JustPearlyThings - Feminist Says She NEEDS More Sexual Experience

00:00:00.000 And I'm great with kids

00:00:02.000 I'm fantastic

00:00:04.000 Really?

00:00:06.000 Yeah, that shouldn't affect how you are

00:00:08.000 Yeah, but it affects how you are in a relationship

00:00:10.000 Because you bring that damage into future relationships

00:00:12.000 But I think the damage that you've got is your responsibility to go away and heal from it

00:00:18.000 I agree with you, but what's better, a girl that's not damaged or a girl that is?

00:00:24.000 I do understand what you're saying

00:00:26.000 But say if you got married and then a guy damaged you within that marriage

00:00:31.000 Even though you've only slept with that person, you would still be damaged

00:00:34.000 Right, but there are problems, not other people's problems

00:00:38.000 And the issue is you're bringing other people's problems into your relationship

00:00:42.000 Which is then why you would need to go away and work on yourself

00:00:45.000 No, which is why you should have less partners before you get married 1.00

00:00:49.000 Which is why we should try to remain as pure as possible before we get married

00:00:53.000 Like why would you want more experience before getting married?

00:00:57.000 I do, I do

00:00:58.000 Like what value does that bring to a husband? 0.99

00:01:00.000 I've just thought, you know like that term when you're little

00:01:03.000 Oh you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get your prince 1.00

00:01:06.000 I think that's a bad saying, I think that's very misleading

00:01:08.000 But that's what we've grown up on though

00:01:10.000 So that's when I'm saying as girls

00:01:13.000 I personally wasn't told by anyone

00:01:16.000 Oh if you sleep with a lot of people your value as a woman is going to go down 1.00

00:01:19.000 If I was told that

00:01:21.000 Do you think that a father figure has an important role in that?

00:01:24.000 To be fair, yeah actually maybe

00:01:26.000 Do you think so?

00:01:27.000 But then my mum didn't say that either

00:01:29.000 But women, well we know this on some level 1.00

00:01:31.000 Because the first thing you do when you don't like a girl is you call her a whore 0.99

00:01:34.000 Maybe not you personally, but you know women do that 1.00

00:01:37.000 So I think we know on some level that purity is important to men

00:01:41.000 I don't think when you're 16, 17 though

00:01:43.000 I don't think you think about that at all

00:01:45.000 At all

00:01:46.000 Did you guys have no guidance from your parents?

00:01:49.000 No, my mum didn't talk about sex with me at all

00:01:52.000 Like even I don't

00:01:53.000 Was your dad in your life?

00:01:54.000 Yeah, yeah, both parents

00:01:55.000 And they never spoke to you about sex ever?

00:01:57.000 No, never

00:01:58.000 Maybe they should

00:01:59.000 I do think they should have definitely

00:02:01.000 Because I'm not saying that I would go back and change things

00:02:06.000 Because I do feel like even through break-ups and bad break-ups

00:02:10.000 You out from the other side of the end of the tunnel

00:02:13.000 You become a better person anyway

00:02:14.000 Because you've

00:02:15.000 I feel like

00:02:16.000 I think you become a worse person

00:02:18.000 As a human

00:02:20.000 Being a human on the planet

00:02:22.000 Having a human experience

00:02:23.000 They say that to have a full experience as a human

00:02:26.000 You have to go through ups and downs

00:02:28.000 That's not just in relationships

00:02:29.000 That's experiences in general

00:02:31.000 Yeah, so you should go through them with your husband

00:02:33.000 But why?

