God won't STOP Your WIFE from LEAVING YOU ｜ Reviewing the @DailyWirePlus Debate!
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about a recent trip to the United States where I went on the Daily Wire show with Michael Knolls and what I learned from it and why I believe men should get married young.
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what up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily and welcome to the just pearly things
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youtube channel i missed you guys one in the chat one in the chat if you guys can hear me okay if
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we're running up and smooth all that jazz okay i want to make sure i turn this audio back on but
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okay okay so hello hello hello today i just got back from a trip to the united states
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and when i was in the united states i went on the daily wire show with michael knowles now if you
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guys know anything about me when i first got into the more of the red pill space i would say i came
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in with more of a traditional conservative viewpoint and some of my viewpoints were actually
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i would say shaped by listening to the daily wire when i was younger was not the daily wire alone
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but overall i've been a fan of their content for years ben shapiro was one of the first guys that
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i i would say red pilled me you know i wasn't overly political when i was younger
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um i believe the first time i could vote i didn't and the second time i voted republican
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now a lot of the reason i voted republican the second time around was because i watched the daily
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wire but what i have seen from the daily wire in the last two years is a huge blind spot just a the
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biggest blind spot that i have ever seen in a company and
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it was almost a surreal moment it was basically in my in my eyes telling the daily wire about this
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huge blind spot that i see for them um and debating on marriage in 2024 now i would like to remind you
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that i didn't always have these opinions i didn't really understand why men didn't want to get married
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under the age of 40 most people aren't married or haven't been married for that long
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matter what my religion was or the way that i thought or what i thought was right
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what i was seeing in front of me and what happened was i came to england and i started interviewing
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a thousand women and i started interviewing men after divorce
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for the women that actually want to understand where the men are coming from
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you know this is for the women that actually love men
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maybe you have a brother that you want to protect
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but knowing this information will help you protect the men in your lives
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michael knolls is pushing and the daily wire is pushing
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and and when i first heard this stuff this sounded really dramatic
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um so what i gathered from the michael knolls debate
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and some of the stuff i did talk about in the debate
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and you might not understand where it's coming from
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sometimes it's hard to convey this stuff over screen
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and and i would just see people not living in reality
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because they're trying to sell me their religion
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they're trying to sell me their political party
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to figure out what what was true about the world
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because everybody seemed to be selling something
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but they should know what they are signing up for
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if men understood how serious of a decision they were making
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i don't think you should do what michael knowles says
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and you're gonna keep seeing more craziness in church
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but verify with like what's wrong with trusting
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someone has the power and it can be either the woman
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or the man now our civil law gives the power to the woman
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and then she will use it and oftentimes it's against men
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or you can have a man have the power well he's the head of the household
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and then go back to proverbs 14 the wise woman builds her house
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but the foolish pulls it down with her hands give the authority to a woman
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what's she gonna do with it destroy that's my experience
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well i mean and michael noel seems to try to like be a logical person
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and rational person so i'm gonna like argue him rationally
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what goes on with that pussy of his wife 24 hours a day
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i guarantee you he's not like has a camera on it
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he has to trust her and hope that nothing is going in there
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so why wouldn't it just be easy just to put a blank in a law
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saying that all babies need to get a paternity test
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that just puts everybody on the equal honest playing field
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do you know that the singer neo got conned for um raising a kid
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or paying child support for a child that it wasn't his
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mess because adam decided to listen to his wife to begin with
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there's a thousand three hundred of you in here
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were all suggestions that he actually ended up making too
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i was getting so frustrated because it kept going back to morality
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and sometimes i just want to say i'm an atheist in arguments
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not because i wish to be but it would just be easier
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but god i'm an atheist so can we stick to the laws
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but god i'm sorry i mean like it would just be easier
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like then i wouldn't have to keep going back to
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my religion my religion my religion it's just so frustrating
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but god i just wonder like if that baby that she has if it came out black
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i'm just wondering i'm just asking for a friend
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it's interesting watching i didn't watch back any of it
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i don't i get my sometimes when people roast me really hard it hurts my feelings
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i didn't really want to see the like comments or anything
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i didn't realize like what he was doing that whole debate every time i'd start
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like every time and he would just change the topic
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and i didn't really realize it until like watching it back
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i just want you to play like the first few minutes of it
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do you want to introduce yourself to the people
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i worked at a child support agency for five years
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so when we think in terms of the doctrine of total depravity
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bishops in this whole thing now i don't care if
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you're catholic or not but i look to the catholic
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obviously nowhere church is a business you look
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women do right overall you're losing that group of
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people who could pay into your business you know how
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many churches are closing up nick like yearly like on
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honestly honestly glenn i was so i was so happy when i
