JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2025


High Value Men Are Happy With Wives That Are Mid (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 34 minutes

Words per Minute

152.54057

Word Count

14,359

Sentence Count

39

Misogynist Sentences

147

Hate Speech Sentences

48


Summary

In this episode of Pearl Daily I talk about how to deal with a man that is dancing with another woman and how to handle it. I also talk about the importance of a high value man and how a woman can get the most out of him.


Transcript

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00:02:50.000 you to walk out my life now i'll never never get to clean up the mess i made oh and it haunts me
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00:03:08.780 too young too dumb to realize that i don't need no flowers don't need to hold your hand
00:03:27.540 i don't need all your hours if you give me one more chance i don't need to party
00:03:37.260 i don't need to dance now my man is dancing but he's dancing with another woman
00:03:47.740 i know it hurts i'll be the first to say i was wrong
00:03:59.520 oh i know i'm probably much too late to try and apologize for my mistakes
00:04:10.000 but i just want you to know
00:04:14.000 that i don't need no flowers don't need to hold your hand i don't need all your hours
00:04:26.700 if you give me one more chance i don't need to party i don't need to dance i'll do all the
00:04:39.120 things i should have done when i was your woman i'll do all the things i should have done when i
00:04:49.460 was your woman that's the apology your ex-wife is never gonna give you so i have this thing i've
00:04:58.960 been working on i want to rewrite simp songs so when i was growing up guys i used to hear these
00:05:06.460 songs on the radio and my my generation millennial men just super simps and so i might do a thing i'm
00:05:14.200 taking piano lessons so you gotta bear with me um but i'm doing this thing where i try to rewrite
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00:05:25.400 all right so what's going on guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily before i start if
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00:07:49.360 network okay so today um today's topic we are going to be talking about men with fat wives that look
00:07:59.460 happy so welcome to another episode of pearl daily the late and great kevin samuels brought up the
00:08:06.820 conversation of a high value man what they desire and how a woman can get one to the mainstream he and
00:08:14.740 other men that have insight into the world of men would stress that looks are what the what these men
00:08:21.080 value the most and i would agree with that looking further into the issue i noticed a couple of
00:08:26.500 things um many of the women that these men keep hold on guys so he and other men that have insight
00:08:38.020 into the world of these men would stress that looks are what men value the most and i would agree with
00:08:42.480 that looking further into this issue i did notice a couple of things many of the women that marry these
00:08:48.460 men keep up their looks like most modern day women do plastic surgery botox some don't right but
00:08:55.060 the ones that don't gain weight or just become there are ones that don't gain weight and they just
00:09:01.740 become normal looking fives and it seems to me that the men whose wives become mid seem happier
00:09:08.180 and if you look at pictures of them you can almost see the difference like and it's it's almost
00:09:14.200 counterintuitive you would think that the men with the hot wives that got the botox the fake boobs what
00:09:19.620 they would be happier now i have a couple of theories why this would be the case now and i'm
00:09:25.080 not advocating don't get fat men don't want like they don't want you to get fat but the reason i the
00:09:32.180 reason i think this could be is the wife that became a mid is not in competition with her husband for
00:09:38.800 attention or income so too many wives marry their husbands and think they have to compete with him for
00:09:44.600 the spotlight these women will be with men that are once in a lifetime talents and make the mistake
00:09:51.040 of believing that anything they will do in their lifetime will compete nothing could be further from
00:09:57.260 the truth number two the mid accepts that she will not be able to stay young forever and avoids plastic
00:10:04.260 surgery botox route that many other women end up taking men appreciate when their wives are natural
00:10:09.820 looking men know that women that get all of this work done is to impress other women not them the
00:10:16.500 mid fully embraces being the wife of a high value man they're truly supportive and they make it their
00:10:21.420 mission to empower their husband to do great things you can tell by speaking with them and the way that
00:10:26.420 they carry themselves that their husband's last name is the greatest gift of their lives now these women
00:10:32.420 don't have any type of complications that many older beautiful women bring to the table example uh some
00:10:39.880 bs some bs business woman that a woman would insist on having to feel important you know you guys know
00:10:47.200 the type like like all those businesses that men start for their wives so they don't cheat do you know
00:10:53.880 what i mean it's like you gotta you know you send her to the gym she might f the personal trainer you send
00:10:59.400 her shopping someone i mean you guys get like men it's funny they're like i gotta keep this woman
00:11:05.800 busy she doesn't want to have kids anymore like she wants to have one that's not gonna keep her busy
00:11:10.360 so they'll start at like a business but then you guys know what happens women we tend to think we're
00:11:16.740 more important than we are we take more credit for what we do ego gets too big then they start you know
00:11:21.980 they bring a bunch of drama to the relationship you know they're single friends full of drama create
00:11:28.400 issues in the marriage you know my husband my simp husband did this this this this this for me
00:11:33.820 then all of a sudden your girl is coming home or she watches a couple a couple instagram reels and
00:11:39.480 thinks she's deserving of hot women things right do you know what i mean it's like sometimes women are
00:11:44.760 like why don't i get princess treatment you're not hot enough there's women that have men begging to pay
00:11:53.080 for their shit but no i mean there's a looks level you got to get in the door there's toxic family
00:11:59.520 members that can create division between the wife and the husband in the mid i don't want to say always
00:12:05.280 has none of these but can have none of these or even another man's child you know no hot women
00:12:10.580 woman is making it over let's say 32 without a kid because men pull out for mids they don't pull out
00:12:17.540 what a beautiful woman do you know what i mean i asked um my boyfriend has a saying that like
00:12:24.320 any um you could tell a woman's an eight plus if um you wouldn't mind getting her pregnant like it
00:12:33.300 wouldn't be the worst thing in the world that's how you know a woman's beautiful is like if you barely
00:12:38.240 knew her first night and you got her pregnant it would kind of be a badge of honor i'm not saying it
00:12:43.560 would be but um the other thing that i've noticed about mids is they can actually fade into the
00:12:50.280 background now like the women that are getting the botox the boobs whatever they have to have these be
00:12:56.300 the center of attention like men know that eventually we're going to be a mid right they they know what's
00:13:02.460 coming they're not like and men kind of are under the mentality of like good enough right like how
00:13:08.740 i mean they're not like dying but most men are normal guys they know what it comes with they
00:13:15.940 want a woman that's going to treat them right but the thing is the ones that are getting all these
00:13:20.440 plastic surgeries to stay hot forever a lot of them i'm not i'm not anti-plastic surgery a lot of
00:13:26.760 the plastic surgeries work otherwise women wouldn't go get it um bad work is one thing but good work like
00:13:34.180 you guys aren't gonna know um and i know this because i've done polls i've shown pictures asking
00:13:39.120 guys if stuff is natural they they know once it's done badly i know you guys you guys all have the
00:13:44.940 egos you think you know you know sometimes right long story short the mids like they know they're it's
00:13:52.200 their time to fade into the background okay so pierce brosman and his wife throughout the years
00:13:59.420 it's it's it's not if just when yeah i know but like okay so this is who i thought of when i thought
00:14:08.140 of this is this guy there's a running joke um and my boyfriend was actually the one who brought this
00:14:16.740 up to me he he said over the years even though she gets bigger he looks happier so pierce brosman
00:14:24.180 or brosman you guys me and names by the way it's not personal i i have a hard time with them
00:14:31.260 um pierce pierce brosman and his wife keely shane brosman 15 photos from the early days of their
00:14:39.240 romance what's the secret to a 30-year relationship just ask pierce and his wife keely
00:14:45.640 while the couple married in 2001 they've actually been together since 2004 oh wait sorry since
00:14:53.480 1994 in 2022 28 years after they met the brosmans told people that the secret to their lasting
00:15:02.300 love has been their unique bond she got huge i know she did solving problems day in year after
00:15:11.200 year liking each other and getting on with each other she said he said being best friends keely
00:15:16.720 added seemingly perfectly in tune with her heartthrob husband after these photos show the inevitable
00:15:22.880 romantic connection that has been evident from the earliest days of their relationship she was
00:15:29.260 beautiful back in the day i would give her an eight i would give her 7.58 facially beautiful she's got
00:15:38.020 no boobs so like that's you guys tell me i think yeah 7.58 all right hollywood heartthrob pierce met his
00:15:47.520 former actor turned journalist and filmmaker keely shane smith while in mexico in 1994 here they are
00:15:54.260 attending the carousel of hope ball to benefit ju juvenile diabetes together that same year
