JustPearlyThings - October 30, 2023


Good Conversation on How Modern Women DERAINED as Wives


Episode Stats

Length

34 minutes

Words per Minute

203.8357

Word Count

6,997

Sentence Count

759

Misogynist Sentences

37

Hate Speech Sentences

23


Summary

In this episode we talk about what it takes to sustain a family on a bare minimum wage and whether or not we should be willing to live on less than we can sustain ourselves on. We also talk about how to deal with a partner who doesn t have the same amount of money as you do.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Whatever the amount that sustains us to like be happy, but I don't need like big flashy things to be happy
00:00:06.720 Would you be happy living in the caravan?
00:00:11.040 I guess. What about what about the box on the corner over here?
00:00:15.200 There's someone there's there's like a couple people in these boxes over there. Oh, you're down there, isn't it?
00:00:20.240 Yeah, literally there's a homeless shelter down the road. They got this box out in the roads, I've seen it.
00:00:24.960 I don't think I could but money doesn't determine like the person for me, if that makes sense.
00:00:32.480 I don't know if that answers your question.
00:00:33.760 No, it doesn't.
00:00:37.360 There's no minimum. Like, come on, no minimum.
00:00:39.840 I don't know if things like that. I don't know what people earn.
00:00:42.560 For you, like to have all your necessities met, what are you looking at?
00:00:48.880 Do you live on your own?
00:00:49.760 Yeah, I live on my own.
00:00:50.800 Okay, so you know what it takes to sustain you.
00:00:53.200 Yeah. Do you want him to be a provider, basically?
00:00:56.320 Because if you do, you know, you have to know your minimum.
00:01:00.160 Surely, surely, unless you don't mind providing for yourself, then it doesn't matter at all.
00:01:06.560 Yeah, can we not come together? Was that not an option?
00:01:10.080 I thought you just said he's earning less than me.
00:01:12.320 Yeah, so I'm saying at what point do you respect his decision making?
00:01:16.480 So, like, if he said, quit your job tomorrow, I have a plan, I'll listen.
00:01:21.600 But if he's a bum and hasn't worked in two years, why the hell would you do that?
00:01:24.400 Yeah, I would definitely not listen.
00:01:26.080 So there's a minimum point, right?
00:01:28.480 Yeah.
00:01:28.720 There's a minimum point where, and it doesn't have to be exact, you know, just a rough figure,
00:01:33.120 where you would listen to what he says.
00:01:38.880 I want to see. I couldn't tell you. I couldn't tell you. I forgot.
00:01:41.600 Okay, what about 30,000 pounds? Would you listen?
00:01:45.920 Is that the minimum people earn in the UK?
00:01:48.240 Just go off, like, what it takes to sustain yourself.
00:01:51.360 And then could you live on a thousand pound a month?
00:01:53.520 If he's bringing in, like, between 3,000 and 4,000.
00:01:57.280 3,000 and 4,000.
00:01:58.000 I think, yeah, that's fine.
00:01:58.960 A year?
00:01:59.360 A month.
00:01:59.920 No, a month.
00:02:00.400 A month.
00:02:00.960 Oh, yeah, that's nice.
00:02:02.480 That's fine.
00:02:03.120 That's more than nice for some people.
00:02:04.400 I like it, yeah.
00:02:05.760 Okay, what about you? Would you date a guy that makes less than you?
00:02:09.200 I would date a guy that, yeah, I would, but he would have to be able to,
00:02:15.920 like, pay the bills and whatnot.
00:02:17.760 What's your minimum?
00:02:18.800 Um, I would say four grand, because that's, like, enough to, like, pay bills, rent or mortgage,
00:02:26.080 um, car note, that sort of stuff.
00:02:28.880 Okay, what about you?
00:02:31.360 Um, I think I would respect him.
00:02:36.160 Um, I don't believe you.
00:02:40.320 Why don't you believe me?
00:02:41.280 Um, oh gosh, I don't, what's your minimum?
00:02:49.360 Okay, my minimum, I'll be comfortable with, let's say, 3k a month.
00:02:55.040 I think that's fine to bring in.
00:02:57.920 Um, I think it's all down to, I don't know if it kind of relates to the question that you're asking.
00:03:02.320 I think it's just all down to ambition.
00:03:04.320 If he's a bum.
00:03:05.200 No, she said, no, no.
00:03:06.480 She said, that's what he's gonna earn.
00:03:07.760 This is the problem with women.
00:03:08.720 She said, that's what he's gonna earn.
00:03:09.840 You're reading into it.
00:03:10.960 He's gonna be a high earner one day.
00:03:12.320 No, he's not.
00:03:12.880 Oh, no, he is not.
00:03:15.040 There's no potential here.
00:03:19.200 He goes to job.
00:03:20.480 He's happy at his job.
00:03:21.840 He loves it.
00:03:22.720 He loves it.
00:03:23.440 It doesn't mean he's lazy.
00:03:24.720 Maybe he's like, I don't know, do police officers, postman, do police officers make a lot here?
00:03:29.600 A manager at McDonald's and he loves his job.
00:03:30.560 He enjoys working at Cisco.
00:03:32.560 Yeah.
00:03:33.120 Oh, God.
00:03:33.840 I mean, I worked at McDonald's.
00:03:35.360 It's all right.
00:03:38.560 I think my approach generally is a job is a job.
00:03:40.960 As long as it's making you comfortable, then I will respect that full stop.
00:03:44.400 Yeah.
00:03:44.720 I think that's just it.
00:03:45.680 Oh, yeah.
00:03:46.320 But I mean, in terms of like respect, I mean, if we're living together and we have a family and I'm
00:03:51.040 meant to like respect all your decision making, if you're not earning at least to cover what it takes.
00:03:57.600 I mean, it's like, okay, if you're dating a guy that makes $250,000 a year,
00:04:02.080 pounce or whatever it is here.
00:04:05.040 If he says quit, when?
00:04:08.640 Yeah, that's so much funny.
00:04:09.760 It's when, like, when do you want me to?
00:04:11.520 But at some point, like it switches to where you give him more control.
00:04:16.640 Because if a bum tells you to do that, you're not going to do it.
00:04:19.120 Yeah.
00:04:19.440 If it hasn't worked in two years, he says quit.
00:04:21.600 You're like, what?
