JustPearlyThings - Doctor DROPS TRUTH Bombs On Modern Women

00:00:00.000 Yeah, so I think, you know, we can obviously disagree about and or agree about when abortion is okay

00:00:05.040 But I think we can still agree on what this is that we're talking about

00:00:08.540 I don't think we need to sort of distort the reality and say it's not a human being or something

00:00:12.000 I'm not accusing you of deliberately doing that

00:00:13.620 But I really think, you know, we have to get these basic biological facts agreed upon because otherwise we're never going to agree on anything

00:00:20.600 And you know, this is a baby from about 16 days

00:00:23.720 The baby's heart begins to pump blood around the body at six weeks

00:00:27.340 It begins to hiccup and suck and swallow maybe seven weeks from four to five weeks

00:00:31.200 It's beginning to move by itself from about ten weeks. It can probably feel pain and it's conscious

00:00:36.260 There's all these things that develops very quickly

00:00:38.520 But if you want to say oh, it's only a full human being when it's fully developed

00:00:42.380 Well science again shows us a human's brain is not typically fully developed until they're 25 years old

00:00:48.380 So some of you Gen Z people are not fully developed 1.00

00:00:51.000 I doubt even I am to be honest, but you know

00:00:54.500 We don't allow

00:00:56.380 People to distinguish between humans and say you're valuable. You're not you have a right to life

00:01:01.000 You're you don't on how developed they are

00:01:03.780 I'm more developed than some of you not because i'm more intelligent, but because i'm just older and you know

00:01:08.240 Heading towards death gradually

00:01:09.920 That doesn't make me more of a human. It doesn't give me more of a right to life

00:01:13.720 It just means i'm older but we are equal because we're equal human beings

00:01:17.040 And the pro-life view just says that's the same of every human being though

00:01:20.460 We're all equal no matter how developed and no matter how big no matter how independent

00:01:24.080 We are all human beings and therefore we're all equal the mother and the baby

00:01:28.440 And so the pro-lifer has to say the mother matters infinitely the baby matters infinitely

00:01:32.400 And we have to do our best to try and protect both

00:01:34.840 Um, so i'm i don't find the consciousness argument very compelling just for the record

00:01:40.300 But i've never read anything that suggests that there's consciousness at 10 weeks. Um, the earliest i've read is 20 weeks

00:01:47.300 Um, so

00:01:49.700 I it's not that I do not believe that there is a type of life there

00:01:54.980 But I think it's very strange that we're all considering that it will be a guaranteed baby at the end of it

00:02:00.980 So the reason why I consider

00:02:02.500 A fetus especially in the earlier stages to be a potential life is because 20 of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage anyway

00:02:10.000 But I mean there's also a number of other things that could happen in this span of time

00:02:14.980 Um, and I mean stillbirths is still one in 175 as well if you're particularly unlucky as and removing all variables though

00:02:26.820 Um, so for something to be a life

00:02:29.700 Uh that we find I guess valuable

00:02:33.620 It makes sense to consider viability and certainly an embryo is not what do you mean by viability?

00:02:39.540 It could breathe

00:02:42.820 If it if it can sustain its own system by itself

00:02:47.140 Okay, and that doesn't and that is not the same as the fact that a mother needs to feed it and such

00:02:53.460 I guess though that does get difficult if we because we're talking here about what makes a life life

00:02:57.940 And that's actually a pretty important legal question later on when we're thinking about human rights violations, right?

00:03:02.180 Who gets to have human rights as a you know as a human person?

00:03:05.540 Uh outside of the womb and if we're saying that a human is only a human only deserves the right to life if they're

00:03:13.060 Conscious conscious or if they are

00:03:15.540 Breathing and supporting their own body on their own without any help from anyone

00:03:19.380 That puts in a very difficult situation people who are lying in comas

00:03:22.260 I knew you was going to say that

00:03:23.300 That's a very difficult situation

00:03:24.660 It's so predictable

00:03:25.220 But it's not the same

00:03:26.020 Like it's not the same

00:03:27.140 You're using all of these analogies. It's not the same

00:03:28.980 Okay, so what about conjoined twins?

