JustPearlyThings - EX O.F Girl DISCUSSES her REGERTS doing O.F

00:00:00.000 Do you guys think that sex work is immoral?

00:00:03.640 Yeah, can I comment on that actually?

00:00:05.980 Go ahead. 0.91

00:00:06.500 So I, I don't, but it wasn't like boobs, it was lingerie, yeah, boobs, whatever.

00:00:13.560 I done it and when I finished it, I felt very degraded.

00:00:16.300 I felt very like, why did I actually do that?

00:00:18.400 Now I know there's girls out there who do that, they don't feel that way. 0.76

00:00:20.720 That is perfectly fine.

00:00:21.780 You do you, you feel the way you feel.

00:00:23.800 But me personally, like in the future, like when I have kids and all in the future,

00:00:28.160 and if my kids found out about that, they'll probably get bullied in school.

00:00:31.080 They'll, people will be like, oh, your mom done this, your mom done that,

00:00:33.600 and your man as well, he's not going to, if you don't respect yourself

00:00:36.400 and you're selling your body online, I can't speak for everyone,

00:00:39.200 I can just speak for myself.

00:00:40.240 If you're selling your body online like that, there's not,

00:00:42.380 there's not a high respect for yourself.

00:00:44.440 Why expect that from others then?

00:00:46.100 You know what I mean?

00:00:46.740 And it's like, if you're doing that sex work, it's so different for you.

00:00:50.680 How much money did you make?

00:00:52.380 So I basically done it like consecutively for like a week.

00:00:56.160 Like literally, I posted for a full, in total, first week, I made about 2,000.

00:01:01.780 That was from people being nosy and from people.

00:01:04.460 So you made two reds in the first week?

00:01:05.880 In the first week, in one week. 1.00

00:01:07.600 And you felt this shit? 0.99

00:01:09.340 If you've seen the stuff that people would ask you, 0.99

00:01:12.200 and even outside of it, even to this day, I don't do it anymore.

00:01:15.080 But people still being like to me, oh, well, you used to have OnlyFans.

00:01:17.680 Like, what was that?

00:01:18.240 Like, you, you, you must be real freaky.

00:01:20.240 No.

00:01:20.940 Why are you going for what they talking about? 0.99

00:01:23.080 It's because I wasn't posting this whole vagina. 1.00

00:01:25.180 I wasn't doing the whole thing. 0.98

00:01:26.600 You know what I mean?

00:01:27.140 So you won.

00:01:28.400 You ain't show no none. 0.94

00:01:29.920 No, I showed the titties. 0.99

00:01:32.020 I showed the titties. 0.96

00:01:32.800 But I didn't show nothing else.

00:01:34.440 You know what I mean?

00:01:34.880 And it was kind of to a point where it's like,

00:01:36.900 I thought I could do that when I got onto it.

00:01:39.580 Do you think?

00:01:39.840 She won money, but she didn't win respect.

00:01:41.960 I didn't win respect.

00:01:42.800 Do you think that you should be judged for doing sex work?

00:01:46.180 To an extent.

00:01:46.980 It does.

00:01:47.360 I don't care what anybody says.

00:01:48.680 In my opinion, it does speak a lot about yourself.

00:01:52.400 It does, 100%.

00:01:54.040 Even for me, like, when I done it,

00:01:55.180 people knew the type of girl I was.

00:01:56.400 Like, I'm very out there.

00:01:57.220 I'm open.

00:01:57.740 I don't care.

00:01:58.240 I'll speak what I speak and say what I say and do what I do.

00:02:01.220 But when I done it, I just didn't expect the big, like, whoa.

00:02:04.800 I feel very immoralized.

00:02:05.820 What did you expect?

00:02:07.220 I don't know what I expected.

00:02:08.300 What were you thinking before you did it?

00:02:10.340 Before I did it, I was like, get the bag.

00:02:12.480 Get the money.

00:02:13.060 Just get the money.

00:02:13.760 See all these girls.

00:02:14.200 And was there someone that influenced you to do it?

00:02:16.040 Oh, yeah.

00:02:16.480 I see all these girls doing it and getting the money. 1.00

00:02:18.440 But the one thing I didn't.

00:02:19.180 On Instagram, TikTok, some girls I know.

00:02:21.620 And I'm like, girl, get it.

00:02:22.840 If that's what you want to do, that is perfectly fine.

00:02:24.880 Like, do you.

00:02:26.120 Me, personally, I couldn't do it like that.

00:02:28.060 Do you understand if a guy would disqualify you in the future for that?

00:02:31.640 That was the first thing I said.

00:02:32.900 I can understand how a man would look at me if I did this.

