JustPearlyThings - December 02, 2023


Fake Wife ABANDONS Perfect Husband And Gets REALITY CHECKED


Episode Stats

Length

20 minutes

Words per Minute

186.89093

Word Count

3,778

Sentence Count

365

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Why'd you get divorced?
00:00:01.940 He's not confident enough for me.
00:00:04.820 He wasn't confident enough for you?
00:00:06.540 What the f*** does that mean?
00:00:08.980 We have so much criticism for men.
00:00:11.360 We've lived in a society that has told men to basically be defective women.
00:00:16.300 But we never look in the mirror and ask, are we the perfect feminine women?
00:00:21.900 No, of course we're not.
00:00:24.180 He worked all day. He made good money. He supported us.
00:00:27.800 I mean, yeah, we had our problems, but he was the good guy.
00:00:32.540 So I'm here to tell you.
00:00:35.900 Say don't leave. Say don't leave the good guy.
00:00:38.160 At least learn from your mistakes, please.
00:00:40.720 It's okay to leave.
00:00:42.580 What up, guys? Welcome to the Jazz and Curly Things YouTube channel.
00:00:47.220 And welcome to my reaction series.
00:00:49.060 Today, I am going to be reacting to he was a perfect husband, but something was missing.
00:00:54.380 So I left. I can't imagine what this is going to be.
00:00:57.280 I am sure it is going to be an abundance of abuse and just terrible things that this guy did
00:01:03.420 that really, really made leaving a lifelong commitment and vow with God make sense.
00:01:10.920 I'm sure this is going to be super reasonable.
00:01:13.120 Make sure you guys like the video and also get yourself a Women's Student Vote t-shirt before we start.
00:01:18.240 Let's get started.
00:01:19.700 Married for 10 years.
00:01:21.980 I got married young.
00:01:24.260 I was 21, barely, like three days, 21.
00:01:28.940 I left the good guy.
00:01:31.460 He looks at and is like, that's a dad.
00:01:34.460 That's a husband.
00:01:35.600 That's how it's supposed to be.
00:01:36.940 He did the dishes.
00:01:38.340 He cleaned the house.
00:01:40.120 He took the kids to school.
00:01:41.580 He worked.
00:01:42.600 Oh, so she had kids.
00:01:43.680 So she, she must have had a really good reason.
00:01:46.040 I'm waiting.
00:01:46.860 I'm waiting.
00:01:47.620 Today, he made good money.
00:01:48.880 He supported us.
00:01:50.620 Why'd you get divorced?
00:01:52.520 He's not, uh, confident.
00:01:56.300 Okay, so.
00:01:58.740 He wasn't confident enough for you?
00:02:00.780 What the f*** does that mean?
00:02:02.040 Who's your ideal man?
00:02:03.000 If he could be with any man in the world, who'd it be?
00:02:04.640 I haven't found him yet.
00:02:05.540 You haven't found him yet?
00:02:06.620 Damn, you're so confident.
00:02:07.540 You need a man on Pluto or something.
00:02:11.940 Trust me, when it gets to the point where you're like, oh, sugar, I've actually lost
00:02:14.680 a good guy here, then they hit.
00:02:16.040 Then they definitely hit.
00:02:16.980 It's so funny.
00:02:18.020 And then I always hear, women don't divorce for no reason.
00:02:20.880 And we'll be like, exhibit A, exhibit B, exhibit C.
00:02:24.080 And what'll they say?
00:02:24.980 Well, what did he do to deserve to be divorced?
00:02:27.860 To deserve to lose access to his children?
00:02:30.140 To deserve to lose all of his money?
00:02:32.520 He did the dishes, apparently.
00:02:35.640 Let me take y'all some, sis.
00:02:37.540 Stop breaking up with your man.
00:02:40.760 If you're married, stop threatening that man with a divorce.
00:02:44.240 Every time he do something so small.
00:02:48.320 If he gave you a guilt-free pass to sleep with anybody in the world, would you use it?
00:02:53.100 Yeah.
00:02:55.320 On who?
00:02:58.060 Please don't say your ex-boyfriend.
00:03:00.180 Please don't say- I've seen a couple of these.
00:03:02.140 Please, please, say anybody but your ex-boyfriend.
00:03:05.980 You can't just pick women based on looks.
00:03:20.260 You have-
00:03:20.580 Well, at least she didn't say her ex-boyfriend.
00:03:22.360 I mean, not that that's, you know, poor guy.
00:03:25.220 Poor guy.
00:03:25.640 Understand a woman's mindset.
00:03:28.200 And if her mindset is modern, you got-
