Girl With 100 Bodies Describes Her H＊E Phase
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Summary
In this episode, the lads talk about what it's like to be in a long term relationship with someone you've been with for a while and how it can affect your chances of falling in love with that person.
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Like, have you ever had a habit and, like, you switched it?
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So, like, maybe you didn't work out and you started working out,
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or maybe you ate bad food and then you stopped.
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You know how difficult it was for you to switch that habit?
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It's just, like, if you've done that for so long,
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why would a guy deal with a girl that has more bad habits than a girl who doesn't?
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I'm sure you've been on, like, super nice dates at some, you know, like.
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And so now if you meet the average Joe, you know,
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which maybe would have been your husband, how is he going to impress you?
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Because the thing is, you've always got it in the back of your mind.
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but you do have it at the back of your mind thinking,
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oh, that was such a nice date where the sun was going down
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But now I'm just going to a regular bar or something.
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And you think back at it when you're at that table at a regular place when I shouldn't.
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Sometimes I've made that decision to do what I've done.
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No, and I appreciate you being honest about it.
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But, like, you see how it becomes a problem later.
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Yeah, because it's like with 80, it's like how many guys did you really, really, really like?
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But sometimes you can get yourself in situations.
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And I'm sure the guys that you did really, really like,
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Like, I think it's hard for a girl that's up with five guys to replace the ones you liked.
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So, the guy, how many guys are you thinking of when I'm talking about this?
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So, out of the five or six, the five or six guys you're, like, thinking about.
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No, because when I talk about this stuff, I'm sure there's someone that comes to you guys' head.
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Like, there's someone that comes to my head, right?
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But it's like, so, out of the five or six guys, did you sleep with them early on or late?
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It was kind of throughout the whole period, actually.
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I reckon in the past two years, actually, recently, I've had a couple of guys in my life that have stuck on my mind.
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No, because it's always, I always wonder if, like, at that point, you can still, like, bond at that level.
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I get where I see where you're coming from, yeah, yeah.
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But you're saying, like, you could, because I'm guessing at, like, 50, you.
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But it just, he has to be really, really special.
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It takes me a lot now, I think, for a guy to, for me to fall in love.
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So, all three of you girls, really beautiful women.
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Have you ever met a guy that was loyal, nice, checked off all the boxes that are required for, you know, a long-term relationship,
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but you looked over him and chose a guy that you knew was never going to commit to you, never going to give you loyalty,
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never going to get you the attention and the respect that you deserve?
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When you meet the attractive guy in the club, he's got a suit on, he's got change, he's got...
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Listen, the most attention I've ever got from women in the club was when I brought other women with me.
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So when I showed up with a bunch of women, their attention was unlimited because you want what other girls want.
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This is why I talk about playing the victim and accountability earlier when I talked about healing.
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Because there's no way you can fuck with a fuckboy and know that...
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Why do you choose the bad guy over the good guy when you know the result of both?
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Yeah, but we like that excitement of the bad boys.
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So don't choose it in your 30s when your value is less.
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When you're most valuable, give your man that value at that time.
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I think the best solution is, yeah, to find that bad boy, to find that guy that gets a lot of women.
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Every woman thinks that they can change him out.
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When a girl thinks they can change a man, that's exciting for them.
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They don't want a guy that's on the PlayStation, like, fucking playing games.
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They want a guy that's popular, that's high in demand.
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Do you think that's good advice for the average chick?
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I think it's like to find a guy that actually loves you, no matter what he does.
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Because usually, if I'm just thinking stereotypically, the bad boy has a bunch of women after him.
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So, like, what are the odds that the average chick is going to get him?
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Like, you don't think for the average chick she should go for the nicer guys?
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I think, like, giving myself as an example, like, as a playboy, when you find the girl that you actually love, yeah?
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And she knows that you're whatever, whatever you do, but you actually are in love with each other, then it's fine.
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You have a nice, long, fulfilling relationship.
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You want to be with a virgin girl, like, you take her virginity.
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But if you're with some girl that's ugly, that no one wants her, like, she's not loyal, whatever.
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Right, but knowing that women, like, sleep up, is that really good advice for the average chick?
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Yeah, so it's, like, you know only, like, 20% of men really get sex like that, like, 15, 20% of men.
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So when you guys sleep with someone, it's probably the top 20% of men.
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And so, like, why do women think all men cheat?
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No, no, it's because, like, you guys want the top tier men.
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And so if you're dating a guy that's an asshole, a guy that's cheating, that means he can cheat.
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One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
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So if you're going for a guy that's in the top percentage, like, he's more likely to cheat.
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And so that's what I'm saying, like, if you're a girl that's a five or six or a seven can sleep with an eight, nine, or ten.
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But that doesn't make you an eight, nine, or ten.
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And so the problem is, like, when you're talking, I'm thinking if she's going for the top 20% of guys,
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which usually I would say they're more of the assholes because they can be, right?
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The guy's not going to treat you as special if he's got multiple.
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Like, the average chick isn't going to slow him down.
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Pearl, and I think it's also the average of what environment you're in.
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Because if you, most women sleep with the guys they work with.
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So if you look in the workplace, they're, everybody's sleeping with everybody.
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Wherever you work, there's girls sleeping with.
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I've never slept with someone I've worked with.
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That is not the case at the JPT, I'll tell you that.
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In general, wherever you work, people are sleeping together because the guy that's sleeping with all the girls in the campus,
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you done heard things about him, whatever their sexual or status or whatever,
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He sleeps with all the girls on whatever job, and you still choose to do that.
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But it's also a sense of maturity if the woman actually knows, like, what she wants,
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A lot of us girls are delusional and immature, and we like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state.
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As, once you've matured, and you know what you like and what you, you value, what you like,
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and you value within yourself, I don't know if I'm explaining this correctly.
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But you, I personally don't like bad boys anymore, and I think I was in an immature era.
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You have a go for a guy that's not a bad boy, that's not a...
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No, a guy with ambition and drive and knows himself and knows how he looks after a woman
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is so attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself and only disrespect a woman.
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Do you, do you sleep, who do you sleep with faster?
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Because you said you've dated cheaters in the past, right?
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And so like the way men will see it is when you're at...
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The younger you are, the more valuable, the higher value you have as a woman, right?
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If you're 50 and you're 20, you're more valuable to men at 20, right?
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When it comes to looks, like what they're attracted to.
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So it's like when you have the most to give and you have the lowest body count, you choose
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Like you're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice guys.
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And it's kind of like, okay, imagine if you found out, if you're dating a guy and you
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found out for their anniversary, his ex-girlfriend, he spent a ton of money on, took her on trips,
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And the most he's ever done for you is taking you to Taco Bell.
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You'd be pissed, but that's how men feel when they find out you slept with Tom, Dick, and
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Harry after one night, but you made him wait a month or a week.
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So they see it as, oh, when you were younger, fitter, like hotter, you gave your best years
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And now it's like to them now, and like they, and it seems like, and I genuinely believe
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those are the guys that women really want, but once you realize you can't tame them, then
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