JustPearlyThings - He Tried Critiquing Wife School

00:00:00.000 If you are a man and you can show and prove to people that you can have sex with other women, other men will respect you. 0.89

00:00:07.120 I'm not making the rules.

00:00:08.620 That is what happens in male content. 0.93

00:00:10.540 So male content creators don't have to be married for other men to respect them.

00:00:13.780 If they show some receipts, they show girls on yachts, they show girls on parties, they show whatever it may be.

00:00:18.760 Other guys will respect them and listen to them because that is the litmus test for success in men.

00:00:23.600 Not my rules is what's going on in today's world.

00:00:25.660 Women is different. 1.00

00:00:27.460 Women respect this. 1.00

00:00:29.720 Women listen to this. 1.00

00:00:31.560 When you're able to be like, yo, you women, you can either be like this, like me, or be like the spruce. 1.00

00:00:37.460 When you're able to do stuff like that.

00:00:39.520 You're not familiar with my content.

00:00:41.160 I don't really give advice.

00:00:42.580 I know, but you said white school.

00:00:45.500 Yeah, but it's not taught by me.

00:00:47.000 It's not taught by me.

00:00:48.340 Who's going to build a white school? 1.00

00:00:49.440 Let me give the elevator pitch before you critique the idea.

00:00:55.520 So that's what I was thinking.

00:00:56.600 I was like, oh, you know what we should do?

00:00:58.680 We should bring in, like, wives from around the world that actually are married and are actually in those positions. 0.99

00:01:03.940 And you could, like, go through different classes for, like, how to dress like a wife, how to cook like a wife, how to clean like a wife. 0.93

00:01:08.980 Like, all the things that, like, wives have. 1.00

00:01:10.940 And that's what I was thinking.

00:01:12.400 I was like, well, I can't teach it.

00:01:13.480 I'm not a wife. 0.57

00:01:14.080 And I was like, but I'm, like, really good at bringing people together.

00:01:16.940 And I wouldn't ask someone to do something that I'm not willing to do.

00:01:20.960 I love it.

00:01:21.460 So here's what I was going to because you're actually saying the same thing.

00:01:24.420 Literally what you described is one of my ideas.

00:01:27.540 You called the white school.

00:01:28.660 I called the Wife Academy. 0.97

00:01:29.960 And it would be an amazing show.

00:01:31.320 I actually gave it to somebody.

00:01:32.520 This is a free game.

00:01:33.420 I gave it to somebody.

00:01:34.420 But you said it already.

00:01:36.140 I'm going to give it to the people.

00:01:38.060 Wife Academy would be a podcast where a woman who's married brings in other women who's married and talks to them about what does it mean to be a wife. 0.85

00:01:45.500 Because a school is cool.

00:01:46.820 But a school, how many people can be in a school?

00:01:48.440 100, 200, 300, 1,000?

00:01:50.060 It's limited.

00:01:50.920 Well, it would be filmed.

00:01:52.140 So it's like, yeah.

00:01:52.780 I love it.

00:01:53.140 So let's say, you know, it's going to be filmed.

00:01:57.600 So in this Wife Academy, the fundamental challenge is if you were going to start the Wife Academy, the people want to know, did it work for you?

00:02:05.840 That's the challenge with the women because you are the face. 1.00

00:02:09.040 You are the face.

00:02:10.140 That's the whole idea is like I'd be going through wife school and I'd be giving feedback each round.

00:02:15.680 So I'd be like, all right, I'll try this this week.

00:02:17.260 I'll try that.

00:02:17.840 You know, so it's like.

00:02:18.720 I love it.

00:02:19.340 Because it reminds me of Anna Bay, School of Affluence.

00:02:22.240 Do you familiar with her?

00:02:23.240 No.

00:02:23.740 I don't know what that is.

00:02:24.480 So it's Anna Bay, School of Affluence.

00:02:25.760 She created a very popular YouTube channel for women, teaching women how to be affluent, how to marry men in high society, this, that, and the third.

00:02:32.820 So her information was, like you said, very biographical.

00:02:35.700 As Gary Vee says, document, don't create.

