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00:00:00.000 i had to get pregnant six weeks premeditated sounds like my second baby

00:00:07.760 moms bro what she used to tell me is that it takes you to tango hang on how many baby moms 0.86

00:00:11.840 do you got i've got two kids bro two baby moms what are you what are you doing well the first

00:00:17.920 one was i was in a relationship with a girl okay and we had the kid and she left me

00:00:26.560 the second one i didn't even want the you like in fact her mom told her to get rid of her other 0.98

00:00:36.000 like problem before her other problem would you mean she took her mom told her to get rid of her 1.00

00:00:42.320 problem before that she had with another guy when i came her mom told her no keep that one that one 1.00

00:00:48.880 was either kid planned no did you did you take any precautions yeah of course okay what like you're

00:01:05.120 wearing condoms me to have two kids i did good in life you get me i did i was i don't know i don't

00:01:18.320 know i did good in life you know what i mean you sound like you kind of got you kind of like just

00:01:24.320 fell into situations bro that's what it sounds like it's like i'm here now like like one could be a

00:01:29.040 mistake but two two yeah the first one wasn't i don't think it was really a mistake i was in a

00:01:33.440 relationship for a little while and when the child came i was not didn't want it or i didn't want it

00:01:41.520 it was just like okay say like do you know what i mean like all right i'm not gonna tell her to get

00:01:46.000 rid of it that's my first you my second you i'm already like bro i already got one already like

00:01:51.280 loudest no no we're not even going there do you know what i mean and i'll tell like there's deeper

00:01:55.600 stories to how like my second daughter as beautiful as she is on earth like why she's here but 0.98

00:02:01.920 that one was pressure that second one do you think you struggle with responsibility because i

00:02:06.320 know it's a lot of us a lot struggle with the day in day out you know having to provide

00:02:12.480 look after the emotional news i mean i mean like i i genuinely think it's it's mostly on the girl if

00:02:17.840 you get pregnant because i mean we have so many forms of birth control that men don't have the access to

00:02:22.880 you but like two yeah that's on you now bro they're developed to me oh yeah i mean

00:02:30.960 it's not readily available at this point so but on her side if she wants to have the baby then there's 0.54

00:02:36.640 nothing stopping her how would you how is your relationship with these two women is it a good

00:02:41.120 relationship what now yeah i have no i have to make it good now what do you mean you have to make it good

00:02:46.480 in the terms of what i was saying before in terms of like when the dad has has to know that i have to

00:02:52.000 sacrifice um my like um sanity and well-being and feeling nice and feeling good to accommodate their

00:03:03.040 like emotional needs needs if you get what i mean like i'm trying to say in the most like sarah way as

00:03:08.560 everyone man wanted to say delusions that's what he wanted to say like you know what i mean like i

00:03:13.680 have to be i have to be like take a lot of stuff in order for it to work and be cordial so i was

00:03:22.000 having this conversation yesterday right um we're men right and as men we we take we don't take well

00:03:31.600 to violations right so if i violated you i violated you it could end in a physical altercation

00:03:37.600 do you get what i'm saying mothers of children repeatedly violate yeah the fathers of their

00:03:45.680 children and there's and as a man you've got to take it you've got to find a way in which to get

00:03:51.360 violated a lot of the time right and just roll with it and next week you're talking about this child

00:03:56.880 school uniform yeah as if last week never happened and you never got violated by this individual last

00:04:02.400 week and and i said that is a lot on a lot of men's mental health when it comes to um having the wrong

00:04:10.320 baby mother because if i because i'm now looking at you like i literally want to argue with you

00:04:16.880 have some kind of autocon but i can't because there's a child involved and i'm looking at you and i'm

00:04:21.040 saying and you're like all right so next week someone's house going to school and and you're like

00:04:26.960 did last week not happen like did did you not like do you not remember what you said or what

00:04:31.200 you've done i had a therapy for that i said just take another woman that's how i used to get over there 1.00

00:04:35.760 yeah that's nice to do i know it's a lot of people when they are monogamous and they're putting up with

00:04:41.280 disrespect it's because they've got no outlets no vices i used to indulge your minds if they've done

00:04:46.640 that or i would disappear because i had my own place when my first time obviously did that oh look

00:04:51.120 don't talk to my he's not your child i said you're all right i'm gonna go back to you know the man

00:04:55.600 cave oh why are you gonna do that for i said yeah i don't have to put up with this he said you got

00:04:59.920 two children two different men you really think that me and you size i said that i'm above you in this

00:05:05.680 thing i said and i'm nicer than you so i said if you do that i'll just get someone else and that's how

00:05:10.240 i used to regulate one second you reminded me something yeah you see the angleness like the anger

00:05:16.800 that's what's like like they're allowed to take out the anger on you using the kid yes they're

00:05:23.520 allowed to take out the i you have to come see your kid if they just want to see you they don't you

00:05:28.320 know they don't want you to see the kid they want to see you because they they might they might have

00:05:32.000 feelings for you they want to see you but so come and see your kid you know what it is they play

00:05:36.480 certain games they do certain things that like they trap you in certain positions and they know that

00:05:43.360 having a kid is like the main tool to do that because the government backs them up on this

00:05:47.680 yes there's way around that though because she used to do that try to play games with you know the 1.00

00:05:52.480 child support agent cms now and i used to say look in my left hand is benefit fraud

00:05:57.280 my right hand is social service which one do you want that is to simmer the right down

00:06:06.080 i'm like superman without the kryptonite there's no psychological games because i

00:06:09.360 see my mother and dad together for years so there's no games that you can triumph over me

00:06:13.440 and if you if you try to restrict access so they'll go and have more children and marginalize

00:06:18.800 you she used to use the regulator until i went to court to get in full time as many of you know i was

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JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022

He Messed Up Badly....

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