JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023


He Gets ROASTED by The Panel for Supporting Feminism

Topics
feminism trad wife movement traditional marriage values
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl Davis Grace Blakely Emily Ratajkowski Pete Williams Britney Taylor Swift Selena Gomez Nicki Minaj Cardi B Shorty Emily Razakowski Ebony Williams Mia Khalifa Matthew Beyoncé Morgan Jay-Z Chad
Rude Simp FRIES Everybody’s Brain Cells She Gets FINISHED for Lying To Women That Men Loves Fat-Chicks

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Length

47 minutes

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216.88

Word count

10,307

Sentence count

1,256

Harmful content

Misogyny

187

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Toxicity

91

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Hate speech

116

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In this episode, the guys talk about how to pick the right woman for your significant other and how to choose the right business partner. They also talk about women who are submissive, progressive, and successful in their own right.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Jay-Z, her husband being one of them.
00:00:02.080 Hold on, hold on. Matthew knows.
00:00:03.800 Hold on. Yeah, exactly. That's what I'm saying.
00:00:05.340 Don't discredit Beyoncé. She put a lot of work in on that. 0.87
00:00:07.760 She's a talented artist.
00:00:10.160 She's a talented performer.
00:00:11.460 Just like Britney. 1.00
00:00:12.520 No, don't compare. Britney's very talented, 1.00
00:00:15.680 but there's a lot of men around her 0.99
00:00:18.380 that push her career, but Britney's very talented. 1.00
00:00:20.400 But Beyoncé's on a whole other level.
00:00:22.100 But my point is that if you want
00:00:24.620 a woman to help you build... 1.00
00:00:26.500 Not help. No, but what I'm saying,
00:00:28.220 but the words you said, I'm just saying,
00:00:29.880 if you want a woman to build this empire with, 0.99
00:00:32.980 you don't want a business partner.
00:00:34.660 You want a woman that will literally support you
00:00:37.060 in whatever decisions you choose to make,
00:00:38.760 not helping you make decisions.
00:00:40.500 No, no, no, no, no. Just to clarify, just to clarify,
00:00:43.340 my woman has her own thing that she got going on. 1.00
00:00:46.200 I have my own thing that I have going on.
00:00:48.460 And we compromise and meet in the middle.
00:00:50.080 I'm going to make real...
00:00:50.800 What happens to the family? What happens to the kids
00:00:52.540 if she has her own thing going on?
00:00:54.180 What do you mean?
00:00:54.760 What happens to your family? What happens to your home?
00:00:56.640 What happens to your kids?
00:00:57.360 We create... First of all, it's me and her first.
00:00:59.860 And then we create that into the future.
00:01:01.740 I have to be honest.
00:01:04.320 So you would take out time from your own career
00:01:07.440 to help her out at home?
00:01:08.480 The more successful you get,
00:01:09.600 the easier it is for you to delegate.
00:01:10.940 Oh, so now you've got a nanny. 0.99
00:01:12.940 No, I'm talking about with the business.
00:01:14.740 I'm talking about with the business.
00:01:15.840 Basically, what I'm trying to say to you is...
00:01:17.120 I have to be honest.
00:01:18.260 This doesn't sound like real.
00:01:20.020 For real? Are you serious?
00:01:21.060 Sounds like what girls say to me. 1.00
00:01:21.960 So hold on. Hold on. So you're telling me...
00:01:23.500 Hold on. You're telling me...
00:01:24.360 Right now, you're telling me that you've never met women
00:01:27.020 who actually do business,
00:01:29.740 are submissive, are progressive,
00:01:32.080 and actually...
00:01:33.180 I would say miracles happen,
00:01:34.860 but I wouldn't...
00:01:35.420 So you think I'm in a miracle?
00:01:36.240 Are you saying I'm in a miracle?
00:01:37.880 I would say most women, 0.99
00:01:40.400 the women that I have met,
00:01:42.060 that I would...
00:01:43.400 like, because maybe 10 women off the top of my head, 1.00
00:01:46.540 that I'm like, okay.
00:01:47.460 Because usually, like,
00:01:48.780 if you ask chicks about how they make money, 1.00
00:01:51.100 it's like you ask them like two or three questions,
00:01:54.240 it's like...
00:01:54.560 You figure out.
00:01:55.200 It's like nothing.
00:01:56.620 And so the women that I've met
00:01:58.480 that I would actually believe,
00:02:00.060 I would say the majority of women 1.00
00:02:01.940 that are successful are pretty masculine.
00:02:04.600 I would say the majority
00:02:05.840 probably aren't super submissive.
00:02:08.280 I would say, again,
00:02:09.080 you know, miracles happen.
00:02:10.240 I know a couple,
00:02:11.120 but, you know,
00:02:12.080 on a balance of probabilities,
00:02:13.780 I just wouldn't really...
00:02:15.280 Well, one of the things...
00:02:15.840 Hold on.
00:02:16.120 Before that...
00:02:16.680 One of the things I learned
00:02:17.500 about women in general
00:02:18.420 is that there's a hierarchy of women. 1.00
00:02:20.380 Okay.
00:02:21.000 So women would see... 0.97
00:02:22.240 You could show a girl,
00:02:23.520 different girls, 0.70
00:02:24.240 different looks of particular girls.
00:02:25.980 Some girls would say she's cute, 1.00
00:02:27.060 and then some girls would say, 1.00
00:02:27.660 wow, I like her style,
00:02:28.420 I like her aesthetic,
00:02:29.000 I like the way she moves.
00:02:30.360 Cool.
00:02:30.940 If you look for the type of girls 1.00
00:02:32.180 that are approved by certain women, 0.91
00:02:35.840 then that's the type of girl 1.00
00:02:37.400 you should be going for.
00:02:38.340 And I'm not talking about sexual.
00:02:40.060 Approved by who?
00:02:40.960 Hold on.
00:02:41.360 You understand what I'm saying?
00:02:41.980 Approved by who?
00:02:42.740 No, no, no.
00:02:43.460 Listen, there's a hierarchy.
00:02:44.860 There's a hierarchy.
00:02:45.580 Let me give you some of the lies.
00:02:46.780 I'm going to need some women on this. 1.00
00:02:48.140 I'm going to need some women on this. 1.00
00:02:49.100 Hold on.
00:02:49.340 You have to understand.
00:02:50.680 Actually, I want to...
00:02:51.340 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:02:52.080 Hold on.
00:02:53.060 Okay.
00:02:53.500 So let me get this straight.
00:02:55.300 You want the women 0.62
00:02:56.320 that are approved
00:02:57.080 by other women on the hire.
00:02:58.640 There's a...
00:02:59.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:59.780 I just need a yes or no, please.
00:03:01.100 I can't give you...
00:03:01.760 I can't give you...
00:03:02.240 That's not my statement.
00:03:03.300 All right, go ahead.
00:03:03.740 Go ahead.
00:03:04.040 Just please make this simple.
00:03:05.620 Don't go on a tangent, please.
00:03:06.780 You're talking against a woman.
00:03:08.100 Hold on.
00:03:09.160 Okay.
00:03:09.740 On this hierarchy,
00:03:10.940 it's women that are approved 1.00
00:03:12.140 by other women on the hierarchy.
00:03:13.780 Yes or no?
00:03:14.940 No.
00:03:15.580 Okay.
00:03:16.020 Okay.
00:03:16.500 Okay.
00:03:16.860 So then what is it?
00:03:18.240 Yeah.
00:03:18.600 All right.
00:03:19.280 So from what I've learned,
00:03:21.600 and let's just give a little bit
00:03:23.240 of background about me.
00:03:24.240 I've worked in the clubs.
00:03:25.520 I was acrobatic dancer.
00:03:26.560 I was artist director
00:03:27.240 for a couple of different...
00:03:28.040 So I've been around the block,
00:03:29.400 all right,
00:03:29.780 from multiple different ways.
00:03:31.480 You can sit down
00:03:32.040 and find different types of women 0.97
00:03:33.200 who are visually beautiful,
00:03:34.620 the body,
00:03:35.180 all this type of stuff,
00:03:36.080 and women will look at her 1.00
00:03:37.040 and be like,
00:03:37.860 she's showing her body 0.73
00:03:38.960 up on social media.
00:03:40.240 But then you'll find
00:03:41.180 another woman 0.89
00:03:41.760 who doesn't show her body 0.80
00:03:42.640 on social media,
00:03:43.420 who has a perfect type
00:03:44.460 of aesthetic,
00:03:45.100 who literally is
00:03:45.920 well put together.
00:03:49.140 And women will say, 1.00
00:03:50.100 I like this woman.
00:03:50.800 I respect her.
00:03:51.460 I want to follow her.
00:03:52.120 I want to see what she's doing.
00:03:53.400 But that's the difference.
00:03:54.180 Okay, wait, wait.
00:03:54.740 I'm so confused right now.
00:03:55.980 Okay, wait, wait.
00:03:56.800 I don't know.
00:03:57.420 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:03:58.560 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:03:59.760 You're females. 1.00
00:04:00.540 You understand what I'm talking about.
00:04:02.020 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:02.540 Seriously.
00:04:03.120 Wait, wait, wait.
00:04:03.340 Okay, wait, wait.
00:04:04.420 Hold on.
00:04:05.260 Guys, guys.
00:04:06.380 If we're going to go by
00:04:07.220 the women approved 0.87
00:04:08.400 by other women,
00:04:09.540 then you have
00:04:10.280 the most followed women
00:04:11.560 are Taylor Swift,
00:04:13.120 Selena Gomez,
00:04:14.400 Cardi B,
00:04:15.180 Nicki Minaj.
00:04:15.860 No, we're not talking about that.
00:04:16.760 We're not talking about that approval.
00:04:17.800 Oh, God.
00:04:18.300 That's reaching engagement.
00:04:19.600 Yeah, Pearl.
00:04:20.160 That's reaching engagement.
00:04:21.360 Wait, let me.
00:04:21.920 That's reaching engagement.
00:04:23.240 Wait, wait.
