JustPearlyThings - May 29, 2023


Feminist Says She NEEDS More Sexual Experience


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

213.68715

Word Count

3,264

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

39


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the importance of purity before getting married and why women should try to remain pure as possible before they get married. We also talk about the difference between purity and purity before marriage and why we should try and stay pure before we get married, and why it s important to be pure before you get married to your husband.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 And I'm great with kids
00:00:02.000 I'm fantastic
00:00:04.000 Really?
00:00:06.000 Yeah, that shouldn't affect how you are
00:00:08.000 Yeah, but it affects how you are in a relationship
00:00:10.000 Because you bring that damage into future relationships
00:00:12.000 But I think the damage that you've got is your responsibility to go away and heal from it
00:00:18.000 I agree with you, but what's better, a girl that's not damaged or a girl that is?
00:00:24.000 I do understand what you're saying
00:00:26.000 But say if you got married and then a guy damaged you within that marriage
00:00:31.000 Even though you've only slept with that person, you would still be damaged
00:00:34.000 Right, but there are problems, not other people's problems
00:00:38.000 And the issue is you're bringing other people's problems into your relationship
00:00:42.000 Which is then why you would need to go away and work on yourself
00:00:45.000 No, which is why you should have less partners before you get married
00:00:49.000 Which is why we should try to remain as pure as possible before we get married
00:00:53.000 Like why would you want more experience before getting married?
00:00:57.000 I do, I do
00:00:58.000 Like what value does that bring to a husband?
00:01:00.000 I've just thought, you know like that term when you're little
00:01:03.000 Oh you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get your prince
00:01:06.000 I think that's a bad saying, I think that's very misleading
00:01:08.000 But that's what we've grown up on though
00:01:10.000 So that's when I'm saying as girls
00:01:13.000 I personally wasn't told by anyone
00:01:16.000 Oh if you sleep with a lot of people your value as a woman is going to go down
00:01:19.000 If I was told that
00:01:21.000 Do you think that a father figure has an important role in that?
00:01:24.000 To be fair, yeah actually maybe
00:01:26.000 Do you think so?
00:01:27.000 But then my mum didn't say that either
00:01:29.000 But women, well we know this on some level
00:01:31.000 Because the first thing you do when you don't like a girl is you call her a whore
00:01:34.000 Maybe not you personally, but you know women do that
00:01:37.000 So I think we know on some level that purity is important to men
00:01:41.000 I don't think when you're 16, 17 though
00:01:43.000 I don't think you think about that at all
00:01:45.000 At all
00:01:46.000 Did you guys have no guidance from your parents?
00:01:49.000 No, my mum didn't talk about sex with me at all
00:01:52.000 Like even I don't
00:01:53.000 Was your dad in your life?
00:01:54.000 Yeah, yeah, both parents
00:01:55.000 And they never spoke to you about sex ever?
00:01:57.000 No, never
00:01:58.000 Maybe they should
00:01:59.000 I do think they should have definitely
00:02:01.000 Because I'm not saying that I would go back and change things
00:02:06.000 Because I do feel like even through break-ups and bad break-ups
00:02:10.000 You out from the other side of the end of the tunnel
00:02:13.000 You become a better person anyway
00:02:14.000 Because you've
00:02:15.000 I feel like
00:02:16.000 I think you become a worse person
00:02:18.000 As a human
00:02:20.000 Being a human on the planet
00:02:22.000 Having a human experience
00:02:23.000 They say that to have a full experience as a human
00:02:26.000 You have to go through ups and downs
00:02:28.000 That's not just in relationships
00:02:29.000 That's experiences in general
00:02:31.000 Yeah, so you should go through them with your husband
00:02:33.000 But why?
00:02:34.000 True
00:02:35.000 I don't get that
00:02:36.000 But I would rather go through
00:02:38.000 I'm not on about just relationships
00:02:39.000 But as an experience
00:02:40.000 I would rather go through that on my own
00:02:42.000 So then when I'm with my husband
00:02:44.000 I've already learnt all of that
00:02:45.000 It's not good enough, bro
00:02:46.000 It's not good enough
00:02:47.000 No, no, I agree with you, Ashley
00:02:48.000 But why would you not want to know
00:02:50.000 Listen, let's agree on this
00:02:51.000 Let me land, let me land
00:02:52.000 Go on, go on
00:02:53.000 As an individual on the planet
00:02:55.000 As an individual going through your own life
00:02:57.000 Surely you would want to know everything about yourself
00:02:59.000 Everything that triggers you
00:03:01.000 Everything that you've learnt from and all of that
00:03:03.000 And then have a husband that you can build even more on
00:03:06.000 Because you're not going to go wrong
00:03:07.000 Because why would you want to be in a marriage not knowing yourself?
