JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023


Her Delusion Is UNMATCHED


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

231.80952

Word Count

2,554

Sentence Count

276

Misogynist Sentences

24

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I just still think that men are looking for things they don't have themselves.
00:00:07.040 They don't have the minerals for the things that they want in the women.
00:00:09.420 So they just pick women based off looks.
00:00:11.400 They don't know what they want anyway.
00:00:12.600 They think they know what they want, but they haven't even got the minerals anyway.
00:00:15.880 Is it possible that women don't have what they want?
00:00:18.540 Absolutely.
00:00:19.440 Right.
00:00:19.800 So how would they pick it if the dating pool has like one out of every three women's had an abortion,
00:00:24.860 one of every three women has an STD, like 38, 40% grew up without a dad.
00:00:30.840 So they don't have that model.
00:00:31.820 Like, how would they wear?
00:00:33.840 How would they know?
00:00:34.660 Yeah.
00:00:34.920 How good women is?
00:00:36.140 Yeah.
00:00:36.280 Like they've never like what percent of men have like even seen a true traditional woman?
00:00:40.640 I don't think.
00:00:41.220 Yeah.
00:00:41.960 Do you know any women with like recipe books?
00:00:44.900 Only, only the high, only celebrities.
00:00:47.640 Nice, nice too.
00:00:48.700 But only like the upper class, high celebrity profile people.
00:00:52.260 Yeah.
00:00:52.680 And then these two now.
00:00:53.880 Okay.
00:00:54.100 My whole, and my whole family.
00:00:56.700 And then when I go there, they're like, oh, so modern, you know, everyone still cooks the same meals.
00:01:04.420 But, so I'm just curious, like when you're hearing these stats, like assuming I'm telling you the truth,
00:01:09.320 you don't think like it puts more of the promiscuity on women because we're only sleeping with 20% of men.
00:01:15.740 So like that means 80% of us are sleeping with 20% of men.
00:01:19.840 Wow.
00:01:22.660 That's attacking.
00:01:23.380 Like, okay, I'll give you an example.
00:01:25.340 How, how tall was your last boyfriend?
00:01:28.000 6'1".
00:01:28.680 Okay.
00:01:29.100 Okay.
00:01:29.120 Okay.
00:01:29.140 What percent of men do you think are 6'1"?
00:01:33.380 Maybe like, it's not, it's not, it's not, it's not 6'1".
00:01:36.180 30%?
00:01:37.900 10.
00:01:38.680 10%.
00:01:39.280 10%.
00:01:39.320 10%.
00:01:39.780 So you had a top, did he, how much money did he make?
00:01:43.620 Well, he had, he had his own houses and a business.
00:01:45.800 He sells cars.
00:01:46.460 Okay.
00:01:47.440 So roughly, how much do you think he made?
00:01:50.460 I didn't, I, she don't know that.
00:01:52.080 Yeah, I'm not one to.
00:01:53.540 The man ain't telling you that.
00:01:54.680 Yeah.
00:01:55.360 But he owned a house.
00:01:55.980 I know about his business and that, you know, and things like that.
00:01:58.480 But I don't know the figures.
00:01:59.960 In London?
00:02:00.740 In Essex.
00:02:01.620 Oh, in Essex.
00:02:02.280 Yeah.
00:02:02.900 Okay.
00:02:03.260 So if he owned a house, he probably made at least like 60, 70, I guess.
00:02:07.620 Who knows?
00:02:07.960 He had a nice range.
00:02:08.780 Okay.
00:02:09.080 So he's, he's probably, I'm guessing, right?
00:02:11.480 I don't actually know.
00:02:12.600 You guys would know London prices more than me, but he's probably still top 20% of income.
00:02:17.060 Probably because buying a house in Essex is cheap.
00:02:19.820 Yeah.
00:02:20.500 Okay.
00:02:20.900 So top 20%.
00:02:22.060 So you had a guy top 10% height, top 20% income.
00:02:25.740 Was he attractive?
00:02:26.920 Was he good looking?
00:02:27.520 Yeah, he was.
00:02:28.080 Yeah.
00:02:28.200 So in women, so, you know, women, we find 80% of men is ugly.
00:02:32.400 So if he, if you find him attractive, that means he's top 20%.
00:02:35.420 Right.
00:02:35.920 You should maybe call him.
00:02:37.040 Is he still single?
00:02:37.600 No, he's been trying to holler at me, to be honest.
00:02:39.360 I don't have to block him.
00:02:41.180 Girl, you should.
00:02:41.420 So what?
00:02:41.940 Why not?
00:02:42.700 Because he's not, he's not the one for me.
00:02:44.400 What is, what is the one?
00:02:45.600 So it seems like he has a good job.
00:02:47.020 He's not the one for me.
00:02:47.760 He's attractive and tall.
00:02:48.980 It doesn't matter.
00:02:49.600 His personal.
