JustPearlyThings - September 29, 2023


Hollywood EXPLOITS Men With Beautiful Actresses


Episode Stats

Length

29 minutes

Words per Minute

193.09204

Word Count

5,719

Sentence Count

461

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

39


Summary

We live in a society that says that women should be hot by the age of 35, and that 35 year old women are just not as hot as they were 20 years ago. Is this true? Is it true that women don t get as hot at 35 as they do at 22?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So I had a tweet. I said, no, 35 year old women aren't that hot. None will compete with the
00:00:06.440 average in shape 21 year old. Don't shoot the messenger. Now, the reason I had this thought
00:00:12.180 was because I would see top 35 year old women that were just really, really attractive, right? The
00:00:18.300 models, the whatever. And I would think to myself on an average college campus, you could probably
00:00:24.360 find like 10 chicks that are equally as good looking as them, if not more. Now, it's not to
00:00:30.880 say that there's no women that are attractive at 35 or pretty, but we live in this delusion where
00:00:36.380 we tell women they're going to be hot forever. And at 35, most women would aim to have a family
00:00:42.120 and kids and really have more of an identity in their character over their looks. But every time
00:00:47.260 I make a broad, generalized statement where I know there's exceptions, but we're talking about the
00:00:52.860 rule, right? Everyone gets mad and the wives just start arguing with me about their hotness.
00:00:59.400 Yeah. And so Ashley Sinclair says, Pearl has started adding the qualifier in shape now because it's
00:01:07.300 not that 22 year old is hotter than 32. It's just by 33, many women get fat and let themselves go. At
00:01:13.060 22, it's less likely. That was my argument months ago. Seems I convinced her. Now, I'd like to say to
00:01:18.140 this Ashley chick, no, you did not convince me. I would say that if you have a 22 year old chick
00:01:23.900 that is not fat in general, they're hotter than a 32 year old chick. And that same chick is in general
00:01:29.900 going to be hotter at 22 than 32. And I think you see this in the modeling industry where women age
00:01:35.920 out pretty quickly. You said you worked with models in New York. Yeah, I worked with fashion
00:01:40.760 models in New York City for about 10 years. Okay. And I would bring them out to the nightclub and I
00:01:44.720 would charge a fee. And I remember that a lot of the models, they come in at 17, 18, full of life,
00:01:50.740 full of energy, full of optimism. Then maybe about three, four years later, if they're still even in
00:01:57.180 New York, they're beaten down, they're destroyed. You know, age is undefeated again. And you're
00:02:03.620 constantly competing with women that are 17, 18, 19. And back then, you know, fashion models was much
00:02:10.900 more prestigious than, you know, the weird stuff you see in 2023. It was, yeah, like the New York
00:02:18.140 Fashion Week. Yeah. Paris Fashion Week. It wasn't that, it was even back then it was sort of like
00:02:23.300 odd, but now it's just become next tier of odd. Yeah. Back then it was actually prestigious to work
00:02:30.040 with fashion models. Yeah. Um, but the idea that women, they fall off because you're constantly
00:02:38.040 competing with, you know, young women. And my thought is when I said that hot that to me,
00:02:44.640 when you say you're that hot by 35, you should be beautiful because your character, in my opinion,
00:02:50.040 your character should be developed to the point where you're beautiful. You're not hot anymore.
00:02:54.480 You're a wife, you're a mother. Yeah. But it's like, how hot do you want to be as a mom? Don't you
00:02:59.280 want to be beautiful? You know? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And so when I said that hot, I'm like,
00:03:04.080 isn't that like top 10% of beauty? And look at Margot Robbie, right? She was a smoke show. God,
00:03:09.640 and Wolf of Wall Street, all the men loved her. Now, you know, and it's interesting. You see this
00:03:14.160 happen to the women when they're younger, they're in the, they're in the movies that market to men.