00:03:09.000 Yeah, 100%
00:03:10.000 Like why would you want to do that?
00:03:12.000 Yeah, but from the dawn of time
00:03:13.000 Like from the ancient times
00:03:14.000 Girls have gotten married at a young age
00:03:16.000 I don't agree with that though
00:03:18.000 They didn't get married at 30
00:03:20.000 Girls got married at 16, 17, 18
00:03:21.000 Probably younger
00:03:22.000 That's just something that just happened
00:03:23.000 Like things happen
00:03:24.000 No, it's from the whole of
00:03:25.000 Like from ages ago
00:03:26.000 It's a new thing to get married at 32, 32, 33
00:03:28.000 But maybe sometimes they didn't actually have a choice
00:03:30.000 Yeah, but it's not that
00:03:31.000 But it was like it was a tradition
00:03:33.000 Sorry about that
00:03:34.000 Tradition to get married at 18, 60, 70
00:03:36.000 A tradition
00:03:37.000 Tradition for everyone across the world
00:03:38.000 Even England
00:03:39.000 But why do we have to follow it?
00:03:40.000 Because it's in our DNA
00:03:42.000 No, okay, okay, I'll give you
00:03:43.000 Because we look at what works
00:03:45.000 And like let's look at the outcomes
00:03:47.000 Are women happier waiting to get married?
00:03:49.000 Right?
00:03:50.000 The average age of first marriage is 31
00:03:52.000 A hundred years ago
00:03:53.000 It was around 20, 21
00:03:54.000 Something like that
00:03:55.000 And women are more on antidepressants
00:03:57.000 We're more depressed than ever
00:03:59.000 We're on what?
00:04:00.000 Tinder?
00:04:01.000 Average body count is like what?
00:04:02.000 8, 10
00:04:03.000 I genuinely think it's probably higher than that
00:04:06.000 If we're being honest
00:04:07.000 You know
00:04:08.000 We're not happy
00:04:10.000 Women are not happy waiting to get married
00:04:12.000 And then getting married
00:04:13.000 I think happiness is a choice though
00:04:15.000 I think
00:04:16.000 I do think happiness is a choice
00:04:17.000 But I do think we can look at outcomes
00:04:19.000 Yeah
00:04:20.000 I completely understand where you're coming from
00:04:22.000 But again
00:04:23.000 I think it's so important to take the time away
00:04:25.000 And focus on yourself
00:04:26.000 Ashton
00:04:27.000 Go on
00:04:28.000 What do you think the difference between
00:04:29.000 Happiness for a woman is
00:04:30.000 And happiness for a man is?
00:04:32.000 What do you think?
00:04:33.000 Freedom
00:04:35.000 Be more
00:04:36.000 Break it down for me
00:04:37.000 Let's say
00:04:38.000 What's the difference between
00:04:39.000 The happiness for a man
00:04:41.000 And happiness for a woman?
00:04:42.000 What's the difference?
00:04:44.000 I think when you're both happy
00:04:46.000 I think that's when you can be completely happy
00:04:48.000 When you bring happiness for each other
00:04:49.000 When you bring happiness for each other
00:04:50.000 For a woman
00:04:51.000 What makes a woman happy?
00:04:52.000 Like happy
00:04:53.000 Like proper happy and fulfilled
00:04:54.000 And what makes a man happy and fulfilled?
00:04:56.000 I think it's personal preference
00:04:57.000 Yeah
00:04:58.000 Personal preference 100%
00:04:59.000 Everyone is different
00:05:00.000 Everyone is different
00:05:01.000 Everyone is different
00:05:02.000 But to generalise it
00:05:03.000 I think for a man
00:05:04.000 It's having a woman who
00:05:06.000 This is going to sound so politically wrong
00:05:09.000 But I know that guys can cheat and be and still love someone
00:05:13.000 Yeah
00:05:14.000 And then if they were to then go back to that woman
00:05:16.000 And that woman takes them back
00:05:18.000 It would give him status
00:05:19.000 Because look how much my woman loves me
00:05:21.000 She's taking me back
00:05:22.000 He won't tell no one
00:05:23.000 Why doesn't he tell anyone?
00:05:24.000 That's a bitch boy
00:05:25.000 Why would he tell anyone?
00:05:26.000 What do you mean?
00:05:27.000 That's not status bro
00:05:28.000 I think she's saying it's a thought process
00:05:29.000 That's not status
00:05:30.000 What do you mean?