00:02:50.200 I think that's the daddy issue.
00:02:51.420 No, no, no, it's not.
00:02:52.540 I'm very smart.
00:02:53.320 Trust me.
00:02:53.620 Like, he was wearing a mask when we first met and then his true colors came out and
00:02:57.940 I saw in certain behaviors that he was portraying.
00:03:00.580 What true colors?
00:03:01.800 So like, you know, he was very aggressive sometimes and he, I felt like his moral.
00:03:07.080 What do you mean aggressive?
00:03:07.920 Did he hit you?
00:03:09.340 No, no, he didn't hit me.
00:03:10.700 No.
00:03:10.860 Okay.
00:03:11.000 So he didn't hit you.
00:03:11.420 Well, he, he pushed me, he, he shoved me very hard and it was for a very pathetic reason
00:03:15.860 and he's a liar.
00:03:16.900 Did you shove him at all?
00:03:17.900 No.
00:03:18.040 Or he was just one sided?
00:03:19.060 No, I don't like to be aggressive.
00:03:20.060 I don't believe in that shit no more.
00:03:21.440 I've grown up, you know?
00:03:22.360 Okay.
00:03:22.540 So he, he shoved you one time and then you died.
00:03:24.660 Yeah.
00:03:24.680 And it was very, and it was petty and he lied at the time as well.
00:03:27.180 And I knew he was lying about picking up his kids when he wasn't going, he, he changed
00:03:31.560 his story.
00:03:31.980 Like I'm very observant when people speak.
00:03:33.580 He lied about picking up his kids?
00:03:34.620 So I spent a couple of days with him and he, and I was supposed to say the last day and he, and
00:03:38.220 he, all of a sudden he's got to go and pick up his kids, but he, you're lying.
00:03:41.240 And so it's like, you're making me feel like you don't want to see, you don't want to, you
00:03:44.460 don't want me to stay anymore.
00:03:45.440 So, and then that happened.
00:03:46.820 And then we broke up and now he wants me back.
00:03:49.220 How do you know he wasn't picking up his kids?
00:03:50.540 I know he wasn't because his story changed.
00:03:52.080 He told me something.
00:03:52.760 We planned something from the get go.
00:03:54.680 So I know.
00:03:55.260 So, so you didn't, you don't have no physical evidence of that.
00:03:58.440 So you wanted his time over the kids.
00:03:59.760 I do.
00:04:00.040 I do.
00:04:00.160 It's very, it's very technical, but it's long.
00:04:02.140 You'd think I'm crazy if I go into it right now.
00:04:03.780 How did the shoving happen?
00:04:05.040 Like what, what, what led up to that?
00:04:06.620 Cause he wanted me to leave.
00:04:07.980 Okay.
00:04:08.280 So you literally, and he tried to drag me for, okay.
00:04:11.460 So would you, were you refusing to leave?
00:04:13.500 Yeah.
00:04:14.040 Well, because I was in my feelings because I knew he was lying.
00:04:16.660 Like, come on.
00:04:17.380 I don't.
00:04:17.720 Okay.
00:04:18.020 Okay.
00:04:18.660 But you kind of, you kind of frame this.
00:04:20.460 Yeah.
00:04:22.680 Why do, why do a lot of women, they like, they, they accuse a man of being like the bad guy,
00:04:26.560 the guy that hurts them, the guy that beats them.
00:04:28.360 But then the reason they, like they made, they caused the reason.
00:04:31.520 Cause if you physically don't move in certain spaces.
00:04:33.840 No, sorry.
00:04:34.860 It's the way you, it's the way you speak to someone.
00:04:37.320 It's the way you conduct yourself in that situation.
00:04:39.540 But if you're in, this has happened to me before.
00:04:41.180 I've been, Esther, you know, you know, no, there was a girl here and I asked her to leave
00:04:48.860 and she didn't like the way I asked her to leave.
00:04:50.900 Right.
00:04:51.300 And then she starts yelling at me.
00:04:53.180 Um, and then, um, well, we didn't have security then, but my security would have just picked
00:04:57.900 her up and taken her up and taken her out.
00:04:59.100 No, how?
00:04:59.560 But then it's like the way you're saying this, it's like, what other options do you have?
00:05:02.840 I wouldn't have done that.
00:05:03.780 How do you say that?
00:05:04.180 See, the thing, I wouldn't have done that.
00:05:05.260 But when it's an emotional, sexual connection, you've got other feelings, like you feel rejection,
00:05:09.500 you feel like you're being violated.
00:05:10.860 It just feels, it's kind of different.
00:05:12.220 You're kind of, so you're kind of making yourself, so basically like you were kind of overbearing
00:05:17.060 because he, you thought he did something and you had no proof he did it.
00:05:21.000 No, I did because he said what, he changed his story.