00:16:01.500 cute right the following year um pierce brosman and his wife keely shane smith were at the la tennis
00:16:11.700 center for an evening in the net benefit with keely doing a stylish spin on the tennis whites out of
00:16:17.380 town look at that the happy the happy couple looked thrilled to be together at the opening night of
00:16:27.560 the la musical center opera's 10th season
00:16:31.840 pierce's first turn as james bond in golden eye hit the theaters in 1995 and keely shane smith was the
00:16:40.900 star's date to several red carpet events beginning with the film's world premiere at new york radio city
00:16:47.160 musical the couple stepped out together again for golden eyes uk premiere in london all right bondy beach
00:16:55.180 when in sydney for the australian premiere of the golden eye the couple looked effortly gorgeous on the
00:17:01.580 beach picture perfect keely shane smith beamed a luminous smile as pierce brosnan smoldered for the cameras
00:17:11.540 on the red carpet in 1995 he's 71 you guys are like divorce her i mean he's 71 do you know what i mean
00:17:20.520 okay close to you look at this pierce kept keely close as they attended a 1995 boxing match here's them
00:17:29.980 again a committed environmental activist keely shane smith brought pierce as her date to the 1995 liquid
00:17:38.020 life photographic exhibit in support of the dolphins at atlantis clothing cafe in malibu
00:17:44.460 all right pierce always seems to get a smile out of keely shane smith while hammering it up on the
00:17:51.900 red carpet as he did here at the 2020 22nd people annual uh peoples or annual people's choice awards
00:17:59.660 a dashing pierce and a glamorous keely smith perfectly complimented each other at this post academy awards
00:18:08.800 award governor's ball
00:18:10.240 oh she kind of does have boobs are those fake
00:18:15.180 you guys are the boob experts i am not a boob expert are these fake
00:18:21.760 are these they this she looks um they might just be propped up but hold on there's one picture where
00:18:31.640 i was like when i was rating her earlier oh here we go um you let me know you let me know fake or clean
00:18:40.580 or sorry fake or not fake um all right so they're striking a pose here
00:18:48.720 yeah that's what i thought they're just pushed up
00:18:55.620 fake they're arguing in the chat can you put a poll fake or real
00:19:02.400 glam team baby all right so now this is this is when like they blow up the kid
00:19:10.340 right obviously so oh hey that's the year i was born
00:19:14.200 the couple has two sons together as well as one son from pierce's first marriage
00:19:20.240 to australian actress cassandra harris who died in 1991
00:19:24.280 pierce also adopted harris's two children from a previous marriage
00:19:28.200 oh wow he seems like a good guy um keely shane smith thousand watt smile lit up as she accompanied
00:19:37.360 pierce to the arcs trust 12th annual genesis award in 1998
00:19:42.220 well i don't know if she was over 35
00:19:46.680 oh see seeing you guys say you can tell fake from real you guys you guys just proved my point
00:19:53.780 do you know how like women are like oh i can tell the difference between when you guys are using game
00:20:01.520 on us and your real personalities and you're like yeah okay
00:20:04.900 and you're we're like we can tell when you're doing it and you're like
00:20:10.540 mm-hmm that's how women feel
00:20:12.660 together forever
00:20:15.880 okay
00:20:19.180 so now you know that's i'm a little older
00:20:22.640 now we have him and his wife now now she did blow up
00:20:28.620 she's 61
00:20:31.580 and yeah you know she's quite quite big
00:20:37.000 yeah so
00:20:42.440 but look at him he's still he looks like happier in these pictures
00:20:49.020 so this is kind of the reddit thread like he's using his teeth more
00:20:52.900 she does still have a strong face card even with the weight
00:20:58.960 so why does he look happier is the question now next we got paul rudd and his wife
00:21:08.360 oh my gosh these ads man
00:21:12.980 oh no i was trying to x okay
00:21:16.020 paul rudd and julie yeager have been married since 2003
00:21:21.960 paul rudd is at the top of his game the actor became a fan favorite after his big break in 1995
00:21:27.720 hit clueless and his career hasn't slowed down since in 2021 alone rudd was crowned people's sexiest man alive
00:21:35.160 and earned a spot in snl's coveted five-timers club and joined yet another beloved franchise
00:21:41.360 he's already ant man in the marvel universe where he starred in ghostbusters afterlife
00:21:48.180 when it comes to rudd's biggest supporters one name stands out
00:21:51.860 julie yeager his wife of 20 years
00:21:54.860 the couple wed in 2003 and share two children
00:21:57.980 and who is paul rudd's other half from a meeting in the publicist's office to becoming unlikely business partners
00:22:04.700 here's everything to know about julie yeager and her relationship with rudd
00:22:09.440 she's a producer and a screenwriter
00:22:12.380 so yeah you see the looks difference here pretty big
00:22:17.100 they could have been looks matched like 15 years ago though
00:22:20.460 you see like right now she's a five
00:22:22.580 and she got people's deemed most sexiest man alive right
00:22:27.500 um
00:22:29.000 like why is she dressed like that
00:22:31.800 i mean maybe she's higher but like you know
00:22:35.160 okay after getting her career started as a publicist in the 1990s
00:22:39.100 yeager has since switched roles and become a producer and screenwriter
00:22:41.980 in 2017 yeager and rudd collaborated on the film fun mom dinner
00:22:46.460 which premiered at the sundance film festival
00:22:48.680 yeager wrote the screenplay while her and her husband served as executive producer
00:22:52.880 and made a cameo in the movie
00:22:55.120 she met rudd in his publicist's office
00:22:57.720 talk about the perfect meet cute
00:22:59.600 shortly shortly after the success of clueless
00:23:02.920 rudd set himself up in new york to get a publicist
00:23:05.940 when he walked into the office he was introduced to yeager
00:23:08.360 who was working at the office at the time
00:23:11.240 he took her to lunch a few days later and their romance blossomed
00:23:14.700 she was the first person i met in new york city
00:23:18.160 he explained to marie claire uk in 2018
00:23:21.280 when we started talking and there was a maturity with her
00:23:25.160 she had experienced some tragedy in her life and i had too
00:23:28.080 and the impression i got was wow this is a woman this isn't a girl
00:23:31.960 she and rudd have been married uh for 20
00:23:35.800 she and rudd have been married for 20 years
00:23:38.760 those are cute kids look at that cute kids
00:23:41.960 all right the couple tied the knot in a private ceremony in 2003
00:23:45.700 and have since welcomed two kids together
00:23:47.540 their son john sullivan was born in 2006
00:23:50.480 followed by their daughter darby in 2010
00:23:52.700 in 2015 the family passed posed for a sweet photo
00:23:56.920 while rudd was presented with a star on the hollywood walk of fame
00:24:01.600 however as the actor told marie claire uk
00:24:04.420 his and yeager's children are anything but impressed by their dad's fame
00:24:07.960 oh i'm still the embarrassing dad he says
00:24:10.600 my daughter is eight and thinks i'm the bee's knees
00:24:13.780 my son is 13 and doesn't even want me going to his school
00:24:17.360 i make jokes to a series of eye rules
00:24:19.800 on february 6 2023 rudd confirmed that his kids
00:24:22.960 still aren't too impressed with his work
00:24:24.580 i think i'm dad more than i'm ant man or the mcu
00:24:28.800 yeah they don't care nor should they he said
00:24:31.180 during the ant man and what the wasp premiere in la
00:24:36.540 later that month rudd spoke about jack and darby again
00:24:40.180 when the when he revealed that the kids
00:24:42.900 only recently realized that their dad is in fact an actor
00:24:45.900 when my kids were very young i'm not going to sit my kids down
00:24:48.660 when they're three and say you know i've got some dvds to show you
00:24:51.480 he said in an interview i didn't really explain what i did
00:24:55.040 he recalled when his son was about four or five
00:24:57.380 and went to a movie theater to see a movie with his friends
00:25:00.620 we were all going and there was a movie poster that i was on in the lobby
00:25:05.000 the actor said and they all just thought that i worked at the movie theater
00:25:08.980 which i thought was very cute
00:25:10.540 she and rudd are business partners that's a mistake
00:25:13.980 oh rudd don't do it
00:25:19.760 don't do it okay not only are jaeger and rudd business partners in marriage and
00:25:25.920 parenthood but they also happen to be business partners too
00:25:29.280 after rudd kept finding himself walking into a store
00:25:31.760 called the samuel sweet shop in rheinbeck new york
00:25:35.700 he decided to purchase the store after the previous owner died however he and
00:25:40.680 jaeger aren't the only celebrities involved they co-own the shop the walk
00:25:44.140 with the walking dead star jeffrey dean morgan and his wife
00:25:47.660 hillary burton rudd says he's happiest at home with jaeger and their children
00:25:52.300 despite his high profile career rudd told people in 2021 that the couple's home
00:25:57.580 life is pretty low-key when i think that about myself i think of myself as a
00:26:01.660 husband and a father like i'm that he said i just hang out with my family when
00:26:06.100 i'm not working and that's what i kind of like the most
00:26:08.680 back in 2011 rudd revealed to ellie that he doesn't think his personal life is
00:26:14.260 going to sell a lot of tabloids his my wife and i have been together for 16
00:26:18.600 years my parents were married my whole life until my father passed away a few
00:26:22.680 years ago their marriage inspired parts of this is 40 and knocked up
00:26:27.340 while jaeger and rudd might keep their private lives out of the tabloids they're
00:26:31.500 not against using their relationship to inform their actor's role
00:26:34.700 and 2012 in a 2012 interview with the la times director
00:26:38.800 judd apatow revealed that jaeger and judd's marriage along with his own
00:26:43.900 relationship with his wife leslie mann inspired some of the scenes in this is 40
00:26:48.580 and knocked up rudd and apatow would sit with their wives during rehearsal and
