Feminism Gets DISMANTLED by the Panel for Ruining Everything
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In this episode, we talk about feminism and whether or not it has been a mistake or not. We discuss the history of feminism and the impact it has had on our society. We also discuss the role of women in society and the importance of women having the right to vote.
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Just generally, yes or no, is feminism a mistake here and then go around?
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Because I feel like there's a few steps that have gone, you know what I'm saying?
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But at certain times, you can be taken a bit far, isn't it?
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so the initial idea of what feminism was meant to be,
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then yes, women have the right for equality and all those types of things.
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But from what it was initially to what it is now, they're not.
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Because when it started, they were known as terrorists.
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No, but what I mean is like the idea of women being able to do certain things,
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But then it's what's being created from that to this new age feminism
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and sometimes people call toxic feminism, whatever you want to call it,
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And that's the one which we tend to see modern day.
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I lived quite a feminist lifestyle for quite some time.
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Not actively, not realising, but just being from this culture and stuff.
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What do you mean you lived a feminist lifestyle?
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I'm independent financially and all of those things.
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And I kind of pursued my career for a really long time.
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But I think as you get older, you realise how unfulfilling all of those things are.
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And when you're sold that dream for a really long time,
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And you're so convinced that marriage, kids and becoming all those things
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When really biologically, it's the other way around.
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It was just like you go study, you go carry on and you become more career.
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I realised that it's actually hindering some of my more nurturing and like my core values.
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And so I would say that as I turned about 26, I realised that I've got all of the things I need in life,
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I would say no, only because I think the general idea of why feminism was started,
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it came with good intentions, I would like to believe.
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But I also support the Dave Chappelle joke where he said,
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the feminist should have picked a man to lead their cause, innit?
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I think the problem is obviously feminism started before social media was a thing.
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Um, and now you've just got too many people online stating their opinions that just don't need to be heard.
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Um, and they've just radicalised, uh, sort of a pure movement and just made it toxic.
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So out of the people that said yes, what good came out of feminism?
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If you had to do that in order to vote, would you do it?
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I don't feel, I don't care enough about these things in life to fight for it because it doesn't affect my reality.
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So the laws and this, that and the other, it doesn't really affect my personal reality enough for me to want to go get drafted to vote.
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No, it's interesting because there was a certain, I won't name names, YouTuber, that like I was saying that,
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because I think feminism from the beginning has been freedom without responsibility.
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So they wanted the freedom to vote without the responsibility of being in the draft.
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And a lot of people think that like that, it was something we had to fight for, but it was actually a freedom.
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Um, that men had because they had the responsibility.
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Yeah, because we talk a lot about how women were oppressed because they couldn't vote, but men were like, had to go to war.
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And so it's like, you're that oppressed because you didn't get to vote.
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But your husband is now being drafted and potentially killed and come back with PTSD if he does survive and no survival, no therapy, nothing like that.
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So I don't see how we had it so bad comparatively.
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So now I don't understand why we were seen as the oppressed back then.
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I didn't see it as an oppressive, I didn't think it was one.
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So I think men were really oppressed back then.
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And going to war and all this stuff that they didn't even know anything about and then being forced to just do it.
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I think that was more oppressive than not being able to vote.
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I think that was the main thing is just having the option to be able to do the same things.
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Not necessarily that you need to do the same things, but just the fact that it's not a no if you want to.
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Do you guys think that women should be equally drafted now that we can vote?
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Because, I mean, if women are equally drafted, then it's not like your opponents are going to draft women equally.
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So you're just going to lose at the end of the day.
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It becomes a whole worldwide thing and women actually get the equality that they-
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I don't think the whole world is going to follow through with that.
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But what I'm trying to say to you is across the world, women want equality and they want the same rights as men, right?
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So if you want the right to vote, which is fine.
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I'm not saying we shouldn't, but why shouldn't we?
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I'd say the main reason why that's not the case is because just like you've seen in the whole Ukraine situation, the women need to kind of be with the kids.
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But if, if there's a war, if the war kicks off, you've got men going to war.
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If the women go to war as well, who's going to look after the kids?
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I know, but we're prescribing to what is supposed to happen.
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And if they, if that's what they scream out from the, from all the social media and everything, then we should give them the opportunity.
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But obviously in reality, you can't, like if he said, right, women and men have to go to war, then who's going to look after the kids?