00:03:18.220 So Wolf of Wall Street, Megan Fox, Transformers, they get older, they start being cast in women and
00:03:23.580 movies that are for women. Wow. You notice that? So like Margot Robbie, Barbie, that's like women watch
00:03:28.920 that. Wow. And I think it's because women don't like to see women that hot on TV. Wow. But men do.
00:03:35.600 So like in the man movies, you'll see like the hottest. I mean, all the hottest chicks are in
00:03:38.960 the man movies, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So I responded to this chick because I said,
00:03:46.320 no, by 33, you're less hot than 23. The only exception is if you were obese, you know, because
00:03:51.420 I was like, all right, the 23 year old was fat. That's not really the same territory. But you get less
00:03:57.200 hot as you get older. By 35, most chicks have wrinkles, sag a bit and have other indicators
00:04:02.580 of aging. Do not shoot the messenger. Is this untrue? I think you nailed it. I think she hates
00:04:08.620 you because you nailed it. It's like, it's okay. It's, I didn't say you're a bad person.
00:04:14.680 So I have this thing where I talk about simping. Yeah. And I think that simps are equally as bad
00:04:21.820 as the modern women. Yeah. Because they allow us to live in delusion. And a lot of times what I,
00:04:27.460 what I noticed is when men process information, their first reaction in general is if it's true.
00:04:33.040 Yeah. Unless they're simping. Yeah. Then, because women process information like individually. So
00:04:38.800 they'll say like, how does this apply to me? Like if I say, nope, a 22 year old is hotter than a 32
00:04:44.380 year old. You know, they'll say, well, but I, they're like, their reaction is, well, but I was,
00:04:49.920 but I'm hotter now than I was at 22. Do you know, which it's usually a coat, but you know what I'm
00:04:54.920 saying? Yeah. So where men will, will think more in general. Yeah. Except for the simps. So now
00:05:00.960 Dr. Interracial says my wife is 63 and hotter than Pearl. And it's funny because I was never talking
00:05:07.980 about his wife. I was never talking about my looks yet. They feel the need to insult me or, you know,
00:05:15.040 by tweeting me pictures of his wife. Like, well, this is weird. This is weird behavior. Yeah.
00:05:19.920 The idea that you're going to use your wife, an image of your wife and then attack someone's
00:05:26.980 daughter. That's just a poor way, poor taste of showing his point. Like I understand he's
00:05:32.540 simping for his wife, but he's also degrading another man's daughter. So I don't really look
00:05:39.920 at him as a guy of high moral authority. Like he could have proved his point without, because
00:05:45.500 at the end of the day, you're actually another man's daughter. I have a daughter as a man.
00:05:51.160 You'll never know what that feels like, bro. You know what I mean? Yeah. So the fact that
00:05:55.360 he degraded you to make an example is disgusting. Who does he think he is? I mean, he's not,
00:06:01.840 he's no moral authority. This is probably votes for Kamala. You know what I'm saying?
00:06:05.800 Right. Actually, I think he's a conservative, but yeah, I don't understand.
00:06:10.280 Probably a closet liberal. I don't know. But that's the thing. It's like, you know,
00:06:15.160 it's like the guys like this that co-sign us and make us think we're like hot for a lifetime.
00:06:21.700 And it's just not true. Again, when you get older, you should, you should be beautiful. Your goal
00:06:26.080 shouldn't be to be like a sex object. It should be to be beautiful for your family and your husband,
00:06:31.340 you know? Cause there's something about like, even if it's like an older woman that is just like
00:06:36.400 really happy with her family and her children and you, you know, you know what I mean? Where like,
00:06:41.780 I don't know who comes to your head, but there's like a couple of women that come to mind where,
00:06:45.980 okay, they're a bit older, but it's like seeing them interact with their husband and their family.
00:06:50.860 They're just beautiful. They're not sexy. They're not hot. They're their grandma, their mom,
00:06:55.360 but they're, it's beautiful because they're not trying to be a sex object anymore.
