Ex P*RNSTAR Gets FLAMED By Everybody On The Panel
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about the role of a single mom in raising their kids and how they should take responsibility for their children. They also talk about why single moms are more likely to be promiscuous than their fathers.
Transcript
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So like I said, single mothers that have daughters, the daughters are most likely to be promiscuous.
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I'm the daughter that came from a father of suicide.
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So my mother didn't have the other option to raise me.
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So you can't really blame the child that's now an adult for the decisions that they're doing because of the mother.
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But didn't you say your mom drove your dad to suicide?
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That's not the words that came out of my mouth.
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I know people in very similar situations that made different decisions.
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Like, by blaming your parents, it's like you're blaming somebody else.
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I don't have anyone in my family to help my mother raise me.
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And what about the people that were in the exact same situation and didn't do that?
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There's always somebody in the exact same situation and didn't choose to do that.
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I wouldn't have been able to go to 35 countries if I wasn't making all the money.
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Some people, when they were in the same position that you were, decided to go clean hotels.
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You decided to do something else and travel the world.
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She made some life choices that maybe now she feels...
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But the reason why I did porn is because if someone like you walked into a head shop I was working in that sold bongs,
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I probably would have broke one over your head for talking to you that way.
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I don't think that would have worked out too well.
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I'm using you as an example because you started yelling at me.
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He doesn't go around saying, don't judge me for it.
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You're about to bust the fucking microphone over Gary's head.
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The only people that aren't screaming at me right now is this lady, you, surprisingly,
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You keep saying I'm judging you just because I'm speaking to you.
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But to completely ignore and still defend the things you did without taking responsibility...
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Like, I didn't even know you did porn until you said it.
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What does that mean you're transitioning out of it?
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It means I'm not doing it and I'm on to the next chapter of my life.
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But I'm saying, like, you can't get mad at the conclusions people make
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I'm trying to clarify because there's words that are being put into my mouth.
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And correct me if I'm wrong because I don't want to upset you.
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No, but if you talk to me a little bit more calmly, I can talk a little more calmly.
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There's nothing personal you were attacking her on, right?
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But just to play down as an advocate, do you actually get a shit and people judge you on those?
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But what I do judge is when people misconstrued my words.
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You have said a lot of flat-out excuses and reasons for the life you chose.
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And he said something about blaming the single mom.
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But you did blame your circumstances and your mother and your father for killing himself
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So when I say it seems that you're justifying and defending this life, you come at me like
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I mean, technically, I'm like shit stuck to your shoe just like your shit stuck to my
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I used to be a backup dancer for the devil himself.
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But why are you talking about I'm leaving porn?
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If there's no shame, why are you trying to leave it?
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And if you go through everyone here, we don't think you're happy.
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As a matter of fact, we think you're probably miserable.
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But, you know, I was out with you the other night.
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You've got a strong group of very good friends.
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She didn't threaten to bottle your head with glass like she did Gary first night meeting you?
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She's first 10 minutes threatened to bottle like Jew.
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You've got good relationships with your family.
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There's people that you've known for many, many years who really care about you.
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I don't see you as being this horrendously miserable person.