00:02:37.640 I'm not there yet.

00:02:38.440 I'm documenting the journey.

00:02:39.700 And then eventually she gets married, gives all types of credibility. 0.99

00:02:42.220 So you're 100% right.

00:02:43.300 If you're going to go that route where it's like, hey, guys, I'm not there yet.

00:02:46.280 I need to learn.

00:02:47.000 I need to grow.

00:02:47.560 I need to improve.

00:02:48.380 Here are these expert women. 1.00

00:02:49.940 But the point that I was bringing up was that the true power in it when you go bananas is when you're like, yo, I went through wife school and I got married.

00:02:58.800 Yeah.

00:02:59.480 Because you're the face of it.

00:03:00.440 You're the one bringing everybody together.

00:03:01.620 You are the face no matter what.

00:03:03.060 You're going to bring some amazing women on to wife school, wife academy, whatever you call it. 1.00

00:03:06.180 But you're going to be the face.

00:03:07.280 But when you're able to come in that room and be like, yo, ladies, welcome to white school episode one. 0.63

00:03:11.380 I'm your host, Jess Pearlie.

00:03:13.420 And ladies. 0.96

00:03:14.360 No.

00:03:14.880 No.

00:03:15.220 I said I'm not.

00:03:15.860 I'm going through it.

00:03:16.940 I'm talking about in the future.

00:03:18.040 Yeah.

00:03:18.420 Yeah.

00:03:18.680 How many times are you going through white school?

00:03:21.100 Oh, no, no.

00:03:22.200 Season one.

00:03:23.180 Season one.

00:03:24.080 I'm talking season seven right now.

00:03:25.580 I don't know you're talking about season seven.

00:03:27.240 I was talking about.

00:03:27.900 We got to do one before seven.

00:03:29.340 Okay, I'm giving season seven right now.

00:03:31.600 Okay, go.

00:03:32.200 You can pitch it.

00:03:33.240 I'm you in season seven.

00:03:34.560 This is how season seven is going to begin.

00:03:36.760 Hey, how are you doing today, ladies?

00:03:38.500 It's Jess Pearlie things.

00:03:39.900 And this is season seven of wife school. 0.99

00:03:41.720 As you guys know, it worked for me.

00:03:45.860 You know what I mean?

00:03:46.660 You start flexing.

00:03:47.620 And I'm telling you, women like women who are where they want to be. 0.99

00:03:52.340 And so to me, one of my biggest things, and like I said, it's just, I love what you said.

00:03:57.400 I want to see more of that.

00:03:59.100 I want to see that.

00:04:00.640 There's enough. 0.85

00:04:01.500 We know women, modern women are delusional. 1.00

00:04:04.200 We know the issues in the divorce court.

00:04:06.740 We know that we know these things.

00:04:08.360 We don't need more of it.

00:04:09.300 We need you helping women.

00:04:11.120 I disagree with you because like the one thing, I think it's common in our space of YouTube to know this, but it's not common in like the general, like I'm on volleyball teams.

00:04:20.360 I'm on basketball team.

00:04:21.420 Like I deal with a lot of different types of girls from all walks of life. 1.00

00:04:24.340 I don't think it's most girls have any idea.

00:04:27.120 And that's actually part of the stuff on my channel is like I read pill women. 0.97

00:04:30.020 So I'll show them Jordan Peterson about the pay gap or I'll show them like, so it's kind of like you kind of see them go through their journey like firsthand.

00:04:36.480 But my thing is that, and maybe this is my criticism of doing it for seven years and maybe you're just, sorry.

00:04:42.580 Seven years?

00:04:43.540 So this is my criticism of me doing this for seven years and also me in this, I'm helping men since 2012 when I dropped my first YouTube video.

00:04:55.180 I'm obsessed with solutions and the best solutions.

00:04:57.720 If we truly believe doing YouTube videos, showing people what's wrong in today's world is going to change the minds of the masses, you and I both know that is not the case.

00:05:09.500 You and I both know that's not the case.

00:05:10.880 That is not the long-term solution to society.

00:05:13.360 If you were to ask me, what would change the world more?

