Heated Debate On CHEATING
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Summary
In this episode we talk about cheating and why it's a big no no in our society. We also talk about why cheating is a bad thing to do and why you should be honest with your partner. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for the next one!
Transcript
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But the effects of a single mother home are worse.
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And every stat will tell you you're more likely to commit suicide.
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Like, every real problem in society is literally linked to a single mother home.
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And so my thing is, like, I just think once you have a family, it's not about you anymore.
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And so it's like this, you know, this idea that we can't work through cheating, I just think is silly.
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You know, it's all about honesty, I reckon, you know.
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Honesty is, I think, like, cheating wouldn't be a thing if it was for the honesty.
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Side of things, you know, I mean, depending on what you're looking for.
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See, like, in 2023 now, yeah, even myself, I've been involved in a throuple, yeah.
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But it's just a case of honesty, you know what I mean?
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It's like 23% of women are actually open to that, where only 6% of men are.
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Yeah, I think it can happen if you're, like you said, honest and open.
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Well, I mean, how many women, like, do, like, we all, we all know a lot of women who have
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But, like, yeah, like, every guy is going back to his girlfriend being like, yeah, he's cheating.
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Like, a lot of women out there just have no idea they're being cheated on.
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So, like, maybe they would be happier if they were just at least honest about it.
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I've seen a lot of nice people get fucked over and a lot of assholes get great lives.
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Yeah, but you haven't read the end of the chapter.
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Yeah, I know, but so long as there's life, there's an opportunity for karma to be inflicted.
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I'm telling you, if you are a man who breaks people's hearts and you boast about it and you're proud and you look in the mirror and you feel more of a man, then there's something...
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Guys, let's ask this question, get straight to the chase.
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Why would you feel bad about something that's normal?
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We said a majority of people cheat, so it's normal now.
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No, no, I said throughout history, the top 15% of men have always cheated.
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Yeah, yeah, but still, regardless of the statistics and where they sway, it's a wrong thing to do.
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The side of cheating, which is wrong, is the emotional damage which provides to the other person.
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That's what we feel every time around, you know what I mean?
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So when you're in a relationship with a person that you love, like, for instance, I've been in a relationship, a long-term relationship.
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And to me, personally, it was nothing to do with whether I love her or not, you know what I mean?
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I just found out in later life that I like different types of varieties of pom-pom.
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But at the same said time, that doesn't mean that I didn't love my girlfriend.
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You can still love your girl, but it's just the excitement of another female.
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No, no, but you can be, you can still love that female.
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Basically, what you're saying is, as a woman, if you want to get in a relationship, we have
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You're saying like the top 15 to 20 men cheat, right?
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So I feel like as women, we do need to take the more responsible role of choosing better
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men because we have that 80 whole percent of men that don't.
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Like for the last actual couple of months, only recently.
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And that's big from watching your show is actually.
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And it's opened my mind a lot because it's just like, we have a whole 80 percent.
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And we don't want to generalize men because not everyone cheats, right?
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Well, and when you think about it, so like women used to select for resources, right?
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More so than looks because when, because we, like we didn't work and usually you would
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live at your dad's house and then you would go to your husband until about the 20s
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So what happened is when that, when women started being the like selectors of mates,
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And so, but what percent of men do we find attractive?
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So back in the day, the dad would like, like say, oh no, he's going to cheat on you.
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But then women in their 30s, they'll switch because it's like they need a kid, time's running
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And so they'll switch from selecting for looks to selecting for more provider first.
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But it's like, if you did that in the beginning.
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These, these men, we're sitting here going, right?
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You're going to tell me the other 80 percent, if they had it on the table, they wouldn't
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do the, men or just men, you know, like us labeling these 20 percent as arseholes just
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No, I think there's, there's definitely exceptions to the rule.
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Like, and like, I think me and my guy over here have a similar story in that, you know,
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unfortunately, like we have this thing where we're very immature and we mature later on
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So yeah, we, we go through this period where like, let's be real.
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We want to try everything on the menu, you know, we don't want to be sitting 50 year old
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wondering what was, what would that have been like?
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Like we want to know, and actually you kind of have to get that out of your system before
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And one woman who looks after you, who's got your back and really cares about you is
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But you're not going to come to that when you're in your childish state of mind.
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And unfortunately, some of you girls are victims during that period.
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But I also think like women, like we should know what we're getting ourselves into.
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Like if you go for the guy that's rich, he's got money, he's tall, like, you know,
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it's a, it's a strong possibility he's going to do that.
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If he does don't have a kid and then cry cheating later.
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Cause girls are going to central London, for instance, they're looking for the guy with
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They want a guy with this, this, this, these big chains.
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But like, that's what girls, that's what girls are intrigued to.
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So girls, you girls, like men are only as faithful as their options, but are women really any
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Like, let's, let's, let's say you meet two guys at the same time.
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You're, you are going to also be a bit more drawn like to this guy who's the provider, the,
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I think I feel like, you know, years ago, it wasn't so much accessible.
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Well, judging by Instagram and the way women post anything that is like, like I've sat
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in restaurants before where a woman has literally had a guy taking pictures of her, eating her
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fucking dinner for 15 fucking minutes, wondering why is she taking a picture in this restaurant?
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Cause she wants everyone to know what restaurant she's in and he's the one paying for it.
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So let's not add like women don't value this because it's literally all over London every
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But what sort of what we, when we keep using this term, sorry, it's really irating me.
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Women, what, what, a real woman doesn't do that.
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My mom would never in a million years go to Nobukov and take a picture and be like, Hey,
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real woman probably don't even have social reasons.
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But no, but no, you can't, we can't speak of women as a general woman.
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But you also didn't know your mother 20 years old.
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Can you, can we make a general consensus that the women in their twenties today are different,
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are of a different cloth than the women, let's say in their fifties today?
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The women in their fifties are more traditional than the women in their twenties.
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I have best friends who like, who openly say to me like, Oh yeah, he's got a girlfriend
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or he's got a wife and they're happily ready to break a happy home.
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And I put myself in a category of, um, I'm like an honest fuck boy.
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At that point, you know, when I'm, when I'm honest about my, my, my linkups and whatnot,
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other women tend to be more attracted to the situation.
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First of all, they go away a little bit hurt and whatnot.
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But then they come back after a while and be, you know, they're reasonable.
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And then, yeah, it just seems more appealing for some reason.
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Why not just be out here prowling and sleeping with a new girl every other day?
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But at least you're not hurting another individual.
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I don't care whether we're talking about the 20th century or the 19th century.
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There is nothing nice about harming another individual.