00:04:24.340 Wait, wait.
00:04:24.820 So you're not understanding this?
00:04:25.620 Let me give you some advice.
00:04:27.880 Wait, wait, hold on.
00:04:28.720 Wait, wait, hold on.
00:04:29.080 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:04:30.440 Do you see how combative
00:04:31.620 the girl in the black is
00:04:33.180 and hostile?
00:04:34.200 And then look at the guy.
00:04:35.080 Wait, I'm going to do that?
00:04:36.100 Nah, she's not combative. 1.00
00:04:37.180 Nah, she's not combative, man. 0.99
00:04:38.180 If you see how...
00:04:39.040 She's not hostile.
00:04:39.840 Hold on.
00:04:40.560 Hold on.
00:04:41.240 She's expressing it.
00:04:41.980 Okay, okay, okay, everyone.
00:04:43.600 10 seconds.
00:04:44.060 Guys, guys, guys, stop.
00:04:45.040 You know what the word hostile means?
00:04:46.300 Hold on.
00:04:46.720 China, stop. 0.97
00:04:47.300 If you all see how combative...
00:04:48.880 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:49.660 Wait, wait, guys.
00:04:50.700 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:51.920 China, stop. 0.97
00:04:52.680 China, stop. 0.97
00:04:53.360 Go ahead, and then you can go.
00:04:55.100 Yeah, let's have some
00:04:55.680 floor respect for each other, guys.
00:04:57.060 You know, if you see how combative
00:04:59.080 and hostile the girl in the black is, 0.99
00:05:01.820 Now, if you look at the gay guy 1.00
00:05:04.580 on that side, 0.98
00:05:05.520 who's sitting crisscross applesauce,
00:05:10.520 he's more feminine than her.
00:05:13.140 Hey, what's...
00:05:13.760 Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
00:05:14.520 Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 0.99
00:05:16.880 Not gay. 1.00
00:05:17.320 Please, wait, please, please, wait, China. 1.00
00:05:19.760 China, China, stop.
00:05:21.020 Okay, go ahead.
00:05:22.580 Go ahead.
00:05:22.940 Yeah, so what I was saying is
00:05:25.240 exactly what you just explained
00:05:26.920 in regards to the women on Instagram
00:05:28.960 and the Prim and Proper,
00:05:30.400 she literally just named
00:05:32.060 two sets of women. 0.99
00:05:33.580 Selena Gomez, Taylor Swift,
00:05:34.740 that's the Prim and Proper one.
00:05:36.460 Cardi B and Nicki Minaj.
00:05:37.660 Those are entertainers.
00:05:38.760 Those are entertainers.
00:05:39.320 Oh, my gosh, they're still women. 1.00
00:05:41.720 They are still women. 0.62
00:05:42.940 It doesn't matter.
00:05:43.780 It doesn't matter what they do for a living.
00:05:45.840 No, hold on.
00:05:46.480 Stop.
00:05:47.000 It doesn't matter what they do for a living.
00:05:48.560 We're just speaking on a whole.
00:05:49.300 Either you're trying to understand
00:05:50.340 or you're not trying to understand.
00:05:51.580 There's a difference.
00:05:52.020 No, I have to wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:05:55.640 Okay, okay, thank you.
00:05:56.740 Thank you.
00:05:57.400 You're just making no sense.
00:05:58.900 But we're just going to move.
00:05:59.580 Either you're trying to move.
00:06:00.540 Okay, wait, wait, let me speak
00:06:01.760 because I'm trying to speak to you, bro,
00:06:02.800 because I've got some years on you, bro.
00:06:04.220 And you know what you're doing?
00:06:05.120 You're doing what women do 1.00
00:06:06.000 when they try to build a better,
00:06:07.460 like an invisible man.
00:06:10.040 Like, they'll be like,
00:06:10.480 I want a man that's emotionally ready for me.
00:06:12.380 I want a man that's six foot. 0.92
00:06:13.540 I want a man to be six figures. 0.99
00:06:14.860 Then I want a man to be a killer.
00:06:16.260 Then I want a man to also write poetry. 0.71
00:06:18.200 Then I want a man to sing.
00:06:19.360 Then I want a man to write. 0.86
00:06:20.460 Like, what you're doing is...
00:06:21.580 So what do you look for in a woman? 1.00
00:06:22.600 No, because...
00:06:23.140 What do you look for in a woman? 1.00
00:06:23.920 No, no, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:24.460 It's not...
00:06:24.780 No, it's not...
00:06:25.260 I'm curious.
00:06:25.780 I want to know.
00:06:26.100 Wait, wait, listen.
00:06:26.480 You got ears on me.
00:06:27.160 Wait, wait, wait, listen.
00:06:27.940 Educate me.
00:06:28.840 Baby, you've got a lot.
00:06:29.540 You've got a lot to live.
00:06:30.500 Hold on, let's talk.
00:06:31.760 Yo, Shorty, chill, chill.
00:06:32.760 Life hasn't smacked you in the face, yeah.
00:06:34.020 You've got a lot to live.
00:06:34.880 Yo, Shorty, chill, chill.
00:06:36.300 How can I educate you if you're not listening?
00:06:37.820 Yeah, I'm ready.
00:06:38.380 So what I'm trying to say to you is, yeah, your job is not to build with a woman like 1.00
00:06:42.180 that, bro.
00:06:42.640 If you want to do that, you need to pick her in your teens. 1.00
00:06:45.660 You're now in your 30s now.
00:06:46.780 You're supposed to have it built.
00:06:48.080 You're not supposed to be talking about, I'm supposed to get a woman. 1.00
00:06:50.060 A woman at this point is not supposed to hold your hand. 1.00
00:06:51.900 I know it feels like you want it to happen, because I want it to happen too.
00:06:56.520 But at this point in your life, you need to go, build, and then have something ready
00:07:00.000 for her to come, and she can add on to it.
00:07:01.940 You don't need to start saying, you know what, you need to start going.
00:07:04.080 Because it's sounding like 50-50, it's sounding like you want to bring a woman inside to help
00:07:08.120 build your dream, but you're not supposed to do that.
00:07:09.740 Wait, hold on.
00:07:10.400 The man is supposed to lead.
00:07:11.900 So when she finds you, you're supposed to lead in her.
00:07:14.180 You're talking about, I want a woman to build with and build an empire. 1.00
00:07:17.000 All she needs to do is be a submissive, good wife, and able to bear you children. 1.00
00:07:20.400 And that's it.
00:07:20.980 And you need to do the rest, my guy.
00:07:22.220 There we go.
00:07:22.720 Can I clap?
00:07:23.700 Can I clap?
00:07:24.300 You're cool, you can.
00:07:24.940 Thanks.
00:07:25.320 Because that was very on point.
00:07:27.760 Can I respond?
00:07:28.380 Of course.
00:07:29.040 I respect that.
00:07:30.240 I respect that point of view, you know?
00:07:31.660 But right now, we're living in 2023 with women a lot more capable than they once were. 1.00
00:07:35.800 Oh, don't do that, bro.
00:07:37.040 Because you're going to feed the feminism with this, bro. 1.00
00:07:39.620 Basically, you're saying, this is what the feminists live off. 1.00
00:07:42.360 We are capable.
00:07:43.060 We don't need no men. 0.99
00:07:43.740 So you want a masculine woman? 1.00
00:07:46.500 Digilence and masculine is two different things.
00:07:48.000 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:07:49.100 I'll be honest with you.
00:07:49.940 What you're asking for.
00:07:50.980 Hold on.
00:07:51.300 I can't come back to people at the same time.
00:07:52.840 Give me one person.
00:07:53.640 I'll be honest with you.
00:07:54.200 Can I, can I, can I, can I.
00:07:55.240 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:07:56.480 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:07:57.720 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:57.960 Let me say something.
00:07:58.340 Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:00.300 Oh, my gosh.
00:08:00.920 Okay.
00:08:01.680 It's like the men are fighting with this one.
00:08:04.120 No, he's making a good point.
00:08:05.040 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:06.580 Because I waited for a while.
00:08:07.480 Wait, wait, China. 0.97
00:08:08.040 Wait, wait, okay.
00:08:09.180 I'm going to let you go.
00:08:10.700 And then you can go.
00:08:11.680 And then you can go.
00:08:12.420 All right.
00:08:12.760 All I'm trying to say, right, yeah, you're, you're doing your thing.
00:08:15.980 You're, you're, you're in your bag now.
00:08:17.200 You're building, right?
00:08:18.240 All you really need for a woman is to respect you and to see your vision, right? 0.99
00:08:22.140 Then she'll come and support your vision.
00:08:23.580 But what you don't need to do is start making a woman feel like she needs to build your vision.
00:08:27.120 And that's what I'm trying to say.
00:08:28.300 So the language you were using was looking like, you know what?
00:08:30.360 I want a woman to come and I want to help me. 0.98
00:08:32.360 And if she doesn't see my, all she really has to do is just be with you and believe in you.
00:08:36.500 That's enough.
00:08:37.200 And you're, that's enough.
00:08:37.960 You're 100% right.
00:08:39.180 And, and I know it's 2023.
00:08:40.840 Hold on.
00:08:41.080 And I know women. 1.00
00:08:41.700 I don't disagree with you.
00:08:42.680 I agree with you.
00:08:43.260 Women are independent, get in their bag. 1.00
00:08:44.140 But sometimes us as men, we need to allow a woman to get into a feminine and be like, you know what? 0.95
00:08:48.780 Actually, I'm going to trust you.
00:08:49.920 And how can we lead as men?
00:08:52.120 If we keep saying one half, you know what? 0.77
00:08:53.960 I want a woman to cook. 1.00
00:08:54.720 I want a woman to do this submit and then the other half were like, you know, I wanted 1.00
00:08:57.160 to come and pay the bills and come invest in my business, bro.
00:08:59.620 Hold on.
00:09:00.160 I agree with you.
00:09:00.880 1000%.
00:09:01.280 It's hustling backwards.
00:09:02.160 Hold on.
00:09:02.520 I agree with you 1000%.
00:09:03.720 But the majority of the women I engage with, they're already, well, the majority of the 1.00
