Fact isn't Being Negative
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how women have become delusional and how to deal with it. We talk about the women that we live in today and why it s so important to have a clear understanding of what women are really looking for in a man and why they are looking for them.
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women live in possibilities while men live in probabilities so like women women that we live
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in like this la la land where it's like that sounds nice but like women get more and more
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delusional we get fatter we get less pure we get less of less of all the things that men value
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men value men value value purity they value youth and it's it's us it's not them because
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because women are we're older than ever before we're less pure i mean like a guy prays for less
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than five bodies how many got five bodies by the time they're 31 which is the average age of first
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marriage in the uk of course but the reality is yeah less we can be pessimistic we can be negative
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you are you are in control of your life right it's not negative looking at it's not negative looking
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at facts this is just facts but but he's brutal for men out here i'm trying but it's always been brutal
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no no no not like this not like this i'm telling you no no no no no no no no no no no no no take
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these days in 2022 right you as a man if you look at your guilt and she's kind of putting a little
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bit of weight she's gone a bit chubby and all that yeah if you even dare to try and say anything
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and you dare to try to put it in public or whatever it's game over for me
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the society in which we live we have social media and i agree with you that validates things like
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oh you're fat phobic because you said to your girl are you putting a bit of weight you know what
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if my man tells me i put on a bit of weight you know i'm gonna say thank you for letting me know
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because it's about so like social media is not real social media is not real i'm sorry that you
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don't know that there are women like this out here it is brutal like they're calling they're calling
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the man walking nine to five broke but even even do you know what i'm saying okay okay guys stop
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guys guys stop one at a time one at a time one stop one at a time yeah we could only what's your
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what's your here i just feel like the i understand i mean i i'm doing my best to be empathetic and just
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hear the other the other perspective like i again i'm gonna push back on all of this i
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if there are women the most recent comment if anyone's coming at you for having a job or saying
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that you're broke because you work a nine-to-five that person is quite literally delusional the woman
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who like that doesn't that doesn't even make a logical sense the girl who's saying you need to
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spend what how much are timberlands like 250 like on half your income at what 16 years old to buy me
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timberlands like delusional like i cannot imagine like even me i'm thinking back to my 16 year old
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self i would quite literally if like my 16 year old boyfriend if he like i couldn't imagine like i
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just don't understand where these women are you can't make those generalizations i'll give you i'll
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give you some data and then i'll give you something from this conversation okay what what percent of the
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time do you think women swipe right on dating apps 50 75 women swipe right yeah right so yes
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well like i like one one in 25 one of 50. not often five five to fifteen percent of the time 15 is like
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the high end it's it's typically closer to five yeah because there's different apps what percent of the
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time do you think men swipe right on dating apps well they swipe i mean this is what they've told me they
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literally just swipe right on everyone and then they just make their decision afterwards right but
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okay okay okay but think think about this why why did they do that so they can see their options okay
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right because women's standards are ridiculously high that's why they have to do that women swipe
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right or men swipe right 45 of the time so so so that's on top of that okay second of all and and i
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know you're saying like where are these women but but you're that woman because you want to know and
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and wait wait and risk but you seem very nice but again you're asking for a guy that makes more than
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you which is 80 to wait 80 to a hundred thousand dollars a year that's a top 10 15 guy so so and then the
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question is are you top 10 15 girl not money wise but by the things that men value and so even you you
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might not ask them to spend that money on you but you still want someone that's in the top 10 15
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and so women we have these crazy high standards that men can't meet uh okay can i respond yeah go
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ahead okay so i understand what you're saying like we do have extremely hyper like high expectations values
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oh so sorry we do okay sorry this is good hello okay so yeah we do have these we do have high
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expectations and i and i understand that i am that woman as well like i want someone who can make i i
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would just prefer to make to have to be dating someone that makes at least as much money as i make
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because if i want to have a child if i want to take some time off work i don't want the child i just i
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would feel more comfortable with both parties we're bringing in around the same amount of resources into
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the into the family that's just what i would prefer but we'll see what happens i understand the argument
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that you're making that okay we do have high standards however this is like i kind of going
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back to kevin samuels which i literally like rest and made that man rest in peace but like shout out
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kevin could not could not could never could do that like maybe he rests in peace but like not a fan
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not a fan me and my girlfriends like would drag this man he did bring up some good points he did bring
