Fact About Men That Women NEED To Hear
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about monogamy and what it means to be a "monogamous" in the modern dating world. What does it mean to be monogamous, and why does it matter to you?
Transcript
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Be monogamous with a low-value man or share a high-value man?
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sex has been lost in translation and what it means.
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So for me, I have kind of taken those blinders off
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I'm OK with dating the trainer in Austin, Texas.
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Like, I don't need a certain thing because I know what I'm wanting.
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Most guys in that percentage are not going to give me.
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one of the most misunderstood people online as well.
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And I don't like to just put everyone in a box.
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So I would want someone who can match at least the work ethic.
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Now, when it comes to money, I know for me, I want to be able to.
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I have literally done that before, it didn't pan out in my favor.
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OK, because what happens is you get the rug ripped from under you.
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So for me, the lifestyle I want, I am responsible for.
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So I don't look for a man to make X amount of dollars,
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because anything that I want, I'm going to get myself.
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Well, because in my head, I feel like a guy is just as likely to cheat
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I can clarify something, because I understand your points.
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You're saying you want a partner, a life partner.
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Are you sure you're not confusing the amount of time the man spends
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Because what happens a lot of the time, if a man's out here chasing
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But imagine you had a man who was home seven nights a week.
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I'm talking about like an hour, like during his work lunch,
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Then would you even give a shit about monogamy?
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If you had all of his time effectively, would you really care?
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I still would care, because I feel like it's still just an hour a day,
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I feel I really have been in so many different situations.
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Again, the trainer in Austin to the NBA player, baby daddy.
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And it's just my personal experience and perspective to where I want someone
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The realization you've come to is an interesting one.
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It is something that happens, especially to females as they mature.
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Or why do you think that zero women on earth choose those kind of men who they
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perhaps have slightly lower status, but are more likely to be loyal to them and be
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In the modern world, because like I said, the world's changed, why do you think zero
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women choose them when they're at the peak of their choices?
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So when a woman is 19 and she can go anywhere she wants, every man wants her.
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She can get flown out to Dubai when she has all the choices in the world.
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Why is she completely uninterested in those kind of men?
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And then when she gets to a certain age of maturity and all, there's a whole new
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generation of girls who have all the choices, then they sit there and go, you know what?
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And they all of a sudden want to grow up and mature.
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Why don't, does, why does no woman decide that when she actually is at her most valuable?
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I feel like for, like I said, I don't like to speak for all women.
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I just speak for myself, but I know for me that I was looking for a man for a lifestyle,
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something that I was not able to do individually by myself.
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So that's why it's like, well, yeah, I want to be able to do this, do that.
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I want to go for the football player that was just on GQ.
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And in reality now I realize, well, okay, there's a lot that comes with that.
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I don't necessarily need that type of guy for the happiness that I'm looking for.
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Again, seeing without you in the Grand Canyon is a lot different than like, okay, here's money for this.
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And that's the same thing as you're asking why a man that is 20, 21, 23 is not a top G, like a 30, 40 year old man.
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Your age actually dictates your sort of maturity to a large extent.
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The point I'm trying to make is that what I actually think happens, especially in the modern world, because the modern world's all fucked up and nothing's the way it's supposed to be.
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The traditional life path of a female is she's 17, she's 18, she's 19, and her value is massively inflated.
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Imagine being 19 years old, have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life, knowing nothing.
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You put makeup on and, and sports stars, billionaires, actors, the most important, famous people on the planet, the richest men on the planet are begging for your attention.
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The ego you're going to develop, let's all be honest, right?
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The ego you're going to develop is going to be monumental.
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And then what happens as they grow older, as new generations come along, because the truth is most women are at their peak attraction, let's say in their early twenties.
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As they grow older, what they, what women become is far more fearful of competition.
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This is why you'll see a woman who's a bit older go, oh, you know, I really want monogamy.
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What she's scared of is her dude getting a 21 year old.
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She may not say it, but basically that's what the truth is.
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Cause she knows a 21 year old is going to be more desirable, higher status, more fertile.
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I'm telling you the, the, the shift in the female mentality, because when a female is 20,
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Now she's trying to, like you're saying, chasing a lifestyle, chasing Mr.
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Famous, doesn't give a shit until she starts getting scared.
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If when, when men like these two and me, when we walk through the mall, people just move.
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It's like, you can sense when you can sense when the big animals turn up, right?
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If you have a very attractive 45 year old woman, she's gorgeous.
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Because women understand, unfortunately, but you're innately, your age is a massive indicator
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In an inverse way to men, men are more valuable as we get older.
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Every woman will sit here and go, yeah, well, I know a man who's older than me.
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But if I sit the other way around, I'm misogynistic.
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So, so then we have to go into the other point.
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When you were at your peak value, you had zero interest in monogamy.
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But then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value.
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He finally gets to the point where he's now at his peak value.
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And then you're sitting there saying to him, no, you should be a monogamy.
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And now you're telling me I need to fucking settle down and behave and grow up.
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You're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing to something.
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That is exactly the journey of every man on earth.
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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