JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


Feminist Gets Hit With This HARSH REALITY


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In this episode, we talk about the difference between men and women in the modern world and why women are better at a lot of things than men are at anything else. We also talk about feminism and why we can't be equal.

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00:00:00.000 I mean, I've never thought about what men are better at, but I can name a few.
00:00:07.320 So wait, what would you say that men are better at then?
00:00:10.020 Everything.
00:00:10.660 But like what? Give me an example.
00:00:13.440 Building the buildings, paving the roads.
00:00:15.580 Oh, I know. I've got a good one, right?
00:00:17.280 So I feel like men do all the infrastructure, right? 0.99
00:00:20.480 Yes.
00:00:20.740 Women, we kind of are the biggest consumers. 1.00
00:00:23.700 So I feel like we influence culture more.
00:00:26.300 So maybe that's our strength.
00:00:27.360 And how, and did we do, and what has the world come to?
00:00:31.460 Yeah, so you're going to say, oh, you're going to say, oh, great, it's terrible.
00:00:33.580 So it's our fault.
00:00:35.000 Yes, yes.
00:00:35.800 I think the culture right now is worse than 100 years ago, I would say, because I think family is more important than individuality.
00:00:43.060 Yeah.
00:00:43.460 And I think right now it's all about like me.
00:00:45.420 Yeah.
00:00:46.020 And I think that's what women have done to the culture. 1.00
00:00:48.480 I think when women are guided by men, we can be great wives and mothers and be very great for the culture.
00:00:55.480 Yeah.
00:00:55.720 But without men.
00:00:57.420 All hell breaks loose.
00:00:58.580 Yeah, I think the natural order of thing is God, men, women. 0.57
00:01:03.300 I think women are below men. 1.00
00:01:04.980 Wow.
00:01:05.960 And I don't even say this.
00:01:07.520 For months, I've been trying to think of one thing.
00:01:10.580 Yeah.
00:01:11.120 And I don't mean.
00:01:12.440 You can't think of one thing that women are better at. 1.00
00:01:14.780 No, and it's not to say that women are bad at things. 1.00
00:01:16.860 I can think of great women, smart women, great wives and mothers. 1.00
00:01:20.820 But the point is that men will always figure out a way to do things better.
00:01:25.620 Literally, the only thing women are better at men are things that men can't do. 1.00
00:01:29.980 So, for instance, giving birth.
00:01:32.560 But you see even that which women are supposed to be so good at, they are really doing a terrible job at doing that because the birth rate is dropping. 1.00
00:01:38.980 Yeah, it's like below replacement.
00:01:41.000 Yeah.
00:01:41.140 So, the whole premise of feminism is that we're equal. 1.00
00:01:47.400 And my thing is we cannot be equal because men pay the majority of the taxes. 0.99
00:01:52.080 They do all of the hard jobs in society.
00:01:55.180 They make the majority.
00:01:57.680 They pay the majority of the taxes.
00:01:59.340 They do the majority of the hard jobs.
00:02:01.600 They run the biggest employers in the United States or UK.
00:02:05.300 So, I think it makes sense that they get more of a say.
00:02:12.520 Right, yeah.
00:02:13.360 That's my thing.
00:02:14.940 And I think that, like, the premise that men and women are equal is lying to women because we are not equal. 0.78
00:02:20.200 They do everything better objectively.
00:02:22.400 Right.
00:02:22.760 I was thinking cooking and then I looked up the top Michelin chefs. 0.99
00:02:25.720 I was like, damn it. 0.99
00:02:26.300 Oh, no. 1.00
00:02:27.640 Another one.
00:02:28.940 And I couldn't.
00:02:30.180 I, for months, have been trying to find one thing.
00:02:33.540 I've heard that women can detect facial, like, emotion better than men.
00:02:41.820 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:42.460 From a psychological perspective, there must be loads of things like that.
00:02:46.400 Yes, and so you would think we would dominate and make money off of that, but we don't. 0.67
00:02:51.600 The top salesmen are still men.
00:02:53.920 It's like, what am I supposed to?
00:02:56.500 Maybe we should just all go home and be stay-at-home wives then, after all. 0.99
00:03:00.080 Well, you know, society works better that way.
00:03:03.140 I'm not saying everyone should do that.
00:03:04.600 There's always been high IQ women in history that have been very influential and have done really great things.
00:03:09.280 Because I guess it's individualistic as well.
00:03:10.840 Obviously, you can make generalizations so generally, okay, maybe men are better at all of these other things.
00:03:15.820 But there's got to be individual women. 1.00
00:03:18.420 There have been individual women that are high IQ in history that men have even traveled for miles to, like, get wisdom from or whatever.
00:03:26.920 She's probably talking rubbish anyway, but there's always been high IQ women in history. 0.99
00:03:33.980 But the thing is, most of the women making a lot of money monetize beauty in some way. 1.00
00:03:37.700 Me and you are both in entertainment that's monetizing beauty.
00:03:40.640 It's a lot easier for me or you to blow up than it is for a guy. 0.97
00:03:43.920 Yeah, 100%.
