JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


Feminist EMPATHIZES With The MGTOW Community

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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Piers Morgan Sandman
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9 minutes

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204.39

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1,864

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247

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17

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15

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12

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In this episode, I introduce myself and talk about what MGTOW is, what it is not, and why it's important to know about it. I also talk about why I think divorce should be banned and why I don't believe in it.

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00:00:00.000 Do you know what MGTOW is?
00:00:02.080 No, I've got no idea.
00:00:03.720 So MGTOW is men that go their own way.
00:00:06.880 Oh, wow.
00:00:07.560 Is that kind of like incels?
00:00:09.360 I don't think so.
00:00:11.080 Oh, okay.
00:00:11.880 I don't think so.
00:00:12.900 I mean, some call them incels.
00:00:14.980 I call them men that are very logical.
00:00:18.740 Oh, really?
00:00:19.700 Yes.
00:00:20.240 Oh, wow.
00:00:21.460 But pull up the video.
00:00:22.620 So this is an introduction to MGTOW.
00:00:24.860 This is by Sandman.
00:00:27.080 Hi, everyone.
00:00:28.240 Sandman here.
00:00:28.960 I'm getting a number of people asking me to do an introduction video for MGTOW.
00:00:33.480 So here it is.
00:00:34.700 I'm going to cover 25 of the most important video topics that I've covered since I've started my channel.
00:00:40.540 And the first thing to remember about MGTOW is that a man that has taken the metaphorical red pill 0.51
00:00:45.280 is a man that has learned the ugly truth about female nature.
00:00:49.420 Women are made out to be harmless, beautiful creatures. 1.00
00:00:52.280 But the truth is many women today will rip out your heart and testicles through your wallet 1.00
00:00:56.460 and move on to their next victim with absolutely no second thoughts. 0.98
00:01:00.480 And they often have no guilt or remorse in the process.
00:01:03.680 So taking the red pill is making yourself aware of how women operate and you stop being naive about it. 0.99
00:01:09.720 With regards to becoming a MGTOW, there are four or five different levels to MGTOW.
00:01:13.680 The first level is the purple pill man.
00:01:16.460 This is the man that's aware that women use the government, the courts, and men's desires to reproduce to take advantage of men. 0.97
00:01:23.060 But the purple pill man believes that the risks of a relationship and marriage are often worth the potential punishment.
00:01:28.920 A level two MGTOW believes in dating and short-term relationships, but not marriage, long-term relationships, or cohabitation with women.
00:01:37.640 What do you think of that?
00:01:38.900 Men that walk away from marriage.
00:01:40.980 Men that walk away from marriage.
00:01:42.820 Yeah.
00:01:43.960 But what's the reason?
00:01:45.360 What's the reason that they've walked away just in general?
00:01:48.340 The reasoning is the court system is not fair to men.
00:01:51.980 Right.
00:01:52.400 So you mean men that never want to get married in the first place.
00:01:54.860 I guess it's a very, like, cynical way to view life.
00:02:00.780 Like, you know, not wanting to open your heart up to someone in that way and feeling like you have to kind of sacrifice that because, you know, these bad things might happen.
00:02:10.520 Because I feel like that kind of happens in the minority of cases rather than the majority.
00:02:15.480 So what percent of marriages end in divorce?
00:02:18.680 Well, is it like 50%?
00:02:20.080 Yeah.
00:02:20.420 Yeah.
00:02:20.720 Okay, okay.
00:02:21.280 So it is like high.
00:02:21.920 But I don't know, the cases where they walk away with the children and take everything, that might not be the case for all of them.
00:02:27.980 So men only get 50, like, men only get primary custody 10% of the time.
00:02:32.520 Yeah.
00:02:33.180 So it's actually, if they get divorced, it's the majority.
00:02:35.860 Right.
00:02:36.160 And then what about, like, financial?
00:02:39.080 What do you mean?
00:02:39.940 Like, do they get taken, like, advantage of financially in that kind of way?
00:02:43.360 The numbers, I can't, off the top of my head, I don't know.
00:02:47.120 But I think men get, like, to the point where they think it was malicious.
00:02:51.240 It's like 15% to 20% of divorces.
00:02:53.680 Right.
00:02:54.100 Oh, wow.
00:02:54.500 That is quite high then.