00:02:35.500 And why do you think that you accept that where other girls will call the man misogynistic?

00:02:40.300 Feelings.

00:02:40.780 They're not using their logic.

00:02:41.560 They're like, how dare you speak about me like that?

00:02:43.780 And it's like, you're taking it so personal.

00:02:45.640 I was like, you obviously must feel a specific way about yourself.

00:02:48.100 If that's how you're speaking about a man being misogynistic, because he won't take you up for that.

00:02:53.240 That's about your own respect levels.

00:02:54.780 And that's just your own opinion.

00:02:56.360 Do you guys think that sex work is immoral?

00:03:01.600 Speak into your mic.

00:03:03.040 To an extent, yes.

00:03:04.940 A lot of points that you mentioned, I'd agree with.

00:03:10.080 I feel like it comes off very desperate.

00:03:15.440 And I just generally feel like doing them sort of things don't make you seem like a very good person.

00:03:27.840 In the way of, it's not your fault.

00:03:32.600 Like, I'm not blaming you for it.

00:03:34.420 How is it not your fault?

00:03:36.080 Whose fault is it?

00:03:37.180 I think, genuinely, I feel like, obviously, I'm not going to put the blame on everyone else.

00:03:43.660 I feel like I believe everyone should take accountability for the actions and whatnot.

00:03:46.580 But I feel like upbringing and the, like, financial state you're in can influence you a lot with them sort of things.

00:03:56.300 But you can look at someone that's born in the same upbringing and they don't make those decisions.

00:03:59.820 Yeah, no, 100%.

00:04:01.440 100%.

00:04:02.260 I feel like they...

00:04:07.100 Even just being born in this century, you're richer than most people were in all of human history.

00:04:11.720 That is true.

00:04:12.300 I agree with that.

00:04:13.940 I just feel like because, again, going on back onto the part of the society that we're in now.

00:04:18.960 Obviously, back in the day, it was prostitution. 1.00

00:04:20.840 That was looked down upon more.

00:04:22.060 Now, OnlyFans is being favoured.

00:04:24.100 Especially by, like, men and whatnot.

00:04:26.540 Like, men that start OnlyFans.

00:04:28.760 They get favoured.

00:04:29.920 They're like, oh, right, he's doing his thing. 1.00

00:04:32.740 Like, he's fucking different bitches every night type vibe. 1.00

00:04:35.900 It's like it gets favoured and it's normalised to the point where... 1.00

00:04:38.540 It's favoured.

00:04:39.000 You think men make more money on OnlyFans than women? 1.00

00:04:41.720 I don't know the statistics, so I won't speak on that.

00:04:44.500 But, obviously, I personally know men that are on OnlyFans and they do make money.

00:04:50.320 Like, what's make money?

00:04:51.760 As in, like, they make a substantial amount.

00:04:54.380 Probably, like, 30k a month.

00:04:57.020 So, like, it is a thing.

00:05:00.500 Obviously, it's not as normal as women doing it, but it is a thing. 0.99

00:05:03.960 It's crazy how men were the ones that kind of run the porn society

00:05:07.640 and it's the women that are falling into it. 1.00

00:05:09.580 Oh, sorry, porn society.

00:05:10.740 My apologies.

00:05:11.780 How they run the porn societies.

00:05:13.020 But, obviously, women being consumers as it is, we're going to be the ones to jump into it more, 1.00

00:05:17.280 you know what I mean, compared to men, 100%. 0.98

00:05:18.640 Yeah.

00:05:19.180 Okay.

00:05:19.520 So, what do you think?

00:05:21.360 Is sex work immoral?

00:05:23.520 Yes, I absolutely think so.

00:05:25.460 For any sex, it doesn't even matter, male or female. 0.63

00:05:28.220 We weren't made to do that, right?

00:05:31.820 Like, even just the fact that we have to wear clothes and layers is to protect, right?

00:05:36.700 So, even before you put on your regular clothes, you have on undergarments, right?

00:05:40.100 And so, that in and of itself just shows the default nature of how that's supposed to be more sacred.

00:05:44.960 It's supposed to be more private, more secure, right?

00:05:46.800 We even refer to it as private parts, private areas.

00:05:49.920 So, absolutely, it's immoral to just be flaunting that and giving it to anyone, period.

00:05:55.240 What about you?

00:05:56.440 So, for myself, I would say it would be immoral for me.

00:05:59.620 But I don't know.

00:06:01.100 Like, I think some people...

00:06:02.460 Is morality different for different people?

00:06:05.720 Like, if I steal and you steal, it's different?

00:06:07.800 In general, no.

00:06:08.440 But I think some people will kind of rationalize what they're doing and then say that they have their reasons for it.

00:06:13.920 And then I'm not...

