JustPearlyThings - Hoemath ｜ The Sitdown

00:00:00.040 Do we need men? Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 1.00

00:00:08.680 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. Most young men are single, most young women are not. 0.98

00:00:14.600 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:19.300 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:22.340 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:00:23.600 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:25.160 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:33.120 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:36.420 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:39.100 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:42.660 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:46.760 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:49.220 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:52.360 Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

00:00:57.260 It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:00.980 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:04.640 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:07.440 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:12.660 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:14.820 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:18.260 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:21.040 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:23.940 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:28.940 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:32.120 You need no evidence.

00:01:33.220 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:36.900 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:40.280 I interview them on the other side.

00:01:42.520 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:45.180 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:47.320 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:49.520 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:51.120 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:53.040 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:55.460 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:59.720 Family is the foundation of society.

00:02:01.420 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:04.540 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:08.920 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:10.840 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:12.660 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:14.140 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:17.200 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:21.600 Oh, freeze your eggs. 1.00

00:02:22.380 Have an abortion. 0.73

00:02:23.420 What? 1.00

00:02:23.820 You're evil.

00:02:24.680 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. 0.81

00:02:28.520 Right.

00:02:28.780 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:32.640 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:35.380 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:36.280 And that's the thing.

00:02:36.840 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:40.040 This is not about happiness.

00:02:41.540 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:44.180 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave

00:02:48.800 when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:52.900 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:56.540 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:02:58.080 They have all the power.

00:02:59.340 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:01.620 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:03:04.240 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:07.480 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:09.400 Men are homeless.

00:03:10.020 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:12.140 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:16.520 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:21.920 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:25.800 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:28.460 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:35.560 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:37.400 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:38.440 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:40.220 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:41.560 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:43.480 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:46.120 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:49.800 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get... 1.00

00:03:52.000 500K.

00:03:52.680 500K.

00:03:53.100 300K.

00:03:53.620 300K.

00:03:54.080 200K.

00:03:54.520 Am I crazy?

00:03:55.220 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:57.480 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00

00:04:01.060 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:04.960 Women. 0.81

00:04:05.320 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:08.600 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:10.860 I'm over it.

00:04:12.020 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:13.320 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:15.080 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:17.840 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:19.140 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:19.760 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:21.080 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:22.160 She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this. 1.00

00:04:24.580 It's already happening. 1.00

00:04:25.720 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:27.180 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want 0.99

00:04:30.820 a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:32.860 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:37.100 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:41.220 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:42.820 The American story does not end well.

00:04:45.380 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:51.080 All right.

00:04:55.160 What is up, guys?

00:04:56.600 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:05:00.000 Today, we have a special guest on the channel for the sit down.

00:05:03.100 But before we get to that, that is our divorce documentary trailer.

00:05:07.540 So if you guys do want to donate, the link is in the description.

00:05:11.020 We're like 20 bucks away from $32,000 raised.

00:05:14.760 We're trying to raise $100,000 to put this divorce documentary together.

00:05:18.600 Thank you to the three anonymous donations we had yesterday of 20, 50 and $25 and 130 from

00:05:26.280 Peter.

00:05:26.780 We appreciate you guys so much.

00:05:28.340 Thank you so much for donating to this.

00:05:30.880 Okay.

00:05:31.640 So today I have a special guest I'm very excited to have on.

00:05:35.740 I'm really a big fan of him.

00:05:37.040 So today we have on a YouTuber with 797,000, 100,000 subscribers.

00:05:45.760 Welcome to the channel.

00:05:47.520 HomeAth, how are you?

00:05:49.100 How are you doing?

00:05:49.860 Good to be here.

00:05:51.260 Thank you so much for coming.

00:05:53.440 Of course.

00:05:54.800 Long time in waiting.

00:05:57.280 Oh, yeah?

00:05:58.400 Yeah.

00:05:59.020 I've been watching you for years before I started.

00:06:01.360 No way.

00:06:01.760 Really?

00:06:02.660 Oh, yeah, for sure.

00:06:03.960 Oh, cool.

00:06:04.360 What got you into the Red Pill Stabase?

00:06:08.020 What was your first viral video?

00:06:10.480 Yeah, okay.

00:06:11.100 It was actually a really funny story.

00:06:14.680 I had never really consumed any Red Pill content.

00:06:17.540 I never really watched it or read any books or anything.

00:06:19.800 I knew about it, but I mainly just studied psychology and consciousness and had a lot of

00:06:25.880 personal experience in dating.

00:06:27.640 And after COVID, I say this so much, people are so sick of hearing it.

00:06:32.160 After COVID ruined my life, it like ruined everything I had going for me particularly hard.

00:06:37.660 I was just sitting around with nothing to do, going nowhere for a little while.

00:06:41.860 And I just made a cranky video on TikTok and it got 4 million views.

00:06:46.000 So I made a career out of it.

00:06:47.780 No way.

00:06:48.300 It was a total fluke.

00:06:50.320 I was just like, I happen to have all the skills to make this into a successful career.

00:06:54.580 So it was just this 25-year-old girl saying, men with no hoes, where are you? 0.99

00:07:00.360 And so I just made her a little chart and showed her where the men with no hoes were. 1.00

00:07:04.200 And I said, the men with hoes are up here paying attention to you and all the other hoes. 1.00

00:07:08.920 And the men without hoes are down here sending you messages on Bumble and not receiving a response. 1.00

00:07:14.140 And it blew up and I made a whole thing out of it.

00:07:17.120 Wait, so how did COVID destroy your life?

00:07:20.480 Did you lose your job?

00:07:22.000 I lost kind of everything.

00:07:23.820 I don't want to get into too much detail.

00:07:26.220 I keep myself secret.

00:07:27.460 I don't want to get into too much detail about exactly what I was doing.

00:07:30.220 But yeah, I lost my income.

00:07:31.640 I lost my extracurriculars.

00:07:33.660 I lost my social circle.

00:07:35.660 All of that stress.

00:07:37.500 Plus the George Floyd stuff made my neighborhood a lot more dangerous.

00:07:42.320 I was in a really good neighborhood and it suddenly became really bad in one night.

00:07:46.960 So a lot of stressful things happened all at once and I kind of just couldn't handle it and it spiraled and I did not start spiraling back up for three years after.

00:07:57.640 So, wow.

00:07:59.040 I don't know anybody that had the George Floyd stuff like directly affect.

00:08:03.920 Because I remember when that happened, like I could hear the protests and stuff, but like it wasn't.

00:08:10.080 So was it like there's rioting in your neighborhood and stuff?

00:08:13.340 Well, yeah, there was a little bit of opportunistic crime.

00:08:18.820 Like I had never seen a crime on my street before, but on that night, all of a sudden, cars were pulling up and trying to break into apartments.

00:08:26.040 And there was this guy who, there was a bunch of people trying to break into one of those We Buy Gold shops.

00:08:33.200 And this guy upstairs didn't know they were trying to do that.

00:08:36.800 And he thought they were trying to go into his apartment.

00:08:39.080 So after the cops came and scared them off, he went outside shirtless with a kitchen knife and just stood there for 15 minutes panting.

00:08:46.280 Like he was terrified.

00:08:47.820 And I saw that from across the street.

00:08:49.820 So I knew they weren't trying to break into his home, but he had that experience.

00:08:53.440 Like he thought that 15 people were trying to break into his home.

00:08:57.120 So it got unstable.

00:09:00.200 And then after that night, all of a sudden, all the windows were smashed and, you know, my car wasn't safe and everything like that.

00:09:05.660 It was like, it just was overnight.

00:09:07.660 Wow.

00:09:08.080 Were you able to move?

00:09:09.460 Like, or how long did you have to endure that?

00:09:12.640 I tried to put my life back together for like almost two years after that.

00:09:17.680 I made some changes and everything.

00:09:20.120 But I was in an area where they had lockdowns for, you know, really long time and repeating and everything.

00:09:25.340 So they let us out.

00:09:26.920 And then I started planning my life again.

00:09:28.980 And then they just locked us back down.

00:09:30.580 It was like, oh, again.

00:09:32.160 So it was, yeah, it was basically two years of no social life, very little dating.

00:09:38.300 There was like one girl I met on Hinge and she only wanted to come over once because she was afraid of getting COVID and killing her parents. 0.79

00:09:43.640 So it was two years of nothing.

00:09:46.920 Well, I was curious because I saw a reply to one of my tweets that you had like a girlfriend or something that told you not to do.

00:09:54.520 No, well, not to do the YouTube stuff.

00:09:56.620 But like I said, it was a waste of your time.

00:09:59.160 Is that true?

00:09:59.960 Am I misremembering this reply?

00:10:02.280 You might be misremembering a detail of it because there was, I had a girlfriend last year, but she didn't tell me not to do the YouTube stuff.

00:10:09.900 There was somebody earlier in my life who told me not to do like anything that would have brought me here.

00:10:17.900 I did have a bad girlfriend at one point who, whenever I tried to develop my skills, she was like, this isn't going anywhere.

00:10:23.820 It's not doing anything for me at this exact moment.

00:10:26.000 So you need to stop.

00:10:27.280 Maybe that was what I was referencing.

00:10:29.460 Okay.

00:10:30.120 Well, like, so how did you come to your observations?

00:10:33.020 It was all through like personal experience and just like society.

00:10:37.780 Go ahead.

00:10:37.940 Yeah, yeah, it was, it was just a lucky combination of personal experience and, you know, my, my particular choice of studies.

00:10:46.000 I have a major in, in communications and I studied this thing called integral theory.

00:10:51.940 I don't know if you've seen my levels videos, but I'm really into consciousness.

00:10:55.580 I'm really into understanding how the mind works.

00:10:57.920 And I've read 48 Laws of Power, How to Win Friends and Influence People.

00:11:01.860 I read Scott Adams, Win Bigley is one of my favorite books.

00:11:04.080 And the more that I read all that stuff, I just started applying it to real life and, you know, figuring out how the principles work in real time.

00:11:15.680 And that's just the skill set that I make the videos with.

00:11:20.180 I just had to, I got, I was lucky enough to get a lot of experience along with the reading I was doing in my spare time.

00:11:26.420 And how has your life changed since you started content creation?

00:11:31.160 And you do it full time now, I assume.

00:11:33.380 Yeah, yeah, this is all I do.

00:11:34.520 I'm like, there's no way you don't.

00:11:35.920 I got that.

00:11:36.380 No, no, no, no.

00:11:37.220 Yeah, no, I haven't had a day off in seven months.

00:11:39.380 I basically don't leave the house except to get groceries.

00:11:42.440 But you love it, right?

00:11:43.720 You love it.

00:11:44.340 What's that?

00:11:44.740 You love it, right?

00:11:45.940 You seem like you do.

00:11:46.380 Well, it's my favorite job I've ever had as far as a job.

00:11:49.640 I would love to be able to go take a hike or something, but there's no time quite yet.

00:11:54.440 But yeah, how my life has changed is I have money for the first time ever.

00:11:59.420 I was making like a very pathetic amount of money per year on average from college until then.

00:12:05.280 And now I might actually make up for it.

00:12:07.520 Like things are going pretty well.

00:12:10.180 That is a big difference.

00:12:12.060 I'm doing something that I actually feel good about.

00:12:14.900 Like, you know how you've had jobs that you do just because you have to.

00:12:18.160 And it's, you know, you don't have any sense of like, is this doing anything for anyone?

00:12:23.560 Is it good for the world?

00:12:24.600 Most of my jobs were like that.

00:12:26.100 This one is not like that.

00:12:27.500 I've gotten to do life coaching.

00:12:29.620 I get a lot of people who, I always want to do life coaching before HomeF got, you know,

00:12:36.840 became lucky for me.

00:12:38.440 And I got the opportunity to prove that I can actually like bring people to breakthroughs

00:12:44.200 within an hour and like in an hour session every once in a while.

00:12:46.840 It would only take 40 minutes of the hour to get people to understand something new about

00:12:51.380 themselves and start making new decisions.

00:12:53.140 And it was like lots of opportunities to apply my skills.

00:12:56.800 So that's the main two things.

00:12:59.280 I can actually do something that is productive and worthwhile and tons of money.

00:13:04.260 What are the most common realizations that people have?

00:13:09.100 Because 40 minutes is pretty quick.

00:13:10.880 Yeah, go ahead.

00:13:12.140 Yeah, the most common realizations that people have is a good question.

00:13:15.580 They're all very, they're all very individual.

00:13:18.820 So there was one guy who couldn't figure out why he felt justified cheating on everything,

00:13:28.660 like handing in stuff at his job and, you know, lying to his friends.

00:13:32.700 And I helped him figure out what was the core of that.

00:13:35.840 We did that like right, I think five minutes before the hour was up.

00:13:39.000 He had the, that click moment.

00:13:40.520 There was someone who had a lot of bad dating experiences, a young woman, and she wanted 1.00

00:13:48.500 to know how to, the way that she phrased it was she wanted to, to know how to go forward

00:13:54.940 after having all that bad experience.

00:13:56.740 And I just sort of like reframed her to the way that you're going to feel about dating is

00:14:02.920 going to be built of your past experiences and you don't have good past experiences.

00:14:07.280 They're still in the future.

00:14:08.000 So you like, you have to go make different choices, get different experiences and make

00:14:11.820 those your past.

00:14:12.800 And then you'll remember it differently.

00:14:14.080 And just reframing that for her shifted the whole thing.

00:14:17.920 There was a guy who his girlfriend got a really desirable job.

00:14:25.160 And he reacted that to that by saying, I knew this job was going to take you away from me.

00:14:30.400 And I told him what he should have said was, um, I'm, I'm glad that like, I'm so happy

00:14:36.980 that you brought this job into our life.

00:14:39.680 So it's not like he's going to change the reality of her being less available, but that

00:14:44.780 would definitely change the emotional content of the relationship to, to not be like, oh,

00:14:50.360 your job is stealing you from me, which was probably part of the reason that the relationship

00:14:54.420 was experiencing trouble.

00:14:55.520 So it's usually stuff like that.

00:14:57.620 There was one guy who had his marriage ruined by an old friend.

00:15:03.320 And, um, and he said he, that he thought he was a really good judge of character and couldn't

00:15:08.680 believe that he missed it.

00:15:10.480 And so we went through who she was and everything.

00:15:12.600 And I showed him the exact thing that he missed.

00:15:14.500 He was like, oh, that was, that's like a resolution.

00:15:16.860 What he missed was that she was very beautiful and talked about wanting to have a family,

00:15:21.980 but was always single.

00:15:23.740 Oh, she was a really good, like, she was really well behaved and swear, no tattoos or anything 0.73

00:15:28.020 like that.

00:15:28.620 But just the fact that she said she wanted a family and could easily get one and didn't

00:15:32.320 have one.

00:15:32.820 It was like, what's the reason?

00:15:35.520 Okay.

00:15:36.660 Yeah.

00:15:37.840 Wow.

00:15:38.600 That's cool.

00:15:39.800 Yeah.

00:15:40.660 Lots of stuff like that.

00:15:41.700 Have you ever taken like art lessons?

00:15:43.660 Cause your stuff is so well drawn.

00:15:45.280 It's like done very well.

00:15:46.780 It's, it's not, but thank you.

00:15:49.060 It's, it's better than I can do.

00:15:51.060 Better than most YouTubers can.

00:15:52.980 For sure.

00:15:53.620 For sure.

00:15:53.980 Yeah.

00:15:54.340 Uh, I, I've never taken like formal art lessons unless you count high school.

00:15:58.280 I took art in high school for sure, but it's something I mostly just do in my spare time.

00:16:03.300 I've, I've always, um, when I've had, you know, long periods of time without a job or

00:16:08.880 something, sometimes I'll pass a day by drawing apples or something.

00:16:12.500 Yeah.

00:16:13.780 Okay.

00:16:14.020 Cool.

00:16:14.220 Um, how have you been able to remain anonymous?

00:16:17.860 Cause it's interesting.

00:16:18.560 I don't know.

00:16:19.300 Such a, um, I think your voice is very recognizable.

00:16:23.000 And one thing I always get in, like when people meet me, they always say, I didn't know if

00:16:29.760 it was you until you talked.

00:16:32.140 And so I'm like, I'm very surprised that nobody's heard your voice and like connected the dots.

00:16:38.240 Oh no.

00:16:38.520 Well, okay.

00:16:38.860 So that has happened, but nobody's really made a big thing of it.

00:16:41.800 Okay.

00:16:42.060 It was, um, it was a, a family member called me and said, is this you?

00:16:46.520 And I was like, yes, but shh.

00:16:47.640 And, um, and then a couple people who I used to know reached out to me digitally, but I

00:16:54.040 didn't respond.

00:16:55.420 Okay.

00:16:55.620 So that's, that's been all so far.

00:16:58.040 Wow.

00:16:58.540 That's like, cause you're kind of living the dream.

00:17:00.640 When you think about it, you get all the YouTube money with none of the like problems.

00:17:05.200 None of the annoyance.

00:17:05.920 I'm like, that's awesome.

00:17:08.600 I really don't ever want to be recognized.

00:17:10.820 Yeah.

00:17:11.820 Yeah.

00:17:12.320 Do you know what?

00:17:13.280 It was cool for me at first until you start getting like the problems that come, you know,

00:17:18.340 until you get put on a DHS watch list and you're like, I see.

00:17:22.720 Did you?

00:17:23.800 Yeah, I did.

00:17:25.240 For what?

00:17:25.900 Um, do you know what?

00:17:28.480 I think I just got, like, they spent like $800,000 trying to stop me and like 10 other

00:17:35.140 content creators in the space.

00:17:37.540 Oh, I think I might remember that.

00:17:39.440 Was it something to do with the FBI?

00:17:41.880 I don't really remember because I just kind of like, what am I going to do?

00:17:46.080 I just kept going.

00:17:47.220 But right.

00:17:47.840 Yeah.

00:17:48.440 Yeah.

00:17:48.620 That's wild that they would get involved with that.

00:17:52.940 Yeah.

00:17:53.380 It was something about like incel terror threats.

00:17:55.580 Was that right?

00:17:56.960 Yeah.

00:17:57.340 Why do you think like, what's your take on why they tried to stop this content so hard?

00:18:03.140 Um, my take on it is it's basically the best example of it is Andrew Tate.

00:18:08.780 The, the dissatisfaction that young men get from being rejected, like men don't like being 0.99

00:18:15.400 rejected.

00:18:15.940 It makes them angry when men are angry. 0.67

00:18:18.780 Sometimes they smash things.

00:18:20.280 People get very afraid of that.

00:18:21.760 The actual data on incel violence is, you know, it's not so scary.

00:18:28.300 They don't really, not really all that dangerous, but historically speaking, when men in general

00:18:35.640 lose access to women, they do tend to either, they either become like a butler for their family 1.00

00:18:43.380 or they join a terrorism group.

00:18:45.540 Um, and that's, that's like, historically speaking, that's what happens in societies that this happens

00:18:50.960 to.

00:18:51.800 But statistically so far, we haven't had a lot of like European or American or Australian

00:18:57.420 incel terror hives breakout.

