JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Feminist Claims That Men Are More Violent


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

165.7119

Word Count

1,591

Sentence Count

124

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary

In this episode, we talk about domestic abuse and how women should be believed when it comes from a male perspective. We also talk about the fact that women are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse than men, and why this is a problem.


Transcript

00:00:00.120 And if you get a bunch of people that have the same story and have all tried to press charges again, you can make a better case.
00:00:06.940 Like, if you go get a grape kit the day after, like, there's ways you can collect evidence and convict someone that's guilty.
00:00:14.200 It's not like this process that it's impossible to convict someone, you just need to have the evidence.
00:00:21.840 And modern women, like, want to be able to convict men without the evidence.
00:00:26.200 Well, men are more likely to be victims of a violent crime than women.
00:00:28.960 That's because men are more violent, obviously.
00:00:32.880 Well, it really depends.
00:00:35.460 It depends.
00:00:36.740 Because, like, in domestic violence cases, when it's one-sided, unreciprocated, women are more likely to abuse their partner and not be reciprocated.
00:00:46.900 I'm sorry, I didn't know.
00:00:47.900 So women are more likely to abuse their partner and it's not reciprocated.
00:00:52.540 So if you look at abusive couples, right, most of the time they're abusing each other.
00:00:56.700 And if you look at the cases where it's not retaliated, it means one's hitting the other and they're not abused back.
00:01:03.040 Women are more likely to do that to men than men are to women.
00:01:05.340 I don't know where you get that information from.
00:01:09.960 Where is that information from?
00:01:11.720 It's a documentary.
00:01:13.440 It's called, yeah, it's called, it's like about this girl.
00:01:17.440 She basically, like, dove into feminism and dove into, like, the men's rights movement.
00:01:21.520 What's the name of that documentary?
00:01:22.640 I can, I can get it for you.
00:01:25.820 I'm not, I'm not just, like, making this up.
00:01:27.680 But, yeah, I can get it for you.
00:01:29.020 I wouldn't think that you have a subchannel and make stuff up.
00:01:31.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:33.100 Okay, it's, um, Destroy the Director.
00:01:37.020 Okay, yeah, I'll check it out.
00:01:39.360 Did you?
00:01:40.060 Did you check it out?
00:01:41.100 But, personally, like, I can't really speak on information that, like, like, we said,
00:01:47.540 believe all women.
00:01:48.340 Like, I don't know you.
00:01:49.560 That's fair.
00:01:50.400 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:51.180 That's fair.
00:01:51.760 That's fair.
00:01:52.480 In my life experience, I've definitely seen men be more violent towards women.
00:01:58.800 And I haven't ever seen a woman be violent towards her partner.
00:02:03.560 I've seen girls hit guys and nobody does anything.
00:02:07.980 I haven't seen that.
00:02:09.220 And I, what kind of hit?
00:02:11.800 Like, a little knock on the shoulder or, like...
00:02:14.640 I think any hit is unacceptable.
00:02:16.460 And if you, if you hit a man, you should expect to get hit back.
00:02:20.320 Yeah.
00:02:22.500 Why would you hit someone and not expect to get hit back?
00:02:25.940 Men don't have that.
00:02:26.920 Like, why are women special?
00:02:29.800 Like, why do we get a special privilege that men don't get?
00:02:32.520 If he hits him, he's getting hit back.
00:02:35.740 I don't think anyone should be hitting anybody.
00:02:38.420 Yeah, I agree.
00:02:39.020 I was just meaning, like, in a playful conversation, like, when you hit someone's shoulder or something.
00:02:44.720 Oh, okay.
00:02:45.060 You're talking about, like, tapping.
00:02:46.160 Yeah.
00:02:46.800 I don't mean, like, actual violence.
00:02:49.140 But I don't know.
00:02:51.400 I haven't really seen women being violent towards men.
00:02:54.520 If you have in your own life, then I would have to ask you where you're from, where you see that.
00:03:00.260 Yeah.
00:03:00.380 And you see men being violent towards women all the time?
00:03:05.880 I've definitely had situations in my personal life where my friends have been victims of domestic abuse.
00:03:15.120 But here's the thing.
00:03:17.120 She didn't say that she witnessed it or she saw the situation happen.
00:03:20.620 So, again, you're just going off of someone's word.
00:03:23.900 Why?
00:03:24.240 Because she believes women more than men.
00:03:26.420 What do you know?
00:03:26.960 Where a friend of mine has been a victim of domestic abuse or, like, marital abuse from a family situation.
00:03:39.240 So, that's, I haven't seen, like, I don't know.
00:03:45.000 And also, though, like, it is true that men shouldn't be hit, like, how he can't really defend himself.
00:03:51.920 Yeah.
00:03:52.640 But he can also leave the situation a lot easier than a woman who is being abused.
00:03:58.080 Because they're typically smaller than their partners.
00:04:01.760 And physically, not the same, like, kind of match.
00:04:05.640 Okay, guys, you'll notice this trend with modern women and feminists.
00:04:10.860 Whenever you try to hold a woman accountable, they move the goalposts and say, well, but he could leave.
00:04:17.200 Imagine.
00:04:17.860 Imagine.
00:04:18.200 Let's flip the script, right?
00:04:21.340 If she's getting hit, girl's getting hit, well, she could have left.
00:04:26.500 She could leave.