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found out he was catholic because none of this shit was
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going to fly with me that you have these special churches in
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the middle of nowhere oh no oh no i've seen your latin
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you know you're not going to convince me of this
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your your church is not special or different or immune from female nature
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it's just not so your your women are not any special or
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involved i used to go to like um catholic camps like in the summer
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growing up and most of the girls i grew up with
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aren't aren't really practicing so where are your special women like
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pearl i agree with you i live in fargo north dakota
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one of the more conservative diocese in the country where it's a lot
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that's my experience and the bishop is still not standing up
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and taking care of things and they just let my situation go through so
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and you know what one thing i won't have to answer for
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can i ask you did they did they process annulments
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did the church actually issue an annulment there i i never got to the point of filing one
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because you know what i i i have to understand things and i don't have proof
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and so it's take i have a lot of circumstantial evidence my first marriage
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why it was not valid but uh you know i i never filed and then
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all of a sudden my documentation just disappeared my computer got
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and then my other files just kind of disappeared so
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i don't know what happened um guys if you don't mind if you're on twitter
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oh and the people watching i guess we have a thousand five hundred people watching on twitter
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what a day yeah 1.6 section oh 1.6 yeah um okay was there any other time stamps from the um
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the discussion that any of you wanted to bring up
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um i have like 12 but i'm saving a lot of them for um when i do the breakdown
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150 to 150 oh no i think we did that one already right
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i i know women i know women yeah i know women that you know they're in the same family
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one one shows sex work or something similar one chose to be a housewife same family right
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but but if you're if you're saying like so to the point you opened with when you say
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look it's different for the younger than 30 women or whatever it's totally because the social
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but then the thing that has changed is not the women and the nature of the women the thing that
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has changed is the social circumstances and so the place you're placing the blame even you as you
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describe it is in those changing laws and customs and norms not on the nature of women no no i still
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think you're responsible but i don't think the laws are fair to men so you would and you would
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change the laws but you don't blame the laws for the problem but you would change them anyway
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because you know if i can legally kill someone should i it depends the circumstance but in general
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what's in general i mean if he's like you know what i'm saying sorry you know exactly what i get so
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irritated when people do this in interviews i'm sorry i'm sorry guys i'm sorry i'm being a woman i'm
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being dramatic but it's like it's like okay okay you know exactly what i'm asking should i legally do
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something wrong because i'm allowed to and you're saying well what are the circumstances
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you know what i'm saying sorry sorry michael don't take this personally please don't i'm i just i don't
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understand why you do that i don't get it like you you know what i i hate it when people know what i'm
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saying and i know they know what i'm saying but they pretend they don't know i mean maybe i'm being
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a woman maybe i wasn't clear but i know you knew so i don't okay i'll continue family perhaps if he's
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just you don't like the cut of his jib probably yeah but you know what i'm asking okay i don't know
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what you're asking perl i promise you i do not know but that's that's what i'm saying is like just
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because you can do something it doesn't mean you should it depends what i don't i don't think
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like what what's your i'm really just confused at what your your point is so are women responsible
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for their sin or they're not responsible i think culpability for sin is contingent on knowledge
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and uh free consent okay what so right there so right there he's passing women's sin
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on everyone else but women yeah and then he's using these big words for no reason i hate it when
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people do that i mean he's just trying to chip you up on like i'm like culpability what the fuck
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does that are we responsible i i hate big words i feel like people use big words to sound smarter
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than they are no offense michael if you see this very sorry i'm not trying to be rude but i'm just
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are we are we responsible or are we not responsible yet let me address that okay go ahead from the
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catholic standpoint you're not totally culpable if you don't understand what you're doing
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okay i accept that but you're still responsible and as a woman you can either as an unmarried woman
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you can be under the authority of your father or as a married woman you can be under the authority
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of your husband and then you're covered wait i want to step out on your own hey you're responsible
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no i just want to wait i just i just want to show something could you please pull up my screen
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please do all right so now luckily in 2024 you know we have so many choices you know because he might say
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how how could the women know how could they know the consequences for this behavior it's just it's just
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so unheard of the culture just tells them consequences right right wait for it wait for
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for doing wait wait wait wait sex work so women we we pull up all these makeup tutorials and we can
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figure out how to do that but we can't figure out that um there is our discrimination going on losing
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friends and being dissed by family members not only is the job illegal getting arrested um the
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harmful consequences of sex work it's like you should be surprised there's consequences of being
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a hoe i i get so i get i get so frustrated wait could you you can move it now i get so frustrated i get so
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irritated because i'm sorry so women can figure out how to do a a 37 minute makeup tutorial on how to
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make them look like a completely different person but you couldn't do any research into starting an
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only fans having an abortion or contracting an std divorcing your husband or anything get the fuck out
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of here get out of here i just drives me nuts how are we not responsible i mean just take it it's called
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it's called taking the l and i think we should just learn to take the l and move on sometimes you make
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the wrong choice l l you're on only fans your vagina's on only fans for life l you got an std l you got
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an abortion l your life's a mess you're in debt l why can't we just take else just take it l thank you