00:05:24.100 But you've never said two things that contradicted yourself ever.
00:05:27.340 I have.
00:05:28.940 I just, it just happens when you talk.
00:05:31.480 It's very easy to say the wrong thing if you've been cross-examined.
00:05:35.760 Because you know what, when you say earlier on where men are analysing women and women are
00:05:39.600 analysing men, he's looking at you like, rah.
00:05:41.760 So you're going to argue against me picking up my kids.
00:05:44.660 But I knew he wasn't.
00:05:45.700 It doesn't matter whether you know he's not, or it is, yeah.
00:05:48.920 In his head, rah, hold on, I'm telling you something about my kids and you're arguing
00:05:53.460 against my kids.
00:05:55.380 To him, the kids are the main priority.
00:05:57.820 Does he have a right to privacy?
00:06:00.740 Of course.
00:06:01.660 I'm not a possessive person.
00:06:02.980 Maybe there is something that he just didn't want you to know.
00:06:05.160 Maybe he was private with the mud.
00:06:06.880 Like, you know, I mean, like baby mama situations can be tricky.
00:06:10.280 Like, sometimes guys don't want to get you in on all the drama.
00:06:13.860 But it's like, you're going into it in bad faith, so you're assuming the worst, when maybe
00:06:17.820 it wasn't the worst.
00:06:18.940 No, I'm saying.
00:06:19.160 But I also feel like, it's just the way you conduct yourself in a sensitive situation as
00:06:22.560 well.
00:06:23.100 Like, I just feel like it's just a shot.
00:06:24.460 But couldn't we say that to you, though?
00:06:25.740 Because it's the way, like, you didn't listen when he said leave.
00:06:27.980 So it's kind of like, as women, like, we kind of have this double standard where we make
00:06:31.820 him the bad guy when it's like, you kind of started it.
00:06:34.280 But then, oh yeah, I remember now.
00:06:35.700 Also, the reason was, like, I've stayed in the house by myself before, and at this point,
00:06:39.200 he didn't want me to stay.
00:06:40.480 So it's like, if you love me, why can't I stay here while you go and pick up your child,
00:06:44.620 do what you need to do, and I'll stay here tonight, and you come back.
00:06:46.500 Yeah, because that's entitlement.
00:06:49.480 It's not your house.
00:06:51.420 Like, if I own this apartment, if I want anyone to leave at any time, I have the right to do
00:06:58.120 that.
00:06:59.360 Absolutely.
00:07:00.060 But that wasn't the issue.
00:07:01.300 Honestly, I didn't have an issue with that.
00:07:02.680 It was just the way it happened, and the things that he was saying, and the way he was speaking
00:07:05.700 to me.
00:07:06.080 It's just kind of like...
00:07:06.600 But this is like a lot of problems with women in relationships.
00:07:09.120 We want men to emote like women.
00:07:11.200 But he's not a woman.
00:07:12.300 He's a man.
00:07:12.920 Men don't speak like women do.
00:07:14.380 They're much more stern.
00:07:15.520 And so a lot of times, like, we think something's aggressive, but men are just more aggressive
00:07:19.380 than women.
00:07:20.640 Maybe you might want to call him.
00:07:21.780 But we're not aggressive.
00:07:22.280 He seems like a hard man to replace.
00:07:23.860 Can we just say that?
00:07:24.840 And say sorry.
00:07:25.620 And you said in the beginning that the men that like you, you don't want.
00:07:29.260 So that means the men you want don't want you.
00:07:31.220 Wow.
00:07:31.640 I haven't met the one, I think.
00:07:32.640 No, but that's what...
00:07:33.720 Any girl that's single, it just means the men you want don't want you.
00:07:36.720 And it's not meant to be offensive.
00:07:37.700 The thing is, it's actually crazy, because there's no one I actually want.
00:07:41.300 Apart from...
00:07:41.980 There's...
00:07:42.340 Okay, but...
00:07:42.820 Okay, come on.
00:07:43.780 There's nobody in the world that you would want.
00:07:45.700 I'm attracted to like someone, but he's like a celebrity.
00:07:49.620 You know, like sex appeal, but there's no one I actually want.
00:07:52.340 Okay, do you think you're on like the level of a celebrity?
00:07:55.180 Yeah.
00:07:56.720 You're not on the level of a celebrity.
00:07:58.520 I think I am.
00:08:00.020 I think I am.
00:08:01.100 I think I am.
00:08:02.500 I think I am.
00:08:03.480 No, you're a pretty girl.
00:08:04.640 I think I'm an amazing person if I'm being honest.
00:08:07.540 Celebrity's like top 10, 20% of beauty.
00:08:09.860 Yeah, but remember, I think I'm beautiful without the Botox, without the money, without
