JustPearlyThings - He Couldn't Face This REALITY From Women

00:00:00.000 she understands the context behind it like this is my life i've built this thing it means a lot to me

00:00:04.320 and i'm upset by it if she gets the ick over that then she's not the right girl no but once again

00:00:08.000 what you're saying is yeah but like that sounds nice but i just don't think it's honest it's not

00:00:12.720 it's not like like it sounds nice but in general women lose respect for men when we see them cry 0.97

00:00:19.040 and we can pretend we don't but it's just it's so while i say to someone just cry and risk it all

00:00:24.560 i already know something she may she may not why would i want to test it out i just know men are

00:00:28.560 not supposed to be crying in front of their girl for no reason and that might be a reason to me but

00:00:32.800 the fact for no reason but she said to me you can cry but you can only cry about certain things and

00:00:37.200 i'm not going to tell you what those certain things your masculinity needs to let you know

00:00:40.160 what you're allowed to cry about just don't cry bro that's like no but the thing is yeah

00:00:45.760 the thing is the thing is though bro i know it's not easy but nothing is same with women there's going 1.00

00:00:50.320 to be certain things that we do that's levels to it there's levels to it and um but vulnerability

00:00:55.440 and emotion it's not the same thing you can still be vulnerable like there's a lot of

00:00:58.160 the mandem i want you to keep your relationships i'm not saying cry don't cry out like loud but i

00:01:04.560 am the perfect amount that only each woman knows and gets context is everything in life

00:01:12.640 you know i mean i know everything's black and white so at the end of the day if it's something that's a

00:01:16.560 big deal yeah and you're upset by it and then she's not there for you then that's the wrong girl 0.96

00:01:21.360 get rid of her move on because once you find a girl that's really down for you then none of that's

00:01:25.840 going to matter do you know i mean because context will prevail and all of that stuff is really great

00:01:29.680 for short-term dating and stuff but if we're talking long-term connections you're going to bury

00:01:33.680 children together god forbid you might bury your parents together you're trying to tell me you can't

00:01:37.440 cry in those moments this is great for short-term flings this mentality but if you want a long-term

00:01:43.040 connection you might have a stillbirth you and your man's just been like no no no can't be that no

00:01:48.960 life happens so we're taking i mean it's just like as a woman for me i always want a guy that

00:01:55.360 is calm and strong even in horrible situations so like and this isn't pretty but this is just me

00:02:04.000 being honest one of the reasons i respect like all of the men that i respect the most i've barely ever

00:02:09.120 seen them cry and i just think it's it's a lot of times as women we mean well and we want to be there

00:02:17.200 for men but i don't think we can i think it's short term yeah it makes sense but i don't know my dad

00:02:24.160 cries when like i leave the country for a couple of months or something and um maybe because he cries

00:02:29.760 when you leave the country yeah he cries i think it's just the asian where i'm from pakistan so like 0.94

00:02:34.240 just not seeing me every day kind of affects him and stuff and like you know so he'll cry when i if i'm

00:02:39.520 going back to dubai or cry or whatever it is and uh but he's he's still a very masculine man and i just

00:02:44.960 think when it's proportionate and it's in line with your masculinity it's fine but when it's a

00:02:49.680 masculine man and he cries every time you leave the country yeah he does bless him i'm his daughter

00:02:54.720 i'll be honest with you just as you said that paul i just thought about my dad i've never seen him cry

00:02:58.560 in my whole life i just i just can't i don't know your dad personally so i'm not trying to offend you

00:03:03.440 i just can't imagine a masculine man crying every time his daughter leaves the country he cries every

00:03:08.880 time like he gets emotional at the idea of me leaving the country and pearl i've spoke about my dad

00:03:13.440 before how high in regard to hold him he was um diplomat and he's the chief um back home and he's

00:03:19.360 been through so much and i just think he's never cried like never never do you know you actually have

00:03:24.480 no idea what it is to be a chief and to run i mean i'm just thinking the most masculine archetypes they

00:03:29.600 don't like they don't cry no i've seen him stressed out i've seen my dad stressed out like and i'm coming

00:03:34.720 to him and i'm like but him crying no they just there's some things you just do as well for other people as

00:03:42.160 well i get that it's not attractive but i don't think it should be a rule i think it should be

00:03:47.120 you let your own masculinity dictate whether you cry or not no because masculinity dictates you not