00:19:01.880 They're mostly just still trying to pretend that their video games are good and, and, and

00:19:06.920 hang on to the little that they have.

00:19:08.380 Um, so I don't, I don't know what they're thinking.

00:19:12.100 Sometimes I get stuck on this.

00:19:15.720 Like, does law enforcement know so much more than me that I can not figure out their moves 0.99

00:19:20.360 or are they just like dumb? 1.00

00:19:21.940 Is it just, sometimes it just looks dumb. 1.00

00:19:23.640 Like they're wasting their time on. 0.94

00:19:25.280 Well, why don't they just solve the problem then and make prostitution legal? 1.00

00:19:30.080 That, that would, that would do, that would have something to do with it for sure.

00:19:33.340 I think that would relieve quite a bit of the pressure.

00:19:35.900 Um, the problem with that is to answer your question, literally, why don't they, is that

00:19:42.220 whoever campaigned on that would lose because America's still got Puritan leanings.

00:19:48.900 I bet a woman's the first one that's going to campaign on that. 1.00

00:19:52.520 Yeah.

00:19:52.760 She's the only one who could, yeah.

00:19:54.660 A woman could get prostitution through. 1.00

00:19:56.880 For sure.

00:19:57.320 Do you think we'll see like a female OnlyFans politician in our lifetime? 1.00

00:20:02.640 Yeah.

00:20:03.200 Yeah, I do too.

00:20:03.900 I think there, I think there might be one.

00:20:06.340 I'm not sure if she's on OnlyFans, but I made fun of this, uh, this girl, this young girl.

00:20:11.200 She's like really cute too.

00:20:12.300 I think she's like 26.

00:20:13.680 Her name is like Abu Ghazala or something, cat Abu Ghazala.

00:20:16.980 And she's just got all these pictures of herself wearing, you know, really skimpy clothes and

00:20:23.020 like sitting on a bar with her legs open, her tongue out and stuff. 1.00

00:20:26.200 And then she ran for some kind of office and won. 0.99

00:20:28.540 So now she's like in the government. 1.00

00:20:30.020 No way.

00:20:30.540 She won.

00:20:31.140 I heard about someone who lost, what's her name?

00:20:33.800 I want to look it up.

00:20:34.940 I believe she won.

00:20:35.960 I hope I didn't overshoot.

00:20:37.720 Like if she did, I'll just, you know.

00:20:39.660 Yeah.

00:20:40.100 It's cat.

00:20:40.700 I think it's cat.

00:20:41.520 K-A-T. 1.00

00:20:43.120 And then Abu Ghazala.

00:20:44.880 It's like a A-B-U-G-A-Z. 1.00

00:20:48.660 No way.

00:20:50.580 You see her?

00:20:51.060 She's like, it lives in Dallas, Texas, Pakistani immigrant. 1.00

00:20:55.500 Yeah.

00:20:56.560 Okay.

00:20:58.140 Oh my gosh.

00:20:59.100 House campaign.

00:21:01.160 Yeah.

00:21:02.740 No way.

00:21:04.260 Uh, I can't see if she won or not.

00:21:07.800 I don't know if she won.

00:21:09.740 Huh.

00:21:10.860 Oh, wait, wait.

00:21:11.480 Uh, at the time.

00:21:14.400 They announced that she would enter the Democratic, which has been held.

00:21:17.860 Now they're announced.

00:21:19.400 Or is it still going?

00:21:20.620 I don't know.

00:21:21.300 I guess we'll go back to that.

00:21:22.740 But.

00:21:22.800 It was a while ago.

00:21:23.680 I think that, I think that it was, the campaign was for the same one as the presidential election.

00:21:28.460 Did.

00:21:29.360 That's just, oh my gosh.

00:21:30.920 That's crazy.

00:21:32.140 Did you see a picture of her?

00:21:33.560 Yeah.

00:21:34.340 She's like a mid. 1.00

00:21:35.220 Cause the hot women, it's like mids, we tend to go to like, um, political areas, you know? 1.00

00:21:43.300 Cause the hot, the hot girls are going to play boy or, you know? 1.00

00:21:46.260 That's a, that's a 10 in the house.

00:21:48.640 The what?

00:21:49.880 That's a, that's a 10 in the house of representatives.

00:21:52.480 Okay.

00:21:53.640 A 10?

00:21:54.540 Really?

00:21:55.300 You think she's a 10? 1.00

00:21:55.880 I mean, who's, who's hotter than her in, in Congress? 1.00

00:21:58.400 Oh, oh, in Congress.

00:22:00.100 Hell yeah.

00:22:00.560 Yeah.

00:22:01.120 AOC used to be the one, you know?

00:22:03.460 That's true.

00:22:03.880 Yeah.

00:22:04.180 But she's kind of gotten big, like the Latinas tend to, right? 1.00

00:22:08.680 Yeah.

00:22:08.820 She's getting older too, isn't she?

00:22:10.160 Yeah.

00:22:11.080 30 something.

00:22:12.620 Um, yeah.

00:22:13.360 I remember when I learned about Kat, I think I said something like, uh, I have met 300 of

00:22:18.840 this girl.

00:22:19.360 You do not trust them to make decisions.

00:22:22.380 Is it political?

00:22:23.920 Um, oh, it says the election hasn't happened yet.

00:22:27.020 Oh, okay.

00:22:27.460 It's for 2026, November 3rd.

00:22:29.780 All right.

00:22:30.160 But she's gotten over half a million dollars. 0.84

00:22:32.840 Yeah, I know.

00:22:35.360 No.

00:22:37.220 Yeah.

00:22:38.080 So I don't know if she's like technically on OnlyFans, but you know, it's, we're leaning

00:22:41.660 that way.

00:22:42.360 Yeah.

00:22:43.840 Does that kind of black pill you a bit?

00:22:45.800 Like, does it make you depressed about like, how's your outlook going?

00:22:50.060 You know, how are you feeling about the future?

00:22:51.780 My outlook has been maxed out.

00:22:55.240 Like, I don't think I would call myself black pilled.

00:22:57.880 I had this conversation with another, you know, integral theory fan a little while ago.

00:23:02.860 I think I would call myself clear pilled.

00:23:04.900 I don't really like to decide that things are gonna be bad.

00:23:09.820 I just like to be realistic.

00:23:11.200 I just like to let things be as they are.

00:23:14.500 And a lot of bad things are happening and a lot of bad signs are coming.

00:23:18.240 And the worse it gets, the harder it is gonna be to break out of the downward spiral.

00:23:23.000 So the way that like, the way that my outlook responds to stuff like that is, it's almost

00:23:31.100 just like that part on the roller coaster when you're a kid and you regret getting on

00:23:36.140 it.

00:23:36.960 And you're like, this is too scary for me right now, but you're already on it.

00:23:40.360 So you just kind of have to take a deep breath.

00:23:42.100 Like whatever happens is going to happen.

00:23:43.740 And, you know, people went to World War II and got their guts blown out and people have

00:23:48.160 seen worse than I'm going to see.

00:23:49.380 At some point, it's just like, you've got to make a decision and stick with it.

00:23:54.620 You're going to flee America because things might get bad.

00:23:57.760 I try not to let that spin out of control.

00:24:00.200 I try not to make predictions, but in terms of how bad things are getting, I, I see more

00:24:06.380 and more ridiculous stuff happening every day.

00:24:08.560 It gets more intense every day. 0.88

00:24:10.540 Yeah, I agree.

00:24:11.760 Yeah.

00:24:12.340 I don't.

00:24:13.460 Sorry, go ahead.

00:24:14.740 I was just going to say, don't see it turning around.

00:24:16.420 I don't see any, any way to, any fulcrum to turn it around.

00:24:21.700 Yeah.

00:24:22.600 There's just no incentive, right?

00:24:24.960 Like when women, like, cause the way I think about it is if women, if, if everybody makes 0.96

00:24:31.260 $8 off of women and $2 off of men, who in their right mind is going to pick $2? 1.00

00:24:36.580 Except, except us, I guess.

00:24:39.360 But not everyone's crazy, right?

00:24:42.320 Yeah, I mean, I just don't have anything to say to women. 1.00

00:24:45.560 Yeah.

00:24:46.380 If I did, I guess I'd be richer, faster.

00:24:49.340 No, I know.

00:24:49.860 I saw your tweet recently, which was like, could you tell me the story about you at the

00:24:54.340 party with the 112 pound girl? 0.97

00:24:56.780 Yeah, yeah.

00:24:57.500 This was, God, Twitter is such a, such a minefield.

00:25:01.860 Um, people really hate when you don't make points the way that they want you to.

00:25:06.780 Uh, it was just a long time ago.

00:25:08.200 I went to a party and I am, you know, people accuse me of being autistic all the time.

00:25:12.340 I have that sort of just say things as they are quality to me.

00:25:16.720 Uh, and I always, I just always ruin the fun by just pointing things out.

00:25:23.380 So I went downstairs and I had a beer and there was this girl with her friends or some people

00:25:28.400 she just met and she was asking people to guess how much she weighed.

00:25:32.040 And I like held up my beer and butted in and I was like 112 pounds.

00:25:35.420 And she started crying and I said, well, was that too much?

00:25:38.700 She's like, no, it's exactly 112, but I wanted to be less.

00:25:42.420 And she just wanted for someone to look at her 112 pound body and say 108. 1.00

00:25:48.580 That was what she wanted.

00:25:50.700 112 is skinny.

00:25:52.860 It was very skinny.

00:25:53.780 I think she was like five foot three. 0.69

00:25:55.180 She was, she was, she was cute and she was in great shape, but she just wanted that number 0.97

00:26:00.220 that came out of my mouth to be lower than the number she saw on the scale that morning.

00:26:04.160 And then, and that was what gave her emotions that day.

00:26:09.500 And when doing your content, I, when I listened to your content, I actually think it's more

00:26:15.640 palatable to women than a lot of the red pill.

00:26:19.260 Like, I don't know if you'd consider yourself, but you're either red pill or adjacent, right? 0.92

00:26:24.480 It's red pill adjacent for sure.

00:26:25.900 Because it's like, this is the truth about women and sex. 1.00

00:26:28.220 Do you find you get the same visceral reactions that like Myron, I do, or do you think that

00:26:36.400 the reactions women have to you are a little bit tamer because you're very calm when you

00:26:40.500 do the videos?

00:26:42.020 Yeah.

00:26:42.480 I try not to be, um, I try to only be negative towards women when they're being like bratty 1.00

00:26:50.520 and rude and awful and spoiled. 0.64

00:26:52.460 I try not to say things like, like sometimes some of those red pill guys, I won't name

00:26:56.860 names or anything, but sometimes they just go like, you're deluded.

00:27:00.400 You're never going to get that.

00:27:01.600 And it's like, she was being nice.

00:27:02.860 You know, I, I try not to go into that kind of territory, but, um, I think that women who 1.00

00:27:11.920 watch my content, which there's plenty of them, like there's a lot of women who, you know, 1.00

00:27:16.020 get in touch with me, send me messages, uh, you know, get life coaching for me when I did

00:27:21.040 it.

00:27:21.560 I think that they, they get the same thing out of it that the men get out of it.

00:27:27.000 It's just that it's a less popular personality type in women to, to enjoy learning the truth 0.99

00:27:32.740 and enjoy self-reflecting.

00:27:34.080 Like there's just more men who, first of all, there's men who want to be vindicated.

00:27:38.660 They, they watch my stuff and they go, yeah, women do do that. 1.00

00:27:41.240 There's, that's a lot of them.

00:27:42.180 But I think that there's still more men who want to look deeper and challenge themselves

00:27:48.360 than there are women, but there are some of them. 1.00

00:27:50.900 And my content does give them the opportunity to do that.

00:27:53.940 That's the most common thing I hear from women is like, you understand me so well that you 1.00

00:27:57.800 explained me to me.

00:27:58.680 And I'm like, that's awesome.

00:28:00.240 I'm very good at this.

00:28:01.940 Yeah.

00:28:02.340 The one thing too, with like, that I went through when I started, cause women do say things on 1.00

00:28:09.020 shows, like they want to date a guy that's six figures and all that stuff, but they don't

00:28:12.980 really, and you go through this in your content.

00:28:15.200 A lot of times they're banging the bartender, like the musician, whoever makes her feel good.

00:28:20.600 Yeah.

00:28:21.100 So it's like, you know, that, that's one thing I, I thought they meant it too when I first

00:28:26.780 started, but like, they don't, when you find out who these girls are actually dating trust,

00:28:33.720 it's not, yeah, it's not the guys they say.

00:28:36.780 I've been on both sides of that.

00:28:39.040 I remember, I think I just saw you talking about this the other day that you were referring

00:28:43.220 to these guys as alphas.

00:28:44.520 I don't know if I'd call myself an alpha necessarily, but the guys who are the cheated with rather

00:28:50.980 than the cheated on, when you're in that position, you just kind of never look at women the same

00:28:54.360 way again.

00:28:55.820 That was, yeah, that was a formative experience.

00:28:58.280 Um, the, um, the way that I think they look at it, it's just, it's, it's endlessly interesting

00:29:07.500 to compare the way that men think to the way that women think, like men tend to be objective

00:29:12.580 and women tend to be relational in their thinking. 1.00

00:29:14.760 And when women say what they want from men, they're describing what they want the men they 1.00

00:29:21.660 like to do.

00:29:22.620 And when men ask, what do you want from men?

00:29:26.300 They're like, what about men do you like?

00:29:28.420 And they never meet.

00:29:29.860 They never cross paths.

00:29:31.120 Like the men are like, give me instructions to make women be attracted to me. 0.99

00:29:34.940 And the women say, here's what you should do for someone who's already attracted to you. 1.00

00:29:38.460 And then they do it and they, it doesn't work.

00:29:42.020 You said that you were the one that was cheated with.

00:29:45.060 I think I saw that tweet from you.

00:29:47.300 Yeah.

00:29:47.760 So what was that experience like?

00:29:49.680 Did you know from the get-go or was it something you found?

00:29:52.620 I never knew beforehand.

00:29:57.280 I never was aware beforehand.

00:29:59.040 It was always like in the middle or a month later or something.

00:30:03.260 Like sometimes they would seriously say in the middle of the whole thing.

00:30:06.280 And I'll go, well, what am I supposed to do now?

00:30:08.080 This is an awkward situation.

00:30:09.840 But that actually happened 17 times.

00:30:12.780 No way.

00:30:14.000 17 different women told me that they had a boyfriend and three, in three cases, a husband.

00:30:18.020 Oh my God.

00:30:19.560 Wait, so did you meet them off of dating apps or where did you?

00:30:23.040 Most of them.

00:30:24.540 Yeah.

00:30:24.900 A few of them were like friends of friends or met at an event in the city.

00:30:30.720 I think it was like four or five.

00:30:32.800 I'm surprised they told you.

00:30:34.680 Like, was there something, did you find out?

00:30:36.840 Or like, did they think you?

00:30:38.140 Some of them, I just touched her wedding ring.

00:30:41.080 And I was like, what is this?

00:30:42.480 And she was like, oh, it's a wedding ring.

00:30:43.920 I was like, you were married?

00:30:44.600 And she was like, yeah.

00:30:45.540 Like, it was just like nothing.

00:30:49.120 I think that modern marriage is cosplay.

00:30:52.120 Do you agree or do you disagree?

00:30:53.620 Yeah.

00:30:54.180 I saw you say that recently.

00:30:56.140 And I think that that is overwhelmingly true.

00:30:58.080 I think that that is like, that's a really strong overlay because if you start with like

00:31:03.160 what a marriage originally was, it's like a contract assigning a woman to the care of 0.81

00:31:08.740 a man.

00:31:09.260 And it's like, okay, you, she makes you babies and you have to feed her.

00:31:12.560 And if you, either one of you doesn't do the right thing, we're going to be mad at you.

00:31:15.360 Right.

00:31:15.540 So they apply pressures on making the people stay together so that you have stability.

00:31:21.520 And then, you know, it evolved into different things.

00:31:24.140 There's a dowry system and there's families intermarrying for power and whatnot. 1.00

00:31:28.300 And the way that technology from the dishwasher to the cell phone has changed what is required

00:31:35.400 of people, it has turned marriage into a fashion item. 0.88

00:31:39.460 It's like a hat that you buy.

00:31:40.620 And it does, it just doesn't have any of those, um, those bonds anymore.

00:31:49.440 And so it just lifts right out.

00:31:51.100 Like, as soon as you have a fight, well, I don't want to be married anymore.

00:31:54.580 I thought it was going to be exciting forever.

00:31:56.020 And nobody puts any pressure, uh, on the couple to stay together.

00:32:01.280 So it's very unstable.

00:32:02.960 Like you have to really make sure that this person likes you or it's dangerous.

00:32:07.060 Well, I said this to someone and he kind of pushed back.

00:32:11.800 I mean, he said, no.

00:32:13.000 And then I asked him, well, why does the bride wear white?

00:32:17.080 And he had no response.

00:32:19.400 Yeah.

00:32:20.680 I was like, he's like, I got nothing.

00:32:23.300 Yeah.

00:32:23.700 How, how, how often is that accurate?

00:32:25.640 Right.

00:32:26.000 It's like 2% of the time.

00:32:27.200 Right.

00:32:27.960 Yeah.

00:32:28.280 Like out of the 2% I feel like I have a video called your virginity doesn't count if you're 1.00

00:32:33.780 fat. 0.96

00:32:35.120 What's the point?

00:32:37.060 Yeah.

00:32:38.280 It's pretty good.

00:32:39.300 It's like, nobody's trying or nobody like nobody hots.

00:32:42.660 You know what I mean?

00:32:43.160 It's like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:32:45.000 It's like, uh, it's like, uh, like a donut that you found in a dumpster or something.

00:32:49.680 No one wanted it anyway.

00:32:53.720 If you want to make a video about that, I would think that would be fun.

00:32:58.100 I'll make a note.

00:32:58.940 Um, okay.

00:33:01.280 So I have a concept.

00:33:03.340 I want to get your opinion on life is never going to be fair for men. 0.96

00:33:08.060 So feminism is women advocating for their lives to be as unfair to, for them as it is for 1.00

00:33:14.880 men.

00:33:15.220 That is equality.

00:33:18.080 Agree, disagree.

00:33:19.240 What are your thoughts?

00:33:20.040 Feminism is women advocating for them to have the same level of difficulty as men. 1.00

00:33:25.640 Well, that's what you're saying.

00:33:27.860 Yeah.

00:33:28.280 So like, for example, I think we're going to see more women on alimony, like being put 1.00

00:33:33.040 on alimony and child support in the future, getting longer prison sentences because they

00:33:37.520 keep fighting for life to be equally as unfair to them.

00:33:40.400 I know they don't mean it.

00:33:42.140 Right.

00:33:42.600 But, um, is that really going to happen though?

00:33:46.340 Like, are we seeing, are we trending towards it?

00:33:48.740 Because in my, in my impression, which, you know, I'm not really keeping up on it or anything,

00:33:53.200 but it seems to me like the, the basic human reaction to womanhood, which is, this is the

00:34:01.980 nice one that we, you know, that never lies or does anything wrong and we keep her safe.