00:26:53.280 ask them to share their biggest pet peeves about their partner
00:26:55.860 to inspire scenes and dialogue in the movies
00:26:59.420 we'll have the what is annoying you about each other conversation and that's a
00:27:05.580 lot of what makes it into the movie he says
00:27:07.400 in an interview with the jewish journal
00:27:09.840 rudd shared a specific quote from jaeger that
00:27:15.220 made it into knocked up when judd was writing the movie my wife once said i'm
00:27:19.300 so sick of looking at your back because i was just on the computer all
00:27:22.400 day checking my fantasy football scores
00:27:25.120 she is rudd's okay we got 63 percent real on the boobs thanks guys that's very
00:27:31.980 important feedback she is rudd's biggest supporter when it
00:27:35.700 comes to rudd's career jaeger is nothing but supportive of her husband's
00:27:39.300 achievements but when the actor was named people's
00:27:42.160 sexiest man alive in november of 2021 rudd said that his wife was
00:27:46.220 momentarily momentarily stupefied but you know she was very sweet about it he
00:27:51.440 shared after some giggling and shock she said
00:27:53.720 oh they got it right rudd also joked that if jaeger had a choice she
00:27:58.340 would have put another actor on the cover instead
00:28:01.380 no she would have voted for he
00:28:04.260 canoe reeves come on canoe i'd vote for him
00:28:08.000 rudd calls jaeger's most attractive feature okay so again oh my gosh that is
00:28:15.060 such a looks difference wow but hey they seem happy look at
00:28:21.320 you see he's smiling can't really fake these pictures
00:28:23.920 okay next we got
00:28:27.160 next we got
00:28:31.600 all right christian are married for 22 years christian bale was giving up on
00:28:40.060 love until he was introduced to winona rider's assistant so that's the thing
00:28:45.960 it's kind of the key here they're all marrying normal women now i know this is
00:28:49.500 hypocritical right i'm like i have a show which is by
00:28:53.240 definition the center of attention but you know i just have to be honest when i when
00:28:57.620 i say my class of women just aren't great to date do you know what i mean i
00:29:01.900 would not recommend youtubers influencers social media person you know
00:29:07.840 i really love what i do i'm gonna do it forever
00:29:11.700 but i'm just being honest when i when i say this our
00:29:15.320 in general our class of people is just not
00:29:18.480 and i'm sure actresses i can't imagine
00:29:21.540 they're great um
00:29:23.940 all right and hollywood having a long lasting relationship can be a struggle
00:29:31.080 but christian bale and his wife
00:29:32.460 shibby or cb blazick have been able to last a little over two
00:29:38.740 decades together although bale is one of the most low-key hollywood stars out
00:29:42.940 there and keeps his personal life very private
00:29:44.840 he has shared some things that let us see their relationship as rock solid
00:29:49.400 christian bale started his acting career at a very young age
00:29:53.120 so he's 12 there 18
00:29:54.560 okay the famous actor started working with little parts and commercials until
00:30:00.680 he finally got the opportunity to be a part of a tv series called
00:30:04.320 anastasia the mystery of anna after that he got to work in a movie
00:30:08.600 newsies as the lead character and lady later alongside
00:30:12.180 the beautiful winona rider and little woman
00:30:15.060 this last event would have an impact on him later in life so he tried
00:30:20.920 the world-renowned actress right drew barrymore
00:30:26.140 all right bale hasn't shared much about his dating life but he surprisingly dated
00:30:32.120 the stunning while she was stunning drew barrymore however they ended up not
00:30:36.220 pursuing a relationship when barrymore was asked in an interview she said i don't
00:30:39.920 know he was so nice nice i have big problems in my life boys were very
00:30:44.260 secondary um so yeah then he met this assistant
00:30:48.040 and she was like that's what do you know what i would do
00:30:51.180 if i was 20 again really i i just whatever you want to marry
00:30:57.020 just go figure out how to be their assistants
00:30:59.280 i don't think though i don't think the guy you work for
00:31:02.380 but you'll meet other guys in the industry right
00:31:06.060 so if you're into actors go try to be an actor's assistant
00:31:09.520 i'm i'm just throwing stuff at the wall here you can take this or leave it
00:31:13.940 all right when the couples met when the couple met she was working as an assistant
00:31:19.740 to winona rider bale's former co-star not long after meeting in the year 2000
00:31:24.960 bale and blazik tied the knot in la every couple has managed to keep their life
00:31:29.420 away from public scrutiny bale said in an interview
00:31:31.700 my wife likes to be very private of course and i want to maintain that but we have a
00:31:35.680 great private life even so sometimes the actor likes to share little things
00:31:39.800 about his family so yeah there you go
00:31:42.580 in an interview um the actor gushed about his wife as he got emotional saying
00:31:48.220 she's probably the strongest woman i've ever
00:31:50.040 come across in my life according to the actor he didn't think
00:31:53.080 he was going to get married i was never planned on marrying everyone was divorced
00:31:57.200 in my family so i didn't have very healthy ideas about marriage
00:32:00.180 but someone came along and changed his entire plan that's every woman's dream
00:32:04.520 that's our dream is like we want you to hate us a little bit do you know what i
00:32:11.340 mean like we want you to kind of hate us
00:32:13.220 like we don't like when you fully love us like as soon as we know you love us we
00:32:17.700 got to find a new like person to like take all the love from
00:32:21.460 right so
00:32:22.540 yeah so that's that's the dream okay that's really the dream
00:32:30.340 um but everyone but someone
00:32:35.260 someone came in and changed his entire plan
00:32:39.700 as he admitted then i met cb and suddenly it was a fact
00:32:43.380 oh my gosh i can't read fantastic idea
00:32:46.360 in a different interview bail talked about not being ready to get married i'm not
00:32:51.280 going to sit here saying oh no i'm not ready and regret not having
00:32:55.520 done this later on and the possibility of not having this person around so he went
00:32:59.300 forward and hoped for the best she's such a strong woman and i owe everything to her
00:33:02.500 the dark knight actor also shared how his wife participated in the movie
00:33:06.660 the dark knight rises my wife was a stunt driver and she was chasing me
00:33:11.280 through the city in batman bail side jokingly see that's not bad
00:33:15.340 you can have her be a stunt driver but it's when you guys start making the wives directors
00:33:19.620 equal equal titles but a stunt driver she can feel like she helped
00:33:27.920 yeah there you go um yeah so this is now what do i rate her back in the day
00:33:34.400 she's still cute actually she's aged very well
00:33:38.100 um i don't know how old she is but i'm guessing like 40
00:33:41.000 uh back in the day that's like a six seven seven i'm gonna give her seven
00:33:47.240 okay let's see what we got next um
00:33:50.900 all right celebrities that married fat wives today we will show here we go
00:33:56.840 the tent to perceive physical differences from their family before we get into it make sure you
00:34:01.660 subscribe to our channel and give a thumbs up to this video here we go number 10 pierce
00:34:07.160 brosnan and keely shay actor pierce brosnan is lauded for playing eccentric james bond
00:34:12.260 and remarkable assortment of blockbuster movies shows cinematic prowess given his charm and hollywood
00:34:18.020 status one may expect him to be with a supermodel or actress when they seek his life partner the
00:34:23.820 public is astonished keely shay former tv personality and journalist keely's presence
00:34:29.460 defies supermodel and bond girl stereotypes keely has been unfairly called ugly due to her weight
00:34:35.160 her personal history complicates her appearance story she was thinner before she met brosnan but
00:34:40.420 she gained weight prompting fans to say her body has grown beyond society's standards
00:34:44.260 in particular circles pierce brosnan may be hiding a split existence to stay loyal to keely
00:34:49.720 due to her weight controversy amazingly brosnan still professes his undying love for keely more
00:34:55.640 than two decades after their marriage number nine hugh jackman and deborah lee furnace one vocal fan
00:35:02.400 sums up hugh jackman's relationship with deborah lee furnace jackman works with some of the world's
00:35:07.820 most gorgeous ladies he returns home to honor his unattractive wife some observers agree that hugh jackman
00:35:13.720 a stunningly handsome and skilled actor married an actress but not the one you may expect deborah
00:35:19.380 lee furnace is a 12 year old jackman senior their marriage defies expectations despite its
00:35:24.540 unconventionality they met in 1995 during the filming of corelli hugh jackman made his acting
00:35:30.840 debut as his future wife's romantic interest making their love story all the more touch uh doug mpa saying
00:35:36.940 hugh jackman got divorced yeah older women that's not that's yeah despite their true connection and
00:35:43.740 profound devotion public interactions especially at the beach have become forums for harsh and cruel
00:35:48.760 comments deborah lee's supporters criticize her body point out some induced aging and even use
00:35:54.300 demeaning humor number eight jess williams erin they got divorced this isn't going too well for
00:36:01.820 these mids drake lee just yeah they got divorced that's too much of a looks different i heard he
00:36:10.500 was a teacher and she supported him yeah she was not he yeah he was to williams who played the ruggedly
00:36:19.360 handsome dr jackson avery on gray's anatomy is famous and loved his path to popularity was humble before
00:36:26.040 he became a heartthrob jess williams a modest new york teacher must have been surrounded by attraction and
00:36:31.280 charm on his way to fame not often does a teacher become a hollywood actor although the entertainment
00:36:36.740 industry was glamorous one woman knew him before the world did jess's former classmate and confident