00:05:31.000 Like boasting about
00:05:32.000 His girl taking them back
00:05:33.000 This and that
00:05:34.000 But some guys do do that though
00:05:35.000 That's not status
00:05:36.000 I've seen a podcast with them having this whole conversation
00:05:38.000 I'm not saying just specifically that
00:05:40.000 That's not what I'm saying
00:05:41.000 What makes a woman happy?
00:05:42.000 I think being cared for
00:05:44.000 Provided for
00:05:45.000 Looked after
00:05:46.000 Respected
00:05:47.000 Recognised
00:05:48.000 That's very good
00:05:49.000 That's important
00:05:50.000 Also you don't need a man
00:05:51.000 Yes you do
00:05:52.000 Yes you do
00:05:53.000 Yes you do
00:05:54.000 But not the whole time though
00:05:56.000 The only reason
00:05:57.000 We have a society where women are delusional enough to think that we can't live without men
00:06:02.000 No offence
00:06:03.000 Because what do you do when your car breaks down?
00:06:05.000 You go to a man
00:06:06.000 What do you do?
00:06:07.000 Who built this building?
00:06:08.000 A man
00:06:09.000 All of society
00:06:10.000 No not really
00:06:11.000 All of the industries that run society are primarily
00:06:13.000 Why can't a woman build?
00:06:14.000 I mean it's not that they can't
00:06:15.000 We don't and we won't
00:06:16.000 We refuse to do hard jobs
00:06:17.000 All the hardest jobs in society
00:06:18.000 I know not the people that
00:06:19.000 The women that build
00:06:20.000 No not really
00:06:21.000 Even if you look at them
00:06:22.000 And I've talked to
00:06:23.000 Like I do interviews sometimes with people in these industries
00:06:26.000 Typically the women are the ones waving the flags on the construction sites
00:06:31.000 Or they're like in the middle management
00:06:33.000 Like most women are out there building
00:06:35.000 And if they're doing it
00:06:36.000 Come on they're bad at it
00:06:37.000 Let's just call spade a spade
00:06:38.000 Like you're not as good at like doing manual labor as a man
00:06:43.000 You can't be
00:06:44.000 We're not as strong as them
00:06:45.000 And so
00:06:46.000 Yeah we're not as strong as men
00:06:47.000 I completely agree
00:06:48.000 If there is a blackout tomorrow
00:06:50.000 Right if there is a blackout tomorrow
00:06:52.000 You would run to a guy
00:06:53.000 Because you would need a guy to protect you
00:06:55.000 They did a study right
00:06:56.000 Or not a study
00:06:57.000 A TV show
00:06:58.000 Where they put men and women on an island
00:07:00.000 And said survive go
00:07:01.000 The women had to be rescued in two days
00:07:03.000 And in like five days the men were filtering water
00:07:06.000 Hunting food
00:07:07.000 Like they had a whole system built
00:07:08.000 I think that's just how we're both differently built though
00:07:10.000 Right but that's what I'm saying
00:07:11.000 Like women
00:07:12.000 Like we're in a society where we have like propped up women
00:07:14.000 To think that we can live without men
00:07:16.000 When everything we do depends on men
00:07:17.000 But then they need us women
00:07:19.000 To be here
00:07:20.000 No not really because like
00:07:22.000 Okay let's say reproduction is equal
00:07:24.000 Right we can't say
00:07:26.000 Because we need their sperm
00:07:27.000 They need our egg
00:07:28.000 So we can't take more credit for reproduction
00:07:30.000 Like that's equal
00:07:31.000 But when it comes to
00:07:32.000 A man can't grow a baby though
00:07:33.000 Whereas a woman can't
00:07:34.000 Okay but what
00:07:35.000 Okay if they build artificial wombs tomorrow
00:07:37.000 Then what?
00:07:38.000 Because they're already developing
00:07:39.000 I think they're already doing that you know
00:07:40.000 Yeah yeah yeah
00:07:41.000 I think they're already doing like the pods and shit
00:07:42.000 Yeah yeah yeah yeah
00:07:43.000 Have you seen that?
00:07:44.000 So they do that tomorrow then what?
00:07:46.000 Then what?
00:07:47.000 Yeah yeah
00:07:48.000 And there's no law stopping us from doing any of these industries
00:07:52.000 If you want you can go be a plumber
00:07:54.000 You could go be a mechanic
00:07:55.000 But I'm sure none of you want to
00:07:57.000 And I sure as hell don't
00:07:58.000 Right?