00:09:08.200 women I used to engage with, they're already doing their own thing. 1.00
00:09:11.120 They're already moving and in motion.
00:09:12.880 I've been a four year relationship.
00:09:14.560 So that dynamic and that mentality is already instilled.
00:09:17.560 She has her thing.
00:09:18.480 I have my thing.
00:09:19.560 And that's what I want.
00:09:20.820 I don't want a girl that's just not going to do nothing. 1.00
00:09:23.140 You know, you know, it's interesting.
00:09:24.400 I kind of, I kind of see where you're both coming from.
00:09:26.460 Okay.
00:09:26.820 Because hear me out.
00:09:27.800 Hear me out. 1.00
00:09:28.300 One, I think this business partner, sorry, that's, that's stupid to me. 1.00
00:09:31.740 That's like the dumbest thing. 1.00
00:09:32.660 Women are a terrible business. 1.00
00:09:34.720 No offense.
00:09:35.420 But, but on the other hand, I do understand where he's coming from with like, guys don't
00:09:38.840 want a girl that's just doing nothing. 0.99
00:09:40.360 True.
00:09:40.720 You know, like I think in, and it doesn't have to necessarily be like a job, but you don't
00:09:44.860 want to ever date someone that's lazy, you know?
00:09:46.620 True.
00:09:46.920 True.
00:09:47.260 I think the worst thing in the world is to be dating a woman who's just sitting around on a phone 1.00
00:09:50.720 and just doing proper, but at the same time, at the same time, a girl that will do that.
00:09:54.420 China, China, you want that?
00:09:55.760 I'm going to be honest with you.
00:09:56.960 You don't want your girl to do nothing.
00:09:57.540 No, no, no, hold on a second.
00:09:58.320 Whenever we do this, this is like when women say like, oh, you know what, he's in the, 1.00
00:10:01.720 like, bro, none of us, never in my life have I ever linked a waste woman of a girl that
00:10:05.960 does nothing.
00:10:06.660 It's never in my life.
00:10:07.740 So it's sounding like it.
00:10:09.300 Come on, bro.
00:10:09.840 It sounded like that's your default.
00:10:10.980 I'm going to keep it real.
00:10:12.040 It sounded like it's your default.
00:10:13.460 No, no, I don't think so.
00:10:14.860 I don't think so.
00:10:15.640 My thing is this, yeah?
00:10:16.540 I mean, I think you just, I think, I think China's, I think China's good.
00:10:21.500 No, his point is correct.
00:10:22.580 Would you say he's got a good point about this?
00:10:24.380 I've dated boss, bro.
00:10:25.800 I spoke about boss, listen, listen, no, no, don't make me tell you about my baddies and
00:10:31.480 what they got, bro.
00:10:32.300 Don't, don't do this.
00:10:33.220 Like, like, here's the thing.
00:10:34.500 I've dated women that got everything. 1.00
00:10:35.900 They don't need nothing from me.
00:10:37.100 I've dated baby mamas that got everything. 1.00
00:10:38.780 All they want is a man because they got everything.
00:10:40.600 They're divorced.
00:10:41.100 They got their business.
00:10:41.740 There's a lot of women that are in their bag that are doing their thing, bro. 1.00
00:10:44.620 All I'm saying is when I meet these women, I don't say to them, you need to invest in
00:10:48.260 my business.
00:10:48.920 No, no, no, no.
00:10:49.640 That's not what I'm saying.
00:10:50.520 But don't imply that I'm saying that.
00:10:51.640 No, no, no.
00:10:51.880 Don't imply that I'm saying that. 1.00
00:10:52.620 She don't got to do nothing other than be a boss, bitch. 1.00
00:10:54.900 That's it. 1.00
00:10:55.320 Have your peas, have your stuff.
00:10:56.640 Yeah.
00:10:57.040 And then that's it.
00:10:57.740 Yeah, but that's not what I'm saying, though.
00:10:58.860 No, but it feels like.
00:10:59.800 No, it doesn't matter what it feels like.
00:11:01.080 I'm telling you that's not what I'm saying.
00:11:02.060 Okay, what are you saying?
00:11:02.600 Tell me.
00:11:02.840 What are you exactly saying?
00:11:03.620 Because it's kind of confusing.
00:11:04.360 Because based off what you just said, just to clarify, based off what you said is we're
00:11:06.980 on the same type of path. 0.99
00:11:08.620 Boss bitches, I don't want to say boss bitches, but women, women who are successful, yeah, 1.00
00:11:13.840 boss women, women who are successful, who have their own passion, their own thing that 1.00
00:11:16.520 they got, they're driven and digitally on their own job.
00:11:19.140 That's more, that's what more I'm interested in.
00:11:21.260 Those type of particular women. 1.00
00:11:22.320 But why would you not be?
00:11:23.720 I thought all men are. 0.95
00:11:25.640 You want to be with a woman, you want to be with a woman who's got stuff going on. 0.82
00:11:28.140 But in terms of, in terms of.
00:11:29.240 That's not what it sound like.
00:11:30.300 It sound like, it sound like you guys wanted a regular degular, chill in the house, wash 0.94
00:11:34.760 clean, don't do nothing.
00:11:35.920 And you come home and take a.
00:11:36.940 No one wants that.
00:11:38.640 In terms of marriage.
00:11:39.580 And even if I, and even if I do, and even if I do want a regular degular, just chill at
00:11:43.760 home, what is wrong with that?
00:11:45.020 Yeah, but that's, that's not what I want though.
00:11:46.420 Okay, look, I mean, I just, I have a question.
00:11:50.200 I have a question to the men.
00:11:51.220 So, um, I know a chick, these women are rare, but she was homeschooled. 1.00
00:11:55.860 Okay.
00:11:56.660 She didn't go to college.
00:11:57.720 She just works a part-time job.
00:12:00.300 And what she does is she's at home and she, she knows about, she has her own like recipe
00:12:05.760 book, makes like 20 different meals from scratch.
00:12:11.100 She works, she works with children.
00:12:13.660 So part-time job is like, I think she works as like a nanny or something. 0.99
00:12:17.400 Would you prefer that or a career woman? 1.00
00:12:20.520 I prefer that.
00:12:22.100 I think, but I think ultimately, I think ultimately.
00:12:24.540 But these are, but they're rare.
00:12:26.280 If you bring it back to this question about marriage, because what we're talking about
00:12:29.420 here is who would you, who would you choose as a life partner?
00:12:31.740 You're going to get legally contracted to.
00:12:33.700 For me personally, I think it's got to be somebody who's kind of got to just step out of the
00:12:37.460 way as far as the business stuff's concerned.
00:12:39.000 I don't think they should be involved.
00:12:40.160 I think they should give you the time and the space and the focus that you need to work
00:12:44.720 on your stuff.
00:12:45.620 Now, if she's doing her own thing, you know, in her own right, absolutely fine.
00:12:49.580 Because you're right.
00:12:50.320 I don't want to be with some girl who's just doing, you know, sod all and she's just looking 1.00
00:12:53.680 at things all day.
00:12:54.580 But I do think that the most important thing, and I personally, in my own life, I've found
00:12:58.780 this quite difficult to find, is a woman who will give me that time and give me that space 1.00
00:13:03.580 in order to do the stuff that I need to do in order to build myself.
00:13:06.900 Yeah, I completely respect that.
00:13:08.220 It works both ways.
00:13:09.240 I think the most important thing is no matter how much, how successful a woman is, no matter 1.00
00:13:15.380 how much of a boss woman she is, what is most important is that the moment you're getting
00:13:19.800 married to a woman, she needs to be able to, at that moment, put family before her career. 0.99
00:13:24.580 Yeah, because the fact that she's been able to be successful up to that point just shows
00:13:29.620 that, yes, she's hardworking, she has good values, but there's a problem when even in
00:13:35.060 marriage, she's still trying to pursue her career to the highest points, because then 0.99
00:13:39.400 that affects the children, that affects the good of the home.
00:13:42.780 And that's the point. 0.99
00:13:43.360 We're not saying we want women that are just lazy and don't do shit, but the point is she 1.00
00:13:47.400 needs to be able to understand her role in the family. 0.99
00:13:50.140 So I want to pull up a clip of me from Piers Morgan yesterday, because it kind of talks
00:13:56.460 about this.
00:13:58.720 I'm going to pull it up.
00:14:02.580 And then we'll do the tweet.
00:14:04.060 Pearl, actually, real quick, if I may, just before we start.
00:14:07.600 I see your shirt there, and I actually disagree that women shouldn't vote. 1.00
00:14:15.080 I met a bitch once. 1.00
00:14:16.980 Oh, my God. 1.00
00:14:17.840 Actually, sorry. 1.00
00:14:18.720 She has some nice tits. 1.00
00:14:20.160 I don't want to call her that. 1.00
00:14:22.580 I met a girl, a woman, and she actually wasn't that stupid. 0.98
00:14:28.020 So overall, I agree with your shirt. 0.98
00:14:34.200 Are you confused like I'm confused?
00:14:35.800 It's impossible to get Pearl left. 1.00
00:14:43.120 That shit is the hardest. 0.99
00:14:44.460 It takes me like 10 episodes, but finally. 1.00
00:14:47.020 Shit. 0.99
00:14:47.820 Okay, let's pull up the clip. 0.99
00:14:49.260 Let's pull it up.
00:14:50.400 That was hard.
00:14:55.660 Welcome back to Piers Morgan on Sensen.
00:14:57.480 What model, Emily Ratajkowski, one of my favorite dimwits, sparked controversy, 0.98
00:15:01.480 claiming that getting divorced before 30 is chic.
00:15:04.420 So it seems that a lot of ladies are getting divorced before they turn 30. 1.00
00:15:11.980 And as someone who got married at 26, has been separated for a little over a year, 32.