00:02:34.000 True

00:02:35.000 I don't get that

00:02:36.000 But I would rather go through

00:02:38.000 I'm not on about just relationships

00:02:39.000 But as an experience

00:02:40.000 I would rather go through that on my own

00:02:42.000 So then when I'm with my husband

00:02:44.000 I've already learnt all of that

00:02:45.000 It's not good enough, bro

00:02:46.000 It's not good enough

00:02:47.000 No, no, I agree with you, Ashley

00:02:48.000 But why would you not want to know

00:02:50.000 Listen, let's agree on this

00:02:51.000 Let me land, let me land

00:02:52.000 Go on, go on

00:02:53.000 As an individual on the planet

00:02:55.000 As an individual going through your own life

00:02:57.000 Surely you would want to know everything about yourself

00:02:59.000 Everything that triggers you

00:03:01.000 Everything that you've learnt from and all of that

00:03:03.000 And then have a husband that you can build even more on

00:03:06.000 Because you're not going to go wrong

00:03:07.000 Because why would you want to be in a marriage not knowing yourself?

00:03:09.000 Yeah, 100%

00:03:10.000 Like why would you want to do that?

00:03:12.000 Yeah, but from the dawn of time

00:03:13.000 Like from the ancient times 0.96

00:03:14.000 Girls have gotten married at a young age

00:03:16.000 I don't agree with that though

00:03:18.000 They didn't get married at 30

00:03:20.000 Girls got married at 16, 17, 18

00:03:21.000 Probably younger

00:03:22.000 That's just something that just happened

00:03:23.000 Like things happen

00:03:24.000 No, it's from the whole of

00:03:25.000 Like from ages ago

00:03:26.000 It's a new thing to get married at 32, 32, 33

00:03:28.000 But maybe sometimes they didn't actually have a choice

00:03:30.000 Yeah, but it's not that

00:03:31.000 But it was like it was a tradition

00:03:33.000 Sorry about that

00:03:34.000 Tradition to get married at 18, 60, 70

00:03:36.000 A tradition

00:03:37.000 Tradition for everyone across the world

00:03:38.000 Even England

00:03:39.000 But why do we have to follow it?

00:03:40.000 Because it's in our DNA

00:03:42.000 No, okay, okay, I'll give you

00:03:43.000 Because we look at what works

00:03:45.000 And like let's look at the outcomes

00:03:47.000 Are women happier waiting to get married? 1.00

00:03:49.000 Right?

00:03:50.000 The average age of first marriage is 31

00:03:52.000 A hundred years ago

00:03:53.000 It was around 20, 21

00:03:54.000 Something like that

00:03:55.000 And women are more on antidepressants 1.00

00:03:57.000 We're more depressed than ever

00:03:59.000 We're on what?

00:04:00.000 Tinder?

00:04:01.000 Average body count is like what?

00:04:02.000 8, 10

00:04:03.000 I genuinely think it's probably higher than that

00:04:06.000 If we're being honest

00:04:07.000 You know

00:04:08.000 We're not happy

00:04:10.000 Women are not happy waiting to get married 1.00

00:04:12.000 And then getting married

00:04:13.000 I think happiness is a choice though

00:04:15.000 I think

00:04:16.000 I do think happiness is a choice

00:04:17.000 But I do think we can look at outcomes

00:04:19.000 Yeah

00:04:20.000 I completely understand where you're coming from

00:04:22.000 But again

00:04:23.000 I think it's so important to take the time away

00:04:25.000 And focus on yourself

00:04:26.000 Ashton

00:04:27.000 Go on

00:04:28.000 What do you think the difference between

00:04:29.000 Happiness for a woman is 0.98

00:04:30.000 And happiness for a man is?

00:04:32.000 What do you think?

00:04:33.000 Freedom

00:04:35.000 Be more

00:04:36.000 Break it down for me

00:04:37.000 Let's say

00:04:38.000 What's the difference between

00:04:39.000 The happiness for a man

00:04:41.000 And happiness for a woman?

00:04:42.000 What's the difference?

00:04:44.000 I think when you're both happy

00:04:46.000 I think that's when you can be completely happy

00:04:48.000 When you bring happiness for each other

00:04:49.000 When you bring happiness for each other

00:04:50.000 For a woman

00:04:51.000 What makes a woman happy? 1.00

00:04:52.000 Like happy

00:04:53.000 Like proper happy and fulfilled

00:04:54.000 And what makes a man happy and fulfilled?