00:06:14.940 I don't know their life, so I don't know what their reasons would be, but...

00:06:17.940 If I steal because I'm hungry, does that make it different?

00:06:23.320 It's not okay, but people are going to do what they're going to do.

00:06:26.720 So, if they do it...

00:06:27.920 No, but I'm asking if you think it's moral.

00:06:29.680 No, not for me.

00:06:31.020 I wouldn't...

00:06:31.520 No, but for everyone.

00:06:32.460 Do you think it's moral?

00:06:33.900 No.

00:06:35.000 No.

00:06:35.480 No.

00:06:35.600 Okay.

00:06:35.680 Okay.

00:06:36.320 Okay.

00:06:36.680 Thank you.

00:06:37.440 All right, go ahead. 0.66

00:06:38.440 Hell no.

00:06:40.240 And I think, like, now, you know, I also think as I get older, like, if I had a daughter, what would my answer be?

00:06:46.920 Right?

00:06:47.140 Like, I think it's...

00:06:48.360 You know, just think about that.

00:06:49.440 But also, too, like, I think the word...

00:06:50.920 The terminology, sex work, it's a really, like, large term.

00:06:54.520 There's a lot of things that could be encompassed within that.

00:06:56.440 But I also think sex work, you know, could be, you know, a lot of these Hollywood stars that, you know, show up half naked to the red carpet.

00:07:03.940 Right?

00:07:04.220 Like, I was looking at the Oscars and Ciara just showed up to the Oscars. 0.91

00:07:07.680 Like, literally half naked.

00:07:10.640 And she has two or three kids and is married to a multi-multi-millionaire, Russell Wilson.

00:07:16.580 That, to me, is a component of sex work as well.

00:07:19.500 You know, because she's taking degrees of her sexuality, putting it somewhere, and going to get brand deals because of it. 1.00

00:07:26.400 Right?

00:07:26.660 Like, and everything that comes from it.

00:07:28.240 Right?

00:07:28.520 So, like, I even think when we talk about sex work, the definition has to be expanded for modern times today.

00:07:33.780 Because although she's not doing that and getting direct money, or maybe that she is from the outfit that she's wearing. 1.00

00:07:38.380 She could be.

00:07:39.400 Right?

00:07:39.660 But then also, what comes of that?

00:07:43.080 Right?

00:07:43.880 And if there's an exchange of money, then that's sex work as well. 0.62

00:07:47.080 I don't know, man.

00:07:53.160 I don't know.

00:07:54.000 My thoughts on it are different than everybody else's.

00:07:57.080 I don't really see nothing wrong with it.

00:08:00.380 Because, like, sex work has been going on since the beginning of time.

00:08:05.180 It's never going to stop. 0.93

00:08:06.260 Have you ever had a prostitute? 0.97

00:08:07.040 No. 0.95

00:08:07.540 I don't know.

00:08:08.260 I don't do that.

00:08:11.540 But I'm just saying, it's going to happen.

00:08:14.320 Like, women going to get money. 1.00

00:08:16.300 They going to use what they got to get money.

00:08:18.620 Men going to do the same thing. 0.78

00:08:20.240 See, I'm, like, torn on it.

00:08:22.440 Because on one hand, I sometimes agree with you.

00:08:26.380 Like, I sometimes think it's needed in a society.

00:08:29.380 Because what are the one in three men going to do?

00:08:33.140 And if you think sex is a need, which it sort of is for men.

00:08:38.180 But then it just makes my stomach turn to say that, too.

00:08:42.580 So, that's why I'm kind of torn.

00:08:44.480 I don't know.

00:08:44.940 Let me ask you something.

00:08:47.200 Who you think has sex more? 0.98

00:08:50.400 A regular girl? 1.00

00:08:52.420 Or somebody who do OnlyFans?

00:08:54.860 Like, who got one person who they sleep with an OnlyFans, they do OnlyFans.

00:08:59.360 Who you think?

00:09:00.000 Regular girl. 0.99

00:09:00.580 I would agree. 0.96

00:09:01.160 Who you think having sex more or a stripper versus just a regular girl? 0.97

00:09:08.060 No, I think it's the, I think girls that do promiscuous behavior are, like, tend to make more promiscuous, like, choices. 0.98

00:09:16.580 Like, I think if someone does that, they're probably more likely to sleep around.

00:09:20.060 That's my opinion.

00:09:20.860 I know some people will say no, but.

00:09:22.940 I would be at the difference.

00:09:24.720 I would really be at the difference.

00:09:26.600 Can I just say, I'm with you.

00:09:28.640 I don't know why I'm always with you, but I'm with you.