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sorry i just irritates me you remember when he was like saying that like men take advantage of women
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in the debate like men men take advantage of women sexually that women don't want to have sex as men
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that take advantage of them and then you're like your wives not want to have sex with you
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like no no i'm just asking like did he not read proverbs 7 at all like proverbs 7 is about this woman
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out there literally pursuing men and then like taking her home where there's like dead man's bones
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like come on man it's it seems like track at least like like michael knowles have a hard time of a
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ascribing accountability and agency to women you know he relies on the on the kind of pick the right
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one strategy and it's like when when men end up getting you know screwed in divorce courts like well
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you didn't pick the right one but if a woman becomes a single mom it's like well this this terrible
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person did that to you they don't say you didn't pick the right man like why don't you just pick a guy
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that doesn't pump and dump you you know what i mean it's it's always about attracted to them
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yeah well hey yeah pick the right one thing let's go back to genesis adam said hey i'm lonely
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god created this woman for him was she the right one yeah well i assume so and what happened there
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he listened to her and it went back so is there any right it can you pick the right one i don't think so
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oh it's a simpery that's going on here he's doing simpery
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s-i-m-p-s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping that's what i want to start
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there was another point where you asked about uh marriageable women and he said what well it's it's
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about 50 50 men and women for uh it's we're about about parity for population i heard that and i was
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like uh yeah but a lot of those women don't want to live traditional lives a lot of those women
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you know are are modern and and feminist and and they don't want to um live the way that that the
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church or bible tells them but you know again he's gonna blame men for that but he's that's another
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example of him saying hey uh not putting the agency on on the women themselves or their accountability
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but what are men supposed to do if the majority of women in that 50 50 parody don't want to have kids
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or pair off or do this stuff right it's not all on the men blaming men is not going to fix this
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problem it's just they failed with doing anything about feminists they failed at bringing them back
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into a traditional role so now they're frustrated and they just want to whip men even harder than
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they ever have before and it's not working it's just going to drive the men away good luck
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good and that was my whole point really that was that was my that was my i know then he was going
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after i'm like don't go after aaron clary that's my guy okay he's so smart an attack against him
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yeah he was like well you know the first sentence there was some grammar grammatical error if someone
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has a grammatical error but their message is good that's okay with me like i'll read someone's book
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if there's some some grammar errors in it if if it's a good book i could look past that you know
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but if there's something actually wrong with the data and facts and that's another thing well and then
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he was talking about how and that's why i'm like are you blind you go on whatever look i understand
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ignorance okay i look at i grew up around these type of guys like i totally get it i grew up because
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i think michael's calf like i grew up upper upper middle it's kind of a bubble all right but you guys
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once i started interviewing chicks i'm like i should i wouldn't date anyone either this is exhausting
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i'm like how can you not there was one other thing oh go ahead go ahead please let me point
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out something when he attacked what you said about aaron clary's book that's an ad hominem attack
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that's pretty low brow you can't attack the man's message so you attack his his grammar
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well you don't shoot the messenger because you don't like his message
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at the end of the day you know it's funny bro sad thing is is that you care more about his son
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than he does yeah ironically that's true i mean all of us care more about his son and his son's future
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you know relationship or you know whatever than he does he wants his son to be a cuck
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he's not adequately preparing his son for what the son is going to face out there
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which is you know the whole blue pill red pill you know a lot of people talk about the red pill
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but everyone seems to have forgotten the word blue pill or what that used to mean especially
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back in the early days of those the forums of the red pill that the blue pill isn't just a you know
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a atheist simp that wants to get laid from a woman a blue pill is also someone that subscribes to the
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old contract conditioning of the of the kind of disney fantasy save the princess idea and in the
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society we live in this this role of the princess has been completely deconstructed by media and
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culture men are sitting here still trying to play the prince and now we're trying to figure out what
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does a prince look like when women don't want to be saved anymore you know what i mean and he's
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going to raise his son in this save the princess mentality and that's how he'll end up getting
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steven crowdered you know what i mean yeah um there was um sorry to drop off to something else
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there was something at 19 minutes uh where he brought up uh no fault divorce at 1969 and how
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it's actually been a long time since 1969 he was trying to undo one of your points about saying well
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there has been a long time of this and that but i i didn't like that point you might need to replay
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it because i can't wait no let's i'll play it what time stamp 19 19 minutes yeah i'm sorry my
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time stamps aren't very i'll do it a little i'll do it a little early just church the catholic church
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is not exempt it's absolutely not exempt i've seen a lot of the same trends in the catholic church
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i i guess my confusion my confusion is though you you bring up these statistics and so then we
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acknowledge the statistics that show that if one uh you know gets married assuming that divorce is not
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a sacramental reality that the likelihood of divorce goes way down but then when we say that you
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instantly say well actually now the statistics aren't worth anything because young people are
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different wait say that again sorry so wait we agree yeah that uh the numbers for right catholics
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jews muslim orthodox jews and muslims divorce numbers are way lower and you acknowledge those
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statistics but then you say no i don't no i don't you don't okay no no because most of those include
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women over a certain age right you're saying the young people it's totally different time michael so
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what and that's that's the same thing like the time my parents got married in is completely
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different so what changed other than now they have so they meet on apps rather than at bars and