00:34:06.340 But it seems like that still is giving them all the advantages and, you know, not getting

00:34:10.500 drafted and getting favored in court.

00:34:12.120 And, you know, I don't think it's going to go away.

00:34:18.300 I think it's subconscious.

00:34:19.480 You might be right.

00:34:20.600 You might be right.

00:34:22.520 I think it's just people look at women and they go, oh lady, she's pretty and nice protector. 1.00

00:34:26.620 I think that's where it comes from.

00:34:27.740 I do think we're going to see, we've kind of started to see an uptick in alimony, but

00:34:32.660 it'll never, even Kelly Clarkson, it's like, she got like a one-time payment of

00:34:36.320 1.5 million and lost the house and she went and had six months of alimony and everyone 1.00

00:34:42.380 was freaking out.

00:34:44.120 But I, I do think we're going to see a little bit more women being put on alimony. 0.99

00:34:49.300 Yeah.

00:34:50.020 Do you mean having to pay it?

00:34:51.300 Yeah.

00:34:52.200 Yeah.

00:34:52.940 Yeah.

00:34:53.380 I do think that, that that's, that's more likely to happen.

00:34:56.800 And that's a lot more likely to happen just due to the fact that more, um, people are

00:35:03.840 getting married with a woman makes more that's happening a lot more.

00:35:08.900 Yeah.

00:35:09.560 Like you see the, I, you see like the, um, I would see the lawyer personal trainer combo

00:35:18.640 a lot in London.

00:35:19.740 I knew a guy that was his whole strategy.

00:35:22.020 He just wanted a kid with a lawyer.

00:35:24.460 Mm-hmm.

00:35:25.060 And so he was the personal trainer.

00:35:26.660 Yeah.

00:35:27.200 Well, he looked, he was like, um, I don't know what he did for a living, but he was like,

00:35:32.480 he was pretty built.

00:35:33.440 So that was like his, he would just go for like the 32 year old lawyers and they would

00:35:38.420 pay his rent and he would just get like three.

00:35:41.960 Like, you mean like juggle three of them?

00:35:46.020 Yeah.

00:35:46.260 Just, he would just keep going for like, that was like his thing.

00:35:49.320 I think he was like, yeah, like a kept man.

00:35:51.300 Yeah.

00:35:52.200 They're rare though.

00:35:53.020 That's funny.

00:35:53.360 That's pretty rare.

00:35:55.000 Yeah.

00:35:55.360 Yeah.

00:35:55.580 Yeah.

00:35:55.740 You have to be, you have to be special for that.

00:35:57.560 You have to be like a, one of those yoga guys who stood on a mountain for three years

00:36:01.760 on one foot or something.

00:36:02.880 You gotta be, have something impressive enough to, to manage that.

00:36:07.560 How has, um, this impacted your dating life?

00:36:10.820 Like, has dating been easier since you've had the channel?

00:36:14.880 And it's been completely different.

00:36:17.320 So before COVID, my dating life was just dying due to age.

00:36:23.800 So my story was that like in high school, I was really blue pilled all the way through

00:36:28.640 college.

00:36:29.020 I just didn't understand what I was doing.

00:36:30.600 And I had a girlfriend here and there, but it wasn't really anything to write home about

00:36:35.120 at age 24.

00:36:36.640 Before I started learning all the stuff that I teach now, and it completely transformed

00:36:41.560 my dating life.

00:36:43.260 And, uh, I had like just amazing successes and transformed who I was and, you know, learned

00:36:48.000 a lot about women. 1.00

00:36:48.940 And I just was aging out.

00:36:51.860 Like one day the app stopped working.

00:36:54.580 I thought that my wifi was out, but no, I just like became ugly in one day, I guess.

00:37:00.160 And, um, I was, I was just dwindling.

00:37:03.520 It was like the amount of attention I would get.

00:37:05.700 I started noticing that the girl I was talking to at the bar would be interested in talking 0.99

00:37:12.200 to me, but then always more interested in talking to a younger guy.

00:37:15.420 And I went, Oh, that's it.

00:37:16.620 I've, I've got gone too far.

00:37:18.460 So when COVID happened, everything shut down and I was only seeing this one girl who happened

00:37:25.060 to live near me, um, and messaged me on Facebook and just basically didn't let me say no.

00:37:30.320 She was just like, look, you're right there.

00:37:31.580 I'm coming over.

00:37:32.560 And other than that, it wasn't much for those two and a half years that I was still there.

00:37:37.060 Then after that, I did pretty much zero dating until home math started.

00:37:41.260 And now it's only women who know me through home math. 1.00

00:37:44.780 Really?

00:37:45.900 Yeah.

00:37:46.240 I don't go out to date anymore.

00:37:48.680 Has that been like better for the quality of women? 1.00

00:37:53.340 It's easier to find quality women. 1.00

00:37:56.660 It's definitely easier.

00:37:58.020 Like they, they come talk to me and I can check them out and I can say, you know, look

00:38:03.540 at the, look at her Instagram, see what she looks like. 0.89

00:38:05.840 Uh, face timer, if I want to face reveal, it's a lot easier than the, like the apps were

00:38:12.260 miserable and going out is it's easier than the apps, but it was just getting less and

00:38:18.660 less fun with age.

00:38:19.960 So it's, uh, what was the question?

00:38:21.880 Was it, is it easier?

00:38:22.840 Well, I was just curious.

00:38:24.140 Um, I always am curious when a guy gets a big following, if it like, like, I just was

00:38:29.540 wondering if the quality of women before and after, was it like life changing?

00:38:33.560 Was it kind of the same as when you were younger?

00:38:36.500 Like, you know, it reminds me of when I was younger.

00:38:39.340 Yeah.

00:38:39.580 I wouldn't call it life changing, but it's like the kind of girl who used to talk to me

00:38:44.720 when I was 30 is talking to me again.

00:38:46.680 Now it's like, Oh, this feels good.

00:38:49.180 Okay.

00:38:50.060 Did you like bald or something?

00:38:51.820 Like what?

00:38:52.760 Like age, I don't see guys age out too often.

00:38:55.660 So I'm just curious.

00:38:57.140 I don't know.

00:38:58.040 I did.

00:38:59.380 My hairline changed, uh, at one point.

00:39:02.820 And so I stopped, like, I had, I had to change my hairstyle because I noticed there

00:39:06.920 was a bald spot and I was like, Oh, I'm not, I don't want to pretend.

00:39:09.540 I don't want to be that guy.

00:39:11.420 Um, and other than that, I think it's just kind of just the, just the age on my face.

00:39:18.040 I don't know.

00:39:19.020 I'm not really sure.

00:39:19.900 Like when I look at pictures of me 15 years ago and pictures today, I can see why it's,

00:39:24.680 uh, it's significantly different, but, um, yeah, I don't know.

00:39:30.200 I guess I'd have to ask them about it.

00:39:31.940 I'm just gauging their reactions to me.

00:39:33.800 Okay.

00:39:34.200 I was just, um, so do you not agree with the, like the concept that there's like no wall

00:39:40.200 for men?

00:39:42.600 So wait a minute.

00:39:43.360 Do I agree that, do I think there is a wall for men?

00:39:45.880 Yeah.

00:39:47.240 There's, I think there's two walls for men. 0.97

00:39:50.380 There's like a wall and then a hill.

00:39:52.140 There's, there is a point at which you are no longer at your peak sexual attractiveness.

00:39:57.760 For men, it's average age 27, which lines up perfectly for me. 0.99

00:40:01.440 I was just slaying 26, 27, 28.

00:40:04.280 It was very easy compared to now, especially, but then money influences men a lot too.

00:40:11.160 So the, like, and that's exactly what's happening to me now.

00:40:13.200 Suddenly I have money and everything's become easier money and status.

00:40:16.260 When women have money and status, it does not make them very much more attractive. 1.00

00:40:20.060 It makes them easier to date, but it doesn't make them more attractive in the same way.

00:40:24.900 So the ability of a man to gain money and status can, and often does compensate for the loss

00:40:34.120 of looks.

00:40:35.740 Okay.

00:40:36.620 Okay.

00:40:37.080 I agree with you.

00:40:38.340 Yeah.

00:40:39.680 So I was hoping you could do, you could homeath a couple of concepts for me and maybe illustrate

00:40:47.280 my thought process.

00:40:48.800 Would you be willing to?

00:40:50.020 Okay.

00:40:50.380 I can try.

00:40:51.420 I got my camera.

00:40:52.240 Okay, cool.

00:40:52.840 So, um, basically, um, one journey, women journey, right? 0.98

00:41:01.880 Yeah.

00:41:02.140 I, when I want, when I came into this space, I didn't really understand why men had such 0.72

00:41:06.400 a bad view on marriage.

00:41:08.100 I really, I thought it was good.

00:41:09.760 My parents were married.

00:41:10.860 I went from a small school.

00:41:12.740 We had 30 kids in my class.

00:41:14.460 Um, maybe, um, at least at the time, cause when I got into the space, it was like five,

00:41:20.420 four or five years ago.

00:41:21.580 So at the time, like maybe two or three people from that class, like divorce.

00:41:27.400 So I thought it was all good.

00:41:28.900 I was like, what's the big deal?

00:41:30.600 Why are, why are these guys saying don't get married?

00:41:32.660 And then I started interviewing men, right?

00:41:35.780 Yeah.

00:41:36.180 And I start interviewing the guys and they start telling me their divorce stories.

00:41:42.080 And my first thought was not all women are like that.

00:41:44.820 And I thought, well, well, it's just, you guys are just picking these super liberal women. 1.00

00:41:49.880 And then I started interviewing guys that did not pick any of those things.

00:41:54.280 I'm talking extreme Muslim, extreme Christian, extreme, I even interviewed a guy from Michael

00:42:00.200 Knowles's church, you know, like he sells the whole marriage.

00:42:03.020 I interviewed a guy that was from his exact Latin mass church.

00:42:08.140 And it was one of the worst divorce stories I ever heard.

00:42:11.200 And I came to the conclusion that marriage is just a, not a good deal for men.

00:42:16.540 Yeah.

00:42:17.400 That's how it feels for sure.

00:42:19.780 Um, what was it?

00:42:20.800 So you wanted me to illustrate it?

00:42:22.020 Yeah.

00:42:22.520 If you can, it'd be kind of fun.

00:42:24.060 I mean, the first, the first thing that I would want to do with that would be to make

00:42:30.000 a graph about like how much we force people to stay married.

00:42:35.660 Okay.

00:42:36.020 You know, like force versus the quality of the marriage, which I guess maybe I should have

00:42:43.200 switched those.

00:42:43.940 See if I can do it anyway.

00:42:46.160 Quality of marriage.

00:42:47.520 Um, and I think that if you force them, uh, an extreme amount.

00:42:53.460 I think I got to, I think I got to switch this qual quality and force.

00:43:02.920 So if you have like, uh, you know, harems and, uh, uh, what is it?

00:43:10.160 Polly.

00:43:10.820 Yeah.

00:43:12.100 Um, poly poly polygyny.

00:43:14.280 I can't remember what it was called.

00:43:16.220 Uh, then I think that the quality of marriage is pretty low.

00:43:19.420 And if you, if you have a certain amount of force, the quality gets higher.

00:43:26.660 Um, and then if you have none, it gets low again.

00:43:29.740 So like at zero, it's low.

00:43:31.760 Okay.

00:43:32.200 And at maximum, it's also low, but somewhere in here is like, you can't marry the guy.

00:43:38.360 If your dad doesn't want you to.

00:43:40.220 Okay.

00:43:41.800 And you have to stay married.

00:43:43.320 If you get married, you have to have a good reason.

00:43:45.120 And, uh, if you cheat, you lose everything.

00:43:47.280 Like there has to be constraints at some level of constraint.

00:43:50.620 I don't know what exactly the level is, but at some level of you get punished if you're

00:43:56.040 bad in your marriage and you break the, the, your vows.

00:44:00.460 Um, I think that that is not only happier for both husband and wife, but also better for

00:44:07.480 society.

00:44:08.880 I want to give the men an opt out clause.

00:44:12.600 Wait a minute.

00:44:13.400 What about?

00:44:13.920 I want to add in, um, can the men get an opt out clause?

00:44:17.060 Not the women. 1.00

00:44:18.760 Opt out for what?

00:44:20.240 Hear me out.

00:44:20.980 Have you ever seen like a woman in a marriage that doesn't want to be there? 0.99

00:44:25.900 And she, they're just like the devil. 0.99

00:44:27.560 They hold that man back so much.

00:44:30.480 The attitude, the nag, it just, oh, I know so many men like this. 1.00

00:44:35.460 That's the other thing.

00:44:36.200 When you get red pilled, you start to realize how disrespectful even normal wives are. 1.00

00:44:40.960 And you're like, why is she doing that?

00:44:43.160 You know, you'll be like, did you ever see like a everybody loves Raymond?

00:44:46.480 I didn't.

00:44:47.680 Um, but I can think of, um, other shows maybe that I saw that probably had similar concepts.

00:44:56.640 You're going to get out.

00:44:57.480 Yeah, yeah, that's, that was the whole thing in the sitcoms in the last, you know, few decades

00:45:02.140 was like, oh, my wife, oh, she's in charge and she hates me and everything's terrible.

00:45:06.020 And, uh, and that's like, that's just what people were writing about because that's what

00:45:10.120 they were experiencing.

00:45:11.060 And yeah, I really don't know.

00:45:13.700 I don't know what you're supposed to do with that other than just like impress your wife

00:45:19.160 again, but it can be very difficult to do.

00:45:21.780 You know, you have to like, I mean, Tom Brady just got divorced.

00:45:26.840 You know what I mean?

00:45:27.940 Yeah, yeah.

00:45:28.620 Like what happens when you get bored of Tom Brady?

00:45:31.000 How does, how does he, Tom Brady even harder?

00:45:34.420 You know, it's, it can't.

00:45:36.400 Yeah.

00:45:36.800 You just need to switch.

00:45:38.060 You just need someone new.

00:45:39.060 So something that I've been, um, thinking about for a while is how could, could we redesign

00:45:45.220 marriage contracts to fit the way that just like human nature and the way that society 0.99

00:45:51.340 has loosened up and I've heard of things like, uh, like four year marriage contracts.

00:45:58.280 So that's long enough to have a kid and raise it to the point where you don't have to watch

00:46:01.660 it every day, uh, or something like that.

00:46:04.780 And then that would help people avoid that whole, like my wife won't look at me in the 1.00

00:46:10.340 eye thing that happens to like, what is it?

00:46:12.660 Half of men.

00:46:13.680 It could be like, um, the draft where you get traded.

00:46:17.300 Yeah.

00:46:17.740 Yeah.

00:46:19.980 Like a, like a government mediated wife swapping. 0.98

00:46:26.100 Yeah.

00:46:26.540 We're going to have to get creative.

00:46:28.300 Like a review system.

00:46:30.880 Yeah.

00:46:32.440 Like star ratings.

00:46:34.300 Yeah.

00:46:34.840 But I just came to the conclusion.

00:46:36.800 I was like, I don't know why a guy would do it.

00:46:40.680 I really don't.

00:46:41.660 Um, yeah, I mean, I know the answer as to why it's, you know, usually it's a guy who

00:46:48.740 knows that he's not ever going to get anyone that good again.

00:46:51.860 So he has to do what she says, even though he knows it's going, he's going to burn everything

00:46:57.660 is a 50% chance that he's going straight down the tubes.

00:47:00.400 Like it's not necessarily that they don't know what the risk is.

00:47:04.780 It's just, they, that they, they go, okay, 50% chance I lose everything or a hundred percent

00:47:09.420 chance.

00:47:09.880 I never find a woman like this again. 0.99

00:47:13.700 Yeah, no, I get it.

00:47:15.600 Yeah.

00:47:17.520 And so that's how you'd illustrate it though.

00:47:19.320 You do like a quality versus force.

00:47:22.500 Yeah.

00:47:22.860 That was, that would be, that's what was my first idea for, for that particular concept.

00:47:28.160 I would get my, I would get out my colors and everything.

00:47:30.340 And I would say quality of marriage versus the amount of force applied to the marriage.

00:47:35.220 And then I forgot if you said anything else in there.

00:47:38.220 Um, no, it's pretty, it's just a marriage isn't a good deal for men.

00:47:41.740 That's pretty much the end concept.

00:47:43.720 Yeah.

00:47:44.640 It doesn't seem like it.

00:47:45.840 The, the last girl I did wanted to get married really fast and I was considering it.

00:47:50.940 Um, but it was absolutely terrifying.

00:47:54.180 It was like, you know, it was just the exact thing that I said.

00:47:57.880 Like I'm getting older and this girl, she was pretty cool.

00:48:00.340 And I was like, is it, is it worth it?

00:48:02.500 Is it worth it?

00:48:03.180 Like I just got famous and I just got all this stuff going for me.

00:48:05.880 Is it, do I want to sign up for 50%?

00:48:08.540 Um, so yeah, it's terrifying.

00:48:10.520 I don't know how to deal with it.

00:48:14.360 Well, do you think you would do it?

00:48:18.140 I was feeling like there was a good chance that I might, I was feeling like there was like

00:48:24.340 me, I was, I was leaning towards like something, it felt like 50%.

00:48:30.560 It felt like 50% going through with it.

00:48:34.440 My next concept I was hoping you could illustrate.

00:48:37.920 No.

00:48:38.140 Right.

00:48:38.560 All right.

00:48:39.120 Is it's, so I used to have hope when I came into this industry, I really thought conservatives

00:48:46.040 were going to win.

00:48:46.900 I was like, we're totally going to win.

00:48:48.280 It's going to get better.

00:48:48.900 Mm-hmm and I actually think it's going to get way worse.

00:48:52.980 Yeah.

00:48:53.460 Yeah. 1.00

00:48:53.760 Like I, I predict, um, whores are going to keep being whores. 1.00

00:48:58.200 Um, only fans, models and political offices, like we said earlier, uh, women are just going 1.00

00:49:04.620 to kill their kids in like more creative ways. 0.84

00:49:06.660 So maybe plan B, maybe abortion goes down a little bit, but plan B's go up. 0.98

00:49:11.500 Um, birth rate will be like zero.

00:49:15.000 Um, maybe crime will go down for a little bit now that we got Trump in office, but like 0.99

00:49:20.860 long-term we'll just keep voting for dumb stuff. 0.98

00:49:24.300 Yeah. 0.99

00:49:24.960 Yeah.

00:49:25.240 So it's amazing how they do that.

00:49:27.640 They'll have, they ruin their states and then move to another state and then ruin that one

00:49:32.200 with the same vote.

00:49:34.640 Yeah.

00:49:34.760 Maybe Texas will be next since everyone's going there.

00:49:37.940 It's pretty close.

00:49:38.760 Yeah.

00:49:40.440 Um, what was it?

00:49:41.200 Yeah.

00:49:41.340 What was it that you wanted to illustrate?