00:36:41.880 aaron drake a real estate agent shaked his life years of friendship and shared experiences led to a
00:36:47.800 passionate partnership aaron unexpectedly won jesse's love their love tale was not that obstacles
00:36:53.960 fame and public attention strained their relationship why jess williams wasn't with a hotter or more
00:36:59.320 gorgeous actress was the topic of much speculation the constant questions and suspicion strained their
00:37:04.640 relationship unfortunately the promising love tale ended in divorce their breakup was heartbreaking but
00:37:10.340 it ended an era for jesse and aaron number seven clive owen and sarah jane fenton they've been called
00:37:16.940 in modern day romeo and juliet while not as dramatic as clive owen the actor defies aging and is admired for
00:37:22.780 his better looking appearance his devoted fans agree but his wife's contrast and attention adds a fascinating
00:37:28.280 twist sin city king arthur closer and derailed are among clive owen's notable films and performances
00:37:34.500 amazingly his wife sarah jane fenton is also an actor acting as romeo and juliet brought their
00:37:40.640 fates together touring shakespeare tragedy love bloomed on and off stage guiding them toward common
00:37:46.600 goals clive and sarah jane married after their love tale they proudly raised hannah and ava two beautiful
00:37:52.600 girls their path together has been she was cute back in the day career his secret is his seeming
00:37:59.020 indifference to his appearance given his decision and life partner whether you discovered paul rudd and
00:38:03.640 clueless or his ant-man in the marvel universe he appears to have defied time his eternal youth has left
00:38:09.780 people wondering how he stays young rudd's unconventional lifestyle which contrasts with
00:38:14.580 hollywood's glitz contributes to this mystery his personal life is defined by his love of privacy
00:38:19.580 his wife a simple publicist who defies hollywood's stereotypes is at the center of this concerted
00:38:25.140 effort to hide his personal life celebrities and their partners typically face harsh criticism and
00:38:30.140 vicious comments but this privacy has protected the couple paul rhodes attractive looks and desire to
00:38:35.360 live a grounded and quiet life with his wife demonstrate his sincerity in a shallow world while
00:38:40.500 the public may wonder how rod stays young he lets his work and personality speak for themselves
00:38:45.220 proving that being true to oneself can be timeless number five chrissy tegan and john legend john
00:38:52.300 legend and chrissy tegan's public appearances and all of me music video chemistry have gained
00:38:56.460 they're gonna get divorced she used to be hot though back in the day she was she was bad women
00:39:02.740 a post of her in a bodysuit or swimsuit invites a barrage of criticism targeting her appearance and
00:39:08.540 seemingly every aspect of her being chrissy holding her son miles while john legend looks on with obvious
00:39:13.900 dissatisfaction at her figure is an iconic celebrity gossip shot this graphic symbolizes
00:39:18.940 teenian's constant criticism chris nasty crying face during john legend's award acceptance was also
00:39:24.140 controversial many fans consider her acts as attention-seeking and some have even accused her
00:39:28.900 of plastic surgery for her makeover number four aaron and sam taylor johnson one of the gq50 best
00:39:35.620 dressed british men this man has made waves in fashion and in movies like kick-ass and quicksilver
00:39:40.500 his open love for older ladies distinguishes him from hollywood romances although calling him a
00:39:46.080 cooper hunter is a stretch the 23-year age gap between this handsome actor and his wife
00:39:50.600 sam taylor johnson is striking the narrative becomes more depressing in public perspective
00:39:55.560 some critics have lashed out at the age gap sam taylor johnson has been called a sick old hag
00:40:00.660 and a predator by those who desire her harm the vitriol continues onlookers sometimes mistake the
00:40:07.100 couple for a mother-son duo when they appear in public or on the red carpet that's gonna get more
00:40:12.040 normal in our lifetime get ready everybody buckle up their relationship began with unusual circumstances
00:40:18.140 when sam taylor johnson met her husband she had older children from a previous marriage adding to
00:40:23.340 their relationship in 2012 they openly loved each other despite social backlash and harsh criticism
00:40:28.760 they got married to show their love their love story despite their age disparity has grown with two
00:40:33.980 children strengthening their closeness number three victoria and david beckham david and victoria
00:40:40.080 beckham the most famous couple have always been contentious leading many to question their
00:40:44.360 relationship his power couple's ups and downs have captivated the public leaving us to wonder if
00:40:49.420 their relationship is motivated by love or their brand victoria beckham was famous as posh spice of
00:40:54.820 the spice girls before marrying david beckham she developed a mysterious unsmiling persona from her early
00:41:00.720 she has been criticized for more than her imagined unhappiness victoria is hated and criticized with
00:41:06.480 some calling her ugly weight is the main cause of this hatred victoria beckham has been the target of
00:41:11.660 weight related remarks since her mother called her a fat puppy as a child these early body image issues
00:41:17.020 may have affected her self-esteem later on victoria also had bad acting for a long time which lowered her
00:41:22.720 self-esteem however as she negotiated stardom her appearance drew popular attention and contempt victoria was
00:41:29.440 criticized for being excessively thin when the pendulum swung her detractors called her anorexic
00:41:34.200 bulimic and a stick figure despite constant public criticism victoria beckham has built a successful
00:41:39.920 fashion career and maintained her family life number two tony goldwin and jane musky michelle
00:41:45.100 tony goldwin who played scandalous u.s president fitzgerald grant as a quite different personal life
00:41:50.400 while his chemistry with carrie washington in the blockbuster series enthralled audiences is married
00:41:55.140 they're basically humping on screen married to production designer jane musky and has a family
00:42:01.100 tony goldwin's marriage to jane musky is real unlike scandals turbulent relationships their family life
00:42:07.380 seems more steady than the political intrigue and scandals on tv the couple has two daughters
00:42:11.900 tony and jane don't look like a celebrity couple in public their low-key pride matches hollywood
00:42:17.180 couples sparkle and splendor this contrast has surprised observers especially those with strong scandals and fans
00:42:23.740 who have followed tony goldwin's personal life some have posted their amusement and incredulity
00:42:28.460 on social media one twitter user playfully posted google tony goldwin's wife's expectations
00:42:33.300 against reality to contrast his on-screen romantic relationships with his real-life spouse
00:42:37.740 number one omari hardwick and jennifer fouch as her husband omari hardwick's celebrity rises due to his
00:42:44.720 captivating depiction of ghosts in the television series angela and tasha jennifer fouch finds herself in
00:42:50.480 the spotlight the apparent contrast between omar's easy on screen romances and his real-life wife
00:42:55.980 jennifer fouch has left many fans shocked and often angry public attention and criticism have
00:43:01.740 surrounded jennifer okay this one isn't that terrible
00:43:04.960 i mean she's not she's like a she's not like fat or old at least fouches odd appearance i don't think
00:43:12.320 she's that old she does kind of a weird face appearance so i've speculated that she may be
00:43:17.080 transgender or resemble steve nash a famous basketball player oh oh that was dark while
00:43:23.280 others have sarcastically compared her to gary oldman from the fifth element unfortunately when
00:43:28.380 you marry a hollywood star and join a program with a huge fan base you become vulnerable to harsh and
00:43:33.500 frequently baseless criticism some social media users have criticized omar's marriage and jennifer's
00:43:38.740 reputation even sincere and pleasant posts have been overwhelmed with hurtful and racist comments
00:43:43.700 this story stands out because of omar hardwick's persistent support and loyalty to his love
00:43:48.500 despite internet criticism he defends jennifer and their connection how do you feel about the public's
00:43:53.960 yeah okay uh let's see what we got next
00:43:59.740 all right celebrity men that married normal women and then we're gonna do can we put the zoom link in
00:44:09.560 the chat because we are going to take callers after this and the question is what type of woman would be
00:44:15.760 more of a benefit to a man for the course of a lifetime a mid or a beautiful woman what type of
00:44:20.880 woman would you recommend to your son a mid or a beautiful woman no right or wrong answers guys
00:44:25.880 no right or wrong not here to debate i just want to know what you've seen i love to get perspective
00:44:30.240 from the older guys too because obviously you have the like the hindsight of like time
00:44:37.780 i'm 28 so i've seen how some things played out but i you know if you guys are 50 60 you've seen a lot
00:44:45.120 more things play out 30 male celebs who married normal women what happens when some of the world's
00:44:51.080 most famous stars find love far away from the glitz and glamour of hollywood in this video we'll
00:44:57.400 uncover the surprising and heartwarming stories of celebrities who fell for partners outside the
00:45:02.840 entertainment world these real life connections prove that love can thrive in the most
00:45:07.720 hatred age named after superman's kryptonian birth nicholas case sometimes i think my
00:45:14.900 laptop laptop one of the things gets stuck down okay top 30 male celebs who married normal women
00:45:24.340 what happens when some of the world's most famous stars find love far away from the glitz and glamour
00:45:30.240 of hollywood in this video we'll uncover the surprising and heartwarming stories of celebrities
00:45:36.180 who fell for partners outside the entertainment world these real life connections prove that love can
