JustPearlyThings - November 02, 2023


Ex P＊RNSTAR Gets FLAMED By Everybody On The Panel


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

218.16203

Word count

1,805

Sentence count

260

Harmful content

Misogyny

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, the guys talk about the role of a single mom in raising their kids and how they should take responsibility for their children. They also talk about why single moms are more likely to be promiscuous than their fathers.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I don't have kids.
00:00:01.220 I'm not the single mom.
00:00:02.360 I'm talking about single mothers, not you. 0.76
00:00:04.620 I said that twice now.
00:00:05.500 Single mom.
00:00:06.660 So like I said, single mothers that have daughters, the daughters are most likely to be promiscuous. 1.00
00:00:14.020 Because they don't have a father.
00:00:15.640 I'm the daughter that came from a father of suicide.
00:00:19.340 So my mother didn't have the other option to raise me. 0.98
00:00:22.860 So you can't really blame the child that's now an adult for the decisions that they're doing because of the mother.
00:00:29.620 The personal responsibility is not dead.
00:00:33.480 Wait, wait, wait.
00:00:33.980 But didn't you say your mom drove your dad to suicide?
00:00:36.960 Yeah, pretty much.
00:00:38.960 So why are you blaming the father?
00:00:40.540 I mean, I don't get that.
00:00:41.780 I'm not blaming the father.
00:00:43.480 Did I say I'm blaming the father?
00:00:44.540 You can't blame anybody for your life.
00:00:46.340 That's not the words that came out of my mouth.
00:00:48.680 That's not what came out of my mouth.
00:00:50.060 But you can't blame anyone for your decisions.
00:00:52.820 I know people in very similar situations that made different decisions.
00:00:56.980 It's you.
00:00:57.600 But that's the point.
00:00:59.220 Like, by blaming your parents, it's like you're blaming somebody else.
00:01:02.580 I don't have anyone in my family to help my mother raise me.
00:01:06.020 And what about the people that were in the exact same situation and didn't do that?
00:01:11.700 There's always somebody in the exact same situation and didn't choose to do that.
00:01:16.140 And that's part of accountability.
00:01:18.380 I wouldn't have been able to go to 35 countries if I wasn't making all the money.
00:01:21.820 Exactly.
00:01:22.420 Your choice.
00:01:23.280 It was your choice.
00:01:23.980 Some people, when they were in the same position that you were, decided to go clean hotels.
00:01:28.100 You decided to do something else and travel the world.
00:01:30.000 It's on you.
00:01:31.540 Damn.
00:01:32.320 But what's the prognosis of that, though?
00:01:35.400 She made some life choices that maybe now she feels...
00:01:39.060 I'm changing.
00:01:41.000 Did you not hear what I said?
00:01:41.900 I'm transitioning out of it.
00:01:43.120 But the reason why I did porn is because if someone like you walked into a head shop I was working in that sold bongs, 0.99
00:01:48.580 I probably would have broke one over your head for talking to you that way.
00:01:51.660 So that's why I do porn.
00:01:53.420 What?
00:01:54.200 What?
00:01:55.000 I don't think that would have worked out too well.
00:01:56.480 This is completely illogical.
00:01:58.780 But my point is if you think...
00:02:00.580 That's why I don't know.
00:02:01.260 My point...
00:02:01.760 We ain't violent, by the way.
00:02:03.120 I'm not violent.
00:02:04.080 But you start...
00:02:05.100 Okay, okay, okay.
00:02:05.940 No.
00:02:06.520 I'm not threatening you.
00:02:08.060 I'm using you as an example.
00:02:09.220 Don't yell at my coke dealer.
00:02:10.660 Zerka.
00:02:11.360 Zerka.
00:02:11.940 Zerka comes on every podcast.
00:02:14.120 I'm using you as an example because you started yelling at me.
00:02:16.820 But I'm saying...
00:02:17.480 You welcomed it.
00:02:19.320 I'm welcoming too.
00:02:20.740 We want more intensity, more views.
00:02:22.900 Kill each other.
00:02:23.940 Zerka comes on every podcast.
00:02:25.480 He talks about he's on coke, all this stuff.
00:02:28.400 He doesn't go around saying, don't judge me for it.
00:02:31.120 Because part of taking...
00:02:31.460 Judge me!
00:02:32.580 You have to judge me!
00:02:34.540 I'm winning hard and I'm cheating!
00:02:36.220 If you make decisions, fine.
00:02:37.920 But that's just what comes with it.
00:02:40.420 You've got all those countries you travel to.
00:02:42.740 So all that misery in your life, you deserve.
00:02:44.760 You've got the countries for the misery.
00:02:46.180 What are you talking about?
00:02:46.780 I'm fucking happy.
00:02:47.520 You said 35 countries, right?
