How Modern Women DESTROY Men's LIFE
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In this episode, we discuss child custody, child support and child support in the UK. We have a special guest on the show this week, a man who has been in the business for a long time and has been involved in the child custody game for a good portion of his adult life. He is a hedge fund manager, a lawyer, a father, a husband, a partner, a friend, a business man, an entrepreneur, a human rights activist, a philanthropist, an advocate, an author, an activist, and a lawyer.
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living for the child if i make four times more than um the wife yeah now you can't tell me
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that the kid's not gonna have a better life at my house exactly that's what but then i have to pay
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for nah nah and then and then she's wearing gucci blood when she's making h&m money don't make sense
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they think that inherently a woman will be able to take care of the child better but if i'm making
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more money that puts me in a position you're gonna have to tilt the mic into yeah like sorry man
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that puts me in a position where i can then take care of that child better so if in that situation
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if i'm in that situation i should be given custody but it depends on time it depends on time though
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and there are lots of cases like usher he had more money than and tamika and he had the children the
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most of the time that there are instances where when the man is earning more and they do want
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the child because they are like i am the better parent no there's exceptions to the rule precisely
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yes but there are also lots of fathers who are working a lot and are like i don't have the time
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to rear this child i may have the financial capacity and i agree that most hedge fund managers
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say in your career your successful hedge fund managers would they want to look after a child
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full-time if they were if they were separated from their wife they're getting i need to be honest
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yeah that's what i'm saying the child so it's not going to be the you you'd be like let's actually fund
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the child's lifestyle so do you know what's crazy i have men in my dms like guys with check marks
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with money status and influence that say they have problems with child custody that's what they send
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me their stories and these are these are men with money so what does that mean for the average guy i
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literally just said to you i have family members who are currently in this situation with their baby
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mothers now two two kids apiece literally because they have moved on are not able to see their kids
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but they're not the ones i'm talking about i'm literally talking about the ones who if the person has
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gone and and filed for child support okay in this country anyway the money that you're going to get
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is really it's not actually worth it it's not like in america it's very different you're not going to
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be able to fund a lavish lifestyle on what you're going to be awarded because it's so calculated it's
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not that great i'm saying you should get anything why are you entitled to that it's just better to have
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an amicable a re like reasoning mediation somebody else comes in and you split it and it's it's
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it's custody it's 50 50 custody i think that is the best but you left though he came in but you
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left though do you know what i mean if you used to work at nando's and you left you ain't getting
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free chicken no more like we're not talking about alimony we're talking about child support the money
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should be going to feed and close but you left though if he chooses to he should get the choice if
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you if you get left as a dude okay that's where we disagree like like he should get the choice he
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shouldn't have a gun to his head saying oh she left you now you have to pay for the kid but you
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should want to this your it's your yeah yeah you're right he should want he probably does want to but
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i'm saying the government should not make him because if the woman's if the woman's acting if
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the woman's acting up and like like not letting him see the kid or something he should be able to
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take away the money that's yeah he should be able to but it's not right now i think that is fair
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but it's not it's just like if your child it should be it's just like it's just like if a woman gets
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pregnant and you say they're cool i don't want to be a dad and she goes i will too bad and she keeps
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to you anyway but they're still gonna run you down for bread do you know i mean and then on the flip
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side if you say yo like i want a child and she says i don't but child's gone then you have to live
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with the consequences either way we ain't got no saying nothing so it's one of them ones where if you
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leave i don't see why i should have to give you any money i would want to but i shouldn't have to
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because you would have got money if you didn't leave so in this same scenario where we don't
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have a say on anything and i'm saying well you should just wear a a condom i do you should have
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picked better i do wouldn't that be the same for the woman when she's get cheated on when you're like
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if you're getting cheated on you should take responsibility for that because you pick back
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i'm saying there should not he should not have to pay that's what i'm saying should he not have
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picked better he should have okay yeah like he should have picked better but my whole point is