00:49:42.460 Yeah, so just that it's not going to get better, like abortion is still going to go up.

00:49:47.460 Oh, I see.

00:49:48.820 Um, if I was going to draw it not getting better, I would, that one's kind of complicated.

00:49:58.080 I'm kind of feeling like I want to have like.

00:50:03.040 And there's nothing any, anyone can do about it.

00:50:06.360 So any conservative saying like, we just got to fight the culture war.

00:50:09.440 They're not going to win the culture war.

00:50:12.860 You're not, there's too many forces going against it.

00:50:16.440 So I, I kind of want to just draw like, this is Pearl.

00:50:20.660 I would make your hair red if I had time. 1.00

00:50:23.040 Okay.

00:50:23.920 So it's clearly you.

00:50:25.300 And then I would put like a ballot box here.

00:50:27.780 And then I think I would put it turning into a big pipe that just goes into exactly the same place as the Democrat one.

00:50:37.380 And then over here, there's just like Planned Parenthood and, uh, and like open borders, Rio Grande.

00:50:46.400 And the Rio Grande here with the, you know, sombreros coming across it and everything.

00:50:55.040 Um, and they would be, I would just draw the pipe, like merging, like a super Mario pipe, going to the same place.

00:51:03.940 That's my first, that's my first instinct.

00:51:07.400 It usually takes me the longest to come up with the idea of the drawing and then not very long to draw it because they're just scribbles.

00:51:19.400 But, uh, yeah, yeah, I like these.

00:51:24.120 This is fun.

00:51:25.300 Yeah, I'm having fun.

00:51:27.580 So I had, um, oh, that's cool.

00:51:31.580 You can draw that quick.

00:51:33.840 Yeah.

00:51:34.120 Well, they're just scribbles.

00:51:37.400 Sometimes I just draw fruit on my lives and just do like an apple.

00:51:43.100 Oh, so it goes to the same place.

00:51:44.740 Okay.

00:51:45.860 The, it's a little, um, delayed when I see it here, just so you know.

00:51:50.680 Oh, okay.

00:51:51.220 Okay.

00:51:51.520 Yes.

00:51:51.660 It's, we're going to change my set when I move, but sometimes I can't see the screen at the same time.

00:51:56.720 Where are you moving?

00:51:57.660 Same place?

00:51:58.820 Uh, where I said before the live, but I haven't announced it yet.

00:52:02.360 Oh, okay.

00:52:02.640 Okay.

00:52:03.020 Yeah.

00:52:03.360 So, um, another, another thing I'd want to illustrate.

00:52:07.140 In it is that conservatives have to move on like abortion.

00:52:11.040 We've lost.

00:52:11.880 I had a pro-lifer.

00:52:13.140 I had Lila Rose on my show and I told her that she was wasting her life. 1.00

00:52:17.560 It was pretty funny.

00:52:19.080 Yeah.

00:52:20.120 Yeah.

00:52:20.560 It really, you're just performing for Jesus.

00:52:23.360 Yeah.

00:52:23.680 Because I'm like, I have shown women abortion videos.

00:52:27.180 And if I could put into words how much they don't care, like I've shown, I have shown videos of like limbs getting ripped out, like really disgusting, horrible videos.

00:52:37.480 And they're like, eh.

00:52:39.180 Yeah.

00:52:39.540 But it's our body.

00:52:41.320 Yeah.

00:52:41.560 It's the, it's the wrong guy's kid.

00:52:43.260 So it doesn't bother me.

00:52:44.940 Yeah, exactly.

00:52:46.700 Um, you know, I think there's bigger things like illegals, the economy, shithole, like Democrat city, you know, the transitioning a kid. 1.00

00:52:58.380 I just think abortion, we should just give up.

00:53:01.500 Yeah, it's just some people's favorite issue for whatever reason, either they had an experience or they know a lot about it or they're making money talking about it or something.

00:53:11.360 I, I agree with you on that one.

00:53:13.540 The, the abortion thing, it's like, of all of the things that we have going on that are destructive, do you, why would you really want to spend your time and energy on that one?

00:53:23.320 Like what, the one I'm spending my money on is trying to teach people how not to be just garbage to each other with basic, you know, empathy and, and, uh, um, metacognitive skills.

00:53:36.300 That's going pretty good.

00:53:37.940 Sorry.

00:53:38.440 I was like, that sounds like even more of a losing cause.

00:53:41.760 Well, some people, some people learn.

00:53:43.920 It's like the thing about, yeah, go ahead.

00:53:47.680 Sorry.

00:53:48.860 Oh yeah.

00:53:49.120 Sorry.

00:53:49.300 Uh, the thing about the metacognitive skills is you can teach a few, you can teach them to a few people.

00:53:54.720 It can make a big difference.

00:53:55.660 You don't have to get to everybody.

00:53:57.500 Yeah.

00:53:57.920 Well, and you're doing like individualized coaching.

00:54:00.320 That's a little different.

00:54:01.880 Yeah. 0.96

00:54:02.260 Than like, you know, a whole, but like if you were coaching women to like not being sluts or something like that. 0.99

00:54:08.780 No. 0.96

00:54:09.520 Yeah.

00:54:09.660 That's different.

00:54:11.020 That's, um, that's a tough one.

00:54:13.040 Like sometimes women do come to me with that question. 1.00

00:54:15.800 I've had to coach a few women, like, um, you know, I don't want to get too specific or anything about what they've said. 0.99

00:54:22.280 I don't want to give away anything about who they are, but they'll say like, this was my life.

00:54:25.920 What do I do?

00:54:26.480 And I just go kind of just bite a leather strap.

00:54:28.540 Like you're going to have to, um, you're going to have to accept a lot less of what you, you know, want out of life because of, of either you're going to have to lie to these guys or you're going to have to accept something that isn't like what you've had in the past.

00:54:46.620 Yeah.

00:54:46.780 She's going to have to lie.

00:54:48.460 Yeah.

00:54:48.980 That's probably, yeah.

00:54:51.940 Probably usually the response.

00:54:54.020 You know, it's even more messed up.

00:54:56.320 I've interviewed people with like incurable STDs.

00:55:00.280 They lie.

00:55:02.020 That's the only way they go forward.

00:55:03.340 I've heard, I've heard all about that.

00:55:05.460 Yep.

00:55:06.380 We're going to do that show Friday.

00:55:07.720 If you guys are curious, I'm going to read the super chats.

00:55:10.920 Um, honest question.

00:55:12.920 If I have zero chance at everything, I'm black pilled in a POS. 0.95

00:55:16.320 At what stage of alcoholism should I clock out early?

00:55:21.040 Oh, geez.

00:55:22.160 What do you think?

00:55:22.880 I mean, isn't it like a legal risk to answer that question?

00:55:27.780 I think the fact that you're answering the question means that you do actually want help and you want someone to care.

00:55:33.520 That's what I would say to this.

00:55:35.480 Presumably a guy.

00:55:36.480 I guess it would be really weird if that was a woman. 1.00

00:55:38.460 I would say that the fact that you're reaching out and especially the fact that you spent money on a super chat means that you probably do want someone to care and listen and help.

00:55:45.660 And I do get it and I have been there and there are still some days where I clearly remember having been there.

00:55:53.260 And, um, what I usually say to people who are in places like that is that, uh, life is life can be sometimes like multiplicative instead of additive.

00:56:04.000 And sometimes something can happen that's more like a multiplication problem than an addition problem.

00:56:08.620 You might not have to wait for things to add up.

00:56:11.380 You might have something that turns it around real quick.

00:56:13.720 Most conservative women are 304s playing to secure cash and prizes. 1.00

00:56:21.140 Do you agree with that?

00:56:22.780 I don't know if I'd say most, but I would definitely agree that there's not like a, there's not a significant difference between that kind of behavior and conservative and liberal women. 1.00

00:56:33.400 It's just, uh, the, the political opinions are just which group they want to belong to mostly.

00:56:41.300 I don't know if it's most.

00:56:43.720 I think it's just the hottest guy who is, which guys do they find hotter running it?

00:56:48.000 And that's who we pick.

00:56:49.360 Yeah.

00:56:49.900 And it's what they're comfortable with too.

00:56:51.460 It's like girls who grow up in the country. 1.00

00:56:53.880 They like the guys who are holding the fish on Tinder and girls from the city hate the guy holding the fish on Tinder.

00:56:59.880 It's what they're, it's what they view as their own.

00:57:02.620 Yeah.

00:57:03.720 Um, they want to know about rate by chat GPT AI girlfriend.

00:57:08.160 Is she a keeper?

00:57:09.840 What do you think about that?

00:57:11.080 Just do we have pictures?

00:57:13.740 I don't know.

00:57:14.480 What am I rating her on?

00:57:15.560 There's no rating.

00:57:16.560 It's just the super chat.

00:57:18.140 So what do you think about a guy with an AI girlfriend?

00:57:20.920 Should he, I think that you should not mention it anymore.

00:57:23.840 I think if that's what you're doing with your life, you keep that good and quiet.

00:57:29.640 Okay.

00:57:34.120 Um, the minute polygamy becomes openly embraced, the majority of men make less than women and society starts eliminating the mechanisms men use to decompress.

00:57:43.480 Passport bros, video games, and corn.

00:57:45.740 There will be civil unrest.

00:57:48.160 Um, ho math for president.

00:57:50.060 I'd love to show real life examples of female delusions from my dating app DMs. 1.00

00:57:54.620 Oh, that would be great.

00:57:55.900 What do you think?

00:57:56.520 Send them to me.

00:57:57.820 Yeah.

00:57:58.340 How did they send them?

00:57:59.980 Oh, I got a link tree.

00:58:01.020 Go to my link tree.

00:58:01.740 Send me your examples.

00:58:02.700 Okay.

00:58:03.540 Um, what did you think about the other part of this super chat?

00:58:07.460 Uh, the part about as soon as guys lose that stuff, there's going to be fire and blood in the streets.

00:58:13.220 Yeah.

00:58:13.660 Is that basically it?

00:58:14.600 Yeah.

00:58:14.860 I mean, that's like, that's what's holding them back.

00:58:17.220 You know, I talked to these guys, I talked to these guys and I like, I, it's not, I'm not saying I am one, but I am in a demographic that is at risk of that.

00:58:27.760 Like if my life wasn't going well right now, I'd be feeling the same things they feel.

00:58:32.620 And it's dismal.

00:58:34.140 It is like, it is dismal.

00:58:35.440 The only thing that I could do to keep myself sane during the COVID years was to go, uh, outside and get exercise and take walks and bike rides.

00:58:44.260 And then they locked that up too.

00:58:45.800 And I was just like, the amount of pressure that you feel when you have nothing, when you're completely cut off from everything and they take away the stuff that you like, it's crazy.

00:58:54.640 There's no way that they're going to be able to control that on mass.

00:58:57.040 So yeah, he's spot on.

00:58:59.360 Um, ask him why the racism on X while pretending the world racism.

00:59:05.440 Isn't real and has a problem with anti X, Y, Z, but, but uses anti white.

00:59:12.140 Oh, calls people low IQ and they don't agree.

00:59:15.000 Oh, sorry.

00:59:15.700 This guy's a hater.

00:59:16.580 Yeah.

00:59:16.740 This is, this is a, yeah, this is antagonistic.

00:59:19.220 Uh, I do talk about race sometimes on X and I just am really, really, really sick of the way that that conversation has been going.

00:59:26.840 And so I, uh, reframe it and some people don't like the way I reframe it.

00:59:31.440 And that's what it sounds like.

00:59:32.680 Oh, okay.

00:59:33.900 Um, making abortion illegal isn't to dissuade abortion. 0.73

00:59:37.960 It's so we have legal recourse to subject them to capital punishment.

00:59:41.840 And you know what, Eric, it's impossible.

00:59:44.900 Yeah.

00:59:45.920 I'm just, I'm just putting, I'm just saying we have zero chance.

00:59:50.840 Zero chance to what?

00:59:52.380 To legal recourse?

00:59:53.120 Change that law.

00:59:53.900 Like they're not going to put women in jail that have abortions.

00:59:56.500 Oh no.

00:59:56.840 There's no way.

00:59:57.340 No.

00:59:58.060 There are some people who want to, but how are you going to manage that?

01:00:00.800 Like people say, uh, repeal the 19th all the time.

01:00:03.560 And it's like, why, why are you spending your breath on that?

01:00:06.840 Is that going to happen?

01:00:07.800 Is it realistic?

01:00:08.660 Yeah.

01:00:08.860 I learned that.

01:00:09.500 I used to sell t-shirts actually.

01:00:11.100 And it cost me so much money because I got demonetized and I can tell you firsthand,

01:00:16.340 it was not worth it.

01:00:18.140 Yeah.

01:00:18.820 It was not worth it.

01:00:20.180 It was a waste of breath and I wish I never talked about it.

01:00:24.360 So yeah.

01:00:25.920 Yeah.

01:00:27.100 Sometimes you just got to learn the hard way.

01:00:29.360 You know what I mean?

01:00:30.280 Yes, I do.

01:00:31.540 Yeah.

01:00:31.980 I hope I don't have to learn any more hard ways.

01:00:33.960 No, read the guidelines.

01:00:35.240 I'll tell you what you want to stay.

01:00:36.960 Um, had to change that.

01:00:41.920 Oh, I read that already.

01:00:43.120 Um, I think that's all the supers.

01:00:45.780 Oh, you got the whole apple done.

01:00:47.360 Look at that.

01:00:48.560 Yeah.

01:00:49.080 Got a nice crisp apple.

01:00:52.340 Little green.

01:00:53.900 Little Bob Ross stuff over here.

01:00:56.500 Uh, yeah, this, this, this is what I do when I'm like trying to decompress at night.

01:01:00.360 So there's my little ballot and then it's both going to the same one.

01:01:05.380 Um, yeah, and then this is just like, you know, the, the, like blue hair, spiky blue

01:01:11.560 hair, morbidly obese, um, the flag with all this stuff on it.

01:01:19.060 And it just goes to the same place, which is all the same devil horns, awful policies

01:01:25.480 that destroy everything.

01:01:27.360 It's like the Democrats do it really fast and the Republicans do it kind of fast.

01:01:30.900 I can't imagine, um, being in an area where the Floyd stuff, like people were looting.

01:01:38.800 He must've been terrified.

01:01:40.280 I would have been.

01:01:40.940 It was, it was pretty uncomfortable.

01:01:42.240 I really wondered how bad it was going to get.

01:01:45.080 I was like, when I saw them try to break into that one place, I was like, is this going to

01:01:51.920 be just the rest of the time I live here is going to be like that.

01:01:56.040 And, uh, for a couple of days I was pretty, um, tense.

01:02:26.040 About it.

01:02:27.520 And, uh, and then, yeah, after that day, um, I started seeing crimes happen from my bedroom

01:02:36.260 window.

01:02:36.600 Like it used to be a safe neighborhood.

01:02:38.480 And then I saw people get attacked and I saw windows get smashed and bags stolen out

01:02:42.880 of them from where I sleep.

01:02:46.000 And that never stopped for the whole time I was there.

01:02:48.080 Did you ever get like robbed or your car broken into or anything?

01:02:51.320 Um, I did get, I guess you would call it assaulted a few times.

01:02:57.660 The, you know, the technical definition of assault is like when, whenever somebody makes

01:03:03.700 a move, that's like, I'm gonna do something to you like that.

01:03:07.400 That happened to me a few times.

01:03:08.960 I had a few people swerve their cars at me.

01:03:15.560 Uh, I had some people, you know, try to, um, accost me on the street when I was just going

01:03:38.820 to get ice cream.

01:03:39.620 Like there's some crazy kind of stuff and that was all things that had never happened

01:03:44.560 before then.

01:03:45.220 And then they all started happening after then.

01:03:48.300 Well, I, what happened to me during that time?

01:03:53.200 Oh, I think the, I did have people asking why I didn't post a black square.

01:03:58.020 Do you remember those?

01:03:59.600 I remember them.

01:04:00.560 Yeah.

01:04:00.660 I remember being really, um, actually upset about it because I knew that that was just like

01:04:07.180 a brainwashing thing when, when that was going on, I knew that this is like, this is another

01:04:11.700 Trayvon Martin.

01:04:12.700 This is another Rodney King.

01:04:15.100 This is another, it's just like the same playbook over and over. 0.95

01:04:18.380 They know how to make people upset and get them to run around and riot and do ridiculous 0.93

01:04:23.280 things. 0.94

01:04:23.620 It's happening again.

01:04:24.940 And that was, that was really, uh, actually a tough time for me because something about,

01:04:33.540 I can't know how to articulate it, but something about my elementary school education, my teachers

01:04:39.680 taught me properly what happens when people go crazy because they, they all follow each

01:04:45.800 other.

01:04:46.060 They were talked about the Nazis, the Soviets, they talked about the witch trials.

01:04:49.480 It was just like, sometimes people all just get the same idea all at once.

01:04:53.860 And it's a bad idea, but they listen to each other because that's what they do is they

01:04:57.300 listen to each other.

01:04:57.980 And I have always felt after my teachers taught me that I always felt like we're not going

01:05:05.500 to do that anymore.

01:05:06.600 We've taught, we just taught ourselves about it.

01:05:08.440 So we don't do that anymore, but you just can't train that out of people.

01:05:11.620 They just will do that forever.

01:05:14.800 Well, one gender, but I'm not going to get hate speech today.

01:05:20.820 Yeah.

01:05:21.600 It is sort of led by, sort of led by one.

01:05:25.020 Oh, we got a hundred dollars super chat.

01:05:28.200 Do all single women, um, do you think all single women, 40 and older have PTSD?

01:05:34.220 Great show.

01:05:34.840 Thank you, Pearl.

01:05:37.240 Do I think they have PTSD?

01:05:40.340 No, I mean, I'm not sure really what they're getting at with that.

01:05:43.660 To answer it, literally no.

01:05:45.980 Single women, 40 and older, PTSD, like that, is that what I think maybe he, maybe he means

01:05:50.280 some sort of like, like, cause there aren't a bunch of them on antidepressants and stuff.

01:05:54.520 So maybe he means some sort of mental disorder.

01:05:57.620 Maybe.

01:05:58.140 I mean, the, I don't know if I would, I think that the, the peak SSRI crew is like late

01:06:04.980 twenties.

01:06:05.900 No way.

01:06:07.420 I, that's what I think.

01:06:08.680 I don't have any data on it, but just from what I've observed, it seems to me that it's

01:06:13.760 like when girls stop being girls and start becoming women and they maybe see like a couple 0.78

01:06:19.320 crows feet or something and they go, Oh, that like that peak time is over and I don't have

01:06:23.560 a boyfriend or a family or a husband or something that it seems like that is when it's most likely

01:06:29.020 to start.

01:06:31.420 What was crazy for me is when I would see trends seep into my real life.

01:06:36.500 Cause it's one thing to see like TikTok girls on the internet, but when I cover antidepressant 1.00

01:06:42.200 trends for two years and then a really good friend of mine gets on it, do you know what

01:06:46.540 I mean?