00:15:20.200 I don't think there's anything better.
00:15:22.140 If there is nothing better than being in your 30s, still being hot, maybe having a little bit of your own money,
00:15:29.080 figuring out what you want to do with your life, for all of those people who are stressed or feeling stressed about that,
00:15:35.460 about being divorced, like, it's good.
00:15:38.540 Congratulations.
00:15:39.020 It's like, congratulations. 1.00
00:15:42.800 God, she's ridiculous. 0.99
00:15:44.140 Well, divorce is certainly becoming more common. 0.99
00:15:46.500 Marriage itself is becoming a fierce frontier in the raging culture wars.
00:15:50.260 On one side, there are feminists rejecting a dating concept. 1.00
00:15:54.080 On the other, so-called trad wives who think it binds our societies together. 1.00
00:15:58.420 Well, trad wives spend their days dutifully cooking and cleaning while their husbands go to work. 1.00
00:16:03.180 Estee Williams, who's a 25-year-old trad wife, has amassed hundreds of thousands of followers 1.00
00:16:07.720 by showing off her trad wife life online.
00:16:10.840 She even gave up a job to be the perfect wife. 1.00
00:16:13.760 So is she and others like her saving society?
00:16:17.140 Or are they selling out the sisterhood?
00:16:19.220 Well, joining me now is traditional wife and influencer Estee Williams.
00:16:22.280 And in the studio, the socialist and author Grace Blakely and YouTuber Pearl Davis.
00:16:26.020 This might be the best line-up in the history of television for a debate of this nature.
00:16:32.120 So I'm very excited.
00:16:33.280 All right, Estee Williams, let's start with you as the trad wife. 1.00
00:16:36.500 Sell it to me.
00:16:37.500 Why do you think we should all go back to having trad wives in marriages? 1.00
00:16:45.240 Well, I believe that...
00:16:47.960 Well, I actually don't believe that everyone should be a traditional wife. 0.64
00:16:51.760 I think that it is a choice.
00:16:53.240 And I think it's a lovely choice if a woman wants to simply be a wife and a mother 1.00
00:16:58.540 and that's enough for her.
00:17:00.040 And it's a simple way of living with traditional gender roles. 1.00
00:17:06.460 It's balanced.
00:17:08.020 And we don't have to do it all as women. 0.97
00:17:10.220 I think we've proven that it's possible, but at what cost, right?
00:17:16.520 Right.
00:17:16.920 And in terms of what being a trad wife involves,
00:17:21.280 what do you think it means to be a trad wife? 0.70
00:17:23.720 Well, to adhere to traditional gender roles.
00:17:28.060 So what I mean by that is the husband, he is the provider of the home.
00:17:33.400 He goes out, he works, and he knows how to protect his family if need be.
00:17:39.420 And the wife, she's the homemaker. 1.00
00:17:41.860 She does the cooking.
00:17:42.720 She does the cleaning.
00:17:44.340 And she takes care of the home and children, if there are any.
00:17:47.980 And herself, of course.
00:17:50.620 So that's...
00:17:51.820 It's adhering to traditional gender roles. 1.00
00:17:53.820 OK.
00:17:54.460 Grace, I'm sure you thoroughly agree with this, eh?
00:17:57.000 Look, I mean, what Asu's just said about the fact that women should be able to choose,
00:18:00.900 obviously, I completely agree.
00:18:02.000 And, you know, men should be able to choose as well.
00:18:03.400 I think the feminist critique of traditional gender roles and gender ideology
00:18:07.180 isn't that some people like to stay at home and others don't.
00:18:10.200 It's that you shouldn't be bound to pursue a certain life
00:18:13.140 based on the sex that you were born into at birth.
00:18:15.580 The one issue I do have is I know, actually, someone, a friend of mine
00:18:19.540 whose sister got involved in the trad wife movement in the U.S., basically. 1.00
00:18:22.980 And she was quite young.
00:18:23.840 She got married to someone who was like,
00:18:25.260 this is what we're doing.
00:18:26.180 You're going to be a trad wife. 1.00
00:18:27.520 And basically came to regret it.
00:18:29.300 She felt like she'd been controlled.
00:18:30.600 Like, her life became very small and she couldn't get out.
00:18:33.540 She couldn't escape because, you know, she'd lost all her friends
00:18:36.000 and this has become basically her entire life.
00:18:38.680 And it concerns me that sometimes we see this narrative on social media
00:18:42.480 that women have to be a certain way in order to get a husband. 1.00
00:18:46.560 So you have to be this, like, particular model of femininity 1.00
00:18:49.220 for people to love you.
00:18:50.520 And I think that's really sad because I don't think anyone should have to
00:18:52.840 shave off any parts of themselves to be loved or to, you know,
00:18:56.320 find a husband or, you know, anything like that.
00:18:58.160 All right, Pearl, what do you think?
00:19:01.260 I think it's a good that we're seeing a return to traditionalism.
00:19:05.480 Yeah, I think it's a good thing.
00:19:07.580 How?
00:19:08.860 That's it.
00:19:10.020 There we go.
00:19:10.920 No, no.
00:19:11.540 Wait, wait.
00:19:12.240 I keep going, wait.
00:19:13.340 How's it gone for you?
00:19:14.160 And when you look at it and see how women have progressed, 0.83
00:19:18.060 do you think it's been largely a force for good?
00:19:20.760 Or do you think, as the trad wives did it, 0.98
00:19:23.280 perhaps we've lost that sense of gender rules, 0.97
00:19:26.580 for want of a better phrase, which actually worked very well for many people?
00:19:29.100 I mean, we've seen families disappear.
00:19:32.460 You know, I saw a study the other day that said only 25% of,
00:19:36.480 I mean, this is an American staff, an American household to have families.
00:19:39.580 So I guess there's positives and there's negatives,
00:19:42.620 but it's like at what cost, you know?
00:19:44.760 What to you?
00:19:45.520 Like 85, 150 years ago, the average woman had seven kids, 0.98
00:19:49.040 85% of people were married.
00:19:51.140 I mean, you know, there's also much higher infant mortality,
00:19:54.180 and women died very young, and, you know.
00:19:56.300 I mean, women were more depressed than ever before.
00:19:58.640 We're on antidepressants.
00:20:00.240 I mean, there are a lot of...
00:20:01.400 Women over the age of 45 are the least happy demographic. 0.91
00:20:03.980 There are a lot of very complex reasons for that.
00:20:07.320 And the issue you have is women like Emily Ratajkowski, 1.00
00:20:10.680 you know, marriage...
00:20:11.240 Again, I've said this before, marriage isn't marriage anymore.
00:20:13.580 The average marriage is seven years.
00:20:14.940 We have things like no-fault divorce, leave if you're unhappy.
00:20:17.840 So if...
00:20:18.260 What does that mean, marriage isn't marriage anymore?
00:20:20.120 Because there have been so many marriages in the course of history
00:20:23.080 where people have been very unhappy,
00:20:24.600 either the man or the woman has been very unhappy,
00:20:26.460 and they've been forced basically to stay in a marriage.
00:20:28.620 It could have been an abusive marriage. 1.00
00:20:29.720 It could have been a mostly abusive marriage. 0.97
00:20:31.080 And that would...
00:20:32.040 We have one life.
00:20:33.420 Why would you spend it with someone who doesn't have a job? 1.00
00:20:35.120 Marriage was about...
00:20:35.700 This is the problem we have with women. 1.00
00:20:38.280 Like, women... 1.00
00:20:38.820 Would you, though?
00:20:39.220 Men tend to be better people than us.
00:20:41.060 Yeah, they really do.
00:20:42.080 They tend to...
00:20:42.700 No, no, no.
00:20:43.580 They tend to do the right thing.
00:20:44.860 My God!
00:20:45.680 They are a much maligned species.
00:20:47.420 I agree.
00:20:47.800 There's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word, right?
00:20:50.880 Yeah.
00:20:51.080 Not a woman of her word. 1.00
00:20:51.980 I just...
00:20:52.700 Men will actually stick things out.
00:20:54.800 Women, when tickets are... 1.00
00:20:55.960 We just leave...
00:20:56.700 And you're proving...
00:20:57.820 You're proving my point.
00:20:58.860 What was your...
00:20:59.260 What was your first answer?
00:21:01.360 My happiness, right?
00:21:02.660 Of course.
00:21:03.240 Everyone deserves to be happy.
00:21:04.600 Everyone deserves to be loved.
00:21:05.620 The family doesn't work when it's about you.
00:21:07.700 It's supposed to be about your kids.
00:21:09.160 And that's the problem...
00:21:10.060 It's supposed to be about everyone.
00:21:12.060 No, no, no, no.
00:21:12.500 There's a balance and a compromise in relationships.
00:21:14.940 Am I allowed to talk now?
00:21:17.020 What?
00:21:17.340 Like...
00:21:17.760 You've been interrupting...
00:21:19.760 You've been talking.
00:21:21.440 About knowing and understanding yourself.
00:21:23.380 Learning to, you know, know and understand another person.
00:21:25.600 Eventually, potentially, if you want to be bringing children into the world 1.00
00:21:28.260 and teaching them how to do that as well.
00:21:29.860 Teaching them to balance a sense of...
00:21:31.080 their own identity with the love that they have for another person.
00:21:34.900 And, you know, for example, I know an older woman, actually, 0.99
00:21:37.620 who's a friend of our family, who got divorced at about 60.
00:21:41.000 She had, you know, this lovely family.
00:21:42.480 They were together since they were 18.
00:21:43.860 And she said...
00:21:44.240 Yeah, it's this story, yeah.
00:21:44.740 I got to a point, after I'd stopped being a mother and, you know, I was just kind of getting on,