00:05:16.320 You know, Pearly thinks doing a wife academy, a wife school where she's going through things that a wife needs to be successful that she goes through herself. 1.00

00:05:22.460 And then all of a sudden she finds an amazing husband and now she's having an amazing family and using that as an example versus just going up to random girls, asking her, do you believe in female privilege? 1.00

00:05:30.320 What is most effective?

00:05:32.120 And so to me, that's a part where I realized my expectations is not fair to put it on you because it's your life, it's your purpose, whatever you feel like God's called you to do.

00:05:40.120 But to me, after doing this for so many years, I'm like, yo, the win is the receipts, is the results.

00:05:47.080 That's the win in today's society.

00:05:48.700 The win in today's society is what, all the 40-year-old plus feminists, single, miserable, lonely. 1.00

00:05:55.080 And they're upset and then their friends are happily married, doing well.

00:05:58.940 That's the win.

00:06:00.100 Showing like, yo, you guys thought that 40 and with your cats is cool?

00:06:05.080 Look at you now.

00:06:06.340 That's the win is the receipt.

00:06:08.140 So to me, I want, I just don't think we need more women just simply doing what the guys are doing. 0.99

00:06:14.320 We already have the guys doing that. 0.97

00:06:15.700 Why don't the women, such as yourself, who have the intelligence, who have the ability to encourage, equip, build up other women, why don't you guys do more of that? 0.61

00:06:25.760 And I guarantee you.

00:06:26.780 That's what I'm trying to do.

00:06:28.040 Where's the Wife Academy at? 0.98

00:06:29.200 It's, we want to launch it in like February, March.

00:06:31.980 Listen, listen.

00:06:32.960 If you are for real.

00:06:34.360 Yeah, I'm like dead serious.

00:06:35.680 No, no, no, I'm serious.

00:06:36.580 Yeah.

00:06:36.740 If you are for real and you are truly doing this, I want to see it in February.

00:06:42.380 I'm going to, I'm going to, and I'm going to listen.

00:06:45.620 I'm going to get you information.

00:06:46.700 I'm going to put it on my calendar.

00:06:48.320 I'm going to put February, the launch of Wife School.

00:06:52.340 And you, and because what's happened is people have told me they were going to do stuff, but they saw the views.

00:06:56.820 They saw the money and the other stuff because it's not going to be money in that initially.

00:07:00.580 And that's going to take you a lot of time, energy, and effort.

00:07:03.240 Oh, I disagree.

00:07:04.380 I am entertaining.

00:07:05.800 You can't, you can't not, I will make that show so entertaining.

00:07:09.180 I will make it so entertaining.

00:07:10.560 And it's going to be good because I am, I am so good at networking.

00:07:13.940 I can get really good.

00:07:15.180 It's going to be good.

00:07:16.000 If you, if you really believe that there's going to be more views in wife school and wife.

00:07:21.220 The way I'll do it.

00:07:22.620 Yeah.

00:07:23.060 Tell me how you're going to do it.

00:07:24.120 Teach me.

00:07:24.680 It's going to be funny.

00:07:25.820 Teach me.

00:07:26.260 Yeah.

00:07:26.460 Yeah.

00:07:26.580 So, so basically what I want to do is I want to bring,

00:07:30.240 it's going to be me.

00:07:31.160 It's going to be my friend, Jess.

00:07:32.460 Yes.

00:07:32.780 But I'm also going to bring in like the craziest 304s ever. 0.90

00:07:36.020 You see, now you got to, now you got to make it funny.

00:07:38.680 You got to make it funny because I like, but this is what I feel like you, you lose because

00:07:42.680 you need to make it entertaining to reach the most people.

00:07:45.260 And that's, you might not like that, but it's like the more people you reach, the, the better

00:07:50.600 your impact is.

00:07:51.600 If you, and so, and, and, and you, and you don't know if those girls, like, you don't know 1.00

00:07:55.900 if those girls could be saved.

00:07:57.100 You have no idea.

00:07:58.080 You have no idea.

00:07:58.820 Here's the reality.

00:08:00.460 You're a hundred percent right.