01:06:46.780 It's like someone that I never thought would.

01:06:49.440 Yeah.

01:06:50.260 Um, oh, uh, Doug MPA, one of my, he says antidepressant use, including SSRIs generally increase with age

01:06:58.140 in women with the highest rates observed in women 60 and older.

01:07:01.480 Ooh.

01:07:02.480 Ooh.

01:07:03.480 Okay.

01:07:04.480 Yeah.

01:07:05.480 I mean, I guess that guy was onto something then.

01:07:06.480 Um, the other one says abortion rate, um, abortion chain or abortion chain gangs.

01:07:15.480 Okay. 0.93

01:07:16.480 Well guys, um, this one was, um, this was one pathetic, uh, I substitute if you don't like accountability.

01:07:28.480 Okay.

01:07:29.480 Is this the same guy I subscribed to his YouTube, just found his ex and found him an ex and saw

01:07:35.480 what I said.

01:07:36.480 So I asked you don't like accountability.

01:07:38.480 Oh, he's kind of upset.

01:07:39.480 Okay.

01:07:40.480 Well, I'm sorry, David, I don't know what to tell you.

01:07:43.480 Um, I guess, I guess your tweets make some people mad.

01:07:48.480 My tweets are a little bit more spicy.

01:07:50.480 Yeah.

01:07:51.480 I do too.

01:07:52.480 It's Twitter.

01:07:53.480 Yeah.

01:07:54.480 Yeah.

01:07:55.480 Um, oh, wow.

01:07:58.480 You're getting good.

01:07:59.480 You got the open borders.

01:08:01.480 Mm-hmm.

01:08:02.480 This, like put the, like a Wile E. Coyote sign with the, like the crack in the wood, like

01:08:09.480 Looney Tunes.

01:08:12.480 Exclamation point.

01:08:13.480 Sombrero guy.

01:08:15.480 Planned Parenthood building with devil horns.

01:08:20.480 It just all goes to the same place.

01:08:22.480 I would have to think this one through to make it like as impactful as my regular drawings,

01:08:27.480 but, um, I just did a really good one.

01:08:30.480 I can't put it on.

01:08:31.480 If I was using OBS, I could show you.

01:08:33.480 I'll get it to you next time.

01:08:35.480 The next one I was going to do is there's no such thing as a good woman. 1.00

01:08:43.480 And, and is that, you just want to know if I agree?

01:08:45.480 No, I'm going to, I'll tell you the concept.

01:08:48.480 So.

01:08:49.480 Oh, you want me to illustrate it?

01:08:50.480 No, I want to hold on.

01:08:51.480 So I used to think, um, that I was somehow super moral because I'd never done any of the

01:09:01.480 yacht stuff.

01:09:02.480 Right.

01:09:03.480 Yeah.

01:09:04.480 I'd never done the yacht stuff.

01:09:05.480 And I would think, wow, I'm so moral.

01:09:07.480 Yeah.

01:09:08.480 And then I thought about it and I was like, well, I've never been invited.

01:09:11.480 Yeah.

01:09:12.480 Exactly.

01:09:13.480 Yeah.

01:09:14.480 And I saw the same thing with the guys that said they wouldn't cheat.

01:09:18.480 And I'm like, well, nobody's trying to like, nobody's trying to get with you.

01:09:23.480 Yeah.

01:09:24.480 So of course you don't.

01:09:25.480 Yeah.

01:09:26.480 And I realized that the odds, like if I was Megan Fox level of beautiful, I have no idea what

01:09:33.480 I would do with that power.

01:09:34.480 I really don't because I've never, you know, like that's, you know, she had the most top

01:09:40.480 men all.

01:09:42.480 And for her to still fumble that is crazy.

01:09:44.480 But what did she do?

01:09:45.480 What happened?

01:09:46.480 She's like a divorce. 1.00

01:09:47.480 And like, I think she was with machine gun Kelly and they got divorced.

01:09:52.480 Oh, that's right.

01:09:53.480 Okay.

01:09:54.480 Yeah.

01:09:55.480 No, I did hear about that.

01:09:56.480 But even me judging her now, it's like, I don't know what I would do with that level

01:09:59.480 of hotness.

01:10:00.480 I don't know.

01:10:01.480 Yeah.

01:10:02.480 I can't say, cause I've never been in that position.

01:10:04.480 And every time I would meet women that were super feminine, every time I would meet them,

01:10:09.480 there was always something they were making up for.

01:10:11.480 Like they'd be really overweight or they'd have kids.

01:10:14.480 You know what I mean?

01:10:15.480 Like it would be something.

01:10:16.480 And it made me think even more.

01:10:18.480 And then I would look at like the women that were like strippers and bottle girls were 1.00

01:10:21.480 like six strong sixes pluses.

01:10:24.480 And then I would see the engineers and they would be like fives, low sixes.

01:10:28.480 And I would just think this is all, there's no good women. 1.00

01:10:31.480 It's just the right circumstance.

01:10:32.480 Or like me, you know, if something goes wrong in my life, I can move home with my family 0.98

01:10:38.480 where some women, you know, their only choice is being a hooker. 1.00

01:10:41.480 So. 0.94

01:10:42.480 Yeah.

01:10:43.480 So I happen to have some pretty good illustrations for this one already.

01:10:46.480 I don't know if you were looking for them.

01:10:48.480 Cool.

01:10:49.480 But this one's from a video I'm making right now.

01:10:51.480 Okay.

01:10:52.480 And it is how girls will say like, just because I dress this way doesn't mean that I'm like

01:10:59.480 that.

01:11:00.480 But the more you dress this way, the more attention you get, the more attention you get, the more

01:11:04.480 temptation, the more temptation, the more chances there are.

01:11:07.480 So making this choice is a chance of it happening.

01:11:11.480 Okay.

01:11:12.480 So the, the, the behavior that you choose is like directly correlated to the outcomes that

01:11:19.480 you're going to get.

01:11:21.480 Um, so what that means is that a good woman is a woman who makes choices, who keep her 0.98

01:11:26.480 away from these things.

01:11:27.480 It's not someone who's going to resist temptation because we, we are, we suck at that.

01:11:32.480 Like I, I never had, um, you know, that level of attractiveness.

01:11:36.480 I say that I was an eight, but I like, when I say that, I mean like low, like locally, when

01:11:41.480 I say that I don't, I'm not saying I was a cover model or anything.

01:11:45.480 I was just attractive enough that I got up out of that, not people's own area where you

01:11:50.480 get ignored.

01:11:51.480 And plenty of women were interested in me. 1.00

01:11:53.480 That's my favorite phrase of yours, the not people's own. 0.99

01:11:56.480 Yeah.

01:11:57.480 I keep that handy.

01:11:58.480 That's so funny.

01:11:59.480 I always, I always have them handy.

01:12:01.480 Thank God.

01:12:02.480 Um, so what makes a person good and not just a woman, but what makes a, a, a person good 0.98

01:12:07.480 is like what you, uh, chew, where you choose to put yourself.

01:12:12.480 So, you know, you got to watch her behavior and it's like, how is she dressing?

01:12:15.480 Modest or independent?

01:12:16.480 Where she hang out?

01:12:17.480 Church or club?

01:12:18.480 What's her loyalty in the past?

01:12:20.480 High or low?

01:12:21.480 Hello.

01:12:22.480 It's, it's not like who you are deep down.

01:12:28.480 This is, that's what people want to think about.

01:12:30.480 What makes you good is that, that I'm just a good person because I feel like I am.

01:12:33.480 And I know what I would make all the right choices.

01:12:36.480 It's where you put yourself and how you grow around it.

01:12:40.480 And you know, willpower has got something to do with it and everybody's got different

01:12:43.480 amounts of willpower, but it's about.

01:12:47.480 Um, where you habitually put yourself and how you develop through it.

01:12:52.480 And also whether or not you grow up, I made a new levels chart.

01:12:57.480 Oh, wow.

01:12:58.480 Whether or not, whether or not you grow up through the, uh, through the lower levels.

01:13:02.480 Like you have to be at, you have to be able to at least do this when you're facing temptation.

01:13:07.480 And, uh, not a lot of people do.

01:13:09.480 I know I didn't.

01:13:10.480 With my very moderate level of, you know, of getting out of the not people zone. 0.70

01:13:15.480 I definitely fumbled that.

01:13:18.480 I would say just spent it improperly.

01:13:22.480 Well, that's what, cause I thought about it and I was like, well, if I was invited to

01:13:29.480 like parties with a level celebrities, like some of these women are, I have no idea. 1.00

01:13:34.480 I like to think, you know, you like to think you wouldn't, but you can't say that until the

01:13:39.480 opportunity you have to see what happens.

01:13:41.480 Yeah, exactly.

01:13:43.480 And so I realized I'm like, I don't know many beautiful women. 0.70

01:13:47.480 Like I met a lot of girls that got to party with like Chris Brown in London.

01:13:51.480 I don't know what, that was like the number one.

01:13:53.480 He had some London shows, I guess, you know, and I don't know a single girl that didn't go.

01:13:59.480 Yeah.

01:14:00.480 And some of these women, I would say were younger, like more pure than me, but Chris Brown called. 1.00

01:14:06.480 They're going.

01:14:08.480 Yeah.

01:14:09.480 Because why would you not go, right?

01:14:11.480 Yeah.

01:14:12.480 What would be the equivalent for me?

01:14:13.480 I mean, men don't get like invited to things like that.

01:14:16.480 Like a playboy party, like playboy, like party back in the day.

01:14:21.480 Probably.

01:14:22.480 I did get invited to like, to go hang out and do Michael Sartain stuff with Michael Sartain.

01:14:27.480 And I didn't go, but I don't know if that's equivalent.

01:14:31.480 You know, Michael Sartain.

01:14:32.480 Yeah, no, I've been on his show.

01:14:34.480 Oh, cool.

01:14:35.480 Great.

01:14:36.480 Yeah.

01:14:37.480 I went through, I passed through Vegas and I was like, I better not go do his girl stuff. 0.95

01:14:42.480 I might still go.

01:14:45.480 I don't know.

01:14:46.480 I was like, why not?

01:14:47.480 You're single, right?

01:14:48.480 Yeah.

01:14:49.480 Yeah.

01:14:50.480 So what's the downside?

01:14:52.480 I don't know.

01:14:53.480 I've just kind of have never felt like that kind of vibe is for me.

01:14:59.480 I did want to meet him and see what goes on out there, but there's always time.

01:15:04.480 I could, I could always go this summer or something.

01:15:06.480 I don't think like groups of girls are all that different.

01:15:09.480 Like, even if you get like the models, there's going to be horror ones.

01:15:12.480 There's going to be like normal ones, you know?

01:15:14.480 Of course.

01:15:15.480 Of course.

01:15:16.480 Yeah.

01:15:17.480 They're all, they're all just doing a look.

01:15:18.480 They're all just like dressing apart and then they're all going to have their own personalities

01:15:22.480 for sure.

01:15:24.480 Do you think that liberal women and conservative women are, there's like a difference in quality? 0.97

01:15:30.480 Yeah.

01:15:31.480 I think that there are several different kinds of difference in quality.

01:15:35.480 I think that conservative women are more likely to be well behaved. 1.00

01:15:41.480 Like I think that liberal women run in groups where their independence, like they call it independence, 1.00

01:15:49.480 is promoted and it's bad behavior that's promoted.

01:15:52.480 Um, conservative women are not exposed to like, uh, polyamory is smart and makes you cool. 1.00

01:15:59.480 Okay.

01:16:00.480 They don't, they don't have those kinds of influences.

01:16:02.480 The liberal ones have those influences and they're affected by them.

01:16:05.480 So like women being women, what you expose them to will affect their behavior and the liberals

01:16:14.480 are exposed to much worse stuff. 0.99

01:16:15.480 The only thing is I think conservative women tend to be more bitchy. 1.00

01:16:20.480 Yeah. 0.95

01:16:21.480 They're kind of, um, a little bit more like HOA kind of I'm in charge around here.

01:16:28.480 Yeah.

01:16:29.480 Yeah.

01:16:30.480 I agree.

01:16:31.480 I don't know.

01:16:32.480 I haven't, I haven't ever lived in a place with a lot of them.

01:16:34.480 I've only ever been in blue areas, dated liberal women. 1.00

01:16:39.480 They get kind of like that though.

01:16:41.480 They, if you, if you cross one of their moral boundaries, they kind of, um, you know, they, they get, they get screechy.

01:16:48.480 They start thought policing you out loud.

01:16:52.480 Like, you know, they get up, they get upset and they come totally transform and they go, what did you say?

01:16:58.480 You know?

01:16:59.480 I call that a crash out.

01:17:01.480 I love.

01:17:02.480 Oh yeah.

01:17:03.480 Yeah.

01:17:04.480 About that.

01:17:05.480 Yup.

01:17:06.480 They crash out.

01:17:08.480 What do you think about, um, I have a, a pipeline for mids and hot women. 1.00

01:17:14.480 Mm-hmm.

01:17:15.480 If you, so I always say that mids go to big cities and get humbled.

01:17:21.480 Mm-hmm.

01:17:22.480 So like, they'll be the prettiest girl in like Kentucky, you know, and then they go to Miami and then they just, you just get past.

01:17:32.480 Yeah.

01:17:33.480 Yeah.

01:17:34.480 They just go back to the, the Kentucky and then marry someone from their hometown.

01:17:37.480 Mm-hmm .

01:17:38.480 Mm-hmm .

01:17:39.480 Have you seen that?

01:17:40.480 I have seen that.

01:17:41.480 Yeah.

01:17:42.480 I have seen, um, when I was living in the city, there were, uh, girls that would move from other places and they would, they would mention, like they would say out loud, they would go like, I am less attractive here. 0.85

01:17:54.480 People do not treat me like as nice as they did back where I was.

01:17:58.480 There was one that came from, I think Detroit.

01:18:00.480 And she was like, I, maybe I should just go back to Detroit.

01:18:03.480 So yeah, I have noticed that.

01:18:06.480 What do you mean by a pipeline?

01:18:08.480 You mean like putting them into places that work better for them?

01:18:11.480 Yeah.

01:18:12.480 Like it's usually, um, an example is like, if a girl's like a seven plus, she'll probably go to a big school.

01:18:20.480 So like, for example, Alabama, there's like the Alabama to Florida pipeline where you go to Alabama as a school.

01:18:26.480 If you're seven plus, then you go to Miami or maybe LA, then you get dug out there.

01:18:31.480 There's a couple of women that do win. 1.00

01:18:32.480 They find a husband in the city and graduate, but obviously there's more losers than winners. 0.98

01:18:37.480 So, um, then, you know, they get dug out then boom, um, they go back.

01:18:43.480 And then usually it's like the hot girls are like within the city, like the most exciting part of the city.

01:18:49.480 And around here, I'm like an hour away from the city.

01:18:52.480 And I went 30 minutes close to the city and the whole bar. 0.99

01:18:56.480 I shit you not. 0.99

01:18:57.480 I went with, um, Doug MPA, my cohost. 0.99

01:19:01.480 And it was a single mother club. 0.67

01:19:04.480 What?

01:19:05.480 What?

01:19:06.480 Yeah.

01:19:07.480 I was like, I was like, I can't even make this up.

01:19:11.480 And it was like 30.

01:19:12.480 And I realized I'm like, so all the hot girls go to the city and then like a bad decision takes them out of it.

01:19:19.480 So like for them, it's like single motherhood.

01:19:22.480 Now there are 30 minutes out and that's the best they can do.

01:19:25.480 You know, an hour out, you get even uglier.

01:19:27.480 So a lot of guys, like they might think they're unattractive, but if they just lived where like the hot women are, like one would be bound to, you know. 0.83

01:19:36.480 Yep.

01:19:37.480 That's kind of what brings everyone to the cities.

01:19:39.480 Like that's kind of, I don't want to be a downer, but like it, it makes me feel like that's why, like, that's kind of why that's the most black pilled opinion. 1.00

01:19:48.480 I think I have that people are always drawn to those high population density areas.

01:19:53.480 And those are the ones being ruined the most by all this, by all the social degradation.

01:19:57.480 You kind of can't go like, I have all these friends who are trying to escape and live out in the middle of nowhere, like in the Rockies in the empty quarter.

01:20:07.480 They're like, we're going to move out there and we're going to start a gym.

01:20:10.480 And, and they get out there and there's like five girls that are above a four. 1.00

01:20:14.480 And they're like, there's no, you can't make this happen.

01:20:16.480 We're not going to all marry the same girl.

01:20:19.480 You know, there isn't enough because they all leave.

01:20:22.480 They all the, all the girls who can get anything from anywhere leave those remote areas. 1.00

01:20:27.480 So it's like impossible to move there unless you just want to die alone.

01:20:32.480 Yeah.

01:20:33.480 And you can kind of see how hot a girl is by how big of a city. 1.00

01:20:37.480 Well, like she tends to pick. 1.00

01:20:39.480 Yeah.

01:20:40.480 Because if it's like, I, I, I rate LA, Vegas, Miami, New York.

01:20:46.480 Um, Scottsdale, Arizona is like the, the most beautiful women go there. 1.00

01:20:51.480 Is there any city you think I missed?

01:20:54.480 I don't think so.

01:20:56.480 I'm trying to think like the first time that I ever went to Portland, I thought that they had hot girls there, but it was just a fluke.

01:21:03.480 I just saw like sort of the same kind of girl too many times in one day.

01:21:07.480 Um, Miami, New York, Los Angeles.

01:21:10.480 Those are the big ones.

01:21:11.480 No, I don't think you missed anything.

01:21:13.480 Not that I know of.

01:21:14.480 Atlanta.

01:21:16.480 No, I don't.

01:21:18.480 I think Atlanta would be a tier two.

01:21:20.480 Like, cause then that's like tier one.

01:21:22.480 Tier two is like Chicago, Portland, like big cities, but like, they're not really known for hot girls, but just cause they're so big. 1.00

01:21:30.480 Some of the hot girls.

01:21:31.480 Yeah.

01:21:32.480 They'll be there.

01:21:33.480 Yeah.

01:21:34.480 They'll be there.

01:21:35.480 I think New York and New York and, um, I actually, I don't know.

01:21:38.480 It might be Miami.

01:21:39.480 I know that New York is where I would be if it wasn't New York, if you know what I mean?

01:21:43.480 Like if it didn't have New York rules in play, that's where I would go.

01:21:48.480 Yeah.

01:21:49.480 You got all the models there.

01:21:51.480 Yeah, exactly.

01:21:53.480 Fashion.

01:21:54.480 There's also more men per woman, uh, more women per men per man in New York.

01:22:00.480 You've got the other way around on the west coast, but New York is a good numbers game for men.

01:22:07.480 Yeah.

01:22:08.480 I've heard the same thing about Atlanta.

01:22:10.480 Yeah.

01:22:11.480 Although, you know, East coast and the west coast are kind of like that.

01:22:14.480 You mess around there too much. 0.77

01:22:15.480 You might get AIDS.

01:22:16.480 There's like an AIDS epidemic there.

01:22:18.480 Yeah.