00:04:56.000 I think it's personal preference

00:04:57.000 Yeah

00:04:58.000 Personal preference 100%

00:04:59.000 Everyone is different

00:05:00.000 Everyone is different

00:05:01.000 Everyone is different

00:05:02.000 But to generalise it

00:05:03.000 I think for a man

00:05:04.000 It's having a woman who 1.00

00:05:06.000 This is going to sound so politically wrong

00:05:09.000 But I know that guys can cheat and be and still love someone

00:05:13.000 Yeah

00:05:14.000 And then if they were to then go back to that woman 0.98

00:05:16.000 And that woman takes them back 1.00

00:05:18.000 It would give him status

00:05:19.000 Because look how much my woman loves me 0.99

00:05:21.000 She's taking me back 0.57

00:05:22.000 He won't tell no one

00:05:23.000 Why doesn't he tell anyone? 1.00

00:05:24.000 That's a bitch boy 1.00

00:05:25.000 Why would he tell anyone? 1.00

00:05:26.000 What do you mean?

00:05:27.000 That's not status bro

00:05:28.000 I think she's saying it's a thought process

00:05:29.000 That's not status

00:05:30.000 What do you mean?

00:05:31.000 Like boasting about

00:05:32.000 His girl taking them back

00:05:33.000 This and that

00:05:34.000 But some guys do do that though

00:05:35.000 That's not status

00:05:36.000 I've seen a podcast with them having this whole conversation

00:05:38.000 I'm not saying just specifically that

00:05:40.000 That's not what I'm saying

00:05:41.000 What makes a woman happy? 1.00

00:05:42.000 I think being cared for

00:05:44.000 Provided for

00:05:45.000 Looked after

00:05:46.000 Respected

00:05:47.000 Recognised

00:05:48.000 That's very good

00:05:49.000 That's important

00:05:50.000 Also you don't need a man 1.00

00:05:51.000 Yes you do

00:05:52.000 Yes you do

00:05:53.000 Yes you do

00:05:54.000 But not the whole time though

00:05:56.000 The only reason

00:05:57.000 We have a society where women are delusional enough to think that we can't live without men 1.00

00:06:02.000 No offence

00:06:03.000 Because what do you do when your car breaks down?

00:06:05.000 You go to a man 1.00

00:06:06.000 What do you do?

00:06:07.000 Who built this building?

00:06:08.000 A man

00:06:09.000 All of society

00:06:10.000 No not really

00:06:11.000 All of the industries that run society are primarily

00:06:13.000 Why can't a woman build? 1.00

00:06:14.000 I mean it's not that they can't

00:06:15.000 We don't and we won't

00:06:16.000 We refuse to do hard jobs

00:06:17.000 All the hardest jobs in society

00:06:18.000 I know not the people that

00:06:19.000 The women that build 1.00

00:06:20.000 No not really

00:06:21.000 Even if you look at them

00:06:22.000 And I've talked to

00:06:23.000 Like I do interviews sometimes with people in these industries

00:06:26.000 Typically the women are the ones waving the flags on the construction sites 1.00

