JustPearlyThings - August 21, 2023


Hostile Redhead Gets HUMBLED Very Quickly


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12 minutes

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2,814

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267

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Misogyny

41

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In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships, sex with a married guy, cheating in a relationship with an unfaithful guy, and cheating with an open relationship. We also talk about why it's a bad idea to fuck someone else's husband while they're with their wife.

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00:00:00.000 Rich guys are more likely to cheat, to be honest.
00:00:02.320 Yeah, let them cheat. 0.76
00:00:04.240 I love men that cheat.
00:00:06.080 I appreciate the honesty.
00:00:09.680 Because most women do. 1.00
00:00:10.900 They just won't say it.
00:00:11.540 Most men cheat anyway.
00:00:13.080 Like, if you think that your boyfriend's not cheating on you,
00:00:15.240 then you're deluded.
00:00:16.240 But why do you like it, though?
00:00:17.820 Because, like, it just spices a relationship with me.
00:00:19.960 It's a bit toxic.
00:00:21.380 Like, he goes and fucks another girl,
00:00:23.300 and then he puts his cock inside you. 1.00
00:00:25.520 I mean, there's biological reasons why we feel the way we feel, right?
00:00:29.520 So, like, I've heard pickup artists, like, pickup coaches,
00:00:32.660 they'll go out with a ring because more women approach them 1.00
00:00:35.800 when they have a wedding ring on.
00:00:36.720 Yeah, it's horny when you're in a relationship.
00:00:38.180 She loves married men. 0.55
00:00:40.560 And so it's basically, it's pre-selection,
00:00:42.840 because back in the day, we would have to look at a guy
00:00:44.840 and decide if he could take care of other women,
00:00:47.520 because if he could take care of the other women,
00:00:48.960 then he could take care of us.
00:00:50.360 So there's, like, there's evolutionary reasons
00:00:52.280 why we feel the way we feel.
00:00:53.500 Not only that, but it's horny as fuck if you go out and meet a guy
00:00:56.240 he's married, and then you're fucking him. 1.00
00:00:57.900 I definitely don't want to disagree.
00:00:59.240 Wait, so you prefer to hook up with married guys overnight?
00:01:03.520 Oh, definitely.
00:01:04.440 If they've got a girl at home and they're just fucking the shit out of you. 0.98
00:01:07.900 No, but it's horny, like.
00:01:09.680 Isn't that hell?
00:01:10.180 Do you, like, seek out married men?
00:01:13.620 I won't personally, but if they come to me, they come to me.
00:01:15.880 Do you not, like, feel guilty about it by fucking someone else's husband?
00:01:19.160 It's, you know what, it's their problem.
00:01:20.540 It's them the one who are fucking you. 1.00
00:01:23.020 Like, they're the one who are in a relationship.
00:01:24.560 But you're still partaking in it.
00:01:25.760 And it's nothing to do with me.
00:01:28.240 But you still willingly walk into that bed, so it is.
00:01:32.040 It takes two to take a bit.
00:01:33.500 Yeah, but, like, I don't really care if a guy cheats.
00:01:36.200 It's not.
00:01:37.120 Literally for you guys, every hole's a goal.
00:01:39.520 Yeah, definitely.
00:01:40.180 That's it.
00:01:41.220 It's a loba.
00:01:41.840 It's fine.
00:01:42.560 Well, it's got nothing to do with the guy, anyway.
00:01:44.500 I mean, it's got nothing to do with the girl, sorry.
00:01:47.000 It's the guy's problem, eh?
00:01:48.460 The guy's the one that's doing the wrong.
00:01:50.300 But would you not, if the guy was, if you knew he was married, would you not think, oh, no, I don't want to touch you because, you know, that's immorally wrong and breaking up a family.
00:01:56.800 I know, because it's kind of horny.
00:01:58.380 Well, you don't, you don't think you're in the wrong, too?
00:02:01.600 You know what?
00:02:03.000 I don't really care.
00:02:04.540 Like, you're young, you'll learn when you're older.
00:02:08.280 No, but it's his problem at the end of the day.
00:02:10.360 Like, he's the one seeking out girls.
