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00:00:00.000 guys think that lucy let be um was killing literally killing children for attention 1.00

00:00:05.360 i think that's disgusting like it's something that the bigger picture is like it's something

00:00:11.580 that should never have been swept underneath the rug like fair enough doctors do kill people by 0.99

00:00:17.020 accident sometimes by giving them wrong medication or you know diagnosing them or something but

00:00:21.560 realistically like why would you not want to take somebody else's health so much more seriously

00:00:28.720 and sweep that underneath the rug so seven's just too much how did that's what i was gonna say how

00:00:33.940 did that go on for so long for so long i think because she was a woman no i don't think it is

00:00:39.580 sweet and innocent i just think it's the it's the eyes like she just looks so innocent and no i i

00:00:44.520 know she probably did more for the hospital as well but someone said she looked like my cousin 1.00

00:00:49.100 i was like god damn it guys can um can someone fill me in i don't watch the news oh there is um a woman

00:00:56.740 who her name was lucy let be and she got arrested for killing seven children um or babies yeah she 1.00

00:01:03.480 was a nurse all at the same time um no it was over the course of a couple years but they found out she

00:01:09.020 was dating a doctor like a married doctor and they they think she was killing the babies to get his 1.00

00:01:13.600 attention how um i she injected them with like something okay yeah it was like the wrong it's for

00:01:20.260 he's attention yeah because he would like he would he would like help her with them when they would go

00:01:25.700 down south or whatever oh yeah yeah no but i think social media has made us insane

00:01:33.380 yeah especially because we pay more attention to it yeah well i think it's like we're all just so

00:01:38.700 addicted to it and it's like when when the social media and i really think there's going to be women 1.00

00:01:43.720 with a lot of mental health issues in like 10 years because i think when the attention like

00:01:48.780 they're less attractive they get older and it's like when the attention starts to go i just think

00:01:53.200 a lot of women are going to go nuts i think that's how we see life though we see other people's lives 1.00

00:01:57.460 we see snippets of happiness and that's what we kind of chase and that's not how everyone's life is

00:02:02.660 yeah we've got to learn to live in the moment more and just spend days off for social media completely

00:02:07.600 and just appreciate what you have like your family your home you know the small things

00:02:12.060 i think everyone i think everyone needs therapy yeah that's true oh no i think that makes you

00:02:17.440 worse no i feel like i feel like i disagree with you i felt the best cause of action for this is

00:02:23.480 just a throwaway you found well i actually this actually this wouldn't help me personally but

00:02:31.860 sometimes i'm like you had a brick knocking right now you'll be so much now hear me out here

00:02:36.100 ban women exactly ban women off of social media it makes us too crazy i think the men can kind

00:02:42.040 handle it is this next t-shirt what is this the next t-shirt well you know i don't want to push

00:02:46.940 this one too much i make money off of it but i was like you know i think that might be a net good

00:02:52.600 but i was like we would find a way back on you can you can keep us off but okay therapy you think

00:02:58.480 it's a good thing um yes yes it's definitely changed my view on life okay why how um i've had a

00:03:07.500 i've had a really rough upbringing abusive background um dad used to beat me um my mom

00:03:13.160 was an alcoholic um and i had like six years of therapy and i always used to see my glasses like

00:03:20.500 half empty rather than half full so what did you see before like what was the difference between you

00:03:26.960 six years like it's hard to explain it but i used to see everything as black and white

00:03:31.700 like the world was just black and white and now it's sort of got its color back so now i can see

00:03:37.560 things in a positive light which is it was really difficult before and um you know like when you tell

00:03:45.360 people that they just don't get it until they experience it um which is like depression and just

00:03:50.860 sadness just general sadness um but i think therapy helped me understand why things happened

00:03:56.760 and how things happened so the why's and the who's so all the questions that i've got

00:04:02.840 over the six years of therapy really helped me understand who i am who my uh my my parents are

00:04:10.840 um why they did the things they did and why i am why i am and why i make decisions so there was

00:04:18.160 loads of questions answered which now helped me navigate moving forward in life just just day-to-day

00:04:26.220 things just i can now understand why everything is happening and i can change it actively if i want

00:04:33.900 to therapy literally saved my life yeah what were we saying i saved my life too what what was your

00:04:41.260 experience so um i went through about a depression um i just saw earlier this year bring the mic up um

00:04:48.220 um and yeah i made an attempt on my life and from there i went into therapy and um yeah changed the

00:04:58.000 way i see things changed the way i am yeah yeah yeah it's not a competition but i've made like six