00:21:48.120 I realized I'd lost my sense of who I was.
00:21:51.220 And I didn't really feel like I knew who I was anymore, because I'd always just been a wife and a mother.
00:21:55.260 And I wanted to go out and explore that.
00:21:56.660 And I think that's fantastic.
00:21:57.580 What is traditionalism?
00:22:00.380 I don't know what you think traditionalism is.
00:22:02.460 I would say a modern mentality is me before the family.
00:22:05.800 I would say traditionalism is the family before me, especially in women. 0.70
00:22:11.060 You're on the top of it.
00:22:12.000 And so what I actually, it's interesting you said 60-year-olds, because, you know,
00:22:15.440 I've interviewed 600, 700 people roughly in the past year and a half.
00:22:19.520 I've done hundreds of shows interviewing people about relationships.
00:22:22.340 And what I find is the 60-year-olds tend to, a lot of those women led their daughters astray. 0.63
00:22:28.860 You know, there's a reason we're in this mess, right?
00:22:31.140 A lot of those women had the wrong mentality when it came to marriage 1.00
00:22:34.560 and had exactly the mentality that you're talking about.
00:22:37.280 Which is the one to prioritize balancing one's own sense of identity with compromise in a relationship.
00:22:41.540 Like myself before the marriage.
00:22:43.380 But that's, again, you know, I think there's an interesting point here, actually.
00:22:44.420 And it's really unfortunate, because I would say the women of our generation really are suffering
00:22:49.080 because of the advice of the women of the past.
00:22:50.940 There's an interesting point here, right, which is that we do live in a very individualistic society.
00:22:54.520 And we're all told, actually, I think a lot of the time, in our relationships as well,
00:22:58.420 you have to be a certain way if you want to receive love.
00:23:00.960 You have to abide by these norms.
00:23:02.760 You have to be a certain level of attractiveness.
00:23:04.860 You have to earn a certain amount of money.
00:23:06.560 It's all about you.
00:23:07.560 And that's not what love is.
00:23:08.600 All right, let me bring in.
00:23:09.720 All right, listen.
00:23:10.460 It's actually been very interesting, this interview.
00:23:12.260 Let me bring it back in, STC.
00:23:13.460 Yes, I instigated.
00:23:14.060 In terms of trad values, like, my wife puts the bins out, for example.
00:23:18.920 I've never asked her to.
00:23:20.540 She's just adopted that role in our house. 0.99
00:23:23.060 So I never put the bins out.
00:23:24.400 I don't know if I should feel ashamed of myself.
00:23:25.860 I do other stuff, but I don't put the bins out.
00:23:28.320 As a trad wife, do you put your bins out? 1.00
00:23:30.440 Is that part of the gender rule of the 50s?
00:23:33.860 Is that what used to happen?
00:23:35.440 Or is the man supposed to do that?
00:23:37.580 I mean, how do these rules work in reality?
00:23:41.720 To be honest, it has nothing.
00:23:44.480 I don't want to say nothing.
00:23:45.720 It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the 50s and the 60s, especially in our
00:23:52.180 household.
00:23:52.840 I enjoy the aesthetic, and I think that's where people get a little mixed up with my
00:23:58.140 channel.
00:23:58.820 But I, well, to answer your question, actually, I don't put the trash bins out.
00:24:02.780 My husband does that.
00:24:03.800 But I think we have this thing in our household where he does most of the outdoor work.
00:24:11.000 I do all the indoor work.
00:24:12.240 Of course, he works and provides, and I'm the homemaker.
00:24:15.180 That's what works for us.
00:24:16.920 But I mean, hey, I mean, if your wife... 0.99
00:24:19.060 Right.
00:24:19.300 In relation to what Pearl said, is part of a sense of being dutiful and having no problem,
00:24:26.500 actually, with being dutiful in a marriage?
00:24:31.540 Yes.
00:24:32.060 I believe that traditionalism can, it is putting your family before yourself.
00:24:37.920 And I think it is having those traditional values that were once definitely more in place
00:24:45.940 in God, family, and love.
00:24:49.720 And we live in a very selfish society now.
00:24:53.960 You know, you see self-love printed everywhere, right?
00:24:56.740 And women, speaking of divorce and marriage, women are leaving marriage far more easier than men.
00:25:07.640 And they are doing it because they think there's something better out there for them,
00:25:12.000 that the grass is greener on the other side.
00:25:14.140 And they're finding out that is wrong.
00:25:16.200 And they're going through divorce after divorce.
00:25:18.580 And, you know, marriage is a bond.
00:25:21.320 And it's a sacred bond where two become one under God.
00:25:24.400 And that's beautiful.
00:25:25.760 And you have to protect that at all costs.
00:25:28.380 And I think part of that is putting your partner's needs before your own every single day.
00:25:33.580 And I try and do my best.
00:25:35.340 And I think of my husband as much as I can and what will please him and make him happy.
00:25:40.480 So I wanted to, we can cut it now.
00:25:42.340 Sorry, I mean, obviously I don't.
00:25:44.640 I wouldn't dare to express the opinion.
00:25:46.080 I think that's a lovely way to think about relationships.
00:25:48.580 If it's...
00:25:48.980 So I wanted to cut it there.
00:25:51.640 And I wanted to point something else out that you might have gone over some people's heads.
00:25:59.300 What was the biggest difference between the feminists next to me and the trad way? 1.00
00:26:04.160 We have to answer that question with logic.
00:26:07.580 First, what makes a woman a woman? 1.00
00:26:10.820 Her ability to suck cock. 1.00
00:26:13.820 Now, what makes a traditional life? 1.00
00:26:20.180 A woman who sucks cock. 1.00
00:26:23.040 Okay, so... 1.00
00:26:23.640 Now, is it anti-feminist for a woman to suck cock? 1.00
00:26:29.740 I need to say something. 1.00
00:26:30.340 No, exactly. 0.99
00:26:31.640 You're trying to not shit. 0.99
00:26:32.600 Okay, so... 0.99
00:26:33.220 Right, so the answer to the question is no.
00:26:36.840 Okay, so what makes a woman? 1.00
00:26:37.980 A woman is an adult girl. 1.00
00:26:39.020 But true feminism is a burning desire for cock. 1.00
00:26:46.840 And the same goes for the role of the traditional wife. 1.00
00:26:51.440 Wait, wait, hold on a second.
00:26:52.480 No, but bro, you keep talking over everybody, B.
00:26:54.420 Like, you don't let other people talk or not.
00:26:56.220 Like, is it just your show?
00:26:57.560 Or whose show is it, bro?
00:26:58.580 No, honestly, bro, you're talking to me!
00:27:01.820 You're talking to me!
00:27:02.560 No, seriously!
00:27:03.140 No, generally, bro, you're talking the whole time!
00:27:05.720 Okay, yeah, you're talking to the whole time!
00:27:07.000 No, you do.
00:27:07.320 Yeah, bro, like, bro, like, have some respect for other guesses.
00:27:10.180 Like, eight people, it's not just you, bro.
00:27:11.560 Okay, bro, I'm gonna have to answer that.
00:27:12.800 First of all, first of all...
00:27:14.320 You want me to just keep talking over you?
00:27:15.680 Bro, bro, bro, bro, bro, bro.
00:27:17.080 Yeah, but homie just keeps talking over everybody, bro. 0.99
00:27:19.560 Like, are we gonna have floor rules?
00:27:21.100 Bro, bro, bro, bro.
00:27:22.120 No, you don't respect me, you don't respect nobody here.
00:27:24.200 Bro, you're raising the voice of me, bro.
00:27:25.040 You don't respect nobody.
00:27:29.520 You don't respect nobody.
00:27:31.400 You're raising your voice on everybody.
00:27:32.800 Because you're raising your voice.
00:27:34.040 Yo, you're raising your voice on everybody.
00:27:35.760 Because you're raising your voice on everybody.
00:27:37.860 Why are you...
00:27:38.680 All right, guys, guys, guys.
00:27:39.480 We need to...
00:27:40.400 All right, let's, let's...
00:27:41.720 You're raising your voice on everyone.
00:27:42.460 Hello, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:27:43.720 Listen, bro, you're talking about...
00:27:46.000 I don't want to have to cut your mics, guys, please.
00:27:48.160 Let's just have respect for each other.
00:27:49.900 Can we put it together?
00:27:50.620 One second.
00:27:51.580 No, no, no, we're just putting it together. 0.98
00:27:53.200 He's being a bully. 0.99
00:27:54.040 He's being a bully. 0.98
00:27:55.040 I'm being a bully. 0.92
00:27:56.040 You're bullying the whole group.
00:27:57.040 Bro, are you a victim?
00:27:58.040 What's wrong with you? 0.95
00:27:59.040 I'm being a bully, bro. 0.84
00:28:00.040 There's other people...
00:28:01.040 Like, I'll let you talk, but you keep...
00:28:02.040 A man is calling me a bully, bro.
00:28:04.040 I keep talking over you, but you keep talking over me.
00:28:06.040 China, China, China.
00:28:07.040 Just let him...
00:28:08.040 No, but no, no, no, I'm just saying.
00:28:10.040 Okay, guys, guys, guys, guys. 0.70
00:28:12.040 You're having a man violate me. 0.97
00:28:13.040 You're cutting off my mic. 0.85
00:28:14.040 You're having a man screaming at me. 1.00
00:28:17.040 You're calling me a bully and you're cutting off my mic.
00:28:19.040 I haven't done anything.
00:28:20.040 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:28:22.040 I love how the women are nice and quiet and chill. 1.00
00:28:25.040 Loving life.
00:28:26.040 This is traditional women right here. 1.00
00:28:29.040 Traditional women right here. 0.97
00:28:30.040 All right.
00:28:31.040 Can I get the room, please?