00:08:15.780 all that money, to do myself up.
00:08:17.280 So, I think I'm great.
00:08:18.460 I know.
00:08:18.660 This is like a cope I see women do.
00:08:20.880 Like, it's like, you think because they have money, they're beautiful when they got there.
00:08:25.920 Money helped.
00:08:26.640 But if you look at Margot Robbie before Fame, that girl was a 10.
00:08:29.500 I don't know who that is.
00:08:30.380 But then you're doing selectiveness because there's enough girls that go there and the
00:08:33.420 money glows them up only.
00:08:35.420 I disagree.
00:08:36.220 Not the girls that get there for looks alone.
00:08:38.460 Top 20% of beauty.
00:08:40.040 You can look at exceptions like that, like Kylie Jenner.
00:08:44.120 She's not beautiful.
00:08:46.040 She wasn't beautiful before.
00:08:47.580 She was cute, but yeah.
00:08:48.580 I mean, she wasn't that beautiful.
00:08:50.080 No, she gets fixed up.
00:08:50.680 She wasn't.
00:08:51.260 But I'm just saying, in general, guys, can we just talk in general instead of exceptions?
00:08:55.580 Most celebrities are top 20% of beauty in general.
00:08:58.220 Like, we could talk about, there's some exceptions, like Kylie Jenner did her lips, whatever.
00:09:03.320 But most people in Hollywood were the top 20% of beauty wherever they're from.
00:09:08.780 I still don't agree, but yeah.
00:09:10.260 Okay, I feel you.
00:09:11.140 I feel you.
00:09:12.700 I don't know.
00:09:13.180 Maybe you should call him.
00:09:14.220 No, definitely not.
00:09:16.420 He might.
00:09:17.080 Oh, I'm an apology.
00:09:18.240 I don't know.
00:09:18.800 No, we had a closure, but he's not the one for me.
00:09:21.980 He's not my soulmate.
00:09:22.920 What's the definition of the one?
00:09:24.740 I just feel like there's a difference in behavior.
00:09:27.440 And the way you feel as well, I can accept, I'm not a possessive person.
00:09:30.820 I can accept, I really like my independence, but I just know there's a certain way that
00:09:35.200 you will handle someone in those situations.
00:09:37.560 Are you your only child?
00:09:38.060 That just wasn't, I'm not, no, I've got loads of brothers and sisters.
00:09:39.820 You know what it is, though?
00:09:40.760 You know what it is?
00:09:41.200 Sorry, I just know within myself.
00:09:42.720 Sorry, are you your only child?
00:09:43.980 No, I've got brothers and sisters.
00:09:44.900 Are you the youngest?
00:09:45.840 I'm in the middle.
00:09:47.040 Oh, okay.
00:09:47.620 So, growing up, did your mum have a partner?
00:09:53.580 Did you have a stepdad around?
00:09:54.840 None.
00:09:54.960 Yeah, like, no, but not permanently.
00:09:57.780 So, in terms of looking up, do you know how to look after a man?
00:10:02.120 Of course.
00:10:03.020 No, because you're saying certain things that in a relationship, it's like, if you saw a
00:10:08.180 relationship with your mum and dad growing up, then there's certain things you wouldn't
00:10:11.280 do in a relationship, you get what I'm saying, to keep the man.
00:10:13.660 Listen, every man, every man that's been my boyfriend has returned, and they haven't
00:10:20.300 found better.
00:10:21.120 No, it's not.
00:10:21.740 Definitely not.
00:10:22.360 Have you ever been married?
00:10:24.200 Have you proposed to?
00:10:25.160 Yeah.
00:10:26.100 You've been proposed to?
00:10:27.340 Well, not like, on one knee.
00:10:29.840 I haven't had that experience yet, but I've had similar.
00:10:32.000 He bought you a ring?
00:10:32.580 Yes.
00:10:33.000 Oh, promissory.
00:10:33.520 I've had similar, but not like that.
00:10:35.040 We was young, so.
00:10:35.860 Promissory?
00:10:37.100 Basically, kind of like that.
00:10:38.060 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:38.900 You promised.
00:10:39.640 Okay.
00:10:40.380 It is, it's the same thing.
00:10:41.620 It's rare for a man to do that.
00:10:43.300 Promise rings don't count.
00:10:44.500 No, it does, because it's rare, because.
00:10:45.660 That does not count.
00:10:46.240 Do you think that men go out and buy promise rings?
00:10:48.900 It's just a line with a gift.
00:10:50.020 I'll be honest.
00:10:51.420 Girl, I've had one.
00:10:52.420 It's not that big.
00:10:53.080 All right, pal, pal, let me have.
00:10:54.900 But he has to really like you to be, because he's not going to do that to everyone.
00:10:57.860 No, no, I'm not going to lie.
00:10:58.820 Man will buy promise rings still.
00:11:00.300 It's never going to happen.