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that when a man picks wrong there's a consequence when a woman picks wrong she takes half well you're
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not getting half if you've just had a child for somebody it's not okay okay even if it's a quarter
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and a divorce it really does depend on i know i know but that's not the the number isn't the point
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you understand the point i'm making like the point is that when a woman makes a bad decision there's no
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consequence when the man makes a bad decision there is well that that's where we differ i guess
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because there is a consequence it even depends on the society though because um what you're saying
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is the woman would take half right if you go to arab countries that's not the issue that's not the
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case i know but we're not in there but this is what girls do clearly but i'm saying clearly in the
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context of this conversation we're talking about the west yeah of course yeah i'm just telling you
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like there are a few cases that it does not get implemented that way yes but it's the exception it's not
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the rule yeah of course and you can see marriages last longer than yeah 100 do you know what i mean
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and also in those cultures and that like man can have multiple wires man could do all these things
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and a woman's not necessarily going to leave you just because of that because she understands that
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the fact she can but most of the time they don't because they understand the importance of the family
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okay this is where we're headed you just say women should be able to vote yes yeah i said i'll
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take one for the team give the right back to vote i said give the right back no no voting no being
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able to just take their driver's licenses exactly i know i hate driving i don't know why we bought
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you know what i'm saying everything else you can keep i'm just saying take them pink cards
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right handmaidens tell i think she's trying to get us there to the handmaid's tell no i'm just
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trying to look at look at okay hear me out hear me out in the 50s if women just waited it out okay
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before we didn't have to work we got to be housewives and now everything's automated what we're tripping
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if we just waited 20 years the washer we have a washer and dryer we have room buzz we have dry cleaning
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like if we just waited it out we would all be chilling it's funny though you we would all be
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chilling but where's ambition like i think if a woman wants to have to be that housewife yeah
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and it's just living and they're just cooking cleaning to let it cool that's cool she's proud
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there are you're gonna find a husband there are men that are cool with that but then there are
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other women who have ambitions who don't we're sentient we're not literally doormats and we're
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not the same and some people want to have careers and they want to invent things and they want to
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do other stuff yeah and there are men i mean look at this show like i'm very creative and driven but
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i mean it's a lot easier when you don't have the pressure of like easier if that's where your mentor
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is but there are lots of people who it's not that they don't want to be they don't want to be cooking
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and cleaning well i mean i'm saying like as a housewife i mean you could doesn't mean you don't
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have hobbies and like other stuff you can do no they may want to actually like change the world
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kids they tend to stay at home a lot of times they don't tend to go back to work i think there's
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a reason for that yeah yeah yeah i don't i don't actually want to return and also when they talk
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about cooking and cleaning and that when you when you go into it it's like i mean i think the elections
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would go yeah but you're talking about cooking and cleaning but listen if your husband's got
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money you ain't even got a clean you can get a clean on it it's not that deep you can get a
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clean on that and most housewives probably have hobbies like they go to the gym they get to go
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out shopping they get to do so many different things like philanthropy like they have organizations
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that they run they get involved in the community talking about like side stuff i'm talking about
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people who have full-on ideas they want to invent stuff they're scientists they are changing the world
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like those women are minorities the majority the majority of women don't invent things
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the majority of humans don't do much yeah but the people who do invent it tends to be men yeah
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that's what i mean they should be people who do invent it tends to be men don't don't divorce your
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husband and keep your kids out of prison you know them ones that's you're saving the world
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it's true though you might stop someone from getting shanked just because you didn't leave your husband
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like you never know could happen okay i'm gonna read some super i'm gonna read some i'm gonna read
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some super chats okay so um manny f is a mother allowed to exit motherhood oh if a mother is allowed
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to exit exit motherhood should a father be allowed to exit father fatherhood and not have to pay child
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support um stephen o'brien if he leaves it's different but if it's her yeah um rosalinda lozano