00:02:55.780 It's very high.
00:02:56.540 And I think that's under report.
00:02:58.140 Like, you would be, I started asking Uber drivers.
00:03:01.200 Yeah.
00:03:01.420 It's, like, crazy how many Uber drivers I've, like, not, I just would ask them, like, how they started Ubering, whatever.
00:03:06.880 Yeah.
00:03:07.300 And I was, like, shocked by how many were just screwed over and divorced.
00:03:11.080 Really?
00:03:11.920 Yeah.
00:03:12.380 No, and I do think that that's really sad.
00:03:14.160 Yeah.
00:03:14.380 That is really sad for the guys.
00:03:15.360 And then, so I can kind of understand why they would be skeptical about it.
00:03:19.540 But it makes me sad that they would live their life that way.
00:03:22.180 Which is why we should ban divorce. 0.69
00:03:24.760 Wow.
00:03:25.360 That is quite the statement, isn't it?
00:03:26.980 Yes, yes.
00:03:27.340 Yeah, because I think that, like, what we have now, it's not marriage anymore.
00:03:31.640 Yeah.
00:03:32.060 I think they, like, you saw me on Pierce Morgan.
00:03:33.880 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:34.400 So, like, I don't think, like, what we have today is, like, real marriage.
00:03:38.580 Yeah.
00:03:39.100 And I think, like, if you believe in divorce, you just shouldn't get married.
00:03:43.120 Yeah, no.
00:03:43.740 But the thing is, does anyone get married with the intention of getting divorced?
00:03:47.240 Yes.
00:03:48.400 Right.
00:03:48.780 Okay.
00:03:49.080 Well, yeah, I agree with you then that people shouldn't get married with the intention of getting divorced.
00:03:52.800 I mean, I believe that it should be forever.
00:03:55.020 Yeah.
00:03:55.240 Like, 100%, I would never marry someone if I didn't think that it was going to be forever.
00:03:58.560 But then, at the same time, you never know how things are going to go.
00:04:01.960 Yeah.
00:04:02.400 But that's why I think we can have a couple exceptions.
00:04:04.700 Yeah.
00:04:05.260 Okay.
00:04:05.640 Because, I mean, with, like, abusive relationships, I think, is it, like, 25% of American divorces are because of it was an abusive relationship?
00:04:13.220 Well, but the problem is they ruin, like, those stats aren't real.
00:04:18.300 And I'll tell you why.
00:04:19.100 Because what happens is they do it in family court and not criminal court.
00:04:23.140 Right.
00:04:23.500 And so, in family court, you don't need evidence to do it.
00:04:26.780 Right.
00:04:27.260 And I've even had, like, women, like, I've seen, because I'm doing a documentary on this stuff.
00:04:31.620 So, I've interviewed men where they bring in the court documents and the women are literally plotting to get the guy to hit them.
00:04:38.100 Right.
00:04:38.420 So, they can go to court and claim abuse.
00:04:40.480 No.
00:04:40.760 And there's only criminal, so when you go to criminal court, there you get a jury.
00:04:44.880 Yeah.
00:04:45.000 It's, like, innocent until proven guilty.
00:04:46.920 But the way family court works, it's basically guilty until proven innocent.
00:04:50.360 Right.
00:04:51.200 So, like, and so we want to look at what percent of cases are actually abusive.
00:04:55.000 It's, like, I think 10% of all the women that say they were abused filed an actual police report.
00:05:00.280 Right.
00:05:00.680 But then do you think that maybe some of them don't file the police report because of the way that it can be handled sometimes?
00:05:06.040 As we know with, like, is it only, like, 1% actually get prosecuted?
00:05:11.740 No.
00:05:12.320 I think that women do that because they want to get the kids. 1.00
00:05:16.320 Right.
00:05:16.720 And I think they lie.
00:05:17.840 But do you think that that's the case in the majority of those cases?
00:05:20.580 Yes.
00:05:21.380 Right.
00:05:21.880 Yes, I do.
00:05:22.520 Well, then that is messed up.
00:05:24.120 Yes.
00:05:24.380 If that is the truth.
00:05:25.220 Yes.
00:05:25.520 Yes.
00:05:25.680 I think women are very spiteful. 1.00
00:05:30.220 Yeah.
00:05:30.660 And I think we are the worst version of ourselves during a breakup.
00:05:34.180 Right.
00:05:34.560 I would agree.
00:05:35.420 And I think we can all think of a time in a breakup where we have done something.
00:05:39.120 Yes.
00:05:39.380 Gone crazy.
00:05:40.480 Right.
00:05:40.860 And done something that maybe, like, was out of character for us.
00:05:44.300 Right.
00:05:44.720 Yeah.
00:05:44.980 But the way we have it now, the government is legally allowing us to ruin the person you hate more than anyone on the planet's life.
00:05:52.220 And in the same way, I think if we got men super angry to the point they want to kill somebody.
00:05:57.800 Yeah.
00:05:58.000 Right.
00:05:58.180 When they're, like, in a fight at a bar.
00:05:59.940 Yeah.
