JustPearlyThings - September 29, 2023


Feminist Left HUMILIATED During Piers Morgan Debate

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Piers Morgan Pearl Emily Ratajkowski Britney Spears Madonna Nemo
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12 minutes

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2,471

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Nima Yamini is the author of How to Not Be a Bitch, a new book about how to not be a bitch, published by DNG Books. She was also on one of the craziest episodes of "Pierce Morgan" where half the panel walked off.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to another episode of
00:00:05.520 Pearl Daily where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Today I have a special
00:00:12.180 guest on the show. You were actually on one of our craziest episodes where I think half the panel
00:00:18.340 walked off. Welcome to the show Nemo. Why don't you introduce yourself to the people?
00:00:24.500 Thank you so much Pearl. It's great to be here. I feel like I'm coming back home.
00:00:27.680 You know, that was a crazy night. My name is Nima Yamini. I'm the author of a new book called
00:00:35.780 How to Not Be a Bitch, published by DNG. And yeah, just thrilled to be here. Again, 0.94
00:00:45.140 thank you for having me. Yeah, thank you for coming. Now, you know, I have to, this is my,
00:00:51.300 this is going to be my standard question to the men that come on the show. You know,
00:00:56.000 I have a women shouldn't vote t-shirt. Yeah. Would you wear a women shouldn't vote t-shirt in public? 0.99
00:01:04.380 Yeah. That's all right. Answer honestly. Yeah, that women shouldn't vote. 1.00
00:01:11.600 Answer honestly. Be honest. It's all right if it's a no. I mean, if I was a bachelor,
00:01:15.780 it would be hard for me because, you know, all the women were, you know, not voting. They'd be 0.99
00:01:21.240 angrier and I'd be much harder to get a blow job. Well, guys, if you want to wear the women 1.00
00:01:28.180 should vote t-shirt, you know, get yourself a women should vote t-shirt. Really. I can't think 0.71
00:01:32.740 of a, can you think of a faster way for women to come up to you? Get yourself a women should 1.00
00:01:39.660 vote t-shirt. The link is in the description. So, all right guys, last night I went on another
00:01:46.240 episode of Pierce Morgan. Now, a lot of you thought, a lot of you, I saw your comments,
00:01:50.340 Pearl will never get invited back. Pearl is never going to go back on Pierce Morgan after they ambushed 0.99
00:01:57.760 me. But I'm back and I'm better, baby. So I went on Pierce Morgan last night and, um, they had me on
00:02:06.160 with a traditional housewife and a feminist. You know, can you, can you imagine how that went? 1.00
00:02:12.420 Yeah. Yeah. I can already tell how that, that's going. You know, so what do you, do you think
00:02:18.020 that traditional housewives are praised by feminists typically? You know, I think, I think 0.71
00:02:25.460 that there's this like backwardness, uh, where like my wife, for example, is, is actually a liberal.
00:02:31.740 She's a college graduate. We live in Germany and she likes being a housewife. She takes pride in it. 0.98
00:02:36.740 I think, I think it's empowering for a woman to be at home. And many women are happy being at home.
00:02:42.040 Doesn't mean she's not a feminist. I think you're a great example of a feminist. Oh yeah. Of a real 1.00
00:02:47.480 feminist. You know what I mean? Like a real feminist, not a toxic feminist. Yeah. You know what I mean? 1.00
00:02:52.580 Like, like a real, like a strong woman, a good woman. But I think a lot of these women, they're out of 1.00
00:02:57.820 their mind. Do you think, I find though that typical, like the liberal chicks, um, I don't think
00:03:03.080 they really celebrate women that stay home with the kids. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's a disorder, man. 1.00
00:03:09.960 Like, I don't know, like who would they want raising their kids? The government? The schools? Like, I mean,
00:03:16.600 that's what they're doing now, you know? Yeah. But you do see an uptick in, um, people that are
00:03:20.840 homeschooling their kids, which I do think is encouraging, right? But, um, so let's, let's go to
00:03:26.600 Pierce Morgan and see what they said. How, I don't know. How has the feminist movement of the last few 0.99
00:03:33.000 decades, how has it gone for you? I mean, when you look at it and see how women have progressed, 0.99
00:03:39.640 do you think it's been largely a force for good? Or do you think, as the trad wives do, that perhaps 1.00
00:03:45.320 we've lost that sense of gender rules, for want of a better phrase, which actually worked very well for
00:03:50.440 many people? Well, I mean, I mean, we've seen families disappear. You know, I saw a study the
00:03:55.480 other day that said only 25% of, I mean, this is an American staff and American households have
00:04:00.680 families. So, um, I guess there's positives and there's negatives, but it's like, at what cost?