00:03:52.880 actually crying it's actually femininity which creates crying because build your masculine energy 1.00

00:03:56.960 so you cry less rather than telling men to hold it no but you what i'm doing is i'm saying to men

00:04:02.160 don't get tricked out your position yeah do not go and cry to your missus when you have friends

00:04:07.760 where in actual fact you could be building more bro code and building a more bromance as you want

00:04:11.440 to call it yeah this strength is your unity if you've never done it with your boys i suggest you

00:04:15.680 pick your closest boy and you guys start bonding you do not go and get your girl who's supposed to

00:04:20.240 look at you like a superman the guy that protects me how are you going to protect her now when you're

00:04:23.920 crying i'm and i'm trying to and the reason i'm trying to say is because she doesn't mean to do it

00:04:27.760 it's not her fault it's just in her body it's not like say if your dad did want to cry and get upset

00:04:32.960 would he go to your mom or would he go to his boys say if he did god forbid say if there was

00:04:38.240 an incident that made him really get upset would you rather would with the connection that your mom

00:04:42.880 and dad have built is it better for him to go to your mom or is it better to him go to a friend

00:04:47.760 even now i couldn't imagine my mom wanted to see my dad cry like i just because i know

00:04:54.320 what do you think would be better for him

00:04:55.760 to go to my mom right because i wouldn't want him to go to other chiefs and to be seen as weak

00:05:04.320 because they will see him as weak exactly they'll look at the chief of all chiefs coming to us and

00:05:07.840 crying so what does that tell you about long-term connections what are they built on no but

00:05:13.200 what i'm trying to say trust there's a trust element with your vulnerability at this point

00:05:18.160 it would have him looking weak to the other to the other tribes right so you don't want to be it's more

00:05:23.600 okay it's more important to be seen masculine outside of the home and to the world than it is

00:05:28.480 supposed to see masculine to your wife it's changing that's what i'm saying it's changing

00:05:31.520 i feel like that's generational no but like okay i'll be honest with you even now yeah you don't

00:05:37.120 want to be the the guy that's crying to the girl and and doing the r&b love singing bro because

00:05:41.520 the guy which ain't do the guy that's doing the drilling them he's blowing backs out bro and this

00:05:45.680 is the thing i don't want i don't want you to be crying in the rain like like ray j bro like over

00:05:50.400 some girl but do you think i'm a ceo and your your boss you come to your boss and you start crying to 0.74

00:05:55.760 your boss because you're so stressed out because i can't cry to my wife wouldn't your boss be like

00:05:59.280 take that to your home don't bring your tears in my office well yeah it's unprofessional he said go to

00:06:04.400 your friends wherever it is and okay i i understand what you're saying a 50-year marriage you're probably

00:06:11.600 going to cry at some point but the point is it as women it's it's dishonest to tell men to make that a 0.99

00:06:18.720 habit occasionally occasionally occasionally occasionally every couple but every woman

00:06:27.920 doesn't know what her point is so you don't know at what point exactly you're going to be turned off

00:06:33.680 by it and i don't know exactly what point i'll be in your relationship so so it's easier just to tell

00:06:38.720 men you know what avoid that with your girl do that with your boys if you can because it's confusing to

00:06:43.520 men because some girls they see you cry like there's girls that have said i saw him cry once and i

00:06:48.000 couldn't look at him the same ever again happened one time there's some girls there's some girls

00:06:53.120 multiple times that it'll take yeah why was he crying i i don't know yeah so pearl let me tell you

00:06:58.000 something i'm gonna you know we're gonna we're gonna open up a little bit here i don't do too much

00:07:02.080 open i i know i'm getting a little bit better with some stuff so telling some stuff so uh my first

00:07:09.200 true love i would say must have been together about five years uh um i was i can tell the story

00:07:16.480 you've seen it but i was i was stabbed when i was younger very badly i was on life support machine

00:07:21.360 um people have seen the pictures and stuff i was hooked up to machines and stuff

00:07:25.520 the girl that said she would never leave me ever when i was hooked up and i couldn't walk when i cried

00:07:30.720 and when i when i had the the the cafeteria inside of me the shit bag all of that stuff yeah 0.68

00:07:36.080 something happened after that i'm telling you something like something got changed the super

00:07:40.400 man that i was and even though i survived and even though i was whatever she's happy now she's

00:07:44.400 married she got her kids and the rest of it and i'm happy for them we're cool but trust me on this man