00:07:00.200 Yeah. Yeah. And like, and hot to me, when you say hot, that, that implies more of like a sex
00:07:05.620 object. Beautiful is like something that's more intangible, you know? Yeah. Now facts simply aren't
00:07:12.080 facts, Pearl. So again, these women, they start tweeting at me, they're selfie. I think, I think,
00:07:16.880 I think it's just looking at the tweet is crazy. I mean, it's, it's yeah. So that was her,
00:07:22.960 I guess, younger on the left and then on the right. And so I just, you know, there, there's her.
00:07:27.860 She looks like a nice girl. Yeah. That's her daughter. No, I mean, that's like,
00:07:33.340 that's her at 32, I guess. And that was her at 22. So 22 years later. So, and then,
00:07:39.180 but like, what's the point of like doing this body comparison? Like, does that take away from
00:07:44.400 your main point that you made? Like, you still made a good, valid point. Like what, what has this
00:07:48.920 become like a competition of focusing on each other's looks? It's distracting from the main topic.
00:07:53.900 Well, so, yeah. And I responded and I'm like, all you did is get more naked.
00:08:04.340 I'm like, you just like took off your cloth. But I've just noticed whenever I tweet anything about
00:08:11.340 younger being hotter, it's like women were so used to be like, think, look in marketing. Like you just
00:08:17.600 notice all the movies are casting older women. All the models are getting older. It's just like
00:08:22.420 pandering. Yeah, it is. That's not what men, any, if you want to look at like what men like,
00:08:27.220 look at the male movies and look at who's cast. Like it wasn't Avengers. It was Scarlett Johansson.
00:08:32.120 Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I've, I've seen, I've seen, I've been, you know, I've been like right with
00:08:37.600 Scarlett Johansson in a New York city deli in Tribeca. We live in the same neighborhood. And
00:08:43.040 she's actually like a very petite, small girl and like very small, petite and very quiet. So when I
00:08:50.920 see her in the superhero movies, I'm, I'm sort of like, it's so far from what, from what she's
00:08:55.420 actually like. Yeah. It's beyond, beyond far from what reality is like. So I want to give you like
00:09:00.860 my take on marriage in 2023. Okay. I want to give you my take. So, and then you give me your take
00:09:06.080 too. I think marriage, traditional marriage is beautiful. I love seeing couples that like make
00:09:11.900 that work. I think it is amazing. Um, but what I, what I don't want is men not making an informed
00:09:17.560 decision. So I think that men should be aware of the risks that come with it. So that's kind of my
00:09:24.320 opinion. And I think that some men, and this is regardless of what I say, or I don't say you're
00:09:31.560 with the laws being how they are. You're going to keep seeing men walk away from marriage until the
00:09:36.520 law is changed. It's going to be a bigger and bigger number every year, regardless of what Pearl
00:09:41.140 said, because again, men are kind of logical, right? So they kind of weigh the risks of marriage and the
00:09:46.800 reward. And, you know, sometimes they'll meet a girl where the reward is worth it. Right. And they'll say,
00:09:52.040 you know what? I know this system's against me. Some guys go to different countries to figure this
00:09:56.200 out. Like, it just depends on the guy. Um, but until we start lowering the risks, the women of
00:10:01.640 2023 are definitely worse than the women 20 years ago. Those women are worse than we were just seeing
00:10:07.020 a trend across the board. I don't say this in a happy way. I'm not happy about it, but it's becoming
00:10:12.140 more and more difficult for men to be traditional because many men are punished for being traditional.
00:10:17.420 Yeah. And, um, what I see a lot of times is the men that say, you know,
00:10:22.040 what, this is too much. I don't want to do it. They're shamed by the traditional conservatives for
00:10:28.440 making that choice. And I think for men sometimes, and I think it depends on the guy, right? So, you
00:10:37.580 know, I think a YouTuber is going to have a very different experience than say a factory worker.