00:45:42.260 thrive in the most unexpected places curious to know how these love stories unfolded watch now and
00:45:49.620 see which famous faces chose a life partner beyond the spotlight nicholas cage nicholas cage a versatile
00:45:59.860 and iconic actor married alice kim a former waitress in 2004 alice man can be happy with that born in los
00:46:09.060 angeles to korean parents worked as a waitress in a restaurant where cage was a regular their
00:46:15.140 connection was immediate and after just two months of dating cage proposed the couple had a private
00:46:21.780 wedding in california that same year alice who mostly stayed out of the public eye became a supportive
00:46:29.060 partner to cage during the ups and downs of his career together they welcomed a son's kryptonian birth name
00:46:36.180 reflecting cages love for comic books and superheroes despite their high profile status alice and
00:46:43.380 nicholas maintained a relatively private life without she's cute i mean i'd say like 6.5 yeah alice off
00:46:52.580 strong six like almost seven accompanying cage to red carpet events and premieres
00:46:58.020 their marriage lasted 12 years a notable duration given the pressures of hollywood life
00:47:04.340 unfortunately they divorced in 2000 god damn it 16 though cage has publicly spoken positively about alice
00:47:14.580 expressing gratitude for their time together and acknowledging her as a loving and supportive
00:47:20.500 partner cage's life has often been marked by dramatic career shifts and personal challenges
00:47:27.060 but his relationship with alice is remembered for its warmth and the family they built together
00:47:33.460 even after they said seven okay i'll give you seven actually separation cage has always been
00:47:38.900 respectful of their history often describing alice as a significant part of his life during their
00:47:44.580 marriage chris o'donnell chris o'donnell best known for his roles in ncis los angeles and batman and
00:47:54.100 robin married his college sweetheart caroline fentress in 1997 the couple first met while they were both
00:48:02.580 students at boston college and their romance blossomed throughout their time together at school
00:48:08.580 despite chris's rising fame in hollywood he and caroline remained deeply committed to each other
00:48:14.740 navigating the challenges of fame with a focus on family and balance caroline who stays out of the
00:48:22.180 entertainment industry has been a steady and private partner for chris throughout his acting career
00:48:28.900 after dating for several years they married in a private ceremony in charlottesville virginia
00:48:34.740 together they have five children three sons and two daughters despite his busy schedule as an actor chris has
00:48:43.060 always prioritized his family frequently speaking about the importance she aged well i think any like to me this
00:48:50.500 is like a well-aged like she kind of has the same face she just looks older um same weight you know
00:48:58.100 like i think that's not bad importance of being present for his children and attending their activities
00:49:04.020 including sports games and school events chris credits caroline with helping him stay grounded
00:49:10.100 throughout his career and he often describes their relationship as a partnership built on love support
00:49:17.380 and shared values the couple has managed to keep their family life relatively private raising their
00:49:23.700 children away from the limelight and focusing on creating a stable home environment their enduring
00:49:29.860 marriage marked by mutual respect and a deep commitment to family is often admired for its longevity and
00:49:36.820 the sense of balance they've maintained despite the demands of chris's hollywood career david schwimmer
00:49:43.700 david schwimmer famously known for his role as ross geller on friends married british artist and
00:49:51.300 photographer zoe buckman in 2010 the two met in 2007 while schwimmer was in london directing the film
00:49:59.380 run fat boy run and their connection quickly grew zoe originally from london had been pursuing her career
00:50:07.140 in visual arts and photography despite their different professions their shared creativity and
00:50:13.060 understanding of the arts strengthened their bond in 2010 david and zoe tied the knot in a private
00:50:21.140 ceremony in new york city the couple welcomed their daughter cleo buckman schwimmer in 2011. schwimmer who
00:50:30.020 had spent years in the public eye due to his iconic role on friends often expressed his desire to keep his
00:50:36.340 family life private he and zoe work to maintain a low-profile lifestyle focusing on raising their
00:50:42.820 daughter and balancing their yeah like i've never seen her i've never seen this woman ever never seen
00:50:48.660 careers despite their efforts to keep their relationship out of the spotlight the couple decided to separate
00:50:55.140 in 2017 god damn it i thought okay i thought this is
00:51:05.620 getting more black pilled every day i was like oh they're really cute teen after nearly a decade together
00:51:11.460 both schwimmer and buckman have spoken respectfully about their decision to part ways
00:51:17.060 emphasizing their commitment to co-parenting their daughter and maintaining a positive relationship
00:51:22.660 while their marriage ended schwimmer has often credited zoe for her contributions to his personal
00:51:29.220 growth and for their shared dedication to raising their child in a loving and supportive environment
00:51:35.060 doug mpa says also if you have a comment you can go to the website sign up get into the chat there
00:51:40.260 you just put pearl reed drew barrymore is a four at best i don't get how she got deemed attractive i don't
00:51:44.900 get it i think back in the day i would have given her a six sorry doug 22 year old drew you gotta
00:51:50.420 that's what i would put it meant john stewart john stewart met tracy mcshane in 1996 while they were
00:51:58.180 both working at a film festival in new york city at the time john was a rising stand-up comedian and
00:52:04.980 tracy was working as a production assistant tracy originally from philadelphia had a background in
00:52:11.220 animal science having graduated from temple university her passion for animals later led her to pursue a
00:52:17.220 career as a veterinary technician and an animal rights advocate in 2000 after four years of dating
00:52:24.740 john and tracy married in a private ceremony on stewart's farm in new jersey their shared values
00:52:30.660 and sense of humor helped them build a life together and they went on to have two children john has often
00:52:36.820 credited tracy with being his strongest supporter noting how her strength and compassion have provided him
00:52:42.660 with balance during the ups and downs of his career tracy's dedication to animal rights advocacy
00:52:49.700 combined with her hands-on work as a veterinary technician has also earned her respect in her field
00:52:56.980 throughout john's highly public career as a comedian and former host of the daily show tracy has
00:53:02.980 remained a constant presence finally they stayed together supporting his professional endeavors while
00:53:12.900 maintaining a more private life together they have cultivated a harmonious family life rooted in their
00:53:20.340 shared principles and commitment to each other their enduring partnership exemplifies how a deep bond and
00:53:27.620 shared priorities can be the foundation for a lasting and fulfilling union patrick dempsey
00:53:34.740 all right we're gonna do patrick dempsey known for his role as dr derrick shepherd on gray's anatomy
00:53:40.740 meant he was hired to do his hair for a photo shoot jillian who has worked with numerous high-profile
00:53:46.980 clients in hollywood quick see that's playing chestnut checkers right that that's what i mean if you
00:53:53.220 gotta marry a guy in a certain industry you just gotta like be there so here you know she's doing
00:53:59.940 hair for high-profile men chess chess that i don't know why women cut women's hair cut men's hair like
00:54:08.660 do you know what i mean that's a way better strategy caught patrick's attention with her expertise and
00:54:13.380 creativity the two developed a close connection he didn't care about her expertise and creativity come
00:54:19.860 on he cared about that ass you know and it wasn't long before they were dating in the same year they
00:54:26.740 were married in a private ceremony attended by close friends and family jillian who also owns her
00:54:33.220 own successful beauty business has been a strong supporter of patrick throughout his acting career
00:54:39.540 over the years the couple has welcomed three children and patrick often speaks about how important
00:54:45.060 jillian has been in helping him maintain a balanced healthy lifestyle she introduced him to healthier
00:54:50.900 eating habits yoga and other wellness practices that have become integral to his daily life okay guys so
00:54:58.100 let's let's bring up doug mpa first um and get doug mpa thought hey how are you
00:55:07.540 i'm good how are you i'm good what are your thoughts on the topic doug mpa
00:55:12.260 get yourself a mid because you could end up in a steph curry aisha curry situation you remember that
00:55:20.420 whole thing oh because she was mad she wasn't hot anymore no so she's mad that she wasn't getting as
00:55:28.980 much attention as her husband let me play and so she was on a show full of cackling hyenas and they're
00:55:35.780 like girl you need to do your own thing and get your own attention and make sure that he knows that these
00:55:41.140 guys want you so she did that swimsuit shoot and all that stuff she's really trying to compete
00:55:48.820 for attention with one of the greatest basketball players of all time okay i'm gonna play the clip
00:55:55.540 really quick there's me and like honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity
00:56:01.220 is the fact that yeah like there are all these women like throwing themselves but me like the past 10
00:56:06.980 years like i don't have any of that like i have zero this sounds weird but like male attention
00:56:14.660 and so then like i begin to internalize and i'm like is something wrong with you're not looking
00:56:21.700 but i'm gonna tell you something else too when your radar's turned off because i dealt with that