00:02:12.520 Yeah, but what if the bitch is crazy? 1.00
00:02:13.520 Nah, because if it was me and my husband was going out and fucking a girl and he came home to me, I'd be like, oh, he's still coming home to his wifey.
00:02:20.600 I don't really care.
00:02:21.520 You wouldn't mind if your husband was cheating on you? 1.00
00:02:23.240 No.
00:02:23.720 You're fine with it?
00:02:24.320 Yeah.
00:02:24.680 But you're in an open relationship, then?
00:02:25.700 That's not a relationship.
00:02:26.140 No, open on his side, not on my side.
00:02:28.480 But have some self-respect.
00:02:30.400 Nah, it's not about respect.
00:02:31.820 Of course it is.
00:02:32.680 You want your man to be into you, not him to fuck everyone else.
00:02:35.880 Nah, because when a guy fucks someone, it doesn't mean anything.
00:02:39.280 It doesn't mean he loves them.
00:02:40.480 No, it doesn't.
00:02:40.940 But like, have some self-respect.
00:02:42.280 If that man's yours, that man's yours. 0.53
00:02:44.040 No, but women, I don't share my toys for that particular reason. 1.00
00:02:47.520 I'm sorry, but I find it so sad that you're this desensitized about relationships and love and sex.
00:02:54.380 It's worrying to me.
00:02:55.960 Yeah, but love and sex is different for guys, though.
00:02:57.640 They're two different things.
00:02:58.560 Guys that love, a girl doesn't mean, sex and love is two different things.
00:03:01.960 Definitely different.
00:03:02.740 But guys, if you married someone, right?
00:03:05.900 You made a contract, like, you are together.
00:03:08.200 Marriage doesn't mean anything nowadays.
00:03:09.680 You can marry someone, you can have a kid or someone.
00:03:11.060 Those people get married for no reason, apart from the women, the one in a wedding dress. 1.00
00:03:14.420 Is it the drama?
00:03:15.440 Do you guys just like the drama?
00:03:16.720 I just find it horny.
00:03:17.820 Like, married men, when they fancy you. 0.62
00:03:19.500 Just try to be real for a second.
00:03:20.420 How about, like, boyfriend?
00:03:21.080 That's what I mean.
00:03:22.140 So it's attention.
00:03:23.520 It's attention.
00:03:24.600 So you just want attention.
00:03:26.840 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:27.580 That's it.
00:03:29.100 So what, were you not getting the attention from anywhere else?
00:03:31.980 No, plenty.
00:03:33.100 So you just want attention from married men. 1.00
00:03:34.960 It's a pain for her own fans.
00:03:36.160 You know what I mean?
00:03:36.760 They're the ones who are watching it.
00:03:38.020 Got it.
00:03:38.840 Okay.
00:03:39.740 Well, it's women's fault for picking shit husbands, then, isn't it? 1.00
00:03:42.600 Can I ask you girls a question? 0.79
00:03:43.720 Why picking shit husbands? 1.00
00:03:44.880 What made you girl ladies decide to want to do any fans? 1.00
00:03:48.080 Honestly, no, I've always been, like, really sexual, like, hypersexual.
00:03:51.340 Yeah.
00:03:51.840 I don't think that's a good or bad thing.
00:03:53.600 Some women just have higher sex jobs. 1.00
00:03:54.940 Yeah.
00:03:55.280 And then I was doing it for free anyway.
00:03:57.260 You know, I was spreading my life for free.
00:03:58.620 I might as well make some money on the side.
00:04:00.340 But I don't understand, like, that in 10 years' time, when you're how old, 32 years old,
00:04:04.660 you're going to be with a man, and then your kids, you're going to have kids one day,
00:04:06.920 and they're going to look back and find porn of you.
00:04:09.100 I don't do porn.
00:04:11.180 I don't want kids.
00:04:11.780 Get in the vagina or a titta. 1.00
00:04:12.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:13.160 Like, are you not going to be ashamed in that sense?
00:04:15.940 You know what?
00:04:16.560 In Elbert's words, they can cry in a Ferrari.
00:04:20.000 Or a Coulson.
00:04:20.800 I don't say that now, but when it's, like, actually in real life happening, it's going
00:04:24.620 to be a total different situation.
