00:00:00.000I might have to ask you to define that one because the whole feminist definition, it's changed and a lot of times people hang what they want something to mean on a certain word and even things that might have started off a little noble, now they're wild.
00:00:16.080A feminist, someone that wants women, that believes women are better than men, they say it's equality.
00:00:24.960I was going to say because what I've heard is people say we're equal, you don't want women and men to be equal.
00:00:28.560In a way, that's part of the problem is they think men and women are equal, so one, they think men and women are equal, which we're not, we're different, and on top of that, they also think that women are better than men, and they might not say that in the definition, but you can certainly see it by the things they say, like men are trash, the way feminists act in the media, and the issues that they support that are often at the expense of men.
00:00:57.240So, for example, Me Too, you know, it might have had good intentions, but what are the outcome?
00:01:06.400So, yeah, that's what I would say, don't be a feminist.
00:01:26.500You don't need, you know, a man as long as you've gotten one good parent, and I think that is, it's so detrimental, but these are going to be the same people that kind of wish they had a man when times get hard, in my opinion.
00:01:39.200That's the saddest thing, where they don't think, like, I think going to a sperm bank and just having a kid is crazy.
00:02:08.480Yeah, and I know this one is a really touchy one for a lot of people, but we talked about this yesterday, and I'm just going to say I think inherently it's selfish because I want a child.
00:02:20.100You have to think about what life are you creating for this child.
00:02:24.560And, you know, children get their identity from their father.
00:02:39.100And my oldest lives with his dad, pretty much.
00:02:41.480He comes to visit me because at 15, he had his dad the whole time, but it is so important.
00:02:51.060And, you know, I know people make decisions for what they want, but, you know, we talked about this yesterday.
00:02:56.900Even if I would have loved to get remarried and have more children, I don't get what I want just because I want it.
00:03:04.920There are children that are already here, and my responsibility is to finish what I started, and if I'm so fortunate to get married again and live out my golden years, then that is what I get.
00:03:16.340That is the hardest thing at times, like, as women.
00:03:20.620And I've even struggled with this, like, understanding it's his plan.
00:03:30.900Yeah, I mean, like I said, you know, we had two boys back to back, and I asked my husband at the time, I said, do you want to try for a girl?
00:04:18.660So, partner, horoscope signs, looking for a connection, energy, trauma, toxic masculinity, my truth, healing, my narcissistic ex-boyfriend, my abusive ex-boyfriend, a grape accusation with no evidence.
00:04:39.100Yeah, but manifesting equals I want to work, but I want to do no work and get the outcome.
00:04:46.020As a woman, we know what your gender is.
00:04:47.880I did too much, and I let him walk all over me.
00:04:51.220Equals, I like cheaters and toxic men, and I will choose them and be toxic as well and not admit that I had any part to play except, quote, unquote, giving too much.
00:05:02.760I make the same mistakes that my parents make, and I am too dumb to learn from their mistakes, and instead, I will make the same mistakes but blame it on them.