00:56:27.540 for years too like and i was young like you yeah like oh my god i mean because i don't want it but
00:56:33.380 it'd be nice to know that like someone's looking but when you get dangerous what would you have rated
00:56:40.660 her in her prime uh ayesha curry when they first got together she was a seven easy curry young okay
00:56:51.060 because i was like i don't know if i'd put her at eight plus let me look at her young yeah i'd say seven
00:56:55.940 but that's what happens when you don't get with the mid as someone famous here let me play
00:57:04.180 try to compete with you let me play devil's advocate don't you want beautiful daughters though like good
00:57:09.540 looking kids yeah but we've all seen attractive women with trolls as parents i have
00:57:17.620 yeah i think in a mom's beauty matters more right i think it does for the kids i could be wrong though
00:57:28.260 i don't know um but what i'm saying is you got to think about the kind of life you want your kids to
00:57:34.100 live and what kind of mother you want for your children you may have protective kids but you have
00:57:39.780 to be married to a woman who's a demon for your whole your whole life are you serious and in your
00:57:45.620 experience would you say that eight pluses are always demons right like well they're they're just
00:57:53.780 attention seeking i told you they want to compete with their their high value man they think that
00:58:00.340 something that they're going to do in life will ever compare to the achievements of that man and it
00:58:06.580 just won't it just won't but wouldn't you i'm just playing devil's advocate so i've heard men say
00:58:14.100 that like beautiful women are actually nicer because they don't get approached as much where
00:58:20.340 like the mids get their egos stroked because men are more comfortable approaching them do you think
00:58:24.580 that's true or untrue uh before social media i'd say yes but now that social media is here that that's
00:58:33.860 not true at all yeah that's true because you're going to see quickly with your like likes and stuff
00:58:38.180 that's true a hundred percent yep that's a really so i would say get with a mid because
00:58:46.020 a lot of mids when they get well i mean i'm talking as a guy in his 40s back before social
00:58:54.260 media a lot of mids would be they would really appreciate being the wife to a man like steph curry
00:59:01.140 or that they would realize that but i don't know like mids are all messed up now with social media and
00:59:05.940 you know being able to have access to men to high value men that'll bang them so what about the what
00:59:11.780 about the best couples you know like the best couples you know what would you rate their wives like
00:59:17.380 maybe your three most solid couples fives and sixes yeah that's for sure and most of the time
00:59:29.140 what work because all my friends are accomplished and all of their wives are happy to be that man's
00:59:37.460 wife you know even when they're the professionals they talk about their careers and their the degrees
00:59:42.740 and stuff but there's no doubt all of them took their husband's last name and they're happy to have
00:59:47.780 done so yeah do we have any other callers no okay guys call it what are you guys doing um
00:59:59.300 yeah because that's really the i'm trying to think of the best couples i know do you know what
01:00:06.340 i would say one of the best couples i know she was probably a five or six when she met him she got a
01:00:11.780 little fat but they're really happy so well he got a little so here's the thing she i think she got
01:00:18.180 him fat i think women do that sometimes they want to get you fat so you don't get too much female
01:00:24.020 attention sorry go ahead so uh in the chat guys who are married back me up well let me know what you
01:00:31.780 think about this when a guy marries a woman right the image of her on their wedding day stays in his
01:00:38.740 brain for the rest of his life 100 that's why you see guys with the old battle axe she's gained 50 pounds
01:00:47.700 or whatever it's because guys still will always hold the idealized view of his wife in his wedding dress
01:00:54.580 uh in her wedding dress women that's why men put up with so much we're the romantic gender we idealize
01:01:03.700 our woman even when she's um uh you know screwing us over have you ever had a bad um a bad experience
01:01:12.980 with an eight plus or like you've seen something go really wrong uh yeah i i'm sorry what's an example so
01:01:24.260 i mean i've never had well i mean my ex-wife was a 10 okay and that didn't go too oh yeah yeah yeah
01:01:38.660 she ended up cheating and stuff like that so um but yeah i was one of those people every single eight
01:01:44.500 plus i've been with you have to worry about them getting attention from other guys a lot of women
01:01:49.860 who can constantly get attention when there's a problem they will male attention makes them feel
01:01:56.420 better because they're really used to getting it 100 we're like the meds they kind of know they're not
01:02:06.420 going to be the center of attention in any room yeah i've shown pearl a picture of my ex-wife and she
01:02:13.700 would agree that she's a 10. don't make me be harsh no she's really attractive she was a 10 come on
01:02:23.540 i thought she was a 10. but but yeah if i had a son i would tell him to get himself a mid
01:02:29.940 that would take his last name and be on his team because the most important thing a woman i think one
01:02:34.420 of the reasons why all these mids are winning is because they're they're on the they're on the high
01:02:40.660 value man's team they're happy to be there they're happy to be the guy's wife and that's what men want
01:02:48.260 yeah um there's no other callers no i'm trying to see is there any other examples of mids we can
01:02:57.700 think of can bring up like mid couples ayesha curry there's someone else pierce bro someone said pierce
01:03:08.100 morgan's wife got old let me see well what would you wait uh vanessa bryant kobe ryan's wife
01:03:18.500 let me look at her but uh it's pierce morgan's wife they're kind of looks matched if i'm being
01:03:24.580 honest but obviously he's a tv celebrity so that adds um pierce's wife she's not that bad like yeah
01:03:33.460 she can tell she's older but i don't i wouldn't say she completely like i would say this is aging
01:03:39.780 gracefully do you see this doug or can you see my screen uh-uh i don't see the screen okay have a
01:03:44.820 now do you see it i mean most women are out of pierce morgan's league yeah yeah but do you know what
01:03:54.020 i mean i think she aged okay i don't think this is like out of the women we saw like is she british
01:04:00.100 i think so yeah because i will always argue that british women age the worst of any women on the
01:04:06.740 planet i put in the chat that there's no older female british celebrity who's hot other than
01:04:12.820 elizabeth hurley all the rest of just age like sour goat milk who's the other one who did you just say
01:04:20.340 that i should look up vanessa bryant oh vanessa bryant what would you rate her uh young or now
01:04:32.420 now um i said his wife aged well they're like don't burn bridges with pierce i'm like okay look
01:04:40.020 he's not watching my show he's got better stuff to do okay what i'm gonna put now
01:04:45.540 do you think they would have stayed together if he didn't die yeah yeah yeah i think so
01:04:55.540 because well first off i think that she was she she stayed with him through that scandal
01:05:00.660 where he slept with that woman in denver and then two his mom hated the fact that that they were
01:05:07.860 together and i think that they're a good couple number one but then that spite would have kept them
01:05:14.100 together because kobe bryant's mom hated that woman because she wasn't black i think when she was
01:05:24.100 young she probably was a seven or eight but now i would say six i think she's still cute i think she's
01:05:29.860 aged well like for having three kids would you agree like six seven yeah i'd agree like i'd say like for
01:05:38.420 her age seven but like because age adjusted six yeah rip kobe bryant oh we got some callers now we got nate
01:05:52.500 let's bring on nate
01:05:58.100 nate so what are your thoughts beautiful women or you gotta turn off the youtube in the background nate
01:06:03.620 sorry go ahead okay yeah um no i i have a i guess what you guys are saying makes sense logically
01:06:12.660 right um but i think you i think you have to be careful too because especially in this modern culture
01:06:22.340 you will have average looking women that will sort of adapt some of those same um
01:06:30.980 um mindsets um you still there yeah yeah we can hear you yeah so you got i mean so what i've noticed
01:06:42.340 because i haven't gotten married i think right off the bat initially you do you kind of see that egoism
01:06:49.620 or whatever you want to call it in the better looking women right off the bat and it's a lot more glaring
01:06:57.460 but over time you will you'll notice some of those behaviors and some of those attributes and even
01:07:06.740 just the average looking women because they adopt some of that same mentality of the culture and at
01:07:14.580 first you're sort of taken aback um even just objectively you know not trying to be mean or anything
01:07:21.380 but you're just objectively looking at the situation you're like wait a minute you don't even
01:07:25.460 that ratio of of good looks and attitude isn't making sense here but they just feel entitled in
01:07:32.980 general so i mean look at the clips that you played like you were laughing about it pearl but
01:07:39.540 how many of those guys ended up getting divorced um so yeah i mean i think the general logic makes sense
01:07:49.460 but i think you have to be careful just assuming that oh that's a safe bet because it it turns out
01:07:56.660 that it isn't always so is your experience that between the more beautiful women that you've dated
01:08:02.100 and the less beautiful women that you've dated has there been no difference in attitude to you
01:08:09.780 i think what happens is initially there is so initially it kind of follows that more logical
01:08:18.180 train of thought you know when you're approaching a woman in public when you're getting to know them
01:08:24.580 women who are um you know eight nine or ten on the on the look spectrum definitely tend to give
