JustPearlyThings - How High Value Men Treats Women

00:00:00.000 change the moment you like meet the right woman yeah that's cute but no i mean uh i i have

00:00:07.520 i've had love for women but i'm never gonna fall in love with a woman because when you fall in 1.00

00:00:11.200 love with a woman what happens is you start to lose grounding and you start to lose that rational

00:00:16.000 thought a lot of the stupid things that men do is because of love so you're scared to be vulnerable

00:00:21.280 no and let yourself go and be in love like you're gonna block yourself from like emotion

00:00:26.560 and to fill for something that could be really amazing for you because you're scared to be

00:00:31.760 vulnerable no because i understand that men and women are different and men love women far

00:00:37.600 differently than women i do think it's better when the woman loves the man whether the man loves the

00:00:42.320 woman my mom would say the opposite she would say it should be the other way around but she's a woman 0.99

00:00:48.320 we don't even know what we want men love women for real women love men women love men for real no they 0.61

00:00:55.440 don't women love men under the premise that they provide value men love women idealistically women 0.99

00:01:01.680 tend to love men more from an opportunistic standpoint

00:01:07.280 yes you don't no all men can i just say all men say they don't and they actually do i really don't

00:01:13.920 you've never done it in your life no i've done in my life so yes but the last time i did it was 2014.

00:01:18.800 i remember specifically what yeah never again why that really in his face man was traumatized what was

00:01:27.680 wrong female vaginas are disgusting no they're not do you eat vagina exactly point proven no point 1.00

00:01:36.400 proven you don't do it why should i do it listen a woman's body is beautiful i thought she was bi 1.00

00:01:41.520 if you're a bi you don't how are you bi if you don't 0.65

00:01:47.520 oh okay what i don't understand is like why it's such a stern no because why wouldn't you want to

00:01:52.960 please your woman you know because have you not ever like i said before it's a woman's job to please a 0.99

00:01:57.600 man out though the way around no that is actually ridiculous when it comes to being intimate and in

00:02:01.280 the bedroom it's not it's like when when when you do something for someone have you not seen how and

00:02:06.960 they like it have you not seen how much they perform better and i'm not just talking sexually like in

00:02:10.640 general i don't want to say like an asshole but a woman's ejaculation is irrelevant you only need 0.99

00:02:15.840 one ejaculation to create life and that's the man's now with that said does that mean i'm not going to

00:02:19.920 please my girl or whatever of course i will but it's elective definitely in bed just like a woman's you 1.00

00:02:25.680 know duty to go to work is elective my duty to please her sexually is elective that's ridiculous 0.96

00:02:31.520 how's that ridiculous oh no oh you know what how about this with that logic i'm just going to stop

00:02:36.400 paying the bills okay that would be ridiculous i'll have to go work then huh i'll have to go and

00:02:40.720 work then and start paying the bills hey and then you'd lose attraction for me wouldn't you 0.99

00:02:45.520 because i just don't understand why like just i feel if you just started doing it you might have a

00:02:51.760 better like relationship well no women might know the woman might your woman might not like it but i'm

00:02:56.480 just saying from a sample i don't understand why you have to constantly dominate even in this scenario

00:03:01.840 like having sex is an intimate thing it's an energy exchange energy exchange more typical female 1.00

00:03:08.160 gibberish like bro energy exchange what the hell bro get out of here with that oh my god i hate it when 0.87

00:03:13.760 girls say that too they say it all the time on the podcast we exchange energies and i'm like i i understand

00:03:21.440 what they're saying a little bit from like a woman's point of view but men don't see it that way we we give

00:03:26.960 them something they take it they ain't giving us i don't know how this works but yeah yeah really

00:03:34.960 beautiful thing so why would you not want to make her feel good most women get off on you getting off 1.00

00:03:39.360 that's the truth if we're going to be all the way about this no no no no women thought that no no women

00:03:47.280 used to think that through porn really everything like yeah yeah okay but then and this is what i'm

00:03:51.840 saying but women have started pushing ourselves doing things and now we know how nice certain things feel 1.00

00:03:56.480 and women are more miserable now than ever before i don't even know that's true that's true there's 1.00

00:04:01.360 more women on antidepressants so you can't you can't really argue women derive their pleasure 1.00

00:04:06.560 from serving a man they love in my respect and their children i provide so then you got to provide

