think if i was a woman i would be the biggest hoebag on the

02:05:48.340 planet you know what i mean i'd have only fans i'll be on the sugar dating sites i'd be getting

02:05:52.020 flown to dubai i'd be doing all of this kind of shit you know what i mean but what if he was an ugly fat

02:05:55.700 woman that means it's a low value woman no what would you do lose weight exactly what if you

02:06:03.860 couldn't lose weight what if it was impossible what if you had a condition run a business you're a

02:06:08.100 woman i'd be able to travel i'd be doing you would not build oh you could utilize your fatness because

02:06:13.140 some men like fat women if you were if you was a female and you had taken if you was a female and

02:06:25.220 um you had turned around and you said okay i i'm going to be the biggest hoe bag are you willing

02:06:30.900 to give up all of that give up your social media and give up your bank account for a man to come and

02:06:35.220 take over well if the i mean yeah i guess if the guy was was now we're talking about the opposite of

02:06:41.220 what we just said so if the guy was high value enough and he's going to take care of everything

02:06:44.020 then yeah because it would be the same answer as if it was a sugar mummy right yeah because that's

02:06:49.060 the ultimate price that's the ultimate cash out isn't it for the woman really it's to meet the dude

02:06:52.500 who's high value enough he's going to take care of everything you don't need to worry you just have

02:06:55.780 an amazing life we're just going to have problems if the taste is not matching to be honest that's

02:07:00.580 that's the only thing it's like okay yeah sure i'd give it up hypothetically but like it's like oh

02:07:04.980 you have to wear this dress and you have to go here it's like yeah yeah i have to enjoy it okay so

02:07:10.980 my next question how many children would you have to be a housewife i always wanted to have two

02:07:17.860 children and adopt two children no this is like birthing what about would you do four out of my

02:07:23.940 lady garden yeah and what age am i starting at this let's let's let's just say you hypothetically

02:07:29.860 could have four more kids i would have four okay you would do it how many kids would you have to be

02:07:34.980 a housewife no you're not supposed to outsource motherhood what's the point of having a housewife

02:07:43.060 if you can't get kids out of really though like really not there's no point isn't there i mean

02:07:49.300 there's really no point for a guy to get married if he's not getting kids yeah but why do i have to

02:07:54.740 have them that's not my answer i'm just asking like um it's not why i i think it's weird to rent

02:08:01.620 out a womb weird is not it's not good enough answer for me i think two i i think that tip

02:08:09.540 like yeah when you have one kid then then comment because it's no i i could i could still i can

02:08:18.260 still comment though i can answer the question though i can answer the question though is

02:08:22.020 no you can't you haven't had a kid where's your womb where's your where's your woman no i'm not

02:08:28.260 can you can you relax where's your vagina i can answer the question about why i can answer the

02:08:32.660 question about why you wouldn't want to outsource having the kid it's because of dna so i know i'm

02:08:38.100 in surrogacy there's a way to have everybody involved it's a way to have no what i'm saying is

02:08:42.020 you're having you're literally adding an extra dna into the equation is that fact

02:08:46.980 also vagina so a surrogate's dna is found in a child's dna i'll tell you why because is it

02:08:55.860 bro literally you're literally adding someone else into the equation and there is no equation

02:09:02.740 or the dna yeah the dna is going to be tainted is not tainted are you saying this scientifically

02:09:07.380 or from your own personal view okay awesome you can google it it's true like scientifically

02:09:12.100 please google it and the other dna is going to be tainted and also look at men don't want to spend

02:09:17.220 like thirty thousand dollars she's nothing to him no no you know what's funny you know what's funny

02:09:23.860 the funny thing is i know that you with that mentality have not been by rich men that that's

02:09:29.620 what i know because i the cheapest yeah not not real ones i know i'll tell you i'll tell you if you

02:09:34.500 have i haven't i've had all poor boyfriends and i've taken care of all of them now and i'll tell

02:09:38.580 you that's my problem because because wait wait jesus christ so because the most successful men

02:09:46.500 that i know don't like to waste money they're the cheapest men like men that have money know how hard

02:09:53.220 it is to make money they don't like spending it it's going to be different men that we know isn't it