00:07:49.120 you could i was on my deathbed i was hooked up to machines and the girl that was hooked up the

00:07:53.040 girl that was standing next to me holding my hand that said she'll never leave me still left me 0.84

00:07:57.040 men you have to understand this are you sure it's due to that or do you think it could be other

00:08:01.120 variables it could be other variables but what i will say is that afterwards i found that she wanted

00:08:06.800 to leave me but obviously this stuff that happened created created something in it and i just know

00:08:13.520 that there's some parts of being a man that after you step after it's past vulnerability now it's like

00:08:18.480 yo dependent your dependence yeah she kicked the hell out and she said to herself i can't do this right

00:08:23.840 and when you feel that like you're not supposed to kick out because of because i'm i'm i need you

00:08:30.800 now you know what i mean i'm i'm effed up bro i can't even you know what i mean is that is more her

00:08:36.400 because because i feel like what you're doing right now is what people do on social media too much and

00:08:40.160 that's generalization like you're basing your experience with your ex you're arguing like a girl

00:08:44.160 nobody nobody essentially you're taking your experience of your ex and then saying that you're saying you're

00:08:49.280 saying you're saying like like okay not we know not all we we know that we don't have to say with

00:08:54.640 every everything it's not every single person but in general women don't like to see men cry yeah like

00:09:00.960 like women like masculine men the most sought after guys are like tough they're not i'm not trying to

00:09:06.400 say that this is for like uh like i'm just you know what i opened up and i get told that

00:09:11.600 i got opened up and i literally like i don't know i didn't want to be rude but he was arguing

00:09:21.040 to me like a girl bro i opened up a story to show you an example i could give you other examples and

00:09:26.480 other people you know i'm trying to say to you i can literally give you examples let me give you

00:09:30.640 another one women don't care about what you go through bro like you might think they do that's 1.00

00:09:35.120 why she was talking about work she was gauging what is okay to cry about at work like you can

00:09:41.280 lose it all tomorrow in it yeah go and start crying to girls about you lost it all and you're 0.62

00:09:45.360 not the man you ain't got the car you had now you've you're not an apartment no more you've gone

00:09:49.120 to one room and you will discover how many girls all of a sudden don't want to hear your stories 1.00

00:09:56.880 i'll give you an example guys and girls crying on the street look up what is the public's reaction

00:10:04.960 they stop for the women they don't for the men you know what it is for me yeah i like

00:10:08.720 the thing that just grinds my gear here is that same thing with the feminist type thing like i 1.00

00:10:13.600 just hate when people generalize in that's that's just it so it don't matter the scenario or what 0.52

00:10:18.640 you're saying you see i don't like generalization in general because you get like a lot of women

00:10:23.120 online just talking about men because they're generalizing their experience in one man and 0.97

00:10:27.920 then saying oh all men are trash that pisses me off how is it a general how do we have a conversation 0.94

00:10:33.200 about anything about general truths about society if we can't speak in generalities 0.99

00:10:40.880 and so if there if there are studies that say in general women lose respect for men when they see

00:10:46.160 them cry okay so there's studies that back this up how we can't we can't talk about that i i hear it

00:10:54.800 i hear it but like i said it's context and everything do you know i mean so do you you want every time we

00:11:00.320 talk about anything to say but not all like i'm just asking because i get this a lot i get yeah

00:11:08.160 because i think whenever so if we don't ever deal in how do we ever come to um to a general consensus

00:11:13.600 if we don't deal in yeah that's what i'm saying like how would we have a conversation about

00:11:16.800 relationships in general if we don't talk about in general we have to talk about it's hard to

00:11:21.200 no but the thing is everything in life is general it's not so i think whenever we speak we know it's not

00:11:25.840 all so sometimes people have to say stuff like they'll be like um it's not all yes we know it's

00:11:30.400 not all women but i think we've come to a general consensus when we're speaking we're speaking so

00:11:33.920 don't have to say modern women right they have to say some women it becomes this thing where 0.92

00:11:38.880 i think we have a level of intelligence that when we all know we're not speaking about everybody

00:11:42.720 like we shouldn't keep having to do this and when we do it with a man this is something i do with

00:11:46.960 women because they want to keep moving the goalposts we should just know that it's not all men

00:11:51.200 it's not all women if we have to keep doing that it's because they the conversation is getting