00:04:12.240 the ejaculations i mean i don't know what's so hard to to get about i mean yeah that's true i mean like a

00:04:23.520 man if a man's marrying you or with you a long time you should give him sex i just yeah i don't know

00:04:30.160 why you would fight that have you been serious or you actually like i mean i think you can kind of

00:04:34.880 build a bond with a woman through other stuff but you know i don't really care people can do what they

00:04:41.280 want it's there's a guy getting his girl off is elected wait let me let me see candace bushell is one 1.00

00:04:47.440 of the producers of sex in the city and regrets choosing her career life instead of a family

00:04:51.440 because now she's 60 and alone pearl you're great but is there anything you disagree with myron on

00:05:06.960 i'm gonna just keep going do it but they don't have to just like i think a man has to work and his 0.53

00:05:13.120 woman okay we'll just do it and then just see what you get different results that's all i'm saying i

00:05:16.800 i don't do that i'm not and if that and if that's what she needs to get off well too bad i'm not doing

00:05:21.520 it oh yeah because that's a submissive thing too that like i'm not why is your issue with men submitting 0.89

00:05:26.720 to women like genuinely girl you know we don't want a man that submits to us that's like the first

00:05:33.200 way to get us to leave this is a big issue of yours oh really okay yeah i'm saying but i'm just

00:05:39.520 saying don't go into don't don't go into it because you're about to go into it i'm just saying

00:05:45.040 genuinely you have such an issue with just you don't like when i use your logic on you

00:05:48.560 he has definitely got some issues no i just don't like the fact that you it's this power of dominating

00:05:55.280 thing that you want as a man like yes you can have it but just in some situations there's no

00:05:59.440 when to also submit as a man and surrender not everyday masculine man glad you find it funny

00:06:05.280 absolutely not we will not we don't negotiate with terrorists women so women have been dogs yeah 1.00

00:06:15.120 i used to think that women were reasonable until i did my podcast i don't anymore i won't lie to you 1.00

00:06:21.040 guys i'm just being honest some women are but by and large we are not terrorists what's the relationship

00:06:29.680 like with the women in your life like family wise fantastic it's actually my mom that taught me a

00:06:34.800 lot of the i grew up in a muslim household so she was the one that told me don't commit to these western 0.99

00:06:39.040 women blah blah blah um so my mom is actually like a very strong um symbol in my life when it comes to

00:06:46.480 navigating uh the situation if it weren't for her i'd probably be a simp you know really um yeah i mean

00:06:52.080 i grew up in a but my parents are together to this day my man my my dad my dad was the man my mom was

00:06:57.600 the woman my dad led my mom followed and you know they they have a fantastic relationship and a big

00:07:03.440 part of that is because they they you know stuck to their roles and it was my mom that told me from

00:07:07.760 a young age don't don't marry these americans i want to be that mother these women ain't 1.00

00:07:12.800 shit son these women ain't shit like you can't trust them she said she was a bird okay okay 1.00

00:07:20.320 men these western women they're not gonna cook and clean for you they're not gonna um they're not 1.00

00:07:24.320 they're gonna take care of you you're gonna come to the home it's gonna be disheveled blah blah blah

00:07:27.280 and i used to think to myself like mom chill what's wrong with you but as now that i'm 32

00:07:31.600 versus being 12 20 years later i'm able to look back on that advice and be like god damn

00:07:36.160 mom was spending some heat back in the day yeah it makes sense yeah so it's understandable why it's

00:07:40.480 like you think the way that you think because of your environment and your influence which is

00:07:45.840 which is a good thing for you my my background right like i i didn't like at first it was like okay i

00:07:51.520 don't agree with this right because i used to be like you know growing up growing up american i was

00:07:55.520 born in connecticut i was like mom you're wrong like women aren't like that what's wrong with you 0.74

00:07:59.120 blah blah blah like you're you're a misogynist mom and you got some ingrained misogyny right you even

00:08:03.760 said that no no no but like back then i don't even think i knew what that word was uh that's like a

00:08:08.960 buzz term nowadays that no one knows the definition of anyway but anyway um so as i got older right like

00:08:16.560 the things that she started to say started to reflect more and more when i dealt with more and more

00:08:20.640 girls and i was like what the hell is going on here and talking with other men talking with you 0.54

00:08:25.920 know with women etc my experiences like and then talking with thousands of men and then also talking

00:08:31.040 with i'm in a very unique position where i've talked to both both genders on on a podcast coaching