00:06:00.240 And the government came in and said, here's a gun.
00:06:02.480 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:02.800 You can legally kill him with no consequence. 0.99
00:06:05.860 I think a lot of men would do it. 0.99
00:06:07.680 Yeah.
00:06:07.980 The same way I think a lot of women would, women do do it. 1.00
00:06:11.420 Because I think women that actually care about the safety of the kids would have gone to the police. 1.00
00:06:16.000 Right.
00:06:16.320 Yeah.
00:06:16.780 Yeah.
00:06:17.060 That's a really good point, actually.
00:06:18.440 And they wouldn't want him to keep, like, women that care about women wouldn't want him to keep abusing women. 0.61
00:06:22.580 No, 100%.
00:06:23.580 So it's like, why are you going to family court and saying he was abusive if you didn't go to the police?
00:06:28.300 Because I would understand being too afraid to do anything.
00:06:31.260 Yeah.
00:06:31.420 But, yeah, if they're just going to one and not the other, then.
00:06:33.500 And the problem is, in family court, they've expanded the definition of abuse.
00:06:37.740 So what the feminists do is they come into these systems and they change the definition of words. 1.00
00:06:42.540 Right.
00:06:42.900 And they've done this with, like, what is sexual assault?
00:06:46.600 When someone does something without consent, like sexual.
00:06:52.020 Right.
00:06:52.260 What is consent?
00:06:53.220 How do you know what's consenting?
00:06:55.260 I feel like it's either them verbally giving consent or it can be more of, like, a body language.
00:07:02.500 Right.
00:07:03.020 But do you see how subjective that is?
00:07:05.200 Yeah.
00:07:05.600 But I feel like it kind of is obvious as well, like.
00:07:08.660 Have you ever heard a girl say, like, stop, stop, like in a flirty way? 0.97
00:07:12.900 Yeah, definitely.
00:07:14.060 Okay.
00:07:14.300 Do you see how that's confusing to men?
00:07:16.040 But I feel like that wouldn't be confusing because you would know, surely.
00:07:18.840 Well, that's what you would think.
00:07:20.540 But she can still go to court and say, I said stop. 1.00
00:07:22.980 Right.
00:07:23.320 Okay.
00:07:23.640 Do you see?
00:07:24.200 So the problem is before it was very clear.
00:07:27.380 It was, like, forced.
00:07:28.440 Yeah.
00:07:28.800 It was, I forgot the forced carnage. 0.97
00:07:31.400 Forced sex. 0.97
00:07:32.300 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:32.560 Forced sex, basically. 0.97
00:07:33.880 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:33.940 Now it's sex without consent.
00:07:36.680 Right.
00:07:37.080 So that makes, that gives the women a lot of power to say, oh, I was consenting then, not consenting then. 1.00
00:07:43.620 Yeah.
00:07:44.140 I mean, isn't the false accusation rate only, like, 2% though?
00:07:47.400 No.
00:07:48.100 No.
00:07:48.520 Do you think that it's higher?
00:07:49.140 I think it's a lot higher.
00:07:50.400 Right.
00:07:50.640 Because, well, I mean, I guess you, it technically wouldn't even be a false accusation because it would fall under the law.
00:07:56.920 Yeah.
00:07:57.160 But I think the way that law, they have changed the law is discriminatory towards men.
00:08:01.660 Right.
00:08:01.960 Because it's illegal for a man to take off a condom during sex and not tell you that.
00:08:07.440 Yeah. 0.54
00:08:07.860 But women lie about birth control all the time. 1.00
00:08:09.960 Yeah.
00:08:10.500 There's no, and so what they've done in family court.
00:08:13.320 Do you think it's different, though?
00:08:14.100 Because obviously if they take the condom off, that could give you an STD. 1.00
00:08:17.120 Obviously birth control. 0.96
00:08:18.520 I'm not saying that it's right.
00:08:19.760 Well, I think it's actually worse because, you know, STDs, I'd imagine, I don't know, but most are curable nowadays.
00:08:27.000 Yeah.
00:08:27.260 But a kid, that's like 18, that's 18 years.
00:08:32.180 That's really, you know.
00:08:33.160 Yeah.
00:08:33.380 And so what they did with abuse was they expanded the definition.
00:08:37.560 Right.
00:08:37.940 So they changed the definition.
00:08:39.280 Like, I don't know what the definition used to be exactly, but I'm imagining it's something like hitting her or something like that.
00:08:45.660 Now they have coercive control.
00:08:47.460 Right.
00:08:47.900 They have financial abuse.
00:08:49.720 They have, like, all of these words they add in that are very subjective and to confuse people.
00:08:56.240 And the problem is when we make things subjective, it gives the women the power. 1.00
00:08:59.840 Right.
00:09:00.300 Okay. 0.87
00:09:00.860 So that's why I think they're liars. 0.56
00:09:03.760 Wow. 0.87
00:09:04.360 That's a lot to take in.
00:09:06.280 Yeah.
00:09:06.620 Yeah.