JustPearlyThings - Heated Debate On ABORTION

00:00:00.000 do you think that like the narrative of adoption this is a like completely neutral stance has been

00:00:06.560 like force-fed by the government to like depopulize um what do you mean um like lower the population

00:00:15.720 basically yeah do you think there's other uh beings at force that are feeding the narrative 0.97

00:00:21.920 and funding the there's just too much shit that like lines up like i don't know in the in the u.s 0.81

00:00:27.840 it's actually it's actually really creepy um because as i was saying earlier um i mean birth 0.94

00:00:33.340 control was developed in the 1960s and they then they develop abortion um i don't know if adoption

00:00:39.940 like goes into that because i'd imagine if people want a population control they would encourage

00:00:44.460 abortion over adoption um but now in the u.s it's actually really like margaret sanger was a eugenicist

00:00:52.480 and that's the number one provider of planned parenthood and her her goal was to exterminate 1.00

00:00:56.280 the black population and she's doing it the black population would be double today in the u.s 1.00

00:01:00.320 and 80 of planned parenthoods are located located in a minority neighborhood and you when you think

00:01:05.800 about it like if a normal company that was how they were founded people would be up in arms but nobody

00:01:10.960 cares and it's like a genocide that's happening in front of our eyes and they they mark like they

00:01:15.880 would have marketing plans that talked about like this is how we market it to low-income women this is 1.00

00:01:21.600 how we market it that still exists as a company it's like you know they they denounce it but it's

00:01:26.340 like if you say oh we're not doing it but you're still doing the same thing it's like i but you

00:01:33.160 know no one cares and because it's like a woman's right to choose and it's interesting because i don't 0.73

00:01:39.440 know if you've looked at like the marketing language that they talk about where it's like they instead of

00:01:44.960 calling it a baby they'll call it a fetus and they do that like language is important and they do that

00:01:49.540 so people aren't as aware of what they're doing and it's kind of like you know when she said she

00:01:53.920 had her abortion and it came out and it was a full a full child she had no idea do you think that like 0.94

00:01:59.380 the uh abortion uh companies or services insert appropriate word there um intentionally hide the

00:02:08.360 visual graphic side of it for that or do you think they've heard someone come to them and say i don't

00:02:14.200 want this this is my choice and then they are protecting their mental health which is what they've come to

00:02:18.420 say that they can't have it for um 100 i mean too many people which way does that go i just i just

00:02:24.760 think it's a business and i just think they're trying to make and and there is a girl that quit

00:02:29.080 planned parenthood that came out and talked about this how um what they do is they put you on birth

00:02:34.100 control that doesn't really work so how many girls take the pill at the same time every day 1.00

00:02:37.920 and that they try to push those and then what they'll do is they'll um then push abortion and

00:02:44.700 they're supposed to push like a like say this is your option for adoption this is this this is that

00:02:49.420 but they don't really do that they just push abortion and then they get paid for yes that's

00:02:54.260 what she said in the uk and the u.s in the u.s and why like they they say oh we have all these

00:02:59.540 different services but why are the planned parenthood clinics shutting down in the u.s if that's true

00:03:04.660 when roe versus wade was passed if it's just one of many services and in the uk the same thing

00:03:09.760 i don't um the uk know they're government funded so there you go to nhs 90 i think it says so it's

00:03:17.520 not a business driven decision here the same way but still there's people who have got those

00:03:21.900 um kind of contracts so mary soaps and bpass have uh abortion industries that are have got those 0.68

00:03:30.260 contracts and they have like we could like google the profits of their company and actually see whether

00:03:35.400 they are profiting from the decisions based and therefore give like an in an intention as to why

00:03:41.400 they would hide the graphics and visuals behind it i know obviously the experience that you guys think

00:03:45.960 i think about okay think of imagine you're you're selling something and your goal is to make money

00:03:50.120 yeah i don't i don't necessarily think that every person that works at planned parenthood

00:03:54.200 is thinking about eugenics right i don't necessarily but i do think people in general want to make money

00:04:00.240 money so if you were going to start a planned parenthood and you put it in you put it somewhere

00:04:04.720 right and you found out that you lose 50 of your customer base let's i'm just doing a number i don't

00:04:10.340 know what they actually are but let's say you lose 50 of your customer base and you get paid um let's say

00:04:15.380 a thousand dollars per abortion so if there's 20 customers that come in you could get twenty thousand

00:04:19.920 dollars um and let's say so you can make twenty thousand dollars without showing them anything

00:04:26.780 or you can make ten thousand dollars and show them stuff what are you what are you going to do