00:08:36.800 sessions etc so i'm in a you know very certain situation where i'm able to get anecdotal evidence

00:08:42.240 i have statistics etc to back up what i'm saying and i would say my approach to dealing with women

00:08:48.880 dating relationships sex etc is a very pragmatic way to approach the dating marketplace based on

00:08:54.000 today's scenarios with this dating advice working in 1950s maybe not because women were different back 1.00

00:08:59.040 then but nowadays do you think i don't think women were different that's what i was thinking i think

00:09:03.920 women just had less opportunity and more consequences back then but i think women have always been hypergamous 0.99

00:09:09.920 i was at this art museum and there were some women that were like leaving their families and they got 1.00

00:09:15.840 stoned to death in like the description i'm like i think women have always been like this 1.00

00:09:22.560 it says no one dates pearl unless auntie jenny vets them oh yeah auntie jenny's sending me on dates um

00:09:29.360 auntie jenny you can put your instagram in the description or whatever but yeah basically

00:09:35.040 auntie jenny has going to vet guys and send me on dates with them so yeah also i started my

00:09:42.960 i started my cookbook today just so you know with auntie jenny they're significant they're significantly

00:09:48.560 different like from a more negative standpoint not to a man's benefit

00:09:56.400 over 30 okay that's a hell no unacceptable disgusting haram never wife that girl up a 1.00

00:10:04.400 recreational use only 30 is a lot that's a lot 30 is a lot why a hell no what's yours what's my body count

00:10:17.280 what's the uh the term in england when you don't want to when you want to invoke the fifth amendment

00:10:21.120 but you can't no comment there we go so no comment sir is yours over 200

00:10:27.440 300. 300. yours is a lot more spotter wow and you want to yours is over 300 and then you want to get

00:10:36.960 mad at 30. this this isn't even a double standard anymore like he's just taking it too far i think

00:10:42.400 it's more attractive if a man doesn't because if you can no it is like if you can show discipline

00:10:47.040 why are you laughing yeah no because if for me it shows like self-control and discipline it's because

00:10:52.960 it is when we say that we just mean we don't want a guy that's slept with a bunch of people we know

00:10:57.840 that's what we mean because that's like embarrassing it's like ah he had him yeah

00:11:03.520 have left to their own devices want to have sex with as many women as possible men are designed to

00:11:08.240 spread seed we want quantity women are designed to protect their egg for the best seed women want 1.00

00:11:13.280 quality we're very different do you think you're liked as a person that's a good question that's a very

00:11:21.840 very good question and my thing is create a legacy so that whether they like you or not they respect

00:11:28.080 you that's what i care about i don't care if people like me or not because i'll tell you this there's

00:11:32.560 plenty of girls that i've had sex with that didn't like me but they respected me because women must 1.00

00:11:38.560 respect you to you yes and no so why wouldn't you wait what did i say because i'm the man you were

00:11:51.760 attracted to me in the first place because of my lifestyle i'm not going to change who i am because

00:11:55.440 of a woman when a man changes for a woman he grows into something she's going to have contempt for when 0.98

00:12:00.480 a woman changes for a man she'll grow into something he'll love that's how i got you in the first place 1.00

00:12:04.400 why would i change and that's the biggest mistake that guys make is they get in a relationship they

00:12:08.160 get comfortable that's true that's true they get fat they get less ambitious because they're like oh

00:12:12.160 i got the woman i should be comfortable nah she might leave your ass she might leave your ass be 1.00

00:12:17.200 careful they lose their ambition i got her yeah blah blah blah and that woman starts to lose what 1.00

00:12:22.320 respect for him when a woman changes for a man he gains more respect for her men and women are so

00:12:28.080 different when you're changing for a woman that inevitably puts her in a leadership role 0.99

00:12:32.160 and when a woman's in a leadership role she's going to lead you all right to the end of the 1.00

00:12:35.200 relationship that was funny yeah do you give your partner your phone password no what i wouldn't

00:12:44.640 mind i wouldn't really care um i'm not gonna let a girl look at my phone why because i'm gonna have

00:12:50.720 other girls i'd like to keep my no i know everyone's gonna be like girls keep the wildest

00:12:57.360 sometimes i write song lyrics in my notes app

00:13:02.960 some of them are embarrassing i just rather i just rather he i might move to a notebook like an