02:09:58.420 because you know it's we have different social setups different social backgrounds we're different

02:10:04.260 races with different ages it's going to be different you can't it's not everything is not just black and

02:10:08.100 white generalize oh i can oh she's right though i've never dated a rich man general opinion i'm i'm the

02:10:15.540 rich man no i grew up around those families so i'm like i know they i mean i'm not i'm not gonna list

02:10:23.940 them like families that have been rich like like like i grew up with nine i grew up with nine siblings

02:10:29.220 my dad owned a bit i'm telling you like rich the wealthy the wealthy men and i'm not even talking

02:10:34.180 about entertainers actors those are a different breed but like actual high value wealthy men

02:10:40.420 are not spent are not dying they're not they're not dying to spend 30k on a wife

02:10:48.500 and so i'm saying surrogacy is not typically what they want

02:10:52.020 um who all right so how many kids would you have um two boy and a girl okay what about you what was

02:11:02.900 the full question it was like if i were to be a housewife to be a housewife um i i don't have like

02:11:08.660 a i have a preference that i would want like three maximum but i don't have like a i would never like

02:11:13.780 okay so if he said seven no as a housewife to be a housewife is like yeah i know you're a housewife

02:11:21.460 okay i mean sure wait it wasn't mine exactly it means for me like what i'm imagining being a

02:11:31.300 housewife like yeah sure i would have seven kids that's a board that's a board question isn't it

02:11:35.620 yeah what does that mean my grandma had nine kids why can't i have well yeah well my my whole point is

02:11:41.220 that women want to be housewives typically i'm not saying you guys do but i'm saying that you stay

02:11:48.100 home with the kids and and and have what else i'm just making sure the kids get to college

02:11:53.460 alive and they're smart you well what is what is a housewife to me in 2023 or what has it been

02:11:59.620 historically to you yeah in general literally well i i mean question so i i would say the modern housewife

02:12:07.060 adds very little value um i would say no no no the mother i i'll wait i'm gonna answer i'm gonna wait

02:12:14.020 i'm going to if you guys could listen without interrupting i could get to that i would say the

02:12:20.260 modern white housewife has two kids a lot of these housewives have have nannies and really most women

02:12:26.420 haven't really been raised to be wives or taught to be wives i would say i would say a hundred years ago

02:12:32.820 the average woman was a housewife and was raised to be a housewife the average woman had a cookbook

02:12:38.260 the average woman knew she was supposed to serve and submit to her husband the average woman had

02:12:42.820 seven kids um but unfortunately um i i would say it's typically gone and i think the kids are the ones

02:12:51.140 that are affected because now you have all these mental issues depression i mean even you guys were

02:12:56.180 talking about how you wish you had your dad around um yeah and i think that most women are not raised to

02:13:01.620 be wives so i think with that low expectancy or not to the question no i know i said a hundred

02:13:11.380 years ago that was a real housewife but now now now in 2023 it's still it's in 2023 i would say

02:13:20.980 if you're going to be a housewife you should be able to offer as many kids as he wants you should

02:13:25.380 be giving up control because he's taking you in um luckily none of these guys right now because

02:13:32.660 she cannot cope with all of this because it's gonna be too much huh too much the podcast you

02:13:38.180 can't do the podcast and the and the children it's impossible oh no yeah of course when you have kids

02:13:44.740 you have to give that up that's what i'm saying because because of course because kids are kids are

02:13:49.940 kids are more important than whatever you're doing totally you're saying you're basically not

02:13:54.100 capable of actually being a housewife yourself yeah am i not capable of being a house i think

02:14:00.100 being a housewife i would say i would say being a housewife is pretty easy but you're not capable of

02:14:06.900 having a good business you're not capable of doing both right currently right now one or the other

02:14:12.660 currently both together well it's not capable it's not capable is it it's about how she would

02:14:18.180 it's how she would prioritize it as a woman as a woman statistically what she's going to pass

02:14:23.540 off statistics you can't do both what's your answer to the same question which which i don't even know

02:14:30.260 what she's asking it was uh how many kids would you have to be a housewife right i think the question