00:04:22.640 I think we can all agree on that though.
00:04:24.480 Yeah.
00:04:25.600 Which we all agree on.
00:04:26.640 But like, I'm just asking roughly around what point is it that you respect his decision making?
00:04:31.760 Yeah, four grand a month.
00:04:32.800 Like roughly four grand a month.
00:04:34.320 Okay.
00:04:34.480 Such a good question.
00:04:36.240 These are things that you wouldn't even ask yourself.
00:04:38.320 I'm actually kind of glad that I'm here and you're doing this.
00:04:41.360 I mean, if you want to get married, you kind of have to do the math.
00:04:44.080 Absolutely.
00:04:44.560 Because it also depends how many kids you want.
00:04:46.960 Yeah.
00:04:47.280 So like, how much does each kid cost?
00:04:48.960 Yeah.
00:04:49.280 You need to think about these things while entering a relationship,
00:04:52.240 especially if you're going to merge into one.
00:04:53.920 I feel like women do, don't they?
00:04:56.000 Yeah.
00:04:56.480 Like, I see a man.
00:04:57.440 Even on first dates.
00:04:58.400 And they're like.
00:04:58.800 Exactly.
00:04:59.360 Like, what would our wedding look like?
00:05:01.120 Yeah.
00:05:01.600 What area are we going to move to?
00:05:04.160 And the man is just right there looking at the state.
00:05:06.400 Yeah.
00:05:06.960 But we're five years into it.
00:05:08.480 Which one?
00:05:09.120 She's like, oh, today's a nice day.
00:05:10.560 She's like, we could have two kids.
00:05:12.080 The dog.
00:05:15.040 The white picket fence is there.
00:05:16.640 And you think about their career ladder as well.
00:05:19.200 All of it.
00:05:19.920 Yeah, a hundred percent.
00:05:21.040 And you look on Glassdoor.
00:05:22.240 I think women like to fantasize a lot.
00:05:24.480 Oh yeah.
00:05:25.040 And think way into the future.
00:05:27.040 That's good because that's how they help men, like,
00:05:30.960 blossom.
00:05:31.520 Like, that's how women are helpless to men.
00:05:33.520 Because men are very, like,
00:05:36.800 and women are like, oh, but you could do it this way and this way.
00:05:39.920 And like, they flower the seeds that make it grow.
00:05:42.960 Women have to, like, think outside the box.
00:05:45.200 Because men are very, a matter of fact.
00:05:48.000 Which is good.
00:05:48.640 And that's why the woman and the man.
00:05:50.480 Works together.
00:05:51.440 Yeah.
00:05:52.320 It's like that quote that's,
00:05:54.880 I think it says something like, um,
00:05:56.320 behind every great man is an even better woman or something.
00:05:59.440 Have you heard that one?
00:06:00.640 Yeah, I don't agree with it.
00:06:01.600 Oh yeah, that.
00:06:02.640 I don't agree with it though.
00:06:03.280 That's the most bullshit quote I've ever heard.
00:06:04.640 I don't think it should be even better,
00:06:06.240 but I think great women should be there instead.
00:06:08.640 But it kind of...
00:06:09.600 Oh, just the woman that cares.
00:06:11.040 Yeah.
00:06:11.840 Yeah.
00:06:12.480 Just his woman.
00:06:13.680 Beyond every man is his woman.
00:06:15.040 Just his woman.
00:06:15.840 You're telling me Elon Musk needed a woman to get to where he's at.
00:06:19.920 Rich men get to where they're going regardless of whether or not they have a girl there or not.
00:06:23.200 By doing dog eat dog.
00:06:24.880 For sure.
00:06:25.600 It's like, I mean, like the guys that are going somewhere,
00:06:27.760 they're going to go somewhere whether or not you're there.
00:06:29.680 It's just like women just like to take credit for doing nothing.
00:06:32.640 Yeah.
00:06:34.240 I guess.
00:06:35.120 Listen, I think unless you're looking at having kids,
00:06:38.320 men can just pretty much do anything.
00:06:41.360 Whereas they don't need emotional support.
00:06:44.480 Well, they do.
00:06:45.200 Yes, they do.
00:06:46.080 But they don't need it as much as women.
00:06:48.400 Like, I don't think they need it.
00:06:49.760 Like, women like to talk about stuff more.
00:06:52.080 They're with their friends.
00:06:52.880 What do you talk about?
00:06:53.680 You talk about guys.
00:06:54.320 You talk about feelings.
00:06:55.040 You talk about...
00:06:56.080 Men are just like straight to the point.
00:06:57.920 We wiggle around a bit more, but it works together.
00:07:03.840 I like the chorus.
00:07:04.880 I don't know if I agree.
00:07:10.480 I'm just like...
00:07:12.480 I know the worst of that.
00:07:14.560 You're not even doing it this time.
00:07:15.840 You've got a whole chorus here.
00:07:17.120 Oh, I'm the worst.
00:07:18.800 They always roast me in the comments.
00:07:20.720 And that's why I'm sitting there laughing,
00:07:22.080 because I think normally it's Pearl,
00:07:23.280 and every woman is doing it.
00:07:25.200 I've been trying to get better.
00:07:26.480 I've been trying.
00:07:27.440 After the Thieves interview, I've been trying.
00:07:30.080 She normally sits there going,
00:07:32.720 It's like...
00:07:33.440 It's a tick.
00:07:34.000 I can't.
00:07:35.440 No, it's just a thing, innit?
00:07:36.720 Because all the women are doing it.
00:07:38.480 One person made a comment,
00:07:39.840 and I'm just saying, listen to the choir,
00:07:41.200 and the choir said,
00:07:41.920 Hmm.
00:07:45.760 Love that.
00:07:46.320 Auntie, what do you think?
00:07:47.840 I've never been out of a man that's earned more than me.
00:07:51.120 Never?
00:07:51.840 Never.
00:07:53.280 And I've respected every single one.
00:07:56.720 Why do you think that is different than a lot of women nowadays?
00:08:03.200 I'm just old school.
00:08:04.160 I just don't really care how much they earn.
00:08:05.680 Because, no, it didn't really matter,
00:08:08.560 because when I'm out of a man, he's a man.
00:08:10.800 Mm-hmm.
00:08:11.920 So I don't, I don't pay for anything.
00:08:14.640 I don't have to put my hand in my pocket.
00:08:16.320 Even the man that I've got now.
00:08:17.440 Mm-hmm.
00:08:19.600 I've still got more than him.
00:08:20.640 Mm-hmm.
00:08:21.760 He's got more, I must admit, he's got more cash than me.