00:13:10.400 actual you know when i'd be right i'll be writing like bars you know freestyles i don't want anyone

00:13:18.800 looking at that okay i don't i don't want anyone nobody that's the only thing that i would rather not share

00:13:26.560 100 the thing is is that most women can handle the truth so i'm gonna be i'm very big on like

00:13:31.760 being up front and letting her know listen i'm gonna have other girls whatever may be but you're 0.99

00:13:35.520 the main one and she's got to accept that but her looking at my phone is just going to hurt her

00:13:39.440 feelings so you want an open relationship yeah open a mind close on her end okay what would be more

00:13:44.240 offensive if you look through his phone and saw that he had sex with another girl or you looked at his

00:13:49.600 phone and you saw that he tried and she denied him that's not fair though life isn't fair i don't know

00:13:57.120 i just kind of feel like the kind of relationship that i want isn't that what if i told you women 1.00

00:14:02.800 don't know what they want in general some don't most don't some this has been statistically proven

00:14:08.720 that women don't know what they want cool in your little incel culture podcast okay women don't know 1.00

00:14:13.440 what they want and worse yet they're not going to be honest about what they want because of strict

00:14:17.520 societal standards where they don't want to look like hoes yeah because you guys call women hoes

00:14:22.000 rightfully so not rightfully so i mean you have to you have to describe it like what else are you

00:14:30.160 going to describe

00:14:37.600 why can't a woman just like be sexually liberated genuinely why does she have to be a ho 1.00

00:14:44.160 okay do you want to be a hoe i don't really care what you think if you're going to say i'm a ho no 0.95

00:14:49.360 i'm saying no i'm asking no girl wants to be a hoe they want to be real i don't really i'm not 0.99

00:14:55.760 attacking you i'm asking you this as a question i don't want to be labeled a hoe for what you guys 0.93

00:14:59.920 paint as a hoe well let's peel the layer back do you want to go out and have sex with a bunch of 1.00

00:15:04.400 different men at the same time why would i want to do that okay you want to hear something magical most

00:15:09.280 women don't want to do that most girls don't even want to be hoes yet girls argue and you know debate 1.00

00:15:14.480 to be hoes i don't get it they don't even want to be hoes we don't but it's just kind of it's just 0.99

00:15:18.000 a double standard we don't want you to wow wow sorry there's a well are we going to cry like i mean

00:15:23.760 there's a bunch of double standards that don't benefit i'm just saying so i feel like this hyper

00:15:27.200 independence liberation like movement is because we're just sick of men like you that want to just

00:15:32.960 attack women for being able to do something that you guys are doing just as much i'm not attacking

00:15:36.160 i'm but i'm saying in general like i'm reporting a fact if a woman is promiscuous she is by definition 1.00

00:15:41.680 a hoe okay and you sleeping around i am a homemaker right homemaker you're just an idiot men can't be 1.00

00:15:49.680 hoes okay men okay it's true it's true look at um it's true that have sex a lot of women are successful 0.97

00:15:57.840 in your eyes as men this is the thing it's like this brotherhood thing it's you guys it's used okay

00:16:03.600 okay let's go back to that is what it is actually i want to see if we got this one person to come on

00:16:07.680 our show uh what did her team say i want to see if

00:16:23.680 okay okay and no no we're not going to keep going back to biology actually that's where we're not from

00:16:28.960 why does he keep going back to biology we're not in a science lesson what the because it matters

00:16:35.840 cheyenne she's a perfectly nice lady but it matters it matters 0.93

00:16:42.000 so what would you do if i was going on holiday every other month you'd be single really are we

00:16:49.360 going together you're going by yourself i just feel like i want to go with my man like i want to go

00:16:55.840 with my boyfriend trying to think of a situation where i'd want to i mean i'd want to hang out with

00:17:02.880 girls like but i don't i just feel like i'd rather travel with a guy than not i go on vacations with my

00:17:11.840 family but like he can come you know what i mean oh no you'd be single what would you do if i couldn't

00:17:18.320 cook you'd be single can you cook that's irrelevant no can you cook though i mean can you fight

00:17:27.680 that's exactly let's ask pointless questions how's that pointless question i'm trying to get to know

00:17:31.680 you because that's your job what's my job to make sandwiches did he actually just say my job is to

00:17:37.040 make sandwiches how am i going to fight off the intruders if you don't make sandwiches i need

00:17:40.800 sustenance you're a dick what would you do if i earn more money it would never happen how do you know 0.93