00:04:26.280 Personally, I mean, I don't want kids anyway.
00:04:29.260 So, like, you know, it's my life.
00:04:31.700 I'm going to live my life.
00:04:32.400 I don't do anything that I'm going to be ashamed of.
00:04:34.360 Can I ask you a question?
00:04:35.560 Have you been in love before?
00:04:37.300 Yeah.
00:04:37.920 You have?
00:04:38.560 Yeah.
00:04:38.780 Because it just sounds to me like you haven't.
00:04:42.260 Because, I don't know, there is something that when you're in love, if you go out and fuck
00:04:47.520 someone else, like, that hurts.
00:04:49.780 It hurts.
00:04:50.020 No, I've never cheated.
00:04:50.660 He cheated on me.
00:04:51.440 Like, to be desensitized and, like, I don't care, I don't feel anything.
00:04:54.880 Like, if you were in love with someone, you're telling me that if they went and cheated on
00:04:58.800 you, that wouldn't bother you?
00:04:59.860 The only thing that would hurt is if they got an STD and then they gave it to me.
00:05:04.300 Going back to you, did you change your sort of standing after you, that relationship that
00:05:10.460 you were in love with?
00:05:11.340 Because apparently he cheated on you. 0.97
00:05:12.980 So, did something change in your, like...
00:05:15.480 Yeah, I guess I don't really care anymore.
00:05:17.240 So, basically, heartbreak made you just be like, fuck it.
00:05:21.260 No, I've always been quite, like, weird about sex.
00:05:23.780 Like, I just, I don't think it's that deep.
00:05:25.780 I don't find sex that deep.
00:05:27.320 There's sex and there's being in love.
00:05:28.980 There's completely different things.
00:05:30.300 But in that relationship...
00:05:31.400 That's fundamentally wrong because when it comes to females having sex, we release 1.00
00:05:35.320 oxytocin when we have sex with guys.
00:05:37.380 So, we bond to them and we have a certain connection with them.
00:05:40.920 Men don't release oxytocin.
00:05:42.300 That's why it's different when a guy cheats.
00:05:44.380 I agree with that.
00:05:45.220 It's different when a guy cheats because a guy doesn't have that bonding hormone.
00:05:48.740 So, but if a woman is doing that and you're saying you're not feeling anything, I feel 0.98
00:05:52.220 like maybe that does come from a place of hurt more than, like, because biologically that's
00:05:56.420 what happens regardless of if you think you're a bad bee or you think you can have sex like a 0.96
00:06:00.140 man, like, any woman who thinks like that probably has a lot of hurt underneath. 1.00
00:06:03.960 I don't know.
00:06:04.340 I've never gotten, like, attached to a guy when I've slept with them.
00:06:07.320 Never?
00:06:08.020 No, no, no.
00:06:09.340 No, like...
00:06:09.900 So, what is love to you then?
00:06:11.200 Like, what?
00:06:11.940 Explain it.
00:06:12.900 I don't know when you really deeply like the person, I guess.
00:06:16.580 And that's not to do with sex?
00:06:19.820 No.
00:06:20.500 Okay.
00:06:20.740 So, what is it then?
00:06:21.520 What is it for you?
00:06:22.520 Just when you really fancy someone.
00:06:24.160 Okay, but if it's not physical and it's not to do with sex, what do you define as love?
00:06:29.160 Who fucking knows what love is?
00:06:31.220 It's just a feeling, isn't it?
00:06:33.180 I think love's an action.
00:06:34.560 I don't think it's a feeling.
00:06:35.320 Like being obsessed with someone.
00:06:36.300 But being obsessed with someone is just an infatuation.
00:06:38.400 If you really love somebody, you care about them and you make, you take the actions to
00:06:42.800 show them that you care.
00:06:43.620 That's what love is.
00:06:44.680 Because if we say love's a feeling, it can go away.
00:06:47.700 And that's why people say, I don't love you anymore.
00:06:49.260 And then they...
00:06:49.580 Well, it is a feeling.
00:06:50.080 It's mostly just women that do that. 1.00
00:06:55.300 It's not really men.
00:06:56.260 It's just the women. 1.00
00:06:57.100 Yeah, women get so bored. 1.00
00:06:58.700 What about men who cheat and abuse on their partners?