01:22:19.480 Yeah.

01:22:20.480 Atlanta's a, I don't know.

01:22:21.480 I haven't actually visited, but I've only heard rumors.

01:22:24.480 Yeah.

01:22:25.480 It doesn't sound like a destination.

01:22:27.480 Yeah.

01:22:28.480 And then I have like tier two cities, which are like, it's like tier one, which are big cities.

01:22:36.480 Um, and then like mid-level cities like Philadelphia.

01:22:40.480 I've heard there's pretty girls Boston, which are like near a big city, but they're not quite 1.00

01:22:45.480 usually the sevens go there, especially if they're used to being the hottest girl. 0.99

01:22:50.480 They might go to New York for a year and they can't take it.

01:22:53.480 Exactly.

01:22:54.480 Uh, Boston is where you find like the, uh, the, the upper mids who have really great

01:22:59.480 jobs and they have really expensive rent.

01:23:04.480 It's kind of, um, it's, I dunno, kind of a snottier city.

01:23:09.480 I think Boston is.

01:23:10.480 It's like they, they are, uh, more socially conscious there if that's possible.

01:23:15.480 Is it possible to be more socially conscious than New Yorkers?

01:23:18.480 What do you mean by socially conscious?

01:23:20.480 Like aware of status and aware of the importance of where you live and how you're dressed and,

01:23:26.480 you know, what kind of music you listen to.

01:23:28.480 And I'm listening to cello music.

01:23:29.480 I'm more refined, you know, a little bit more like, uh, attached to the classiness of being

01:23:37.480 in a city rather than just like, oh, I'm doing it.

01:23:40.480 I'm in the big apple.

01:23:41.480 I don't know.

01:23:42.480 It just seems like a different, it seems like a different vibe.

01:23:44.480 That was the biggest culture shock I had when I moved to England.

01:23:48.480 Cause I was there for three years was the people dress so much nicer.

01:23:52.480 I would come back to America and people would be like, why are you dressed so fancy? 0.97

01:23:56.480 Yeah, I know it's ridiculous. 0.85

01:23:59.480 People just dress with bags here.

01:24:00.480 Yeah.

01:24:01.480 Um, conservative women weaponized the concept of masculinity to gaslight men to do their bidding. 1.00

01:24:07.480 Yeah.

01:24:08.480 Um, do you think the current degradation of the nuclear nuclear family family was intentionally

01:24:16.480 socially engineered from those in power for a specific purpose or a natural cycle from

01:24:22.480 in the levels, um, diagram, um, from HM?

01:24:27.480 Thanks.

01:24:28.480 Um, I think that it's both.

01:24:31.480 I think that people who study history properly can see these things coming.

01:24:37.480 And when you see them coming, you can just nudge them.

01:24:40.480 I don't think that you can take a thriving society and just say like, we're going to make

01:24:45.480 families fall apart.

01:24:46.480 I'm just going to turn some knobs and make families fall apart because you have the way that

01:24:51.480 people move is like a river and you can't just go against it.

01:24:54.480 But when it starts going that way, I think you can influence it to go that way.

01:25:00.480 There's just too much going on in politics that seems like exactly what you would want

01:25:07.480 to do at exactly the right time to do it, to make these things happen.

01:25:10.480 They, they, there's, I can't think of any choices right now, but people make choices

01:25:14.480 like there's nothing that anyone can benefit from this.

01:25:17.480 This is just going to make marriages fall apart and make there be more single mothers 1.00

01:25:22.480 and fatherless children.

01:25:23.480 And, um, I think they know what they're doing.

01:25:26.480 I think it's, I think you can discern from just pattern recognition that they do know

01:25:31.480 what they're doing.

01:25:35.480 What do you think?

01:25:36.480 Someone benefits from the money.

01:25:37.480 I think they're all just trying to make money.

01:25:39.480 Yeah.

01:25:40.480 It's power and control.

01:25:42.480 Yeah.

01:25:43.480 I think it's just $8 or $2, you know?

01:25:45.480 Cause I think men, you guys kind of go through life where you figure out much sooner.

01:25:50.480 Like we can just say whatever and we don't get in trouble.

01:25:53.480 Everyone just says, whatever.

01:25:54.480 She's a girl.

01:25:55.480 Do you know what I mean?

01:25:56.480 Like there's even stuff I've said where I'm like, if a guy said that his career would be

01:26:00.480 over.

01:26:01.480 Oh, for sure.

01:26:02.480 I get it.

01:26:03.480 Got any examples?

01:26:04.480 Uh, not ones that I'm trying to draw attention to right now.

01:26:07.480 Okay.

01:26:08.480 All right.

01:26:09.480 All right.

01:26:10.480 Not, not, not ones that I'm trying to, but there's a couple instances where I could think 0.96

01:26:14.480 of, I'm like, that was pretty dumb. 0.91

01:26:16.480 But yeah. 0.95

01:26:17.480 And even I was, I was introspect, like I was trying to think about it.

01:26:20.480 I'm like, do you know what?

01:26:21.480 It's probably cause men, I did that because men have a consequence earlier. 0.82

01:26:27.480 Where like, if men just say what they think, there's an immediate consequence. 0.51

01:26:32.480 Like they might lose their job.

01:26:34.480 They might lose.

01:26:35.480 And so at some point, I think the men just adapt to the same way they become like cold,

01:26:39.480 hard players.

01:26:40.480 Yeah.

01:26:41.480 You know what I mean?

01:26:42.480 The men, they just, they just say, do you know what? 0.99

01:26:43.480 Screw you guys.

01:26:44.480 I'm going to make money and get by it because I like, it's too hard to go the other way. 0.99

01:26:49.480 I have to deal with all these women nagging. 1.00

01:26:51.480 I have to, women, you want to abort your kids. 1.00

01:26:53.480 I'll be an abortion doctor. 0.99

01:26:55.480 I'll be a nutritionist and just lie to you and say, you're not fat.

01:26:59.480 I'll just, do you know what I mean?

01:27:00.480 Like they just, I do.

01:27:01.480 Yeah.

01:27:02.480 That's God.

01:27:03.480 I know.

01:27:04.480 I know.

01:27:05.480 I just know exactly what you mean.

01:27:06.480 It is.

01:27:07.480 It is way easier to go along.

01:27:08.480 I've never been able to do it.

01:27:10.480 It always makes me feel too bad to go along with whatever, you know, I don't believe in

01:27:16.480 or whatever I don't like, but man, it solves a lot of problems.

01:27:21.480 It really does.

01:27:22.480 Like if people are making these choices, like opening up a casino, it's just such a great

01:27:27.480 way to get a huge amount of money from people who are going to make bad choices anyway.

01:27:34.480 Yeah.

01:27:35.480 Like I just.

01:27:36.480 Yeah.

01:27:37.480 I think it was open the door.

01:27:38.480 I mean, people try to take credit for these plans or whatever.

01:27:41.480 I'm sure some people had plans and like whatever, but to me, I just think everyone's trying to

01:27:48.480 make money.

01:27:49.480 They gave women bank accounts.

01:27:50.480 It was over.

01:27:51.480 Mm hmm.

01:27:52.480 In the eighties.

01:27:54.480 Apparently that's what they're saying now.

01:27:56.480 He's right.

01:27:57.480 That's why feminism didn't happen until the industrial revolution that enabled the nudge 1.00

01:28:01.480 and the tech revolution broke the dam.

01:28:03.480 It's over.

01:28:04.480 Yeah.

01:28:05.480 Yeah.

01:28:06.480 But the tech revolution was a big one.

01:28:08.480 Um.

01:28:09.480 Oh, Rachel, thanks for watching, Rachel.

01:28:15.480 Have you done a collab with The Crucible?

01:28:18.480 Um, I don't think I've collaborated with them.

01:28:21.480 I chat with them.

01:28:22.480 I think I'm just, I chat, chat to them in DMS, but I'd like to work with them.

01:28:25.480 Oh, cool.

01:28:26.480 They should have you on.

01:28:27.480 Um, that'd be great.

01:28:28.480 I want to read you the modern woman life cycle.

01:28:31.480 Great.

01:28:32.480 And then, um, I think Doug MPA was going to come say hi to, he's a fan.

01:28:37.480 Um, but I want to read this to you and I want you to see if you agree or disagree.

01:28:42.480 So the modern woman life cycle. 0.89

01:28:45.480 So modern women will go to a high priced institution to get a degree that no one cares about to 1.00

01:28:50.480 put themselves in a whole bunch of debt that will burden them for the rest of their lives.

01:28:54.480 All they learned in school is how to be disagreeable and how to use men.

01:28:58.480 Number two, modern women will get a job that is too stressful and does not care about them. 1.00

01:29:04.480 In reality, the job is not that hard or stressful, but the women will convince themselves that it is. 1.00

01:29:09.480 Number three, modern women will feel entitled to a certain type of lifestyle. 1.00

01:29:14.480 Um, when they begin their careers and will buy houses and cars.

01:29:17.480 They can't afford or spend their money on travel while ignoring student debt.

01:29:21.480 Modern women will wake up between the ages of 33 to 37 and brush to have a kids find a husband or both. 1.00

01:29:28.480 Five, modern women will hit their late thirties, early forties and try to get pregnant by either a loser or IVF. 1.00

01:29:37.480 Um, modern women will start antidepressants and become alcoholics and modern women will buy a dog or a cat and die alone. 0.98

01:29:45.480 What do you think?

01:29:46.480 What do you think? Did I miss anything?

01:29:48.480 Um, yeah, I mean, just, just details.

01:29:51.480 I think I don't think that there.

01:29:56.480 There's that there's any major chapters missing in there.

01:29:59.480 There's the.

01:30:00.480 Maybe, maybe before college, there's the Disney cycle.

01:30:15.480 Okay.

01:30:16.480 That, that primes them.

01:30:18.480 The Disney, Disney to Twilight pipeline.

01:30:21.480 Okay.

01:30:22.480 Uh, which primes them for the, the expectations.

01:30:27.480 Uh, and then, yeah, the going to college and getting the, the worthless degree that they think taught them something and then getting the job that, God, that was one of the most frustrating experiences of my life.

01:30:39.480 I used to work with this girl at a job where we had the exact same job title and I got paid more than her. 1.00

01:30:44.480 I worked there longer than her and I had more experience.

01:30:47.480 And then we both got laid off at the same time.

01:30:49.480 And a couple of years later, I matched her on Bumble and she was getting $120,000 a year to be a women's leadership coordinator or something. 0.99

01:30:57.480 And I was driving Uber and that was what the market had for me and for her.

01:31:05.480 That was not fun.

01:31:06.480 That happened to me in reverse.

01:31:08.480 Oh yeah.

01:31:09.480 Yeah.

01:31:10.480 I was in sales.

01:31:11.480 They just, I walked in, they took away another guy's territory and gave it to me.

01:31:15.480 Wow.

01:31:17.480 I felt bad, but it was like nothing.

01:31:18.480 I, you know, I can't be like, don't give me the.

01:31:21.480 Yeah.

01:31:22.480 You can't, you can't say.

01:31:23.480 Right.

01:31:24.480 Yeah.

01:31:25.480 Yeah.

01:31:26.480 It does happen a lot.

01:31:27.480 And that like, that's one of those things that that's kind of like something that I would mention on X that that guy was complaining about.

01:31:32.480 I just point out stuff like that and people get upset about it.

01:31:35.480 It's like, well, is it true though?

01:31:38.480 Um, all right.

01:31:40.480 All right.

01:31:41.480 So, uh, yeah, the Disney Twilight pipeline college, the job, the, uh, what was before antidepressants and then the, and then the cat and then it eats their eyeballs.

01:31:49.480 Do you know about that?

01:31:50.480 Uh, wait, what?

01:31:51.480 Have you heard about how the cat eats your eyeballs after you die?

01:31:55.480 Oh, it's just, it's part of the meme.

01:31:59.480 It's part of the meme that you, when you dial on the cat eats your eyes.

01:32:02.480 Cause they're softer.

01:32:03.480 It's pretty, it's just a gruesome, it's just a gruesome add on joke.

01:32:06.480 Oh, okay.

01:32:07.480 I'm not going to put that in there, but I see where you're going with it.

01:32:10.480 Okay. 0.78

01:32:11.480 It's gross.

01:32:12.480 Yeah.

01:32:13.480 Apparently there's a super chat I missed.

01:32:15.480 Doug MPA.

01:32:16.480 Could you find it?

01:32:17.480 Cause there was a good amount this show.

01:32:19.480 So I, I must've lost it.

01:32:21.480 Do you through a says, Oh wait here.

01:32:23.480 Oh, here.

01:32:24.480 I saw it.

01:32:25.480 I saw it.

01:32:26.480 Hey, I studied for almost, um, 10 years.

01:32:29.480 Hey, I'm curious.

01:32:30.480 I studied for almost 10 years.

01:32:32.480 Hey, I'm curious.

01:32:33.480 I studied for almost 10 years.

01:32:35.480 Personalities having met over a thousand people close and random take the test.

01:32:41.480 And I've come up with the conclusion, personality and gender are two halves of the same coin. 0.65

01:32:46.480 Know your gender, know your personality.

01:32:48.480 You think that's true?

01:32:49.480 Not true.

01:32:51.480 I mean, there is definitely like personality variation within the sexes.

01:32:57.480 If that's what he's talking about, or unless he's talking about gender in the woke sense.

01:33:00.480 Like if one of your 72 genders, in which case, no, I would not agree. 1.00

01:33:05.480 But yeah, um, there are things about men and women that are extremely consistent that people just don't want to believe or deal with.

01:33:16.480 Like just entire ways of perceiving things like how men can look straight at something in the fridge and not see it.

01:33:21.480 Cause their eyes just work different.

01:33:23.480 Yeah.

01:33:24.480 Really?

01:33:25.480 I didn't know that.

01:33:26.480 Yeah.

01:33:27.480 Uh, women, women perceive, um, color more and they, I think, uh, they're able to notice new things in their visual field.

01:33:38.480 Whereas men are looking for where the thing is supposed to be.

01:33:41.480 So men will open the fridge and they'll look for where was the thing supposed to be? 1.00

01:33:45.480 And they look at it and it's not there and they go, where is it?

01:33:47.480 And then the wife will go, it's directly next to it because her eyes are scanning. 1.00

01:33:53.480 So yeah, uh, the vision works differently.

01:33:56.480 Hearing works differently.

01:33:57.480 Senses work differently.

01:33:58.480 Emotions work differently. 0.95

01:33:59.480 Women are more sensitive to negative emotion, more neurotic. 1.00

01:34:02.480 This is probably why the lesbian divorce rates are so high because, you know, you get a bad feeling and it's like, well, the bad feeling must be about whatever's in front of me right now. 0.99

01:34:12.480 And then it's just two women spraying that at each other. 1.00

01:34:17.480 Um, so yeah, I mean, it's a personality is hugely shaped by it, but I think there's quite a bit of variation in personality within the sexes also.

01:34:28.480 Can you expand on that a little more?

01:34:31.480 Like, what do you think the biggest like variations are in personality?

01:34:34.480 Oh, you're going with this drawing.

01:34:37.480 Yeah.

01:34:38.480 Yeah.

01:34:39.480 It's fun.

01:34:40.480 The biggest variations in personality are, do you know about the big five?

01:34:44.480 Yeah.

01:34:45.480 Do you know any personality tests?

01:34:46.480 Yeah.

01:34:47.480 So you have the big five, um, which is, it's the only one that's like validated by mainstream science, which I don't even know what that means.

01:34:56.480 Uh, but those, you know, those five traits can predict a lot about you and who you are and how you're likely to behave.

01:35:03.480 And, you know, there's a lot of, there's a lot of variation between them.

01:35:06.480 Like, uh, people tend to only have high openness or high conscientiousness, uh, for example.

01:35:13.480 And I think that women tend to be more open. 1.00

01:35:15.480 Men tend to be more conscientious. 0.79

01:35:17.480 Uh, women tend to be more neurotic. 1.00

01:35:19.480 Um, I'm not sure who tends to be more extroverted, but there are other personality tests that they are not scientifically validated, whatever that means.

01:35:27.480 But I think that there's still some validity to them.

01:35:30.480 There's the MBTI, which I think does a really good job of telling you what kind of job you would enjoy doing and therefore be good at because you like doing it.

01:35:41.480 Or be more likely to be good at because you like doing it.

01:35:44.480 And then there's the Enneagram.

01:35:46.480 Um, that's a famous one.

01:35:48.480 It's more like a spiritual thing.

01:35:51.480 Uh, and that one is associated with the seven deadly sins plus, uh, two more.

01:35:59.480 And that one is based on what your personality type fears the most.

01:36:05.480 And so what you go towards the most.

01:36:08.480 Oh, that's interesting.

01:36:09.480 Yeah.

01:36:10.480 It's very interesting.

01:36:11.480 I spent a good amount of time learning that one.

01:36:14.480 Uh, I didn't like the type I got, but I learned a lot about myself through it.

01:36:18.480 That happened to me too. 0.99

01:36:19.480 I was like, this test is bullshit. 0.99

01:36:22.480 Not that one, but the other one. 1.00

01:36:25.480 What?

01:36:26.480 The Myers-Griggs? 0.84

01:36:27.480 The one, um, it was Jordan Peterson's test.

01:36:30.480 I took a long time ago and I was pissed at my response.

01:36:33.480 What did you get that you didn't like?

01:36:36.480 Um, I didn't like, I got low.

01:36:39.480 It called me lazy.

01:36:41.480 It was like, it called me low and like, I think it was conscientiousness.

01:36:44.480 Yeah.

01:36:45.480 And it said, I was very, I didn't mind some of them.

01:36:49.480 Like it said, I was really high in extraversion, like 98th percentile.

01:36:53.480 And I was like, that makes sense.

01:36:54.480 I've always been like that.

01:36:55.480 But, uh, oh my gosh.

01:36:59.480 I was so, I just remember being pissed.

01:37:01.480 Cause it said I was lazy and I'm like, I am not lazy.

01:37:05.480 No, you don't, you don't look lazy.

01:37:07.480 Pearl is far from lazy. 0.99

01:37:08.480 I can tell you that.

01:37:09.480 Hey, how's it going?

01:37:10.480 You guys.

01:37:11.480 This is Doug MPA.

01:37:12.480 He's my cohost most days and he's a big fan.

01:37:15.480 He wanted to say.

01:37:16.480 Yeah.

01:37:17.480 Hey.

01:37:18.480 How you doing, man?

01:37:19.480 I'm doing all right.

01:37:20.480 I'm talking to Pearl, which is pretty fun.

01:37:22.480 I knew of Pearl a few years before I started home math.

01:37:25.480 So it's like a little celebrity meeting.

01:37:27.480 It's fun.

01:37:28.480 I, uh, first off, I don't know what that guy was talking about.

01:37:31.480 I follow you on X and you're not a racist at all.

01:37:34.480 I don't know what that guy's talking about.

01:37:36.480 Um, the, the new hashtag is called black fatigue.

01:37:39.480 Oh, Jesus.

