In this episode, I sit down with my good friend, Pearl, to talk about how she became the woman she is today. We talk about what it means to grow up in a fatherless family and how it shaped her into the woman we know and love today.
00:00:00.000And I also, I fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when I was obese and I, and then I started losing weight, but I was still in the boss babe culture.
00:03:15.180It's because of the masculine women.1.00
00:03:16.680Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have 80% of women screwing 20% of men.1.00
00:03:21.680So then women don't respect the average guy.1.00
00:03:23.740I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver.1.00
00:03:28.080They're above a bus driver, average chicks.1.00
00:03:30.080And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity, no offense.1.00
00:03:34.340But like, it's like you have average chicks thinking they're so great when it's like literally you are average, you're average looking, you're an average mindset.
00:03:41.680Most people are average and men will accept this, but women won't.1.00
00:03:45.080It's like an insult for us to be normal.
00:03:47.560So then you won't see normal women dating normal men.0.95
00:03:50.740But do you feel like that is because social media has a lot to play for it?
00:03:54.260They feel like there's a lot more accessibility.
00:03:55.940I think it's social media and dating apps.
00:03:58.820They feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people.
00:04:49.360No, they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls.
00:04:51.920And I'm like, it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems to be to sleep around,
00:04:58.860which I don't think is, you know, great for society.
00:05:01.240But it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping.1.00
00:05:04.120Do you think that men should have more than one woman?0.98
00:05:06.460Um, I, I think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy.
00:05:14.740So I think it's silly to date, say, Jason Derulo, Chris Brown.
00:05:18.460These are extreme examples, but there's certain men that it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never will be.
00:05:26.000I think monogamy in general is better for a society.
00:05:29.000Forget the higher, I'm even talking on average men, normal men on a day to day,
00:05:33.820because obviously you've said earlier on that there's more women on the earth than men.1.00
00:06:50.840That's probably not on these stats doing the same thing.
00:06:53.100And when I say a lot, I'm talking, if you're just talking average men in London,
00:06:57.220obviously London, I don't know about America and that average in what in sleeping with a lot of women.1.00
00:07:02.540No, like average looks, average money.
00:07:05.380Would you average looks average, average job?
00:07:08.200Um, I'm, I can even give you examples of, of a few average men that are big in weight and just got normal jobs that are dealing with a lot of women across the board.
00:07:17.840Um, well there, there's a couple things.0.52
00:07:19.780So, I mean, typically again, like there's been studies on dating apps and in, in person where women find 80% of men is ugly.0.55
00:08:42.840They feel like they can come back to the average man or even go back to a man that was trying to get them when they were 18, 19 and feel like they can go back to them.
00:08:50.020But obviously with men, it's a bit different because men at 30, we start peaking.
00:09:20.660So the issue that a lot of these guys are getting into, and this is why guys don't like typically, like a lot of guys will say, I don't date women over 30.