00:08:23.920 I've got more assets than him.
00:08:27.040 But, no, I can't, I don't have to put my hand in my pocket for nothing.
00:08:31.280 Yeah, I think as long as I don't have to put my hand in my pocket,
00:08:33.280 then, yeah, I'm in a problem with respect to me.
00:08:34.400 What is, what is the minimum?
00:08:36.880 £1,000 a month.
00:08:37.760 I can make it work.
00:08:38.560 You know I can, Pearl.
00:08:39.520 Oh, oh.
00:08:40.640 You know I can make it work.
00:08:41.920 I, right.
00:08:43.200 So if these people, if these women out here are saying,
00:08:45.280 oh, they need to do this, oh, the man can't afford that,
00:08:47.520 you know what I mean?
00:08:48.080 Check yourself and cut back.
00:08:49.040 What would you do with £1,000 a month?
00:08:51.040 How would you split that up?
00:08:52.640 I'm just curious.
00:08:53.360 I'd go wholesalers.
00:08:54.960 Yeah.
00:08:55.200 I mean, it's different because, all right, then if I had a mortgage.
00:08:57.440 Could you live in London with £1,000 a month?
00:08:59.760 I can live in, before I was living, I can do it on £1,500.
00:09:03.440 Okay.
00:09:04.080 Because, like, £500 is towards the mortgage.
00:09:07.120 Yeah, kids are not expensive.
00:09:08.560 It all depends.
00:09:09.520 Do you know what, right?
00:09:10.560 It all depends on what you want them to wear.
00:09:12.320 But nowadays, you'll find that a £5 t-shirt is not going to cost you £50 for the kid,
00:09:17.920 or because of the name or the stamp on it.
00:09:20.000 And that's what brings things up.
00:09:22.240 Or, you know, eating out.
00:09:24.240 You know, you want a burger?
00:09:25.280 Buy some mincemeat and teach your kids how to make a burger.
00:09:28.480 You know, no eating out.
00:09:30.880 No eating out.
00:09:31.840 But do you think £1,000 is covering bills?
00:09:34.320 It's doing me now.
00:09:36.800 Wow.
00:09:37.680 You know, I honestly had the same, I had the same thought, yo.
00:09:41.120 I proved.
00:09:41.680 She took me, she took me, how much did you say it was £35?
00:09:45.840 It was £30 for the £30.
00:09:47.680 £30, £30 a week for two people.
00:09:50.320 Yeah, she told me she could get a week's worth of groceries on £30.
00:09:53.520 I didn't believe her.
00:09:54.480 You wouldn't even go to the market?
00:09:55.760 Yeah, she took me, she took me to the store.
00:09:57.360 No, we went to the supermarket.
00:09:58.960 We didn't even go to a market.
00:10:00.720 Yeah, you can do it.
00:10:02.240 You just, yeah.
00:10:02.960 We'll talk off.
00:10:03.680 Fresh stuff.
00:10:04.480 Is this tins?
00:10:05.200 Yes.
00:10:05.760 No, it was actually good food.
00:10:07.760 You can check out Wife School episode two.
00:10:10.640 Okay.
00:10:11.280 Wife School episode two.
00:10:12.560 But yeah, I didn't believe her.
00:10:14.240 I was like, there is no way.
00:10:15.920 There is no way.
00:10:17.200 But yeah, £30.
00:10:18.880 You have to look for the stickers.
00:10:20.160 The clearance stickers.
00:10:21.120 Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
00:10:24.160 We just went there.
00:10:25.200 We just, we just popped in there and we picked about four things with stickers,
00:10:28.800 but everything else wasn't, was it?
00:10:30.240 It was about four things with stickers.
00:10:31.520 In the middle of the day?
00:10:32.560 Yeah.
00:10:33.040 No, in the, was it in the evening?
00:10:34.160 Yes, in the evening.
00:10:34.800 Towards the evening.
00:10:35.520 But still, but even though...
00:10:37.040 It wasn't bad food.
00:10:38.240 It really wasn't.
00:10:39.120 Yeah, but you have to wait.
00:10:40.480 But even though, this month, to cover a whole month, including toiletries, laundry, alcohol
00:10:47.920 and everything, for the month, £1,000.
00:10:51.520 Yeah.
00:10:52.160 For the month.
00:10:52.720 I'm talking about all the alcohol as well.
00:10:54.720 Well, laundry, toiletries, electric toothbrush, everything, £1,000.
00:10:59.600 Didn't that's it?
00:11:02.880 Teach us today.
00:11:03.440 I'll watch it.
00:11:04.080 Yeah.
00:11:04.400 I'm gonna watch it.
00:11:05.040 I'm sold.
00:11:05.920 It's fine.
00:11:07.200 I'll show you, I'll show you my tricks later.
00:11:08.480 Yeah.
00:11:08.960 I'm sold on it.
00:11:09.520 I'll give you a few tips.
00:11:10.240 I'm sold on it.
00:11:12.160 Do you guys think that Korn, you know what that stands for?
00:11:15.840 Yeah.
00:11:16.080 Okay.
00:11:16.160 Do you guys think that Korn is cheating?
00:11:18.160 No.
00:11:19.200 Yes.
00:11:19.520 No.
00:11:20.240 Yes?
00:11:22.640 Once he does it in front, once he watches it in front of me, I know he's there watching.
00:11:25.840 Well, if it's hidden, it's cheating.
00:11:28.160 If it's like, yeah, you want to watch it, it's like, it's like watching another movie.
00:11:31.120 I ain't watching it though.
00:11:32.240 But if it's hidden, I think it's cheating because for you to hide it, sight must be wrong.
00:11:37.440 Yeah, I agree.
00:11:38.400 Don't lie about it.
00:11:39.600 Fine.
00:11:40.320 Yeah.
00:11:40.720 I feel like you can watch it together.
00:11:43.360 No, I don't want to do that, but...
00:11:46.080 Really?
00:11:46.480 Do you think it's cheating?
00:11:47.280 Don't want to do that.
00:11:47.920 No.
00:11:48.640 I just feel like he wouldn't want to do it in front of you.
00:11:51.680 Why not?
00:11:53.200 I don't know.
00:11:54.960 No, don't do it in front of me.
00:11:55.920 Like, I don't want to.
00:11:56.640 No, I don't mean that in front of you.
00:11:58.880 I mean, like, if he's there watching, you know, he's never watching a TV and he's in one room and he's
00:12:04.400 watching it and he coming, oh, you're watching that rubbish again.
00:12:07.120 It's like, it's nothing to me.
00:12:08.240 Mm-hmm.
00:12:08.880 But you wouldn't get mad if he's...
00:12:10.000 Nah.
00:12:10.400 As long as he's not, he's open with it.
00:12:12.080 Yeah.
00:12:12.400 Would anyone here be mad if their husband watched, or boyfriend watched Korn?
00:12:16.320 Sorry, can I just say something?