01:37:40.480 Yeah.

01:37:41.480 Well, people are just tired of it, man.

01:37:43.480 Yeah.

01:37:44.480 You know, I'm black and I'm tired of it too.

01:37:46.480 I don't see anything race.

01:37:47.480 I don't know what that guy's talking about.

01:37:49.480 Yeah.

01:37:50.480 Well, when you talk about race, people will call you racist.

01:37:52.480 I don't say, I don't say anything negative about groups of people, but.

01:37:55.480 They'll call white people racist, but not black people. 0.97

01:37:59.480 Unfortunately. 0.97

01:38:00.480 Exactly. 1.00

01:38:01.480 Cause I hate the fact that, um, white people, especially white men are the root of all evil. 1.00

01:38:06.480 I can't stand that. 1.00

01:38:07.480 I have a lot of white male friends, successful, ambitious, competitive, but they can't say 0.96

01:38:13.480 what's on their mind.

01:38:15.480 I'm tired of it, man. 0.54

01:38:16.480 I'm telling you, hashtag black fatigue.

01:38:18.480 Um, so the first time.

01:38:19.480 I got that in England, Doug.

01:38:21.480 What's that?

01:38:22.480 I got that after I got called a colonizer in England.

01:38:27.480 Oh yeah.

01:38:28.480 These views do not reflect Pearl at all.

01:38:31.480 These are Doug at NBA's views.

01:38:33.480 No, I'm tired too.

01:38:34.480 Sorry.

01:38:35.480 That's so funny.

01:38:36.480 You just went back to England to recolonize it.

01:38:40.480 So my favorite one of yours was, you have a drawing that have all the women on one side.

01:38:49.480 It's pink.

01:38:50.480 It has a bunch of pink women on one side and a bunch of blue on the other side. 1.00

01:38:54.480 It has all the arrows.

01:38:55.480 I have that.

01:38:56.480 I have that saved on YouTube and I've watched.

01:38:59.480 Yes.

01:39:00.480 There it is.

01:39:01.480 There it is.

01:39:02.480 Can you explain this?

01:39:04.480 Cause this is one of the greatest things I've ever seen in my entire life.

01:39:08.480 You sum up the struggles of men so well with this.

01:39:11.480 Can you go over that?

01:39:12.480 Well, I didn't invent the concept.

01:39:15.480 You know, this is something that I saw banging around the internet before I even understood it.

01:39:20.480 Because when I, you know, when online dating started happening, I was really successful on it.

01:39:26.480 And so I was like, well, I guess that probably is it.

01:39:28.480 And I like, I guess I'm here.

01:39:30.480 But what I did with it and I made a new version too.

01:39:34.480 There's going to be a new version with like words and it's going to look cleaner.

01:39:37.480 What I did with it was I separated it into when society is working over here.

01:39:42.480 And when it's not.

01:39:44.480 Well, have you seen this?

01:39:48.480 It takes a second to delay.

01:39:50.480 It's hard to explain, but it's cause we have it set up.

01:39:53.480 Go ahead.

01:39:54.480 If he keeps going, I'll see it in a second.

01:39:56.480 Oh, okay.

01:39:57.480 So yeah, I'm on a delay.

01:39:58.480 So the left side, I'll just point to it and stay.

01:40:00.480 The left side that says men and women over here, closer to equal.

01:40:04.480 This is when society is functioning and what it shows is that these green lines are long-term stable connections.

01:40:11.480 That's the keeper relationship.

01:40:13.480 And in stable societies where people actually hang out with each other and get to know each other,

01:40:19.480 people tend to get married to someone on their own level and marriages happen a lot.

01:40:24.480 There, of course, because humans are humans, you have these red and orange lines,

01:40:29.480 which are the sweeper and sleeper relationships where it's like the orange one is an ongoing affair

01:40:34.480 and the red one is like a one night mistake and we can never do this again.

01:40:37.480 And of course they happen, but also the stable relationships are there.

01:40:41.480 When we do not have a society that keeps us interacting with each other in a church or a school or a neighborhood or what have you,

01:40:50.480 we move over to the social breakdown one where when women are unfamiliar with men,

01:40:58.480 their standards are way, way, way higher.

01:41:00.480 When women know men, they get attraction, proximity attraction. 0.79

01:41:04.480 But with men that they're unfamiliar with, they're all very, very, very picky.

01:41:08.480 And where's my, where's my not people zone?

01:41:11.480 Where'd he go?

01:41:13.480 That's my favorite part.

01:41:15.480 Yeah.

01:41:16.480 About, about 80 to 90% of them are in the not people zone where they just are like, 0.93

01:41:22.480 excuse me, stop talking to me.

01:41:24.480 What is it?

01:41:25.480 What do you want?

01:41:26.480 Do you have a, do I need to put my shopping cart back?

01:41:28.480 No, could I have your number?

01:41:29.480 Like, you know, it gets bad.

01:41:31.480 So what happens is that now we have TV people staying home, cell phones,

01:41:39.480 people are talking remotely, the dating apps,

01:41:42.480 they all have 1400 matches in their pocket at all times.

01:41:46.480 There's more and more guys in the not people zone.

01:41:50.480 And these guys have more and more options.

01:41:52.480 Like I remember being this guy for quite a few years.

01:41:55.480 And I have memories that are kind of, they're like,

01:41:59.480 sad and embarrassing now of meeting someone who was really a reasonable choice.

01:42:05.480 And just thinking of her as a, as an option among many.

01:42:09.480 And it's like, I could, I might like my, my, my life might've got better,

01:42:12.480 might've gone better if I wasn't able to make that decision.

01:42:16.480 If I didn't have that kind of opportunity.

01:42:18.480 So these guys make those bad choices.

01:42:21.480 These girls get their feelings hurt. 1.00

01:42:23.480 And then these guys, you know, want to burn it all down.

01:42:26.480 And that all comes from just losing social integrity.

01:42:30.480 So one of the best quotes I've heard.

01:42:32.480 And I don't remember who said it was women rewrote the social contract, 1.00

01:42:36.480 all the social contract and the 20th century.

01:42:39.480 And men are so, and the 21st century is going to be men responding to it.

01:42:45.480 Yeah.

01:42:46.480 What do you think about that?

01:42:47.480 I mean, it goes in cycles.

01:42:49.480 I did.

01:42:50.480 I don't know if you know what if alt hist, but I had a talk with him about this a while back.

01:42:57.480 What if alt hist is like, what if alternative history.

01:43:02.480 So I spoke with him about this and we have a, you know, cycle of a dead civilization rebuilding,

01:43:09.480 hopefully getting a chance to learn.

01:43:11.480 And then here I have a communist with a, you know, shirt that says, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to swear free stuff.

01:43:18.480 And then over here, we have feminism versus patriarchy. 1.00

01:43:23.480 And in the middle, like you have to actually have balance.

01:43:26.480 When men are too much in charge, they make certain mistakes and it gets too rigid.

01:43:30.480 When women are too much in charge, they make certain mistakes and it gets too chaotic. 1.00

01:43:35.480 And I'm pretty sure that you would rather have an extreme masculine order than an extreme feminine one, 0.95

01:43:42.480 because you just, everyone just dies.

01:43:44.480 You just go back to the stone age.

01:43:46.480 Yeah.

01:43:47.480 Um, and we talked about how they are, they're just brainwashing to people to believe that all of history was just oppression of women. 0.99

01:43:58.480 And then all of a sudden we got feminism and everything is good forever now. 0.75

01:44:02.480 Whereas in reality, it alternates a lot.

01:44:05.480 Well, I use this, I use this example.

01:44:08.480 So for feminists have rewritten history because I hear women say, well, back in the fifties and the sixties, 1.00

01:44:13.480 men got to work, they got to work if women couldn't. 0.97

01:44:17.480 You know that before the eighties, 50% of our economy was agricultural and manufacturing.

01:44:23.480 How do you think the suburbs got built?

01:44:25.480 See, women think that it was all like mad men and men were in suits and offices. 1.00

01:44:30.480 No, men work hard, hard, physically laborious jobs in factories, 12 hours a day, five days a week for 30 years.

01:44:40.480 Yeah.

01:44:41.480 Okay.

01:44:42.480 And women have fallen in love with this idea of working. 1.00

01:44:47.480 And a lot of them, they go out there, they give their best years for childbearing years and their best years for some jobs that can care less about them.

01:44:55.480 And then they won out by the time they're 35.

01:44:58.480 Yeah.

01:44:59.480 Lawyers, like they'll spend all that money and all that time getting to be a lawyer that do it for a few years and go, I don't like it.

01:45:04.480 Or even CEOs, the average male CEO's career is seven to nine years.

01:45:08.480 Average female CEO is two to three years. 1.00

01:45:10.480 Wow.

01:45:11.480 These women claw their way to the top and say, yeah, no thanks. 1.00

01:45:13.480 That's why we have a healthcare crisis. 0.60

01:45:15.480 Over 52% of medical students are women and over half of them are going to leave the career field when they have a kid by the time they hit 45.

01:45:25.480 I call it the great experiment.

01:45:28.480 Women want to try on being a man, but they don't really want the smoke. 1.00

01:45:32.480 Yeah.

01:45:33.480 They want, I made a really good tweet about that.

01:45:36.480 I think it might be in my book.

01:45:37.480 I'm about to release a tweet book.

01:45:40.480 It was about how women want to be like men because they imagine that men just have great lives.

01:45:46.480 They imagine that men just get up and have like a Turkish bathrobe handed to them.

01:45:51.480 You know, they, they go to work and they put their feet up on a desk and smoke a cigar.

01:45:56.480 They, they imagine that men have all these privileges with no responsibilities.

01:46:00.480 Agreed.

01:46:01.480 Yeah.

01:46:02.480 And so they reach for this imaginary life that none of us actually have.

01:46:05.480 Because again, like this is why, this is why dating relates so much to politics and society.

01:46:12.480 It's because they're imagining themselves equal to the men that they want to date.

01:46:17.480 So they only look at the top men and they go, what did those guys have?

01:46:22.480 I should have that. 0.97

01:46:23.480 They don't want to be equal to the bottom 80% of men because those guys are miserable.

01:46:27.480 So to answer your question directly, I would say that what we're looking at right now,

01:46:34.480 I think you said in the 21st century, we're looking at a pretty high likelihood of a male backlash.

01:46:40.480 Um, what if all this says this too, he has a video on it called the coming in cell uprising, I think.

01:46:47.480 Um, and yeah, all the signs are there.

01:46:50.480 You know, men are just getting really sick of it and not participating anymore.

01:46:53.480 So would you call them see cause uprising means of that, that there's going to be some kind of action.

01:46:59.480 Cause here's the thing.

01:47:00.480 A lot of feminists think that, um, men hating women is the worst thing that could happen. 1.00

01:47:07.480 And I don't think so.

01:47:08.480 I think apathy is, I think.

01:47:10.480 I suppose.

01:47:11.480 So, and that's why I think this is headed because one of the best things I've heard was Greg Adams was on a podcast and, um, he, he was going off.

01:47:21.480 He was cooking.

01:47:22.480 Right.

01:47:23.480 And, uh, the, the producer was some 21 year old girl.

01:47:26.480 And he's like, well, don't you have a daughter?

01:47:28.480 How dare you say all this stuff?

01:47:29.480 What do you say to your daughter?

01:47:30.480 He said, you know, she's in her teens.

01:47:32.480 I don't say anything.

01:47:33.480 Cause anything I say to her, she going to do the exact opposite.

01:47:37.480 Yeah.

01:47:38.480 She's going to have to make her mistakes.

01:47:39.480 And when she makes enough mistakes, she's going to have to come to her dad.

01:47:42.480 And then she's, she's going to listen.

01:47:43.480 And that's, what's going to happen with women. 1.00

01:47:45.480 Women are going to have to, men are going to have to disengage. 1.00

01:47:48.480 Women are going to have to make enough mistakes and then come back and, and that's what happened. 1.00

01:47:52.480 Yup.

01:47:53.480 Yup.

01:47:54.480 And it's, it's happened over and over again.

01:47:55.480 I keep forgetting to memorize or at least write down, uh, where and when it happened.

01:48:01.480 But I believe that that happened in the Arab world.

01:48:03.480 And that is why Islam is so viciously, uh, controlling of women because they had, they like this happened to them really, really bad. 0.99

01:48:10.480 The women said, we want to be lawyers and we want to participate in everything. 0.88

01:48:14.480 And, uh, you know, they got overrun by barbarians. 0.98

01:48:17.480 It's just exactly the same thing that's happening here.

01:48:19.480 They, they give up on everything.

01:48:21.480 They get overrun.

01:48:22.480 Everything gets destroyed.

01:48:23.480 They have a really bad time.

01:48:24.480 And then they, whoever's left, whoever remains after that, they say, well, we can never do that again.

01:48:30.480 So now we're going to make a religion where you have to wear a bag on your head all the time.

01:48:35.480 And, um, and it survives to this day.

01:48:38.480 So, yeah, we'll, we'll see how bad we have it.

01:48:41.480 We've got a lot of modern conveniences to help us through it, but that could be used against us too.

01:48:45.480 It's just too much to predict.

01:48:46.480 You know, do you think that there's going to be like a tipping point where, where women are going to have to start saying that the great experiment isn't working? 0.99

01:48:56.480 Maybe working all these hours and having IVF and stuff is going to work.

01:49:00.480 What, what is it going to take?

01:49:01.480 What, what is it going to take?

01:49:03.480 Do you think the tipping point is going to be, there's, there's going to be a critical mass of millennial women who wake up one day and realize there is no chance. 0.99

01:49:11.480 There is, I am not finding the dream man.

01:49:14.480 I'm not having kids.

01:49:15.480 I'm 48.

01:49:16.480 I have to stop dreaming about IVF.

01:49:18.480 There is, uh, there's no getting back the time that I lost.

01:49:22.480 I think that there's, I I'm just remembering all the women, my age that I dated when I was in my twenties and how I really like, there were a lot of them that I just wanted to keep.

01:49:33.480 And they were playing these games and they wanted to have fun and they, you know, I'm just wondering what's going to happen in a few years when there's absolutely no ability that they have left to pretend that they still have years.

01:49:50.480 You know, I think that's, what's going to be a critical mass of, of women who can no longer lie to themselves.

01:49:57.480 Okay.

01:49:58.480 And then once that happens, what, because my biggest thing with that is that even if you said millennial women, cause that means that Gen Z would be after that.

01:50:08.480 And do you think, I don't think that even when those women hit that, they're not going to take much accountability. 0.83

01:50:15.480 And then if they're still not going to teach their daughters and their daughters after that, not to do what they did.

01:50:21.480 Yeah.

01:50:22.480 I don't think they're going to take accountability.

01:50:23.480 I think that when they get to that point where they know that they're never going to get the dream.

01:50:27.480 They're probably going to act out in some way.

01:50:30.480 They might politically organize and vote for the wrong thing on purpose. 0.64

01:50:35.480 They might withdraw from work.

01:50:38.480 They might, there might be some kind of collective cause women are so good at collectivizing and now they have TikTok too. 1.00

01:50:44.480 It could be like the 4B thing.

01:50:46.480 Do you know 4B?

01:50:47.480 Yeah.

01:50:48.480 Yeah.

01:50:49.480 It's in Korea.

01:50:50.480 Yeah.

01:50:51.480 They could, they could do that here. 0.83

01:50:52.480 I know it's so ridiculous, but it's, it should be something like that. 0.86

01:50:56.480 I think that when they get to that age where they cannot still lie to themselves and say that there's time, they're going to, they'll probably blame it on men, just like they're doing already. 0.86

01:51:07.480 And, um, come up with some retaliation that will be just too much to tolerate.

01:51:14.480 Pro says that there's going to be a large increase in female crime. 0.92

01:51:19.480 And I would agree with that.

01:51:20.480 Cause here's the thing.

01:51:21.480 Uh, one thing, let me know what you think about this.

01:51:24.480 Sure.

01:51:25.480 The next 20, 30 years, especially when you see women in more positions of power, uh, acquiring more is this, this automatic assumption that women are morally superior because of the women.

01:51:36.480 That's going to go away because women are going to abuse power, just like men, if not more so. 1.00

01:51:42.480 Yeah.

01:51:43.480 Right.

01:51:44.480 So you, you're going to see more women politicians making bad decisions. 1.00

01:51:47.480 You can see more women doing fraud, all this different stuff. 0.99

01:51:52.480 And it's really going to hurt society.

01:51:54.480 Cause once again, we keep giving them the benefit of the doubt because they are women. 1.00

01:51:59.480 Yeah.

01:52:00.480 That is something that, uh, I was talking to Pearl about that a little bit earlier.

01:52:04.480 That is something that's built into the subconscious.

01:52:06.480 It's built into the human subconscious.

01:52:08.480 When we look at women, we just go, Oh, pretty cute. 0.99

01:52:11.480 Protect.

01:52:12.480 And that's like a visceral, it's like a deep bodily reaction.

01:52:15.480 The way that women have been, have been behaving over the past few years, like the whole, believe all women thing. 1.00

01:52:21.480 And all these, all the ridiculous accusations and everything came out that should have been enough to trip something.

01:52:27.480 But people just want to view women as innocent. 0.99

01:52:30.480 But I think that there might be something that overcomes that.

01:52:34.480 There might, there might be some series of events that happens that overcomes even the urge to view women as blameless.

01:52:41.480 Why do you think, cause on, on Pearl's channel over here, we always say that women can't stand each other. 1.00

01:52:47.480 They really can't.

01:52:48.480 You know that 50% of women polls say that they'd rather work for a male boss than a female boss. 1.00

01:52:53.480 Yeah.

01:52:54.480 Right.

01:52:55.480 80% of workplace bullying is women bullying other women.

01:52:59.480 Yeah.

01:53:00.480 You're talking about the consciousness of the brain.

01:53:02.480 Why do, why can't women stand each other? 1.00

01:53:05.480 Oh man.

01:53:06.480 Why?

01:53:07.480 Because I got a chart for that too.

01:53:09.480 Because.

01:53:10.480 Let's go.

01:53:11.480 Because women know women because they are women and they know the tricks that they have to play. 1.00

01:53:16.480 And so they know the tricks that other women are going to play. 1.00

01:53:19.480 So even when women are being nice to each other, it can be mean or it can appear mean. 1.00

01:53:26.480 The, this chart, I don't know if it's still on a delay, but it's called who is a 10 status games.

01:53:31.480 It shows how men behave openly and form hierarchies.

01:53:35.480 And they just go, I'm the top dog.

01:53:37.480 My dad knows a congressman. 1.00

01:53:39.480 I'll kick your ass, you know, but women have to say, oh, you're a 10. 1.00

01:53:43.480 No, you're a 10. 1.00

01:53:44.480 No, everyone is, everyone's beautiful.

01:53:46.480 And they, of course they never say that you're a 10 to the eights, nines and tens, but they

01:53:51.480 do have to say it back or else they cannot be in the little handholding club where everybody

01:53:56.480 is equal.