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five dollar super chat pp um a hundred hundred dollars super chat thank you so much
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guys um get a camera for ish um for um for the algo chick chick that is yapping needs guidance not
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you pearl billy boy um that man the man should want to take care of his child meanwhile girls should have
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the choice um christopher surdoch the woman's moral bankruptcy is astounding astonishing or rather
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astonishingly astonishingly common these days bm mackle show her kevin and jordan asap will for
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willfully ignorant um ties purpose life coaching it is not it's not a consequence for a woman to bring
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up a child if she chooses to ignore five precautions before choosing to have a child remember bringing a
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child up and raising a child isn't the same thing brandon shafer um five dollar super chat red devil
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studio dave chappelle if you get to kill it i get to abandon it your body your choice my money my rules
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garth went there um stay-at-home moms are directly responsible for the success of a family
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women often get lost in the lost in the fantasies of tv life and social media 20-year married chick in
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the corner you're lost get you you got a mind of a diamond um the stephen pierre jerome what planet is
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this world living on she uh she's allergic to facts accountability statistics staying on topic and
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probably good men she's married i wonder what the hell her husband's going through shadow monk returns
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men all this stuff can be avoided if you just go mig tau mig tau equals no marriage no relationship no
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cohabitation no children gentlemen wake up um ring ringside with lcd men are the majority majority held
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accountable women make choices men don't even have shardy in the corner keeps moving the goal post with the
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most disingenuous points from negative situations between men and women having a child sentience to
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the masculine woman in the corner if dating app stats show that 80 of women choose the top 20 of
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men ask this question if only the top 20 are smashing and potentially reproducing can you apply
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your logic about most men when most men don't smash michael how is raising a child a consequence if
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that's what she wanted that way she had the way she had to lie to make her point is crazy honest
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citizen domestic violence is meant to create a false perception need for feminism so girls are
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eternal victims and men are eternal offenders no one worries about the murder rate of men laws are
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never a hundred never 100 stop stop crime christopher surdak pearl thank you for presenting us to a
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prime example of a card carrying misandrist this is example of why marriage is dead still low-key 21
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jesus christ the lovely lady on the right can hit the hill in the head with a frying pan of facts and
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still not get a no accountability whatsoever damn thomas carter here is a fact women in the corner
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ignores facts and states opinions the the less leon son 100 the slogan for the child is the best the
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slogan best for the child is from hitler um fwic tv f fashion shout out to pearl for standing up for the
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brothers um the vm maccles the emoji um leah the leon son 100 the black community are stagnant because of the
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the abortion the abortion rate is super high in every country so stop saying women don't run to
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abortion billy boy so men are stronger thus harsher punishment is a trans woman a woman or say if i'm
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a woman dude does the standard change david david um race um my man likes rants you know big up
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surprised to see you on this side of youtube united are in the mud still still you know them ones there
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yeah amen dana what what what kind of societal construct would you like your daughter slash and
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son to live in um jc she doesn't understand that child support was put in place in in the child's
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interest child support is in the court's interest not the child that's bs weldon coven do the ladies
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arguing understand we're in the chat and where where we in the chat and the panel are coming from
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do they understand how one-sided the court system is is alexander alexander ryan beware conflating
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child support with alimony child support is to help with daycare health insurance clothing and food
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silent lamont using the child as a proxy or pawn is sinister the leon son 100 walmart is always hiring
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christopher surdak it's no longer child support now it's hostage taking and women's early retirement
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to in retaliation funding arthur jr the lady in the back is killing me she doesn't understand
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exceptions um okay i think i did these all let me just refresh it and make sure there's no more
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i said hostage you know yeah some of those are a bit mad no it's true though that the hostage team
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might have to link you at the bus stop for five minutes and um okay stop stop stop sean sean spencer
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um two dollar super chat jonathan comp what about sending child support to a card that is able to
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show exactly what the money was spent on to your caseworker could help with the thieving steve o
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brian women bloated the workforce now labor uh now labor compared to what you're paid is extremely low
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for voting too they vote 70 democrats i'm saying i'll take one for the team john smith um can we um