00:12:17.680 It all depends on what kind it is.
00:12:18.880 If it's that sick, perverted kind, then yeah.
00:12:20.560 Oh, yeah.
00:12:21.120 Yeah, no, that wouldn't be okay.
00:12:23.120 I mean, if it's like regular, you know, normal, yeah.
00:12:26.480 Any, I'd be upset.
00:12:27.520 I don't think I'd be mad.
00:12:28.480 I'd be concerned because what is it?
00:12:30.080 What's, what are you seeking from this?
00:12:32.560 Variety.
00:12:34.080 Why do you...
00:12:34.800 Black, because men want sexual variety.
00:12:36.080 Maybe picking up a few tips, isn't it?
00:12:37.680 But then, but then, again, to me, that's a concern for me because what variety?
00:12:42.000 Why do you want variety?
00:12:43.040 Just try this.
00:12:44.000 Because that's like what men want, naturally.
00:12:46.880 I'm not saying all men cheat, but men naturally want variety.
00:12:49.280 You're telling me, okay, you could take the best man in the world.
00:12:52.400 If he had a bus full of models waiting for him every day when he got home every single day,
00:12:57.680 begging to sleep with him, most of you guys are gonna fail.
00:13:00.080 Fair enough, but I'm putting my self in it.
00:13:06.240 If you want variety, it's a concern.
00:13:09.120 If you cannot exercise self-control, it's a concern.
00:13:13.760 If I am to exercise self-control and you don't give yourself that same parameter,
00:13:20.800 it's a concern.
00:13:22.160 I'm not saying I'll be angry, but this is something to iron out.
00:13:26.080 It's not something that, oh, this is how you are.
00:13:27.920 That's your makeup.
00:13:29.520 That's fine.
00:13:30.480 Because I know what I want.
00:13:32.720 And as far as I'm concerned on the foundational, like morals, principles, standards,
00:13:37.760 we match.
00:13:38.880 And so if we're no longer matching, it's an even bigger concern.
00:13:42.400 And now we're talking about the longevity of our relationship.
00:13:45.360 I don't think it means that you don't match.
00:13:48.000 No, no, but it's because I know what I would like.
00:13:50.400 And when you say what you would like, what is that?
00:13:52.240 So not to watch that.
00:13:54.240 And if you're telling me these are the reasons why you watch it,
00:13:59.200 let's iron out those reasons.
00:14:00.640 So you don't have to.
00:14:01.680 If you feel like you have to.
00:14:02.720 What if the reason is just, I just like.
00:14:04.720 Yeah.
00:14:05.120 And it doesn't mean he's doing it every day or even every week.
00:14:07.760 Everyone knows why they like it.
00:14:09.360 Everyone knows why they like what they like.
00:14:11.440 No one just likes it.
00:14:12.400 And I'm not sure.
00:14:13.120 But that's like, but that's like a female point of view.
00:14:15.680 Like to men, it's just like a reaction.
00:14:18.000 They don't think that much into it, I don't think.
00:14:20.320 But then that's not what I, then that's, that's fine.
00:14:22.960 We don't have to like.
00:14:23.760 But it's almost like asking men not to be men.
00:14:25.920 Well, no, not necessarily.
00:14:26.880 Because in my experience, I have, well, I haven't not experienced that.
00:14:29.920 Do you understand?
00:14:30.560 So I can't even speak to it.
00:14:32.240 Because it's not like I've been with a man that could explain his side of it.
00:14:35.680 All I can say is from my wants.
00:14:39.360 And if this is how you are, that's fine.
00:14:41.920 I'm not going to like, say change or da-da-da-da-da.
00:14:44.880 It's, you're just not for me.
00:14:46.560 Yeah, it sounds like you're not,
00:14:49.200 you haven't created a space where they could even come to tell you that they watch it.
00:14:52.320 It sounds like if they do, it's in private.
00:14:54.640 Like they wouldn't even tell you.
00:14:55.840 No, it's, if it, and this is what I'm saying, I wouldn't get angry.
00:14:59.280 To me, it would be a concern.
00:15:01.280 So if you came to me or I caught you, I'm not going to be like, oh, no, no, no.
00:15:05.520 It's like, okay, let's sit down and talk about it.
00:15:07.360 Like, why, why, why, why do you feel like you like this or whatever?
00:15:10.880 And like, if, if you're like, this is how I am and I can't really explain it or whatever.
00:15:17.040 I have the right to say, but I don't like this.
00:15:19.760 I don't, I don't have to compromise on that.
00:15:21.680 So how can I just say something?
00:15:24.480 Because from what, tell me if I'm wrong.
00:15:26.640 Yeah.
00:15:27.280 You're talking about if like now, if you found him or if he suddenly decided.
00:15:33.360 Yeah.
00:15:33.680 But what I would say.
00:15:37.120 Yeah.
00:15:37.440 And what I think you're saying is that.
00:15:39.120 Yeah.
00:15:40.000 This is, you wouldn't be with somebody that does it anyway.
00:15:42.960 Yeah.
00:15:43.360 And then if he happens to be doing it, there's a problem.
00:15:45.760 Yeah.
00:15:46.000 And that I feel the same way.
00:15:47.280 I mean, if I, if I know that my man does it and I'm with him,
00:15:50.160 I knew that he'd done it before I got with him.
00:15:51.600 Yeah.
00:15:52.160 But if I'm with a man and then suddenly he starts doing it, well, what's going on?
00:15:55.120 Why all of a sudden you started, you never showed it.
00:15:57.440 And I think that's what you're trying to say.
00:15:58.720 Yeah.
00:15:58.960 Because trying to change an individual is futile to me.
00:16:02.720 Okay.
00:16:03.440 Especially if you do not see an issue.
00:16:06.960 Like I don't have the energy to try and make you see or even see it from my point of view.
00:16:13.200 If you don't, you don't.
00:16:14.640 But I don't have to be, I don't have to take it.
00:16:16.800 Do you understand?
00:16:17.280 You don't have to be bothered.
00:16:18.160 Or, or like, I do have the choice.
00:16:19.600 I can, I can just tolerate it.
00:16:21.440 Like, okay, this is a, I can tolerate it.
00:16:23.520 But my point is, is then I have a choice.
00:16:26.560 But before me making that choice, I want to sit down and understand.
