Feminist Tries To SHUT Him Down For Spitting Facts
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating and how to deal with it in a modern day and age. We discuss what cheating is, what it is not, and how cheating affects us and our relationships with our partners. We also discuss the difference between cheating and infidelity and how we can deal with cheating in the modern era.
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for me personally it's easy for you to say that but if if i was in a position where my partner
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cheated on me however that affects me it can affect me forever long i can't i would i would
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hate for somebody to say put that aside for the because of the kids in a woman's sake i would
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argue i would absolutely argue it's because they are far more emotional but either way either it's
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natural it's easy for you to do something to hurt somebody and say i'll get over it for them because
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of the kids i feel like that i understand where you're coming from but if you're the one causing
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that pain you can't then be the same one saying get over it but you but you but you can mask it to
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the point where the kids don't need to suffer in both cases that's what i'm saying i'm saying it's
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about the kids it's not about your personal feelings it's about your children yeah so i can i just
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clarify that so we've got married you know if you cheat that i can't cannot stay with you because
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it will kill me inside it'll make me a whatever oh my god terrible so you cheat we have kids you cheat
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it is selfish to cheat no no i know i know what you're saying so you he's cheated i i haven't
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done anything i'm at home playing with my kid with our kids okay i've done something so he's
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cheated but and then if i leave it's my fault okay whose whose feelings are more important the kids or
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you everyone's no whose feelings are more important because me and the kids that's that he does not
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matter no answer the question whose whose feelings are more important the kids or you
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it has to be the kids okay okay so say i let it go once then for the kids
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what happens if you cheat again this is just the same questions they'll pose to you
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i'm not holding on for nothing i've got the car keys i'm out of there
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hold on all right so every month yeah a woman has a period yeah yeah as men we deal with this
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oh oh please i have not even wait let me land bro i'm still in the air like what my man said
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let me land hold on you see this this this is what this this is so hard for a man to explain
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because wait wait all right do you go through periods every month yes do you chemically change
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every month yes are you emotionally unstable every month yes no no no don't answer like a girl
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come on come on this guy do you have a point as well he's making a point but listen you have a period
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listen listen i've been around to be honest oh come on no no to be honest but we have to be honest we
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can't just we can't general speaking to the mic we can't generalize i've had many girlfriends many
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links many whatever just as you have but in my personal experience they've never treated me
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differently or acted differently to a point where i can say you're emotionally unbalanced because
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you're on your period to me listen i'm not saying it doesn't happen i'm not saying it doesn't happen
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but in my experience in general why are you shaking your head he said not in general but we're dealing
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on the cheating topic right i'm saying we just need to be honest right if i'm in a marriage and
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my wife takes a penis in her vagina and i leave i can't be the one to blame for breaking the would
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you take would you carry the blame if your wife cheated and you and you divorced just yes do you
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want me to answer the question before i've even landed on my main point oh sorry i mean i don't
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know yeah but it's shifted so because you're you don't have a period so you wouldn't know if a woman
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has an emotion i mean um what do you call it uh a different chemical experience from a period yeah
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which they release a hormone yeah which makes them chemically different that okay you don't that
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doesn't change that's facts yeah that changes all right so i'm saying yeah so i'm saying as a man
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when a woman goes through that certain time of the month yeah we are conditioned to kind of
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adjust navigate her feelings yeah so a woman in her brain does understand that a certain time
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a chemical changes in her head where she does not act normal but yet she can't understand the same
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chemical not the same chemical but a same chemical reaction happens in a man where he can't control
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but you can't control yeah you can control because you can control because when you're at work and
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you're in your period pain you could be very nice to your boss but as soon as you come home to your
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husband it's like ah it's like no no you know you know how to control where you're getting that from
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yeah i don't know where you're getting that information from which part of the information
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if i'm on one time if i'm on one i'm on one everywhere like no no one is is like everyone
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so you're trying to tell me if you're on if you're on your period and you're feeling very irritable
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you're going to take it out on your manager 100 come on man is that is that is that is that
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is that the average okay you don't know how to control your emotions at work
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i i don't have to if i if i if i don't want to i won't i don't know man i feel like it's
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incomparable i feel like i feel like the concept the concept of a person feeling hurt because you've
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broken a marital vows and in comparison to and and and her being put in a condition where we're
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telling her to deal with it in comparison to a man dealing with his partner on her period is
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very they're very different can you answer the question please about um if so the marriage is