01:08:32.100 that attitude and that self-entitlement more they generally aren't um you know there's exceptions but
01:08:38.260 they're not going to be as friendly or as receptive and it may be the same thing with while you're dating
01:08:44.260 them um there's more hurdles or challenges where women that are more average looking they're going
01:08:52.260 to be a little bit more easy to deal with kind of just like base level logic i'm nice to you you're nice
01:08:58.100 to me a little bit more easy to approach but what i'm saying is over time i feel like it changes
01:09:07.220 um and they you know whether it's a marriage or dating or whatever they start to assume some of
01:09:14.020 those um same positions of entitlement so i think you just have to be careful just assuming that it's
01:09:23.060 a safe bet because i i don't necessarily think it is i think you really have to vet the person and the
01:09:29.700 personality um i would i would say if you're going to just paint with a broad brush yes you're going
01:09:37.300 to get a little bit more agreement from women who aren't supermodels but i think you have to be
01:09:46.260 careful and you really just have to vet the person and the personality before you assume because an
01:09:52.340 average looking woman can surprise you can turn on you too speaking of that hugh jackman because
01:10:01.300 there's just certain people where if they get divorced there's no hope for the rest of us right so
01:10:05.940 hugh jackman you saw earlier he's getting divorced and and his wife was first off what wasn't she like
01:10:12.100 15 years older than him so she's 68 years old and she's divorcing hugh jackman because allegedly he had a
01:10:19.940 a secret affair well of course she's getting divorced at 68 years old
01:10:27.460 yeah like what does she think is going to be out there like well why would she leave hugh jack
01:10:34.020 of all people because he was banging some younger chick well from her perspective in the modern culture
01:10:42.100 she figures she's she's first of all she can say she was married to hugh jackman
01:10:48.260 um she's gonna get a pile of money um and she's going to get her retribution for being uh cheated on
01:11:02.900 and and she she she probably thinks she has some options she probably find out that she doesn't have very many but
01:11:09.700 they're married for 27 years she's 68 years old she's gonna throw away 27 years over him getting
01:11:16.740 some young tail come on now yeah well but and she gets freedom now she can do whatever she wants and
01:11:21.940 he pays for it right like yeah well she gets to get back that's like the big drum you know and i get to take
01:11:31.700 your money um she can bang all of the high profile guys that she's met over the years you know i mean i'm
01:11:39.700 i doubt like nothing's gonna come of it right but women women almost prefer being side chicks so
01:11:50.020 that's a shame unfortunately i don't make the rules you know i didn't make this society
01:11:56.180 um doug mpa do you have any questions for nate we have one more caller so if you can bring him up
01:12:05.460 uh no i do not well thanks thanks for having me on thanks for calling in nate call back anytime
01:12:12.260 what's going on charles
01:12:18.100 how's it going you gotta unmute yourself
01:12:20.180 hey how are you good how are you um so mids are good mids are beautiful women
01:12:31.460 mids all day okay so you see a difference all day you see a difference in the character
01:12:39.380 oh god yeah yeah so my ex-wife i would put probably like i don't know an eight and a half for me she was
01:12:48.580 a 10 you know um and took me to the took me to the effing cleaners in my divorce um
01:13:02.260 my younger girlfriend now solid seven solid solid seven um you know i think i think as a guy you
01:13:12.980 probably have to be realistic and um you know i'd probably rate myself as like a
01:13:21.700 seven and a half somewhere around there as a guy for 60 maybe an eight who knows but um
01:13:29.780 60 yeah so you gotta get 60 you're like you gotta be a 10 you gotta be a 10 in the 60 year olds
01:13:36.100 right i've seen the 60 year olds nowadays they got like the beer guts and stuff go ahead
01:13:44.580 no i don't i don't i teach yoga so no beer gut
01:13:50.500 um but you gotta go a little lower and then you can you can breathe a little bit of comfort
01:13:58.660 but not too much don't get cocky um because they'll still take you you know for a ride um
01:14:08.500 you know i think younger guys they definitely have to
01:14:14.500 the the tens first off the tens aren't even going to look at you unless you're like
01:14:20.100 multiple millions in the bank and and six feet tall they're not even going to talk to you you know
01:14:28.900 and you have to be able to support their lifestyle as well as yours um so i would i would advise any guy
01:14:38.820 mids will number one if you're my age and you get a you get a younger mid you know solid seven seven and a
01:14:47.940 half um they're so thankful and so happy like it's and they'll keep you happy that's the thing they'll
01:14:56.740 like we've we talked about this the last time i was on they'll keep they'll do everything they can to keep
01:15:02.500 you happy um but people's perspectives are so screwed up pearl like you know i've run into more
01:15:13.300 more more women 50 uh let's say 50 50 to 58 who think they're gonna go out there and find like
01:15:25.540 you know the whole cougar thing they're gonna get some young guy who's got a lot of money
01:15:30.180 and those guys couldn't even be bothered like they don't want to talk to them
01:15:36.100 do you know meet them at the bar and they'll take them home and they'll roll around with them for a
01:15:40.660 little while but as far as anything other than that it ain't happening do you know it's gonna be
01:15:45.540 a harsh reality for a lot of a lot of these older women who are going for younger guys there's gonna
01:15:51.780 be a harsh reckoning coming for for these broads because yeah do you know what i'm sorry go ahead
01:15:58.740 bro no god go ahead it's okay good so like it's all good in your 20s but when you start hitting your
01:16:06.180 30s and start making real money and you want a legacy like older women are just out they're just
01:16:10.980 out so you're gonna see more situationships where a guy met a girl when he was 22 and she was 35
01:16:19.460 or or he'll be 25 she'll be 35 and by the time he's 32 he's gonna be out and this woman will have
01:16:26.420 spent seven years with a guy and not gotten a marriage well that's gonna work the older women they
01:16:34.100 don't get the whole situation ship thing they're they're thinking they they've landed their their
01:16:39.380 guy and he's like he's got a string of cougars like a mile long and then then he's gonna run into
01:16:47.220 one that's 35 and be like oh yeah and she's gonna say yep you have to the the little black book everything's
01:16:54.340 gotta go um it's me or nothing and he's gonna lock and load and be in um probably for 15 years
01:17:05.060 and then she's gonna divorce him but the problem is she'll be hitting that 50 range she's gonna divorce
01:17:13.060 him think she's gonna have like have it made and you know to be honest i don't mean this in a bad way but
01:17:19.860 i didn't hit my prime you know what i hit my prime at 50 when i was divorced in 50 it was like shooting
01:17:28.820 fish in a barrel um it like and it's not like um women my age it's 35 to 50 like they don't want
01:17:41.940 anything to do with the with the younger guys who who can't who don't know how to treat them right and
01:17:47.700 who sit there and cry and simp and do all this crap do you know what my conclusion was a mid 20
01:17:55.860 years younger would be the best option and you're smiling so it seems to be working for you he's too
01:18:04.500 happy it's not 20 years younger it's it's it's it's it's younger but not 20 but i'm happy i'm happy
01:18:11.540 what is it we talked about that last time yeah i know i was like i can tell what a guy's dating a
01:18:15.140 significantly younger woman he smiles a lot
01:18:23.780 like charlie's smile remember he brought the same smile he had last time this time look at this guy
01:18:30.740 yeah yeah i'm sorry you know what i i all right no we don't apologize for smiling oh my god good
01:18:39.380 can i be blunt yeah can i yeah go for the show for what can i be is this youtube sensitive or oh yeah go
01:18:45.700 for it you know what when i was in my 20s i didn't get laid as much as i do now in my my whole decade of
01:18:54.180 20 to 30 okay like absolutely not not even close so yeah you know um how do i want to put it yeah i'm
01:19:06.500 i'm i'm i'm i'm i'm high on the hog man i'm totally happy yeah i used to tell all the guys i used to
01:19:15.380 mentor guys just keep your head down until you're 35 man the whole world opens up this weird switch
01:19:21.060 flips at 35 i'm telling you it just i don't know what it is just boom there's all the women just
01:19:27.620 look at you differently if you're accomplished you don't have any children you you have a highly
01:19:32.980 valued skill highly valued trade or highly valued education and you you carry yourself like a man who
01:19:39.220 who's doing something in his life at 35 you don't have to do anything at all yep and how old are you
01:19:46.100 i i'm i'm sorry i'm i'm mid 40s okay so you're you're in that you're in that zone man yeah boy
01:19:56.420 you're in that zone and and for you i tell pearl a bunch of my dating stories 25 to 42 you know
01:20:05.780 yeah yep 25 how about 20 how about 22 let's keep going
01:20:10.260 you know what their mental cases though the anybody under 25 is just a freaking mental case
01:20:18.580 i'm sorry they're all woke they they they want to like go both ways and do all kinds of stuff
01:20:25.620 screw that shit tattoos everywhere the septum piercing yeah oh the chest tattoos the worst of the chest
01:20:33.060 tattoos like brutal brutal the single moms with chest tattoos of the full sleeve you're like nah i'm i'm good
01:20:43.860 what's the um do you have any other questions for him doug mpa so so you know let's say you you met a
01:20:53.460 young man who was um 25 and literally on his way he's showing maybe he's getting into like the the
01:21:05.620 acting industry or he just got an engineering degree or something and no i'm sorry let me change it
01:21:12.420 let's say he's 32 right yeah and he's really starting to get to the point where he wants to look for
