00:04:49.620And so what I actually, it's interesting you said 60-year-olds because, you know, I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly in the past year and a half.
00:04:57.120I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships.
00:04:59.500And what I find is the 60-year-olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray.
00:05:06.680You know, there's a reason we're in this mess, right?
00:05:08.820A lot of those women had the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly the mentality that you're talking about.
00:05:14.840Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense of identity with compromise in a relationship with someone else.
00:05:19.600No, no, it's myself before the marriage.
00:05:21.020But that's, again, you know, I think that's an interesting point here, actually.
00:05:22.000And it's really unfortunate because I would say the women of our generation really are suffering because of the advice of the women of the past.
00:05:28.540There's an interesting point here, right, which is that we do live in a very individualistic society.
00:05:32.160And we're all told, actually, I think a lot of the time in our relationships as well, you have to be a certain way if you want to receive love.
00:08:14.980And as you get older and older and you see other friends that are in their 60s and they have kids, grandkids, kids that love them, you know, you can go out to Instagram pictures all day if you want, right?
00:08:27.560But when you come home, you know, you're alone.
00:09:08.120But even he was talking about how at, like, the nursing homes or whatever that he had, like, four women did she pick from and he picked her.