00:04:32.200 yeah is my guess but i don't i don't actually know and in the uk and then the uk well the uk so

00:04:38.140 privately funded so in the uk sorry in the in the uk like you have to understand there's still government

00:04:43.400 contracts so like right now i have a private business like i i own the studio this is like just me

00:04:49.980 but let's say i wanted to be get fund i'm looking when i go to the u.s um about getting seeing if like

00:04:55.500 different cities um could give us funding potentially and you still have to like bid for

00:05:00.220 a contract so if you want to go i don't know into sell missiles to the government like you still have

00:05:07.180 to bid and like there's still money and you see what i'm saying it just comes someone somewhere in

00:05:12.380 the uk that is making money of not showing people the graphics and visual sides of abortions as is my

00:05:20.380 guess i'm not i don't know this i'm just that's that's what i would guess is they're in it for money

00:05:25.500 question the question is really why are they not showing those those i guess because more people

00:05:32.660 would say no yeah my yeah i guess my my assumption of it is obviously there's that side of it but also

00:05:37.580 like if you've gone there and you said like i don't want to keep this baby based on my mental health

00:05:43.540 from a psychologist's stance would it be good for your mental health to then show you an extremely

00:05:48.800 graphic image or procedure when you've already decided that you don't want that yeah like at what

00:05:52.860 point does it become protection of your mental health which is the reason why you went in the

00:05:55.880 first place 100 because if your mental health is bad now and then you you have an abortion and see

00:06:02.140 what the hell is going on here it's going to get way worse than it already was yeah yeah 100 like 0.60

00:06:09.520 imagine if before imagine if if your mental health was bad like you're depressed and anxious

00:06:15.940 everything and then they they for example you don't get shown the video right and then you have

00:06:21.980 the abortion and then you you become more depressed because like if you if they actually just gave you

00:06:26.700 that warning sign like okay look here's what it looks like here's what it's going to be here's what

00:06:31.280 it might happen here you know you kind of would consider it like oh i think my mental health would get way

00:06:35.860 worse and i feel like let me just try and give it a go you know i think it's so you do believe their

00:06:40.140 intention isn't to protect your mental health on any level and that's why they've not decided to

00:06:44.200 show you the picture before despite offering you do you think counseling services after do you think

00:06:48.720 intention matters if the outcome is is if the out does intention matter if the outcome is women 0.96

00:06:54.820 not being informed about a medical procedure i think that it's important to be objective and

00:06:59.980 understand as to why that decision was made like subjectively obviously being explained medical

00:07:07.160 procedures maybe a good implementation in that process would be to be given the choice

00:07:11.460 do you want to see this do you not i don't know if that is an option or not whether you actually

00:07:15.340 are given that choice no it's not but i feel like if we because obviously if i've come to a doctor and

00:07:20.840 said like i'm experiencing xyz and i'm suffering and i can't do this and i don't want this and i

00:07:25.220 mental health tick they're not gonna then just like oh and by the way here's a slideshow that i

00:07:32.940 prepared earlier of extremely graphic images that you're about to decide that you want to

00:07:37.140 go through yeah but they should tell you what's going on yeah but did they not even did they not

00:07:41.920 explain to you that you're you're gonna have the baby removed from your body is that they didn't

00:07:45.720 even explain conditions that you must surely you have to sign somewhere let her yeah go ahead 0.95

00:07:50.340 they don't even show you like what it can look like like say like the stages of the baby they don't

00:07:56.620 even show you that did you sign anything they just say the tissues will come out the tissues they

00:08:01.460 don't even say a baby or a body or anything just tissues cells how they say do you sign it off like

00:08:08.420 is it like oh that's just mad i can't i can't remember if i was quite long ago um yeah because

00:08:14.000 that like surely if you signed it like what are you actually signing like did you read it you know

00:08:18.820 like is there an actual like uh comprehensive understanding of like how does it work this is

00:08:24.440 part of the informing process though because like i mentioned before and as i feel like everybody

00:08:29.840 would agree on this panel if you're going in for a procedure in the hospital everything is explained

00:08:34.760 to you you you you are walked through whatever procedure you're going to have with that consultant

00:08:41.260 before you get to the end point where you are signing off because i do remember i did sign a

00:08:47.040 piece of paper now am i signing that piece of paper based on being informed properly or am i signing that

00:08:53.200 piece of paper based on the other elements that are taking place and the other circumstances that has

00:09:01.200 brought me to that point does that make sense yeah um so no doctors are not carefully um considering

00:09:08.580 what this woman is going through because if you did you would then walk her through that process 1.00