00:16:30.720 If I had a man and he wasn't open about it in the first place and I found him doing it,
00:16:34.480 I'd have issues.
00:16:35.200 Then I'd be angry.
00:16:36.080 Yeah.
00:16:36.320 That's, I'd have issues then.
00:16:37.680 But if I knew, if he said to me in the beginning, like when I thought,
00:16:40.640 oh yeah, sometimes I watch this.
00:16:42.080 I'd be like, okay, then when I know, it's time to me whether I stay with you or not.
00:16:44.800 Yeah.
00:16:45.200 To that, I 100% agree.
00:16:46.800 I want to know, like, you know, what kind.
00:16:48.720 Can you imagine?
00:16:49.360 You know?
00:16:49.680 I've been with you for X amount of years and you're saying, I've always watched it.
00:16:52.880 And I'd be like, nah, nah, I'm out of there.
00:16:58.080 But then that's choosing to hide it, no?
00:16:59.840 Yeah, but that's when I may get angry.
00:17:02.400 Yeah, okay.
00:17:03.120 I agree with that.
00:17:03.680 But if it's happening, we're going to talk about it.
00:17:07.520 Mm-hmm.
00:17:08.320 Okay.
00:17:08.880 I just think a lot of times, like from the men's point of view, it's like,
00:17:12.800 we want them to be exclusive to us, which is like compromising on their mating strategy,
00:17:18.800 which is to spread their seed.
00:17:19.840 But on the same time, like when they try to watch, and I'm not saying you specific,
00:17:23.360 I don't know your marriage or whatever.
00:17:24.560 Yeah.
00:17:25.040 But like when you tell them that they can't even watch corn and that's cheating too,
00:17:29.200 it's like, well, what do you want from me?
00:17:30.560 What can I do?
00:17:31.280 So I just tell them straight, whatever they're doing on there, I will try it with you.
00:17:35.680 Yeah.
00:17:36.000 I will.
00:17:38.000 And he's ready to meet them in the middle.
00:17:40.000 Yeah.
00:17:40.400 I will try it with you, you know what I mean?
00:17:41.680 Like, you want to pick up some tits, but then I'm going to watch it.
00:17:44.240 Let's have a go.
00:17:45.040 What's another freaky stuff, you know what I mean?
00:17:46.560 I don't slap me either.
00:17:53.280 I feel like corn has saved a lot of marriages.
00:17:56.000 I've had a partner show me something and be like, let's try this.
00:18:02.560 Really?
00:18:03.280 Yeah.
00:18:03.760 Were you down or were you mad?
00:18:04.960 She was down.
00:18:07.280 She was down.
00:18:08.000 I was down, but it wasn't a case where I didn't know that he wasn't watching it,
00:18:12.960 because I knew he watched it or he'd sometimes be like, oh, look at this.
00:18:16.640 Like, he'd send it to me and be like.
00:18:18.080 I don't know how I'd feel if my partner showed me.
00:18:19.920 Really?
00:18:20.560 If he sent you a band and said, let's try this tonight.
00:18:22.560 I don't know.
00:18:24.000 I feel like I would be like, I'm not saying I would be against it, but I don't know.
00:18:28.720 I think there's, I don't know, obviously everyone's different, but to me,
00:18:31.920 for me personally, there's boundaries.
00:18:33.520 You could be watching it and doing all this, but if you're putting more attention on that
00:18:37.920 than me, then it's an issue.
00:18:39.920 I think that's a bad reminder.
00:18:43.040 Mine is, tell me the first place, because if I find out later on, we're down.
00:18:45.600 I'm telling you, it's just a slippery slope.
00:18:46.800 Yeah.
00:18:47.360 Just tell me who you are.
00:18:50.320 Show me.
00:18:50.640 Introduce me to you and I'll choose if I want to be with you or not.
00:18:53.280 Yeah, you just ask them to be with you.
00:18:54.160 I'm going to show you who I am.
00:18:55.840 Yeah.
00:18:56.880 Yeah, I agree.
00:18:57.680 As long as you're transparent and there's no issue.
00:18:59.680 Yeah.
00:19:00.080 What do you want?
00:19:00.800 Just let me know.
00:19:02.480 No freaky stuff either.
00:19:03.600 No.
00:19:06.080 Yeah, it's definitely important to ask what to ask.
00:19:09.840 Which kind?
00:19:10.640 Yeah.
00:19:10.880 Which are which kind?
00:19:12.240 Yeah, because there's different levels and you find that women might accept some levels,
00:19:16.720 but then it goes off the scale.
00:19:18.160 Yeah, because if you're watching certain stuff, I'm just like, oh.
00:19:20.880 It's like, nah.
00:19:21.840 Yeah, that's who they are as well.
00:19:23.840 Yeah, that's like a sicko who should be in my house.
00:19:26.160 Yeah, yeah, that's your interest.
00:19:28.320 I feel like that's a topic of conversation that you talk about, no?
00:19:31.200 Yeah, I know, 100%.
00:19:32.800 Like, I want to know.
00:19:34.080 I've never had that conversation though.
00:19:35.680 Yeah, how do you have that?
00:19:36.880 I've never had that conversation with a man in my life.
00:19:38.880 I've had it.
00:19:40.080 Well, what they're into?
00:19:41.040 Yeah.
00:19:42.880 Not in corn.
00:19:44.000 I'm saying in general, in the bedroom, like.
00:19:46.560 Oh, yeah.
00:19:47.280 You know what they like and what they don't like.
00:19:48.720 Nah, I'm up for anything because you're my man, innit?
00:19:51.680 But no freaky stuff.
00:19:53.440 That's different.
00:19:54.960 That's not in copying nobody.
00:19:56.240 That's me getting freaky.
00:19:57.280 There's a big difference.
00:19:58.000 Yeah.
00:19:58.320 I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats.
00:20:02.480 Guys, like the video on your way and subscribe to the channel.
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00:20:12.000 Maggie, the substitute teacher.
00:20:13.760 Oh, I think she's coming on to wife school.
00:20:15.600 She's going to help us cut.
00:20:16.480 Can I say something, please?
00:20:17.360 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
00:20:18.080 Pearly animations.
00:20:18.960 Oh, I forgot about, yeah, pearly.
00:20:21.120 We have pearly animations now, which is like...
00:20:24.240 You want to explain it?
00:20:25.200 It's your Clips in animation.
00:20:27.120 Yeah, it's Clips in animation.
00:20:28.800 And you see Shapely Pearl.
00:20:30.880 Oh, yeah, they gave me a good...