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there we're all happy families yeah and i've went out yeah and i've cheated yeah so you're gonna stay
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with me no that's what i'm so all i'm trying to say is on a human level right everybody would be hurt
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if i'm in a marriage my wife doesn't have to have sex if she kisses a guy if she sucks his dick and i
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know and i leave do you think i'm going to accept from society that i'm the one who brought
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anyone who says that be realistic realistic i think in all situations it would be on the woman
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like they would say she broke she broke up the family no no forget i'm saying you if you leave
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okay first of all if your wife sucks another man's dick yeah what are you doing staying or leaving
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i'm leaving guys guys it has to be one at a time we've ruining the quality of the show we've got
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we've got we've got away from something as a man you can leave and the kids can still not suffer
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because if the woman has cheated and the man leaves yeah how she conducts herself and how the
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man conducts himself around the kids will be what dictates whether the kids suffer or not it's not
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about whether you leave or how she treats the kids afterwards or how she is around the kids
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whether she's hurt i agree but the topic was based on the woman dealing with the effects of
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the man cheating and the blame being on her if she acts differently so on that same topic if you
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act differently if your wife has had another man's dick in her mouth naturally you would there's no
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there's no man yeah it's completely different let me explain to you why my brother first of all
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yeah more than likely you're the person going down on one knee so you have decided that a that's my
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wife right yeah she could wait until kingdom come for you to go down on me and you don't have to go
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down on me right so that means you've committed to her yeah yeah right and she's accepted your
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commitment yeah yeah knowing who you are and she knows what a man is like already she knows you're at
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a predisposition yeah correct or no yeah right so when you act out on that predisposition that she
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already knows of she is already calculating in her head the way out of it because she's already
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high pergamos so i'm going for a rich man knowing that he's going to cheat knowing that i'm going to
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take him for half his stuff no no okay hold on hold on yeah i know that i'm going to i'm going to go
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with a man that's highly likely going to cheat correct or no not necessarily ask these girls and
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they'll tell you highly likely a man is going to cheat or a man is thinking about cheating so it's
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hard you're saying when the woman is saying yes i do or yes i i i do want to marry she's already
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considering it that one woman is wait i i agree with him in this in the point that a woman will
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know the type of value man she's getting with has the ability to exercise his options i don't know
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hold on everybody knows that so so yeah she's weighed up a risk as to whether this is possible
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now here's my here's my point the guy if i'm getting married to rihanna i'm weighing up my
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risk are you going to marry a hoe of course i'm not going to marry right so but she's going to
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marry a hoe though yeah yeah right but she's not basically hold on hold on look think of that
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understanding you're not going to marry a hoe yeah she would marry a hoe and that's the difference
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guys man okay let's say that's that's the case but you can't eliminate human emotion and human
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reaction you can't say because you knew he's a man and he's not naturally monogamous it's you
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should have known that there was a high chance of this is ridiculous like listen listen guys you
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have a son and you have a daughter in the exact same situation the guy the daughter's husband
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cheats the son's wife cheats it doesn't matter who's a male or who knew what you're both feeling
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for you're feeling for them equally regardless of the whether one's a male one's a feet like
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you're not giving them i'm giving them different advice though yeah of course but i'm saying you're
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removing the human reaction just a natural response but but we're not taught like it's just why are you
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bringing the emotion into it no because like because we're talking no because like it's just like i feel
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like i'm a girl like why are you bringing this into it obviously obviously they're gonna have an
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emotional reaction we know you guys are overlooking the emotional reaction and saying it's the woman
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the woman is to blame no breaking up yes i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying women leave 70 to 80 percent
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of the time 90 of their college educated and i'm saying women put their feelings before their own
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kids you knew you married dude you knew he might cheat on you then he cheats on you and then boo
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who poor me i need to break up the home and put put my feelings before my kids you know who you married
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i agree but what equally what i'm saying is if that happens to a man the man would leave the marriage
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equally whether i knew she was going to whether i didn't know all those things are just do you think
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men and women are the same no okay so you see you understand why they're different you're 50
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there so let me just let me just lost your job would you leave her no right but many women would
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leave their men because they lost their job yes right because the women are different what they what
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they what would keep them in a relationship is different to what would keep us in a relationship
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yes yes yes you're a cheerleader man ish you are the biggest cheerleader over there
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i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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