JustPearlyThings - How Modern Women DESTROY Men's LIFE

00:00:00.000 living for the child if i make four times more than um the wife yeah now you can't tell me

00:00:05.200 that the kid's not gonna have a better life at my house exactly that's what but then i have to pay

00:00:08.960 for nah nah and then and then she's wearing gucci blood when she's making h&m money don't make sense

00:00:15.360 they think that inherently a woman will be able to take care of the child better but if i'm making 0.99

00:00:18.400 more money that puts me in a position you're gonna have to tilt the mic into yeah like sorry man

00:00:23.200 that puts me in a position where i can then take care of that child better so if in that situation

00:00:28.720 if i'm in that situation i should be given custody but it depends on time it depends on time though

00:00:33.120 and there are lots of cases like usher he had more money than and tamika and he had the children the

00:00:39.440 most of the time that there are instances where when the man is earning more and they do want

00:00:44.960 the child because they are like i am the better parent no there's exceptions to the rule precisely

00:00:50.720 yes but there are also lots of fathers who are working a lot and are like i don't have the time

00:00:57.760 to rear this child i may have the financial capacity and i agree that most hedge fund managers

00:01:03.040 say in your career your successful hedge fund managers would they want to look after a child

00:01:07.120 full-time if they were if they were separated from their wife they're getting i need to be honest

00:01:11.440 yeah that's what i'm saying the child so it's not going to be the you you'd be like let's actually fund

00:01:16.960 the child's lifestyle so do you know what's crazy i have men in my dms like guys with check marks

00:01:23.200 with money status and influence that say they have problems with child custody that's what they send

00:01:28.640 me their stories and these are these are men with money so what does that mean for the average guy i

00:01:33.840 literally just said to you i have family members who are currently in this situation with their baby

00:01:38.560 mothers now two two kids apiece literally because they have moved on are not able to see their kids

00:01:44.560 but they're not the ones i'm talking about i'm literally talking about the ones who if the person has

00:01:50.000 gone and and filed for child support okay in this country anyway the money that you're going to get

00:01:55.920 is really it's not actually worth it it's not like in america it's very different you're not going to

00:02:01.280 be able to fund a lavish lifestyle on what you're going to be awarded because it's so calculated it's

00:02:07.120 not that great i'm saying you should get anything why are you entitled to that it's just better to have

00:02:12.160 an amicable a re like reasoning mediation somebody else comes in and you split it and it's it's

00:02:20.400 it's custody it's 50 50 custody i think that is the best but you left though he came in but you

00:02:25.600 left though do you know what i mean if you used to work at nando's and you left you ain't getting

00:02:28.560 free chicken no more like we're not talking about alimony we're talking about child support the money

00:02:34.640 should be going to feed and close but you left though if he chooses to he should get the choice if

00:02:42.560 you if you get left as a dude okay that's where we disagree like like he should get the choice he

00:02:47.040 shouldn't have a gun to his head saying oh she left you now you have to pay for the kid but you

00:02:50.960 should want to this your it's your yeah yeah you're right he should want he probably does want to but

00:02:55.600 i'm saying the government should not make him because if the woman's if the woman's acting if 0.57

00:03:00.320 the woman's acting up and like like not letting him see the kid or something he should be able to 1.00

00:03:04.480 take away the money that's yeah he should be able to but it's not right now i think that is fair

00:03:09.600 but it's not it's just like if your child it should be it's just like it's just like if a woman gets 1.00

00:03:13.920 pregnant and you say they're cool i don't want to be a dad and she goes i will too bad and she keeps 0.98

00:03:18.880 to you anyway but they're still gonna run you down for bread do you know i mean and then on the flip

00:03:22.800 side if you say yo like i want a child and she says i don't but child's gone then you have to live

00:03:27.840 with the consequences either way we ain't got no saying nothing so it's one of them ones where if you

00:03:33.120 leave i don't see why i should have to give you any money i would want to but i shouldn't have to

00:03:38.400 because you would have got money if you didn't leave so in this same scenario where we don't

00:03:42.320 have a say on anything and i'm saying well you should just wear a a condom i do you should have 0.66

00:03:46.880 picked better i do wouldn't that be the same for the woman when she's get cheated on when you're like 1.00

00:03:51.840 if you're getting cheated on you should take responsibility for that because you pick back

00:03:59.760 i'm saying there should not he should not have to pay that's what i'm saying should he not have

00:04:05.040 picked better he should have okay yeah like he should have picked better but my whole point is

00:04:10.080 that when a man picks wrong there's a consequence when a woman picks wrong she takes half well you're 1.00