00:03:30.340 I didn't make the consciousness

00:03:32.340 Okay, so twins there's many legal cases on this. These are twins that have shared organs

00:03:37.860 Maybe one of them is using the other one's heart. They're fully dependent. They're linked by their bodies

00:03:42.340 It's a very intimate relationship that doesn't just go on for nine months

00:03:45.620 It goes on for the entirety of their lives

00:03:47.940 And yet the law has been completely clear

00:03:50.340 If you have a sister that is sharing your heart and that is using your heart

00:03:54.420 The law is absolutely clear. You cannot kill them even though they're dependent on you. They can't sustain themselves

00:04:00.820 They're invading your body in a very if you're sharing a heart. They would die. You'd both die

00:04:05.700 That was I mean, yeah, that's a

00:04:08.020 That's a big big point. I mean there are cases like you know sharing a liver for example

00:04:12.100 There you know, there's a there's some there was born like that. That's how they that's a

00:04:15.460 However, you get some can you kill one and keep the other anyway, though?

00:04:19.940 That doesn't make sense if one dies both of them then I think he's talking about conjoined

00:04:24.420 No, but even if they're conjoined like how is that even a choice like when you have like they're still twins

00:04:30.500 Yeah, you know, I mean

00:04:32.500 If you're even thinking about abortion, but then thinking about twins

00:04:35.700 You would only think about that if you're thinking about getting rid of both of them

00:04:38.740 You couldn't make a choice of oh i'm going to get rid of one and keep the other anyway

00:04:42.420 Even you never know someone might do that. Is that even possible?

00:04:45.780 It's actually quite common

00:04:46.740 Yeah, we know because the department of health keeps pretty good statistics on abortion and says why every single abortion is done

00:04:51.940 And there's actually a pretty substantial on the nhs website

00:04:55.620 If you look, it's called selective reduction or multiple pregnancy and quite a few abortions each year are done

00:05:00.500 Basically because there are too many babies and they have to 1.00

00:05:03.140 Get rid of some so hold on just based on what you said because I actually understood your point after you made it

00:05:09.140 Um, what she's saying is it true?

00:05:10.820 Like can you if you've got twins growing in you and you decide to kill one of them and can you keep the other twin alive?

00:05:16.500 Yeah, because I actually don't know if you can do that 0.66

00:05:18.340 Yeah, it's quite common, but then really it's possible that's common no, but hey damn near make anything

00:05:22.020 No, but really see this is I see this is

00:05:25.540 Things like that that's the reason why I would kind of understand why it's like you guys that would be pro-life because

00:05:31.460 Who would really want to make that decision?

00:05:33.220 What kind of person does that if you have twins you have twins?

00:05:35.620 How can you be like oh, but it's still financial

00:05:37.620 It's still financial. It could still be financial though, innit?

00:05:40.580 Yeah, but then if it's financial don't have a baby 0.99

00:05:43.380 Some people might have only planned to have money for one

00:05:46.020 Yeah, I mean i'm not saying i'm just really shocked. I didn't know it was scientifically possible to kill one out of two

00:05:51.700 When they when they made when they made abortion, it was supposed to be like safe rare

00:05:56.500 Like it wasn't supposed to be like

00:05:58.420 I just think it's gotten ridiculous to the point one out of three women are having them. It's birth control 0.75

00:06:03.220 How many abortions can you even have that's another thing as well 1.00

00:06:07.300 I can't remember the exact number but it's roughly 40 of women that have had abortions have had two or more

00:06:12.660 So no, but is there a cap on it? Can i'm sure no, you can just

00:06:15.700 Can that not damage your body or something?

00:06:17.540 I mean, i'm pretty sure it must definitely have an impact on your fertility 1.00

00:06:21.300 Yeah, well and and i've heard stories of girls that have eight nine abortions 1.00

00:06:27.700 And that's what i'm saying like it's not even safe and rare anymore. It's just women making poor decisions 1.00

00:06:33.140 So in in the 1980s, the average woman in romania had eight abortions

00:06:37.460 Well, that was the average woman wait in romania in romania in the 1980s or maybe 1960s

00:06:42.580 Why it was was there no contraception? There was no contraception

00:06:46.740 Yeah, I mean yeah, so they they you know, it was there was no contraceptions, but they could have abortions 0.95

00:06:51.300 There was very limited contraception. That doesn't make sense either. Why did they do that?