00:10:42.700 Yeah. And, you know, we need factory workers for this country to run. We need truckers, we need plumbers.
00:10:48.080 And I think they just sometimes have a hard time. And a lot of times those are the guys we see like
00:10:52.940 walk away. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Because, you know, again, with the Instagram
00:10:56.760 economy, it's really hard to have the average woman stay unless you're exceptional as a man.
00:11:01.620 Yeah. Unfortunately, I don't say this in like a happy way. So Cernovich says,
00:11:05.840 90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. The truth is that a desired man who
00:11:12.500 isn't a sociopath will date widely enough until he meets someone who has his number and that's it.
00:11:19.540 The playboy or whatever is a goober myth from a beer commercial. So, um, I wanted to talk about
00:11:26.180 the first part. In my experience, and this is just from like interviewing guys getting screwed in
00:11:31.640 divorce. I think a lot of the guys that speak out against marriage actually had success in dating
00:11:37.580 and got married and then just got screwed over. Yeah. Yeah. I think I, I'm a big fan of Mike. I
00:11:44.860 think he's a great guy. He's a great family guy. I agree with him in regards to 90% of men who speak
00:11:51.960 out again, 90% of men speaking out against marriage aren't sought after. Okay. I mean, if I couldn't get
00:11:59.660 any bitches and I had six inches taken off my dick, I would probably have the same theory.
00:12:10.920 Yeah. See, I disagree. I disagree. No, no, no. That's it. It's just, it's just, I think that,
00:12:17.180 I think that there are a lot of attractive men that are actually able, I don't want to use the word
00:12:24.820 dominate to disrespect all the, the, the loving and respectful wives out there, but they are the
00:12:31.680 dominant force in the family as the clear, undisputed leader. Like to the point where you
00:12:37.720 can have a woman say, yeah, you are the man and you are the leader. Now that doesn't mean she's the
00:12:43.580 donkey or the cow in the relationship. You still love your wife. You treat her good. But I do think
00:12:48.640 that there are a group of men who were good ladies men. Yeah. These are the sort of men that
00:12:53.620 are ladies men. These are the sort of men that are good with women. And they get a wife that is
00:12:58.500 actually, and I don't want to use the word subservient, but they are very respectful and they admire their
00:13:06.500 husband. Are there a lot of guys that are simps and get walked over? We both know the answer to that.
00:13:12.380 Well, I think, I think you're just, if the answer is these men are, that are complaining are, are
00:13:18.220 they're just subservient men? Like, do you think 60% of men aren't good enough for marriage? Because
00:13:23.480 60% of men aren't looking for marriage and relationships. Put it like this, bro. So, so like
00:13:28.040 in my head, it's like the average man used to be able to get an average woman. You know, he didn't
00:13:33.060 have to be this like six foot tall. He didn't have to be, have this amazing job in order to attract a
00:13:39.800 woman. It was like an average guy could get 120 pound virgin. And Mike's defense. Yeah. Let's
00:13:46.380 just say, for example, Mike here, Mike is like six foot four athletic build, successful, highly
00:13:52.600 intelligent. His wife, I can, I've never met his wife, but I, from what I see, his wife respects
00:13:58.220 him. So he might have not the same, but that doesn't mean every guy can do what he did. Well,
00:14:03.340 that's, that's my point is a lot of times the guys that come at this are kind of like, you know,
00:14:08.300 rich men tend to stay married longer, right? They, they tend to, their, the divorce rate's
00:14:12.980 like 25% among like rich men. I didn't know that. Yeah. So I think they live in a different
00:14:18.640 reality than the average men in this country. So I'll, I'll give you an example. One of the
00:14:22.980 top, um, in America, anyone, one of the top places people are employed is truckers. Okay.