00:03:31.100 Based on her own words, her ex-husband was a perfect man, but she still felt like something
00:03:36.020 was missing.
00:03:36.940 Therefore, she left him.
00:03:38.340 Now she is a single mother navigating the de-
00:03:40.560 Life is not all about being happy.
00:03:44.160 And that's the biggest mistake we make as women.
00:03:47.560 We are unhappy with ourselves and we think that we can derive happiness from another person.
00:03:53.280 And no guy is going to give you the fulfillment that you want in life.
00:03:58.500 You know, life isn't just about relationships.
00:04:00.760 It's not, like, life isn't-
00:04:03.200 Your marriage is not going to make you happy.
00:04:05.580 You have to become a happy person or be a happy person.
00:04:10.020 So many times, people that are miserable think they can get married and just be happy.
00:04:14.420 Is that how it works?
00:04:15.460 All right, what if it was all the way around?
00:04:19.860 I know what I'm worth one night with one celebrity that doesn't change who I am.
00:04:24.380 Wow.
00:04:25.540 You wouldn't use it.
00:04:27.480 Even if I gave it to you?
00:04:28.980 No.
00:04:29.900 It sounds like a trap.
00:04:31.700 If your significant other is-
00:04:36.360 Yeah, he should dump her.
00:04:37.780 Give you one night.
00:04:39.020 You can see it in this man's face, the level of disappointment that he has in his lady's answer.
00:04:44.300 But even through that silent hurt, he gives an authentic answer instead of one that he thinks will also hurt her.
00:04:50.200 So it is clear that this is a good man and he 100% deserves better.
00:04:54.560 She clearly doesn't respect or value him, but he is the one who is allowing this type of situation to happen.
00:05:00.340 Why is he still around someone who doesn't care about his feelings?
00:05:04.080 She already told him where he stands.
00:05:05.880 Yeah, men adapt to the market.
00:05:07.980 Unfortunately, they shouldn't, but men do adapt.
00:05:10.380 I mean, they've accepted non-virgins, they've accepted fat chicks.
00:05:14.000 They're now accepting OnlyFans models.
00:05:16.240 It is actually crazy the level that men are now willing to accept.
00:05:20.700 Her life.
00:05:21.300 But he still believes that he can change her mind, and this is where guys get it wrong.
00:05:25.600 I mean, that's why the red pill exists, guys.
00:05:28.660 Because a lot of times men get married to women like that, and then have no idea what happened when she leaves, takes the kids in the house.
00:05:36.300 Not uncommon.
00:05:37.340 We have to know when we should give up, and we must let it go when we have to.
00:05:41.040 He knows who she is, but he thinks that with time she will change.
00:05:44.380 But I want you guys to understand that when it comes to this level, it's hard to change this dynamic.
00:05:49.200 I found some interesting comments of this video.
00:05:51.600 Let's check them.
00:05:52.340 My wife would never cheat on me.
00:05:54.500 We've been together since 1989 and married for 31 years come this December.
00:05:59.940 This woman just showed her true colors.
00:06:02.320 Wow, what a nice genuine guy.
00:06:04.340 He deserves better.
00:06:05.660 Sorry brother, but she is most definitely not a keeper, but she is a future runner.
00:06:10.120 Cut her loose now and save yourself the heartache and misery because she's not worth it.
00:06:14.980 Romantic love doesn't exist.
00:06:16.980 Love the person you're with, but don't fall for the fairy tale.
00:06:20.260 Relationship is over.
00:06:21.160 You can see the heartbreak in his face.
00:06:23.580 If this were me, I would walk away from her.
00:06:25.980 Why'd you get divorced?
00:06:27.880 He's not confident enough for me.
00:06:30.740 He wasn't confident enough for you?
00:06:32.560 What the f*** does that mean?
00:06:35.100 That would be like the harshest thing anyone would ever say to me.
00:06:38.220 Like I gotta break up with you and you're not confident enough.
00:06:40.380 Like, ugh.
00:06:42.900 Ugh.
00:06:44.980 Ugh.
00:06:45.380 I'm on my period now.
00:06:46.860 Oh my God.
00:06:47.720 If I asked my wife, do you think I'm confident?
00:06:50.140 She'd laugh.
00:06:50.920 That's what she'd do.
00:06:51.940 Ah, ha, ha, ha.
00:06:53.060 She'd be like, no, that's why.