00:20:32.800 My cartoon has such a good body, guys.
00:20:35.600 I was like, I do not look like that.
00:20:38.080 I will take it.
00:20:39.200 She's got butt, chest, hips, everything.
00:20:41.680 Yeah, it's like...
00:20:43.280 Yeah, I was like, thank you.
00:20:45.120 Okay, Maggie, the substitute teacher.
00:20:50.240 $30 for a whole week of groceries.
00:20:54.160 Russ, thank you for the super chat.
00:20:55.680 Liberty now.
00:20:56.240 Cheers to England.
00:20:57.040 Hello from America.
00:20:58.080 Question for England.
00:20:58.880 What is the definition of liberty and does it matter?
00:21:00.960 Please be specific.
00:21:03.200 James Pritt, found the woman of my dreams.
00:21:06.000 Got engaged, but bedroom got cold.
00:21:08.960 Started getting a lot of offers, so I broke things off,
00:21:11.520 but I didn't think I could trust myself.
00:21:14.160 Haven't found anything close to that.
00:21:16.000 Should I have just cheated?
00:21:17.840 No.
00:21:18.880 He did good.
00:21:19.680 He did the right thing.
00:21:20.720 I mean, if they're already having issues before they're married,
00:21:23.920 it's not going to get better.
00:21:25.600 Be free.
00:21:27.760 Okay, Maggie, the substitute teacher.
00:21:30.080 New to the show.
00:21:30.880 Just saying hello to Pearl.
00:21:31.840 Blessing and Auntie Jenny.
00:21:32.800 Appreciate you all.
00:21:34.720 Eugene Steele.
00:21:35.600 I am not considering myself a passport bro,
00:21:38.240 but I wouldn't mind traveling to the UK to meet the woman in olive green.
00:21:44.160 She's single.
00:21:48.880 Sentience.
00:21:51.520 Men are required to be gentle with women because they're not the same.
00:21:54.720 Well, oh, I think I read this one already.
00:21:56.720 Okay, let me refresh it really quick, guys.
00:21:58.640 Also, guys, I think we're going to do, I know,
00:22:03.760 I know I announced that I was going to do our one million party next month.
00:22:08.640 I was too ambitious.
00:22:09.920 Okay, I was very ambitious.
00:22:11.280 I was like, let's do it next month.
00:22:12.480 We can do it.
00:22:13.200 It's happening in June.
00:22:14.080 I think June 10th.
00:22:15.120 I'm going to finalize it this week.
00:22:16.720 But yeah, yeah, it's not happening next month.
00:22:19.680 Sorry, guys.
00:22:20.720 Too much planning.
00:22:21.680 Yeah, well, I...
00:22:22.640 Underestimated how much work it is.
00:22:24.560 Yeah, I didn't realize how much like it takes to throw an event together and like the tickets and everything.
00:22:29.600 Yeah, so that was my fault.
00:22:32.080 Um, okay.
00:22:36.480 I'm trying to think of my next question, actually.
00:22:38.720 Um, oh, no, if they, when they get married,
00:22:44.080 what kind of wife do they think they're going to be?
00:22:46.640 Oh, that's a good question, Auntie.
00:22:49.040 Go ahead and start there.
00:22:49.920 Um, definitely a calm wife.
00:22:57.040 I know that sounds like what is a calm wife,
00:22:59.120 but just someone who like keeps their home peaceful, no outside dramas,
00:23:04.400 um, and just a loving, nurturing place.
00:23:10.320 Like I want, like I know in the UK you get like that,
00:23:13.920 I think it's like 10 to 12 months or something for your maternity leave.
00:23:17.920 I want at least the two, the first two and a half years just with my kids at home.
00:23:23.760 And I kind of want them close in age.
00:23:25.840 And just, I know it sounds so like cliche and like the cooking, the cleaning,
00:23:31.040 but I just want it to be a place where my man can feel like he can be a man.
00:23:34.640 And like he's in his role and his masculine and I can be in my feminine and just be a mother and a wife.
00:23:40.960 That's literally what I want.
00:23:44.400 What do you think you're going to get?
00:23:46.160 That's what I'm going to get.
00:23:47.280 Okay.
00:23:47.920 Yeah, that's what I'm going to get.
00:23:50.320 But I need a man who wants to be a husband and wants to do that role.
00:23:55.280 I can't have a man who wants me to also be like...
00:23:58.400 So what would your like day-to-day like life look like if you were in that role?
00:24:02.240 Like what would you be doing?
00:24:03.760 Wait, from the time you wake up in the morning with the two kids at six o'clock in the morning?
00:24:08.720 What's your day going to be like?
00:24:10.560 Well, I have my, my own daily structures and then that can just put me in the mind frame of
00:24:15.200 doing what I need to do.
00:24:16.560 And with kids, you know, it's never going to, no day is going to look the same.
00:24:20.800 But what do you mean?
00:24:23.280 Like what does it look like?
00:24:24.480 Like feeding them, cooking, cleaning.
00:24:26.160 Like give us your rota.
00:24:27.680 Yes.
00:24:28.240 Like, all right, then you wake up at five o'clock in the morning, one baby's screaming, right?
00:24:31.920 You've got to get your husband ready for work.
00:24:33.440 So you, you have a guy across from you who makes $250,000 a year.
00:24:36.800 He says, you know, you could be my, you could be my housewife.
00:24:39.040 What are you going to do for me?
00:24:40.000 Go.
00:24:41.520 Cook, clean, make sure the kids are looked after.
00:24:45.280 And when I say, and also make, keep myself together.
00:24:47.920 And in order to keep my...
00:24:48.640 Describe your normal day from start to finish.
00:24:51.200 Okay.
00:24:51.440 So I wake up, I VJ, like get stuff out of my journal, meditate, do my like seven self-care pillars,
00:25:00.960 cold shower.
00:25:02.560 If that means I've got to wake up at four because the kid wants to scream at five,
00:25:05.200 then I've got to do that.
00:25:07.680 One, two kids, one might be on school, one might be nursery or two under two.
00:25:12.160 I don't know.
00:25:15.040 Home schooled.
00:25:16.720 Home schooled, until what age?
00:25:19.760 Me doing it or like someone comes in?
00:25:21.280 You do it.
00:25:22.000 Oh, I do know.
00:25:22.960 I've never actually thought about like what that would look like, but I would be happy to.
