JustPearlyThings - April 26, 2023


Emotional Panel Tries to shame Pearl


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

215.7665

Word Count

1,301

Sentence Count

159

Misogynist Sentences

11

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 And for me, I just feel like, I know what you're saying, but at the same time...
00:00:03.380 You wouldn't tell your brother, listen, go have sex with that girl without a condom.
00:00:07.160 You would say, bro, make sure and wear your robbers.
00:00:09.600 Of course.
00:00:10.260 You would tell your boy that, right?
00:00:12.200 You have to.
00:00:13.160 You don't want to hear a boy coming home at STD.
00:00:15.640 Well, you got to look at your health.
00:00:17.960 Yeah, you got to protect yourself.
00:00:19.360 That's what I'm saying.
00:00:20.200 Of course.
00:00:20.420 It's protecting everybody else.
00:00:22.280 Yeah, but my thing is, she's allowed to use social media.
00:00:25.680 How she uses social media, it's up to her.
00:00:28.820 It's freedom of speech, it's freedom of choice, it's free will.
00:00:32.500 If she feels good, good for her.
00:00:34.220 Yeah, but that's why I think it's more important that we shame it.
00:00:38.620 I don't think we should say, definitely not shame it.
00:00:40.260 And say, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:40.920 That's what creates mental health.
00:00:42.380 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:44.280 And say, put the rolls away.
00:00:46.560 We don't want to see that.
00:00:48.460 Put it away.
00:00:49.720 Go get on the treadmill.
00:00:51.040 Lose weight, wait, wait.
00:00:52.680 Lose some weight and then come back.
00:00:55.460 My mom used to tell me, and everyone's going to say,
00:00:58.200 I was traumatized.
00:00:59.380 No, you're right.
00:01:00.080 Yeah, post this journey.
00:01:01.260 My mom used to tell me, and maybe everyone's going to say
00:01:03.660 I was traumatized, that you have to earn a bikini body.
00:01:07.260 And I believe that.
00:01:08.600 I really do.
00:01:09.540 And I think you should earn the right.
00:01:11.120 Some people don't want that, though.
00:01:12.460 It's up to them.
00:01:13.440 If they don't want to.
00:01:14.060 I think we need to please stop talking about exceptions.
00:01:18.520 We want to talk about the rule.
00:01:20.280 I've said this.
00:01:21.180 I've said to friends that might be very overweight,
00:01:24.340 like, I think you would have a better quality of life.
00:01:26.400 I think you would enjoy it more.
00:01:28.080 That's as far as I'd go.
00:01:29.220 I would never shame them for it.
00:01:30.320 If that's still her choice, that's still her choice.
00:01:31.700 I'll do one more.
00:01:32.620 I'll have my overweight friends run up 21 flights of stairs with me.
00:01:37.580 I mean, if you're doing it in an encouraging way.
00:01:41.020 You're a bad man.
00:01:42.400 I think if we ask someone.
00:01:43.680 You can't do them things then.
00:01:44.640 I think if we ask someone of that weight a question like.
00:01:47.120 No, I'm helpful.
00:01:48.440 What do you mean?
00:01:49.100 You can't do them things.
00:01:51.100 I think if you ask someone, do you want to lose weight?
00:01:54.660 90% of the answer.
00:01:56.220 95%, 98% of the answer will be yes.
00:01:59.620 What if they don't?
00:02:00.500 And I've been there.
00:02:01.660 I've been there.
00:02:02.200 I've been overweight.
00:02:03.000 You think they don't want to lose weight?
00:02:04.320 I'm just teasing.
00:02:05.100 But also, pal, so when I was a teenager, because I'm very tall.
00:02:10.360 When I first had a growth span height, I was very, very skinny.
00:02:14.120 And I couldn't really gain weight.
00:02:15.800 It was extremely hard for me.
00:02:16.720 And I hated it.
00:02:17.740 I've been through that.
00:02:18.680 Girls and stuff, yeah.
00:02:20.440 Would make comments and stuff.
00:02:21.740 And it made me feel so shit.
00:02:24.380 So I feel like there's empathy that comes from that, isn't it?
00:02:26.880 Isn't that?
00:02:27.440 I did obviously try and gain weight.
00:02:28.940 I don't know if that's the difference.
00:02:31.300 But it was so hard.
00:02:32.600 I used to get talk until I cried.
00:02:34.000 They call me bagaboons.
00:02:35.360 But this is what she's saying.
00:02:36.660 I know how you feel.
00:02:37.220 She's saying.
00:02:37.780 It's hard.
00:02:38.220 She's saying.
00:02:39.100 But basically, bullying somebody encourages you to be a better person or change your ways
00:02:45.980 or whatever to how they think should be acceptable.
00:02:50.640 There are different people.