00:07:59.000 You don't want to
00:08:00.000 I don't want to either
00:08:01.000 And it's interesting
00:08:02.000 Because I talked to this like historian the other day
00:08:04.000 And he said there have just been such ramifications
00:08:06.000 From women entering the workforce in the 20s
00:08:09.000 Because like that's like the
00:08:11.000 As soon as women entered the workforce in the 20s
00:08:13.000 That's when the number of children went down
00:08:16.000 And that's when like
00:08:17.000 That's when you couldn't survive on two incomes
00:08:19.000 So there's been a lot of ramifications
00:08:20.000 I'm not saying good or bad
00:08:21.000 But from women entering the workforce
00:08:24.000 But they say they don't need men
00:08:26.000 Right?
00:08:27.000 But hypothetically
00:08:28.000 You see how big that muscle is right there?
00:08:30.000 The security guard for this show
00:08:32.000 Right?
00:08:33.000 If he was to try to violate you
00:08:35.000 Like say me and you were together Courtney
00:08:37.000 And we were walking down the street
00:08:39.000 If he was trying to violate you
00:08:41.000 He would have to kill me to get you
00:08:42.000 To you
00:08:43.000 You don't see value in that?
00:08:45.000 I don't think he means it in that way though
00:08:47.000 But I'm saying the point that you guys are
00:08:49.000 We've conquered the world to the point where you guys are so protected
00:08:52.000 To the point that you guys don't even see valuable in simple security
00:08:55.000 You guys aren't entitled to security
00:08:57.000 You understand that?
00:08:59.000 I don't have to protect you
00:09:00.000 If someone as big as him was to try to violate you
00:09:03.000 He would have to kill me
00:09:04.000 I don't have to do that for you
00:09:07.000 To the point to say that you don't need men
00:09:09.000 You do need men
00:09:10.000 You're so secure because the fact that we've conquered the world
00:09:13.000 I think we have
00:09:14.000 And it gave you that security
00:09:15.000 But you're not entitled to it
00:09:17.000 You're not entitled to it
00:09:18.000 Alright, so if we're walking together and he says something
00:09:21.000 What are you going to do?
00:09:22.000 Yeah, but it wasn't aimed
00:09:24.000 I'm not saying that though
00:09:25.000 No, but she's talking about needing men
00:09:27.000 You do need men
00:09:28.000 Yeah, of course
00:09:29.000 Because you're not entitled to security
00:09:30.000 You could walk down the street right now
00:09:32.000 And somebody attack you
00:09:34.000 Right?
00:09:35.000 But if you had a man with you
00:09:36.000 That man would be willing to die for you
00:09:37.000 Then and there
00:09:38.000 On the spot
00:09:39.000 Yeah
00:09:40.000 You with me
00:09:41.000 I'm a dive
00:09:42.000 You gotta kill me
00:09:43.000 I do get what you're going to say
00:09:45.000 That's valuable
00:09:46.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:09:47.000 Yeah
00:09:48.000 So you mean men
00:09:49.000 Don't let this society that we've conquered
00:09:51.000 And built
00:09:52.000 Is so secure for you
00:09:53.000 Forget that
00:09:54.000 Because a man could see
00:09:56.000 A pervert
00:09:57.000 A pedophile
00:09:58.000 Whatever could see you walking
00:09:59.000 Oh, she's pretty
00:10:00.000 She's got a skirt on
00:10:01.000 Let me find an opportunity
00:10:03.000 He's gonna follow you
00:10:04.000 Bro, why is that so special bro?
00:10:05.000 Is that not a normal?
00:10:06.000 That's normal bro
00:10:07.000 It's not normal for a guy to protect the girl
00:10:08.000 Why are you dealing on it?
00:10:09.000 It's normal bro
00:10:10.000 Because they don't value that
00:10:11.000 They do value all
00:10:12.000 They obviously value you
00:10:13.000 We never said it in that way though
00:10:14.000 We never said it in that way though
00:10:15.000 We're talking about modern women not valuing men
00:10:17.000 And one of the things that men
00:10:19.000 One of the things that men bring to the table
00:10:21.000 More than anything
00:10:22.000 Is protection
00:10:23.000 Okay bro
00:10:24.000 That's not important
00:10:25.000 It is important
00:10:26.000 It's normal
00:10:27.000 It's not normal
00:10:28.000 It's not normal
00:10:29.000 Because there's pussies out there
00:10:30.000 That won't do nothing
00:10:31.000 There are men out there
00:10:32.000 There are men out there
00:10:33.000 That when men do something to their women
00:10:34.000 They will not do anything
00:10:35.000 They are cowards
00:10:36.000 And they won't do anything
00:10:37.000 Do not tell me that
00:10:38.000 It's not valuable for a man to stand up for women
00:10:40.000 Because 99%
00:10:41.000 It's not valuable
00:10:42.000 It's normal bro
00:10:43.000 It's not normal
00:10:44.000 It's average fam
00:10:45.000 It's not normal
00:10:46.000 Would you protect the girl yes or no?