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that's the big change that's why we can't believe the statistics anymore well the average marriage
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is seven years now michael right but we've had divorce uh expanded divorce for a long time we've
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had no-fault divorce in america since 1969 so you know i acknowledge these are by historical
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standards relatively novel but we're still talking like 50 years right more than 50 years see we're
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right here this is where this is the um part i i take some issue with because it's like yeah that's
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true sacramento governor ronald reagan signed into law uh no-fault divorce in 1969 in california only
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but it took time to create the situation where and now the child support program wasn't passed federally
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until 75 it didn't get its teeth until 1996 uh six when perora passed and there's a lot of things
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that are different from 1969 up until now so he's trying to say there's a one for one between 1969 and
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uh i i just couldn't let him get away with characterizing it that way because i think he's
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not um i don't want to say anything he's being disingenuous yes thank you glenn that's exactly what
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he's doing yeah and and well because he also got to like my question is okay if the churches are
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doing supposedly doing it right why have divorces only increased amongst christian denominations
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you got i think pearl you're mentioning like what catholics are at 35 percent or 25 i mean i was i was
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trying oh shoot my audio is going i think it's the cord hold on um i'm
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uh okay can you hear me i think so okay i didn't want to argue about 25 35 45 or 50 i was trying my
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best to just give it to them okay 45 35 from what i've seen it's actually pretty much the same when
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you look at the divorce stats the other way um because in a lot of these studies they'll discount
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people as not being like real or something but there's um and i i'm not so i'm going to be
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butchering this but there's a guy who helps me with some of the like research for it and he was saying
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if you look at the number of divorces you get a different number than like some of these niche
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studies that's pretty much the same within like five percent but i knew that if i said anything
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like what it is they were just going to argue with me into oblivion about that stupid 10 so i said you
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know what yeah i'll give you 35 even though we all know it's not but i'll play pretend with you for an
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hour yeah it's still terrible i know i know it's still terrible like isn't it a monkey evangelicals
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it's like it's like at 25 to 35 as well or if not more we all know it's more they've butchered
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these stats somehow i just can smell it like we all know but like okay so look at this why how is it
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that the christian denomination that says that marriage is the reflection between the relationship
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between christ and the church i have such high number of divorces amongst the the religion
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that says we reflect the relationship between christ and the church it doesn't make sense to
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me so it's because something has to be fundamentally wrong here they refuse to acknowledge the state's
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role in this you know the the church does unfortunately does not have the power to control
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you know these divorces anymore it's it's now gone over into the the civil courts uh into the state
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the state has created these laws which has uh really affected uh how people's marriages are doing
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and but the strangest part is that the trad cons will then double down and say you know uh they'll you
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know obviously be like people need to be more religious if everybody was just more traditional
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we're just more traditional and unfortunately it's not working but they they refuse to really look at the
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state and start calling that out i mean they their media needs to start pushing this as a message we need
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to hear politicians uh saying that and understanding that their constituents are crying out for that
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there's a real problem here and i would i would love to hear trump or other politicians talking about
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this and trying to get something passed at least or at least trying to bring this up as a as a big
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issue otherwise they they are going to lose the voters yeah point something out here um i i don't have
03:20:38.100
statistics statistics at hand but there have been studies i believe of the abortion rate between
03:20:47.320
uh catholics evangelicals and secular women and it's not that different and i i would say well that
03:20:57.040
probably reflects divorce rates they're not that different what okay and i have no there has been no
03:21:05.160
studies on this are marriages among catholic people potentially more nasty than secular well i my perception my
03:21:19.980
experience is yes because a catholic woman does not believe in divorce but she wants to divorce so she
03:21:29.340
needs a good reason so she's going to come up with an excuse uh bad thoughts against children
03:21:37.760
kind of something like that to uh get a get out of jail free card so she can maintain her standing in
03:21:48.940
the church and avoid the shame uh he's right that's an interesting point that's he that's right that's really
03:21:56.840
he's right and it's true evangelicals too maybe to a lesser extent so i'm not i'm not singling out
03:22:04.240
catholics here but can we just bring back catholic girls like come on i just i grew up around these
03:22:12.200
catholic chicks they will not convince me of anything no we are not special i don't know much about
03:22:18.660
there's orthodox maybe they're a little better i i don't know a lot of orthodox people but i'm sorry
03:22:24.180
your moms were just as hoes as the rest of our moms i mean i've seen catholic women cheat i've seen
03:22:30.600
catholic women alienate the kids from the father i've seen devout catholics raise whore daughters
03:22:36.580
i've seen devout catholics raise good daughters i've seen it all you guys will convince me of nothing
03:22:42.040
no no no it's no special i'm like i grew up i went to catholic school my entire life you will not
03:22:47.880
i people are people people are people people are people regardless of where you go and that's what
03:22:53.380
irritates me my dad my dad always had a phrase he would say to me when i was growing up he would
03:22:57.960
just whatever something crazy or i'd find out something happened he would just look at me and
03:23:02.340
say people are people people are people in the church outside of the church people have a nature
03:23:07.480
your church isn't special or different thank you you started here's the sad thing about it
03:23:14.100
if marriage is done now if you're coming from a biblical worldview if marriage is done correctly
03:23:20.980
it is a beautiful thing right you got this perfect harmony here right you got this hierarchy you got
03:23:28.440
the man loving his wife like christ of the church you know just taking care of her educating her it's
03:23:35.840
washing her through the word that means teaching her the bible because you know women ain't supposed
03:23:39.780
to be preaching to nobody um but like you have this beautiful thing she submits to him and his leadership
03:23:45.800
and he doesn't do any foul because he loves her as he loves himself and he would not do anything
03:23:51.560
foul to himself and she respects his leadership okay it's like there's this beautiful way that it's
03:23:58.540
supposed to be done but the church doesn't even teach that way anymore it doesn't even support the
03:24:04.880
original model of marriage and you're like you're wondering why the church is failing at marriage
03:24:09.980
we're wondering they don't even teach the word right right i mean nick we have a whole book on this
03:24:15.120
and glenn what happens to those that do teach oh they get kicked out of the churches and they get
03:24:21.100
like me and my friends have done yeah well guys i'm gonna take i'm gonna take collins from the
03:24:27.900
public soon um so i'm gonna can i make one more point on that uh sure no more steve no more be quiet
03:24:36.360
yeah screw you yeah go ahead hey remember oh we're getting that season palm sunday everybody welcomes
03:24:46.300
christ oh yeah he's great uh marriage you you get married and oh the husband is great great great
03:24:57.060
and then what happens about a week later year or two later crucify him crucify him
03:25:08.400