00:06:31.000 Or they're like in the middle management

00:06:33.000 Like most women are out there building 1.00

00:06:35.000 And if they're doing it

00:06:36.000 Come on they're bad at it

00:06:37.000 Let's just call spade a spade

00:06:38.000 Like you're not as good at like doing manual labor as a man 0.91

00:06:43.000 You can't be

00:06:44.000 We're not as strong as them

00:06:45.000 And so

00:06:46.000 Yeah we're not as strong as men

00:06:47.000 I completely agree

00:06:48.000 If there is a blackout tomorrow

00:06:50.000 Right if there is a blackout tomorrow

00:06:52.000 You would run to a guy

00:06:53.000 Because you would need a guy to protect you

00:06:55.000 They did a study right

00:06:56.000 Or not a study

00:06:57.000 A TV show

00:06:58.000 Where they put men and women on an island 1.00

00:07:00.000 And said survive go

00:07:01.000 The women had to be rescued in two days

00:07:03.000 And in like five days the men were filtering water

00:07:06.000 Hunting food

00:07:07.000 Like they had a whole system built

00:07:08.000 I think that's just how we're both differently built though

00:07:10.000 Right but that's what I'm saying

00:07:11.000 Like women 0.99

00:07:12.000 Like we're in a society where we have like propped up women 1.00

00:07:14.000 To think that we can live without men 1.00

00:07:16.000 When everything we do depends on men 0.94

00:07:17.000 But then they need us women 0.91

00:07:19.000 To be here

00:07:20.000 No not really because like

00:07:22.000 Okay let's say reproduction is equal

00:07:24.000 Right we can't say

00:07:26.000 Because we need their sperm 0.99

00:07:27.000 They need our egg 0.67

00:07:28.000 So we can't take more credit for reproduction

00:07:30.000 Like that's equal

00:07:31.000 But when it comes to

00:07:32.000 A man can't grow a baby though 1.00

00:07:33.000 Whereas a woman can't 1.00

00:07:34.000 Okay but what

00:07:35.000 Okay if they build artificial wombs tomorrow 1.00

00:07:37.000 Then what?

00:07:38.000 Because they're already developing

00:07:39.000 I think they're already doing that you know

00:07:40.000 Yeah yeah yeah 0.97

00:07:41.000 I think they're already doing like the pods and shit

00:07:42.000 Yeah yeah yeah yeah 0.98

00:07:43.000 Have you seen that?

00:07:44.000 So they do that tomorrow then what?

00:07:46.000 Then what?

00:07:47.000 Yeah yeah

00:07:48.000 And there's no law stopping us from doing any of these industries

00:07:52.000 If you want you can go be a plumber

00:07:54.000 You could go be a mechanic

00:07:55.000 But I'm sure none of you want to

00:07:57.000 And I sure as hell don't

00:07:58.000 Right?

00:07:59.000 You don't want to

00:08:00.000 I don't want to either

00:08:01.000 And it's interesting

00:08:02.000 Because I talked to this like historian the other day

00:08:04.000 And he said there have just been such ramifications

00:08:06.000 From women entering the workforce in the 20s 0.99

00:08:09.000 Because like that's like the

00:08:11.000 As soon as women entered the workforce in the 20s 0.99

00:08:13.000 That's when the number of children went down

00:08:16.000 And that's when like

00:08:17.000 That's when you couldn't survive on two incomes

00:08:19.000 So there's been a lot of ramifications

00:08:20.000 I'm not saying good or bad

00:08:21.000 But from women entering the workforce 0.99

00:08:24.000 But they say they don't need men

00:08:26.000 Right?

00:08:27.000 But hypothetically

00:08:28.000 You see how big that muscle is right there?

00:08:30.000 The security guard for this show

00:08:32.000 Right?

00:08:33.000 If he was to try to violate you

00:08:35.000 Like say me and you were together Courtney

00:08:37.000 And we were walking down the street

00:08:39.000 If he was trying to violate you 1.00

00:08:41.000 He would have to kill me to get you 1.00

00:08:42.000 To you 1.00

00:08:43.000 You don't see value in that?

00:08:45.000 I don't think he means it in that way though

00:08:47.000 But I'm saying the point that you guys are

00:08:49.000 We've conquered the world to the point where you guys are so protected

00:08:52.000 To the point that you guys don't even see valuable in simple security

00:08:55.000 You guys aren't entitled to security

00:08:57.000 You understand that?

00:08:59.000 I don't have to protect you

00:09:00.000 If someone as big as him was to try to violate you 1.00

00:09:03.000 He would have to kill me 0.99

00:09:04.000 I don't have to do that for you 0.98

00:09:07.000 To the point to say that you don't need men

00:09:09.000 You do need men 0.99

00:09:10.000 You're so secure because the fact that we've conquered the world

00:09:13.000 I think we have

00:09:14.000 And it gave you that security

00:09:15.000 But you're not entitled to it

00:09:17.000 You're not entitled to it

00:09:18.000 Alright, so if we're walking together and he says something

00:09:21.000 What are you going to do?