00:07:00.980 I mean, let's not just blame everything on women now.
00:07:02.740 It's like mostly women though. 1.00
00:07:04.360 It's like mostly like 70 to 80% of the time.
00:07:08.420 They make up the stats anyway.
00:07:10.100 I really think that...
00:07:12.800 I don't make up stats, ladies. 1.00
00:07:14.480 Well, you said something about women having an abortion.
00:07:17.440 Basically, basically, what stat on abortion?
00:07:20.580 Well, you said that one in three women have had an abortion.
00:07:22.800 That's not actually true.
00:07:23.780 It was predicted that one in three women had an abortion.
00:07:25.480 That's what Planned Parenthood says themselves.
00:07:27.860 Yeah, it is.
00:07:28.060 I actually had to check on that stat and actually it didn't say that.
00:07:30.720 It actually said the rates of abortion have actually decreased in the USA.
00:07:34.340 Okay.
00:07:36.300 All right.
00:07:36.620 Thanks for letting me know.
00:07:37.360 You also said something about one in five people in the USA have STDs.
00:07:40.560 I actually had a look at that.
00:07:41.340 No, it's not in one in four.
00:07:42.580 Wait, more than that?
00:07:43.300 Well, it said 2.5 million cases of STDs were reported in the USA.
00:07:48.540 No, it's at some point in their lifetime.
00:07:50.980 It's at some point in their lifetime.
00:07:52.500 That sounds pretty realistic to me.
00:07:53.260 Well, 2.5 million cases would be 0.7% of the population.
00:07:55.540 And I think at the end of the day, I think...
00:07:58.280 Wait, say that again.
00:07:58.980 Well, 2.5 million STDs would be 0.7% of the US population
00:08:03.120 because the US population is 335 million.
00:08:05.540 And that's the people who report it because you're going on just guesses.
00:08:08.720 No one's going to report they've had an STD.
00:08:11.300 They've done surveys on this, too.
00:08:14.200 Like, women say it themselves. 1.00
00:08:16.020 And I think you can really, with the cheating stat,
00:08:19.240 you know, it's pretty similar, to be honest.
00:08:21.400 I think it's, like, slightly less.
00:08:23.240 But I think you can more likely find out just by asking people
00:08:28.520 and coming to conclusions.
00:08:30.140 Because, like, you can honestly get a stat to say anything, right?
00:08:33.360 Yeah, there was one study by the Institute for Family Studies
00:08:35.620 that found that 20% of married men had an affair.
00:08:37.780 Are you going to let me talk?
00:08:39.960 Are you going to let me talk?
00:08:40.420 If you're going to...
00:08:41.080 No, it's not your show, chick. 0.71
00:08:43.360 Like, so wait your turn.
00:08:45.840 I really think that at the end of the day, like,
00:08:49.600 we can come to conclusions based on what we see in real life.
00:08:52.760 Because you can find one study that says one thing
00:08:54.880 and one study that says another.
00:08:56.080 That doesn't make sense, Paul, because you often bring up studies.
00:08:58.620 Are you going to let me finish?
00:09:00.460 Or no?
00:09:01.260 Because if you keep interrupting me, you can go.
00:09:03.700 I told you.
00:09:05.060 I told you, you can challenge me, but I've told you to stop interrupting me.
00:09:09.040 And you did this last show, too.
00:09:10.780 I have no problem going back and forth with you,
00:09:12.860 but if you're going to talk over me every single time, you have to go.
00:09:15.700 I'm not talking over you every single time.
00:09:17.000 Okay, okay.
00:09:17.740 But, okay, are you going to...
00:09:19.920 If you're going to be combative, you can go.
00:09:21.840 Well, it's a discussion.
00:09:22.580 I have no problem having a discussion with you,
00:09:25.840 but we did this last show, too.
00:09:28.540 Okay?
00:09:29.520 I think it's important to not necessarily say things
00:09:31.540 that are just deliberately designed to make women look bad on purpose. 1.00
00:09:34.020 Well, it's not that I'm trying to make women look bad, 0.89
00:09:36.400 but I think when you look at, you know, from a historical point of view,
00:09:39.880 like the last hundred years, what do we have that men value?