00:05:03.440 attempts on my life yeah oh wow yeah so if it's competition you win so thank you i'll tell you i'll tell you

00:05:12.120 why i i don't believe in therapy yeah now i i think there's an individual have you had yeah and i

00:05:18.240 thought i was stupid how long did you do it for like a couple sessions and i was like it was stupid 0.92

00:05:23.020 exactly because you didn't give no no that's why let me let me let me let me explain why and then

00:05:28.280 you can you can rebuttal so if you look into the history of psychology it was started by some of these

00:05:33.840 big families um and i i really think it's just usually a way to make men more feminine

00:05:39.260 and and teach them how to communicate like women in general and i think you can see this because

00:05:44.080 90 of therapists are women and i actually went to school for psychology and those bitches are crazy 1.00

00:05:50.780 i'm like if these are the women that are telling everyone how to think oh my god now i do think 0.98

00:05:56.100 there's individual therapists that are good um usually men i don't think it's like i just think

00:06:00.520 women don't look to solve problems they look to they look to like hear you and listen to you 1.00

00:06:05.780 but not not necessarily solve problems so the therapists that i do think are good are typically

00:06:10.600 men not typically women which is only 10 percent of therapists so and usually what what i find is

00:06:18.380 that especially chicks will go to therapists for years and then learn all these like think everybody's 1.00

00:06:24.020 a narcissist think everyone's toxic in their life and i really think therapy has replaced what used to

00:06:29.780 be a strong family structure because you used to be able to go to like someone in your household

00:06:34.660 in order to like fix problems but the issue is we have such a fucked up like family structure right 0.91

00:06:40.040 now that people don't have families to go to and they go to a stranger instead and i think it would

00:06:45.680 be better if we could go to families instead of go outside of it okay but you do know like there's

00:06:51.920 different types of therapies like there's speak therapy there's music therapy like there's different

00:06:57.060 forms of that which could help i i think there's individual instant i think male therapists are decent

00:07:03.360 like i think i think i think i think some of my best therapists have been male yeah i just i just find

00:07:08.040 that women are most of like most therapists it's like 90 percent are women and i just don't think

00:07:13.440 women look to solve problems they just look to like listen which which is fine but i i just think 1.00

00:07:19.460 that it like you said like if you don't have that family correct unit yeah um who do you turn to

00:07:25.820 do you know what i mean but now i'm more open to speak to friends i'm more open to speak to i'm i can speak

00:07:31.600 strangers about how what i've been through yeah because you've spoke to a therapist um yeah it

00:07:37.720 helped me open up to to people and things but you see that's like a more feminine trait and that's why

00:07:43.600 i say i think therapy like typically makes men into women more feminine because because either that

00:07:48.640 will be dead you know i'm not saying it doesn't help in some instances so you know i'm not trying

00:07:54.720 to like knock yours no no no no no i'm fine but i've just i've just found that like i think that

00:08:00.020 therapy tells men to emote like women because typically like women are the ones that need to 1.00

00:08:05.620 talk about their problems to feel better yeah where men don't you know they'll like fight it out or like

00:08:11.240 you know just in general right you think that that's good i i think that making someone into

00:08:16.960 something they're not as bad and i think making men into women is bad and we've always been told that

00:08:21.640 the feminine way to do things is good okay so i'd like to add um typically i would say instead of 1.00

00:08:28.960 therapy what people should seek out is mentorship so you want someone that would teach you how to

00:08:34.460 attack problems in life and how to build on positive steps each day so the reason why a lot of people

00:08:41.380 fall into depression is usually for a few reasons one things are not going right in their life or they

00:08:47.460 don't have direction that is usually the reason why people fall into depression so if you have

00:08:51.420 someone that can show you steps okay you know what today go to the gym even when you don't feel

00:08:55.500 like going to the gym still do it they push you you go over time you tend to build up small wins and

00:09:01.900 then with each small win you build up character yeah so this is the thing a lot of men these days fall

00:09:07.980 into the trap of going to therapy when you should actually be seeking mentors because as men we get

00:09:15.280 our source of strength and our source of motivation from actually um building things making um little

00:09:23.380 successes here and there so you can't just sit in a room and be talking about your feelings and expect

00:09:27.980 that i mean it could help it could work for some people yeah a lot of people it doesn't actually work

00:09:32.440 yeah i think it's better for people if not just even men both men and women to focus on

00:09:37.980 doing things day by day and getting small wins and that way you can come out of anything

JustPearlyThings - October 16, 2023

Feminists Never Talk About This!

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