00:03:44.440 And I know this because I've managed men and women.
00:03:46.720 Gosh, women are so much easier. 1.00
00:03:48.740 It's so much easier.
00:03:49.380 So it's like the industries that we dominate in aren't based on competence.
00:03:55.060 It's based off of beauty.
00:03:56.520 Right.
00:03:58.640 That is a hard pill to swallow, isn't it?
00:04:00.780 I don't say this.
00:04:01.680 But then do you think that that's because of the way that society is and because it is kind of a man's world? 0.50
00:04:07.200 Do you think that that's the reason?
00:04:08.780 I think if women could make it a woman's world, we would have built a world. 1.00
00:04:12.580 Right.
00:04:12.920 So you think that we would have done that by now?
00:04:14.580 Correct.
00:04:15.000 I think we've had thousands of years to build a world and we couldn't do it.
00:04:19.160 But I mean, thousands of years where a lot of people were oppressed, like a lot of women were a lot more oppressed.
00:04:23.460 It was a lot more difficult.
00:04:24.400 Well, how do you oppress someone?
00:04:27.080 I don't know.
00:04:27.820 You have to build a society first.
00:04:29.600 Right.
00:04:30.280 Which I don't think women were oppressed. 1.00
00:04:32.120 I think most women had more rights than most men. 1.00
00:04:35.020 Do you think?
00:04:35.820 Yeah.
00:04:36.100 Like throughout history, like ancient history.
00:04:39.080 Oh, yeah.
00:04:39.400 Oh, yeah.
00:04:40.600 Like men were sacrificed to the gods.
00:04:43.080 Men have literally been property. 0.94
00:04:44.680 Yeah.
00:04:44.980 Like men have been. 1.00
00:04:45.980 Yeah.
00:04:46.500 So have women, though.
00:04:48.320 Yeah.
00:04:48.920 But men are the ones in war.
00:04:51.240 Yeah.
00:04:51.500 But then a lot of women would get married off at like the age of 12, like in ancient Athens, for example. 1.00
00:04:56.040 And then, you know, to like an older, older guy.
00:04:58.060 And obviously that still happens in today's society as well.
00:05:00.380 Well, I think that was because the life expectancy was lower, though, wasn't it?
00:05:04.200 But what about the guys being old and then being married to like an older guy?
00:05:06.940 I mean, women like older men. 0.98
00:05:08.320 I'm not saying.
00:05:08.660 12 year old.
00:05:09.180 Oh, I'm not saying 12.
00:05:11.240 12 is a bit young.
00:05:12.300 But I think a lot of times we judge a different time period by what was normal at the time.
00:05:17.540 I think I think people will judge our time period and say that we were oppressing men.
00:05:23.300 Right.
00:05:23.660 I think they're.
00:05:24.460 Yes.
00:05:25.020 I think they're going to look back at this time period and think that the way that men are treated in the court system, the way that men are treated like the power that women have is oppressive towards men.
00:05:36.200 I think I agree.
00:05:37.040 I agree.
00:05:37.200 Yes.
00:05:37.520 But I also agree that women are still oppressed equally as much. 0.89
00:05:41.320 I would like to one.
00:05:43.100 Give me one way.
00:05:43.920 So, for example, like the violence against women, like, you know, a lot.
00:05:48.380 There's surely a lot more women murdered by men. 0.93
00:05:51.240 No.
00:05:51.700 And there's more men are men are more likely to be victims of a violent.
00:05:55.060 It's OK.
00:05:55.460 They trick you.
00:05:56.260 They put you in school and they say, here's all this stuff that's not true.
00:06:01.140 It's obviously as a woman, I don't know about you, but I don't feel safe walking home at night.
00:06:05.120 Like, do you?
00:06:05.880 King, do you feel safe walking home at night?
00:06:08.420 No.
00:06:09.880 Oh, really?
00:06:10.840 I think that me and you are safer than King.
00:06:13.100 Do you think?
00:06:13.940 Yeah, because you're a pretty girl.
00:06:16.440 And then does that not maybe make me more of a target?
00:06:18.860 Yeah, potentially, but I think men are more willing to help you than another.
00:06:23.700 I just saw a video of a guy getting stabbed on a train in front of everybody.
00:06:27.060 No, yeah, I just saw a guy getting shot, like, in New York, just on the street.
00:06:29.660 Correct.
00:06:30.020 And I think men are more likely to step in if it's a woman victim than if it's a man.
00:06:35.060 But then what if there's no one around, though, and it is just the individual?
00:06:38.200 Well, you know, then it's still, even with a man, that he's still the individual, too.
00:06:42.480 Yeah, yeah, I get that.
00:06:43.520 But I think there's systems in place that protect us, that men still have to do.
00:06:49.500 Right.
00:06:49.900 So how are we able to, like, if I'm in my apartment, well, I mean, now they have women police officers, 1.00
00:06:55.300 but it's still a small percentage.
00:06:56.860 So if I'm at home alone, I still have to call a man.