00:04:05.800 You know, like 85, um, 150 years ago, the average woman had seven kids, 85% of people were married.
00:04:12.680 I mean, you know, there's also much higher infant mortality and women died very young.
00:04:17.240 And, you know, I mean, women were more depressed than ever before. We're on antidepressants.
00:04:23.080 Women over the age of 45 are the least happy demographic. 0.91
00:04:25.720 There are a lot of very complex reasons for that.
00:04:29.560 And the issue you have is women like Emily Ratajkowski, you know, marriage, again, 1.00
00:04:33.080 I've said this before, marriage isn't marriage anymore. The average marriage is seven years.
00:04:36.520 We have things like no fault divorce, leave if you're unhappy.
00:04:39.400 So what does that mean, marriage isn't marriage anymore? Because there have been so
00:04:42.840 many marriages over the course of history where people have been very unhappy, either the man
00:04:46.760 or the woman has been very unhappy, and they've been forced basically to stay in a marriage.
00:04:50.280 It could have been an abusive marriage. It could have been a mostly abusive marriage. 1.00
00:04:52.760 And that would, you know, we have one life. Why would you spend it with someone who doesn't make you happy?
00:04:56.760 Marriage was about duty. And this is the problem we have with women. Like, women, 1.00
00:05:00.360 men tend to be better people than us. Yeah, they really do. They tend to, 0.78
00:05:04.280 they tend to do the right thing. I mean, there's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word,
00:05:12.200 right? Or a woman of her word. Because men will actually stick things out. Women, 0.98
00:05:16.760 when she gets hard, we just leave. And you're proving my point. What was your first answer?
00:05:23.080 My happiness, right? Of course. Everyone deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to be loved.
00:05:27.320 A family doesn't work when it's about you. It's supposed to be about your kids. Well,
00:05:31.000 and that's the problem. It's supposed to be about everyone. No, no, no. There's a balance
00:05:35.080 and a compromise in relationships. Am I allowed to talk now? Okay, go ahead, go ahead. Look,
00:05:40.040 I think relationships are about balance. They're about compromise. They're about knowing,
00:05:43.720 understanding yourself, learning to, you know, know and understand another person. Eventually,
00:05:47.640 potentially, if you want to, bringing children into the world and teaching them how to do that as well.
00:05:51.480 Teaching them to balance a sense of their own identity with the love that they have for another
00:05:55.880 person. And you know, for example, I know an older woman, actually, is a friend of our family,
00:06:00.440 who got divorced at about 60. She had, you know, this lovely family. They were together since they
00:06:04.760 were 18. And she said, I got to a point after I'd stopped being a mother, and you know, I was just
00:06:09.160 kind of getting on, I realized I'd lost my sense of who I was. And I didn't really feel like I knew who
00:06:14.200 I was anymore, because I'd always just been a wife and a mother. And I wanted to go out and explore
00:06:18.040 that. And I think that's fantastic. Good for her. What is traditionalism?
00:06:22.280 I don't know what you think traditionalism is. I would say a modern
00:06:25.240 mentality is me before the family. I would say traditional, traditionalism is the family before
00:06:31.320 me, especially in women. And so, and so, and so what I actually, it's interesting, you said 60 year
00:06:36.120 olds, because, you know, I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly in the past year and a half.
00:06:41.080 I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships. And what I find is the 60 year
00:06:45.720 olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray. You know, there's a reason we're in this
00:06:52.200 mess, right? A lot of those women had the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly 1.00
00:06:57.000 the mentality that you're talking about. Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense
00:07:01.480 of identity with compromise and relationship with someone else. No, no, it's myself before the marriage.
00:07:05.000 But that's, again, you know, I think there's an interesting point here actually. And it's really unfortunate
00:07:07.160 because I would say the women of our generation really are suffering because of the advice of the
00:07:11.960 women of the past. There's an interesting point here, right, which is that we do live in a very
00:07:14.840 individualistic society. And we're all told, actually, I think a lot of the time in our relationships as well,
00:07:20.200 you have to be a certain way if you want to receive love. You have to abide by these norms.
00:07:24.760 You have to be a certain level of attractiveness. You have to earn a certain amount of money.
00:07:28.120 It's all about you. And that's not what love is.
00:07:30.520 So what did you think of the clip? I think you made some good points.
00:07:34.760 Yeah, I think you made some good points. What happened after that? Like what,
00:07:40.680 obviously you two aren't best friends, right? Well, I mean, everyone argues and just goes home.