00:14:28.880 Yeah. So, and the average man makes $45,000 a year. I don't think those men are losers. I think,
00:14:34.640 I think a lot of times they speak down on the men that allow us to do what we do, right? Like
00:14:39.480 doing this, someone in a factory had to make this microphone. You know what I mean? Like we need
00:14:43.860 factory workers, we need truckers, we need plumbers. And I think that average women don't
00:14:49.680 respect average men anymore. And I think it is very risky because what I've seen, like just doing the
00:14:55.380 divorce documentary is the men that get screwed over the most, aren't the rich men. The rich men might
00:15:00.120 pay the most, but they can kind of recover and make, make their money back later. Do you know
00:15:04.120 what I mean? Yeah. It's the average men are the ones like that I've seen like commit suicide and
00:15:08.800 divorce or, um, like I would say on the brink of suicide are ones that get false accusations
00:15:13.980 or, um, worked the same job for 20 years and then their wife took half. Like imagine like the average
00:15:20.420 divorce is 46 years old. So again, like my, my, um, my one point is that a lot of the men that talk
00:15:27.100 about this, they're not over the average age of first divorce and a third of them will, uh, half
00:15:32.320 of them will divorce. If they're Christian, it's like a quarter, right? And a lot of the men that
00:15:36.660 commit suicide in this country over this stuff are the men that worked 20 years. Then their wife takes
00:15:42.480 half their shit, alienates them from their children. And they haven't seen them in many, many, like
00:15:48.520 sometimes it's like two, three years. And these are the Uber drivers, the truck drivers, the plumbers,
00:15:54.180 the factory, like these are average men. Um, and so I think a lot of times like the tall,
00:15:59.060 good looking, successful men will kind of shit on them, but most of them can't do what they do
00:16:03.140 without them. Yeah. I mean, speak to your point about plumbers in particular, plumbers,
00:16:08.900 some construction workers. If you think about firefighters, these are occupations also because
00:16:15.320 of their exposure to that environment, they may be getting cancer at a higher rate than a general
00:16:21.660 population. Wow. I didn't even think about that. Yeah. So not only is that plumber may be more
00:16:26.380 exposed to an environment and toxins that give them a higher rate of probability of getting cancer.
00:16:31.660 Same with the firefighter. You should see how many of them get cancer or, or, or, or, or, or some of
00:16:36.080 our veterans. Right. Right. So, so not only are they not making a high income, they're more exposed to
00:16:41.680 these chronic conditions. I think they for sure deserve much more respect at the very least top class
00:16:47.960 healthcare. But that's, that's my point is I just think like a lot of times they'll, they'll kind
00:16:52.120 of say that they're cry babies or whatever, but it's like, no, I don't, I don't think it's these
00:16:57.160 men that can't get women. This is my experience. Maybe you think differently, but I don't see them
00:17:01.880 as these men that can't get women. I see them as average men who thought they signed up for the wife
00:17:06.840 and kids and were absolutely devastated when they had no idea what family court is like. Yeah. And, and I think
00:17:16.200 until you've really spent like a week in family court to see, no, these were not loser men.
00:17:21.240 These were not men that couldn't get, it's just, it's the average men that built this country
00:17:26.920 that are getting absolutely destroyed by these women. And it's not a fringe cases. It's not
00:17:32.840 exceptions. Like this is common. And I do this on shows all the time. I'll say, do you know a guy
00:17:38.120 that's been falsely accused? Raise your hand. The whole room raises their hands. You know, like,
00:17:42.840 like, like this is a huge risk for men. And I don't say don't do it. I think, you know,
00:17:48.600 sometimes you find a woman that you think is worth the risk. And I think that's beautiful.
00:17:53.240 But what I don't think is good is to encourage young men to be naive.
00:17:57.880 Yeah. Well, well, to Mike's credit, he did say 90%.
00:18:01.720 I don't even think it's that high. What do you think?