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No, but they don't say they don't go to war because to, so what you're saying is, I agree what you're saying, but the reason that women say they don't go to war is not because they're staying at home to look after the kids.
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So what you're saying is women, women shouldn't be drafted because they need to stay at home to look after the kids.
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But then what they would argue is, no, we're not staying at home to look after the kids.
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If war kicks off, there's not a single woman that's going to be saying that.
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And there was like a clip of me that was taken out of context where I said, if I had to pick between getting drafted and voted, like, I would get drafted.
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I swear to God, I'll run into the kitchen and not walk in.
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And I also think like having so many options isn't necessarily good for everybody.
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I think it's like having the option to do everything you want doesn't necessarily mean you'll be happier.
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Sometimes it can make you quite confused and you get distracted.
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So I know that like feminism gave women all these options to do whatever they want.
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But I don't know if that actually leads to life satisfaction, having too many options.
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And I like the fact that you're saying that because this is one of the things that we're
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saying when it comes down to things like comparison, like, and bodies, right?
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Most of the reason why people unhappy is because they can always compare into something.
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So if you've never had an experience, people can call it naivety.
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But when you have too much of an experience, you're always going to compare something to you.
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So when you say it like that, it's one of those ones where they've told you,
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And sometimes when you actually do some of these things, you're like, yeah, I don't want it.
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Because even psychologically, even when you go to a restaurant,
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when there's too many things on the menu, you naturally just like,
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So that's why I don't think having so many options is necessarily a gift in life.
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I feel, well, I think, and I know that most of the reason that they come out and say all of these things
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is because they're just trying to prove that they can do exactly what a man can do.
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And the funny thing is when it comes to men, you hardly find any of us arguing
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and trying to prove that we are stronger than you are doing all of that, even amongst ourselves.
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Naturally, you know when you're in a room with guys, everyone just kind of knows where they belong
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and then just automatically sorts themselves out.
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But I just noticed that whenever women are involved in that kind of equation,
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I think Kevin Samuels used to use the analogy of there is some TV show where they put women and men on an island.
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Yeah, and it was like where they had to survive.
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And the women, like they had to save within like two days and the men were completely functioning.
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It was like they need a bit of Wi-Fi there by the second week or something.
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So why do you guys think there is this disdain towards men from feminists when they say they want equality?
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I feel like they're just told that men are the enemy.
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But if you speak to many women and ask them about their lived experience, very few will say,
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oh, my male boss was a nightmare or this man was so bad.
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And as we all know, like I know from my experience on social media with women and stuff,
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it's always been more, most of my difficulties in life have come from other women.
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So I always combine like my lived experience with my thoughts.
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Whereas I think a lot of feminists haven't even even branched out to the idea of what is my life experience been like?
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Has it been more women stopping me from progressing at work?
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And if they took a moment to actually reflect on that, they realize men aren't the enemy.
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It doesn't mean anyone's the enemy, but men definitely aren't the enemy.
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And I think they're not given that option to kind of or given that encouragement to reflect on their own experiences.
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Because the loudest people online are the people that have been scorned,
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that are just upset about stuff for the sake of it.
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So they're the people that are just in the comments making all the noise.
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And then that kind of shifts the narrative of what people actually think is normal.
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When in reality, most women probably don't think like most feminists.
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It's just a very small percentage of angry women.
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It makes them seem like there's more of them than there actually are,
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just because they're the ones that are the most vocal.
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Whereas all the normal women that are just getting on with their lives,
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that don't think that way, they're just sitting there watching.
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Yeah, but bro, women need to call other women out.
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Because it's like, there's a very small proportion of women, right?
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But they're loud and their voices are amplified.
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And the women that actually is not the majority,
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They don't say anything and women don't like to be called out.
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No, but basically she said that, but when it goes on social media,
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they're going to call her pick me a pick me show.
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But again, that's the same loud, hurt women that are saying,
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you're a pick me because you're actually talking sense.
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But if there's a hundred pick me's, they won't even...
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I think if there's five, yeah girl, I'm with you.
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But so I'll get women in my DMs and they'll be supporting what we're doing.
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And they'll be like, yeah, I see you on Pearl's show, they'll come up to me.
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But where are they in the comments when the girls are trying to call us misogynists
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Only for literally speaking in a way that men haven't spoken before,
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So when you get men that actually are honest to you,
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that's why I say women love liars and cheaters,
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because they don't want men that actually tell them the truth.