01:53:57.480 So women have to play this equality and fairness game. 1.00

01:54:00.480 And that is because they can't, they just can't physically get in fights with each other.

01:54:07.480 They can't manage their conflicts physically like men can.

01:54:11.480 Jordan Peterson talks about this.

01:54:12.480 I can't remember where, but he's got a good clip about how when men are having social conflict,

01:54:18.480 there's always a threat of you might get punched in the face that is lacking from the female 1.00

01:54:23.480 psyche.

01:54:24.480 They rely on other people to do that for them.

01:54:27.480 That's why they say the woman's weapon is poison. 1.00

01:54:29.480 They, they do their violence in secret and they do it with lies.

01:54:32.480 There's a, this is a false accusation right here.

01:54:35.480 He hurt me, even though he didn't.

01:54:36.480 I would take that, but I would also caveat.

01:54:39.480 Remember 75% of abuse towards elderly and children is women.

01:54:43.480 Yep.

01:54:44.480 75%.

01:54:45.480 This is physical, mental, emotional abuse.

01:54:47.480 And, and I honestly believe that the only reason why women aren't more abusive is because 1.00

01:54:53.480 they don't have the physical strength of men. 0.99

01:54:55.480 If they did, we'd be screwed. 1.00

01:54:57.480 I wish women would be more abusive because like the, no, seriously. 1.00

01:55:01.480 Cause I think if I like, I got into a fight, I think I would win.

01:55:04.480 So I think you'd win a good number.

01:55:06.480 Aren't you like six foot two?

01:55:07.480 Yeah.

01:55:08.480 I'm like, I hope I, you know, I, I'd prefer to just throw hands over the verbal stuff.

01:55:13.480 Yeah.

01:55:14.480 I just, you know, you should, that'd be great.

01:55:17.480 Get it on video.

01:55:18.480 No, but then they'll just press chart.

01:55:20.480 It'll never end.

01:55:21.480 I know that you could, you can't, you can't handle things like a, there's just so many 0.92

01:55:26.480 living in a nanny state is so disgusting.

01:55:28.480 There's so many conflicts I've had that should have been solved that way.

01:55:31.480 And I just knew I couldn't, I just knew I had to just go, I don't want to be a bigger

01:55:35.480 man and walk away, but it doesn't, it just doesn't work out.

01:55:38.480 Like it doesn't work well that way.

01:55:40.480 There are people who do things that should be taught lessons, but can't.

01:55:43.480 So I guess I have one last question.

01:55:47.480 Would, what is your, let's say you have a man who's 26 years old.

01:55:53.480 No, let's say he's 28, just graduated law school.

01:55:57.480 Right.

01:55:58.480 So he has undergrad law school and he's like, ho math, help me with my path in life.

01:56:06.480 What should I do?

01:56:08.480 What would you recommend?

01:56:09.480 What would you be your life advice for him?

01:56:11.480 Well, in this case, what I do is I usually, uh, hand out a questionnaire.

01:56:16.480 I have a 15 question questionnaire and I ask, where are you from?

01:56:20.480 Where'd you grow up?

01:56:21.480 What are your favorite things?

01:56:22.480 Least favorite things?

01:56:23.480 What are the biggest good things and bad things that have happened to you in your life

01:56:26.480 recently and ever, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

01:56:29.480 I have just comprehensive list of questions to get to know who this person is and what they

01:56:34.480 want.

01:56:35.480 I have this, um, I'm not sure if you guys are aware.

01:56:37.480 I have this service called self max and I have this map for it right here.

01:56:42.480 And basically it uses AI to guide you through.

01:56:47.480 Basically you tell the computer what you want and then it guides you through how you should

01:56:52.480 think about it.

01:56:53.480 And then what actions you're taking, what results you get back from it and then how you can learn

01:56:58.480 from them.

01:56:59.480 So like it guides you in a cycle.

01:57:01.480 So you keep thinking about what you want and trying to go get it, seeing how it works,

01:57:06.480 changing your, your course.

01:57:08.480 Uh, and it helps you grow and learn as a person.

01:57:11.480 This is something that I made to go along with the life coaching that I used to do.

01:57:17.480 It's kind of replaced the life coaching.

01:57:18.480 I haven't done that in a while.

01:57:19.480 I haven't done that in a while.

01:57:20.480 I want to, but I haven't done it in a while.

01:57:23.480 So it would be a really, really long conversation.

01:57:26.480 You, so you said he was 26, just got out of law school, wants to know what to do.

01:57:30.480 28.

01:57:31.480 28.

01:57:32.480 Just graduated law school.

01:57:33.480 Okay.

01:57:34.480 Another caveat.

01:57:36.480 Um, he was, he was in a college town, but he's moving to a tier one city.

01:57:41.480 So let's say he's moving to, yeah, let's say he's moving to New York city.

01:57:46.480 So, so let's say he went to like a, a, a university of like Vermont, like a, you know, a, a Burlington

01:57:54.480 university of Vermont, kind of Burlington, or, you know, kind of, uh, uh, a 50, 60,000 city

01:58:02.480 that has a major university.

01:58:04.480 And now he's moving to New York city.

01:58:06.480 Okay.

01:58:07.480 Um, I would say the first thing that you need to do is get a really good idea of why

01:58:12.480 you're going to New York city and what you want to find there.

01:58:15.480 What do you want to come out of your life in the next five years, in the next 10 years,

01:58:20.480 in the next 20 years?

01:58:22.480 Um, how much of that do you know?

01:58:25.480 Figure that out.

01:58:26.480 If you don't know it here, I would, I would, I have an exercise here.

01:58:29.480 I called life storming.

01:58:30.480 It's like brainstorming, but for your whole life, I would say, here's an exercise to figure

01:58:34.480 that out.

01:58:35.480 Um, once you know what it is that you're doing, figure out where it's going to come

01:58:40.480 from, uh, in the city, or if you have to leave the city, like I lived in New York city.

01:58:44.480 Once I had to leave pretty quick because I could not find much of the stuff that I wanted

01:58:48.480 there.

01:58:49.480 I would imagine.

01:58:50.480 Yikes.

01:58:51.480 Yeah.

01:58:52.480 So you got to know if you want to be married, if you want to have kids, if you want to live

01:58:58.480 in the mountains, if you want to live in a penthouse, like you have to know those things

01:59:02.480 as early as possible.

01:59:03.480 And of course they can always change, but you have to know what you're going towards.

01:59:08.480 Like, don't just go to the city and cross your fingers.

01:59:11.480 That would be my first piece of advice.

01:59:13.480 Okay.

01:59:14.480 That's good advice.

01:59:15.480 Yeah.

01:59:16.480 Now would you, do you ask things in the context of like, you need to have definitive answers

01:59:23.480 or do you ask them yes or no questions to, to kind of force him to, to, to start on that

01:59:29.480 path of making decisions or do you give them time to figure it out?

01:59:33.480 Well, if I was going to do a session with somebody, I wouldn't tell them to give me the answers.

01:59:43.480 During the session, I would just like walk them through.

01:59:46.480 What is it that you're feeling?

01:59:48.480 What is it that you want?

01:59:49.480 What's getting in your way?

01:59:50.480 And, and the best way to spend time in a session is I knock those things loose.

01:59:54.480 So people just are not paying attention to how they're not thinking correctly.

01:59:57.480 And I can just kind of untwist those wires and then they can go figure out what it is they

02:00:05.480 want in their own time.

02:00:06.480 But yeah, I wouldn't, I wouldn't like sit with somebody until they say what they want.

02:00:12.480 I would just give them the exercises and like do your journaling and make sure you write

02:00:18.480 it down and make sure that you know that you want to go towards it.

02:00:22.480 Make sure that once you try it, if you don't like it, or if it doesn't work, you feel

02:00:25.480 comfortable replacing it.

02:00:27.480 Yeah.

02:00:28.480 It would be more about the structure of it.

02:00:31.480 Cool.

02:00:32.480 And actually getting to do it in the session.

02:00:33.480 Yeah.

02:00:34.480 That's awesome.

02:00:35.480 Awesome.

02:00:36.480 I know.

02:00:37.480 That's awesome.

02:00:38.480 Sorry, the mic, we had like a rainstorm mid this.

02:00:40.480 Oh.

02:00:41.480 It was kind of muting and unmuting because it was messing with the audio.

02:00:43.480 I didn't notice anything.

02:00:44.480 Oh, no, you didn't.

02:00:46.480 Everyone in the chat was crashing out.

02:00:49.480 Oh, I was.

02:00:55.480 Yeah.

02:00:56.480 Cool.

02:00:57.480 Oh, man.

02:00:58.480 Thank you.

02:00:59.480 I've been a big fan for years.

02:01:00.480 When she said that you were coming on the show.

02:01:01.480 I couldn't wait because you're you found your own lane on YouTube.

02:01:17.480 Your work is fantastic, man.

02:01:19.480 Thank you for doing what you're doing.

02:01:21.480 Thank you.

02:01:22.480 Appreciate that.

02:01:23.480 Yeah.

02:01:24.480 And you're especially winning because your face isn't even out there.

02:01:27.480 I know.

02:01:28.480 That's awesome.

02:01:29.480 I'm loving it.

02:01:30.480 See, I'm a woman.

02:01:31.480 I didn't think about the, you know, Doug MPA says to me all the time.

02:01:34.480 He's like, you know, you're really, you're really brave for putting your face out there.

02:01:38.480 And I'm like, Doug MPA, I didn't think about it.

02:01:40.480 Yeah.

02:01:41.480 What happens to you?

02:01:42.480 What's the worst that you got?

02:01:44.480 Well, I was demonetized for a year and a half.

02:01:47.480 So I was basically unemployed.

02:01:49.480 But why, why, why does it have to do with your face?

02:01:52.480 Oh, you mean like, well, it's just, it would be tough to get another job.

02:01:57.480 Oh, sure.

02:01:58.480 Yeah.

02:01:59.480 Cause the whale attack happened.

02:02:01.480 Remember?

02:02:02.480 Yeah.

02:02:03.480 Oh, I forgot that happened.

02:02:05.480 Yeah.

02:02:06.480 The, there was a woman who tried to attack me on the streets. 1.00

02:02:09.480 Um, there was, I got screamed.

02:02:11.480 I get screamed out on occasion, but not, that's not too much.

02:02:15.480 Um, yeah.

02:02:16.480 Like one time.

02:02:17.480 I've gotten a few email threats, so I don't know.

02:02:20.480 I don't know how much that would become real.

02:02:22.480 No, I'm not like in public.

02:02:24.480 Like I was on the street in Atlanta and some guy just started screaming at me in the middle

02:02:28.480 of the street.

02:02:29.480 It was so weird.

02:02:30.480 That's fun.

02:02:31.480 Yeah.

02:02:32.480 How you want to get recognized?

02:02:33.480 Well, I mean, I'd say it's mostly like positive, like, and if it's negative, like sometimes

02:02:38.480 there'll be people that'll pretend they're fans and they'll go online and be like, I saw

02:02:42.480 Pearl shoes.

02:02:43.480 So this or that, you know what I mean?

02:02:44.480 But it's not like most people aren't going to directly say so, but the, but it is like,

02:02:53.480 if I was to go back into the workforce, which I did have to think about at one point.

02:02:58.480 So yeah, you know, I was just like the employable thing.

02:03:02.480 Yeah.

02:03:03.480 Yeah.

02:03:04.480 Yeah.

02:03:05.480 That's so funny.

02:03:06.480 I was like, I'm not going to give you back enough money so that if I, if I ever have

02:03:09.480 to, I can just like eat ramen noodles for 20 years.

02:03:13.480 Yeah.

02:03:14.480 Get a homestead out in the woods and yeah.

02:03:17.480 It cooked your cans of tuna and your cans of dog food, like Mad Max.

02:03:21.480 Hobo beans.

02:03:22.480 Yeah.

02:03:23.480 Hobo beans.

02:03:24.480 Exactly.

02:03:25.480 Just know the guidelines.

02:03:26.480 If they gave you a wrap, make sure you're working with them to really know the guidelines.

02:03:30.480 Cause everyone gave me a wrap wrap, like a wrap from YouTube.

02:03:33.480 Sometimes you get a direct wrap.

02:03:35.480 Not all.

02:03:36.480 It's like, once your account hits a certain point, you can directly communicate with them.

02:03:40.480 Okay.

02:03:41.480 So yeah.

02:03:42.480 I'll have to look into that.

02:03:43.480 Yeah.

02:03:44.480 I haven't gotten any strikes or anything though.

02:03:45.480 Yeah.

02:03:46.480 You're pretty.

02:03:47.480 I can't foresee that happening to you, but you know, especially with the current administration.

02:03:52.480 Yeah.

02:03:53.480 Yeah.

02:03:54.480 Yeah.

02:03:55.480 I'm careful.

02:03:56.480 I'm a good boy.

02:03:57.480 Sometimes.

02:03:58.480 Most of the time.

02:03:59.480 Awesome.

02:04:00.480 Well, thanks so much for coming on.

02:04:01.480 I had so much fun.

02:04:02.480 Did you have fun?

02:04:03.480 Yeah.

02:04:04.480 Yeah.

02:04:05.480 I was, it was really fun talking to you.

02:04:06.480 I was, I was looking forward to that for, I actually was wondering if one day I would

02:04:10.480 talk to Pearl before I ever started home math.

02:04:12.480 And so I got to, it was pretty cool.

02:04:15.480 Yeah.

02:04:16.480 We do show.

02:04:17.480 We do call in shows.

02:04:18.480 So if you ever see a topic and you think it applies, feel free to call in on any topic.

02:04:23.480 We love having reoccurring guests.

02:04:25.480 So.

02:04:26.480 All right.

02:04:27.480 Yeah.

02:04:28.480 That sounds great.

02:04:29.480 Like Friday is HIV and herpes.

02:04:30.480 So if you know anyone with that, call and tell a story.

02:04:33.480 All right.

02:04:34.480 I'll get a panel together.

02:04:36.480 We won't ask you how, you know, just go ahead and share stories.

02:04:40.480 Yeah.

02:04:41.480 Yeah.

02:04:42.480 Okay.

02:04:43.480 Well, um, where can the people find you and support your work?

02:04:47.480 So you can find me.

02:04:48.480 You can just type in H O E underscore M A T H on any of the social medias.

02:04:55.480 That's YouTube, TikTok, Instagram.

02:04:57.480 Uh, I am.

02:04:58.480 It is home math on X.

02:05:02.480 And, um, I have a link tree, which you can find.

02:05:06.480 It's the, it's the only link I have on any of these.

02:05:09.480 It's, uh, link to dot E E slash H O E underscore M A T H. And I have all kinds of stuff.

02:05:17.480 You can buy merch and charts and coffee table book with all my fun drawings and the self max service and lots and lots of, I'm into lots of stuff and it's all great.

02:05:27.480 So awesome.

02:05:28.480 Awesome.

02:05:29.480 Well, thank you so much for coming.

02:05:31.480 Um, thank you for having me.

02:05:33.480 Everybody makes you go check out his work.

02:05:35.480 Oh, don't be cheap.

02:05:36.480 Go buy a chart or something.

02:05:38.480 You know what I mean?

02:05:39.480 Yeah.

02:05:40.480 As a thank you for coming.

02:05:41.480 Um, let me see if there's any super chats left to just, did I miss any Doug MPA?

02:05:45.480 Were there more?

02:05:46.480 Yeah.

02:05:47.480 I was dealing with the audio issue for a second.

02:05:49.480 Well, I was like, do I mute?

02:05:51.480 Do I not mute?

02:05:52.480 Yeah.

02:05:53.480 There's a couple.

02:05:54.480 Okay.

02:05:55.480 Um, that's not, it's not refreshing on this one.

02:06:00.480 I don't know why.

02:06:01.480 Oh, here we go.

02:06:04.480 All right.

02:06:05.480 We got, um, let me refresh this.

02:06:10.480 Oh, here we go.

02:06:11.480 Okay.

02:06:12.480 Um, if we create greater stigma by showing the successful families, I think they'll do

02:06:17.480 what they always do.

02:06:18.480 Make it a trend and basically make dating average guys fashionable simply to gloat to the single

02:06:23.480 moms with three baby daddies.

02:06:24.480 I don't see that happening at all.

02:06:26.480 I don't, but I, you know, do you see it happening?

02:06:29.480 If there were, if there was a way to do it, that's how it would work.

02:06:32.480 Like women are really strongly motivated to fit in and do the thing and, you know, be in 1.00

02:06:36.480 the group.

02:06:37.480 Uh, if we could make it fashionable, like if we could somehow praise.

02:06:41.480 You know, praise families and mothers and make it like, uh, uh, you know, popular to

02:06:48.480 be a mom, more women would do it. 1.00

02:06:50.480 I don't know how nothing is more important to modern women than their own selfish desires, 1.00

02:06:55.480 dude.

02:06:56.480 Yeah.

02:06:57.480 I think it'll be too lazy.

02:06:59.480 It's just, that's my, that's my, my prediction, but maybe I'm more blackpilled than you, you

02:07:04.480 know?

02:07:05.480 Yeah.

02:07:06.480 Yeah.

02:07:07.480 I don't know.

02:07:08.480 I mean, I, I see what you're saying.

02:07:09.480 I just don't know what's going to happen.

02:07:10.480 Yeah.

02:07:11.480 They believe all men have Ashton hall mornings.

02:07:14.480 Okay.

02:07:15.480 Jethro, the gender doesn't matter. 1.00

02:07:17.480 You either extrovert or introvert is the main influence.

02:07:20.480 Extrovert gets charged up.

02:07:22.480 Introverts gets charged down around people.

02:07:25.480 Do you think that's true or not true?

02:07:27.480 What about extrovert introvert or that it doesn't relate to gender sex?

02:07:31.480 Uh, I would say both.

02:07:32.480 That's, I just read what he said.

02:07:33.480 Well, what he said about introverts and extroverts was true.

02:07:34.480 That is what that means.

02:07:35.480 But, um, yeah, no, I don't know if there's actually any difference.

02:07:36.480 If there's any consistency of who, of which sex is more or less.

02:07:37.480 I can't remember.

02:07:38.480 Well, don't we say like 80 more words a day or something like that?

02:07:40.480 Women. 0.81

02:07:41.480 Yeah.

02:07:42.480 Yeah.

02:07:43.480 I think so.

02:07:44.480 You also have to be careful of, so I have a sibling who's an introvert.

02:07:48.480 So I, and she's been an introvert her entire life. 0.51

02:07:51.480 So I know an actual introvert is, but people are lazy, especially women. 1.00

02:08:06.480 Women use introvertedness as a mask to be lazy and not reciprocate what's necessary for 1.00

02:08:12.480 dating or friendship.

02:08:13.480 So guys, be careful if a woman says, oh, I'm an introvert.

02:08:16.480 It means don't take me to do this.

02:08:20.480 tipper it means don't call me i'll call you wait by the phone yeah and autistic too some of them 0.99

02:08:26.360 say they're autistic when they mean i lack social skills yeah exactly yeah i know they call every 0.68

JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2025

Hoemath ｜ The Sitdown

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