01:21:18.260 for a while and and he and you would you recommend why would how would you justify him looking for a
01:21:26.180 mid instead especially if you know that because he's successful i wouldn't i wouldn't he's going
01:21:30.660 to be surrounded i'd tell him slay all the groupies and wait till he's 40.
01:21:38.820 no i i would tell him no no no no no um you know pearl you know this divorce culture
01:21:46.260 no he's prime he's a prime target for divorce and being ruined when he's 50 absolutely not
01:21:54.660 nope nope slay all the groupies all the wannabes at work whatever you want to do i know you had the
01:22:01.620 talk yesterday about sleeping with people at work and or two days ago you don't do that but
01:22:07.620 go for it man wait till you're 40 and then we say do it with a do it with a job that you don't need that
01:22:14.500 much that's the yeah we don't say we don't say don't do it super good advice you know there was
01:22:21.460 a guy that called in and said he got part-time jobs to get women like he would fight like he
01:22:27.060 wanted to meet women at work and so he would get like a part-time job to get laid
01:22:32.900 everything that we say about the workplace it does not apply to restaurants i'm sorry
01:22:43.460 no no no no no no because no absolutely not because they're all meth heads and they got tats and and
01:22:50.180 piercings and and you know the that's shit in their ears that that dangled no no no no no no
01:22:57.860 nope you don't want a line cook who's crack who's addicted to meth and who's probably doing all the
01:23:04.180 other line cooks in the restaurant yeah pearl i'll tell you something funny okay i'm retired i'm working
01:23:11.780 part-time right now and that's how i met my significantly younger friend was not she doesn't
01:23:19.780 work where i work but i met her through work yoga that's cogent advice that you gave
01:23:25.140 you know well i didn't give it it was another guy but um the yoga you said is that where was it
01:23:31.620 yoga instructing um no no but that's something we have in common oh okay i was like that's a great
01:23:39.620 that's got to be a great place to meet women if you can avoid like what the hippies
01:23:45.060 oh so okay so in vermont no no the only time yoga in vermont is good to meet women is when you go to
01:23:54.260 a retreat like in maui and they have like a like a 10 grand buy-in to get there other than that
01:24:01.460 absolutely not wait why are the are the women crazy like what's the yeah they're crazy they're they're
01:24:09.700 they're so far they're crazy oh my god yeah they're absolutely off the rails crazy you think woke no no
01:24:18.820 no no um you know i just went to a yoga retreat about a week ago and it's not the hippies it's
01:24:26.100 just the the feminists that are out there are just rabid they they circle up like a like a gang of
01:24:34.100 sharks you know you don't want anything to do with them at yoga studios it's almost as bad as gyms
01:24:40.100 you know you don't want to go to a gym and and get caught looking at anybody you'll get you'll get
01:24:46.580 a lawsuit handed to you yeah that's true um i think we got another person calling in you got any questions
01:24:53.940 else yeah yeah no thank you i'll call back anytime yeah call back anytime thank you guys i love seeing
01:25:02.260 a man smiling so thanks for calling in that million dollar smile of you know i'm getting some young tail
01:25:09.140 every single day i'm talking about have a good night guys yeah you have a good one buddy
01:25:20.100 all right you can let in i think it's a never married
01:25:23.300 dating oh did he leave oh oh he is okay
01:25:30.660 um
01:25:30.980 let's see what's going
01:25:45.780 so oh what is your like cut off for women like age wise what's the oldest women you'll go on a date with
01:25:54.740 um so be in my mid 40s i won't do over 50 okay so you'll date with so you know is there what have
01:26:04.740 you noticed as a because what have you noticed as a difference between the women in their 20s 30s 40s
01:26:11.140 like i'm curious is there any generational differences that you've noticed like the guy
01:26:16.100 before was saying women under 25 are too woke do you think that the women like are the women after 25 less
01:26:23.940 woke i would say yes um um that's good question so one of the biggest problems with dating women in
01:26:35.460 the 30s and 40s is a lot of them have have lifestyles already okay well well the biggest problem with
01:26:42.420 dating women in the 30s and 40s is a lot of them that are still single they want a a wife and not a
01:26:47.860 husband so they want a guy to come into their life and add to their lifestyle because if they're
01:26:55.780 they're not willing to give up their lifestyle or or give up even their last name like i'd say
01:27:00.980 50 of the women that i go out with in their 30s and 40s they say they want to be married but they
01:27:06.900 wouldn't change their last name but women 35 and below um they're just
01:27:15.540 if you're in a major city a lot of them are doing that modern women life cycle that you
01:27:22.100 and i came up with where they're still in the middle of giving all their best years
01:27:26.260 to either some school or some job that can care less about them so you have to hear about their
01:27:31.220 careers and all this bs um and then it goes from that to right around 33 they want to rush to have
01:27:40.660 uh a child it may be a family so there's a switch right around like 30 to 33 where
01:27:47.700 um they finally realize that their job can care less about them but then they want to rush and
01:27:52.500 a lot of women especially the major cities have no relationship experience it is insane
01:27:59.860 i'll meet women who are 30 to 35 and have never had a serious relationship never lived with a guy
01:28:04.980 so um but yeah i'd say women between above 27 are less woke than the women below but once again
01:28:14.500 they still want to i'm gonna save the world with my social work degree and i don't want to put a man
01:28:19.860 before my career so that's the biggest problem with dating women between the ages of 27 and 33.
01:28:24.980 do you see any differences between like races like asian white um black or do you do you see i i
01:28:32.260 know like i know you're gonna say but i'm just curious you already know where i'm gonna go with
01:28:37.700 okay go ahead go off so so uh you know you know my position on b-dubs b-dubs uh they're as they get
01:28:50.100 older they get worse as they get more educated they get worse so you know you're there are some
01:28:58.340 good black women out there but they're hard to find you have to go to like a comic-con or something
01:29:06.100 if she's a b-dub and she watches anime that's usually a good sign um but anyway but um
01:29:13.540 i'm trying to think of the differences between a lot of white women are still i don't know like
01:29:23.860 how can i put the differences so the differences in races based upon age based upon what
01:29:30.180 expand a little bit yeah like if you met a 32 year old white woman versus asian what like
01:29:36.580 is there any difference in the way they like move mindset that you're gonna like notice
01:29:41.220 this so it it's still weird to find the asian woman who's 32 and not married uh outside of
01:29:48.740 california california has a lot of asian women who were on the super feminist step and most asian
01:29:55.860 women i i know are married by the time that they're 32 um most white women have have wisened up by the
01:30:04.260 time they're 32 and realize that they need a husband even with the liberal women like oh man
01:30:09.780 um but black women they're just going to be single their whole lives and be on this strong independent
01:30:15.540 thing so that's that's a big difference in race what about latinas latinas can either be
01:30:24.980 a traditional hispanic you know and be um want the husband as a household and stuff or they can be
01:30:32.740 like b-dubs there's no in between because there's there's a lot of hispanic hispanic women and latinas
01:30:40.660 who emulate black female culture all the worst parts about it i have no idea why
01:30:48.900 yeah well i think that's all our callers doug mpa thanks for the insight and telling us about your
01:30:55.140 dating experience yeah i i share all these dating experiences with pearl and she laughs
01:31:03.540 oh man yeah it's crazy out here but yeah and then just one other thing about dating guys
01:31:09.140 um if you hit 35 you're successful not married no kids there are just certain realities you're
01:31:14.900 going to have to accept one um most of the women around you are going to have children
01:31:20.020 and guys no single mothers ever don't sleep with them don't date don't don't sleep with them don't
01:31:27.700 date them don't marry them and then most women around you are going to have more debt than you too
01:31:35.220 so make sure to ask if these women have children and make sure to check their credit scores
01:31:41.140 okay well thanks so much doug mpa do you have any final thoughts
01:31:49.460 um if you choose to get married marry a mid where who realizes that her you giving her your your
01:31:58.900 last name is the best gift that she can give well besides if you have kids cool well thanks so much
01:32:06.580 doug mpa and thank you guys all for um tuning in tonight i'm doing a show all week this week so
01:32:14.740 monday tuesday wednesday thursday friday because i'm traveling next week so i'm trying to give you guys
01:32:19.380 extra content um i will before um i think i'm gonna be here until monday next week so i'm gonna film some
01:32:27.140 maybe a street interview and some reaction stuff to post next week while i'm gone so uh make sure
01:32:34.980 wait is there anything else in the chat to to on the website to read i don't think so i didn't see
01:32:41.300 anything that said pearl reed some people have been saying that i've been reading stuff that wasn't
01:32:46.260 meant to read so i'm trying to i'm trying to only stick to the ones that say pearl reed i don't see
01:32:51.300 anything i just yeah i just scrolled through earlier um yeah so thanks so much guys make sure you
01:32:58.020 subscribe to the channel please like the video on your way out and i will see you guys tomorrow night
01:33:03.300 all right thanks doug mpa bye
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