00:06:54.560 Well, and the thing is, we have so much criticism for men, right?
00:06:58.460 And we say they don't lead well enough.
00:07:00.280 They don't take control.
00:07:01.800 They're not masculine.
00:07:03.100 I mean, none of that's untrue.
00:07:04.780 We've lived in a society that has told men they ain't s*** for years, that has told men
00:07:09.800 to basically be defective women.
00:07:11.740 So I'm not surprised that we have a lack of masculinity and leadership.
00:07:15.520 But we never look in the mirror and ask, are we the perfect feminine women?
00:07:21.140 No, of course we're not.
00:07:23.160 Like, you know, none of us are virgins anymore.
00:07:26.160 None of us even really stick it out for a lifetime anymore.
00:07:29.220 None of us get married young anymore.
00:07:30.640 So how are we going to come at the men?
00:07:33.220 Oh, and we're really overweight.
00:07:34.800 So how are we going to come at the men when we don't even look in the mirror ever, ever?
00:07:38.960 For your brokenness.
00:07:41.360 I could never be with you.
00:07:44.780 I need to have my self-deprecating little strokes.
00:07:48.880 You need to f*** the rock or something like that.
00:07:51.140 That's wild.
00:07:52.540 How do you meet confident men?
00:07:54.120 Farmers only?
00:07:55.000 How do you meet a man?
00:07:56.700 You probably go to the January 6th riots to try to meet a real confident.
00:08:00.640 Who's your ideal man?
00:08:02.360 If you could be with any man in the world, who'd it be?
00:08:04.000 I haven't found him yet.
00:08:04.900 You haven't found him yet?
00:08:06.000 Damn, you're so confident.
00:08:07.000 You need a man on Pluto or something.
00:08:08.520 This is the first time I have heard that a woman left her man because he wasn't confident enough.
00:08:15.200 I honestly wasn't expecting it.
00:08:17.040 And this is the difference between the old generation and the new one.
00:08:20.380 Because currently, we leave relationships like it's nothing.
00:08:23.560 There is no concern of how negatively it will affect...
00:08:25.880 I think after the 70s, most women are the same.
00:08:28.860 I think there's a difference in the generation before that grew up in the 60s, 70s.
00:08:33.800 But after that, it was kind of done.
00:08:35.700 The overall family.
00:08:36.800 After birth control, women were working.
00:08:38.920 Like, this isn't new.
00:08:39.960 It's been over 50 years of this.
00:08:41.300 The funny part is that she is still searching for this imaginary confident Prince Charming.
00:08:46.060 But give it a few more years, reality will show her that he doesn't exist.
00:08:50.140 She should be more realistic.
00:08:51.760 It's really sad to see where we are as a generation and how we view relationships.
00:08:56.280 We should be willing to fight more for our relationship.
00:08:58.900 It would be better for everyone.
00:09:00.660 Women don't need a reason.
00:09:01.980 They just level up when they can.
00:09:03.640 Married for 10 years.
00:09:05.000 I got married young.
00:09:07.080 I was 21.
00:09:08.580 Barely.
00:09:09.240 Like, 3 days.
00:09:10.300 21.
00:09:11.300 Um, already had a baby.
00:09:13.740 He was 8 weeks old at our wedding.
00:09:16.880 And I remember feeling like my marriage was temporary from the beginning.
00:09:29.260 Like that I wasn't going to make it.
00:09:32.760 And I didn't know what that feeling was.
00:09:34.760 I just thought it was.
00:09:35.900 So let me get this straight.
00:09:37.840 She was married for 10 years.
00:09:39.560 You know, women will always say, I don't want to waste my time.
00:09:48.960 Yeah, we are the queens of wasting someone else's time.
00:09:51.760 Let me tell you.
00:09:52.760 If I could, like, women will go on dates and be like, look, I don't want to waste.
00:09:55.960 I don't want to waste anyone's time.
00:09:57.560 How many ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands time has been wasted here?
00:10:01.660 I knew from the beginning that she didn't want to marry him.
00:10:05.980 Marriage is forever and it's not temporary.
00:10:09.100 And age is not an excuse in my opinion.
00:10:11.500 But there's more to the story.
00:10:12.980 So continue.
00:10:14.260 Fighting for me, I was pushing him away.