00:09:32.120 If you've ever been close with a stripper or kind of see what they do, like, their schedule and how they work, they ain't really.

00:09:42.560 Yeah.

00:09:42.860 They going to the club, doing their thing, they come home, count up their money, get up in the morning, go to the bank to deposit them ones. 0.98

00:09:50.720 They ain't really out here just messing around like that, but it might be another girl who going to the strip club, just throwing ones on them, but they fucking at night. 1.00

00:09:59.700 I think my girls in the strip club are desensitized to it, right? 1.00

00:10:03.680 So that they're, when you are stripping for a man and doing that, you have to sell a fantasy to him, right?

00:10:09.940 You have to get into this persona and give him the dream for the night so he will give you the money, right?

00:10:16.020 And so once you come off of that in your home and you're with your family or whatever, usually they have kids that they're taking care of and they're doing stuff for, they're exhausted.

00:10:25.340 They're tired because I just had to go and pretend to be someone that I wasn't.

00:10:29.000 And I don't even want, I'm disgusted by men to a certain degree, right?

00:10:32.340 Because I know how creepy they are. 0.97

00:10:33.820 They come here and they're their most vulnerable and nasty and all the stuff that everyone else is going to look at you crazy for.

00:10:39.000 I have to take it because you're paying me to take it.

00:10:41.700 So I think they're desensitized to it, honestly.

00:10:43.580 I can see your point.

00:10:44.520 And then on the other end, it's a girl, I'm not going to say her name, but she's super big on OnlyFans.

00:10:52.180 She's getting like $200,000 a month on OnlyFans. 0.92

00:10:56.380 She only sleep with one dude on OnlyFans. 1.00

00:10:59.720 Yeah, there's girls like that as well. 1.00

00:11:01.160 Think about it, she's getting money, you don't get more money than her, and she already got a dude who's pleasing her sexually. 1.00

00:11:09.300 So you're not going to even be able to go mess with her.

00:11:13.080 Yeah, but the question is based on morality.

00:11:15.520 Morality is grounded in principles.

00:11:18.020 So then would you be okay if your daughter...

00:11:20.560 But what is morality?

00:11:21.800 What are the things that we do on the everyday for money?

00:11:25.300 But let's say that you had a daughter.

00:11:26.900 As a father, you pass on virtues, you pass on values, you pass on principles.

00:11:30.980 You pass on morality.

00:11:32.440 And if your daughter is doing that, is that something that you would allow?

00:11:36.840 I'm not going to agree with my daughter doing it.

00:11:38.280 So then the answer to the question for you is no.

00:11:40.340 You think it's immoral.

00:11:41.160 I'm not going to... 0.98

00:11:42.820 I wouldn't agree with my daughter or my CEO doing a lot of shit I do, but I'm wrong. 0.90

00:11:47.500 I'm going to do it. 0.99

00:11:48.180 You can't always control what your little baby do.

00:11:51.840 You got to just lead them in the right way and hope that they grow up and do the things that you would be pleased with.

00:11:57.120 But you still got the love.

00:11:58.640 And I thought they can do what they like.

00:12:00.120 I think there's a place for them.

00:12:03.140 I think it's been there for a long time.

00:12:04.940 I think that if you're going to be a sex worker, you should be single.

00:12:07.980 You shouldn't expect no man. 1.00

00:12:09.380 And there should be a slut island. 1.00

00:12:12.000 Where you can just get a ferry over to slut island and, you know, like... 1.00

00:12:15.700 What's it called? 0.97

00:12:16.220 Hit the box?

00:12:16.860 What do they call it?

00:12:17.460 That box thing?

00:12:18.440 What?

00:12:19.000 Something about the box.

00:12:19.660 So like, can regular people go to that island?

00:12:21.520 No, I think that's because we should do a reality show.

00:12:26.200 For me, I think it becomes immoral when they're looking for...

00:12:30.220 They've got children.

00:12:31.420 They've got partners.

00:12:32.740 Or they expect to get a man through it. 0.72

00:12:35.340 And I think that if you're going to be a sex worker, that's what you're going to be. 0.68

00:12:40.220 Don't expect to be nothing else. 0.97

00:12:41.880 Don't expect to be a wife. 1.00

00:12:43.160 You shouldn't be a mother. 1.00

00:12:43.980 I think if you're a mother and you're a sex worker or you're the OnlyFans, 0.99

00:12:47.420 I think if you're a partner and you're the OnlyFans or anything like that, 0.64

00:12:50.800 I think if you're a wife, no. 0.91

00:12:52.920 But other than that, if you're single, you want to go and do it 0.99

00:12:55.000 and you're not harming no one, go to slut island and just have an old island 1.00

00:12:58.040 where people can just go. 0.99

00:12:59.400 As women know, I do think... 1.00

00:13:00.900 Now, I will say this, and it ain't my place to say this either,

00:13:04.060 but I do think it's a time limit on it.