00:02:49.420 Why can't I be happy?
00:02:50.580 But there's a good and a bad to all that.
00:02:52.480 Why can't I be happy?
00:02:53.900 Are you happy?
00:02:54.440 You don't sound happy.
00:02:55.120 I'm really...
00:02:56.080 That's what...
00:02:56.460 You're about to bust the fucking microphone over Gary's head.
00:02:59.200 I'm really happy.
00:02:59.880 And he's a Jew. 0.97
00:03:00.920 You can't do that to a Jewish guy.
00:03:02.700 The only people that aren't screaming at me right now is this lady, you, surprisingly, 1.00
00:03:07.700 Pearl, and Troy.
00:03:08.900 That's because we hate women. 1.00
00:03:10.400 I noticed.
00:03:12.240 At least you take accountability for it.
00:03:14.040 I give you that.
00:03:14.860 I got you.
00:03:15.120 I got you.
00:03:15.540 I'm not judging you.
00:03:16.460 You keep saying I'm judging you just because I'm speaking to you.
00:03:20.220 But to completely ignore and still defend the things you did without taking responsibility...
00:03:28.540 Stop saying...
00:03:29.980 That's like stupid shit to say.
00:03:31.360 Like, it's pointless.
00:03:31.960 Just like you talking to me like you know me.
00:03:33.740 It's like verbal diarrhea.
00:03:35.080 We just...
00:03:35.220 We're out of Mexican...
00:03:36.300 We're out of Mexican stand-up.
00:03:37.480 We just know what you said.
00:03:39.480 Like, I didn't even know you did porn until you said it.
00:03:41.880 You're defending...
00:03:42.980 I'm transitioning out of it.
00:03:44.120 Like, I'm not doing it.
00:03:45.000 What does that mean you're transitioning out of it?
00:03:46.880 It means I'm not doing it and I'm on to the next chapter of my life.
00:03:49.680 I'm going to school for real estate.
00:03:51.080 Which is fine.
00:03:51.880 Like, that's fine.
00:03:53.140 No problem.
00:03:53.460 I just have money to better myself.
00:03:54.620 But I'm saying, like, you can't get mad at the conclusions people make
00:03:58.360 from the words that come out of your mouth.
00:04:00.100 I'm not getting mad.
00:04:01.320 I'm trying to clarify because there's words that are being put into my mouth.
00:04:03.900 Okay, so can I ask you a question?
00:04:05.620 A clarifying question?
00:04:06.840 Yeah, and I can give you an answer.
00:04:07.680 Because it seems...
00:04:08.800 Yeah, I ask the question.
00:04:09.540 And correct me if I'm wrong because I don't want to upset you.
00:04:12.580 It's not that you're upsetting me.
00:04:14.100 Are you fucking always like this?
00:04:16.940 No, but if you talk to me a little bit more calmly, I can talk a little more calmly.
00:04:20.580 Cog's a wonderful drug.
00:04:21.860 I've been very nice.
00:04:23.280 I've been nice to you up to now.
00:04:26.700 We need a bathroom break.
00:04:27.140 We need a bathroom break.
00:04:28.420 We got to regroup teams here.
00:04:29.920 I'm on the wrong team.
00:04:30.940 I'm with the stoners.
00:04:32.300 You got the spoon, right?
00:04:33.280 I've got the key.
00:04:34.380 But check it out.
00:04:35.200 Check it out.
00:04:35.660 Are you going to be trying?
00:04:37.500 No trend.
00:04:38.400 No trend.
00:04:39.040 But check it out.
00:04:40.200 There's nothing personal you were attacking her on, right?
00:04:43.360 Correct.
00:04:43.600 You're objective.
00:04:44.540 What about you, Gary?
00:04:45.440 Oh, I was definitely being personal.
00:04:47.180 But just to play...
00:04:48.840 I was a mic at least.
00:04:50.360 I'll definitely be personal 100%.
00:04:51.860 This is content.
00:04:53.760 But just to play down as an advocate, do you actually get a shit and people judge you on those?
00:04:57.380 She shouldn't.
00:04:58.160 She shouldn't.
00:04:58.920 Do you give a shit?
00:04:59.940 I really don't.
00:05:01.100 But what I do judge is when people misconstrued my words.
00:05:04.120 So you're judging them?
00:05:04.740 So clarify.
00:05:06.400 You have said a lot of flat-out excuses and reasons for the life you chose.
00:05:13.840 For the life you chose.
00:05:14.800 And you defended it.
00:05:16.020 And you blamed your mother.
00:05:17.600 And I'm so sorry about your father.
00:05:18.860 I'm not blaming my mom.
00:05:20.200 I'm saying where I came from.
00:05:21.480 And he said something about blaming the single mom.
00:05:23.760 And I'm like, yeah.
00:05:24.740 But you did blame your circumstances and your mother and your father for killing himself
00:05:29.060 for your choices.
00:05:30.240 And you defend it.
00:05:31.380 And you justify it over and over.
00:05:33.360 And you have here.
00:05:34.020 We've got the tape.
00:05:35.840 What...
00:05:36.120 Cool.
00:05:36.780 So when I say it seems that you're justifying and defending this life, you come at me like
00:05:43.120 with the...
