Feminist AGREES With This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why men should go their own way and why women should stay in their marriages. We discuss the benefits of being single, the dangers of being in a monogamous relationship, and how to deal with divorce.
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Men's attractiveness often increases with age because they tend to make more money as they age and often have larger bank accounts and savings.
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While generally women's earnings potential withers with their looks, especially if they've had children.
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The age of 30 is roughly where male and female values intersect and then go in the opposite direction.
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If a man doesn't get married by the age of 35 or 40, then there's only roughly a 12% chance that he's going to get married from that point forward.
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Another reason men should go their own way is because of shit tests.
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Women often test men's ability to be providers and tolerate their horrible behavior.
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The idea is to turn a man into an obedient broken shell of his former self that walks around saying,
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His spirit has to be broken in many cases so his resources become more easily extracted and he is more malleable.
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A woman asking a man to do something over the top is not her being loving or showing love.
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But instead she's testing him to see if he can be manipulated.
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And the ironic thing is that women want to manipulate men, but when the manipulation works, they tend to lose interest.
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I feel like you have to have that masculine polarity.
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Yeah, like I do feel like you have to have that masculine polarity.
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But for me, I feel like I'm very much in my feminine.
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Do you think that women constantly test men's masculinity?
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You want to be able to test them to make sure that they're the best option.
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Do you think that most men lead relationships or most women lead relationships?
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Yeah, probably, probably women most of the time.
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So if me and you, let's just say we're going to sign a deal.
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You're always going to be trying to make me happy.
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So I think the government, the way they've set up marriage has ruined relationships
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because it puts us at such an advantage over men.
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That unless he's the top guy and we feel like we cannot replace him, we're paid to leave.
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And I think even a good woman on her worst day with the government paying her to do something bad
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and all of these options is just going to say, eh, I'm not feeling it anymore.
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Like, honestly, I never, ever thought of it in that way.
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Like, I always thought of marriage as like this magical thing, like being with husband,
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And I just can't believe that, I can't believe that it is like set up by the government in
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this way, like it would seem from what you're saying.
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I think it's men that were shocked because they married a chick.
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They didn't know she was in love with her ex, like we talked about, right?
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She's never happy because that means she's leading the relationship, right?
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And then he's completely shocked because he never thought in a million years she would
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Maybe I'm a MGTOW because I'm shocked right now hearing all of this.
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So one way the laws, they might not specifically say gender, but the way that it's set up,
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if a man, okay, basically a lot of times in the US, I don't know if this part's the same
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here, but in the US, the person that spent the most time with the kids is awarded custody.
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However, what if the man spent the most time with the kids?
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Well, they say, why aren't you providing for your family like you're supposed to?
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Yet, in divorce court, they're punished for it.
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Because if they do the right thing and provide for their family-
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And you see how it's like the men are like, what are we supposed to do?
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But the lawyers certainly will spin it in court if he spent the most time with the kids.
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Like, we're all going to kind of look at him like a loser a bit.
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Even if it's not in law, subconsciously, you're wondering, well, why didn't you work more so
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Like, let's just, you know, let's just be honest.
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So, that's why I say feminists, we cannot be equal.
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We can, I just don't think we can do what men do.
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But the only way we get to offer the most value to society, which I believe is being a wife
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So, the only, the only way we can do that is if the men let us.
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Therefore, and the only way we can build a career is if the men let us build a career.
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Everything we do, we have to ask the men to let us do.
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We cannot be safe in society without saying, men, please keep us safe.
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We cannot go to work without saying, men, build these companies so I can climb up the
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So, by this logic, we cannot be equal because everything we do, we have to say to the men,
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I couldn't, the reason I came to this conclusion was for months, I couldn't think of one thing
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No, because you are, you are so logical, like that is such a logical point.
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It's just, it's just really hard for me to wrap my head around because I've just always
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thought, you know, that we are equal and that we do provide value in different ways.
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And, you know, even if that maybe isn't the equal value or whatever, I still think that
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But the way we are today, I just don't think offers value as a society.
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Do you think it's maybe because women haven't had the opportunity to do those kind of jobs
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or whatever that the men are doing that makes them be superior?
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Do you think it's because they don't get the same opportunities as men?
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No, I think we've had plenty, like to the point that governments have grants to get women
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But then how many women do you feel like are comfortable going into like a male dominated
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I actually think, I think it's really mean to push women into these environments.
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Because I mean, it's like, you know, you walk past a construction site and get catcalled.
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How many women are then going to want to go and work on one?
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I think women, come on, if they stopped catcalling us tomorrow, we'd kind of miss it.
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No, but still, no, I think that's not the way to approach women.
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If Brad Pitt approached you like that, you would not.
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I feel like it's the way in which they approach you.
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Like, if a guy's whistling at you, like, I'm not a dog.
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I mean, if it's Brad Pitt, I'm like, you know what, I'll say.
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But, okay, I forgot what we were talking about before that.
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Sorry, yeah, I've gone on a tangent, haven't I?
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Oh, I think it's really mean that feminists push women into these fields and say,
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I think that's something that always confused me about me being a feminist because I feel
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like I've always, like, my mom was a housewife and my dad, like, has his business
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She had a career before, but then she gave that up to look after me and my brother,
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which I am so grateful for, that I had, you know, my mom around all the time.
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You know, when I have children, I would want to be a housewife.
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Like, I feel like, I don't think I'm a traditional woman at all, but I feel like in some kind
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Yeah, like, I have quite traditional, like, views about marriage and things like that,
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Like, I can almost hear when women have fathers and their voices.
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But I think what feminists will do is say, hey, young girls that are impressionable, right?
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Because, you know, you can be convinced of anything at, like, 10.
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So, you tell them, hey, you can do anything a guy can do.
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I just feel like I wasn't made for that, like, 9 to 5, like, hardworking life, which I'll
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I was just made to, you know, have my own business and do my own thing.
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I'm a lot happier, more comfortable, you know, being at home with my dog and doing that.
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And so, like, if we're talking to the women and none of us want to do it, is it maybe it's