00:11:55.600 derailed we cannot ever come to a general consensus of anything in life unless we do not use an average

00:12:00.880 yeah and we need to get an average or we need to get a percentage or something so and and and the

00:12:06.240 example you used with men are trash and if there was data that said 80 of men were committing crimes

00:12:11.680 against women okay but when it's five two percent you know it's not the same exactly but women 0.96

00:12:18.240 generalize and say all men well the the difference is that in general most women lose respect for men

00:12:25.120 when they cry in general most men aren't trash one's one's false one's true fair enough um okay so

00:12:38.320 let's talk about andrew tate hey sweet top g well um what do you guys think of andrew tate

00:12:45.280 i don't mind andrew tate i just don't really like his followers i really don't have a problem with

00:12:51.600 andrew tate i think if you are a successful man who does well and you understand the dynamics of men

00:12:57.120 and women he's become muslim now as well which is i'm muslim so anyone that becomes muslim i'm like go on

00:13:04.000 yeah so um you know any i don't have a problem with him he's obviously speaking from his own lived

00:13:09.040 experience and this is how he gets women to behave around him but he is a successful man he works

00:13:15.120 out he's got money he's got all of these things so he can talk with his chest what i don't like is

00:13:20.240 that nobody kind of guy that follows him and then starts adopting all of his values and starting

00:13:25.040 having this really angry attitude towards women and be like and that's what well it almost you think

00:13:30.080 he's angry not him but i think his followers are what's andrew tate's values to you uh what do you

00:13:36.320 mean by that like because you said they adopt his values okay values as in like oh women aren't like 1.00

00:13:41.760 this is how you should treat women this is how they this is what women like this is how do you 1.00

00:13:45.360 get them to submit this is what you do but but you can you can get that level of submission when

00:13:50.240 you're that level of guy but if she's not submitting to you you're either aiming too high or you're not

00:13:55.280 successful enough as a man yeah but then he says get more successful yeah that's what he's so

00:14:01.760 do you think it's okay for him to say yo get make a ton of money so you can a lot of hoes 1.00

00:14:07.120 yeah no but i think the fact that the guys are taking on what he's saying about women but not

00:14:12.000 taking on what he's saying about business and earning potential and working out and paying for

00:14:16.000 women or all these things i think a lot of them do do you think so the ones i see in his comments are 1.00

00:14:20.960 the no i i just don't i see it as like just people if you did have a lifestyle like andrew tate you

00:14:27.040 wouldn't be so angry against women a man that's angry against women can't get women to submit to them 0.76

00:14:32.400 and that's what fuels their anger so i feel like i don't think they're angry i think they just have

00:14:37.440 standards like i just i mean we're talking in general right i just like i just think they say

00:14:42.880 things like like they don't want a girl with a low body count they don't want a girl that's fat they 0.99

00:14:46.560 don't want to but men who got it like that don't need to say it like that yes you know the men that have

00:14:51.440 it the men that i know that have these standards never need to vocalize it and never need to watch a

00:14:56.880 podcast on it it's interesting i i would agree with you but i've met good looking guys that make

00:15:03.440 good money that have left the u.s to go to a different country and they just say it's better

00:15:09.520 yeah they say i'll get two matches in the u.s and then i'll get 130 in poland

00:15:16.320 yeah i guess the culture of the women makes it really difficult to submit but i genuinely think when 1.00

00:15:20.400 you are a man of value you don't need to follow any man telling you what to do and also you don't

00:15:26.240 have an angry attitude towards women women just like when you're a woman of value when you're a 1.00

00:15:30.960 woman who gets men uh treating her well you don't be you're not screaming men are trash you're not

00:15:37.120 angry against men uh you don't have those attitudes because to you men have always been good similarly

00:15:42.000 if you find men with high value they don't experience these type of women who are running games on them 0.99

00:15:47.600 cheating on them talking out the side of their mouth to them they don't experience that

00:15:51.760 are you kidding are you mad look at it look at it okay okay okay that's number one stop stop stop 0.99

00:15:59.040 the number one reason we can agree nba players get bitches right the number one reason they go broke is 1.00

00:16:06.480 getting the wrong bitch pregnant yeah because they choose badly but if you're a man of high standards you 1.00

00:16:12.000 don't choose badly you don't the vetting process jeff bezos yeah but just like you were saying nice girls 0.99