00:13:06.360 It's a time limit on it, yeah.

00:13:07.280 At a certain point, so you're old as here. 0.99

00:13:10.620 You need to get your ass out the streets. 0.98

00:13:12.220 But nobody's going to want you after that. 0.99

00:13:13.760 That's what I'm saying.

00:13:14.540 Stay on the island.

00:13:15.800 Because once you started...

00:13:16.800 No, you can't be 30.

00:13:17.700 You can't be 45.

00:13:18.520 Once you started, there's women out there... 1.00

00:13:20.160 Oh, someone will buy it.

00:13:21.640 It depends how bad that she is. 0.94

00:13:23.880 Have you seen that?

00:13:25.100 There was an article about an 80-year-old woman on Tinder.

00:13:27.920 Guys, we're still...

00:13:29.160 She'll be like the $5 special. 0.99

00:13:33.300 It'll be real cheap.

00:13:33.960 Dog, Ascent will always forgive if she's bad enough.

00:13:37.180 I'm curious, what do you guys think?

00:13:38.900 Is sex work moral, immoral?

00:13:40.520 I think it's immoral.

00:13:41.920 Immoral? 0.51

00:13:42.280 Yeah, I've got to do this, though.

00:13:44.520 I don't know.

00:13:45.600 I personally think, like, I have a lot of friends and a lot of people, so maybe I'm a bit desensitized

00:13:51.680 to it.

00:13:52.380 But I think corn has been happening for ages.

00:13:55.660 I think as consenting adults, you know.

00:13:59.100 Well, corn has it.

00:14:00.640 Yeah.

00:14:01.360 It's been...

00:14:01.840 Okay.

00:14:02.280 How...

00:14:02.960 Before the internet?

00:14:03.900 I'm not too...

00:14:04.620 Even before, like, think about it, we had...

00:14:07.420 There's always sex work, yeah. 0.71

00:14:08.180 The statues, even, of naked women.

00:14:10.600 Like, women have always been kind of admired for their bodies.

00:14:13.640 Yeah, I don't know if the statues are the same thing as, like, corn scenes.

00:14:16.320 Not really, but I mean, as in, like, the admiring women for their bodies and, like, I don't know.

00:14:22.120 I just...

00:14:22.820 We don't think there's a difference between, like, a sexual picture and, like, abuse...

00:14:26.680 Because some of the older pictures of the size...

00:14:31.180 Wouldn't it be the same difference, though?

00:14:34.620 Whose phone's ringing?

00:14:37.480 But some of the older pictures, it's...

00:14:40.040 It's because times have moved forward, though.

00:14:41.840 So I can imagine even sex back then wasn't how we have sex now, you know.

00:14:47.100 We've become more and more...

00:14:49.480 Modern.

00:14:50.700 Freaky. 0.99

00:14:51.040 Disgusting, really. 1.00

00:14:52.440 You've become more and more disgusting, you know. 1.00

00:14:54.600 People, I think, watch corn really early and normal sex becomes boring and you want to spice things up 0.99

00:15:01.480 and you do more and more things that maybe didn't happen back in the day.

00:15:05.840 Not to say that that's right or wrong.

00:15:07.220 It's for everything.

00:15:08.460 Yeah, well, yeah, yeah.

00:15:09.200 Don't play love.

00:15:09.840 Oh, it's crazy people.

00:15:10.920 Don't play love.

00:15:11.880 Don't play love.

00:15:12.200 Don't fool yourself.

00:15:12.780 So to answer the question, moral or immoral?

00:15:14.900 I don't think it's immoral, no.

00:15:16.240 I just think...

00:15:16.480 So you think it's moral?

00:15:19.900 So then you think it's immoral?

00:15:21.760 I don't know.

00:15:22.480 I just think it's each to their own.

00:15:24.140 I think it's each to their own.

00:15:25.080 No, no, no, no.

00:15:26.720 Moral or immoral?

00:15:28.200 Okay.

00:15:28.800 We got it.

00:15:29.960 I think if you're single and like you said...

00:15:32.800 Angie said it was moral.

00:15:34.160 Yeah, I think it is moral.

00:15:35.320 As long as it suits your lifestyle.

00:15:36.740 And like she said, I think as long as you don't expect for everyone just to accept it and understand,

00:15:42.240 I think it's moral.

00:15:42.920 No, I said don't expect a man. 0.89

00:15:44.420 Don't expect anyone to marry you. 0.54

00:15:45.580 I think women too. 1.00

00:15:46.600 Angie, make sure you're talking into your mind.

