JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023


High Standards： Why Women Are SINGLE

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Olivia Pope Katy Perry Jesse Williams Jackson Avery Elizabeth Matthew Juliet
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Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

166.76

Word count

2,109

Sentence count

266

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

11

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In this episode, we talk about a woman who is looking for a sperm donor to have her own kids, and why she picked a 23 year old, pure blooded woman with a childbearing body. We also talk about eugenics and why we should be mad at society for allowing this to happen.

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00:00:00.000 Speaking of, I guess, traits that people are looking to pass on, I saw the weirdest Twitter
00:00:09.520 post.
00:00:10.620 Okay.
00:00:11.100 I don't think I've been this bamboozled.
00:00:13.920 I'm just like confused in a long time.
00:00:16.060 Let's pull it up.
00:00:16.700 So there's a woman that tweeted, hello, Twitter peeps. 1.00
00:00:20.520 My friend Elizabeth is looking for an unvaccinated sperm donor. 1.00
00:00:24.700 Her requirements are blue eyed, white, 5'11 or taller, STD free, no Jewish or African 1.00
00:00:32.000 ancestry, follows a healthy meat focused diet, must be a natural insemination.
00:00:38.540 She will not do IVF.
00:00:40.520 DM me.
00:00:47.200 Um.
00:00:54.700 Her details are German and Swedish ancestry, a two body count been celibate the last 2.5
00:01:05.580 years, 23 years old, unvaccinated meat focused diet supplements, D3 and K2 will have support
00:01:14.200 of grandmother and younger brother insemination must be natural in person in Eastern USA.
00:01:20.920 She was not looking for a husband or boyfriend.
00:01:25.540 She will remain celibate after this. 1.00
00:01:29.460 What the fuck? 1.00
00:01:31.520 Um. 1.00
00:01:32.240 Your schedule must be free to accommodate her ovulation schedule. 0.94
00:01:36.480 She will give you as much notice as possible.
00:01:39.000 She has decided not to go up.
00:01:40.820 She has decided not to go through with the upfront fee.
00:01:43.480 So don't worry about that.
00:01:45.000 She is asking that you remain in touch for future re-inseminations as she is looking to have
00:01:50.600 three children over the next five years.
00:01:52.680 As you can see, she is incredibly beautiful, pure blooded, European, intelligent, and has
00:01:57.480 a childbearing body.
00:01:58.920 Your offspring will be raised extremely well.
00:02:01.680 Please DM me your application.
00:02:03.300 I will be in touch for further details if she deems you qualified.
00:02:11.520 I know.
00:02:12.300 I saw it.
00:02:12.680 I was like, this cannot be real.
00:02:14.500 Tristan Tate comments. 0.99
00:02:15.880 Disgusting. 0.99
00:02:16.280 It's so funny your reaction. 0.99
00:02:23.900 That was mine.
00:02:24.400 I'm like, this can't.
00:02:25.860 This has got to be fate.
00:02:27.920 This has got.
00:02:28.860 Your offspring will be raised very well.
00:02:31.960 Yeah, we know how these stories with single moms go. 1.00
00:02:34.820 Why would you pick that?
00:02:36.820 Why would you?
00:02:37.840 Like, why on earth would you choose to be a single mother?
00:02:42.080 Literally.
00:02:42.420 And I think it shows something about society and their lack of appreciation for fathers.
00:02:47.600 You need a strong masculine figure in the kid's life.
00:02:51.740 And she's picking this.
00:02:53.740 I actually am quite speechless.
00:02:55.980 For me, it's really quite scary because what we are seeing is a public admittance to eugenics.
00:03:05.020 I mean, listen to the wording.
00:03:07.000 Pure blooded.
00:03:08.320 Yeah.
00:03:08.620 You know, she's got all of these things.
00:03:10.240 She's, this is completely evil and unnatural. 0.99