so if we are like christ to our wives um are they gonna go from loving us to wanting us dead
03:25:21.720
well they already do nick is laughing hey you know what i want to hear what he has to say
03:25:30.520
oh man brother my experience exactly i was the greatest i'm this godly man i'm the devil himself you
03:25:41.100
know crucify him destroy him do you guys want to say where the people can find you
03:25:47.620
because i'm about to drop this link in the chat sure um you can find me on youtube at this is shah
03:25:55.160
that's shah spelled s-h-a-h this is shah thank you shah um thank you so much for having me yeah
03:26:01.300
thanks for coming um the rest you guys want to go you can find me on twitter at
03:26:08.060
uh cairo underscore unplugged or xp underscore unplugged and i have a youtube channel i think it's
03:26:18.440
like i think you fix it but it's like uh nick or christianity nick at christianity unplugged or
03:26:24.800
something like that blessing don't let anyone from the link in yet just so you know and you can't find
03:26:31.740
me because i'm just on glenn's channel i haven't decided if i wanted a public presence yet
03:26:41.340
and uh you guys know you can find me you can find me at glenn lawrence presents
03:26:47.300
um on youtube uh mr glenn lawrence on twitter um and uh yeah thank you pearl thank you guys all for
03:26:55.740
coming on um okay guys so so guys um we are gonna go to you can you can take
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the zoom off there you go okay so i'm gonna actually accept callers and my question is
03:27:12.280
am i a feminist now i just i need i need feedback from the people as you guys know i am no stranger
03:27:21.460
to criticism you know um but we need some guidelines okay now this is my show this is my show i put in a
03:27:32.340
lot of work to put on this show and right now i'm doing it for free zero dollars you know so i am
03:27:38.760
allowed to have rules and if you don't like my rules you can kiss my ass and get the f off respectfully
03:27:44.760
okay so number one you do not over talk me i don't care if you feel like you deserve more mic time
03:27:54.860
i will mute you and kick you off am i able to have the zoom on my screen blessing
03:28:00.140
nah okay be good with my my kickoff all right if you say no you we're gonna kick someone off
03:28:09.060
all right we're gonna kick someone all right i sometimes we're gonna kick someone off okay okay
03:28:13.960
okay um someone's asking for my instagram i've been banned on instagram okay number rule now question
03:28:20.780
now i'd really like to my priority i'd like to actually ask women because i've gotten so much
03:28:25.740
pushback from women everyone says i only want to talk to men no women no women no women so if
03:28:30.940
there's a woman in the chat i really encourage you i don't bite i'm actually quite nice you know
03:28:35.200
regardless of what the people say i i want to know am i a feminist and i will talk to the guys too but
03:28:42.460
the the chicks i just think it would be nice to you know anyways stop saying my nancy pelosi hand
03:28:50.560
gestures i'm sorry i like to talk with my hands all right okay sorry all right number two number two
03:29:04.320
internet room whatever you want to bring up i just i'm not here to talk about drama i'm asking am i a
03:29:15.520
feminist so if you're gonna bring up your own random topic get out of here this isn't what we're here
03:29:20.540
to talk i'm asking am i a feminist for saying that marriage is a bad deal for men in 2024
03:29:29.720
if you're blocked on my twitter i probably just think you're i don't want to talk to you so
03:29:36.840
sorry you don't get to come on um i think that's do we have anyone in the chat how many people are in
03:29:46.380
the zoom okay let me all right i just kicked two guys off if you come on the zoom make sure your
03:29:50.800
camera is on otherwise oh yeah sorry camera's gotta be on we gotta write these rules i'm gonna pin it in
03:29:56.260
the chat um and wait until you're called up as well yeah can you mute um
03:30:06.700
are there any women that came on or is it all guys it was all guys and thank you guys on x we got
03:30:15.100
2400 people on x wow uh please make sure you are liking reposting all of that good stuff thank you
03:30:22.200
thank you all right i'm gonna tweet i'm gonna tweet because i just the trad con women have had so much
03:30:28.180
to say to me so much to say to me and so i'm just asking the question all right trad con i'm gonna tweet
03:30:36.900
at you guys trad con women call me now all right get on the zoom link por favor
03:30:50.500
is there any way i can see the the screen of who we let in without everyone else seeing it
03:31:07.060
i there's some people that i'm not giving cloud until i see who i'm talking to
03:31:12.940
um yeah they need to turn their cameras on first as well oh yeah no kick them off if they don't have
03:31:17.740
their cameras oh yeah just kick them kick them guys i mean what what do you think who do you think
03:31:21.980
you are coming on the show i need to see your face you're not just gonna get to troll and say what
03:31:26.580
you want nope i need face i need face okay we got brennan here now okay wait wait wait wait i'm
03:31:36.140
putting straight i feel like we should have thought about this because what i don't want
03:31:43.160
now he looks like a mask guy okay we can bring up brennan okay i don't want any trolls that's what
03:31:51.100
i'm asking um yeah that's fine you can bring up a second you didn't have time to turn well then
03:32:00.420
turn it on and turn the link again i mean i'm not gonna be able to go all night you know i'm just
03:32:06.180
saying second we got brennan ready to go oh we got it we got a lady as well today all right the lady
03:32:14.580
can go second we'll we'll let brennan brennan seems like a nice guy all right so brennan you're gonna be
03:32:20.080
on first all right okay and hello brennan how are you i'm doing i'm doing well um i'm a married
03:32:30.460
christian guy i also appreciate the work you're doing um i am i have some thoughts on this topic
03:32:38.840
okay so i don't i don't think you're a feminist at all um i think that that's kind of an outlandish
03:32:45.000
accusation yeah nor would i call you a liberal yeah i think you're i think you're reasonable okay um
03:32:49.900
and i'm a married guy um i think outside of ultra orthodox christianity where especially communal
03:32:56.600
christianity so i'm a mennonite convert which is kind of like a cousin to the amish um and so i'm
03:33:04.080
using technology obviously but it's it's somewhat limited uh the divorce rates are like three percent
03:33:09.260
and part of the reason is people are highly interdependent and there's an enormous amount
03:33:14.940
of financial and social pressure not to get divorced so there is some there are some groups that
03:33:21.080
voluntarily associate that have a system that makes it that disincentivizes divorce
03:33:26.500
where so where are you at i'm located in georgia georgia am i able to visit these communities i
03:33:33.620
actually want to go see one totally yeah absolutely actually you're a midwesterner right i don't know
03:33:38.660
if you still live in the midwest but uh i'm in london now but um there's one in chicago area that'd be
03:33:47.580
ideal when i'm home yeah there's actually quite a few yeah there's quite a few mennonite churches
03:33:52.240
uh in southern illinois uh so if you go to if you're willing to drive a couple hours um there's
03:33:59.040
if you look up the eastern pennsylvania mennonite church as well as there's a there's a website called
03:34:03.960
the pilgrim uh ministry and you can find a map of mennonite churches throughout the united states
03:34:10.240
um they are extremely conservative uh women wear head coverings and uh 1400 style dresses uh it's
03:34:18.000
oh yeah so could you show my screen i'm going to show them the pictures of it
03:34:22.060
sorry keep going i'm just going to show them blessing show the screen real quick sure
03:34:29.520
yeah so i i think there's quite a few um there are some orth there are some and i use the word
03:34:37.480
orthodox not as an eastern orthodox but there are some very ultra conservative christian options in the
03:34:42.380
united states that prevent a lot of this nonsense and me and my wife we we were fed up with what the
03:34:47.820
churches were teaching and uh you know ultimately we decided we wanted to go attend a church that
03:34:53.160
actually followed what the bible said and uh some of you guys who were on earlier they were talking
03:34:57.540
about hey uh submitting to your husband uh you know and as well as loving your wife as uh christ
03:35:05.960
loved the church well there are some churches that do that so let me put it this way so in a mennonite
03:35:10.960
church um people uh insure each other for example so uh health insurance car insurance uh you name it
03:35:19.480
uh it's all through the church and people mutually assisting each other so let's say you're someone
03:35:23.860
who wants to divorce your husband for no reason you're now opting there's a financial penalty for
03:35:27.960
doing that you go and just walk off and divorce your husband you're now throwing away your health
03:35:31.300
insurance and your car insurance um health insurance car insurance and medical insurance
03:35:35.960
uh also yeah so i think that's like kind of churches organize that way and create disincentives i think
03:35:42.380
that's pretty effective so i'm confused so but they would still be opted into the state right so like if
03:35:51.740
she wanted i'm i just don't understand it so you can just um tell me if i'm right or i'm wrong so if
03:35:57.660
she's in a mennonite community and like let's just say you know your wife divorces you tomorrow
03:36:02.880
she loses the insurances that she got through the church so the church has this system of mutual aid
03:36:12.340
so there's this verse in the bible lifting up each other's burdens right and they with you as a member
03:36:17.340
you swear off health and uh health insurance you swear off all welfare uh if you just you know
03:36:22.720
if you're a state you swear off auto insurance and uh so basically the the church itself provides
03:36:29.020
through uh reimbursement all basically it covers all these costs so what that means is that that
03:36:35.760
person's not inherently reliant on the state and if they want to become reliant on the state of course