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Because when men do, they label all man as a thing.
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They want cheaters because they always go for the top 20% of men
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They want polygamy relationships because not...
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Because they will have a baby with a guy that's already had a baby with another woman.
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In their mind, they may think, oh, you know what?
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If you allow a man to have a baby with another woman,
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then you're actually allowing him to have the best of both things.
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And violent felons have more children than non-violent felons.
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And I said this before, like, and I thought about it,
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it was a good old friend, I don't know how to speak about his name,
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but just, he's literally what she's talking about.
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He would be the most red flag you could think of, but for some reason...
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Like, you know, even girl with blue tick moving mad,
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you're like, you're supposed to have some type of...
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Nah, it's just, I just, that thing when they say,
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Do you think that the quality of women drops when it comes to these types of guys,
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Sometimes I think, it's like, if I see your baby father,
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and I had high, high levels for you, and then I see your baby father,
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All of a sudden, it kind of drops, and you've always said that.
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You kind of, you can't get pretty much higher than your baby father.
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and then you see the guy that she's given the highest honour to,
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You was feeling a little bit like maybe she was out of your league.
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And then you see that, and you're like, uh, like...
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And young women are, like, the most valuable to men, right?
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Do you notice that women stop going for bad boys as they get older,
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either can't get the bad boys they used to get,
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They're like, oh, I grew out of it, but I just...
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It's like, they want the bad boy, but they can't lock him down.
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It's interesting to hear it from, like, the men's point of view,
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because, like, to women, this is more of, like, new information,
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but to men, they're like, yeah, we've been new this.
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Do you think nice girls get finished last as well?
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but I see lots of nice women being ran through as well,
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while he kind of does his thing with lots of other women.
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Yeah, well, are you a really nice girl if you're going for the bad boy
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So, you can, as a nice girl, you're a nice girl,
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sorry, the guy that which all the bad girls want as well.
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So, if you're a nice girl, you put yourself in that market,
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but reality for long term, no, he's not going to...
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They have to pick between the sure thing versus the,
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He's going to get my door kicked off by the police guy.
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we actually judge you differently because, yes,
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you could have carried on looking at the sky's the limit
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They don't know when to actually say, you know what?
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Like the problem is a lot of women don't actually know
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I think a lot of girls don't actually understand men enough.
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they tend to be more naive about what male behavior looks like.
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So I do think sometimes they can be more naive,
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The only reason I'm giving you two is because, like,
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they'd be telling me I need to get a little bit better
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just because people say, oh, real life stuff happens.
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But how many times do you get to keep making the same mistake
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or doing the same offence, getting arrested for it?
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I think you're underestimating, like, the level of game some guys have.
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But if there's 10 guys, how many have game, would you say, out of 10?
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She could have picked the eight nice guys, good guys.
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Purely from experience from, like, echo chambers, this, that, and the other.
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From what I've seen is that the guys that are smooth-talking,
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They'll have good girls, bad girls, bad bees, this, that, and the other.
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But, like, the good girls fall for the same lies.
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And they'll be crying to their friends, saying, like, I can't believe we did this.
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It's just, like, I've just heard girl after girl after girl come on my show.
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And, like, I got cheated on by him, him, and him.
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And it's, like, how many times were you bamboozled?
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And it's, like, you must have liked something about the toxic relationship
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because you're still talking about them three years later.
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So it's something with you that you're attracted to him.
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Like, one of the things that I hate and one of the things we're suffering with
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Unless it was great, we have to say that this woman said yes.
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She laid down, she opened her legs, and she let these bad boys come into her.
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And this is one of the things that I keep saying is because if we don't,
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Yes, man had bars, man had game, but she didn't have to fall for it.
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So, end of the day is if you go and breed out some girl and she's some Bedina
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and she's, like, you know, she's, like, she's just a walking red flag
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and then you start crying later, no one's going to feel sorry for you, bro.
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Like, literally, because you didn't do your due diligence, yeah?
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I would have never even gone there in the first place, but you did for any reason.
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All the things inside your body tell you, but because he's the top 20%,
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he's good looking, he's got whatever he's got, you want him.
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Then it goes bad because he's a Chad or Tyrone,
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Then you meet us in your 30s, and now you've got a lot of trauma
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Why am I paying for you deciding to get run through in your 20s by some guys
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And obviously, them kind of women in their 30s,
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that you've got to stay clear of the ones with the mad trauma.