00:15:47.960 Sorry, you shouldn't have any children.

00:15:49.620 Don't expect a man. 1.00

00:15:50.940 Once you decide on the sex work, that's you till you die. 0.94

00:15:54.200 Get sex work insurance.

00:15:55.580 No, I'm not saying that I think.

00:15:56.860 I'm saying that's how it should be.

00:15:58.640 Because if somebody knows that this is how you start, you're not going to get anybody.

00:16:03.540 That should be able to put women off. 1.00

00:16:05.540 But there's women that are going out and they say, I can go and be OnlyFans and I can still get a husband. 1.00

00:16:09.240 I can only be OnlyFans.

00:16:10.500 I'm not going to have my children.

00:16:11.760 I can be OnlyFans. 1.00

00:16:13.000 No, after you know that that is it, you're going to have to take dick for the rest of your life. 1.00

00:16:18.040 You get the scraps. 0.99

00:16:20.240 But there's a lot of women that go out and don't do OnlyFans. 1.00

00:16:23.040 That sleep around a lot. 0.95

00:16:24.660 I'm talking about anyone that has sex for money. 1.00

00:16:26.480 Anybody that isn't anything.

00:16:27.580 I'm not talking about money.

00:16:28.160 I'm talking about just normal people that when they don't have their children, they go out and they sleep with loads of people.

00:16:32.960 And they don't do OnlyFans.

00:16:34.060 But they still get married and they still get respected.

00:16:36.600 That's what I'm saying.

00:16:37.880 But I'm saying because we've got, because we've got, not we've, because there's a platform that you're like showcased on, it's highlighted.

00:16:45.520 But there's a lot of women in privacy that do a lot worse than women on the platform. 1.00

00:16:49.360 And they deserve less.

00:16:50.280 Do you know what it says if you go on OnlyFans that you have no shame?

00:16:54.500 And so it's like, you don't care about bringing shame to your family.

00:16:59.040 You have no shame.

00:17:00.500 Some people in families don't mind.

00:17:03.400 You think the kids don't mind?

00:17:05.660 I mean, kids don't, obviously, kids don't have like the same view.

00:17:08.540 I mean, like mums and dads, like some people just, you know, as an adult.

00:17:12.520 But it's still saying I'm putting my money before bringing shame to the family name.

00:17:18.580 Depending on what your family view is on it.

00:17:21.040 Right.

00:17:21.340 But I'm saying what are the kids get no say in this.

00:17:23.580 So it still, it still goes back to, I always talk about this, the me, me, me culture where it's me before the children.

00:17:28.720 Oh, okay.

00:17:29.440 Well, hopefully the kids will turn out fine.

00:17:32.020 But, you know, I need this money.

00:17:33.440 So I'm going to do this now.

00:17:34.580 There's a lot of porn stars with children that are okay as well. 0.93

00:17:37.240 Porn stars. 0.99

00:17:37.660 Porn stars. 0.99

00:17:38.180 Sorry. 0.50

00:17:38.280 Sorry.

00:17:39.820 Outliers.

00:17:40.400 Some people literally put you in.

00:17:41.840 Listen, if we could, if we could, so like, so the thing is, is that, so the way that you talk, it's kind of like in this, this, this, my truth.

00:17:49.060 You know, it just is what it is.

00:17:50.320 Everyone can make decisions.

00:17:51.540 But at the same time, as I hear it, it sounds like people can make decisions without repercussions or consequences.

00:17:57.460 And I think that's on a slippery slope because when we do that, it starts to get away from accountability.

00:18:02.880 And the thing is, it's like when you look at generally what men typically want out of women.

00:18:07.160 Men typically do not want women that have been conquered sufficiently and especially have done it for money. 0.78

00:18:15.620 And especially have put their viscous innards up on the internet.

00:18:20.200 But there's also a massive misconception that, like the gentleman said, there's a lot of women that only sleep with their boyfriends on there. 0.96

00:18:27.900 And also that there's a misconception that if you do only found your easy, whereas it's most of the time, it's actually very opposite to get in contact with this woman.

00:18:37.880 Normally, you have to pay up front.

00:18:39.580 Like, you're not, she's not, she gets so many DMs a day. 0.89

00:18:43.000 She's not going to respond to you.

00:18:44.240 And it's more in the way of like money, money, money comes first.

00:18:48.300 But I'm saying there's a misconception that just because a girl does only fans that she's maybe easy or easy, easy access.

00:18:54.020 And it's not what I'm saying.

00:18:56.000 It's sex work.

00:18:58.120 Men of value.

00:18:59.080 If you can, if you want to, entertainment.