03:36:40.060
they can go through the court system they can still decide to go and do whatever any other woman in the
03:36:45.740
united states could do right however there's a massive social cost mennonites are pretty well known just
03:36:51.500
and not and they're cousins to the amish but they're pretty well known for being uh
03:36:55.760
intricately knit communities and so if you were to go and leave the church you live with all your
03:37:01.280
friends your family and no one is going to support your decision to have to divorce your husband
03:37:05.680
wow um so it's there's massive social pressure not to do so so between the financial and social
03:37:10.400
pressure uh a lot most people you know decided that hey i i don't want to lose all my friends and
03:37:15.960
not have my parents talk to me and you know i'm saying like it's and it doesn't necessarily result
03:37:19.900
it isn't necessarily there isn't necessarily shunning like the amish but you're never going to hear the
03:37:24.040
the mother of some uh woman who's trying to enforce possibly divorce her husband say like
03:37:28.480
oh you get him girl you're you're really you're really uh you're you're a strong empowered woman
03:37:33.280
like that's just not a conversation that would occur uh so yeah just some food for thought uh i was
03:37:38.320
thinking very much along the same lines as you i was very concerned about the future hey like do the
03:37:43.000
red pillar thing prenups you name it and over time i was like okay well um and also the united states
03:37:50.240
isn't the only country uh there are other countries that are like go think about paraguay i gotta do
03:37:54.840
the tv thing blessing i don't know if you see this but oh go ahead no no i think there's a the tv's
03:38:00.940
about to turn off or something but keep going sorry sure yeah no problem so there's there's uh you know
03:38:06.980
there's other countries that don't have such liberal divorce laws around no-fall divorce like paraguay
03:38:11.100
you name it you're you're in the uk right now yeah uh you know i'll tell you if you're if you're uh if a man
03:38:15.640
is worried about that and he's really concerned you know go join a mennonite colony down in paraguay
03:38:20.080
where is paraguay it's adjacent to argentina uh and brazil and yeah so it's it's a it's a pretty
03:38:27.760
conservative it's a majority catholic country but there's a very large uh mennonite uh presence
03:38:32.460
there there's long history behind that but uh yeah it's yeah yeah the united states isn't the only
03:38:37.180
option yeah the u.s sucks with its laws but there are some for those who do want to get married there are
03:38:42.280
some alternatives and uh you know that's as if you're going to become benedict though i would
03:38:47.360
not say this is you know like that to me the only issue you look at be like hey there's a low divorce
03:38:51.940
rate and they pressure people not to get divorced there's a there's a lot more to anabaptist beliefs
03:38:56.460
there one of the tenants is like yeah it was i don't i don't want to like you know try to give you
03:39:01.960
like a conversion talk or something like that you know there's a lot to converting i'm guessing it's not
03:39:07.340
that simple yeah so question can you hook me up i've been trying for ages to find some people to
03:39:13.760
i want to go to an om i've been seriously wanting to go do like interviews in an amish or mennonite
03:39:19.840
like mennonites i guess close enough you know would they go on camera or like yeah it depends on the
03:39:26.360
group and it depends on the person you know hey it's everyone's an individual uh and that's true with
03:39:30.740
the amish too it kind of depends on who you're talking to but yes i i could i know some people uh up in
03:39:36.440
maine who would be willing to are you on i'm sure are you on twitter are you on twitter i i am yeah
03:39:42.160
you should if you know anyone because i i would seriously come out i've been wanting to do this
03:39:46.700
video forever next time i'm in the u.s so if you got any content i really want to go to an amish place
03:39:52.980
that would be my number one but if not mennonite would be cool too so yeah absolutely feel free if you
03:39:59.380
have any contacts to dm me because i've been wanting to do this video um sure i'll i'll give some i'll make
03:40:05.280
some calls all right well thank you very much for calling in thank you thank you all right so the
03:40:11.920
next caller um am i a feminist first this is my question am i a feminist for saying that marriage
03:40:21.120
is objectively a bad deal for men in 2024 now and and feel free you can add any thoughts you have on
03:40:29.900
on marriage you know that that was a really cool story the mennonite thing so you know but that's
03:40:35.800
that's the overall topic am i a feminist for saying that and is marriage a good deal for men in 2024
03:40:44.340
so all right vet them make sure they're not crazy we got hayley here all right all right
03:40:52.660
hayley you're gonna come on now and you ready for yes i'm ready cool hello hayley how are you
03:41:00.900
hey i'm good how are you i like the tie-dye you got there oh thank you thank you um question
03:41:08.620
so this may sound irrelevant but it kind of ties in a little bit so you were on the show
03:41:16.120
trigonometry i think it's called with the two guys i think they're from england yeah yeah yeah
03:41:21.080
yeah okay um you said that there was a legal statement coming out regarding why you interviewed
03:41:27.380
nick fuentes where is that legal statement and also i made a video about okay steven crowder's wife
03:41:34.740
and then you deleted that video i want to know why okay okay okay we're gonna we're gonna get rid
03:41:39.420
of her see this is the thing with women i give one rule i give one rule i say i i didn't delete any
03:41:47.020
video with hillary but i say one rule ladies ladies ladies ladies we're gonna kick you out yeah it's like
03:41:57.320
it's like it's like women it's like we have the you see the man comes on i say here are my rules
03:42:03.560
the women can we talk about trigger what okay anyways so next um all right we got um let's see what's
03:42:17.020
next we have here uh robert are you ready yes yes
03:42:24.700
all right okay thank you very much hope you guys can hear me okay hello is your name robert
03:42:35.220
uh yes it is uh nice to meet you so question of the day am i a feminist
03:42:42.520
for saying that marriage is a bad deal objectively for men in 2024 i would say not at all i would say
03:42:50.540
the problem with this discussion is it's too politically charged so it's hard to separate
03:42:57.700
that you know if you're trying to like a car was running rough and you're like well how do i fix
03:43:02.140
this everyone's going to have a discussion because most people want to make a relationship that works
03:43:06.880
long term so we're all on the same page but as soon as it gets political then it's just charged so
03:43:13.760
if let's say i were on a first date and i said something like well i'm not really big into marriage
03:43:19.500
well they're going to assume all sorts of things they're probably going to assume that
03:43:23.160
you know i'm afraid of commitment oh i only basically looking at someone for physical
03:43:30.340
relationships i'm selfish all those things are going to be loaded into that when no the answer
03:43:36.300
could be no i'm very happy to get married i'm just terrified of getting divorced
03:43:40.040
i mean because those things can be brutal i've had yeah i've i've had one that's gone on for three
03:43:49.240
years my attorney's been doing this for 49 years he says the single biggest parental alienation case
03:43:54.660
he's ever seen i've had over 20 investigations done on me so these things can really really get nasty
03:44:00.920
so it doesn't mean that you don't want to find true love and make something work but yeah you could
03:44:05.580
be very wary of that kind of stuff because it's a huge cost to successfully to successfully win this
03:44:12.360
case it takes some doing i probably dropped easily over a hundred thousand dollars in legal bills and
03:44:17.640
i spend probably about on the average about 10 to 20 hours a week working on the legal front i've lost
03:44:24.060
track of how many times i've been in a courtroom and it works i have two wonderful kids that are two
03:44:29.720
five and i love them to death and i would do it all over again you know but it's stuff i never would
03:44:36.200
have guessed to have happened before so did you did you end up getting custody uh i have a good deal
03:44:44.700
of parenting time so i roughly you know weeks in the summer normally have about three three weekends a
03:44:51.640
month for three days on days so i'm currently going back to court to have my youngest rolled into the
03:44:58.660
same parenting plan just because uh she left as soon as she found out she was pregnant so they
03:45:04.360
were making the argument that you know she was exclusively breastfeeding but couldn't come for
03:45:08.560
a couple years so my time is more limited with my youngest but eventually if you hang in there you
03:45:15.800
really do survive i mean i like i said i've had so many i've had 18 vhs investigations but eventually
03:45:22.680
if you hang in there a lot of times the truth doesn't come out yeah so how long was your divorce
03:45:27.820
how many years total uh we worked together a total of uh four years and then um three years into it
03:45:37.300
the divorce with final orders was a year but she kept always alleging abuse and so every time she
03:45:44.380
alleged abuse was emergency motion to go before the courts and she was kind of in a small town so
03:45:50.560
you know they basically it took a while to kind of break through that as well
03:45:54.440
but it's bizarre i mean my five-year-old isn't even toilet training at her house because she
03:46:00.600
intentionally makes it so he can't be even though he's used to the toilet at my house and at school
03:46:05.160
so there's a lot of really bizarre things so the kids have taken you know a serious blow because
03:46:11.920
they're kind of being weaponized but you know eventually um you know i have i've had a really
03:46:20.140
good judge and i'm a very strong christian so i've had a lot of divine intervention i really got one
03:46:24.020
of the best attorneys you can have and eventually got really good in-home therapist appointed but