00:18:03.960 I mean, okay, do you think 60% of men are losers? 45% of men are 45% of men run the infrastructure
00:18:11.880 of this country. So that means one out of every two men does a job that helps you live the way you
00:18:17.240 live. So they do the factory workers, they're plumbers, they're truckers, they build the buildings,
00:18:22.600 drive the roads. And I think it's like, I don't really like influencers shitting on the average
00:18:28.360 men that allow us to do what they do. Are they just losers? Half of the men that run this country
00:18:33.640 are just whining that they can't get women. You know, those men used to get a wife and a kid.
00:18:39.000 That used to be the standard. And like, what's changed? I don't think they're losers, you know?
00:18:44.680 Yeah, it's like the cringe of, you know, what's changed is look at the media, look at the movies.
00:18:49.400 Like I saw this Jennifer Lawrence poster right here in London. Yeah.
00:18:53.080 Right when I get here, I see a Jennifer Lawrence poster. And I like, it's like the cringe inside of
00:18:58.520 me was so intense. There's a Jennifer Lawrence poster, and she's this strong, dominant,
00:19:04.920 intelligent woman. And then she's next to this weak, no, you know, docile, idiotic, awkward young
00:19:13.560 man. And I'm just there thinking, why are we continuously making these men, we're shaming
00:19:19.800 these men into oblivion. Correct. Then other women watch it and think this is, this is it. Like the
00:19:26.200 man's supposed to be subservient. Yeah. Meanwhile, China's raising strong men. Russia's raising strong
00:19:31.720 men. Iran is raising strong men. We're going to get, we're going to, this is like the, it's like
00:19:36.600 Elon Musk said, like, this feels like the Roman empire. Like we're falling apart. Yeah. Our men have
00:19:41.640 become women, girl. Yeah. Well, the women have become men too. But in reality, when it's Chinese men
00:19:48.280 against American women, we lose. Correct. There's a, there's a point when reality comes to everyone's
00:19:55.720 face. Yeah. We can't hide from reality forever. But that's my point. Cause like, if he is,
00:20:00.600 if he's saying that the, the men that are walking away, 90% are just losers. Well then, then you're
00:20:07.240 calling 63% of American men losers. Really? 63%? Are you so amazing? Like, like it just, I just think
00:20:16.040 that's a bit conceited. I think, I think you kind of have to hear where they're coming from.
00:20:20.120 And I don't, I really, I, you know, at first, like I kind of had similar thoughts, but then after
00:20:26.200 interviewing like man after man, I've interviewed men that made six figures that this happened to.
00:20:31.000 Yeah. I've interviewed men that like, I just interviewed a guy who was a Bollywood actor.
00:20:37.400 So he was a, he would, he had a modeling contract. He was an actor. Same thing happened to him.
00:20:42.040 He was just a loser. Really? And now he hasn't seen his kids in three years.
00:20:47.320 Three, like imagine what that would do to you. You have a daughter. How old is she?
00:20:50.440 One. Imagine if you haven't seen her in three years because, and I'm not, I pray this would
00:20:56.600 never happen to you. So don't take this as like, you know, but like imagine what that would do to
00:21:01.480 you as a guy, like you haven't seen the, like the person you love more than anyone in the world
00:21:06.280 for three years. Now his daughter, or I think actually it was a son, refuses to say his name
00:21:12.120 because of all the trash. The mom has talked about him. He had, he had money, right? And he
00:21:17.240 was fighting in court and he can't see his kid. So is, is he just a loser who's saying there's no,
00:21:23.320 and he even said, I wanted the fairytale ending. I thought I found my happily ever after. He says this to
00:21:28.840 me. And this is a guy that's tall, rich, good looking, and he's better off than I would argue.