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If you meet 10 girls, eight of them are suffering from mad trauma.
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I mean, honestly, I think even earlier than that,
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I think by 25, most girls have had their heart broke once.
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Okay, and another reason why women get their heart broken early
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And if you're in your 20s and you haven't, you know,
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And a lot of the times, they'll date the older guys.
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Now, there's good guys, older guys which you can date
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Or there's these older guys that are going to show you about something.
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And then once it all starts to happen, the trauma starts to happen.
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So all I'm saying to women is, whenever we speak to women,
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Like, initially, it was supposed to be your father or your brother
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that was going to vet these men that will come into your life.
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and women not having the same relationship with their brothers,
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there's no one really spitting this game to them.
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So when you hear it from a man and you're in your 20s and your 30s,
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it sounds like we're trying to stop you from doing certain things.
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We're just saying, nah, like, you should have been told this.
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I agree with you, to be honest, that the way I see it is that
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I just think a lot of women don't actually understand the men enough.
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Do you know what I mean? They don't actually fully understand men.
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So that's why they end up falling into the same traps over and over again.
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If we disappeared tomorrow, outside of reproduction, they would keep living.
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Single men are more likely to have mental health problems.
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Single men are more likely to die with depression.
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The majority of men haven't reproduced historically.
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Like, I understand that men would prefer to have a partner.
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But the whole point is society would keep on going on if women disappeared tomorrow.
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If it's based on, yeah, just getting things done, absolutely.
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But if it's based on having emotional kind of security, I don't think anybody can...
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I don't think any human can literally live a happy life if they don't have a connection
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with the opposites or somebody that they love with.
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Yeah, but I think that's a female point of view.
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Like, because there's a whole group of men that are walking away from relationships.
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They're walking away from relationships because they just don't think women bring much to the
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Is it that women don't bring much or they can't get the woman that they want?
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What percent of women are virgins in 22 and want to get married in traditional nowadays?
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I think that's great, but I don't think all men need that.
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I mean, historically, that is always what men have wanted.
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But I don't think now that's the essential criteria of what you want and what you need.
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They can't talk to anybody about their emotions when they have a woman.
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Do you guys feel like you can talk to your friends?
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What's better, talking to your friends or talking to your woman about your emotions?
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I'm going to just say this and I want to just look to the camera and say,
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guys, do not talk to your girlfriend about your emotions.
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No, I mean, seriously, if you want to keep her...
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I think when you find a real one, then you can talk to her about anything.
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So there's some things that men are supposed to be in women's eyes
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and there's some things that are never supposed to see.
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They're just like hypergamous inside their body.
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You know that thing when women say, I get the ick.
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But seeing you crying with the snot down, your face dripping...
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Women lose respect for men after they see them cry.
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I think once you find a real one though, like a proper ride or die, then it don't matter.
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You won't know she's a ride or die until you cry.
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I just know that what she requires for me is not seeing me cry.
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I'm not saying to you not to speak to your boy.
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But how often do you cry in front of your girl?
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I was like not even a family bereavement just...
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And I want to say it to men because women don't understand why they do a lot of the things that they do.
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No, but I think there's a difference between being vulnerable and being emotional.
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Emotional just means you're overreacting emotionally to a situation that you're now removing logic.
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So if a guy gets really emotional, like I've been in a situation where a guy gets so emotional
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about maybe something on social media, whatever it is, he loses his masculinity.
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But vulnerability is opening up and that leads to connection.
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It's just when it's disproportionate to the situation.
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Like it's confusing to men because every woman's different based on how she feels.
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I think there's objective measures of what would be too much.
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Like if it's a family of bereavement, I think most women would understand.
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But if it's like, you know, your cat's upset and then you get a lot upset...
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It's a disproportionate response to cry over stress at work.
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No, because crying already, work can make you cry.
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Like, so once you tell me I can cry, you don't get to tell me what I can cry about.
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It's just your masculine energy will dictate what makes you cry.
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Yeah, but it doesn't dictate to you what gives you the ick.
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Yeah, I may feel like I can cry because I've lost my channel.
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And I put lots of work into building something.
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And you don't understand how that makes me feel.
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So I start crying over this because I was looking at the...
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I was looking at the media company and the empire I was going to build and the network.
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And you're just looking at me like, get over it, right?
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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