Fake Wife ABANDONS Perfect Husband And Gets REALITY CHECKED
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Summary
He was a perfect husband but something was missing. Why did she leave him? What was the reason for her decision to leave her husband of 10 years? Is it because he wasn t confident enough for her? Is he not a good enough husband?
Transcript
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We've lived in a society that has told men to basically be defective women.
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But we never look in the mirror and ask, are we the perfect feminine women?
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He worked all day. He made good money. He supported us.
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I mean, yeah, we had our problems, but he was the good guy.
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What up, guys? Welcome to the Jazz and Curly Things YouTube channel.
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Today, I am going to be reacting to he was a perfect husband, but something was missing.
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So I left. I can't imagine what this is going to be.
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I am sure it is going to be an abundance of abuse and just terrible things that this guy did
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that really, really made leaving a lifelong commitment and vow with God make sense.
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So she, she must have had a really good reason.
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If he could be with any man in the world, who'd it be?
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Trust me, when it gets to the point where you're like, oh, sugar, I've actually lost
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And then I always hear, women don't divorce for no reason.
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And we'll be like, exhibit A, exhibit B, exhibit C.
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Well, what did he do to deserve to be divorced?
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If you're married, stop threatening that man with a divorce.
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If he gave you a guilt-free pass to sleep with anybody in the world, would you use it?
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Please, please, say anybody but your ex-boyfriend.
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Well, at least she didn't say her ex-boyfriend.
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Based on her own words, her ex-husband was a perfect man, but she still felt like something
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And that's the biggest mistake we make as women.
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We are unhappy with ourselves and we think that we can derive happiness from another person.
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And no guy is going to give you the fulfillment that you want in life.
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You have to become a happy person or be a happy person.
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So many times, people that are miserable think they can get married and just be happy.
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I know what I'm worth one night with one celebrity that doesn't change who I am.
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You can see it in this man's face, the level of disappointment that he has in his lady's answer.
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But even through that silent hurt, he gives an authentic answer instead of one that he thinks will also hurt her.
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So it is clear that this is a good man and he 100% deserves better.
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She clearly doesn't respect or value him, but he is the one who is allowing this type of situation to happen.
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Why is he still around someone who doesn't care about his feelings?
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Unfortunately, they shouldn't, but men do adapt.
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I mean, they've accepted non-virgins, they've accepted fat chicks.
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It is actually crazy the level that men are now willing to accept.
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But he still believes that he can change her mind, and this is where guys get it wrong.
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Because a lot of times men get married to women like that, and then have no idea what happened when she leaves, takes the kids in the house.
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We have to know when we should give up, and we must let it go when we have to.
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He knows who she is, but he thinks that with time she will change.
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But I want you guys to understand that when it comes to this level, it's hard to change this dynamic.
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I found some interesting comments of this video.
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We've been together since 1989 and married for 31 years come this December.
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Sorry brother, but she is most definitely not a keeper, but she is a future runner.
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Cut her loose now and save yourself the heartache and misery because she's not worth it.
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Love the person you're with, but don't fall for the fairy tale.
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That would be like the harshest thing anyone would ever say to me.
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Like I gotta break up with you and you're not confident enough.
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If I asked my wife, do you think I'm confident?
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Well, and the thing is, we have so much criticism for men, right?
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We've lived in a society that has told men they ain't s*** for years, that has told men
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So I'm not surprised that we have a lack of masculinity and leadership.
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But we never look in the mirror and ask, are we the perfect feminine women?
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Like, you know, none of us are virgins anymore.
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None of us even really stick it out for a lifetime anymore.
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So how are we going to come at the men when we don't even look in the mirror ever, ever?
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I need to have my self-deprecating little strokes.
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You need to f*** the rock or something like that.
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You probably go to the January 6th riots to try to meet a real confident.
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If you could be with any man in the world, who'd it be?
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This is the first time I have heard that a woman left her man because he wasn't confident enough.
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And this is the difference between the old generation and the new one.
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Because currently, we leave relationships like it's nothing.
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There is no concern of how negatively it will affect...
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I think after the 70s, most women are the same.
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I think there's a difference in the generation before that grew up in the 60s, 70s.
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The funny part is that she is still searching for this imaginary confident Prince Charming.
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But give it a few more years, reality will show her that he doesn't exist.
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It's really sad to see where we are as a generation and how we view relationships.
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We should be willing to fight more for our relationship.
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And I remember feeling like my marriage was temporary from the beginning.
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You know, women will always say, I don't want to waste my time.
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Yeah, we are the queens of wasting someone else's time.
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If I could, like, women will go on dates and be like, look, I don't want to waste.
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How many ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands time has been wasted here?
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I knew from the beginning that she didn't want to marry him.
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The truth is, happy people are happy broke and they're happy rich.
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You're either a happy person or you're not happy.
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Um, you know, some of the most depressed people ever, I've seen very rich, very wealthy
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people, you are responsible for your happiness, not your husband.
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Your husband is not responsible for making you happy.
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Oh, but you know, there was World War Three on Twitter.
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She's got like four kids, homeschooled them, cooks, but does the, does the,
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This woman, this woman said, my husband hasn't ever touched a dish.
