Feminist Left HUMILIATED During Piers Morgan Debate
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Summary
Nima Yamini is the author of How to Not Be a Bitch, a new book about how to not be a bitch, published by DNG Books. She was also on one of the craziest episodes of "Pierce Morgan" where half the panel walked off.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to another episode of
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Pearl Daily where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Today I have a special
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guest on the show. You were actually on one of our craziest episodes where I think half the panel
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walked off. Welcome to the show Nemo. Why don't you introduce yourself to the people?
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Thank you so much Pearl. It's great to be here. I feel like I'm coming back home.
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You know, that was a crazy night. My name is Nima Yamini. I'm the author of a new book called
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How to Not Be a Bitch, published by DNG. And yeah, just thrilled to be here. Again,
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thank you for having me. Yeah, thank you for coming. Now, you know, I have to, this is my,
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this is going to be my standard question to the men that come on the show. You know,
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I have a women shouldn't vote t-shirt. Yeah. Would you wear a women shouldn't vote t-shirt in public?
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Yeah. That's all right. Answer honestly. Yeah, that women shouldn't vote.
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Answer honestly. Be honest. It's all right if it's a no. I mean, if I was a bachelor,
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it would be hard for me because, you know, all the women were, you know, not voting. They'd be
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angrier and I'd be much harder to get a blow job. Well, guys, if you want to wear the women
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should vote t-shirt, you know, get yourself a women should vote t-shirt. Really. I can't think
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of a, can you think of a faster way for women to come up to you? Get yourself a women should
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vote t-shirt. The link is in the description. So, all right guys, last night I went on another
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episode of Pierce Morgan. Now, a lot of you thought, a lot of you, I saw your comments,
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Pearl will never get invited back. Pearl is never going to go back on Pierce Morgan after they ambushed
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me. But I'm back and I'm better, baby. So I went on Pierce Morgan last night and, um, they had me on
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with a traditional housewife and a feminist. You know, can you, can you imagine how that went?
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Yeah. Yeah. I can already tell how that, that's going. You know, so what do you, do you think
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that traditional housewives are praised by feminists typically? You know, I think, I think
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that there's this like backwardness, uh, where like my wife, for example, is, is actually a liberal.
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She's a college graduate. We live in Germany and she likes being a housewife. She takes pride in it.
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I think, I think it's empowering for a woman to be at home. And many women are happy being at home.
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Doesn't mean she's not a feminist. I think you're a great example of a feminist. Oh yeah. Of a real
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feminist. You know what I mean? Like a real feminist, not a toxic feminist. Yeah. You know what I mean?
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Like, like a real, like a strong woman, a good woman. But I think a lot of these women, they're out of
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their mind. Do you think, I find though that typical, like the liberal chicks, um, I don't think
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they really celebrate women that stay home with the kids. Yeah. I mean, it's, it's a disorder, man.
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Like, I don't know, like who would they want raising their kids? The government? The schools? Like, I mean,
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that's what they're doing now, you know? Yeah. But you do see an uptick in, um, people that are
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homeschooling their kids, which I do think is encouraging, right? But, um, so let's, let's go to
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Pierce Morgan and see what they said. How, I don't know. How has the feminist movement of the last few
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decades, how has it gone for you? I mean, when you look at it and see how women have progressed,
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do you think it's been largely a force for good? Or do you think, as the trad wives do, that perhaps
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we've lost that sense of gender rules, for want of a better phrase, which actually worked very well for
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many people? Well, I mean, I mean, we've seen families disappear. You know, I saw a study the
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other day that said only 25% of, I mean, this is an American staff and American households have
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families. So, um, I guess there's positives and there's negatives, but it's like, at what cost?
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You know, like 85, um, 150 years ago, the average woman had seven kids, 85% of people were married.
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I mean, you know, there's also much higher infant mortality and women died very young.
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And, you know, I mean, women were more depressed than ever before. We're on antidepressants.
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Women over the age of 45 are the least happy demographic.
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There are a lot of very complex reasons for that.
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And the issue you have is women like Emily Ratajkowski, you know, marriage, again,
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I've said this before, marriage isn't marriage anymore. The average marriage is seven years.
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We have things like no fault divorce, leave if you're unhappy.
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So what does that mean, marriage isn't marriage anymore? Because there have been so
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many marriages over the course of history where people have been very unhappy, either the man
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or the woman has been very unhappy, and they've been forced basically to stay in a marriage.
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It could have been an abusive marriage. It could have been a mostly abusive marriage.
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And that would, you know, we have one life. Why would you spend it with someone who doesn't make you happy?
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Marriage was about duty. And this is the problem we have with women. Like, women,
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men tend to be better people than us. Yeah, they really do. They tend to,
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they tend to do the right thing. I mean, there's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word,
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right? Or a woman of her word. Because men will actually stick things out. Women,
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when she gets hard, we just leave. And you're proving my point. What was your first answer?
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My happiness, right? Of course. Everyone deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to be loved.
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A family doesn't work when it's about you. It's supposed to be about your kids. Well,
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and that's the problem. It's supposed to be about everyone. No, no, no. There's a balance
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and a compromise in relationships. Am I allowed to talk now? Okay, go ahead, go ahead. Look,
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I think relationships are about balance. They're about compromise. They're about knowing,
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understanding yourself, learning to, you know, know and understand another person. Eventually,
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potentially, if you want to, bringing children into the world and teaching them how to do that as well.
