Her Delusion Is UNMATCHED
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what we think about men and women and how they choose their partners. We also talk about how men pick their partners based on looks and how good looking they are compared to other women.
Transcript
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I just still think that men are looking for things they don't have themselves.
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They don't have the minerals for the things that they want in the women.
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They think they know what they want, but they haven't even got the minerals anyway.
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Is it possible that women don't have what they want?
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So how would they pick it if the dating pool has like one out of every three women's had an abortion,
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one of every three women has an STD, like 38, 40% grew up without a dad.
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Like they've never like what percent of men have like even seen a true traditional woman?
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But only like the upper class, high celebrity profile people.
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And then when I go there, they're like, oh, so modern, you know, everyone still cooks the same meals.
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But, so I'm just curious, like when you're hearing these stats, like assuming I'm telling you the truth,
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you don't think like it puts more of the promiscuity on women because we're only sleeping with 20% of men.
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So like that means 80% of us are sleeping with 20% of men.
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Maybe like, it's not, it's not, it's not, it's not 6'1".
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So you had a top, did he, how much money did he make?
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Well, he had, he had his own houses and a business.
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I know about his business and that, you know, and things like that.
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So if he owned a house, he probably made at least like 60, 70, I guess.
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You guys would know London prices more than me, but he's probably still top 20% of income.
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Probably because buying a house in Essex is cheap.
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So you had a guy top 10% height, top 20% income.
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So in women, so, you know, women, we find 80% of men is ugly.
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So if he, if you find him attractive, that means he's top 20%.
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No, he's been trying to holler at me, to be honest.
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Like, he was wearing a mask when we first met and then his true colors came out and
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I saw in certain behaviors that he was portraying.
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So like, you know, he was very aggressive sometimes and he, I felt like his moral.
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Well, he, he pushed me, he, he shoved me very hard and it was for a very pathetic reason
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So he, he shoved you one time and then you died.
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And it was very, and it was petty and he lied at the time as well.
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And I knew he was lying about picking up his kids when he wasn't going, he, he changed
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So I spent a couple of days with him and he, and I was supposed to say the last day and he, and
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he, all of a sudden he's got to go and pick up his kids, but he, you're lying.
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And so it's like, you're making me feel like you don't want to see, you don't want to, you
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So, so you didn't, you don't have no physical evidence of that.
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You'd think I'm crazy if I go into it right now.
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So you literally, and he tried to drag me for, okay.
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Well, because I was in my feelings because I knew he was lying.
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Why do, why do a lot of women, they like, they, they accuse a man of being like the bad guy,
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the guy that hurts them, the guy that beats them.
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But then the reason they, like they made, they caused the reason.
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Cause if you physically don't move in certain spaces.
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It's the way you, it's the way you speak to someone.
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It's the way you conduct yourself in that situation.
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But if you're in, this has happened to me before.
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I've been, Esther, you know, you know, no, there was a girl here and I asked her to leave
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and she didn't like the way I asked her to leave.
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Um, and then, um, well, we didn't have security then, but my security would have just picked
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But then it's like the way you're saying this, it's like, what other options do you have?
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But when it's an emotional, sexual connection, you've got other feelings, like you feel rejection,
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You're kind of, so you're kind of making yourself, so basically like you were kind of overbearing
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because he, you thought he did something and you had no proof he did it.
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No, I did because he said what, he changed his story.
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But you've never said two things that contradicted yourself ever.
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It's very easy to say the wrong thing if you've been cross-examined.
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Because you know what, when you say earlier on where men are analysing women and women are
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So you're going to argue against me picking up my kids.
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It doesn't matter whether you know he's not, or it is, yeah.
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In his head, rah, hold on, I'm telling you something about my kids and you're arguing
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Maybe there is something that he just didn't want you to know.
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Like, you know, I mean, like baby mama situations can be tricky.
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Like, sometimes guys don't want to get you in on all the drama.
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But it's like, you're going into it in bad faith, so you're assuming the worst, when maybe
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But I also feel like, it's just the way you conduct yourself in a sensitive situation as
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Because it's the way, like, you didn't listen when he said leave.
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So it's kind of like, as women, like, we kind of have this double standard where we make
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him the bad guy when it's like, you kind of started it.
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Also, the reason was, like, I've stayed in the house by myself before, and at this point,
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So it's like, if you love me, why can't I stay here while you go and pick up your child,
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do what you need to do, and I'll stay here tonight, and you come back.
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Like, if I own this apartment, if I want anyone to leave at any time, I have the right to do
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It was just the way it happened, and the things that he was saying, and the way he was speaking
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But this is like a lot of problems with women in relationships.
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And so a lot of times, like, we think something's aggressive, but men are just more aggressive
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And you said in the beginning that the men that like you, you don't want.
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Any girl that's single, it just means the men you want don't want you.
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The thing is, it's actually crazy, because there's no one I actually want.
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There's nobody in the world that you would want.
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I'm attracted to like someone, but he's like a celebrity.
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You know, like sex appeal, but there's no one I actually want.
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Okay, do you think you're on like the level of a celebrity?
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I think I'm an amazing person if I'm being honest.
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Yeah, but remember, I think I'm beautiful without the Botox, without the money, without
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Like, it's like, you think because they have money, they're beautiful when they got there.
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But if you look at Margot Robbie before Fame, that girl was a 10.
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But then you're doing selectiveness because there's enough girls that go there and the
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You can look at exceptions like that, like Kylie Jenner.
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But I'm just saying, in general, guys, can we just talk in general instead of exceptions?
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Most celebrities are top 20% of beauty in general.
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Like, we could talk about, there's some exceptions, like Kylie Jenner did her lips, whatever.
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But most people in Hollywood were the top 20% of beauty wherever they're from.
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No, we had a closure, but he's not the one for me.
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I just feel like there's a difference in behavior.
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And the way you feel as well, I can accept, I'm not a possessive person.
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I can accept, I really like my independence, but I just know there's a certain way that
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That just wasn't, I'm not, no, I've got loads of brothers and sisters.
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So, in terms of looking up, do you know how to look after a man?
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No, because you're saying certain things that in a relationship, it's like, if you saw a
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relationship with your mum and dad growing up, then there's certain things you wouldn't
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do in a relationship, you get what I'm saying, to keep the man.
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Listen, every man, every man that's been my boyfriend has returned, and they haven't
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I haven't had that experience yet, but I've had similar.
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Do you think that men go out and buy promise rings?
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But he has to really like you to be, because he's not going to do that to everyone.