00:03:13.100 Completely, you know, like Tristan says, disgusting. 1.00
00:03:16.140 Disgusting. 1.00
00:03:16.640 Absolutely disgusting. 1.00
00:03:18.500 Dehumanizing of you to suggest that a man should be willing and able to casually agree to this. 0.98
00:03:24.440 Kids need their fathers and fathers need their children. 0.96
00:03:28.720 Absolutely.
00:03:29.480 Absolutely.
00:03:29.980 And I completely agree.
00:03:30.920 You know, that's a, that's a big issue here.
00:03:32.580 I'm just, I'm more concerned about the, the humanity issue of this.
00:03:36.880 This is, this is, this is, this is evil.
00:03:39.580 This is really evil.
00:03:40.980 I don't think she's 23.
00:03:43.420 I just, I'm not buying.
00:03:45.140 Does she look 23 to you?
00:03:47.260 She looks like she needs to be behind bars. 0.92
00:03:50.000 This is really bad.
00:03:51.440 No, I know.
00:03:51.880 Those things that she's saying is like, that's what led us into World War II.
00:03:57.400 That's, you know, the, I know we can't say his name on YouTube, but the guy who was the
00:04:01.960 leader of Germany, this is that same ideology.
00:04:05.160 Yeah.
00:04:05.380 And she's publicly admitted.
00:04:06.840 I, I don't know if we're going to see the eugenics stuff per se as much, but I think we're going 0.99
00:04:15.000 to see more of the spurn donor where women just like are not going to want to pay the 1.00
00:04:19.940 cost.
00:04:21.400 Yeah.
00:04:21.700 Where, so they, they just essentially just want kids, but they don't want their kids to
00:04:25.100 have a dad.
00:04:26.400 Well, they don't think they can get the type of guy that they would want to keep.
00:04:30.980 You know what I mean?
00:04:31.680 So I, I think it's them picking.
00:04:33.360 I want to understand like how DNA works.
00:04:37.160 I don't know. 0.99
00:04:38.020 These people are crazy. 0.98
00:04:39.500 I just saw this. 0.98
00:04:40.680 I was like, you think, oh, right.
00:04:42.120 So if the guy's not around purely based on environmental factors, I'm going to be able
00:04:46.820 to mold this child into what I want.
00:04:49.540 Do you not realize that, you know, literally everything is in our DNA?
00:04:53.960 No, just get a sperm donor. 1.00
00:04:55.500 Yeah, just amazing.
00:04:57.680 That we're, I'm sure this is going to work out well for her.
00:05:00.740 Okay.
00:05:01.140 That's actually shocked me.
00:05:02.420 I know, I know.
00:05:03.340 I can't believe in that.
00:05:03.800 I seriously, I saw this and I was like, what on earth?
00:05:07.840 Because I'm like, okay, let me get this straight.
00:05:10.720 You're, okay, let me get this straight, lady. 0.98
00:05:12.640 Your idea of kids that are going to be raised well is putting out an application on, on Twitter.
00:05:22.120 Twitter.
00:05:22.940 Okay.
00:05:23.460 All right.
00:05:24.020 All right.
00:05:25.220 Please no one give this woman those things. 0.89
00:05:27.460 Yeah, guys, there's, someone's going to do it.
00:05:29.600 Someone's going to, come on.
00:05:30.460 Someone's going to do it.
00:05:32.700 So I wanted to talk about, you know, I think the theme is women being just so out of pocket. 1.00
00:05:39.060 And I started thinking about how we really got to this point.
00:05:42.920 Like, how do we get so delusional and crazy?
00:05:44.920 And I thought about a show that actually was super popular when I was in high school.
00:05:50.120 Okay.
00:05:50.600 Do you, have you heard of Grey's Anatomy?
00:05:52.440 Yes.
00:05:52.740 Okay.
00:05:54.020 I'm going to show you a clip from it.
00:05:55.880 Okay.
00:05:56.320 And I want to see what you notice.
00:05:58.340 Pull it up.
00:05:59.060 I love you, April.
00:06:01.860 I always have.
00:06:02.820 I love everything about you.
00:06:06.840 Even the things I don't like.
00:06:09.520 I love.
00:06:12.540 And I want you with me.
00:06:16.220 I love you.
00:06:16.940 And I think that you love me, too.
00:06:24.120 Were you?