00:17:47.680 that because no girl's going to match my ambition or drive i'm quite an ambitious woman lol that's cute

00:17:54.480 but it would never happen men build the world for real like why why is the goal always about like

00:17:58.560 being on top i knew firstly well missionary is a fantastic position first of all and the other

00:18:04.720 reason why men have to be on top is because that's the only thing women respect there's so many 1.00

00:18:09.360 people that just like a nice quiet humble life here's the thing all women you know what stop saying 1.00

00:18:14.240 all women as well okay now that you said that all women want a guy that's better than them why do you 0.99

00:18:18.800 get annoyed and so frustrated about men that are simps they're giving women that don't deserve attention

00:18:23.040 and validation attention and validation messing up for everybody it's nice when you have men that are

00:18:26.880 attentive to your needs by you being successful yeah but let's be honest we always like the ones that don't

00:18:31.600 like us why is that why is that being the man that she wants in general you're already attentive to

00:18:39.680 her needs what would you do if your family didn't like me too bad i've made you know mistakes in islamic 0.97

00:18:45.040 culture but my parents trust my judgment they would accept it what would you do if i respect that answer

00:18:51.040 i feel like your parents can't can only influence you so much but it's kind of like if you pick someone

00:18:57.120 you picked them a lot of male friends a girl that has a lot of guy friends is a problem that's a

00:19:02.800 liability male friends big red flag if a girl has a bunch of male friends and she's not willing to

00:19:07.920 give that up to be with you for the streets women value a man that has social proof men don't care

00:19:13.360 about a woman's social proof when you have friends it's a liability when i have friends it's social proof 1.00

00:19:17.920 it makes me more attractive it makes you less attractive what would you do if your friends were

00:19:21.840 liking my pictures i don't associate with men that can't attract women all my friends are good with

00:19:26.240 women there's a bunch of reasons for this but you can't hang out with simps you can't have friends 0.99

00:19:30.080 that are thirsty for women yeah sims mess everything up but it makes it better for guys like us man we

00:19:34.560 just come in and it ain't what it is we clean up anytime a woman is the focal of a man's life it's a 1.00

00:19:40.560 problem 100 and the only way a man can give a woman the best life is when she's not the focus

00:19:47.200 i don't think so well that's easy for you to say as a woman what would you do if i wanted to start an 1.00

00:19:53.120 only fans you're serious yeah you'd be single why would i be single because i'm not gonna have

00:20:00.720 my girl out there on the internet showing her butthole for 3.99 your girl wants to do only fans 1.00

00:20:06.240 bro you ain't got a girl you got a 304 to the street she shall return i'm telling you or else 0.98

00:20:10.640 your life is gonna suck but what if i just wanted to make my own money can't do it uh okay men go to

00:20:16.400 mcdonald's and get a job stop it stop it go go get a job go get a job i'm so tired of this narrative

00:20:24.160 this narrative oh as a woman i had no choice i was a single mother what about the single

00:20:29.280 fathers they don't do this it's like oh i was a single father so i dealt drugs

00:20:36.480 my assistant or some something else of your assistant an actual paid assistant yeah paid by

00:20:41.840 pills you're getting everything else you get the lifestyle you're living for free traveling the

00:20:46.000 world whatever it may be you get the title of my last name it's a w for you all the way you get seen

00:20:50.960 in public with me his ego is through the roof i will say you can tell andrew tate just has a lot

00:21:02.400 more like game than my like you can just tell how do you think you've done on a date this was supposed

00:21:09.680 to be a date yes oh would you like me to be more submissive oh my god hey would that would that 0.98

00:21:14.880 make you feel better it would but it's okay it was a debate it's fine really so next time if if you

00:21:19.520 want to date a debate date so if a woman wants to date you she just has to come being a pick me i mean 1.00

00:21:25.360 giving a man what he wants there's nothing wrong with that no of course not they're expecting a pick

00:21:29.040 meme well that's like pretty much it yeah um i liked the video i thought that was funny um

00:21:39.680 let's see yeah

00:21:51.600 i'm just reading the chat damn

00:21:55.600 she's for the streets future um

00:22:01.760 well that's my reaction for now guys i think we're gonna have a show tonight we've had

00:22:06.560 we're supposed to be out of town i don't know we'll see we'll see we might have a show tonight

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JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022

How High Value Men Treats Women

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