00:10:19.260 Um, but I never truly accepted happiness.
00:10:23.960 What does that mean?
00:10:25.480 What does accepting happiness mean?
00:10:27.260 Like, we just say things sometimes.
00:10:28.760 We just say these words.
00:10:30.100 We don't even know what they mean.
00:10:31.660 We can't even quantify them.
00:10:33.160 Like, what does happiness look like?
00:10:34.620 A single mom on food stamps?
00:10:36.440 Are you happy now?
00:10:37.600 The truth is, happy people are happy broke and they're happy rich.
00:10:41.480 They're just happy people.
00:10:42.820 You're either a happy person or you're not happy.
00:10:44.900 Um, you know, some of the most depressed people ever, I've seen very rich, very wealthy
00:10:50.960 people, you are responsible for your happiness, not your husband.
00:10:55.180 Your husband is not responsible for making you happy.
00:10:57.680 That's not his job.
00:10:58.700 I left the good guy.
00:11:00.640 He looks at and is like, that's a dad.
00:11:03.920 That's a husband.
00:11:05.100 That's how it's supposed to be.
00:11:06.420 He did the dishes.
00:11:07.820 He cleaned the house.
00:11:09.640 He took the kids.
00:11:10.820 Oh, but you know, there was World War Three on Twitter.
00:11:14.660 I have a friend named Rachel.
00:11:15.940 She's married.
00:11:16.840 She's got like four kids, homeschooled them, cooks, but does the, does the,
00:11:20.960 the whole thing.
00:11:21.660 This woman, this woman said, my husband hasn't ever touched a dish.
00:11:24.940 Takes pride in that.
00:11:26.040 All of trad con Twitter raged.
00:11:29.000 They raged.
00:11:29.820 They said, oh no, oh no, this, this, I can't believe he doesn't do the dishes.
00:11:34.200 So let me get this straight.
00:11:34.920 You guys, you guys want your husband to not only provide for you and protect you.
00:11:39.200 Now they also have to take you on date nights weekly.
00:11:41.940 That was the other thing they raged about.
00:11:43.520 And they also need to help you with the chores.
00:11:46.280 All right.
00:11:46.800 All right.
00:11:47.640 He worked all day.
00:11:48.960 He made good money.
00:11:49.800 He supported us.
00:11:51.820 Um, I mean, yeah, we had our problems, but he was the good guy.
00:11:55.960 So I'm here to tell you.
00:11:59.140 Say, don't leave.
00:12:00.260 Say, don't leave the good guy.
00:12:01.460 At least learn from your mistake, please.
00:12:04.140 It's okay to leave.
00:12:05.300 You guys leave me speechless.
00:12:21.560 I thought she would at least be like, guys, learn from me.
00:12:25.260 Women love to lead other women down, down the path of destruction.
00:12:28.740 What about your kids?
00:12:31.060 And she says something about finding happiness and not being happy.
00:12:34.860 But she doesn't realize is that a man isn't the one that's going to make you happy.
00:12:39.320 You have to make yourself happy.
00:12:40.820 So she should have done a lot of self-work within the relationship because you can be in a relationship while simultaneously working on yourself.
00:12:48.580 And because she got married at 21, I'm sure she missed out on her whole phase.
00:12:52.280 And now she's going to be 31 as a single mom out having fun because she missed out on it as if that's going to be acceptable going into her 40s.
00:13:00.720 And basically, she goes on to say how a guy can be a good guy, but not the right guy.
00:13:06.380 Here is my thought process.
00:13:08.400 Okay, first of all, you knew that from the beginning and you're not up front or did you communicate that?
00:13:14.040 You wasted 10 years of this man's life where he could have gone out and found someone who appreciated him.
00:13:21.100 But additionally, now it's 10 years later.
00:13:23.620 If she was 21, she's 31 now.
00:13:25.780 So now she's a single mom at 31 and she's about to go on the dating scene and she thinks that's going to be better and that there's good guys.
00:13:33.520 Yeah, that's my question.
00:13:35.160 What do you think is on the other side of this?
00:13:37.220 Men are very clear.
00:13:38.740 Single mothers in general, recreational use only.
00:13:41.740 Men are very clear about this.
00:13:43.260 They do not want to take single mothers seriously.
00:13:46.060 They do not want to raise another man's kids.