02:14:35.060 more is about would you give up your career for your husband do you're like is that well yeah because

02:14:39.060 she can't even do a career because she's a woman anyway so she's not going to be successful is it

02:14:43.060 is that the question that's not what i said um i said most women are most women can't do it i said

02:14:48.900 oh um the second thing i would say is yeah i think once you have kids it's about the kids it's not about

02:14:53.860 you i don't believe in um i always just say i'll have as many kids as i can so you would when you're

02:14:59.940 on the plane as many as you can they say put on your mask before helping anyone else i think i think i

02:15:05.780 probably would have had to start it earlier to have seven but he says i want you to start now

02:15:11.540 and anything else i've got you i've got i've got the money we can do this cut off your cut off your

02:15:15.780 podcast bye yeah i'll see you sorry sorry sorry guys you're on the board

02:15:27.780 no but but the whole point is and i've actually kind of put things in place so i can like step

02:15:32.900 away when that happens to be honest i i kind of have a plan for it anyways

02:15:38.420 because because you want to have a family like i want to have a family

02:15:48.260 well i don't to be to be to be fair i don't think most women deserve to be housewives i think deserve

02:15:53.860 i think like we're in this entitlement culture where everyone thinks they need princess treatment i

02:15:57.940 don't think most women have earned it i think typically housewives are picked before they're 25

02:16:03.300 typically um their priority was uh typically they have a cookbook typically you know they were raised

02:16:09.620 to be wives that was their priority it's every man deserves a housewife no and men know that

02:16:17.300 but no absolutely not but most men haven't reproduced historically and that's not the same format that we go

02:16:24.100 by it it's just not what are you times change huh we're not the format of what where's your man

02:16:31.300 where's your like your husband right you're not going by that format that you speak of the format

02:16:35.700 that you speak of it's it's just you guys are a nosy bunch huh you're like tell me tell me your

02:16:42.180 family tell me your whole life but you know you did the same to them no no she wouldn't tell me i let

02:16:48.260 her out of it no because we've but we've all given small snippets of all of our upbringing and it's you

02:16:54.100 it's as have as have i that's what i mean exactly we all have so it's all small snippets well i just

02:17:00.420 goes to show those it's very very vast isn't it you can't generalize no i think we can generalize and

02:17:06.260 i think we should go back to generalizing no i think it's okay it's okay it's okay to as i've said

02:17:11.540 i'm an average chick i think it's okay to be average i don't understand what's wrong with saying

02:17:16.260 the best women get married all the women left here aspire to be wives right but not necessarily

02:17:23.380 housewives is that correct correct all of us here aspire to be wives but you guys don't want to be

02:17:28.820 all it depends on everyone's perception of what a house well i'm asking here like i don't know okay

02:17:34.340 so you're not sure about whether you would identify as a housewife what is a housewife

02:17:38.260 a housewife is someone that a housewife is someone in the south a housewife is someone that stays

02:17:48.260 home with the kids while the husband works in your perception so in your perception that's what it is

02:17:53.220 traditionally that's what it is no that is a housewife traditionally no if i look up definition

02:17:59.380 in the dictionary that's what it is however it's antiquated right now you're here with your

02:18:09.300 headphones on interviewing people you're definitely not a housewife well only 10 percent of women get

02:18:14.500 it so you're not the 10 but she's not saying she wants to be a housewife she's not saying she wants

02:18:19.140 to be one oh do you i i want to be a housewife you do you want to be that's the big question when i when

02:18:25.140 i have kids i'll stay home with them same you know yeah how can you and i did for the four years

02:18:31.940 when my kid was in school where he was in he we i stayed at home with him yes again when i do it

02:18:39.460 don't worry because this the statistics are not correct you will be a housewife so 100

02:18:44.980 you will be change your perception when you come across it my child i had him okay i had him

02:18:55.460 and then i stayed at home with him for three four five years that's how it goes but you were still

02:19:01.700 working right but yeah i run a nursery right so technically you weren't a housewife you were like

02:19:07.620 a both right yeah but working no first three three three years okay so can i just say was that because

02:19:17.220 your circumstances changed and your your your child's father wasn't around my heart felt like i needed to