00:28:33.040 All right.
00:28:34.040 Pearl, can you continue the show?
00:28:35.040 I think we've got a great representation going on here, guys.
00:28:37.040 Okay, okay.
00:28:38.040 I love that.
00:28:39.040 You're not trying to have a man bullying me online, like, like, like.
00:28:41.040 How's a man going to do all of that?
00:28:42.040 You won't even...
00:28:43.040 You cut off my mic.
00:28:44.040 Yeah, but we're trying to call everyone to order.
00:28:46.040 So if both...
00:28:47.040 It's not you.
00:28:48.040 I cut his mic and yours.
00:28:49.040 So it's because both of you...
00:28:50.040 No.
00:28:51.040 Relax.
00:28:52.040 It's because both of you weren't trying to listen.
00:28:53.040 Trust me.
00:28:54.040 Trust me.
00:28:55.040 Listen to this.
00:28:56.040 I'm relaxing it.
00:28:57.040 But you've had a man talk... 0.80
00:28:58.040 Listen, everybody...
00:28:59.040 Super chats.
00:29:00.040 Super chats.
00:29:01.040 I want the super chats to speak about what's happened now.
00:29:04.040 Because you're going to have me acting like I'm acting mad.
00:29:06.040 I'm actually moving very calm, bro.
00:29:08.040 I'm moving very...
00:29:09.040 All right.
00:29:10.040 But we need to get to the show.
00:29:11.040 That's the problem.
00:29:12.040 So if Pearl is calling both your attention, I'm calling both your attention.
00:29:16.040 Both of you are not listening.
00:29:17.040 What do you want me to do?
00:29:18.040 I respect Pearl.
00:29:19.040 I respect Pearl a lot.
00:29:20.040 Good.
00:29:21.040 So that's what I'm saying to get back to the show.
00:29:23.040 I'm just trying to move on.
00:29:25.040 I'm trying to...
00:29:26.040 What was it that you said?
00:29:27.040 I understand.
00:29:28.040 Can you repeat what you just said?
00:29:29.040 Excuse me.
00:29:30.040 Excuse me.
00:29:31.040 Excuse me.
00:29:32.040 Can you guys literally just stop, please?
00:29:34.040 I'm trying to make a point.
00:29:36.040 Okay.
00:29:37.040 So it's...
00:29:38.040 Okay.
00:29:39.040 So the one thing that I was going to say that I noticed with that clip.
00:29:43.040 You guys remember the clip that we just watched?
00:29:45.040 Okay.
00:29:46.040 You guys remember?
00:29:47.040 So the biggest thing that I noticed was female narcissism. 1.00
00:29:51.040 Because the one woman was thinking about her husband and the other woman couldn't... 1.00
00:29:57.040 Like she literally thought that I was interrupting her when she was interrupting me the whole time.
00:30:03.040 Yeah.
00:30:04.040 You know what I mean?
00:30:05.040 And the first thing she said was, I can only give if it's reciprocal.
00:30:08.040 I think it was very...
00:30:10.040 But when you're in a traditional family unit, it's not about you.
00:30:13.040 Right?
00:30:14.040 You just do.
00:30:15.040 Right.
00:30:16.040 And when you think of the most, like, feminine... 0.86
00:30:17.040 Like who...
00:30:18.040 I'm sure you guys have a grandma, aunt, whoever.
00:30:20.040 Is she counting?
00:30:21.040 Like, oh, I did this much for him.
00:30:22.040 No.
00:30:23.040 And that's what I like.
00:30:24.040 So usually when women say, oh, I can only do it. 0.99
00:30:25.040 Like, I can't be unreciprocated.
00:30:27.040 Like, it says more about her.
00:30:29.040 I think he was a very sad thing, really.
00:30:30.040 I mean, I think Grace is actually very attractive. 0.99
00:30:32.040 She's probably more attractive than the trad wife. 1.00
00:30:34.040 And I'm not a big fan of trad wives, generally.
00:30:36.040 I think the whole thing's a little bit corny.
00:30:38.040 I think it's a bit cheesy.
00:30:39.040 I don't really buy it.
00:30:40.040 I don't really buy it.
00:30:41.040 Having said that, I think that the trad wife on that clip, I think she was talking a lot of sense.
00:30:45.040 And I think what Grace was saying, it was actually really sad.
00:30:47.040 I mean, the story about the 60-year-old woman who just ditched her husband
00:30:50.040 because she felt like she wanted to go and find herself.
00:30:52.040 I think that's a terribly, terribly sad story.
00:30:54.040 I really do.
00:30:55.040 And equally, the whole Emily Razakowski thing, it's just sort of like...
00:30:59.040 I mean, even putting families aside, what about the bond between the man and the woman, right?
00:31:03.040 You've presumably fallen in love with this woman.
00:31:05.040 You're like, right, this is us.
00:31:06.040 We're together.
00:31:07.040 It's ride or die.
00:31:08.040 You and me, babe.
00:31:09.040 And then five years, seven years later, the woman's just like, 0.99
00:31:11.040 oh, actually, do you know what?
00:31:12.040 There's a whole, like, green pastures out there, so sod you.
00:31:15.040 And then she just buggers off. 0.99
00:31:16.040 And then you wonder why people, like, guys aren't getting married.
00:31:20.040 But why would I get married when the likely prognosis of that marriage
00:31:23.040 is that in seven to ten years, the woman's just going to go, 1.00
00:31:25.040 do you know what?
00:31:26.040 Actually, Chad the pool boy's quite cute.
00:31:28.040 I think I'll just ditch this.
00:31:30.040 I think, yeah.
00:31:31.040 Why would I make a legal contract around that?
00:31:33.040 It depends on how long they've been together prior to them, obviously, getting married.
00:31:37.040 I would like to think that...
00:31:38.040 Not necessarily.
00:31:39.040 Can I ask women a question? 0.99
00:31:41.040 I want to hear what she said.
00:31:42.040 Say that again. 0.71
00:31:43.040 Yeah.
00:31:44.040 So I would like to think that how long that you're together before the engagement,
00:31:48.040 before the marriage plays a big part.
00:31:50.040 A big part in what?
00:31:51.040 A big part in actually the whole marriage, like staying together for a certain period of time.
00:31:57.040 For the lady, for example, she's just said, after what, five years?
00:32:03.040 She just said, yeah, nah, forget it, basically.
00:32:05.040 Yeah.
00:32:06.040 Clearly, to me, that seems like you haven't been with your partner for a long time.
00:32:10.040 It might be worse if you've been together before, because then you've got more time to get bored of each other.
00:32:14.040 I think there's a main problem, because I've got a master's degree in psychology, so I'm just kind of dissecting a lot of things.
00:32:23.040 All that we're seeing is very self-centered, very egoistic conversations.
00:32:27.040 I this, I that.
00:32:28.040 There's a lot of expectations and the whole picture pictured on, you know, the image of what a perfect man or woman should be.
00:32:34.040 The problem that we're having is no one's turning around to be like, how can I improve myself?
00:32:37.040 How can I better myself?
00:32:38.040 What can I do to be a better person today or a better wife or a better husband?
00:32:42.040 There's a lot of external factors instead of internal factors.
00:32:45.040 Well, I guess the trad woman's doing that a bit. 1.00
00:32:47.040 We need to...
00:32:48.040 Pardon?
00:32:49.040 I guess the trad woman's trying to do that, isn't she? 1.00
00:32:50.040 The trad woman is trying to be... 1.00
00:32:51.040 Yeah, she is doing that. 1.00
00:32:52.040 Not she's trying, she is doing that.
00:32:53.040 Do you see how that instills like a form of anxiety between all men?
00:32:57.040 This whole idea, like, that you can be in a relationship for 10 years and then next thing you know, she ups and leaves and is all done.
00:33:03.040 But you can die tomorrow and nothing is ever guaranteed.
00:33:05.040 But it works both ways, guys.
00:33:06.040 But women divorce more than men. 1.00
00:33:08.040 Yeah, women divorce more than men. 1.00
00:33:10.040 Women divorce more than men. 0.99
00:33:11.040 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:33:12.040 Women divorce... 1.00
00:33:13.040 You've had your say.
00:33:14.040 Hold on.
00:33:15.040 Let me just say something.
00:33:16.040 Because I haven't said anything for the whole...
00:33:17.040 Go ahead.
00:33:18.040 So basically, yeah, and then you can reply.
00:33:20.040 Basically, women, yes, maybe divorce is more with women. 1.00
00:33:25.040 However, what about...
00:33:26.040 We were talking earlier about when a woman sort of helps build with a guy and then when the guy dumps her and he's successful and then he finds someone else.
00:33:35.040 Or he's like toy girl or whatever, you know, the next young pretty thing. 0.98
00:33:39.040 That girl has committed...
00:33:40.040 So that's like propaganda to be honest.
00:33:43.040 No, no, I've seen it.
00:33:44.040 So even...
00:33:45.040 I mean, you might have seen exceptions, but...
00:33:46.040 Lots of people.
00:33:47.040 Lots of people.
00:33:48.040 No, I'm telling you, like, the numbers don't back you up.
00:33:51.040 I mean, but women are... 1.00
00:33:52.040 Women are... 1.00
00:33:53.040 Women are... 1.00
00:33:54.040 You can actually...
00:33:55.040 You can...
00:33:56.040 No, no, no, I'll give you...
00:33:57.040 I'll tell you.
00:33:58.040 I'll tell you.
00:33:59.040 You can actually...
00:34:00.040 You can actually look up, like, the age that, like, people divorce on average.
00:34:03.040 Yep.
00:34:04.040 And who files.
00:34:05.040 But where are these statistics coming from?
00:34:07.040 I mean, you can get...
00:34:08.040 It's usually...
00:34:09.040 Like, you can get them...
00:34:10.040 Divorce websites.
00:34:11.040 You can get...
00:34:12.040 Well, you can...
00:34:13.040 I'm telling you, you can get them from the UK, the US.
00:34:16.040 They're usually quite similar.
00:34:17.040 Government is funded.
00:34:18.040 Yeah, yes, yes.