00:16:29.920 don't get with bad boys men of value can spot a thought from a mile off and it's that simple you

00:16:36.480 can spot a thought that's one of your skills as a masculine man alpha men don't tolerate promiscuity

00:16:41.680 i think i think they don't have promiscuous women in their lives the new thoughts they're undercover 0.92

00:16:46.880 no no no do you know why i'm sorry okay okay let's like what i thought okay what is a thought

00:16:55.200 promiscuous okay at what point at what point how many bodies how many bodies um whatever is your level

00:17:01.840 how many bodies i would say i mean i i've got because by 19th so i've got a very different

00:17:09.520 zero minus figures no i'm saying like 1950s 40s standards it's like two i've got a very different

00:17:17.200 standard because of my culture and my religion so i can't really speak on other people i really can't

00:17:21.520 um so but what i would say is one of the definitions of an alpha man is you don't tolerate promiscuity and

00:17:27.600 you vet women before they come into your world you don't let any old riffraff in your house and if 1.00

00:17:33.280 you do then you're not you're not high value just because you've got money and you've got status that

00:17:37.280 in itself is not enough you've got to have levels to it and the levels to it is you don't let any

00:17:42.000 riffraff in your home i i agree with you on the point that you know i do think men should vet women yeah

00:17:48.400 and i do think men should have high standards yeah um where i disagree with you is i i think it's silly

00:17:54.000 to say that you a girl can't trick a guy i think even if he's alpha even if he's high value even if

00:18:00.640 he has this this and this like thank you i i think can you trick a good woman yeah what yeah

00:18:12.800 what i would say is if you have especially with these nba players most of their women have like 1.00

00:18:17.920 their bodies out on instagram and then this that and the other and this and then they

00:18:21.440 you know and then if you can't spot from that then you are not high value what about what about

00:18:28.080 like what about like tom brady's wife uh giselle do you think do you think she was a walking red flag 1.00

00:18:34.160 i just think um victoria's secret it depends what you think is again my values are a little bit

00:18:38.960 skewed because i'm muslim but the thing is if your woman sells her body and that's her primary source of 0.95

00:18:44.880 income she's going to have more liberal values and when you bring a woman with liberal values into your 1.00

00:18:50.320 home you have to expect liberal outcomes that's all so even tom brady you're dating a victoria

00:18:55.760 secret model who makes her money out of her body and there's nothing wrong with that but you've got 1.00

00:19:00.960 to recognize with that comes different types of values and so yeah do you think then he's not alpha

00:19:06.080 yeah you lose you yeah he's not so you think tom brady is not high value any man who allows promiscuity

00:19:14.720 and that kind of add to mother his children i don't believe is alpha because alpha men are so

00:19:19.920 protective they're so possessive they don't even risk the idea of coldry the idea of their woman

00:19:25.360 having potential this is if we're talking evolutionary psychology sense the alpha man in

00:19:29.680 the pack is my woman can never go with another man because i'm not wasting my money or my resources on

00:19:35.200 somebody else's kid now if you take that risk in any way shape or form you lose some of your alpha

00:19:39.760 but you've got you've got to remember babies happen as well do you know what i mean like you could it

00:19:44.560 could just be like one of your sightings a girl that you're banging and baby happens yeah i actually

00:19:50.320 think that um you're minimizing the fact that we live in a different society so women in the western 1.00

00:19:56.480 society have a different mindset than women elsewhere so what you're saying would work in so many other 0.83

00:20:01.600 places in the world but it wouldn't work in the west yeah maybe because i'm from pakistan in my culture

00:20:06.240 if you even have one body count you're right off you're just a write-off and it's that and any man 0.99

00:20:10.640 that does go with you he's unseen in the lower way so maybe my mentality is obviously skewed from that

00:20:16.160 but i can still think it applies even when you're i mean i can get a perfect girl like she could be a

00:20:21.200 virgin yeah and she could still turn like she could still wish she could still turn 28 she could still

00:20:27.280 turn 28 29 and and say oh you know what the lap the last 10 years i've been missing out and leave him

00:20:32.800 but chances are less but you're you're right the chances are less if you're you're you're right

00:20:37.600 the chances are less but then does that make that guy not alpha that doesn't make sense the thing is

00:20:42.080 he did his it safely took a 21 year old who then decided at 28 to become you know whatever she wants

00:20:47.440 he did his vetting by choosing selected when he chose her he chose right but if you're choosing a girl