00:21:37.240 He has a better shot at recovering than say a factory worker, which is one of the number one,
00:21:42.600 like that's one of the number one people are employed in America. Truckers, factory work,
00:21:47.240 Uber drivers are getting pretty big, you know, so. I mean, I mean, to your point,
00:21:53.400 look at what's happening to Russell Brand and the innocent family men, Tristan and Andrew
00:21:58.680 Tate. I mean, you basically have women from years ago who can just literally engage in what
00:22:05.960 would normal people would call slander and defamation of character. But now these have become
00:22:10.920 just regular things you can say to destroy, damage, smear a man's entire career. And you have
00:22:18.120 complete immunity from prosecution. You have complete immunity in court. You can just destroy. She can't,
00:22:23.160 those women can now just say, huh, maybe it wasn't true. They walk away, but they've already caused
00:22:28.360 millions of dollars of damage. And my, my whole point is until you change some of these systems,
00:22:33.480 yeah, it's, it's systematic. Well, men, men just are going to keep walking, regardless of what,
00:22:38.120 because they always say I'm leading, I'm leading men into destruction. Regardless of what I say,
00:22:42.600 you're going to see the same thing. The irony that you would be leading. I know, I know.
00:22:47.400 No, I mean, this is like the 1984, like the idea that you would be doing that when you're suggesting,
00:22:52.920 hey, this justice system, this is systematic abuse of fair justice for men. And not only that,
00:22:58.760 Pearl, we're literally encouraging, incentivizing and celebrating women to engage in slander,
00:23:06.200 defamation of character, and to financially damage men with no final, no legal repercussions.
00:23:12.760 We're literally everyone, every man like Russell Brand that goes down or an innocent family man like
00:23:17.160 Tristan Tate and Andrew Tate, when they see that their freedom is taken,
00:23:20.680 we are literally rewarding and encouraging a million other women to do the same to someone
00:23:26.840 in their local town. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, that's what's horrifying. Yeah. And that's,
00:23:30.920 that's why I don't really like when this is why I like, and this is why I'm glad we could have this
00:23:35.720 conversation. I opposite, like I had nine siblings. My parents are still married. Like people think I
00:23:39.960 have this like evil. I've seen my parents built a multimillion dollar business together. They had 10 kids.
00:23:46.360 Like I hope my daughter talks about me the way you talk.
00:23:49.080 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like exactly. I have, I have seen the upside of marriage and I never discount
00:23:56.520 that it's there, but you know, what I would describe divorce as for many men is death.
00:24:03.400 And this might sound dramatic, but I mean, imagine not seeing your daughter for years. That's death to
00:24:09.720 imagine a lot of these men, their reality is that another man is going to have more influence on their
00:24:14.840 child than them because 20% of divorces, they only see their daughter every other weekend.
00:24:20.680 The other 20%, it's like limited. So half of divorces, the man has very little to no contact
00:24:26.520 with his child. That is, he has no control over what men come into like, like that's death to a man.
00:24:33.560 And that, and I think that's even worse than the financial stuff. I think so many guys would give up
00:24:39.240 all their money just to see their kids and they, and they, I, I meet them. And so to act like,
00:24:45.560 okay, you know, a guy saying, you know, that's just too much of a risk for me and walking away
00:24:49.720 is like a loser. I just don't buy it. I think until you fix the system, we're never going to have
00:24:55.640 progress. Well, do you think only fans should be legal in America?
00:25:00.200 I think I would ban it if it was up to me. I think it should be illegal because I just think
00:25:07.800 right now, and I'm not saying like, obviously there's going to be women that get away with it
00:25:11.560 or whatever, but I guess you kind of have to ask your question in a society, should we ban things
00:25:18.440 that are immoral? And some people would say, no, people are going to do it every anyway. But I guess
00:25:25.160 what formed my opinion was weed. Okay. Now when I was in high school, weed was kind of like,
00:25:32.280 it was like taboo a bit more. Like I know like people smoked it, whatever, but I just think like
00:25:37.560 there's been a change in society in America since you can like go down the street and buy it where
00:25:44.200 obviously people were going to smoke it anyway. But I don't really like the idea of there being a
00:25:48.840 storefront that anyone can go and just buy the weed. We all know what's going to happen,
00:25:54.120 but at least when they do it, it's like, how do I put it? It's more behind closed doors. I'm not
00:25:59.960 even, I don't even really care if they go after them that much. I just don't like living in a world
00:26:04.680 where like it's like easy to get. Now weed is one thing, but I think of the idea of like prostitution.