00:09:22.000 Yeah, but it wasn't aimed

00:09:24.000 I'm not saying that though

00:09:25.000 No, but she's talking about needing men

00:09:27.000 You do need men 0.99

00:09:28.000 Yeah, of course

00:09:29.000 Because you're not entitled to security

00:09:30.000 You could walk down the street right now

00:09:32.000 And somebody attack you

00:09:34.000 Right?

00:09:35.000 But if you had a man with you

00:09:36.000 That man would be willing to die for you

00:09:37.000 Then and there

00:09:38.000 On the spot

00:09:39.000 Yeah

00:09:40.000 You with me

00:09:41.000 I'm a dive 1.00

00:09:42.000 You gotta kill me 0.99

00:09:43.000 I do get what you're going to say 1.00

00:09:45.000 That's valuable

00:09:46.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah

00:09:47.000 Yeah

00:09:48.000 So you mean men

00:09:49.000 Don't let this society that we've conquered

00:09:51.000 And built

00:09:52.000 Is so secure for you

00:09:53.000 Forget that

00:09:54.000 Because a man could see 0.96

00:09:56.000 A pervert 0.95

00:09:57.000 A pedophile 1.00

00:09:58.000 Whatever could see you walking 0.99

00:09:59.000 Oh, she's pretty 0.94

00:10:00.000 She's got a skirt on 1.00

00:10:01.000 Let me find an opportunity

00:10:03.000 He's gonna follow you

00:10:04.000 Bro, why is that so special bro?

00:10:05.000 Is that not a normal?

00:10:06.000 That's normal bro

00:10:07.000 It's not normal for a guy to protect the girl

00:10:08.000 Why are you dealing on it?

00:10:09.000 It's normal bro

00:10:10.000 Because they don't value that

00:10:11.000 They do value all

00:10:12.000 They obviously value you

00:10:13.000 We never said it in that way though

00:10:14.000 We never said it in that way though

00:10:15.000 We're talking about modern women not valuing men 0.99

00:10:17.000 And one of the things that men

00:10:19.000 One of the things that men bring to the table 0.92

00:10:21.000 More than anything

00:10:22.000 Is protection

00:10:23.000 Okay bro

00:10:24.000 That's not important

00:10:25.000 It is important

00:10:26.000 It's normal

00:10:27.000 It's not normal

00:10:28.000 It's not normal 1.00

00:10:29.000 Because there's pussies out there 1.00

00:10:30.000 That won't do nothing 1.00

00:10:31.000 There are men out there

00:10:32.000 There are men out there

00:10:33.000 That when men do something to their women 0.51

00:10:34.000 They will not do anything 0.97

00:10:35.000 They are cowards 0.99

00:10:36.000 And they won't do anything 1.00

00:10:37.000 Do not tell me that

00:10:38.000 It's not valuable for a man to stand up for women 1.00

00:10:40.000 Because 99%

00:10:41.000 It's not valuable

00:10:42.000 It's normal bro

00:10:43.000 It's not normal

00:10:44.000 It's average fam

00:10:45.000 It's not normal

00:10:46.000 Would you protect the girl yes or no?

00:10:47.000 Yes you would

00:10:48.000 Yes you would

00:10:49.000 I would

00:10:50.000 Anyone else would

00:10:51.000 Only a little geek

00:10:52.000 Whatever 0.99

00:10:53.000 And there's a lot of cowards out there 0.98

00:10:54.000 That's what I'm saying 0.98

00:10:55.000 That's what I'm saying

00:10:56.000 You'd be surprised though

00:10:57.000 I said what I said

00:10:58.000 You would be surprised though

00:10:59.000 Exactly

00:11:00.000 I think it's normal for a guy

00:11:01.000 To protect his girl

00:11:02.000 That's not normal

00:11:03.000 It is normal

00:11:04.000 I don't know where you're from

00:11:05.000 But where I'm from

00:11:06.000 I've seen plenty of dudes lay down

00:11:07.000 I've seen plenty of dudes

00:11:09.000 I've seen plenty of dudes

00:11:10.000 Lay down and do nothing

00:11:11.000 Where you from bro?