00:19:02.740 Besides, let's say like a Kanye West, what people in entertainment have women that have done OnlyFans publicly? 1.00

00:19:12.500 There's a lot of people that do Playboy and like maybe not as graphic, but there's still men that will.

00:19:19.180 Marry women with children? 1.00

00:19:20.760 So you want to follow the supermodel? 0.99

00:19:24.100 My memory is terrible.

00:19:25.320 I'm just saying it should be easy if it happens a lot.

00:19:27.600 There's loads.

00:19:28.760 Five.

00:19:29.360 If you would have asked me to before, I could have probably researched it.

00:19:31.660 But no, not off the top of my head, no.

00:19:33.320 But I'm saying if this was common, if this was common, like you should be able to name five or at least one, two, three off the top of your head.

00:19:41.620 I think far too often when we have these conversations, if women's goal is to be with men, then you have to consider what men want.

00:19:48.800 And irrespective of the brand, if she had been involved with that, it's going to deselect a lot of women. 1.00

00:19:56.740 And here's the thing.

00:19:57.520 There's a lot of women that are sitting in situationships that think they're in good standing with the man. 0.99

00:20:01.140 But the man just don't say ish.

00:20:02.640 Yeah.

00:20:02.820 But they continue in that situationship and just don't tell her the truth.

00:20:06.540 Or it's fine while they're in contact.

00:20:08.500 And then as soon as they don't, they won't take them seriously.

00:20:10.420 While still extracting their insides.

00:20:12.420 So they're getting what they want.

00:20:13.740 And they already know there's going to be an expiration date at the end of it.

00:20:16.660 Yeah.

00:20:16.880 So the thing is, is what is your goal?

00:20:19.240 And how are you working towards your goal?

00:20:21.580 What are the actions that you're putting in the place?

00:20:23.640 And I think if it's on a slippery slope where you're not understanding what men want, and if the result is a man, then you have to make some changes within the way that you move within that.

00:20:31.700 Well, I think it's obvious.

00:20:33.420 It's how to do her OnlyFans. 1.00

00:20:36.460 She's not thinking about getting married.

00:20:37.880 That's the last thing on my mind.

00:20:39.220 Exactly.

00:20:39.920 That's not what she's trying to do.

00:20:41.680 Until time runs out.

00:20:43.400 The world.

00:20:43.680 She has to.

00:20:44.340 Yeah.

00:20:44.900 And then she has to think about something.

00:20:47.020 Have you ever thought about it or considered it or done it OnlyFans?

00:20:51.060 Or stripping?

00:20:52.200 No, because you just seem really like, it's like part of you.

00:20:55.120 Like you're in the circle.

00:20:56.020 You know, I have a lot of, I have a lot of close friends that do it and I can understand, and even being a photographer that does lingerie and I, I promote body positivity.

00:21:05.920 So I post myself in lingerie on my, my content.

00:21:09.080 I'm plus size.

00:21:10.160 I try to like, do you know what I mean?

00:21:11.620 So it's not, it's not exactly that, but like, it's kind of within a tiny bit of a window of it.

00:21:17.000 You think that's the start, you go further?

00:21:18.700 Do you think you're going to start there now and you're going to get so body positivity, you're going to get so positive about your body, you're going to think, you know what?

00:21:25.220 My friends are doing it.

00:21:26.540 I can go and be positive on OnlyFans and get paid for it.

00:21:30.320 Like a dominoes effect.

00:21:31.060 If I did, I would understand the repercussions.

00:21:34.740 Do you know what I mean?

00:21:35.220 No, it just sounds like you're, you're already invested in that whole.

00:21:38.620 Yeah.

00:21:38.860 I just think, I don't know.

00:21:39.900 I just think some, like, there's a bit of an unfair vision on it sometimes, but I understand why.

00:21:46.620 Do you know what I mean?

00:21:47.480 But it's like when you're arguing, it's kind of like, do I want a thief in my house?

00:21:51.080 No.

00:21:51.600 Right.

00:21:51.940 Yeah.

00:21:52.280 Does it matter if, you know, maybe, maybe that, maybe that.

00:21:55.220 That thief stole $5 worth of stuff and that thief stole 50, but they're still both thieves.

00:22:00.440 And that's what I'm saying with the guys, the way the guys think about promiscuity.

00:22:04.060 Okay.

00:22:04.200 Maybe, maybe the regular girl's worse. 1.00

00:22:06.120 That's not in sex work, but then guys don't want either.

00:22:08.740 Hmm.

00:22:09.080 Can I just say though, if you're speaking about regular girls that do it, they're not actually putting it out there.

00:22:13.240 So, you wouldn't know what they're doing anyway.

