JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022


Fact isn't Being Negative


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

205.23952

Word count

2,285

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how women have become delusional and how to deal with it. We talk about the women that we live in today and why it s so important to have a clear understanding of what women are really looking for in a man and why they are looking for them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 women live in possibilities while men live in probabilities so like women women that we live 0.98
00:00:04.960 in like this la la land where it's like that sounds nice but like women get more and more 1.00
00:00:09.920 delusional we get fatter we get less pure we get less of less of all the things that men value
00:00:14.560 men value men value value purity they value youth and it's it's us it's not them because
00:00:21.360 because women are we're older than ever before we're less pure i mean like a guy prays for less
00:00:26.640 than five bodies how many got five bodies by the time they're 31 which is the average age of first
00:00:31.040 marriage in the uk of course but the reality is yeah less we can be pessimistic we can be negative
00:00:38.080 you are you are in control of your life right it's not negative looking at it's not negative looking
00:00:43.200 at facts this is just facts but but he's brutal for men out here i'm trying but it's always been brutal
00:00:49.680 no no no not like this not like this i'm telling you no no no no no no no no no no no no no take
00:00:57.200 these days in 2022 right you as a man if you look at your guilt and she's kind of putting a little
00:01:04.800 bit of weight she's gone a bit chubby and all that yeah if you even dare to try and say anything 1.00
00:01:11.520 and you dare to try to put it in public or whatever it's game over for me
00:01:16.480 the society in which we live we have social media and i agree with you that validates things like
00:01:22.480 oh you're fat phobic because you said to your girl are you putting a bit of weight you know what
00:01:26.560 if my man tells me i put on a bit of weight you know i'm gonna say thank you for letting me know
00:01:30.480 because it's about so like social media is not real social media is not real i'm sorry that you
00:01:38.800 don't know that there are women like this out here it is brutal like they're calling they're calling 1.00
00:01:42.880 the man walking nine to five broke but even even do you know what i'm saying okay okay guys stop
00:01:48.640 guys guys stop one at a time one at a time one stop one at a time yeah we could only what's your
00:01:54.320 what's your here i just feel like the i understand i mean i i'm doing my best to be empathetic and just
00:02:00.240 hear the other the other perspective like i again i'm gonna push back on all of this i
00:02:06.640 if there are women the most recent comment if anyone's coming at you for having a job or saying 1.00
00:02:11.760 that you're broke because you work a nine-to-five that person is quite literally delusional the woman 0.63
00:02:16.240 who like that doesn't that doesn't even make a logical sense the girl who's saying you need to
00:02:22.080 spend what how much are timberlands like 250 like on half your income at what 16 years old to buy me
00:02:28.800 timberlands like delusional like i cannot imagine like even me i'm thinking back to my 16 year old
00:02:34.960 self i would quite literally if like my 16 year old boyfriend if he like i couldn't imagine like i
00:02:40.560 just don't understand where these women are you can't make those generalizations i'll give you i'll 1.00
00:02:46.000 give you some data and then i'll give you something from this conversation okay what what percent of the
00:02:50.800 time do you think women swipe right on dating apps 50 75 women swipe right yeah right so yes 1.00
00:02:57.120 well like i like one one in 25 one of 50. not often five five to fifteen percent of the time 15 is like
00:03:08.800 the high end it's it's typically closer to five yeah because there's different apps what percent of the
00:03:13.440 time do you think men swipe right on dating apps well they swipe i mean this is what they've told me they
00:03:17.600 literally just swipe right on everyone and then they just make their decision afterwards right but
00:03:21.680 okay okay okay but think think about this why why did they do that so they can see their options okay
00:03:28.240 right because women's standards are ridiculously high that's why they have to do that women swipe 1.00
00:03:35.200 right or men swipe right 45 of the time so so so that's on top of that okay second of all and and i
00:03:43.040 know you're saying like where are these women but but you're that woman because you want to know and
00:03:47.600 and wait wait and risk but you seem very nice but again you're asking for a guy that makes more than
00:03:53.600 you which is 80 to wait 80 to a hundred thousand dollars a year that's a top 10 15 guy so so and then the
00:04:03.920 question is are you top 10 15 girl not money wise but by the things that men value and so even you you
00:04:10.240 might not ask them to spend that money on you but you still want someone that's in the top 10 15
00:04:16.240 and so women we have these crazy high standards that men can't meet uh okay can i respond yeah go 1.00
00:04:23.040 ahead okay so i understand what you're saying like we do have extremely hyper like high expectations values
00:04:30.000 oh so sorry we do okay sorry this is good hello okay so yeah we do have these we do have high
00:04:37.920 expectations and i and i understand that i am that woman as well like i want someone who can make i i
00:04:44.800 would just prefer to make to have to be dating someone that makes at least as much money as i make
00:04:50.000 because if i want to have a child if i want to take some time off work i don't want the child i just i
00:04:56.560 would feel more comfortable with both parties we're bringing in around the same amount of resources into
00:05:01.200 the into the family that's just what i would prefer but we'll see what happens i understand the argument
00:05:07.280 that you're making that okay we do have high standards however this is like i kind of going
00:05:12.480 back to kevin samuels which i literally like rest and made that man rest in peace but like shout out
00:05:17.920 kevin could not could not could never could do that like maybe he rests in peace but like not a fan