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can we make big shirley watch hours of kevin samuels clockwork orange style so she can develop some sense
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um shadow monk returns it's illogical for any man to get married period many f of the mother okay that's
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the oh this is a good question if the mother is allowed to exit motherhood should a father be
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allowed to exit fatherhood yes or no who said that mothers are allowed to exit mother so they can have
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an abortion oh you in that regard so if uh there's an unplanned pregnancy should a man be able to
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financially opt out and say like sign off his rights and have no consequences you say no okay uh if the
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if the man has no saying whether the child is born or not then yes he should be able to
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opt out okay i believe both of them take the choice before having sex so yeah yeah i mean he can opt out
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of fatherhood he he should be able to opt out of fatherhood okay so you'd say yes absolutely yes
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absolutely you should be able to opt out 100 so do you think then that a man should have a say if a woman
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has an abortion or not no i think once it's got to that stage closer and you've had unprotected sex
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with the person i think that act and it turns into uh an embryo you're you're beholden it's happening
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if she says it's happening it's happening the thing is the thing is i actually i'm not someone who's
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necessarily for abortion but the point is you decided to have sex with a man who didn't want to have
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children and so now that you're forcing him to have children you can't then complain if he doesn't
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want to pay for it is is the point yeah she does she those are two different things to me but the
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thing is i'm not wanting it to happen i think it should be law that he does pay oh god no
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what i don't think it should be do you not think that's a little bit of a double standard that is
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madness the child is here no but it wasn't though but not not if she got no no but she's but so i
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would i'm not really like pro-life in that way i think you have your choices but if she has decided
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i'm not going to have an abortion and the child comes about i think two parents are then responsible
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for raising the child that's not financially it's your body your choice yeah but if i don't have a
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choice in that matter like my i'm like literally your choice was no no no i don't have a choice
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let's not let's stop playing this game no no let's not playing this game i don't have a choice i do not
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want that kid i chose to have sex with you i didn't choose to have an offspring and this is what happened
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you chose to have an offspring yeah why are you forcing me to have to pay for a kid that i do not
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want it's not right the same way i'm not going to tell you get rid of that baby and get out your body
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or i can't force you to get rid of that baby you shouldn't be able to force me to have to pay for a
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child that i do not want it's not right plain or simple this is very disingenuous to say that
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because you know they don't you know they don't because women can have sex without having children
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and that we see that's happening rampantly but yet men don't apparently have that same right but it's
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happened so you had said that's the point that's the point it's happened you paid russian roulette with
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it so i i shouldn't necessarily be forced to pay for it i think i think once the child comes about you have to
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pay but i think that would make sense if you made it equal so if a woman gets to opt like like she
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was saying like if a woman gets the option to opt out of motherhood shouldn't a man have the option
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to opt out of fatherhood why does only a woman get that say because the child is here now so so because
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of the woman's choice okay so the woman has the choice yes and she's gone through with it and the
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child is like six choices i forgot about adoption okay so the child is now here yeah and the man has
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decided i don't want to be a parent right so then should the state pay for that child to the no the
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woman should because she made the choice to have it when she could have had an abortion but then
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earlier on you guys went through all of the stats of the single parent household right how that actually
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leads to the detriment of the child yes if it was so the child should be punished for the woman
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and the man's choices she'd still be in a single parent if it was up to me it would be equal abortion
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wouldn't be legal and the man well i don't child support wouldn't be a thing but i think it should
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be equal if i think you can say to a woman you should have an abortion and then it takes place is
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what you're saying no no i'm saying i'm saying i don't believe in abortion i if it was up to me i
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wouldn't have it but since it's legal i mean i think like that's not going to change anytime soon
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it's already legal i'm saying it should be equal so a man should be able to financially opt out of a
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child if if a woman can opt out of being a mother okay it's to make it equal okay so that and you're
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saying that solely then if it's the woman that's saying i'm gonna have the child all of the financial
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responsibility should just go on her yes and as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock
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