00:20:52.640 at 22 who's been you know doing the most and then wanting her to become a wife you lose your alpha

00:20:58.720 because part of your alpha is foresight you can spot what's going to be the good mother of your

00:21:02.800 child if you don't have that foresight you lose your alpha yeah i just i just think you're you're

00:21:06.480 minimizing men's experiences by by making it that gent like that broad how come when it came to the 0.96

00:21:12.000 women because because women are because women are born with value men must create it yeah and so 0.70

00:21:18.160 like a woman loses her value when she dates a bad boy right but a man doesn't lose his alpha just

00:21:23.360 because he picked the wrong girl i think for me if i'm dating a guy and i see that his ex was

00:21:28.960 you know maybe had a really promiscuous past i can't with him because you've got standards that

00:21:35.280 aren't my level because you'll go for anyone then and i lose but i think in brady's case like yeah

00:21:40.960 there's a lot of girls that for me that won't date drake now yeah i wouldn't date a guy that's been

00:21:47.040 like you know i've been with a certain girl because i'm just like that's your level because that's your

00:21:52.080 level you wouldn't you wouldn't date drake uh i don't know if drake would rate me that's not right

00:21:57.200 see and and and that was all i needed to know that was all i needed to know no no no no no

00:22:02.560 you just explained no but it's okay you know what it's okay because you like the thing about us here

00:22:12.640 is dating drake no okay i don't think any woman it depends what kind of woman she is but personally if

00:22:18.400 you're a woman that's looking for a long-term relationship there's no point dating drake 1.00

00:22:21.520 so so no but that's not you're you saying i wouldn't date him you're saying i wouldn't date

00:22:25.760 him because he's not looking for something serious because it makes no sense to you it would just be

00:22:29.920 a body count long long term that's more important that's what i'm saying you're not saying i wouldn't

00:22:36.320 date him you're saying i wouldn't date him because he wouldn't take me long term i wouldn't date anyone

00:22:40.480 where i can't see the that person settling down and creating a life with me why would i date you but the 0.94

00:22:46.160 reason why drake is probably a bad boy is because he's going to tell you that he's going to be there for the

00:22:50.320 long term and you're going to believe it but even drake's baby mama was a porn star and stuff to 0.99

00:22:55.040 me that makes him lose value no but you still would date him so he didn't lose too much value

00:22:59.520 no and that's the thing like like yeah but this is why like like i'm just this is what i i used to

00:23:06.640 think a lot like you yeah but this is why like a lot of times men will say don't take dating advice

00:23:10.960 from women because we don't even know what we want but you do you think a man who's got a past of women 0.88

00:23:16.320 that are all like promiscuous or whatever it is say if you go out and they're a certain way all of

00:23:22.000 his exes does that not put you off him a bit no but you moved the goalpost was talking about one

00:23:26.400 relationship and now you're talking about anyone that's got a past on making bad choices is a bad

00:23:30.800 choice men or women right so if a man or if all these exes are strippers or you know i mean if they 1.00

00:23:38.000 all cheat on yeah escorts then you're just kind of looking at the type of guy if all if all the guys say tom

00:23:42.880 brady isn't yeah like what do you know why she left him you know why she left him she left him

00:23:48.000 because he said he wanted to go back and get another ring that's why she left him and she wanted him 1.00

00:23:52.400 to to retire and now to be at home but you have to understand you've gone your job as a woman is

00:23:57.200 you're picked one one of the sorry hold a second you picked one of the top like percent of athletes

00:24:02.720 like that you're not going to get another tom brady's not having a lebron james and then he said you

00:24:06.800 know what i'm not ready to go yet i still got some more fighting me so you said you know what i wanted to

00:24:11.600 retire so i want to now divorce you that's a selfish thing because your job as a wife is supposed to 1.00

00:24:16.640 support him he his career isn't finished you might have thought he was finished but he isn't finished

00:24:20.960 he's still got more to give so you divorce him because you say that you know what this is not

00:24:25.120 what we agreed and i want to be able to start to live my life that's a selfish you know what soon

00:24:30.240 as she dated leonardo de capo you should have known anyway man she's alpha widow yeah she's alpha 0.98

00:24:37.440 widow man what do you think about men who take pictures of their women that are making only fans

00:24:41.840 and they're the ones filming it for her to post yeah that's wild behavior i'm asking you what you 1.00