00:06:27.360 And you, April and Matthew's closest friends and family, are here today to bear witness to their union.
00:06:34.360 Will you promise to love and support their marriage in all the days to come?
00:06:39.780 If so, please respond.
00:06:43.220 We will.
00:06:44.200 We will.
00:06:44.660 We will.
00:06:46.300 Now, I have known the two of you.
00:06:49.760 What?
00:06:50.040 For quite some time.
00:06:51.940 I'm sorry.
00:06:52.940 Stand up.
00:06:54.060 I'm happy to be here today and be able to do this for you.
00:06:56.980 Bye.
00:07:09.780 What did you notice from this clip?
00:07:13.940 Why didn't her husband, who she's actually getting married to, punch him in the face?
00:07:21.000 First of all. 0.91
00:07:21.940 Okay.
00:07:23.460 Why was everyone acting like this was this really beautiful, amazing moment that, like, two lovers have... 0.98
00:07:31.400 It's the whole, like, Romeo and Juliet bullshit.
00:07:34.080 Like, two lovers have just, they've just realized their love for each other. 0.97
00:07:40.720 How's that going to work out long term?
00:07:42.600 How are you guys then going to get married?
00:07:45.020 You know, and what?
00:07:46.060 You're not going to remember this whole thing?
00:07:48.360 Where, like, she was about to get married?
00:07:50.900 And then, I mean, judging by the tone of that scene, I imagine, I'm not seeing Grey's Anatomy, but I imagine she goes, yes, I love you, too.
00:07:59.080 And they have this moment where they realize their love for each other.
00:08:02.860 Like, why, why, why?
00:08:06.040 I just can't understand why.
00:08:07.620 I do know they date for a couple years in the show.
00:08:10.680 My sisters watched it, so it was like, sometimes I would watch a couple episodes, but I never was that into it.
00:08:15.980 I noticed something else, okay?
00:08:18.060 One, why is the ex-boyfriend at the wedding?
00:08:20.820 Right.
00:08:21.240 Because they dated before.
00:08:22.500 Oh, my God.
00:08:23.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:25.120 Two, what would you rate her one to ten?
00:08:30.440 Five?
00:08:31.200 Four?
00:08:32.380 Actually, I was going to give her a six.
00:08:34.040 Oh, okay.
00:08:34.460 Six, maybe five, six.
00:08:35.460 That's what I would say.
00:08:36.060 I just feel like she looked like she'd had some work on.
00:08:37.940 Okay, maybe five, whatever.
00:08:39.100 Whatever.
00:08:39.800 Okay, let's just say she's a five, normal-looking chick. 1.00
00:08:42.360 Why?
00:08:43.020 How does she get?
00:08:44.360 Now, she has two eights or higher fighting over her. 0.99
00:08:49.300 I was like, this is the most unrealistic thing I have ever seen in my life.
00:08:53.240 If you're telling me this average chick has two men, the one guy in the, in the, the one 1.00
00:09:00.260 guy, I know the one guy is a doctor.
00:09:02.240 I don't remember what the other guy does.
00:09:04.060 The one guy that like got up.
00:09:06.300 Okay, you're telling me Jackson Avery.
00:09:08.860 Okay, Jesse Williams, one, like very attractive dude.
00:09:14.840 Second, very attractive dude are fighting over a six, a five, in what world?
00:09:23.680 In what world?
00:09:24.480 So I'm like, it's no wonder we're so delusional because you have all of these shows showing
00:09:30.480 average women getting these amazing results. 0.93
00:09:33.600 I mean, also, why did everyone just passively sit there and let this unfold?
00:09:38.600 Like, let's believe if this was happening in real life, if I was about to get married,
00:09:43.240 right, first of all, my ex wouldn't even be there.
00:09:46.300 But let's say your ex is there, right?
00:09:48.500 Yeah.
00:09:48.880 Whatever messed up, deluded reason, he stands up.
00:09:54.040 Let's believe my family are going, what the hell?
00:09:56.860 Get out of here.
00:09:58.180 What are you doing? 0.95
00:09:59.880 You're embarrassing.
00:10:01.320 Get out.
00:10:01.940 What is going on?
00:10:03.880 But no, everyone's just like, oh, look at this beautiful moment where they realize their