03:46:29.520
each one of those would almost take like a three four month legal battle wow the those components in
03:46:35.720
place and it takes a lot off those allegations because anyone i've dealt with that's a professional
03:46:43.700
they're under 40 that me too movement is the thing they really just take whatever the woman
03:46:48.360
says at face value and you almost have to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that those allegations
03:46:52.220
are false and it takes a lot of work to do that which is hence kind of the 10 to 20 hours a week i
03:46:58.100
usually have had to spend in this matter proving you didn't do something basically oh yes and it
03:47:07.280
started off with like any time that my poor kid got a bruise because it started when he was two years
03:47:11.700
old to be taking pictures they go to dhs and then she kept uh upping it to where it's like now it's you
03:47:17.720
know sexual abuse and all this kind of stuff so my poor kid has had multiple sane exams done on him
03:47:23.640
and it's really hard for a kid under the age of you can't hide a kid under the age of seven being
03:47:30.420
sexualized especially that young it's very very very obvious and nothing wrong with the kid
03:47:35.680
you know so it's pretty funny like uh you know his teacher will be oh he's a wonderful kid he's normal
03:47:42.600
and his mother's making these allegations that he can't even wash his hands he can't take a bath
03:47:46.800
he can't comb his hair and he can do all of it but because we have very strict laws about you know
03:47:53.180
with tip and everything that a teacher can't even talk to a therapist without uh you know waivers
03:48:00.400
being signed so the only people that can even connect dots are investigators
03:48:04.680
were perfectly fine but um were there any glaring red flags you would say about your ex-wife that
03:48:16.200
in hindsight maybe like younger guys should look out for or would you say there wasn't really any
03:48:21.400
strangely enough there really wasn't any until my first son was born and then things changed
03:48:28.100
pretty dramatically um and i have a lot of really good friends around me that are very professional
03:48:36.580
and they didn't even see anything so it kind of took all of us aback that things went this
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south this quickly but i am 47 myself so i'm rather older
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all that kind of stuff and i really found that there are some very huge generational differences
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where things kind of look okay on the surface but behind the scenes there's a lot going on
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i mean my understanding is almost one out of ten young people millennials to attempt suicide i know
03:49:07.140
so far it's quadruple just in the last 10 years so if you're really with people that have
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you know mental health issues you're not gonna you're gonna really have to struggle to have
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a somewhat functional relationship and so i kind of a lot of it was just she was young a little
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inexperienced but i didn't really see it for what it was because i was 40 and she was roughly 29
03:49:30.560
oh okay okay got it well thank you for um thank you for calling in i appreciate you telling me your
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story oh no thank you for all that you do i am so grateful for your podcast because
03:49:45.140
i wish i could properly cite the person you said this but it was really he basically said that
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we don't have primitive minds trying to navigate medieval institutions with almost godlike
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technology and it's rather difficult to get those things to juxtapose correctly yeah and hence have
03:50:04.840
a functioning you know relationship so it's not because anyone's really messing things up it's just
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it is pretty difficult now yeah and but yet we all yearn for a good relationship we truly do
03:50:14.480
so thank you for bringing the dangers of this because yeah it's been i mean i work literally over 100
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hour weeks to pay my attorneys yeah and you know it's a mess so yeah thank you very much for calling
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in thank you god bless all right um someone says pearl is bill like a linebacker rude um rude katherine
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um okay who's all right we got the next caller dale do we have do we have a chick that tried to get in
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or is that the same chick nah she she's gone the one that was here that she left i just these crazy
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ladies i knew she was gonna be trouble then why'd you let her it's like blessing i mean it's gonna be
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why would you why would you let her in if you knew she was gonna be trouble
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give a little bit of hope you know i mean i mean it's like they'll be like pearl there's good women
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i mean come on my stream then sorry all right we got dale coming up now um hello dale hello pearly
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how are you good how are you i'm doing all right all right so am i a feminist because i say objectively
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marriage is a bad deal for men in 2024 okay i'm gonna define marriage before i get to the feminist
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part okay and so being a christian um i define marriage as between a man and a woman and that
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uh a husband and wife have defined roles and a husband is called to um love his wife like christ
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loved the church and to lead by example by self-sacrifice even if it's down to the cost of his life
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he has to provide that safe and secure environment for that woman and they are designed to work
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together and the woman is supposed to then provide the needs of the husband and when they work together
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they restore the image of god on the earth because it is to demonstrate the relationship between christ
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and his father in a way that makes sense to human beings and they're supposed to be united and to be one
03:52:25.400
flesh and so absolutely that is with the right person who has the right character it is definitely
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the most beneficial thing that any man can do because the whole of the man and the woman working
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together will be greater than the sum of its parts it's impossible for a man right but i'm not i'm not
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i'm not talking about like this no no just hold on no no you don't you don't get to this isn't how
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that works go ahead go ahead continue just kick him go ahead just kick him we'll go to the next one
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um i just i don't like the i don't like people talking back to me on my own show look at i put in a
03:53:04.620
lot of work to this see this see this this isn't your monologue i'm just i'm showing you guys not you
03:53:11.440
know he can come back on the next show but i'm showing you guys my rules for coming on
03:53:16.400
no this is not you get to come on here and do as long of a monologue as you want
03:53:23.380
and pearl pearl doesn't get to interrupt you on your own show if you're talking
03:53:31.480
no you don't get to hold up you can do that on your channel
03:53:37.560
if i meet you on the street i'll be polite you know but here here it's super simple i i give i give
03:53:47.320
these easy rules i give these easy rule i give so it's so easy
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and i think they're reasonable one you don't get to come on and pick your topic
03:54:16.340
no over talking me it's my show no over talking me all right three
03:54:33.820
okay okay no and turn your cameras oh turn your cameras on
03:54:46.040
who do you guys think you are get you go on your own channel
03:54:49.520
go okay thank you we'll go to the next one we'll try again and by the way by the way
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this is not if you can disagree with me i am totally fine with the disagreement
03:55:10.280
i don't really care and if you don't like it i don't really give a shit
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all right i'm gonna bring on elena first uh preston you're gonna have to hold on
03:55:24.120
because he'll be wanting to talk to a female you have one coming up
03:55:47.460
i've seen you before somewhere were you on glenn's stream
03:55:56.520
see look i just want to i just want to show you guys
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do you see how she comes in with a smile on her face
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you see like everyone says i i don't hate women
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for saying that objectively marriage is a bad deal for men in 2024
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well in 2024 i don't think you would be considered as a feminist
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for saying this because we have to be realistic here right
03:56:34.400
i'm not talking about like the top 10 percent of the men
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in fact i agree with a lot of what you're saying
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and i think that we actually need more women like you
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i'm originally from russia but i've been living in europe