00:10:47.000 Yes you would
00:10:48.000 Yes you would
00:10:49.000 I would
00:10:50.000 Anyone else would
00:10:51.000 Only a little geek
00:10:52.000 Whatever
00:10:53.000 And there's a lot of cowards out there
00:10:54.000 That's what I'm saying
00:10:55.000 That's what I'm saying
00:10:56.000 You'd be surprised though
00:10:57.000 I said what I said
00:10:58.000 You would be surprised though
00:10:59.000 Exactly
00:11:00.000 I think it's normal for a guy
00:11:01.000 To protect his girl
00:11:02.000 That's not normal
00:11:03.000 It is normal
00:11:04.000 I don't know where you're from
00:11:05.000 But where I'm from
00:11:06.000 I've seen plenty of dudes lay down
00:11:07.000 I've seen plenty of dudes
00:11:09.000 I've seen plenty of dudes
00:11:10.000 Lay down and do nothing
00:11:11.000 Where you from bro?
00:11:12.000 America
00:11:13.000 Fuck America
00:11:14.000 I don't care about America
00:11:15.000 I'm talking about you
00:11:16.000 You say what you said
00:11:17.000 Alright whatever
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00:11:54.000 they have to see value in it who still have to do it bro it's normal no but it's if you okay it's
00:11:58.620 like if you're single right there's some value in having a boyfriend that can protect you so if
00:12:03.060 someone breaks into your apartment at night and he's there he can protect you you know that's what
00:12:06.460 i think i it might be normal but that's what he's trying to say that women don't value that
00:12:10.480 like women don't i'm saying that it's not that i'm not i'm not saying that it's not normal and
00:12:14.940 that a man shouldn't do it a man being a man should do it what i'm saying is that generally
00:12:20.220 modern women today don't value the simple thing of a protection which is the most valuable thing a
00:12:25.420 man can do it's not the most valuable it is the most valuable thing to lay your life on the line
00:12:30.780 for a woman is the most valuable thing you can do it's the most valuable thing to do if i love a
00:12:35.660 woman i will die for there on the spot this is my life this is all i have personal preference that's
00:12:40.800 all i have that's average it's normal it's average you might be saying it's normal and average but
00:12:45.360 you'd be surprised about how many men don't do it that's his point he's agreeing with you it is to
00:12:51.120 you to you it is normal to me it is normal a guy should do that but you'd be surprised about how
00:12:56.160 many men don't don't actually and that's his that's his point he's he's arguing the fact that bro we're
00:13:01.200 on the same level but just like just a little bit bro you're saying a little bit i'll say women don't
00:13:05.120 value it value it is so valuable it's so valuable it's normal bro it's not valuable it's normal you know
00:13:10.080 it is value it's not it's normal and listen like i said i don't know where you're from bro but where
00:13:16.000 i'm from a lot of happens bro i've seen a lot of happen lay down like don't really happen and dudes
00:13:23.120 do nothing bro like really don't have it bro america is very different from the uk and i i personally i
00:13:30.880 haven't been there but even just on tv you can see how savage but just in general though just from you
00:13:39.040 can see from your emotion and how fiery you are you've seen it i've done stay i've done stood up
00:13:45.360 for my dude's girlfriend when he wouldn't stand up for her it's normal bro it's normal bro it's not
00:13:51.840 normal that's normal that's not average average security no it should be normal and a man should
00:13:57.840 do that what i'm saying is that there are men out there that will not do that and what i'm saying is
00:14:03.120 that most men women don't that most modern women don't value the simplicity of security
00:14:08.800 you're not entirely they're not going to value they expect it it's normal for them that's his
00:14:12.400 point so he's just not understanding it's like he just wants to argue no i don't think so i think
00:14:17.760 you guys are just misunderstanding each other like yeah i think that's his point though like that women
00:14:21.920 don't value it and it's like like his point is that women don't respect average men nowadays even
00:14:26.480 when they're average women like i think that's i think let me tell you something i think protecting a
00:14:31.440 girl is normal average standards it's just normal you can't it's not something that you value it's normal
00:14:36.480 average yeah i also think a man doesn't value a woman enough huh did you not hear what i said
00:14:45.280 i said i don't think a man values a woman enough why is that why do you think that as many of you know
00:14:51.760 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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