00:24:45.840 think oh okay i'm not saying it's relevant i'm asking what you think about does it reduce his

00:24:50.480 masculinity well of course right having a promiscuous woman does what reduces your 1.00

00:24:55.760 masculinity so have you equipped wait you've equated to just picking a woman that you might break up

00:24:59.680 with to having her doing only fans and taking pictures of a booty just generally having a 0.99

00:25:04.240 association with the point the point is you keep moving the yeah i'm confused but also i don't

00:25:10.800 i don't think he reduces his masculinity because i think a man who posts his who posts pictures of

00:25:15.840 his woman online is a pimp so there are pimps that's yeah is andrew tate not masculine that's where

00:25:23.120 he is i don't think you'd marry a woman that would be posting or having an only fans and stuff

00:25:27.440 and if he did it still to me it would reduce your masculinity part of masculinity isn't just money

00:25:32.320 and appearance it's also protectiveness of your women that's an interesting that the um that pimps

00:25:39.040 are very masculine i'll tell you why i'll tell you why i'll explain to you why because the truth is

00:25:43.360 really and truly the most successful pimps are a different archetype of man so most times a pimp

00:25:48.480 has full control over that woman so that's a masculine trait in in some ways which is now labeled

00:25:53.920 toxic masculinity right yeah but that's like the extreme of masculinity but like you're looking at it

00:25:59.680 from like men can lose their alpha absolutely but that's but that's in a different like

00:26:05.440 like women are you're looking at it from a woman's point of view because women have value and they 0.86

00:26:09.360 lose it if if if a man is in the top two percent of men one percent of men i i don't think he can

00:26:15.280 lose some loses i don't think drake masses wait let me finish i don't think drake loses his alpha

00:26:20.720 because he's a lot of hoes and i think you might you maybe in your culture you personally but i don't 0.99

00:26:26.960 think most girls are going to have any issue dating drake because he had a baby with a corn star no 1.00

00:26:33.040 but with evolutionary psychology which is defines the whole of the time part of masculinity is

00:26:39.120 providing and protecting protecting means protecting her from other men that's what protecting means in 0.92

00:26:45.200 masculine terms and when you have a promiscuous woman that means you either she's promiscuous before 0.99

00:26:50.560 or after you whatever it is that protection element isn't there enough and that's what i mean by that

00:26:55.760 because if you cannot be a masculine man without that protective quality you can't a man that

00:27:01.600 doesn't protect women is not masculine now part of that protection is making sure no other man can 0.99

00:27:06.640 access that woman because that's my womb that's my baby that's my oven now if you don't have if you 1.00

00:27:12.480 don't exercise with that mentality you lose your masculinity it's how human nature is defined i think

00:27:19.280 your view is kind of skewered due to your like cultural oh just i was thinking we live in the uk

00:27:23.840 issues biologically let's let's take my religion out of it if we're talking about men living in

00:27:31.120 prehistoric evolutionary time let's take even before that protecting all the hoes yeah let's take even 1.00

00:27:38.720 let's say for example we live in a jungle society and you need to make sure that you're getting 1.00

00:27:43.120 resources for your kids and only your kids if you've got a woman that's doing the most you could be 0.98

00:27:47.120 feeding kids that aren't yours so you won't survive your survival is reduced yeah but they're 0.99

00:27:52.240 they're biologically predispositioned to spread their seed to everybody but not to look after

00:27:57.360 everybody else's kid they don't want to look after any kid yeah yeah so that's why you don't choose a

00:28:01.840 promiscuous woman i don't think they should choose a promiscuous woman what i'm arguing with you as you 1.00

00:28:06.400 say because someone chooses the wrong woman they're not alpha yeah absolutely absolutely like you lose

00:28:14.080 like but again like again babies happen right yeah so it doesn't mean you you lose your your alpha

00:28:19.600 male status because you've breeded up the wrong girl look pearl if you have if a girl if a woman has

00:28:25.600 the baby by the wrong guy she's a feminine woman she's still a feminine woman so if it doesn't 1.00

00:28:29.760 if you don't lose your alpha why do men feel a way if their woman is on only fans or is on instagram okay

00:28:37.120 okay if it doesn't affect your alpha why do you not care why do you care all right all right just wrong

00:28:41.760 i compare only fans to prostitution right new age prostitution so if you do only fans you're 0.91