00:11:12.000 America 1.00

00:11:13.000 Fuck America 1.00

00:11:14.000 I don't care about America 1.00

00:11:15.000 I'm talking about you

00:11:16.000 You say what you said

00:11:17.000 Alright whatever

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00:11:54.000 they have to see value in it who still have to do it bro it's normal no but it's if you okay it's

00:11:58.620 like if you're single right there's some value in having a boyfriend that can protect you so if

00:12:03.060 someone breaks into your apartment at night and he's there he can protect you you know that's what

00:12:06.460 i think i it might be normal but that's what he's trying to say that women don't value that

00:12:10.480 like women don't i'm saying that it's not that i'm not i'm not saying that it's not normal and

00:12:14.940 that a man shouldn't do it a man being a man should do it what i'm saying is that generally 0.87

00:12:20.220 modern women today don't value the simple thing of a protection which is the most valuable thing a 1.00

00:12:25.420 man can do it's not the most valuable it is the most valuable thing to lay your life on the line

00:12:30.780 for a woman is the most valuable thing you can do it's the most valuable thing to do if i love a 0.87

00:12:35.660 woman i will die for there on the spot this is my life this is all i have personal preference that's

00:12:40.800 all i have that's average it's normal it's average you might be saying it's normal and average but

00:12:45.360 you'd be surprised about how many men don't do it that's his point he's agreeing with you it is to

00:12:51.120 you to you it is normal to me it is normal a guy should do that but you'd be surprised about how

00:12:56.160 many men don't don't actually and that's his that's his point he's he's arguing the fact that bro we're

00:13:01.200 on the same level but just like just a little bit bro you're saying a little bit i'll say women don't 1.00

00:13:05.120 value it value it is so valuable it's so valuable it's normal bro it's not valuable it's normal you know

00:13:10.080 it is value it's not it's normal and listen like i said i don't know where you're from bro but where

00:13:16.000 i'm from a lot of happens bro i've seen a lot of happen lay down like don't really happen and dudes

00:13:23.120 do nothing bro like really don't have it bro america is very different from the uk and i i personally i

00:13:30.880 haven't been there but even just on tv you can see how savage but just in general though just from you

00:13:39.040 can see from your emotion and how fiery you are you've seen it i've done stay i've done stood up

00:13:45.360 for my dude's girlfriend when he wouldn't stand up for her it's normal bro it's normal bro it's not

00:13:51.840 normal that's normal that's not average average security no it should be normal and a man should

00:13:57.840 do that what i'm saying is that there are men out there that will not do that and what i'm saying is

00:14:03.120 that most men women don't that most modern women don't value the simplicity of security

00:14:08.800 you're not entirely they're not going to value they expect it it's normal for them that's his

00:14:12.400 point so he's just not understanding it's like he just wants to argue no i don't think so i think

00:14:17.760 you guys are just misunderstanding each other like yeah i think that's his point though like that women 1.00

00:14:21.920 don't value it and it's like like his point is that women don't respect average men nowadays even

00:14:26.480 when they're average women like i think that's i think let me tell you something i think protecting a 1.00

00:14:31.440 girl is normal average standards it's just normal you can't it's not something that you value it's normal

00:14:36.480 average yeah i also think a man doesn't value a woman enough huh did you not hear what i said

00:14:45.280 i said i don't think a man values a woman enough why is that why do you think that as many of you know

00:14:51.760 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to

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JustPearlyThings - May 29, 2023

Feminist Says She NEEDS More Sexual Experience

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