00:02:51.740 There's people that could drive the mindset to get better.
00:02:56.300 Yeah, but that's a different way of speaking.
00:02:57.800 There are people as well that could drive.
00:02:58.720 Yeah, there's a different way of speaking.
00:02:59.580 It's a different way of speaking.
00:02:59.600 Bullying them could break down.
00:03:00.980 Exactly.
00:03:01.520 You can articulate as well.
00:03:01.800 You can break them down really bad.
00:03:02.460 To say you're fat, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:04.520 And you know.
00:03:05.160 Body shaming and bullying is not acceptable.
00:03:06.840 It's a difference.
00:03:07.900 It's a body shaming to call a spade a spade to say you're fat.
00:03:11.840 You are fat.
00:03:13.120 Like you are fat.
00:03:14.080 It's not to be mean.
00:03:15.880 But I mean, then once we, but it's like, wait, wait.
00:03:19.260 So it's like, how do we fix problems if we can't acknowledge they exist?
00:03:23.920 This is the problem with the delusion.
00:03:25.860 Wait, wait.
00:03:27.320 This is the problem with the delusion of modern women.
00:03:30.260 It's like, we can't even acknowledge that there's a problem.
00:03:32.960 How the hell do we fix it?
00:03:34.880 If we can't even say, hey, the problem is there.
00:03:37.920 Yeah, I am obese.
00:03:39.340 Then you can at least say, maybe I should eat less.
00:03:41.780 Maybe I should get on the treadmill.
00:03:43.060 But it's like tooth and nail.
00:03:45.640 I'm like pulling teeth here trying to say, yeah, this is a problem.
00:03:49.040 But why is it our problem to fix?
00:03:52.220 It's not your problem.
00:03:53.140 It's my problem to fix.
00:03:56.620 I think if we care about someone, it is okay to encourage them.
00:04:01.720 But we'll say, I think we'll have a better quality of life because of this, this and this.
00:04:05.160 Because I guess it could be from a caring perspective, but not shaming.
00:04:08.860 And because some people do still find them desirable.
00:04:11.040 We don't need to shame.
00:04:11.640 And also, what about the people, the minority that can't help it?
00:04:15.140 At least it makes them feel more comfortable.
00:04:16.820 I don't think we need it to go down to the shame inside.
00:04:18.760 Like, let's be honest.
00:04:19.660 Like, you would talk to someone about their obesity in the most respectful way ever.
00:04:24.520 Exactly.
00:04:25.180 In the health aspect.
00:04:26.900 And you'd say, I'm concerned.
00:04:28.320 Maybe think of that.
00:04:29.240 Of course.
00:04:29.940 Nobody's trying to shame anybody.
00:04:31.160 But that's all you can do.
00:04:32.380 It's down to that individual whether they want to change their ways or not.
00:04:34.640 Obese person, as I said, 98% of them want to lose weight.
00:04:39.560 They do want to lose weight.
00:04:40.960 If you talk to them, you ask them a question, do you want to lose weight?
00:04:43.100 They will say yes.
00:04:44.100 And they just don't know how to.
00:04:45.020 So I am not trying to stand up here and be like, oh, I am going to support you being obese.
00:04:49.720 Yeah.
00:04:49.980 I do think we should shame them off the internet, though.
00:04:52.700 I do.
00:04:54.620 I do.
00:04:55.120 No, no.
00:04:55.760 Yeah.
00:04:56.020 No, I don't think we should be promoting that to kids.
00:04:58.680 To be honest.
00:04:59.520 No, I think.
00:05:00.040 I think I disagree with.
00:05:01.060 Kids are on the internet.
00:05:03.020 Like, I don't think we should be promoting, like, fat chicks on the covers of magazines.
00:05:06.180 I don't think we should be promoting, yes, queen, that's a good thing that you're obese.
00:05:10.620 Like, yeah, you do look good on social media.
00:05:12.720 There's kids on social media.
00:05:13.940 What messaging are we pushing?
00:05:15.320 And this is why, this is why a lot of women, they get work done.
00:05:19.100 And this is their exact example.
00:05:21.440 If you're going to push the narrative of you need to be perfect, then you're going to go
00:05:25.640 do certain things to your body because of idolization.
00:05:29.240 Let me respond to this.
00:05:30.400 There are women who are puts in their journeys, though.
00:05:33.520 Let me respond to this, okay?
00:05:35.200 Women get work done because they're lazy.
00:05:38.460 Not necessarily.
00:05:39.460 Because some women lacking in larger breasts or bigger bum, and you're going to want to
00:05:44.340 do that to please the man.
00:05:45.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:05:49.100 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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