00:28:46.160 a prostitute to me i don't i don't mince my words if you sell your feet pics to me that's prostitution 0.99

00:28:51.280 um and the men that own only fans are the biggest pimps in the world and they they've got women thinking 0.96

00:28:56.800 that they're actually in control of something do you realize how like and this is that no this is

00:29:01.200 actually the the mental behind it pearl yeah because they cancelled only fans and women got mad

00:29:08.000 they actually went on the whole thing and spoke about oh yeah you know um this is not equality

00:29:13.440 um and you know i mean women have the rights and you you campaign for the right to sell pictures it's 1.00

00:29:19.040 such a the concept behind it right whenever you look in the name is something that women have built 1.00

00:29:25.280 yeah in the world right yeah which doesn't base it's not based upon sex or sexuality what business

00:29:32.880 has been built what do you mean what business isn't name me a business a company that a woman has built 1.00

00:29:41.920 in the world that's contributed to society that was not made based about sex and beauty beautification

00:29:47.280 or sexuality women don't have much enterprises no no no no no no beyond that no the women have lots 1.00

00:29:55.040 of the richest women on the planet got it through divorce there you go but the reason you can't 1.00

00:30:00.400 think about it because everything that women makes is based upon sexuality and selling it towards men 0.99

00:30:04.720 women haven't built anything you know i'm trying to say to you like so yeah i'll just i i was only 1.00

00:30:08.960 thinking about it because i was just like well i was just thinking of when i think of alpha i think of the

00:30:12.720 guys that women want to bang that's that's what i think of but i'm thinking like do women still 1.00

00:30:19.520 want to bang the guy with a bunch of kids from all these different hoes yeah yeah you're limiting it 1.00

00:30:27.040 to dating the real world in the real world and dating yeah of course you can still bang a guy who's

00:30:32.640 been with lots of hoes you can bang a future but what i'm saying giving a man the highest honor you can 0.99

00:30:38.160 which is a child yeah they still sign up but what are the levels of the women that sign up to a man 1.00

00:30:43.840 like future siara was supposed to be a quality woman they're all all bbl siara but she left 1.00

00:30:50.880 she left yeah she left asap and replaced it with what kind of man no but she had women don't stick 1.00

00:30:57.440 around no but she had a baby when she when she had a baby with future he had how many baby moms already so 0.94

00:31:01.920 this is what i'm trying to say she didn't care the fact he had like six and that's a mating strategy 1.00

00:31:05.840 she had a baby with an alpha yeah that's that's how it like she wait wait okay that's because 1.00

00:31:11.600 it was a mating strategy it's like she got the the kid with the alpha and then got the beta to take 1.00

00:31:17.360 care of her later that's that's what she did but i would honestly just say that it's um great for

00:31:24.400 dating to have this mentality we're in a we're in a post-marriage society yeah marriage doesn't make

00:31:29.200 sense for men today i understand that but the reality is is that you're defining success and value

00:31:35.680 on how many people want to have sex with you and really it's how many people want to invest with

00:31:39.440 you if you're a woman and how many women submit to you if you're a man and the two value is not 0.95

00:31:44.480 defined by how many people want to have sex with you because a prostitute can have meet people having 0.98

00:31:48.720 sex with them i could put on uh three four stone and i'll still find and and men if they're just 1.00

00:31:53.920 funny but the value is defined by men a valuable man is by how many women of value will submit to him 0.97

00:32:00.480 and women what is a valuable woman for women the value is defined by how many men invest in them

00:32:05.440 and a valuable woman number one quality a valuable woman is loyalty because if she's not loyal to you

00:32:11.280 you're investing in a woman that is actually belongs to everybody so any man who can have sex with 0.98

00:32:17.920 millions of women but chooses promiscuous women all the time he loses his value your value comes from 0.88

00:32:23.760 the women that submit to you no you're telling me guys stop it you're telling me gongas you're 0.98

00:32:28.560 telling me gongas khan yeah was not valuable because he was everybody no but the women are they 1.00

00:32:34.000 promiscuous he was no they were loyal to him he could everybody i'm not i'm not debating his ability

00:32:42.160 to screw but his women should be loyal to him i'm curious from the men let's talk to the men because 0.75

00:32:46.400 men really pick who's high value it's not the women what what makes a guy high value to you 0.97

00:32:51.360 would you stop high value man

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JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023

He Couldn't Face This REALITY From Women

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