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up some good points like like a lot of the things that kevin like samuels like this whole narrative
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is like women have unrealistic standards and they're not willing to like make themselves or
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like not make themselves but better themselves to like so that they're attracted to those types of
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guys so a woman who doesn't go to the gym that often a woman that doesn't have you know specific
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attributes that the typical man would like isn't even trying to even more maybe more of herself but
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like highlight those things that she has like talking about like being more feminine and things like
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that i understand that line of logic and that's probably the only thing from kevin samuel's whole thing
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that i will get in line with because i do think that's true you need to stay fit you need to make
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sure that you're doing your job to like make yourself so it sounds like you agree with him
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that one point that one point i agree well it sounds like you can kind of see where i'm coming from when
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i say that women we have too high of standards i mean again i'm not arguing with you but i do it's it's
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like average women too yeah and i i mean that that is sad like when you really think about it and like
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when you're talking about these these statistics like i you take you take my taking myself out of
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it like thinking about like the 50 auroras hundreds of there's hundreds of thousands of auroras out
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there that are kind of my demographic right and i you know when you think about the numbers that is
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kind of you know it is scary and sad and i just i think kevin's point is like we can want what we want
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that's fine it's it's it's okay but like if if a a guy that wasn't making any money wanted beyonce we
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we would kind of laugh but like as women we can come forward and say i want a top 10 guy and nobody's
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gonna i just nobody's gonna look at you twice and it's you know i think i'm like would i prefer a guy
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that makes more than me yeah but do i think i'm gonna get one probably not well i mean well i mean
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it's not all about but it's also not again like i don't remember who was saying and i apologize but
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like there's so much more that goes into like having a partner than like like uniquely the money
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and i know what kevin said is like what men values like femininity if they're submissive like sexual
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attractiveness beauty that type of stuff women we value money being a provider strength like these
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heteronormative like like very clear gender lines can i ask you another question how how tall does he have to
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be so you're i'm five six okay i was like you seem a little tall yeah i'm five six i so this is my
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thing my dad is six eight okay so yeah what happened i have my mom is five two my mom is five two yeah my
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mom is five two i'm five six i have two my sister my other sister's six eight i have like tall jeans
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so i can afford like my kids will be like again the whole natural selection thing that's fine yeah so
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i give me a height give me a height a minimum minimum the thing is no no no please please i
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don't have a minimum i literally i really don't like i i'll be honest like like objectively i would
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prefer like my ideal man is six two so ideally ideal man is okay but i've liked guys that were my height
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before okay so so your minimum your minimum is five six like or let's just be honest five five seven
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five eight yeah okay so five eight is acceptable but you're not going to be super excited until unless
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he's six two like excited about what like super attracted to him super like you really want six
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two i mean ideally yeah okay okay okay okay so that that's i want to feel small no that's i'm not i'm not
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that's okay i'm tall too i want a tall man too yeah we all yeah yeah okay do you want to be attracted to
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him i would hope so okay so so let's take ten percent of men make more than you yes now half of
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them are below five eight so that's that's five percent of men okay now now you're at five percent
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now you want to be attracted to him let's say half of them are ugly that's two percent of guys and and
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you have to compete and you might have to share because because think about it if you if you find
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him attractive and he has all the things you want that means other women want him that means every girl in
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this room probably wants him that doesn't mean you have to share it means you might but this is
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his options that still doesn't mean that you have okay okay okay okay and i'll give you an example
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i'll give so my dad is a top one percent earner half a percent i grew up in these families or in
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in that family my dad didn't cheat but my mom got him when he was broke so if you want to get him on
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that level he's he's he's probably going to cheat you didn't help build it like you didn't help him get
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out there like this like why it's not that i want to think i don't okay why don't you say something
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like that it's just because okay but like people like whether or not someone's going to cheat on
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their partner has nothing to do with the amount of money that they get anything with their character
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so so so but okay if someone i i just think men are men and it's easy to say like let's take tiger
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woods it's easy to say like why you know why did tiger woods cheat but most men don't have a bus full
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of models waiting for them and i think most men even even good great men with character if they
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are in a position where women are standing at the finish line begging to have sex with them they might
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do it and that's where a lot of this the top two percent of men might be this is what i always say
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if you date an nba player basketball player i don't i don't really feel bad you get cheated on
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