00:10:09.560 love.
00:10:10.300 What?
00:10:10.680 It goes back to it.
00:10:11.640 I think it shows something about the culture, right?
00:10:14.460 And it goes back to the theme of the one that got away.
00:10:17.160 Yeah.
00:10:17.760 And yeah, it's a very common theme that we see in the media and the culture.
00:10:21.700 We had a song that, I mean, you know, the Katy Perry.
00:10:24.080 Katy Perry, I know.
00:10:24.880 The one that got away, the one that wrecked my heart.
00:10:27.020 I should have never let him go.
00:10:28.600 I should have begged him to stay.
00:10:30.120 He was the one that got away.
00:10:31.940 And so I think that you really have a generation of women. 0.90
00:10:36.060 There's a reason that that show was so popular.
00:10:38.480 The theme of the main character, which is Meredith.
00:10:41.560 Also, it's the one that got away.
00:10:43.840 She, in the beginning, hooks up with this doctor, right?
00:10:46.780 That she's whatever.
00:10:48.140 Then he goes back.
00:10:49.100 She finds out he's still technically married.
00:10:51.120 And then the whole thing is like this love triangle.
00:10:54.120 Same with, you know, Olivia Pope. 1.00
00:10:55.760 Have you ever seen it?
00:10:56.560 It's this other show.
00:10:58.360 This girl named Olivia Pope.
00:10:59.940 She's the side chick to the president. 1.00
00:11:01.540 And it's always he was the one that got away.
00:11:03.860 It's like we see all these seeds planted within our culture. 1.00
00:11:06.260 And then we wonder why we're growing shit crops. 1.00
00:11:09.100 Exactly. 1.00
00:11:09.720 Yeah.
00:11:09.900 Because again, really, in a truly an honest thing, it would be the women fighting over 0.82
00:11:16.060 him.
00:11:16.620 You are not going to have two grown men that are doctors in their mid-30s.
00:11:21.740 Like, okay, maybe at 22, some guys are naive.
00:11:24.560 Oh, I thought you brought me on here for a bit of fun.
00:11:26.540 You know, I thought it was going to be fun.
00:11:27.600 Yeah.
00:11:27.700 I'm going to have to go away and sit in a dark room because you're just destroying my faith
00:11:31.060 in humanity.
00:11:32.260 Sorry.
00:11:32.700 That's what I do best anyways.
00:11:34.960 So the comments say, wrong timing to me.
00:11:37.740 Very selfish on his end.
00:11:39.520 What about the others?
00:11:41.040 Correct.
00:11:42.960 But why would you wait for her wedding day?
00:11:45.220 Yeah.
00:11:45.700 I'm like, how long was the average engagement?
00:11:48.860 It's so funny.
00:11:49.600 The average dating period before getting engaged is three years.
00:11:52.880 The average engagement is one year.
00:11:54.660 So I'm like, you've had like four years.
00:11:56.820 Also, I think that shows you that a woman probably wrote this because chances of a man doing that
00:12:01.040 very low, chances of a woman doing that very high.
00:12:03.980 Yeah, exactly.
00:12:04.640 So it should have been flipped.
00:12:05.860 It would have been more likelihood is it would have been a woman who stood up and said, you 1.00
00:12:09.940 know, but this is what they're trying to do.
00:12:11.200 They're trying to flip the order of things and tell you that this is what could happen.
00:12:14.460 No, absolutely not.
00:12:15.800 Yeah.
00:12:15.920 No guy, no guy is going to do that, especially with like a bigger, like he looks tall and
00:12:20.360 good shape. 0.98
00:12:20.760 Also, I'm more looking at it from the perspective of the fact that women are more selfish. 1.00
00:12:24.140 So women are the ones less likely to consider the fact, oh, this is their wedding day.
00:12:28.940 You know, maybe I shouldn't do that for their sake.
00:12:30.780 If I love them, then I'm not going to embarrass them on their wedding day. 1.00
00:12:34.060 I think a woman is more likely to go, ah, fuck all of that. 1.00
00:12:36.140 This is how I feel. 1.00
00:12:36.980 Let me tell them all about it.
00:12:38.600 Yeah.