00:04:28.480 Is that right?
00:04:31.460 Is that how we should talk?
00:04:32.400 Do you think men are believed when they're victims of domestic abuse?
00:04:40.360 Maybe not in the past, but I think now, now more, especially after this Johnny Depp situation.
00:04:51.040 Okay.
00:04:51.640 Okay, well, I appreciate you sitting down and talking to me.
00:04:55.220 That's it?
00:04:55.760 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:56.360 I mean, you've been going for a while.
00:04:57.740 Yeah, I see you out here doing this, but I'm just wondering, like, for myself, I watched you do this, a few different interviews.
00:05:06.600 But I'm just wondering, like, what exactly are you getting from these kind of conversations?
00:05:12.980 Do you find that you yourself are learning more about people, or are you just kind of pushing the agenda?
00:05:19.580 Because to me, like, honestly, I just heard kind of like you're sticking to the same talking points, and I didn't really hear a lot of, like, discussion from your end.
00:05:28.340 From my end, to me, I just get public opinions on stuff, so I just get people's public opinions, and I also, I have two, a lot of the reason I do what I do is I advocate for men's rights, so I have two brothers that, like, committed, they tried to commit suicide, so I just think the world is harder for men than the media really lets it be, and I think feminism, yeah, I think it's tough on men.
00:05:55.540 I don't think they advocate for men the way they should, so.
00:05:59.260 I'm sorry to hear that.
00:06:00.160 Yeah.
00:06:01.140 But, also, it's, if we uplift women, men will also be uplifted, too.
00:06:10.940 Okay, if you uplift women, for what, for being women?
00:06:14.560 Why should we just be uplifted for being alive?
00:06:18.140 Like, that's the stupidest shit I've ever heard in my life.
00:06:20.420 Like, okay, let's uplift men for just being men.
00:06:24.780 Like, no, no, frickin'.
00:06:28.360 And so it's not one without the other, like, surely.
00:06:32.440 We do uplift women.
00:06:34.860 All the time.
00:06:36.360 There's women's empowerment all the time.
00:06:38.200 There's no men's empowerment.
00:06:40.500 But are you aware about the abortion rights in the United States, and what do you have to say about that?
00:06:46.920 Like, women, I think, just had their rights taken away from an abortion.
00:06:50.500 I don't need the right to an abortion.
00:06:52.560 I'm careful with who I sleep with, and I use protection.
00:06:55.240 Yeah, but...
00:06:55.500 Why do I need the right to an abortion?
00:06:57.140 If you're raped?
00:06:58.280 That's less than 1% of abortions.
00:07:01.260 But it's still...
00:07:02.240 But let's talk about the 99% of abortions, because that's what girls do.
00:07:06.020 When they don't have a good argument, they look for the exception to the rule.
00:07:08.320 That's the exception.
00:07:08.960 I know people who have been raped, and so a lot of rapes also go underreported, because
00:07:16.640 it's a very shameful thing to happen to women, and also they don't have the evidence, and
00:07:21.680 so it's even more shameful to go and accuse someone of a crime when they don't have evidence.
00:07:26.960 What evidence do you have that it's underreported?
00:07:30.800 How do you know that it's underreported?
00:07:33.720 Because women who get raped don't 100% always go and report it.
00:07:40.260 How do you know?
00:07:41.880 Because I know people that that has happened to.
00:07:44.040 How do you know, by and large, that that's a big issue?
00:07:47.600 Because you're just automatically believing women without the evidence.
00:07:51.740 Which goes back to what I'm saying.
00:07:54.300 If my friend has trauma, and she's shaking like this...
00:07:57.620 We're not talking about individuals, we're talking about by and large.
00:08:01.440 Yeah, but one group comprises, one person is a part of a group, and a group, for example,
00:08:08.560 feminism, isn't, like, there's not a president of feminism.
00:08:13.320 There isn't someone saying, this is the objective of feminism.
00:08:16.660 That doesn't exist.
00:08:17.880 The group is comprised of people with individual stories, with their own individual...
00:08:22.520 But I need facts, data, and statistics for you to back it up.
00:08:26.000 If somebody is saying, so if you look at statistics, for example, you can look at something like unemployment.
00:08:32.880 You know how unemployment is calculated?
00:08:35.380 Unemployment is calculated by when someone is actively looking for a job.
00:08:40.560 But once they stop looking for a job, then it's no longer part of the calculation.
00:08:45.100 And so that skews the statistic.
00:08:48.400 You can think also about rape statistics.
00:08:51.180 If someone isn't reporting what has happened to them, how can you have a statistic about something being underreported if they haven't reported it?
00:09:01.620 Of course I can say to my friend, that has happened to my friend, because that's a real story that I know.
00:09:06.640 So how could I honestly, like, answer a statistic of something that's been underreported?
00:09:13.180 There is no reportage of that.
00:09:15.180 That doesn't make logical sense.
00:09:16.760 No, but I'm saying you need to have some data.
00:09:18.480 Like, if we're talking about abortion, right, that's what we're talking about.
00:09:21.440 And I said less than 1% of abortions are for grape, okay?
00:09:25.820 And so you said, oh, well, it's underreported.
00:09:27.900 So I said, okay, if that's your argument, then give me data that a large percentage of those grapes are from abortion.
00:09:34.300 And it doesn't seem like you have it.