00:13:48.400 That is not what they want to do.
00:13:49.820 Left out there.
00:13:50.760 But this is also what I talk about on this page about these women.
00:13:54.460 They ruin the good guys because now this man is going to go get his heart broken and never be the same ever again.
00:14:00.620 All because she knew from the beginning and couldn't be up front about it.
00:14:04.420 Like how sick and twisted you have to be to make a man a placeholder and have children with him.
00:14:10.300 And so many women in the comments right now are like, oh, this is exactly my situation.
00:14:15.600 I've been married for 11 years and he's such a good guy.
00:14:19.640 And, you know, but he's not for me.
00:14:21.960 Y'all need to stop listening to shitty advice on the internet like that and go into therapy.
00:14:28.380 Yeah, this chick, this chick.
00:14:30.560 Exactly.
00:14:32.080 Exactly.
00:14:32.940 For your marriages and fight for the good men that are out there because I can promise you that the dating scene is not any better.
00:14:40.260 But not only that.
00:14:41.320 They always think that they watch some TikTok videos.
00:14:43.980 They think the grass is greener on the other side.
00:14:46.440 And then just go ruin their lives.
00:14:48.160 This man is about to get all his shit wrecked when she already knew from the beginning that he wasn't the one.
00:14:56.180 In divorce, he's about to lose half.
00:14:57.800 And who knows his visitation?
00:14:59.300 You know how a lot of women can be with the visitation of their children.
00:15:03.520 And as soon as they're pissed, they give the silent treatment.
00:15:06.360 There's so many things that could happen in divorce that, what, she didn't consider in the first place?
00:15:11.500 Yeah, what about the kids?
00:15:12.680 Like she kept talking about her happiness.
00:15:14.160 It's like these women, I question, do you even like your children?
00:15:17.620 I swear, some of these moms, they don't even like their kids because their kids are the last ones that they consult.
00:15:24.020 The last ones that they consider in any decision.
00:15:27.060 If you guys really enjoyed and loved your children, what are you doing?
00:15:31.880 I swear, what are you doing?
00:15:33.740 That's despicable.
00:15:34.980 After this experience, he is probably feeling used and it can have a huge impact, which could change his views of relationship.
00:15:42.440 Yeah, you know, most players are made, they're not born.
00:15:45.980 Most men want, I really think that men are more traditional than women these days.
00:15:50.900 More men want to settle down and do the family thing than women.
00:15:53.660 We don't pick it.
00:15:54.400 And this is another reason more and more guys are becoming smarter when it comes to dealing with their partners.
00:16:00.040 I don't know why she wasn't honest from the start.
00:16:02.240 It seems like he was a placeholder from the beginning and this is not fair on him.
00:16:06.480 But I'm glad she did it.
00:16:07.880 Now he can find someone who deserves his love.
00:16:10.420 She still doesn't know what she lost.
00:16:12.380 She thought that Chad's and Tyrone in her DM were willing to play her husband's role, but she was so wrong.
00:16:17.960 Yeah, we mistake sexual attention for relationship attention.
00:16:21.980 Men will screw anything.
00:16:23.460 We know this.
00:16:24.420 It does not mean they want to date you.
00:16:25.920 For a few years, we will have her posting another video complaining about how men ain't ish.
00:16:30.480 Let's jump into the comment section.
00:16:32.520 Because a lot of women want a wedding, not a merit.
00:16:35.180 Yeah, that's true.
00:16:36.720 They want a big extravagant show for their friends to see, like a contest.
00:16:40.640 Yeah, it's so interesting.
00:16:41.820 We'll spend like 15k.
00:16:43.940 You think about the trip you could get with your husband for 15k.
00:16:47.220 But we spend it on what?
00:16:48.880 One day?
00:16:49.920 For a marriage that on average lasts 8 years?
00:16:52.420 I'm not happy, so I'm taking half of this.
00:16:55.740 This is just a long way of saying the streets were calling me.
00:16:59.740 It bothers me a lot to hear stories like this.