00:07:47.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Especially when you like do this a lot, like you just kind of,
00:07:52.120 you know, even the first girl I went on with Pierce Morgan, like I say hi to her every time I see her,
00:07:57.480 you know. But, you know, it's interesting because I listen carefully to like the words that they say
00:08:04.280 and how she was saying love. I needed to know who I was. And like she was talking about the 60 year old
00:08:12.360 woman who divorced her husband because she felt like she lost her sense of self.
00:08:17.000 Yeah. And I just thought to myself, you know, aren't you, isn't your identity supposed to be in your family?
00:08:23.480 Yeah. And I don't know what I find is those women 1.00
00:08:28.920 just kind of listen to feminists for too long and these like this me, me, me culture. And so, you know, 1.00
00:08:35.240 they hit 60 and they think the grass is greener on the other side. I don't know what the hell you
00:08:39.560 think is on the other side of a divorce that's 60. Yeah. Yeah. Pretty lonely, man. Getting old and lonely is scary.
00:08:46.600 Yeah. And then she she talked about receiving love and she said you shouldn't have to be a
00:08:53.400 certain way to receive love. And I thought this was interesting because men know that they have to
00:08:58.920 be somebody in order to get into a relationship. Right. You can't you can't just be a loser and
00:09:04.200 receive love. Like, in my opinion, the only people that deserve love are children. And then after that, 0.84
00:09:10.520 it's really the type of person you are in the character you have. Yeah. Yeah. I think I think you nailed it.
00:09:16.040 Yeah. What do you what do you think about a woman getting divorced at 60 because she needs to figure 0.99
00:09:21.960 out who she is? Does she still have kids at home? No, I think they're gone. It's sad because, you know,
00:09:30.280 being alone when you get old, if you get sick and no one's there, that's horrifying to get sick alone
00:09:37.480 already. Yeah. But imagine being sick and not having someone there with you at the hospital
00:09:42.520 and then coming home empty. That's really scary. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think that's that's hard.
00:09:52.040 Yeah. Yeah. That's it. And that's what aging, aging ain't for the weak hearted.
00:09:56.440 Man, Asian, Asian is undefeated, you know, and as you get older and older and and you see 1.00
00:10:03.480 other friends that are in their 60s and they have kids, grandkids, kids that love them.
00:10:08.440 You know, you can go out to Instagram pictures all day you want. Right. But when you come home,
00:10:14.520 you know, you're alone. That's that's really horrifying.
00:10:17.320 Well, and the average person lives to be, I think, 77. But you could live to be 90. You know,
00:10:23.960 so what does a woman's life look like? Because women tend to live longer than men. So what does 0.99
00:10:27.880 a woman's life look like? She gets divorced at 60. What if she lives to be 90? 40 years in your 1.00
00:10:35.160 elderly years as a chick? Yeah. Oh, good God. What do you think is on the other side of that? And it's
00:10:40.680 funny. I have an aunt that got married pretty like later in life. And I'm talking like I think
00:10:46.360 she was in her 60s. And she married a guy that was like 10 years older than her. This is an exception.
00:10:51.400 It's not the rule. But even he was talking about how at like the nursing homes or whatever that he
00:10:56.360 had like four women did she pick from and he picked her. Oh, man.
00:11:00.280 Do you know what I mean? So these women, because a lot of them, it was funny, my grandma, she passed 0.97
00:11:05.720 away. But before she died, my grandpa died like 15 years before her. And when I was in high school,
00:11:11.320 I went to, she took me to something with all her like friends, right? And it was so funny because
00:11:18.200 listening to them talking about dating, it sounded like teenagers. You know what I mean? Where I was
00:11:23.400 like, why are they like, I'm like, but it was kind of the same stuff where it's like, there's only a
00:11:28.360 couple guys that go around. They date a guy for like one of them was talking about a guy she was 0.98
00:11:32.840 dating. She's like, yeah, he died. Yeah. So it's like, what do you think is on the other side of
00:11:37.480 this? Yeah. It's a good point. Yeah. You know, you know, when you're in your 20s and 30s, it's like
00:11:44.280 every year invincible. You think it's like life goes on forever. But in reality, you know, you do get
00:11:50.280 older. Yeah. Like age is undefeated. It's really interesting. I like to look at like case studies of
00:11:57.240 people like that were kind of in the spotlight and the media. And it's interesting to see like
00:12:02.520 some of the younger celebrity women kind of age out like Madonna, Britney Spears. Well, when you see
00:12:10.600 like the level of attention they got and they kind of went crazy when they went older, it's like the
00:12:15.720 women of my generation, oh my, like with Instagram, it's going to be interesting to see like where we are 1.00
00:12:23.800 in 20 years. Yeah.