00:22:16.360 And also, saying that girls that are in sex work might not do it as regular as a regular girl, but maybe they haven't actually been given the opportunity if they're trying to make money off it. 0.98

00:22:25.260 Who?

00:22:25.540 Like, sex workers, if you're saying that they do it less than a regular girl. 1.00

00:22:31.580 Oh, I don't say that, but yeah, yeah.

00:22:33.800 To your point, you said like, sometimes regular girls do it more than a sex worker, but maybe the sex worker's not meeting anyone that's actually willing to pay. 1.00

00:22:41.220 So, they haven't presented the opportunity.

00:22:43.240 If you move around out here, we know.

00:22:45.380 It goes from group chat to group chat.

00:22:46.740 You know, boys know boys.

00:22:48.140 Boys know that, like, if you think that you're private and you've had sex with, say, 20 boys and they don't know each other, they know.

00:22:54.800 Men know 100%.

00:22:56.740 We call that the whole facts.

00:22:58.360 We know it.

00:22:58.760 We know it.

00:22:59.740 They know it.

00:23:00.200 They just haven't been given the opportunity to do that because they're wanting money from it.

00:23:08.480 So, it's like, if they got 20, like, guys a week saying, I'll give you this, would they do it and then be worse than a regular girl because now they're actually getting paid for it? 0.60

00:23:16.300 Whereas a lot of guys, as soon as they find out a girl wants money for it, they're not going to do it because why would I give you money when I can get it for free?

00:23:21.640 And a lot of men argue, sorry, that, oh, I wouldn't subscribe to an OnlyFans because I have girls that send it to me for free.

00:23:27.500 So, the actual nudes and the spreading and all that stuff isn't the issue.

00:23:31.840 It is the money part.

00:23:33.860 Can I say that's kind of a lie?

00:23:34.460 Obviously, you still wouldn't maybe.

00:23:35.740 Because we're the builders.

00:23:36.680 Yeah, obviously, you still maybe might not marry the woman that's doing that.

00:23:41.740 Yeah, but guys want you to send nudes to them. 1.00

00:23:47.080 And only them.

00:23:48.080 yeah if he found out you sent nudes to three of his friends you'd be out the

00:23:52.880 same way yes like it's just for me it's just for them let me tell y'all something

00:23:58.700 I'm gonna put y'all on some lingo where I'm at Atlanta if we feel like a girl 0.99

00:24:05.520 been around and we know she's been around we say she burnt out you know

00:24:09.980 what I'm saying now if you own OnlyFans or if you not own OnlyFans you can still be

00:24:14.840 burnt out it is way we could tell we could tell by you how we how you move

00:24:20.000 you know what I'm saying so let's say me and you first started dealing with each

00:24:23.300 other well I don't know you we just talking with the vibe cool whatever I'm

00:24:29.120 gonna take you to the club let's go to the club let's go to the spot where

00:24:32.600 everybody be at when we walk in this spot I can I can tell about how you move

00:24:37.820 around in this spot and who what men here know you and I can just I can look at how

00:24:43.280 you acting and tell how you moving whether you burnt out or not so they

00:24:48.080 ain't got nothing to do with OnlyFans ain't got nothing to do with none of that 0.99

00:24:51.620 it's about how you really moving out here and men gonna know we're gonna know

00:24:55.780 like y'all not good enough to hide that shit I don't know like a lot of girls that go to 1.00

00:25:00.320 the club you they might not actually do it whereas you will meet a lot of like 0.99

00:25:05.360 home bodies for example that they're always at home but a man's always with them

00:25:09.000 like and it don't have to be the same man it could just be different man you

00:25:12.500 wouldn't know because if someone feels shame about it or anything they're not

00:25:15.780 gonna tell you they'll just lie so you will never know really what goes on in

00:25:19.920 someone's life unless you've got proof I always hear from guys that like women 1.00

00:25:23.700 always tell on themselves that a girl can fool you but only for so long do you

00:25:27.480 guys think that's true for sure you're gonna know like I feel like it's like

00:25:33.900 maybe not at first but if you do enough someone's gonna talk and so you might you

00:25:37.800 might you might see how the quiet girl at the party or whatever but then you

00:25:41.100 know you get to know her a little better you see who's around her and someone's

00:25:43.980 you know but a city that you living in now you go into a fresh city and don't

00:25:50.640 nobody know you Ronnie then you you got a fresh start but if we if all of us grew up

00:25:57.240 in London we went to high school in London we played football in London we

00:26:01.380 graduated from London we went to car we went to different colleges around here when I

00:26:07.260 did I get to bring you around as many of you know I was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - May 31, 2023

EX O.F Girl DISCUSSES her REGERTS doing O.F

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