00:06:54.660 And I just think all of these reasons just come to be excuses when it's just like we can close our legs

00:06:59.700 We don't have to make children with like these bad guys. No, but why can't we meet in the middle? Sorry. No, I agree with you

00:07:06.020 It sounds like you're blaming women

00:07:08.020 Yeah, I am

00:07:11.060 It makes two to have a baby

00:07:12.340 But it's like why can't we start with the women before we go to the men we always talk about men's responsibility

00:07:18.740 But men are legally responsible if they get a girl pregnant they have to pay child support 0.93

00:07:23.220 So after after we we both get pregnant, that's equally as long as they're working

00:07:30.420 Wait, listen, listen if we if we get pregnant, it's equally irresponsible, right? 0.90

00:07:35.300 Well, I mean I would argue it's more on the women, but we'll we'll for that for that 1.00

00:07:38.740 Well, I mean when you think about it now, okay, think about it

00:07:41.700 We got we got ten choices. They have condom no condom 0.65

00:07:44.820 We know when we ovulate we can get on birth control. We can do plan B

00:07:48.980 Did you know that you can do an abortion adoption? Like we have all these choices the men have one

00:07:53.700 Did you know that the um contraception pill was actually designed for men?

00:07:58.820 It was okay, but can they take it now?

00:08:01.540 But the thing is I

00:08:02.980 There is

00:08:05.540 I think men might get pregnant in the future 1.00

00:08:07.620 It's because men are so irresponsible 1.00

00:08:10.420 I think actually that they decided that well, you probably know better than me that it was better for the women to take it 0.99

00:08:17.700 Because too many, you know, like the the men didn't want to have all of those

00:08:22.260 No, and that study was like one or two of them died

00:08:25.620 I want to say so that was why they had to cut it because some women died as well 0.87

00:08:32.660 I don't think it's that common. I think it's more I think the reason is a bit more commonsensical like it's I think it's easier to

00:08:40.980 To lock off one egg than 100 million sperm

00:08:43.460 I just think that's the reason why it's harder to find contraceptive for men

00:08:47.540 No, no, they made it work. It's just that men didn't like the side effects

00:08:50.660 The side effects of birth control are quite a long list

00:08:54.740 No, but there was it was sterilization and one or two people died in that study

00:08:58.980 So that's why they were like way worse than the side effects for women 0.95

00:09:02.020 So suicidality is a side effect for women's birth control 0.96

00:09:06.020 When 90% of women are on it, I just don't think it's that common especially when men commit suicide more

00:09:11.460 So the men we need to raise our voice women try to commit suicide more 0.91

00:09:20.180 But they tend to be less successful because they don't pick lethal methods 0.96

00:09:24.580 Well, I think so so men are better at suicide 1.00

00:09:29.780 That part is true, but if we're on societal arguments, that is sort of where my

00:09:34.100 uh, um interest is so when it comes to thinking, okay, so what benefits are there if we ban abortion

00:09:41.140 Well, theoretically that would potentially be more kids that could be a bonus

00:09:45.620 Um, the birth rate is falling in a lot of developed countries

00:09:48.820 But when I think of what the negatives are, um, it's significantly more in my opinion

00:09:54.340 For women, if you start to take away these types of rights, they are going to naturally feel oppressed 1.00

00:09:59.140 Um, it's going to reduce, uh, the things that they do, they're going to change their behavior

00:10:04.580 Um, they're going to be having sex less, relationships less

00:10:07.140 And already gen z is having relationships less and sex less 0.95

00:10:10.900 So it might not necessarily end up maybe they'll get married

00:10:13.780 Maybe they'll get married

00:10:14.420 Maybe I think

00:10:15.300 Oh, the marriage rate's falling as well

00:10:17.140 Well, well if we ban divorce, I think maybe it would go back up

00:10:20.580 That's a whole different topic

00:10:21.860 That's a whole different topic

00:10:22.980 How do we ban идеals? 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - July 02, 2023

Doctor DROPS TRUTH Bombs On Modern Women

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