02:19:22.740 do more for my child but what i'm saying is was you financially been provided for in that first

02:19:28.340 three years 100 my baby and then after the three years then what did he stop providing for you

02:19:33.620 never so but you needed something more in your life for my fulfillment and yeah for my joy and for

02:19:40.260 yeah for my son's joy i thought yeah wait just wait wait wait what did you just say oh

02:19:52.580 that's you projecting on your child stability stability for my son wait wait wait wait so you were a

02:19:58.980 housewife yes and then you left for your fulfillment no no no i stayed in my housewives i had i had the um

02:20:08.980 role and the um position to be just provided for and to stay at home and look after the children but i chose

02:20:18.980 not to be i had my own nursery in my house which makes sense for me so i ran that and and raised my

02:20:28.980 child at the same time okay um but you're not are you with him now no not now why because we didn't work

02:20:40.900 out just be honest what just say like what it was we didn't work out it was him it was him it was him

02:20:49.220 it was him yeah and if even if it wasn't we didn't work out it's fine he's still a great

02:20:55.300 dad to my child like he's amazing he's still a provider he's amazing he was still a step up he's

02:21:02.580 amazing we still have a very you should get that you should go back he sounds awesome sounds like a

02:21:08.100 great guy call him call him call him she's gonna do it listen you know what don't do it i think pearl

02:21:15.860 you'd be amazing woman for him i think you really do you so you aspire to be a housewife do that

02:21:24.580 chocolatey goodness okay i'm gonna read super chats really quick please say there's a matter

02:21:40.980 that's fat women in there come on there will not be

02:21:43.940 please prove it prove it wrong guys prove it wrong all right i mean you can you can show me

02:21:51.940 um please do it for a hundred dollars thank you all right guys uh make sure you get yourself a women

02:21:58.260 shouldn't vote t-shirt today you cannot watch this show and tell me that women should get the right

02:22:04.420 to vote or really do much so take it away the audacity network dot store that's the audacity

02:22:11.140 network dot store okay alfonzo this panel is hostile they are truly triggered by reality and

02:22:18.980 regret fs claire women deserve everything in easy life equality when they want it and preferential

02:22:25.380 treatment at the same time this is why women are this is why men are fine are opting to find women

02:22:30.260 in the middle east or quietly walk away from society entirely it is that bad dane um pearl you told christine

02:22:37.300 we dated cousins in alabama they have to at least be fourth cousins or a father arkansas it's third

02:22:43.380 to first cousins west virginia it's sisters we rednecks or something else joking well i heard in

02:22:50.340 alabama i'll tell you what i heard about alabama i heard there was this family that inbred so much they

02:22:56.020 turned blue no i heard that was a real thing that's why i said that because i'm like i don't know what is

02:23:02.740 going on in alabama dmo i'm sorry but i can't stand the disrespect by these women great work pearl

02:23:08.740 wrangler these people uh boundless guardian when you come back to them please read both questions

02:23:14.420 one is about women and one is about other men um shaw shaw d honestly the women keep talking over each

02:23:21.380 other tonight uh okay wait you said dane um i think let me see if i can find the super chat you're

02:23:30.740 talking about oh maybe it wasn't dane it was someone else um let me find it boundless guardian okay

02:23:40.660 this is a super chat from um boundless guardian do you think that the average woman has access to the

02:23:48.260 top 20 of male earners no that's true probably probably not no no no and i think they also

02:23:56.580 asked it from the men's point of view yeah but no um and even less so for the men in the other

02:24:01.220 direction you guys think what's the question again sorry do you think that the average woman has

02:24:06.820 access to the top 24 or do you think the average woman has access to the top 20 of male earners

02:24:12.900 they can have like yeah social media they can have by uh because a lot of women have access to a lot

02:24:20.020 of things 20 yes it depends it depends it depends what he means specifically by average but i mean if

02:24:25.540 we're looking at looks because we've we've said before on you know on this show if a guy is more

02:24:30.660 likely to to date a waitress or a woman who works at mcdonald's because she's hot i mean a woman it's

02:24:36.820 never going to happen the other way around you know the woman's not dating the dude who's working

02:24:40.420 in public or who's working in but the other way around it is possible so um i think hotness comes