00:08:01.880 If you want to sell the most juice, maximum Kool-Aid, minimum medicine.

00:08:06.440 And there's a, and there's a balance.

00:08:08.280 There's a balance, but what you, you're a hundred percent true.

00:08:11.400 The less medicine and the more Kool-Aid, the more people will buy it.

00:08:15.140 But then on the flip side, you get to the point where you're like, I want to reach the

00:08:19.160 masses.

00:08:19.640 I want to sell my drink to the masses.

00:08:21.440 And you realize that the best way to sell your drink to the masses is do what?

00:08:24.460 Give them straight Kool-Aid. 0.96

00:08:26.120 Not saying you're giving them straight Kool-Aid for my,

00:08:28.820 I'm losing, you're losing me on this analogy.

00:08:30.920 I need you to dumb it down slightly.

00:08:32.640 So there's, there's this phrase about putting the medicine in the Kool-Aid.

00:08:38.420 The Kool-Aid is a drink.

00:08:39.740 Okay.

00:08:40.240 That African-Americans consume in two major flavors. 0.99

00:08:43.740 I know, I know what Kool-Aid is.

00:08:44.540 Oh, you know, Kool-Aid.

00:08:45.180 I know, I know what Kool-Aid is.

00:08:46.620 So, so there's another, so there's a, there's purple.

00:08:48.260 I just didn't understand like what was the medicine and what was, yeah.

00:08:50.660 Cool.

00:08:50.980 Yeah.

00:08:51.360 I'm sorry.

00:08:51.920 Okay.

00:08:52.180 I'll break it down.

00:08:52.960 Okay.

00:08:53.280 There's purple Kool-Aid.

00:08:54.400 You familiar with purple Kool-Aid?

00:08:55.500 You guys might call it grape Kool-Aid.

00:08:56.980 Yeah.

00:08:57.260 I mean, I know, I never drank it, but I know what it is.

00:08:59.420 Okay.

00:08:59.720 Yeah.

00:08:59.900 So there's something black people call it purple Kool-Aid.

00:09:02.520 Everyone else calls it grape. 0.83

00:09:03.640 Yeah.

00:09:03.880 There's another drink called Robitussin.

00:09:06.560 It looks very, very similar.

00:09:08.780 It's good for your coughs.

00:09:10.060 It's good for colds.

00:09:10.800 It's good for flus.

00:09:11.780 What ends up happening is that when you want your children to drink the Robitussin, have

00:09:15.900 you ever done, drink Robitussin before?

00:09:17.580 No.

00:09:18.040 You never drank Robitussin?

00:09:19.080 I don't know what that is.

00:09:19.700 Have you guys drank Robitussin?

00:09:20.400 I don't know.

00:09:20.580 This is, this is why.

00:09:21.340 My people know.

00:09:22.640 My people know.

00:09:23.520 That's why this analogy is last.

00:09:24.980 I was like, I don't even know what he's talking about.

00:09:26.400 Robitussin is cough syrup.

00:09:27.580 Okay.

00:09:28.000 Cough syrup.

00:09:28.320 Have you ever drank cough syrup before when you had a sore thrower at coughs?

00:09:32.260 Yeah.

00:09:32.660 Yeah.

00:09:33.880 I didn't know the name of it.

00:09:35.740 It might have been.

00:09:36.320 Yeah.

00:09:36.360 So when you drink cough syrup, did it taste good or did it taste bad?

00:09:40.100 It tasted bad.

00:09:41.220 Exactly.

00:09:41.800 Cough syrup tastes bad.

00:09:42.760 So you'd put the cough syrup in the Kool-Aid.

00:09:44.480 Yeah.

00:09:44.680 Is that what you're saying?

00:09:45.040 So they can drink it.

00:09:46.420 Yeah.

00:09:46.620 And so they can get the medicinal flavors.

00:09:48.500 Yeah.

00:09:48.800 But then they'll be able to digest it.

00:09:50.420 Yeah.

00:09:50.680 Here's the problem.

00:09:51.480 It waters it down.

00:09:52.520 Right?

00:09:53.060 Here's the problem.