00:25:29.280 I've never thought about what that would look like.
00:25:30.720 I've always just kind of had in my head that my kids would be at home until about three, four.
00:25:35.680 I personally don't want my kids going to nursery at two.
00:25:38.080 I know that's like this kind of extended age, but I want to be at home with my kids
00:25:43.200 at two years old.
00:25:44.000 So about three, four, they can like start going to other people.
00:25:49.040 Okay.
00:25:49.840 My kids can't be looked after by other people until they can put a sentence together.
00:25:54.880 Yeah.
00:25:55.440 Like that's it until they can understand like their body in terms of like for that age,
00:26:02.400 they're not being looked after by anyone.
00:26:05.040 And I need a man who gets that, who says, do you know what?
00:26:08.560 Yeah, I agree.
00:26:09.120 I don't want a man to think, oh, you doing that means you're going to live off of me.
00:26:13.600 No, I'm doing this because of the nurturing and the foundation I want for my kids.
00:26:17.760 That's your question.
00:26:18.720 And them going into the world.
00:26:19.680 If the child is really ill and you go to bed at midnight,
00:26:22.320 are you still going to get about four o'clock in the morning to go through your whole?
00:26:26.240 Yeah.
00:26:26.800 I'm just thinking to myself, you would love to have that couple of hours in the morning
00:26:29.840 to do all of that stuff.
00:26:32.560 It just sounds amazing.
00:26:34.400 If they're sick, if they're sick, sorry, sorry.
00:26:36.720 I mean, no, I mean,
00:26:37.440 because you're going to say you're going to get up at four o'clock in the morning.
00:26:39.680 If I had to.
00:26:40.720 Because, um, I heard you're doing a lot of talking,
00:26:42.880 but I heard you say about your day yet.
00:26:44.800 It's been a lot of, I want to hear, I want to, I want to hear, right?
00:26:49.600 Like you said, you get up at four o'clock in the morning,
00:26:52.080 you do all of your stuff, your, for you.
00:26:55.200 What time is that finish?
00:26:58.000 45 minutes to an hour.
00:26:59.280 All right then.
00:26:59.840 So five o'clock, we're going to do that.
00:27:02.640 I mean, I'm not a mother.
00:27:04.320 So I don't exactly know what that looks like,
00:27:06.560 but I know that I'm prepared to do whatever it takes to be the mother that I know that I want to be.
00:27:12.000 So I can't.
00:27:12.800 How have you, how have you prepared?
00:27:15.520 What do you mean?
00:27:16.160 No, I said, I, I'm prepared to do it.
00:27:18.480 Okay.
00:27:18.800 So like, I would have to teach you.
00:27:20.960 What do you mean?
00:27:22.000 So you, I'm saying, so then he would have to teach you, you're prepared to do it,
00:27:26.000 but you're not telling me what it is.
00:27:27.360 Yeah, I, I, yeah, I don't know exactly.
00:27:30.720 I know it takes a lot emotionally, mentally, physically.
00:27:35.360 And I'm ready to, and I'm prepared to go through it.
00:27:37.280 And I, I want to go through it because I want to be a mother.
00:27:40.160 Have you got nieces and nephews?
00:27:41.840 Um, I do.
00:27:42.880 Do you babysit a lot?
00:27:44.480 Not, not like that, no.
00:27:46.640 Would you be able to, if you could?
00:27:48.240 Yeah, I could.
00:27:48.880 It's half term this week.
00:27:49.920 Try it, try it for a day.
00:27:51.680 Yeah.
00:27:52.160 All of them.
00:27:53.280 Try having them for a day.
00:27:55.120 Yeah, I would, I would.
00:27:56.320 And let me know how you get on.
00:27:57.200 I would be down for it.
00:27:58.160 Let me know how you get on.
00:28:00.000 I think my, my siblings, they, they range in a, a massive range.
00:28:04.720 So I want you to have all the ones under five.
00:28:08.080 Okay.
00:28:08.960 And let me know how you get on.
00:28:10.080 For a full day, no parents involved in.
00:28:11.920 But in the morning they drop off to the evening bedtime.
00:28:14.720 I would love to do that.
00:28:16.000 Let me know how you get on.
00:28:16.960 I'd love to know.
00:28:18.480 Okay, so then we get 5am, so the kids are out.
00:28:21.040 Like, I don't know how long the day is going to be, but I know it's going to be long.
00:28:23.760 24 hours.
00:28:24.160 Because, yeah, because, because the thing is, the thing is.
00:28:27.200 The body gets up.
00:28:27.920 Do you know what I mean?
00:28:28.480 Because, and then it's like, you know, finding time to like have your shower and all that.
00:28:32.000 And you might not even have time to, to do all of that stuff.
00:28:34.720 And then to, you know, have dinner ready for when he gets home.
00:28:39.040 Like, I, I know it's going to be stressful.
00:28:41.040 I know it's not going to be an easy job.
00:28:42.960 Like, I'm not even going to pretend like I'm deluded on that.
00:28:47.040 But I just can't wait to be in it.
00:28:48.320 I think you need to start practicing now.
00:28:50.000 That's what I mean.
00:28:50.880 Yeah.
00:28:51.920 It sounds wonderful.
00:28:53.040 Because I can't wait till we get down to the end.
00:28:54.880 So you can hear what it's really like.
00:28:56.160 Yeah, but then also, but then also, I'm.
00:29:01.840 How many, how many meals can you cook?
00:29:03.520 Would you say?
00:29:04.640 Like, if you had to make a menu of your food, how many meals?
00:29:07.360 Oh, I don't know, but in double digits.
00:29:09.680 Okay.
00:29:09.920 So like 10, 20?
00:29:11.360 Yeah.
00:29:12.480 No, which one?
00:29:13.040 10, 20 or 50?
00:29:14.000 Um, like 15, 20, 25.
00:29:17.520 Okay.
00:29:18.160 Okay.
00:29:18.480 Cool.
00:29:18.720 So he gets 25 meals.
00:29:20.880 Roughly.
00:29:21.280 And then, oh, yeah.
00:29:21.920 Yeah, no, I'm just asking what he gets.
00:29:24.080 Yeah.
00:29:24.240 Yeah.
00:29:24.560 Yeah.
00:29:25.120 Okay.
00:29:26.000 Do you have any other questions, Andy?
00:29:27.680 No, I just want to know.
00:29:29.840 Well, I know when you said I'm about, um, when it gets to the end, but I also know that I
00:29:34.080 won't be in that position unless I know that he can provide a certain lifestyle.