02:24:47.700 into it to a large extent if she's hot she could probably get access to some of these like celebrity

02:24:52.260 parties celebrity events stuff like that even if she's not hot why are you girls smiling you're like

02:24:56.260 yeah okay and then second second part do you think the average male has access to the top 20 of

02:25:05.460 attractive women no no way less so than the women yeah okay oh attractive more more of social media

02:25:13.060 these days isn't it because yes no unless they pay for it on only fans yeah not genuine um

02:25:21.860 um don't skip over the man that said he likes fat girls no um i can't wait to hear more from you

02:25:33.940 joseph thank you that's all of the super chats all right um it's getting late so why don't we do final

02:25:41.700 thoughts and then you can tell people where they can find you on social media and then we'll close out

02:25:45.780 the show starting here and then go around and then second row you can find me at kellylerock k-e-l-e-l-e-l-e-r-o-c

02:25:52.660 on twitter instagram tick tock facebook and i'm still on myspace

02:25:58.420 no really yeah the only person in the country is still alive i think people just use it for advertising

02:26:03.780 space to be fair go ahead final thoughts any social media you want to plug

02:26:10.580 no none she said don't at me go ahead okay so final thoughts i think just to be more understanding

02:26:22.340 everything is not always black and white everyone has different setups and circumstances and so that

02:26:28.180 can contribute to different thought processes like this or make it into the show but you know everything's

02:26:35.780 different isn't it you can't just be black and white anyways uh social networks for me marsha french

02:26:41.460 m-a-r-s-h-a-f-r-e-n-c-h newa n-u-a joint um social media official newa n-u-a that's for me my sister

02:26:53.300 with our group thank you um my final thoughts are i think it is important to like be aware of like

02:27:01.300 factual and statistical information and you should use that to make your own decisions

02:27:05.620 use that to like make yourself i don't know just like have something that you believe in and that

02:27:11.380 makes sense and that you're not just like blocking out that is real um and i think you should go ahead

02:27:18.580 and listen to my music uh i have jumbled thoughts and alternative music you can find me on social media

02:27:25.380 and spotify jar jar kisses as jaja kisses everywhere um yeah

02:27:35.860 on me all right thank you so much guys i had a really fun time today so we're going to catch um

02:27:42.340 my sister and i on official n-u-a and um yeah all platforms all platforms it's very informative today

02:27:52.420 so i really appreciated um everyone's input so yeah um thank you very much

02:27:59.860 it's really great being on the show thank you very much proud king and um final thoughts i think um

02:28:07.780 from the topic of today which is about housewives and sort of um um um single moms and housewives and

02:28:14.660 that whole thread of about potential of sort of finding a partner and all of that i just think

02:28:19.860 everyone just needs to be a best be the best version of themselves the women who's a single mom or without

02:28:25.700 child be the best version of yourself a man who's out there try to be the best version of yourself

02:28:30.740 go to the gym try to get a good job just try and be the best version of yourself uh my social media

02:28:35.700 handles are at least the one i'm going to share at the moment is the real happy hour podcast which

02:28:39.620 is my podcast where i review film and tv shows if you'd like to be on it please just send me a message

02:28:44.500 thank you very much yeah thanks for having me on pearl great show as always uh final thoughts

02:28:50.580 yeah fat chicks it's just come on just go on the treadmill

02:28:53.940 just get on the treadmill just do a bit of crossfit you know do a bit of training

02:28:57.700 whatever it's health reasons i'm going to back go down to i'm going down to battersea park tomorrow

02:29:02.260 with my trainer we're going to do an hour's worth of boxing training do that just do some stuff you

02:29:05.860 know just lose because it's going to it's going to it's going to widen it's going to widen your appeal

02:29:10.260 in the dating market that i mean i'm sure there are some some dudes who like fat girls but you're

02:29:15.060 going to have a wider pool if you lose a bit of weight so do that and follow me on social media

02:29:20.260 at real troy francis on all platforms and that's it thank you all right guys uh make sure you like

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JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023

DO SINGLE MOTHERS MAKE GOOD HOUSEWIVES？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW ｜ EP 157

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