00:09:44.240 And I'm just genuinely being honest.
00:09:46.120 Like, a hundred years ago, 85% of women were virgins. 0.97
00:09:49.000 And we could go back and forth on the stats,
00:09:50.960 and you could say, okay, it's not one out of three.
00:09:52.540 It's one out of five.
00:09:53.160 That's still bad.
00:09:54.720 That's still not good, right?
00:09:56.660 And so I think I'm not, and that's the point.
00:09:59.880 Don't matter if she's a virgin. 0.99
00:10:00.440 She can still speak on it.
00:10:01.720 But this is my point, is you're going to go personal, right?
00:10:04.840 No.
00:10:05.080 And I think, like, the point is I could say
00:10:08.220 it would have been a better outcome for me had I waited.
00:10:10.800 I think it would have been a better outcome for most women had they waited. 1.00
00:10:14.620 And I think we have a culture that doesn't tell women
00:10:16.880 that that's the most valuable thing you have.
00:10:19.500 And I just think it's lying if we're going to go back and forth
00:10:22.060 and you're going to say, oh, well, it's one in five, one in six, one in seven.
00:10:24.900 Who gives a shit?
00:10:25.720 It's bad.
00:10:26.840 Like, a hundred years ago, we had, I think, 3.4 kids.
00:10:31.380 I've seen some stats that said five.
00:10:32.880 We had more children.
00:10:34.460 We were more married.
00:10:35.480 We were on less antidepressants.
00:10:37.400 So it seems like the more power we get, the more freedom we get.
00:10:40.420 It just doesn't go well for us.
00:10:42.200 And I think when men build all the buildings, 0.76
00:10:44.940 they do everything in society.
00:10:46.680 They do all the hard jobs in society.
00:10:48.880 Like, I think it's fair to say that men are smarter than us,
00:10:53.320 by and large, that men make better decisions than us,
00:10:56.260 by and large.
00:10:57.420 I'm not saying there aren't smart women. 1.00
00:10:59.220 I'm not saying there aren't good women. 0.98
00:11:00.680 But if we look at the standards of a hundred years ago,
00:11:03.380 we'd all be thrown out, myself included.
00:11:05.620 I'm not saying I'm so much better.
00:11:07.220 Pearl, you're so smart.
00:11:07.840 I think you should be a man.
00:11:09.120 And so, chill out, chill out.
00:11:11.120 Pearl, do you think?
00:11:11.860 But so, and this is my point.
00:11:14.340 This is my, whatever.
00:11:15.640 Pearl, do you think that a man,
00:11:17.280 do you think that the percentage for wide vaginas 1.00
00:11:20.400 was more than if there was more kids, like, back in the day?
00:11:23.500 Girl, I don't know.
00:11:24.760 I don't know why you make everything sexual.
00:11:27.980 This is crazy.
00:11:29.660 But that's the whole point,
00:11:31.100 is I think we have to draw conclusions about a society.
00:11:34.360 And the problem is women have entered the academic space. 1.00
00:11:37.240 And so half of these studies, like the gender study,
00:11:39.900 you know how they mess up these gender studies departments 1.00
00:11:42.860 that make these really biased, like, studies.
00:11:45.720 And they can tell us water isn't wet.
00:11:47.760 When I look in the real world,
00:11:48.860 I see women cheating more than men. 1.00
00:11:50.740 So I don't need a study to tell me that
00:11:52.720 I see more women posting thirst traps on Instagram. 1.00
00:11:56.140 I see more women monkey branching. 1.00
00:11:58.260 I see more women leaving marriages.
00:11:59.800 Like, I'm not blind.
00:12:01.020 I can see what's in the real world.
00:12:02.620 I see more women commenting, of course, 0.85
00:12:03.460 like, where's the beauty of the street?
00:12:03.620 But you can see part of the street.
00:12:04.720 What in
00:12:05.020 wagon apps?
00:12:07.660 You rub in the building.
00:12:09.800 There's probably a way to do it.
00:12:11.420 You can see that the same are why we must all out Hermione's
00:12:15.140 and have been沒錯 after a lot of things like that.
00:12:17.340 In the picture picture.
00:12:22.480 Oh.
00:12:29.500 To get out of the way.