00:09:15.520 yeah why are you why is it such a rest decision to get her to sign that piece of paper or to agree

00:09:21.900 to having that abortion i don't see the duty of care in that are we displayed like or is it like

00:09:28.960 a given that in all um so like across the board of all medical procedures in the uk are we always

00:09:34.360 given pictures and videos of the procedure that we're about to go under no but we can at least

00:09:38.320 google it that's why so we cannot google abortion no it's very hard it's very hard but is it possible

00:09:44.260 because we have the pamphlet right there that displays no that's no that's why like in all

00:09:49.960 honesty that's why i invited her on because that's why no because no because because i i tried to do

00:09:56.700 a similar like show a couple months ago and i just thought it was crazy that i couldn't find

00:10:02.640 videos and pictures at each stage of the development that was like clear and actual pictures and videos

00:10:08.020 of the i couldn't find it for the life of me i'm not saying it's not there but you don't think

00:10:13.220 it's strange that a procedure that's so common like the information should be at the top of google but

00:10:19.800 it's not and and my mind goes to why who protects google's images like who hides it in google a matrix

00:10:28.280 the matrix the matrix if you know probably even on this show they'll be there now started doing an

00:10:36.080 abortion since roe v wave was overturned they've now started doing an abortion warning just like they

00:10:41.500 did with covid and vaccination you know if anyone said anything they they put a you know this is a

00:10:46.740 link to the nhs so they're doing the same with abortion um just that that warning to say that

00:10:52.980 it's just to try and get that there's only one kind of narrative and it's the nhs and also they

00:10:59.860 don't really give you like they they need they kind of like make you rush into it as well they're

00:11:05.020 kind of like okay so have you decided okay so you have this choice what is it going to be you know

00:11:09.460 it's like okay like let me think about it you know and and they like when i was quite young when i had

00:11:14.600 it done so i was a child really so how can a child decide on a child's life if that makes sense like

00:11:19.720 it it kind of has to have some sort of age limit as well i think like i don't know if there's just

00:11:25.280 to be an age limit on sex then at the same point in time like do you think the two should go hand

00:11:29.440 in hand or yeah 100 yeah yeah i mean yeah i think we'd agree like 10 too young yeah like at some

00:11:39.440 point there is a limit i mean i guess you can't stop them but your parents should be involved

00:11:45.120 definitely i think parents have a big part to play in this because just going back to what

00:11:49.560 you're saying um like if my daughter was to have a procedure again i have to keep using this

00:11:56.000 in line i will definitely have a part to play in making sure that that procedure that she's having 1.00

00:12:04.080 i'm happy with it because by law she's not deemed as i didn't tell my mum yeah neither did i yeah do

00:12:11.460 you know what i mean but by law but no my mum already knows yeah um and that was part of my

00:12:19.560 healing process because i just thought why should i have to hide that like that was a big part of me

00:12:24.020 do you know what i mean and i at the point at that time i feel like i was so i felt like i was so alone

00:12:31.060 i felt like i had to keep it a secret why do you know what i mean that was just it was it changed

00:12:38.300 my life significantly and i feel like i should have had the support even if i was to have gone

00:12:42.920 through with it in being at least you would know do you know what i mean i just shouldn't have had

00:12:48.700 to walk walk alone do you know what i mean yeah would you um have an abortion now like if i was to

00:12:56.340 have one that could be yeah sure oh that's not the question that's a good question yeah no i wouldn't

00:13:03.540 obviously because of the experiences that i've had obviously i've taken precautions now i'm so

00:13:07.540 like really um different about it but yeah no i wouldn't because how old are you 25 25 do you um

00:13:15.380 if you could like never had another child would that make you think differently about the abortions

00:13:20.640 i i could never think like that because it would do i would i'd be depressed and and if i was to

00:13:26.280 think about the moments that i've experienced in during abortions for example like it's depressing

00:13:30.980 like i would be depressed i would be like you know i'm unhappy i just wonder if as many women 1.00

00:13:36.560 would abort their children if like they knew that they wouldn't have another like if that was their 0.93

00:13:41.700 only child do you think like women would move the same way that actually crosses your mind as well 0.97

00:13:45.980 when you are pregnant like you actually think oh what if you know but yeah i mean you can't change it

00:13:51.860 you're right there's no point in like exactly yeah but i was just curious did you have children later

00:13:56.480 i have five oh you have five kids oh that's so nice yeah i have my first daughter is actually

00:14:03.060 my stepdaughter um so i'm married obviously as i stated in the beginning and then my husband and i

00:14:10.260 have all together as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - May 17, 2023

Heated Debate On ABORTION

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