00:05:23.040 not a fan me and my girlfriends like would drag this man he did bring up some good points he did bring
00:05:28.640 up some good points like like a lot of the things that kevin like samuels like this whole narrative
00:05:32.960 is like women have unrealistic standards and they're not willing to like make themselves or 1.00
00:05:37.440 like not make themselves but better themselves to like so that they're attracted to those types of
00:05:41.440 guys so a woman who doesn't go to the gym that often a woman that doesn't have you know specific
00:05:46.560 attributes that the typical man would like isn't even trying to even more maybe more of herself but 0.77
00:05:53.600 like highlight those things that she has like talking about like being more feminine and things like 0.67
00:05:56.960 that i understand that line of logic and that's probably the only thing from kevin samuel's whole thing
00:06:02.320 that i will get in line with because i do think that's true you need to stay fit you need to make
00:06:07.760 sure that you're doing your job to like make yourself so it sounds like you agree with him
00:06:12.320 that one point that one point i agree well it sounds like you can kind of see where i'm coming from when
00:06:17.600 i say that women we have too high of standards i mean again i'm not arguing with you but i do it's it's 0.97
00:06:22.480 like average women too yeah and i i mean that that is sad like when you really think about it and like 0.86
00:06:28.400 when you're talking about these these statistics like i you take you take my taking myself out of
00:06:33.600 it like thinking about like the 50 auroras hundreds of there's hundreds of thousands of auroras out
00:06:39.040 there that are kind of my demographic right and i you know when you think about the numbers that is
00:06:45.120 kind of you know it is scary and sad and i just i think kevin's point is like we can want what we want
00:06:50.480 that's fine it's it's it's okay but like if if a a guy that wasn't making any money wanted beyonce we
00:06:57.440 we would kind of laugh but like as women we can come forward and say i want a top 10 guy and nobody's
00:07:03.120 gonna i just nobody's gonna look at you twice and it's you know i think i'm like would i prefer a guy
00:07:08.800 that makes more than me yeah but do i think i'm gonna get one probably not well i mean well i mean
00:07:14.400 it's not all about but it's also not again like i don't remember who was saying and i apologize but
00:07:19.520 like there's so much more that goes into like having a partner than like like uniquely the money
00:07:24.960 and i know what kevin said is like what men values like femininity if they're submissive like sexual
00:07:30.480 attractiveness beauty that type of stuff women we value money being a provider strength like these 1.00
00:07:35.920 heteronormative like like very clear gender lines can i ask you another question how how tall does he have to
00:07:42.400 be so you're i'm five six okay i was like you seem a little tall yeah i'm five six i so this is my
00:07:51.840 thing my dad is six eight okay so yeah what happened i have my mom is five two my mom is five two yeah my
00:08:00.080 mom is five two i'm five six i have two my sister my other sister's six eight i have like tall jeans
00:08:07.360 so i can afford like my kids will be like again the whole natural selection thing that's fine yeah so
00:08:12.080 i give me a height give me a height a minimum minimum the thing is no no no please please i
00:08:17.200 don't have a minimum i literally i really don't like i i'll be honest like like objectively i would
00:08:23.200 prefer like my ideal man is six two so ideally ideal man is okay but i've liked guys that were my height
00:08:28.880 before okay so so your minimum your minimum is five six like or let's just be honest five five seven
00:08:36.240 five eight yeah okay so five eight is acceptable but you're not going to be super excited until unless
00:08:42.960 he's six two like excited about what like super attracted to him super like you really want six
00:08:49.440 two i mean ideally yeah okay okay okay okay so that that's i want to feel small no that's i'm not i'm not
00:08:56.480 that's okay i'm tall too i want a tall man too yeah we all yeah yeah okay do you want to be attracted to
00:09:02.160 him i would hope so okay so so let's take ten percent of men make more than you yes now half of
00:09:09.280 them are below five eight so that's that's five percent of men okay now now you're at five percent
00:09:14.480 now you want to be attracted to him let's say half of them are ugly that's two percent of guys and and
00:09:20.960 you have to compete and you might have to share because because think about it if you if you find
00:09:26.160 him attractive and he has all the things you want that means other women want him that means every girl in
00:09:31.040 this room probably wants him that doesn't mean you have to share it means you might but this is
00:09:36.640 his options that still doesn't mean that you have okay okay okay okay and i'll give you an example
00:09:41.280 i'll give so my dad is a top one percent earner half a percent i grew up in these families or in
00:09:46.640 in that family my dad didn't cheat but my mom got him when he was broke so if you want to get him on
00:09:53.040 that level he's he's he's probably going to cheat you didn't help build it like you didn't help him get
00:09:57.360 out there like this like why it's not that i want to think i don't okay why don't you say something
00:10:02.400 like that it's just because okay but like people like whether or not someone's going to cheat on
00:10:06.560 their partner has nothing to do with the amount of money that they get anything with their character
00:10:10.400 so so so but okay if someone i i just think men are men and it's easy to say like let's take tiger
00:10:18.240 woods it's easy to say like why you know why did tiger woods cheat but most men don't have a bus full
00:10:24.320 of models waiting for them and i think most men even even good great men with character if they
00:10:29.920 are in a position where women are standing at the finish line begging to have sex with them they might 0.99
00:10:34.960 do it and that's where a lot of this the top two percent of men might be this is what i always say
00:10:40.800 if you date an nba player basketball player i don't i don't really feel bad you get cheated on
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