00:34:19.040 Because we really believe in them.
00:34:20.040 I mean, but...
00:34:21.040 Okay.
00:34:22.040 I mean, we can also just look in normal reality when women go on TikTok and talk about why 1.00
00:34:25.680 they got divorced, you know?
00:34:27.040 Yeah.
00:34:28.040 I'm the biggest one to not believe stats, but I think you kind of have to look at what
00:34:31.320 you see in reality.
00:34:32.320 Absolutely.
00:34:33.320 I agree with that.
00:34:34.320 And the truth of the matter is you could even look at numbers, like, from before the 60s,
00:34:38.320 and you could also...
00:34:39.320 Because another way you can, like, look at what's going on in the Times is you take eyewitness
00:34:42.520 accounts.
00:34:43.520 So, like, people that were alive during the time, what they wrote about, and women were more
00:34:48.640 likely to divorce even before no-fault divorce, like, when it happened.
00:34:52.280 Can I add to that, please?
00:34:54.280 I mean, when we're comparing to 100 years ago and today, let's look at a lot of factors.
00:34:57.920 Like, let's look at the food that we're eating, the products, the hygiene products that women 1.00
00:35:01.680 are using.
00:35:02.680 There's a lot of chemicals.
00:35:03.680 We've got a lot of imbalance in our chemicals in our bodies today.
00:35:06.900 Which function?
00:35:07.900 Our perspective?
00:35:08.900 Our mentality?
00:35:09.900 Yeah.
00:35:10.900 I mean, we're both kind of messed up.
00:35:11.900 The men and the women. 0.97
00:35:12.900 I totally agree.
00:35:13.900 That's why we're so fat. 1.00
00:35:14.900 We're so fucked in the head, maybe. 1.00
00:35:15.900 Yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:35:16.900 No, I totally agree with you, but...
00:35:17.900 Our hygiene products, our food, our air, our water, everything is poison.
00:35:23.900 Right, right.
00:35:24.900 But my point is women tend to file for a divorce, and the idea that, like, men tend to leave for
00:35:29.520 younger women.
00:35:30.520 Women file 70, 80% of the time. 0.99
00:35:32.900 So, women, like, men aren't really filing for a divorce like that, and then if you just
00:35:38.000 want to look in, like, reality, there's reasons that men say it's cheaper to keep her happy 0.98
00:35:41.720 wife, happy life.
00:35:42.720 It's because they're not really divorcing like that.
00:35:44.800 Do you know why Emily Ratajkowski divorced?
00:35:46.800 Uh, uh, well...
00:35:47.800 Just to say...
00:35:48.800 Just to say...
00:35:49.800 She just said, yeah, this ain't it.
00:35:51.800 She just said, yeah, this ain't it.
00:35:52.800 She just said, this ain't it.
00:35:53.800 Yeah, I don't agree that she just is, like, a glamorizing divorce.
00:35:57.800 Because I think it is a contractual agreement, I've said this before, and actually that's
00:36:02.800 trad wife woman said it as well.
00:36:04.740 If you are going into a legally binding contract, a marriage, you are, you must be thinking
00:36:09.800 about it.
00:36:10.800 You can't...
00:36:11.800 You have to have some kind of discernment that you're like, this has to be, like, someone
00:36:14.500 that I want to build a future with.
00:36:15.800 Yeah.
00:36:16.800 Otherwise, what are you doing?
00:36:17.800 Exactly.
00:36:18.800 Unless you're a gold digger or, um, or you're marrying for some kind of trust fund or whatever
00:36:22.480 it is.
00:36:23.480 Other than that, like...
00:36:24.480 Exactly, and I mean, I mean, it was Mia Khalifa who said something similar, wasn't it, a couple
00:36:27.960 of months ago?
00:36:28.960 Made it similar to cut a video.
00:36:29.960 Yeah.
00:36:30.960 I think, I think where Grace was, was wrong, is to say, if you're actually marrying somebody,
00:36:35.140 and then seven years down the line, you just change your mind.
00:36:37.340 I think that's wrong, because you've entered into a legally binding, like, a legally and
00:36:41.460 morally binding contract.
00:36:42.960 If you're just dating them, that's a different thing.
00:36:44.960 If you guys are just dating, okay, fine, but why actually get married?
00:36:48.960 But that's right.
00:36:49.960 And the other thing too is, she said, what about your happiness?
00:36:53.820 But it's like, why are you relying on someone else to make you happy?
00:36:56.960 Exactly.
00:36:57.960 True.
00:36:58.960 Never do that.
00:36:59.960 You know, the problem is life is very long, and there's a lot of ups and downs, and I mean,
00:37:03.680 you're not going to be happy the whole time.
00:37:05.060 And the issue is that I think some women, you know, they get into the relationship, it 0.99
00:37:08.280 goes a little bit flat for a while, and then they're like, oh shit, the grass is greener. 0.98
00:37:10.960 Okay, let's just check out of this, and we'll go and try over there. 0.90
00:37:14.140 And like the trad wife said, I mean, the grass isn't always greener, you know?
00:37:17.140 Yeah.
00:37:18.140 Yeah.
00:37:19.140 But I think there's external factors as well that can come into play.
00:37:21.140 I mean, the economy, the financial state that somebody is living in, does that deter someone's...
00:37:27.140 Well, if he's a broke boy, she should leave him.
00:37:29.140 Yeah, but let's just ask this hypothetical question.
00:37:33.140 Let's say there's someone that's very wealthy, and then all of a sudden the economy crashes,
00:37:37.140 and then what?
00:37:38.140 So all the chicks leave. 1.00
00:37:39.140 Build again.
00:37:40.140 So all the chicks just bounce. 1.00
00:37:41.140 Okay.
00:37:42.140 Is that what happens?
00:37:43.140 You've got to build again, you've got to build again.
00:37:44.140 Well, I'll tell you, so we actually take...
00:37:47.140 This is why I say men are better people.
00:37:50.140 Yeah.
00:37:51.140 Okay, yeah.
00:37:52.140 Because like when women, for example, when women win the lottery, women tend to leave their husbands, 0.99
00:37:55.140 where men tend to stay with their wives. 0.71
00:37:57.140 To keep them happy.
00:37:58.140 Makes sense.
00:37:59.140 When women get promoted, they're more likely to divorce. 1.00
00:38:02.140 Like, I mean, it's the same.
00:38:03.140 That's why I say women are the same. 1.00
00:38:04.140 We have the same trends and patterns.
00:38:06.140 I mean, not every woman does the same thing. 1.00
00:38:09.140 But every woman has an inclination to do the same thing. 1.00
00:38:12.140 Is that ego?
00:38:13.140 Do you think we have more of an ego than men?
00:38:14.140 A materialistic maybe ego.
00:38:16.140 I mean, I just think we're hardwired to want men that provide for us.
00:38:19.140 Yeah.
00:38:20.140 Yeah.
00:38:21.140 And I think a lot of times when we start to out-earn them, we think that we're better than them.
00:38:24.140 Usually we're in useless jobs.
00:38:26.140 Yeah.
00:38:27.140 Yeah, yeah.
00:38:28.140 I mean, I'll even use myself as an example.
00:38:30.140 It's like I talk into a microphone.
00:38:32.140 But I see, like I saw a woman with my same job.
00:38:35.140 She was like a TV presenter. 0.98
00:38:36.140 I don't know if you guys, Ebony Williams, maybe?
00:38:38.140 No.
00:38:39.140 I don't know.
00:38:40.140 She's a 39, 40-year-old TV presenter, which is what?
00:38:43.140 Talking into a microphone?
00:38:44.140 High five.
00:38:45.140 And she was talking about she wouldn't date a bus driver.
00:38:48.140 But when you think about it, a bus driver is a more necessary job than the girl talking 0.99
00:38:52.140 into a mic, you know?
00:38:54.140 So the last thing I wanted to bring up today actually was, so back to like the narcissism
00:39:03.140 point, right?
00:39:04.140 And what I see is this extreme narcissism and men just telling us what we want to hear.
00:39:08.140 And one of the themes, I just kind of think of things as like patterns and trends.
00:39:12.140 And one trend I see is men convincing women that we're just young forever and hot for a lifetime.
00:39:19.140 Yeah.
00:39:20.140 So I wanted to show you guys a tweet that I had that just really ruffled some feathers.
00:39:25.140 And you guys can tell me if you think it's too offensive or don't, don't feel like you
00:39:28.140 have to hold back.
00:39:30.140 Okay.
00:39:31.140 Um, so I said, can we pull this up?
00:39:34.140 The, the, do the last one I sent you, I think it's the, the, wait, wait, hold on.
00:39:40.140 It's follow the, the no. 0.77
00:39:47.140 Yeah.
00:39:48.140 Okay.
00:39:49.140 Okay.
00:39:50.140 So I had, I had a tweet and this tweet had wives and mothers tweeting me their selfies.
00:39:53.140 I said, no, 35 year old women aren't that hot. 1.00
00:39:58.140 Ouch.
00:39:59.140 None will compete with the average in shape 21 year old.
00:40:03.140 Don't shoot the messenger.
00:40:05.140 So I want to know.
00:40:07.140 And so this is the response.
00:40:09.140 I'm 30.
00:40:10.140 So basically she just gave us the keys on how to get the women. 1.00
00:40:14.140 Okay.
00:40:15.140 Okay.
00:40:16.140 So, so no, wait, wait, guys, please guys.
00:40:17.140 Wait, I want to ask the women this question. 1.00
00:40:19.140 Am I wrong?
00:40:21.140 It's debatable for me.
00:40:24.140 Do you know why it is?
00:40:25.140 I've seen some really good looking 35 year old women on Twitter as well. 1.00
00:40:31.140 Okay.
00:40:32.140 I have, I have seen them.
00:40:33.140 You've seen some good looking 35 year old women. 1.00
00:40:35.140 Yeah.
00:40:36.140 And they typically are more good looking than the average 21 year old.
00:40:40.140 Like we go to a college campus and those 35 year old women are just. 1.00