00:17:02.840 People not being honest with themselves or others and especially taking good people for granted.
00:17:08.000 One of the worst things you can do to a guy is tell him that everything he did for you for 10 years meant absolutely nothing.
00:17:14.820 Sounds like what my ex-wife did.
00:17:16.400 She even told me the same things.
00:17:18.720 Now she keeps attacking me and interrupting my life.
00:17:21.440 Yeah, yeah.
00:17:22.320 And the ex-wives are a nuisance for a lifetime.
00:17:25.540 They just give these men a lifetime of problems, even when they're not married.
00:17:29.540 They're like, I thought you wanted divorce.
00:17:31.820 Why are you still here?
00:17:33.500 Why are you still bothering me?
00:17:35.180 Trust me, when it gets to the point where you're like, oh, sugar, I've actually lost a good guy here.
00:17:38.680 Then that's when it hits.
00:17:39.880 That's when it hits when you're like, oh, actually, I realized I've gone from this guy.
00:17:43.480 I tried this guy and it all took similar.
00:17:45.260 And I had that one good guy, but I left him because he didn't drive.
00:17:48.260 Because he didn't drive.
00:17:49.280 Let me tell y'all something, sis.
00:17:52.660 Stop breaking up with your men.
00:17:55.100 If you're married, stop threatening that man with a divorce.
00:17:58.560 Every time he do something so small, y'all want to blow it up?
00:18:04.140 Be ready to throw the whole nigga away.
00:18:06.080 Be ready to throw your whole husband away.
00:18:08.180 Knowing good and goddamn well, that's the best man that y'all ever had in your whole lifetime.
00:18:12.120 And then you walk around like your shit don't stink.
00:18:15.460 Like you don't come with flaws.
00:18:17.020 Like you don't have issues that flow out of your heart.
00:18:20.020 And it's like, come on, man.
00:18:22.660 Y'all on this independent.
00:18:24.380 Yeah, and that's the thing.
00:18:25.620 I think the biggest problem with women is just we have extreme narcissism.
00:18:29.440 It's everywhere because we have an entire economy that profits off of making us narcissistic.
00:18:34.980 The men don't want to tell us the truth because we freak out when they tell us the truth and they don't get laid.
00:18:39.220 And to them, it's like, well, if I tell them the truth, I have to deal with all these problems, all these bitching and whining.
00:18:45.640 Not today.
00:18:46.740 And nobody can tell us anything.
00:18:48.900 Hi, horse.
00:18:49.880 I had everything before I met him.
00:18:52.040 I had my shit together.
00:18:53.960 But if you were so independent, then you'd take your single ass over there and you'd be lonely.
00:19:00.260 Y'all cannot expect for men not to make mistakes, for men not to fuck up.
00:19:05.140 But you talking about somebody who is the foundation of the house, who is your leader, supposed to be your leader.
00:19:12.440 But y'all too busy trying to be independent.
00:19:14.760 I couldn't agree more, but we all know how they think.
00:19:17.560 They will know the value of the man they had after losing him.
00:19:21.000 Modern women think that there is an abundance of good single men ready to marry them.
00:19:25.060 No, most men aren't even looking for marriage and relationships anymore.
00:19:28.580 We're really in a post-marriage world, ladies.
00:19:30.960 Buckle up.
00:19:31.700 This will be an interesting next 20 years.
00:19:34.500 And this is the problem.
00:19:36.380 We have women that are throwing away good men, thinking that the grass is greener on the other side.
00:19:41.640 When in general, it's not.
00:19:42.820 It's really not.
00:19:44.200 And it ruins the next generation of men because they saw their dads, their grandpas get screwed over in a divorce.
00:19:50.440 They don't want to sign up for that.
00:19:51.780 And that's why you have young men are not looking for marriage and relationships and sex the way they used to.
00:19:56.280 They're not really approaching women like that.
00:19:57.940 They're not really pursuing women like that because they have found out through the last hundred years
00:20:02.160 that the juice really has not been worth the squeeze.
00:20:04.880 But let me know what you guys think in the comments.
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