00:05:43.920 You don't know me.
00:05:44.780 Like, that's ridiculous.
00:05:45.800 I mean, technically, I'm like shit stuck to your shoe just like your shit stuck to my
00:05:50.060 shoe.
00:05:50.400 So what does it even matter about?
00:05:52.200 You know what?
00:05:52.820 Because you know what, honey?
00:05:53.660 You're not the only one.
00:05:54.720 I'm not your honey.
00:05:55.920 Oh, you're so stupid.
00:05:57.060 Stop saying things.
00:05:58.140 Oh my God.
00:05:59.120 You know what?
00:05:59.800 Great cast.
00:06:00.860 I love this thing.
00:06:01.540 Oh my God.
00:06:02.060 I'm going to tell you.
00:06:03.160 I used to be a backup dancer for the devil himself.
00:06:05.680 And you know what I learned?
00:06:07.360 I know a lost soul when I see one.
00:06:09.500 I'm not lost.
00:06:10.200 You are lost as fuck, honey. 0.98
00:06:11.560 Your eyes say something else.
00:06:12.960 I'm not lost.
00:06:13.400 You are fucking lost.
00:06:14.820 No.
00:06:15.260 Yeah.
00:06:15.680 You need to be saved.
00:06:16.920 And I'm not trying to judge you.
00:06:19.020 I just know a lost soul.
00:06:20.460 And oh my God.
00:06:21.440 You are in so much trouble.
00:06:23.360 I'm not lost.
00:06:23.560 You are so troubled.
00:06:24.940 No.
00:06:25.520 Oh, sweetie.
00:06:26.420 I am going to pray for you and myself.
00:06:28.480 I don't need your prayers.
00:06:29.560 Don't waste your time.
00:06:29.880 You do need my prayers.
00:06:31.400 Don't waste your time.
00:06:33.020 Don't waste your time.
00:06:34.140 Don't waste your time.
00:06:35.040 I will give you a fist bump for it.
00:06:36.500 I can't even do that.
00:06:37.400 No, no.
00:06:37.920 Listen.
00:06:38.340 First of all, listen.
00:06:39.280 Hey, woman. 1.00
00:06:41.120 Jesus loves you.
00:06:42.360 But why are you talking about I'm leaving porn?
00:06:45.460 If there's no shame, stay.
00:06:47.340 No.
00:06:47.480 If there's no shame, why are you trying to leave it?
00:06:49.360 Because you know what?
00:06:50.120 I'm tired of the people in it.
00:06:52.280 Oh, the demons?
00:06:53.700 You know what?
00:06:54.460 I'm actually a very happy person.
00:06:57.360 And I go to set very happy.
00:06:58.640 You want to put that to a vote?
00:07:00.280 Want to see what everyone here thinks?
00:07:01.760 I really don't give a fuck.
00:07:02.860 Exactly.
00:07:03.320 You're tired of people.
00:07:04.020 Exception is reality.
00:07:05.460 And if you go through everyone here, we don't think you're happy.
00:07:08.420 As a matter of fact, we think you're probably miserable.
00:07:10.080 But you had some money, so I respect that.
00:07:12.480 You got some money.
00:07:13.000 I respect that.
00:07:13.540 In the hills, though.
00:07:14.620 She's in the hills miserable.
00:07:15.600 She went to Mykonos.
00:07:16.580 How could she not be happy?
00:07:17.620 It depends how you differ.
00:07:18.720 You know, you guys are looking superficially.
00:07:20.360 She's coming to podcast.
00:07:21.200 She's getting angry.
00:07:22.000 She's getting, you know, whatever.
00:07:22.960 Because everyone gets heated.
00:07:24.180 Everyone gets heated on these things.
00:07:25.340 It's fine.
00:07:26.000 But, you know, I was out with you the other night.
00:07:28.380 You've got a strong group of very good friends.
00:07:30.120 She didn't threaten to bottle your head with glass like she did Gary first night meeting you?
00:07:33.600 I doubt he was talking to her.
00:07:34.620 I was just going to add an example.
00:07:36.320 No, no.
00:07:36.660 You're for podcasting.
00:07:38.140 You're very entertaining.
00:07:39.560 But you're saying she's not troubled.
00:07:41.060 She's first 10 minutes threatened to bottle like Jew. 1.00
00:07:43.500 No, I'm just saying.
00:07:44.360 That's my job.
00:07:45.040 I was about to see a world-class DJ.
00:07:46.400 Do you think she's Hamas?
00:07:47.420 I'm not saying.
00:07:48.100 I'm not saying.
00:07:50.100 It's Hamas here. 0.92
00:07:51.660 Holy shit.
00:07:52.780 No, I'm not saying she's not troubled.
00:07:54.000 She's definitely troubled.
00:07:54.780 But what I'm saying is.
00:07:55.740 No, he's in trouble.
00:07:56.640 He's in the Gaza right now.
00:07:57.980 What I'm saying is.
00:07:58.860 I've seen you.
00:08:00.200 You've got very strong friendships.
00:08:01.880 You've got good relationships with your family.
00:08:04.580 There's people that you've known for many, many years who really care about you.
00:08:07.440 You've got great bond with those people.
00:08:08.460 I don't see you knowing you a bit personally.
00:08:10.780 I don't see you as being this horrendously miserable person.
00:08:13.200 You saw how happy I was there.
00:08:14.660 How many people hug me and love me.