In this episode, we discuss the morality of sex work and the impact sex work can have on a person's self-esteem and self-confidence. We also discuss the dangers of having sex work as a profession.
00:06:49.440But also, too, like, I think the word...
00:06:50.920The terminology, sex work, it's a really, like, large term.
00:06:54.520There's a lot of things that could be encompassed within that.
00:06:56.440But I also think sex work, you know, could be, you know, a lot of these Hollywood stars that, you know, show up half naked to the red carpet.
00:09:42.860They going to the club, doing their thing, they come home, count up their money, get up in the morning, go to the bank to deposit them ones.
00:09:50.720They ain't really out here just messing around like that, but it might be another girl who going to the strip club, just throwing ones on them, but they fucking at night.
00:09:59.700I think my girls in the strip club are desensitized to it, right?
00:10:03.680So that they're, when you are stripping for a man and doing that, you have to sell a fantasy to him, right?
00:10:09.940You have to get into this persona and give him the dream for the night so he will give you the money, right?
00:10:16.020And so once you come off of that in your home and you're with your family or whatever, usually they have kids that they're taking care of and they're doing stuff for, they're exhausted.
00:10:25.340They're tired because I just had to go and pretend to be someone that I wasn't.
00:10:29.000And I don't even want, I'm disgusted by men to a certain degree, right?
00:16:37.880But I'm saying because we've got, because we've got, not we've, because there's a platform that you're like showcased on, it's highlighted.
00:16:45.520But there's a lot of women in privacy that do a lot worse than women on the platform.
00:17:41.840Listen, if we could, if we could, so like, so the thing is, is that, so the way that you talk, it's kind of like in this, this, this, my truth.
00:17:51.540But at the same time, as I hear it, it sounds like people can make decisions without repercussions or consequences.
00:17:57.460And I think that's on a slippery slope because when we do that, it starts to get away from accountability.
00:18:02.880And the thing is, it's like when you look at generally what men typically want out of women.
00:18:07.160Men typically do not want women that have been conquered sufficiently and especially have done it for money.
00:18:15.620And especially have put their viscous innards up on the internet.
00:18:20.200But there's also a massive misconception that, like the gentleman said, there's a lot of women that only sleep with their boyfriends on there.
00:18:27.900And also that there's a misconception that if you do only found your easy, whereas it's most of the time, it's actually very opposite to get in contact with this woman.
00:19:29.360If you would have asked me to before, I could have probably researched it.
00:19:31.660But no, not off the top of my head, no.
00:19:33.320But I'm saying if this was common, if this was common, like you should be able to name five or at least one, two, three off the top of your head.
00:19:41.620I think far too often when we have these conversations, if women's goal is to be with men, then you have to consider what men want.
00:19:48.800And irrespective of the brand, if she had been involved with that, it's going to deselect a lot of women.
00:20:16.880So the thing is, is what is your goal?
00:20:19.240And how are you working towards your goal?
00:20:21.580What are the actions that you're putting in the place?
00:20:23.640And I think if it's on a slippery slope where you're not understanding what men want, and if the result is a man, then you have to make some changes within the way that you move within that.
00:20:56.020You know, I have a lot of, I have a lot of close friends that do it and I can understand, and even being a photographer that does lingerie and I, I promote body positivity.
00:21:05.920So I post myself in lingerie on my, my content.
00:21:10.160I try to like, do you know what I mean?
00:21:11.620So it's not, it's not exactly that, but like, it's kind of within a tiny bit of a window of it.
00:21:17.000You think that's the start, you go further?
00:21:18.700Do you think you're going to start there now and you're going to get so body positivity, you're going to get so positive about your body, you're going to think, you know what?
00:22:09.080Can I just say though, if you're speaking about regular girls that do it, they're not actually putting it out there.
00:22:13.240So, you wouldn't know what they're doing anyway.
00:22:16.360And also, saying that girls that are in sex work might not do it as regular as a regular girl, but maybe they haven't actually been given the opportunity if they're trying to make money off it.
00:22:33.800To your point, you said like, sometimes regular girls do it more than a sex worker, but maybe the sex worker's not meeting anyone that's actually willing to pay.
00:22:41.220So, they haven't presented the opportunity.
00:23:00.200They just haven't been given the opportunity to do that because they're wanting money from it.
00:23:08.480So, it's like, if they got 20, like, guys a week saying, I'll give you this, would they do it and then be worse than a regular girl because now they're actually getting paid for it?
00:23:16.300Whereas a lot of guys, as soon as they find out a girl wants money for it, they're not going to do it because why would I give you money when I can get it for free?
00:23:21.640And a lot of men argue, sorry, that, oh, I wouldn't subscribe to an OnlyFans because I have girls that send it to me for free.
00:23:27.500So, the actual nudes and the spreading and all that stuff isn't the issue.