00:09:53.860 That eventually you realize that if you really, really, really want them to drink the juice,

00:09:58.720 you've got to remove the cough syrup.

00:10:00.320 So it's this idea of you're right.

00:10:02.360 You're 100% right.

00:10:03.300 The more entertaining things are, the more views it gets.

00:10:07.420 And I know this.

00:10:08.120 You said, this is why you lose.

00:10:09.220 No, I knew this.

00:10:10.420 You didn't meet me because of, you didn't meet me back in 2010 just because we were just

00:10:15.380 simply just giving straight facts.

00:10:17.120 A lot of people met me in 2010, 2020 because of my live stream.

00:10:21.040 When I was doing the live stream with the pepper soup and all that stuff, I understand

00:10:24.040 how it worked.

00:10:24.920 Kevin Samuels talked a lot to me about those things that he was doing as well.

00:10:29.960 So I 100% know it works.

00:10:31.660 But what I've also learned is that it comes a time and a place where you realize that the

00:10:36.960 people, all they want is the sugar.

00:10:39.680 You fed them sugar.

00:10:40.840 All they want is the sugar.

00:10:42.120 They want no medicinal value.

00:10:43.760 And if you're truly trying to give them medicine, sometimes you've got to give them the most,

00:10:48.200 you've got to find that balance.

00:10:49.300 And that balance is not pure entertainment.

00:10:52.160 So if you're truly, if you're truly.

00:10:53.820 Which is, which is why I'm doing the school.

00:10:56.000 But, yeah.

00:10:56.540 But when you say.

00:10:57.580 It's got to be bold.

00:10:58.500 When you told, when you said you're trying to bring three or whatever that red pill word

00:11:02.920 is, three or four, whatever the heck it is.

00:11:05.020 If you're trying to bring, like, like, are you like that?

00:11:07.660 That's entertainment.

00:11:08.600 You're not even being serious.

00:11:09.780 Yeah.

00:11:10.000 If you really, if you really want.

00:11:11.840 What's wrong with being entertaining?

00:11:13.640 It's not.

00:11:14.140 What's wrong with that?

00:11:14.940 There's nothing wrong with being entertaining.

00:11:17.500 Yeah.

00:11:17.820 But if you are trying to help women become better, and you're telling me you can get 1.00

00:11:23.080 10 hoes from down, down off Crenshaw to be on the show. 1.00

00:11:27.460 Who are you?

00:11:28.360 Who is the show for?

00:11:29.300 Men or for women? 0.87

00:11:30.260 Who is, who is, you can't, you can't save hoes. 1.00

00:11:32.240 You can't help them.

00:11:33.160 Stop playing this game.

00:11:34.140 The only reason you're bringing those.

00:11:35.660 You keep accusing me of playing games.

00:11:37.940 Games is a word.

00:11:38.900 Pearlie, where are you from?

00:11:39.800 Where are you from?

00:11:40.320 It's like.

00:11:40.660 Where are you from?

00:11:41.340 Where are you from?

00:11:41.980 Well, I'm from Chicago suburbs.

00:11:43.660 Oh my gosh.

00:11:44.720 Yeah.

00:11:44.980 You don't know none of the lingo.

00:11:46.560 You know what's going on?

00:11:47.320 I've only been in the UK for too long.

00:11:48.740 It's just words, girl.

00:11:49.960 No, I, I know.

00:11:51.180 You're having a good time.

00:11:52.000 Are you okay?

00:11:52.580 Yeah, I'm okay.

00:11:53.000 You're having a good time?

00:11:53.620 Yeah, I'm having a good time.

00:11:54.900 You need a break?

00:11:55.820 No, I'm okay.

00:11:56.320 You're good.

00:11:56.720 We're having, we're having fun.

00:11:58.520 Game's just a word.

00:11:59.500 Yeah, yeah.

00:11:59.820 I understand.

00:12:00.700 You good?

00:12:01.280 Yeah, I'm good.

00:12:02.000 I'm good.

00:12:02.360 Guys, we're having fun.

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JustPearlyThings - March 22, 2023

He Tried Critiquing Wife School

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