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and i've been here in the u.s for over eight years now
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because i'm just curious if there's a difference
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that you've seen like in the west versus russia
03:57:20.200
well if you're talking about feminism we have it in russia too
03:57:25.460
okay and i think at this point it doesn't matter where you go
03:57:31.860
you have to vet women carefully applying the rational criteria
03:57:39.800
uh there are certain differences in terms of how women view game
03:57:44.700
i think that they have a better understanding of game in russia
03:57:53.180
you know female nature like your dad was saying
03:57:58.060
uh we want pretty much the same things you know
03:58:01.740
so women are going to be women men are going to be men anywhere you go
03:58:11.900
do you think that's a good idea to do that to go to russia
03:58:14.600
well right now i would say i would just stay away
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um yeah wait until the conflict resolves itself
03:58:35.360
i don't well no i know there's like the the war
03:58:42.260
oh it's also like dating um um it's a tricky question
03:58:47.180
you know as i said before there are feminists there as well
03:58:50.980
so if you're hoping that uh russian women are somehow going to be different
03:58:59.180
maybe maybe maybe if you go to like a provincial town somewhere in the village
03:59:05.480
you know maybe you'll be lucky to find some girl who hasn't been completely brainwashed
03:59:12.720
but if you go to big cities usually foreigners prefer st peterburg or moscow you know that
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the the bigger cities that have more civilization let's say
03:59:25.760
okay i just i um i don't speak to russians often so i was just curious while i had you on
03:59:32.760
so so you don't think i'm a feminist for saying that it's a bad deal in 2024
03:59:39.280
wow that's so crazy i didn't think i'd ever get a girl
03:59:42.720
i think you are one of the most traditional women who have been raised with the dead
03:59:48.480
and this is what i keep saying to women that um having this masculine presence in your life
03:59:54.420
it's so important for women and i i just um feel very frustrated to see a lot of girls being raised
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by a single mother or by the father who is not um um you know who doesn't have the authority in the
04:00:11.400
family yeah because it has been taken away from him so the mother is the one who is in charge
04:00:16.200
she's taking all of the decisions for the father and for the kids and uh the girls just turn out to
04:00:22.740
be um very promiscuous women that men don't actually want that the men that this women want
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men don't want them you know yeah yeah um well it was very nice to meet you thank you for calling in
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thank you bro calling calling anytime chica thank you take care you too take care all right see you
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know i just wanted to i just wanted to i just wanted to point out to the women because i think
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sometimes you see how she comes in with a smile on her face she's happy even if you're a liberal
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okay even if you're crazy lady you can still come in smiling happy it's not that hard so thank you
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thank you give me a little hope um okay who's we'll do maybe one more uh we got two guys that can go
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that have been waiting for a long time maybe uh yeah why why i'm tired it's like it's like two in
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the morning all right all right sorry one of you guys all right bring them on at the same time just
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bring them we'll go together all right we'll go together but if you guys tag team and go crazy i'm
04:01:38.960
gonna i'm gonna protest i fought for you guys they're like i'll go crazy i do i what up guys
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all right hello hey what's going on pearl so my question of the day is am i a feminist um for
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saying that marriage is a bad deal for men in 2024 if yes or no tell me why um we'll start with the
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gentleman in the middle what's your name uh preston preston and then what was the other guy's name
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randall randall okay preston go ahead and then randall you can go next
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hey pearl huge fan of the show uh no i don't think that you are a feminist for believing what
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you believe um what i do think though and it's not necessarily criticism but what i do believe is
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that the way in which you present the information um leads traditional conservatives and others to
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make inferences that you are yeah it's it's very and i think it's more of a modern thing with the
04:02:48.300
younger generations to to include obviously the we're probably in the same generation but
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it's very matter-of-factual it's very cold it's very objective it's it's very leaving the emotion
04:03:00.700
out of it and you're entering into an environment with people like michael knowles who their entire
04:03:07.380
emotional presence is tied up in catholicism and a part of that is marriage and so he makes these
04:03:12.580
inferences based upon what he believes and what you believe and it's like no it couldn't be further
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from the truth um yeah what do you think um i don't think you're a feminist um i'm not a fan of
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feminism uh and uh props to you for your success uh seeing some of your youtube clips and
04:03:38.880
follow you on x and i just think it's great uh what you're doing uh giving that perspective from
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uh the female stance and it's just natural men men have roles and tendencies and women we're both
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needed we're both necessary but um so i'm on your side and i'm really just doing this to say hey and
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this is cool i can't believe i got selected well thank you guys for calling in um i i appreciate the input
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thank you bro thank you all right all right fellas how fun was that i think we should do calling shows
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more i was hoping to have that chick that wanted to like the crazy lady i was hoping she would talk
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about the discussion and not her agenda because i am interested in talking to more people that
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disagree with me i think it would be a better show
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but this is going to be the new show format so let me know what you guys think in the comments
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um i think i might even react to the entire michael knolls thing especially if we get if we get
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re-monetized that is the first thing i'm going to react to i'll react to that entire debate from
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start to finish it'll do it'll be like a quajillion light year debate okay so next time we are
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streaming i'm streaming monday at the same time 8 gmt is that three eastern blessing uh i think so
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okay let's check thank yeah thank you thank you i'm no first in american times that's three eastern um
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you know so you know guys now the other criticism that i've gotten time and time again is that
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pearl is a feminist and i think conservatives i would really caution you i would very much caution
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overusing that word because you've already done it and it's not going to work men aren't stupid
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men are not stupid they see what's going on and you cannot shame men into a bad deal
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i don't tell men what to do as i've said before i think you guys are grown men uh don't listen to a
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chick about what to do with your life i mean i i'm not going to be the one that has to answer to you
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in divorce court i'm not going to be the one that you know if you're alone at 55 i'm not going to be
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the one that you have to answer to every guy has to decide for himself what's a good idea for him
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i think men should think for themselves not have podcasters at the daily wire think for them or have
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me think for them doesn't make sense to me but you know um if you guys want to support the show
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and i think there was one that was sent let me look
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um was it three eastern blessing did you look it up oh i thought you were looking okay hold on
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um okay let me that's four east what four four eastern
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oh it's four eastern oh i totally thought it wasn't
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oh good randy good job andre campbell thank you randy
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