00:29:39.520 That's just for me.
00:29:40.320 You can never afford to have children.
00:29:42.640 I know.
00:29:43.120 If you think you're going to save up to have children, forget about it.
00:29:46.080 I'm not, but I can, I can, I can categorically tell you, if, if life happens and we might
00:29:53.280 end up in a situation, but I can categorically tell you I'm not entering a situation like
00:29:58.800 that.
00:29:59.200 No.
00:30:00.000 There's no baby leaving my body without a ring on my finger.
00:30:05.360 Can I come to your wedding?
00:30:06.640 Of course you can.
00:30:07.120 Before I die.
00:30:08.000 Of course you can.
00:30:08.800 Okay.
00:30:09.920 There's nothing wrong with having kids without marriage.
00:30:11.840 I mean, I was born outside of marriage, but it's not happening for me.
00:30:15.360 It's not.
00:30:17.600 Are you religious?
00:30:19.120 I don't.
00:30:19.520 Are you religious?
00:30:20.560 I'm a Christian, yeah.
00:30:21.760 Okay.
00:30:22.160 Then that just changes things a little bit.
00:30:24.480 Why?
00:30:26.240 Before she said that, I was thinking you don't stand a chance.
00:30:29.440 It's very rare.
00:30:30.800 Now, at least she's got a, there's a percentage there.
00:30:33.440 Not very high, but there's sort of a percentage.
00:30:35.600 You don't stand a chance for what?
00:30:37.200 Kids.
00:30:37.680 No, for the happy whatever and the regular out there and the way, the way she sounded,
00:30:42.160 it just sounded like impossible.
00:30:44.960 It just doesn't sound like real.
00:30:46.800 I don't know.
00:30:47.520 It depends.
00:30:48.240 I can't.
00:30:48.720 Yeah.
00:30:51.200 Not having kids before marriage.
00:30:52.480 No, no.
00:30:53.360 I'm going to, I'm going to wake up for an hour and meditate before my kids.
00:30:57.200 Oh no, not, not meditate for an hour.
00:30:59.520 Oh my God, no.
00:31:00.240 You said 45 minutes.
00:31:01.440 No, no.
00:31:02.320 I mean like everything that I do, like right now,
00:31:04.320 currently everything that I do takes about 45 minutes in the morning.
00:31:06.960 That's from waking up to having my shower, meditate, VJ, breakfast, but.
00:31:12.880 What's VJ?
00:31:14.080 Yeah.
00:31:14.960 Oh, sorry.
00:31:16.640 Journaling.
00:31:17.280 It's just where you just like get like, but it's not like happy journey.
00:31:20.480 It's just where you get any like horrible thoughts out, any emotions.
00:31:23.600 So it's just, you just get it out.
00:31:24.800 It's done.
00:31:25.440 Leave it there.
00:31:27.280 Don't carry on into the next day.
00:31:28.720 You don't carry in into the day.
00:31:30.480 Why wouldn't you just pray?
00:31:31.360 Pardon?
00:31:32.960 No, I pray as well.
00:31:34.560 And I, sometimes I do it twice a day.
00:31:35.920 Sometimes I do it once a day.
00:31:37.040 It, it really depends.
00:31:39.120 But I just, I don't need to take negative emotions from one day into the next day.
00:31:42.960 And sometimes a lot of times when you think something's happened or someone's done you something,
00:31:47.120 they actually haven't.
00:31:48.400 It's just you're in your feelings and you get it out.
00:31:51.520 And it's also instead of offloading onto another friend,
00:31:54.800 not all the time do I need to call my friend.
00:31:56.000 I'm like, oh my God, can you believe this happened?
00:31:57.120 And they're like, yeah.
00:31:58.000 Oh my God, F that B and duh, duh, duh, duh.
00:32:00.160 Just get it out.
00:32:01.280 Boom, done, move on.
00:32:02.480 What would you do for your husband every day?
00:32:04.560 Because I've heard about the kids.
00:32:05.760 I've heard about you.
00:32:06.320 I haven't heard about your husband yet.
00:32:08.480 Like cook, clean, look after him.
00:32:10.640 Outside of that, anything else?
00:32:12.720 Be his support system.
00:32:14.960 Okay.
00:32:15.280 How?
00:32:16.160 I don't know exactly what that looks like,
00:32:18.720 but if he told me it looks like X, Y, Z, then it's X, Y, Z.
00:32:22.880 Okay.
00:32:23.520 Okay.
00:32:24.480 What about you?
00:32:25.360 What kind of wife do you want to be?
00:32:27.520 I feel like I was born quite maternal, quite wifely.
00:32:32.720 Sometimes it's a con because you carry wifely duties before they're needed.
00:32:37.200 Girlfriend prices.
00:32:38.400 When I am a wife, I have kind of similar views.
00:32:43.280 I want to raise my children to a certain age and then they can get into education or whatever.
00:32:49.600 If during that time my man is the provider, then I'll have to step up and do most homely things.
00:32:55.600 But then when I do continue to go back to work or start providing also, whether it's for everyone or just,
00:33:01.680 you know, partly, I'd want him to step in slightly more and maybe one night help with the cooking or unload the dishwasher.
00:33:09.440 I don't think it should be all on me.
00:33:11.520 Um, but yeah, I'm a very giving person.
00:33:14.720 I'm very caring, nurturing person.
00:33:16.160 So whatever he needs, if he needs help within his work, you know, I'll always try.
00:33:19.920 I won't, I won't ever say no or decline anything.
00:33:22.560 I always try.
00:33:23.200 Okay.
00:33:23.680 Could I, could I get more specifics?
00:33:25.440 Cause this is just very broad.
00:33:27.360 Specific in what?
00:33:28.240 Like what, what exactly you would do every day, like as a wife.
00:33:33.040 And you said like you did this stuff at like wifey things at girlfriend.
00:33:36.560 Oh yeah.
00:33:36.880 What does that mean?
00:33:37.680 I cook, I clean, you know, I'd, I'd wake up, make the bed.
00:33:40.960 If, do you think, do you think a man paying for a date is doing husband things at boyfriend prices?
00:33:47.280 Do I think a man paying for a date?
00:33:48.880 Yeah, a man paying for a date, is that doing husband things at boyfriend prices?
00:33:52.240 Cause a lot of times I think like we say we cooked, we cleaned and that's, that's.
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