00:26:11.800 Do I like the idea of it being like Amsterdam, where it's like, even though men do it anyway in
00:26:17.800 America, right? Obviously like Vegas, whatever. I don't really like the idea of raising my kids
00:26:23.640 in a world where prostitution is just like normalized to be out in public. And I would
00:26:29.080 say the same thing with OnlyFans. Like obviously they're going to figure out ways to do it, but at
00:26:33.400 least like, let's, let's start banning them. Like, so they can't publicly talk about it anymore.
00:26:40.760 You know what I mean? So they can't publicly promote it. If you figure out a way to do it against
00:26:44.760 the law, fine. I don't care. Right. I'm not saying we should expend tons of police resources going
00:26:51.560 after them, whatever, but at least guys, like, I just don't want to be in a world like where it's
00:26:57.880 so open. Uh, playboys settle down once they find a woman they think is worth settling down for. Um,
00:27:04.760 okay. I think there's two types. I think there's the type of playboy that will be single forever.
00:27:09.880 Like I don't see Drake ever getting married. And now I know I use Drake as an example. I know
00:27:14.680 he's an exception, but I think what you see in celebrities, you also see like the micro
00:27:19.880 versions of them and like the town. So like the Drake of his, they're never getting married.
00:27:24.040 You know, I sometimes, I wonder if, do you think Drake is actually gay? Like he's just,
00:27:29.320 I think he's bi. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Bye. I think he's probably bi.
00:27:32.840 Yeah. I think he's bi or, um, I think a lot of guys that go down the sexuality route too hard,
00:27:38.520 end up like fucking trannies and stuff like that. Just, I don't know. I just, I, I,
00:27:43.640 I feel like porn kind of leads men that way. And I, the same way I think extreme, um,
00:27:49.400 attention ruins women. I think extreme sex kind of ruins men. Like when at a young age,
00:27:54.680 they'd get access to like their wildest sexual fantasies. I think that kind of,
00:27:59.720 some of them get kind of wacky and I think Drake kind of, kind of, it looks like that with the nail
00:28:05.400 polish and shit. Yeah. It is feminine for Drake to have like the nail polish. Yeah. What's next?
00:28:11.480 He's going to wear a wig. Like what's next? Is he going to wear a skirt? Like, you know,
00:28:15.800 where do we draw the line? Um, and if you wear heels, you know, it's interesting. Okay. There's
00:28:21.080 like a different view on bisexuality of the next generation. Um, and I had this, I was on a live
00:28:28.840 once with, um, my sister, this was like a year and a half ago. My sister was in England and, um,
00:28:34.680 they asked me if I would ever date a guy that was bi. And I said, oh, hell no. Like if you,
00:28:38.360 if you kissed a man once over with you, you, you, you. And he's like, I bet you,
00:28:43.560 your little sister has a different view on it. Cause she's, um, my little sister's seven, six,
00:28:50.440 six, seven years younger than me. Um, and I go up to her and I asked her and my next little sister,
00:28:55.640 like, oh, we don't care. And it seems to be like a more accepted thing now. Like the bi stuff with
00:29:02.360 guys. I don't like it, but yeah, yeah, yeah. It's almost like Drake's making it popular bad money.
00:29:08.520 Yeah. Yeah. Right. But yeah, they're pushing it. Um, okay. So, um, what do you think about
00:29:16.040 playboys though? Do you think, um, what, what percent of playboys settle down? I think a lot of
00:29:22.680 the playboys that I know generally will settle down in their late thirties, early forties. Okay.
00:29:29.240 Yeah. Late thirties, early forties. And I think if they don't meet,
00:29:33.080 they don't catch that train, they may just be playboys.