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They said, oh no, oh no, this, this, I can't believe he doesn't do the dishes.
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You guys, you guys want your husband to not only provide for you and protect you.
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Now they also have to take you on date nights weekly.
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And they also need to help you with the chores.
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Um, I mean, yeah, we had our problems, but he was the good guy.
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I thought she would at least be like, guys, learn from me.
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Women love to lead other women down, down the path of destruction.
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And she says something about finding happiness and not being happy.
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But she doesn't realize is that a man isn't the one that's going to make you happy.
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So she should have done a lot of self-work within the relationship because you can be in a relationship while simultaneously working on yourself.
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And because she got married at 21, I'm sure she missed out on her whole phase.
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And now she's going to be 31 as a single mom out having fun because she missed out on it as if that's going to be acceptable going into her 40s.
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And basically, she goes on to say how a guy can be a good guy, but not the right guy.
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Okay, first of all, you knew that from the beginning and you're not up front or did you communicate that?
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You wasted 10 years of this man's life where he could have gone out and found someone who appreciated him.
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So now she's a single mom at 31 and she's about to go on the dating scene and she thinks that's going to be better and that there's good guys.
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What do you think is on the other side of this?
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Single mothers in general, recreational use only.
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They do not want to take single mothers seriously.
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But this is also what I talk about on this page about these women.
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They ruin the good guys because now this man is going to go get his heart broken and never be the same ever again.
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All because she knew from the beginning and couldn't be up front about it.
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Like how sick and twisted you have to be to make a man a placeholder and have children with him.
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And so many women in the comments right now are like, oh, this is exactly my situation.
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I've been married for 11 years and he's such a good guy.
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Y'all need to stop listening to shitty advice on the internet like that and go into therapy.
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For your marriages and fight for the good men that are out there because I can promise you that the dating scene is not any better.
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They always think that they watch some TikTok videos.
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They think the grass is greener on the other side.
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This man is about to get all his shit wrecked when she already knew from the beginning that he wasn't the one.
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You know how a lot of women can be with the visitation of their children.
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And as soon as they're pissed, they give the silent treatment.
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There's so many things that could happen in divorce that, what, she didn't consider in the first place?
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It's like these women, I question, do you even like your children?
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I swear, some of these moms, they don't even like their kids because their kids are the last ones that they consult.
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The last ones that they consider in any decision.
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If you guys really enjoyed and loved your children, what are you doing?
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After this experience, he is probably feeling used and it can have a huge impact, which could change his views of relationship.
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Yeah, you know, most players are made, they're not born.
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Most men want, I really think that men are more traditional than women these days.
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More men want to settle down and do the family thing than women.
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And this is another reason more and more guys are becoming smarter when it comes to dealing with their partners.
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I don't know why she wasn't honest from the start.
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It seems like he was a placeholder from the beginning and this is not fair on him.
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She thought that Chad's and Tyrone in her DM were willing to play her husband's role, but she was so wrong.
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Yeah, we mistake sexual attention for relationship attention.
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For a few years, we will have her posting another video complaining about how men ain't ish.
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Because a lot of women want a wedding, not a merit.
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They want a big extravagant show for their friends to see, like a contest.
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You think about the trip you could get with your husband for 15k.
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This is just a long way of saying the streets were calling me.
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People not being honest with themselves or others and especially taking good people for granted.
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One of the worst things you can do to a guy is tell him that everything he did for you for 10 years meant absolutely nothing.
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Now she keeps attacking me and interrupting my life.
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And the ex-wives are a nuisance for a lifetime.
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They just give these men a lifetime of problems, even when they're not married.
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Trust me, when it gets to the point where you're like, oh, sugar, I've actually lost a good guy here.
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That's when it hits when you're like, oh, actually, I realized I've gone from this guy.
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And I had that one good guy, but I left him because he didn't drive.
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If you're married, stop threatening that man with a divorce.
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Every time he do something so small, y'all want to blow it up?
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Knowing good and goddamn well, that's the best man that y'all ever had in your whole lifetime.
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And then you walk around like your shit don't stink.
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Like you don't have issues that flow out of your heart.
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I think the biggest problem with women is just we have extreme narcissism.
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It's everywhere because we have an entire economy that profits off of making us narcissistic.
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The men don't want to tell us the truth because we freak out when they tell us the truth and they don't get laid.
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And to them, it's like, well, if I tell them the truth, I have to deal with all these problems, all these bitching and whining.
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But if you were so independent, then you'd take your single ass over there and you'd be lonely.
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Y'all cannot expect for men not to make mistakes, for men not to fuck up.
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But you talking about somebody who is the foundation of the house, who is your leader, supposed to be your leader.
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I couldn't agree more, but we all know how they think.
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They will know the value of the man they had after losing him.
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Modern women think that there is an abundance of good single men ready to marry them.
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No, most men aren't even looking for marriage and relationships anymore.
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We have women that are throwing away good men, thinking that the grass is greener on the other side.
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And it ruins the next generation of men because they saw their dads, their grandpas get screwed over in a divorce.
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And that's why you have young men are not looking for marriage and relationships and sex the way they used to.
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They're not really approaching women like that.
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They're not really pursuing women like that because they have found out through the last hundred years
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that the juice really has not been worth the squeeze.
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