00:40:44.140 I mean, well, it's going to be two different things though, isn't it?
00:40:46.140 Because at the end of the day, a 35 year old woman is probably going to be more wrinkled. 1.00
00:40:50.140 No, not at all.
00:40:51.140 Spending more money, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:40:52.140 I have a question.
00:40:53.140 Are the 35 year old women more wrinkled than the 21 year old women? 1.00
00:41:07.140 I'm going to go with the women first then I'm going to come to the guys, please. 0.99
00:41:08.140 It depends.
00:41:09.140 I personally feel like it depends.
00:41:10.140 I personally feel like it depends.
00:41:11.660 Okay.
00:41:12.660 Obviously, not done by court.
00:41:14.680 We're not talking about going out
00:41:16.180 to do anything to your face or anything like that.
00:41:18.380 Okay, yes, the 21-year-old woman. 1.00
00:41:20.580 We trump the 35-year-old woman. 1.00
00:41:22.680 Can I just say, so I work with clubs
00:41:24.820 and also I do some stuff around like student stuff, right?
00:41:28.280 And I've seen students and I've seen the young
00:41:31.780 kind of girls go to clubs. 1.00
00:41:33.440 At the moment, no, because they don't look after themselves.
00:41:36.740 They're not hot. 0.99
00:41:37.580 They're trashy. 0.90
00:41:38.420 I said, wait, wait, wait, let's read it again. 0.73
00:41:40.960 Go back up, please.
00:41:41.900 I know, I know, the average.
00:41:42.820 No, no, no, no, no.
00:41:43.900 I said the average in shape
00:41:45.860 because it doesn't count if we're like fatties.
00:41:48.420 They don't count, you know what I mean?
00:41:49.980 Like fatty, like we all know a fatty at 35
00:41:53.120 and a fatty at 21 and don't want to. 0.88
00:41:55.120 Like we're not, come on.
00:41:57.180 Like fatties don't count.
00:41:58.360 So I said the average, you know,
00:41:59.880 because it's like they would be hotter.
00:42:01.360 They just ruin their beauty, right?
00:42:02.900 But also there are a lot of like sort of 21-year-olds
00:42:06.060 that haven't got like a style yet.
00:42:07.780 They haven't got there.
00:42:08.620 Yeah, they haven't found themselves.
00:42:09.860 They don't.
00:42:10.700 They make so many faux pas.
00:42:12.400 I have a question.
00:42:13.240 Do men usually really care about your style? 0.85
00:42:15.740 Yes.
00:42:16.840 No.
00:42:17.680 How do they?
00:42:18.520 Absolutely not.
00:42:19.360 Okay, okay.
00:42:20.200 Do men.
00:42:21.020 Does not agree until they want to take the clothes off?
00:42:22.020 Yeah, I mean, are men usually,
00:42:24.380 is that the determining factor, your style?
00:42:27.540 Well, it's the whole package, isn't it? 1.00
00:42:29.020 No, I don't want to see if your ass looks fat in a sundress. 1.00
00:42:31.020 Exactly. 1.00
00:42:32.020 Okay, okay.
00:42:33.480 So, so, okay, so back, wait.
00:42:35.480 You don't even care about wrinkles. 1.00
00:42:36.480 You just want ass. 1.00
00:42:37.480 Basically. 1.00
00:42:38.480 Just nash.
00:42:39.480 Nash, nash.
00:42:40.480 Guys, guys, China, wait, wait. 0.97
00:42:41.680 So, so, so we go back to, am I, am I wrong?
00:42:45.060 Is this, is this?
00:42:46.260 Go back, please go back up.
00:42:47.360 No, I don't think you are.
00:42:48.180 I think, I love the fact that you've got reality
00:42:49.780 and humor in one tweet, and I appreciate that.
00:42:53.680 So, you know, we always, they always bring me up, J.Lo, 0.99
00:42:56.820 but it's like, bitch, are you, J.Lo? 1.00
00:42:58.240 And it's like, I don't, you know, like, I mean, come on. 0.98
00:43:03.820 Okay, sure, a 9.5 in her prime is going to be a 7 at 35. 1.00
00:43:09.320 But like, you know, and you know what, I, you know,
00:43:12.340 and I, I got such a visceral reaction.
00:43:14.820 I had a very similar one where I had wives and mothers
00:43:17.880 tweeting their selfies at me,
00:43:19.580 and then putting, and then pictures of myself
00:43:21.780 to prove that they were hotter,
00:43:24.280 that they were just hotter than me. 0.95
00:43:27.620 And then I had women calling me bitter and just evil
00:43:32.280 when really my only point is 35-year-old women 1.00
00:43:35.940 used to have a family and they cared more
00:43:38.920 about their character rather than their looks.
00:43:41.820 And it wasn't the end of the world
00:43:43.480 that there was a new round of 22-year-olds.
00:43:45.800 And so to me, this spoke more to female narcissism 0.97
00:43:50.340 because we can't hear, you know, I'm, I'm 26, right?
00:43:55.760 And at 26, a hundred years ago, they would have said,
00:43:58.560 you're an old maid. 1.00
00:43:59.500 Now I understand.
00:44:01.800 I understand we're in 2023 where that's not the norm,
00:44:06.200 but I'll still say, you know,
00:44:07.460 the average 20-year-old chick is going to be hotter. 1.00
00:44:10.740 And that's okay.
00:44:11.700 It's not, you know, I didn't say bad person.
00:44:14.060 I didn't say ugly.
00:44:15.300 And I also put, I was very specific.
00:44:17.020 I said that hot, because what does that hot mean?
00:44:19.880 That's like pretty sexy.
00:44:21.540 By 35, you should be more beautiful. 1.00
00:44:23.500 Why your ass out? 1.00
00:44:24.420 There's women that are really hot 1.00
00:44:26.920 and then they open their mouths and it's like, no.
00:44:28.320 It's like, it's 35, you know,
00:44:30.240 you're supposed to kind of put it away.
00:44:31.680 Like, we're supposed to like age, you know, 0.92
00:44:33.920 like dress a little less slutty. 0.93
00:44:36.020 Yeah. 0.95
00:44:36.340 It's getting the opposite now, I think.
00:44:38.740 Yeah.
00:44:39.460 But you know what's so very interesting?
00:44:41.380 Every time we have these episodes here,
00:44:43.620 I always learn something new from listening to women speak. 1.00
00:44:46.280 And they always tell on themselves.
00:44:47.980 It's just like you said it,
00:44:50.300 women are really actually all the same. 1.00
00:44:52.700 Yeah, they might be very, it varies. 0.99
00:44:55.640 They are worse and they are better,
00:44:56.900 but they all have the same programming.
00:44:58.600 Think about it like this.
00:45:00.040 I'm very sure now that most women 1.00
00:45:01.900 don't actually know what men want from women. 0.99
00:45:04.000 Because the reality is,
00:45:05.840 the men that women claim they want, 0.95
00:45:08.540 that's the top quality men.
00:45:10.420 Those kind of men are not looking for your total package.
00:45:13.980 In fact, those kind of men want to be the men
00:45:16.060 that discover a gem that's hidden.
00:45:19.300 Yeah.
00:45:19.640 So if you're someone that already knows all your style,
00:45:22.700 you already know this,
00:45:23.720 that only signals to the man that you want
00:45:25.620 that you've been around the block.
00:45:27.640 But men like the journey as well,
00:45:29.280 the whole process.
00:45:30.080 No, but you're literally telling me what men want
00:45:32.700 or what men like.
00:45:33.620 I'm telling you the fact that
00:45:34.680 the kind of men you want,
00:45:36.760 the kind of men that you would look at
00:45:38.100 and be like,
00:45:38.560 yes, I'm glad I got this man.
00:45:40.180 He's not looking for some woman 1.00
00:45:41.560 that is completely packaged
00:45:44.180 and she knows her style,
00:45:45.580 she's in her baby girl era.
00:45:47.920 No, that's not what they want.
00:45:48.840 They want to literally discover a gem
00:45:50.760 that no one has found.
00:45:51.840 Yeah, diamond in the rough.
00:45:53.200 So, Nima, you had thoughts on this.
00:45:55.860 Yeah, I mean,
00:45:56.720 so women are tweeting their selfies to you 1.00
00:46:00.240 to prove they're hot 0.64
00:46:01.040 because you publicly said younger women are hotter. 0.94
00:46:04.980 How dare I?
00:46:06.620 Wow. 1.00
00:46:06.820 Okay, so younger women have prettier pussies. 1.00
00:46:14.620 My Twitter is at Nima Yamini. 0.99
00:46:19.080 How old are you?
00:46:20.740 Wow, this guy.
00:46:21.680 How old are you?
00:46:23.000 43.
00:46:24.220 So why do you need to be worrying and...
00:46:27.560 And also why do you want to see other people's things?
00:46:30.040 Exactly.
00:46:31.440 Are you not married?
00:46:32.460 Exactly, are you not married?
00:46:33.460 This is a bad example of a guy that I wouldn't want to marry.
00:46:37.860 I'd rather be on my own with cats.
00:46:39.800 Well, I mean, statistically, you're going to be.
00:46:41.780 Exactly.
00:46:43.420 Bring it on.
00:46:44.760 If that's my choice, I'm done.
00:46:46.540 I mean, statistically,
00:46:47.720 only one of us is going to make it.
00:46:49.660 So, you know, look around.
00:46:52.520 You're right, though, Pearl.
00:46:53.400 It's about the narcissism of the age, isn't it?
00:46:55.760 The narcissism of women specifically in this case 0.99
00:46:57.920 where it's like,
00:46:59.040 why is it that these days every woman has to be hot? 1.00
00:47:02.440 Why is it I've got to be hot? 0.99
00:47:03.820 I've got to be fucking sexy. 0.99
00:47:05.000 I've got to be like... 0.99
00:47:05.720 What's wrong with cute?
00:47:06.720 Why not just be cute?
00:47:07.840 Why not just be cute?
00:47:08.620 Why not be...
00:47:09.040 All right.
00:47:09.560 Why is it not acceptable to be introverted
00:47:11.380 or bookish or a little bit nerdy or whatever?
00:47:13.300 What is every single woman? 1.00
00:47:14.340 It has to be about this...
00:47:15.240 As many of you know,
00:47:16.280 I was just banned on TikTok
00:47:18.340 and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:47:21.280 on this platform.
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