00:06:59.660 Yeah.
00:07:00.280 Right?
00:07:00.920 And so, if anything, we should be saying thank you, men.
00:07:04.040 No, yeah, I feel like we should definitely be grateful, like, 100%, of course.
00:07:07.180 And I'm not saying that men and women are exactly the same,
00:07:09.640 but I do feel like it's not just men that have the bad things happening to them.
00:07:15.140 I feel like it is also women. 0.98
00:07:16.740 Yeah.
00:07:16.920 But maybe just in different ways.
00:07:18.400 I just want to think of a way that is, like, worse for women. 1.00
00:07:22.660 I mean, I guess, obviously, what I mentioned before,
00:07:25.820 isn't it only, like, 1% of grape cases, like, actually go to court and prosecute?
00:07:31.620 So it's interesting, because me and you are going to look at this differently.
00:07:34.420 Yeah.
00:07:34.660 I'm going to say 1% of grape cases had enough evidence.
00:07:38.980 Yeah.
00:07:39.580 And I think that it's still,
00:07:42.940 we have to go off the premise that they're innocent until they're guilty.
00:07:46.060 Yeah, of course.
00:07:46.600 So I don't think we can equate and say an accusation is a crime.
00:07:50.560 But at the same time, I mean, I don't know about you,
00:07:52.860 but I don't think I have, like, many friends that haven't experienced some kind of essay.
00:07:58.820 Yeah.
00:07:59.260 So I think it's, like, very common.
00:08:00.920 And obviously, I know you say innocent until proven guilty.
00:08:03.440 Yes.
00:08:04.260 So it's difficult.
00:08:05.160 You know, I can't say that that's 100% true.
00:08:07.580 But the amount of women that I know that have had something like that happen to them 1.00
00:08:11.240 far outweighs.
00:08:12.160 What did they have happen?
00:08:13.880 Essay or grape.
00:08:14.920 Like, what?
00:08:15.720 Like, I have quite a lot, quite a few have been, like, you know, the date grape drug.
00:08:21.360 That has happened to a few.
00:08:23.600 How do they know they just didn't get too drunk?
00:08:25.920 How are they sure it was a date grape?
00:08:28.220 I think you can tell, can't you?
00:08:29.940 Like, you know, if you've been drunk however many times, you know the difference between
00:08:33.720 that and then completely.
00:08:34.820 So I'm not saying that it didn't happen.
00:08:37.260 But what I'm saying is this story, like, typically when I hear these stories, I don't hear a man
00:08:43.620 took me off the side of the road and graved me.
00:08:46.160 Well, a lot of the time it happens from, like, the boyfriend or someone close to them as
00:08:50.240 well.
00:08:50.620 I think that's a way that feminists have convinced women that we're, like, oppressed. 1.00
00:08:56.360 Right.
00:08:57.160 Is, like, because they'll say you were graped by a boyfriend and it's just, like, it's
00:09:03.620 too subjective.
00:09:04.740 Right, yeah.
00:09:05.500 Where it's, like, what's consent, what's not consent.
00:09:08.560 I mean, obviously until, I don't know, was it, like, the 70s or something?
00:09:11.560 I think it was still legal for men to, like, their wife, wasn't it? 0.99
00:09:15.920 Well.
00:09:16.900 So it's, like, I guess since that law's come in then, that's when it opens up.
00:09:20.560 Well, I think the problem is that it gives the woman too much power. 1.00
00:09:24.520 Because, essentially, when you're getting married, it really should be lifelong consent.
00:09:28.580 Yeah. 0.99
00:09:28.960 Like, I will have sex with you forever. 0.99
00:09:31.080 Yeah, I mean, for me personally, I don't have a problem with that. 0.99
00:09:33.380 Correct.
00:09:33.680 Or a husband.
00:09:34.200 We're both on the same.
00:09:35.880 He can get it, right?
00:09:37.440 Oh, he can get it, absolutely.
00:09:38.580 He's going to pull this clip someday and say, see, see?
00:09:42.900 But the problem is that immediately gives women, when we start, like, believing women
00:09:49.140 that it's saying this stuff, it gives the women all the power. 1.00
00:09:51.480 Yeah.
00:09:51.920 Because now she can go get a DNA test and say he did it.
00:09:54.700 And again, we are the worst versions of ourselves during a breakup.
00:09:57.920 Yeah.
00:09:58.220 So I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I don't think it's as common as feminists are 1.00
00:10:03.100 saying.
00:10:03.600 And I think a lot of women lie about it. 1.00
00:10:05.680 Right.
00:10:05.960 Because I never, if it's so common and men are these, like, evil people, I just don't
00:10:10.540 know why there's not more stories of being, like, pulled off the side of the road.
00:10:14.280 Yeah.
00:10:14.520 It's always like it was a boyfriend.
00:10:16.420 It was, I was, like, I was date-graped when, you know, you start to get the other side of
00:10:22.680 the story.
00:10:23.560 Yeah.
00:10:23.780 And I just think I have a hard time believing it until I get both sides.
00:10:26.780 Yeah.