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Teaching them to balance a sense of their own identity with the love that they have for another
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person. And you know, for example, I know an older woman, actually, is a friend of our family,
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who got divorced at about 60. She had, you know, this lovely family. They were together since they
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were 18. And she said, I got to a point after I'd stopped being a mother, and you know, I was just
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kind of getting on, I realized I'd lost my sense of who I was. And I didn't really feel like I knew who
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I was anymore, because I'd always just been a wife and a mother. And I wanted to go out and explore
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that. And I think that's fantastic. Good for her. What is traditionalism?
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I don't know what you think traditionalism is. I would say a modern
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mentality is me before the family. I would say traditional, traditionalism is the family before
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me, especially in women. And so, and so, and so what I actually, it's interesting, you said 60 year
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olds, because, you know, I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly in the past year and a half.
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I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships. And what I find is the 60 year
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olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray. You know, there's a reason we're in this
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mess, right? A lot of those women had the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly
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the mentality that you're talking about. Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense
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of identity with compromise and relationship with someone else. No, no, it's myself before the marriage.
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But that's, again, you know, I think there's an interesting point here actually. And it's really unfortunate
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because I would say the women of our generation really are suffering because of the advice of the
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women of the past. There's an interesting point here, right, which is that we do live in a very
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individualistic society. And we're all told, actually, I think a lot of the time in our relationships as well,
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you have to be a certain way if you want to receive love. You have to abide by these norms.
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You have to be a certain level of attractiveness. You have to earn a certain amount of money.
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It's all about you. And that's not what love is.
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So what did you think of the clip? I think you made some good points.
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Yeah, I think you made some good points. What happened after that? Like what,
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obviously you two aren't best friends, right? Well, I mean, everyone argues and just goes home.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. Especially when you like do this a lot, like you just kind of,
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you know, even the first girl I went on with Pierce Morgan, like I say hi to her every time I see her,
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you know. But, you know, it's interesting because I listen carefully to like the words that they say
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and how she was saying love. I needed to know who I was. And like she was talking about the 60 year old
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woman who divorced her husband because she felt like she lost her sense of self.
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Yeah. And I just thought to myself, you know, aren't you, isn't your identity supposed to be in your family?
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Yeah. And I don't know what I find is those women
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just kind of listen to feminists for too long and these like this me, me, me culture. And so, you know,
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they hit 60 and they think the grass is greener on the other side. I don't know what the hell you
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think is on the other side of a divorce that's 60. Yeah. Yeah. Pretty lonely, man. Getting old and lonely is scary.
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Yeah. And then she she talked about receiving love and she said you shouldn't have to be a
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certain way to receive love. And I thought this was interesting because men know that they have to
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be somebody in order to get into a relationship. Right. You can't you can't just be a loser and
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receive love. Like, in my opinion, the only people that deserve love are children. And then after that,
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it's really the type of person you are in the character you have. Yeah. Yeah. I think I think you nailed it.
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Yeah. What do you what do you think about a woman getting divorced at 60 because she needs to figure
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out who she is? Does she still have kids at home? No, I think they're gone. It's sad because, you know,
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being alone when you get old, if you get sick and no one's there, that's horrifying to get sick alone
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already. Yeah. But imagine being sick and not having someone there with you at the hospital
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and then coming home empty. That's really scary. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think that's that's hard.
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Yeah. Yeah. That's it. And that's what aging, aging ain't for the weak hearted.
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Man, Asian, Asian is undefeated, you know, and as you get older and older and and you see
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other friends that are in their 60s and they have kids, grandkids, kids that love them.
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You know, you can go out to Instagram pictures all day you want. Right. But when you come home,
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you know, you're alone. That's that's really horrifying.
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Well, and the average person lives to be, I think, 77. But you could live to be 90. You know,
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so what does a woman's life look like? Because women tend to live longer than men. So what does
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a woman's life look like? She gets divorced at 60. What if she lives to be 90? 40 years in your
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elderly years as a chick? Yeah. Oh, good God. What do you think is on the other side of that? And it's
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funny. I have an aunt that got married pretty like later in life. And I'm talking like I think
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she was in her 60s. And she married a guy that was like 10 years older than her. This is an exception.
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It's not the rule. But even he was talking about how at like the nursing homes or whatever that he
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had like four women did she pick from and he picked her. Oh, man.
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Do you know what I mean? So these women, because a lot of them, it was funny, my grandma, she passed
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away. But before she died, my grandpa died like 15 years before her. And when I was in high school,
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I went to, she took me to something with all her like friends, right? And it was so funny because
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listening to them talking about dating, it sounded like teenagers. You know what I mean? Where I was
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like, why are they like, I'm like, but it was kind of the same stuff where it's like, there's only a
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couple guys that go around. They date a guy for like one of them was talking about a guy she was
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dating. She's like, yeah, he died. Yeah. So it's like, what do you think is on the other side of
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this? Yeah. It's a good point. Yeah. You know, you know, when you're in your 20s and 30s, it's like
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every year invincible. You think it's like life goes on forever. But in reality, you know, you do get
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older. Yeah. Like age is undefeated. It's really interesting. I like to look at like case studies of
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people like that were kind of in the spotlight and the media. And it's interesting to see like
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some of the younger celebrity women kind of age out like Madonna, Britney Spears. Well, when you see
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like the level of attention they got and they kind of went crazy when they went older, it's like the
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women of my generation, oh my, like with Instagram, it's going to be interesting to see like where we are