00:04:15.760 not getting half if you've just had a child for somebody it's not okay okay even if it's a quarter

00:04:21.760 and a divorce it really does depend on i know i know but that's not the the number isn't the point

00:04:28.240 you understand the point i'm making like the point is that when a woman makes a bad decision there's no

00:04:32.320 consequence when the man makes a bad decision there is well that that's where we differ i guess

00:04:36.640 because there is a consequence it even depends on the society though because um what you're saying

00:04:41.440 is the woman would take half right if you go to arab countries that's not the issue that's not the 1.00

00:04:45.280 case i know but we're not in there but this is what girls do clearly but i'm saying clearly in the 0.84

00:04:49.280 context of this conversation we're talking about the west yeah of course yeah i'm just telling you

00:04:53.040 like there are a few cases that it does not get implemented that way yes but it's the exception it's not

00:04:58.080 the rule yeah of course and you can see marriages last longer than yeah 100 do you know what i mean

00:05:03.360 and also in those cultures and that like man can have multiple wires man could do all these things

00:05:08.400 and a woman's not necessarily going to leave you just because of that because she understands that

00:05:12.160 the fact she can but most of the time they don't because they understand the importance of the family

00:05:18.640 i'll take one for the team

00:05:19.760 okay this is where we're headed you just say women should be able to vote yes yeah i said i'll 0.84

00:05:28.480 take one for the team give the right back to vote i said give the right back no no voting no being

00:05:34.560 able to just take their driver's licenses exactly i know i hate driving i don't know why we bought

00:05:41.680 you know what i'm saying everything else you can keep i'm just saying take them pink cards

00:05:45.440 right handmaidens tell i think she's trying to get us there to the handmaid's tell no i'm just

00:05:51.600 trying to look at look at okay hear me out hear me out in the 50s if women just waited it out okay 1.00

00:05:57.280 before we didn't have to work we got to be housewives and now everything's automated what we're tripping

00:06:03.520 if we just waited 20 years the washer we have a washer and dryer we have room buzz we have dry cleaning

00:06:10.000 like if we just waited it out we would all be chilling it's funny though you we would all be

00:06:15.440 chilling but where's ambition like i think if a woman wants to have to be that housewife yeah 1.00

00:06:22.240 and it's just living and they're just cooking cleaning to let it cool that's cool she's proud 0.54

00:06:32.000 there are you're gonna find a husband there are men that are cool with that but then there are

00:06:36.160 other women who have ambitions who don't we're sentient we're not literally doormats and we're 1.00

00:06:44.560 not the same and some people want to have careers and they want to invent things and they want to

00:06:49.120 do other stuff yeah and there are men i mean look at this show like i'm very creative and driven but

00:06:55.280 i mean it's a lot easier when you don't have the pressure of like easier if that's where your mentor

00:07:00.080 is but there are lots of people who it's not that they don't want to be they don't want to be cooking

00:07:04.480 and cleaning well i mean i'm saying like as a housewife i mean you could doesn't mean you don't

00:07:08.880 have hobbies and like other stuff you can do no they may want to actually like change the world

00:07:15.520 kids they tend to stay at home a lot of times they don't tend to go back to work i think there's

00:07:19.280 a reason for that yeah yeah yeah i don't i don't actually want to return and also when they talk

00:07:23.680 about cooking and cleaning and that when you when you go into it it's like i mean i think the elections

00:07:30.160 would go yeah but you're talking about cooking and cleaning but listen if your husband's got

00:07:33.440 money you ain't even got a clean you can get a clean on it it's not that deep you can get a

00:07:38.240 clean on that and most housewives probably have hobbies like they go to the gym they get to go 1.00

00:07:42.960 out shopping they get to do so many different things like philanthropy like they have organizations

00:07:48.320 that they run they get involved in the community talking about like side stuff i'm talking about

00:07:52.320 people who have full-on ideas they want to invent stuff they're scientists they are changing the world

00:07:58.560 like those women are minorities the majority the majority of women don't invent things 1.00

00:08:05.200 the majority of humans don't do much yeah but the people who do invent it tends to be men yeah

00:08:10.560 that's what i mean they should be people who do invent it tends to be men don't don't divorce your

00:08:15.840 husband and keep your kids out of prison you know them ones that's you're saving the world 1.00

00:08:21.040 it's true though you might stop someone from getting shanked just because you didn't leave your husband

00:08:25.040 like you never know could happen okay i'm gonna read some super i'm gonna read some i'm gonna read

00:08:29.040 some super chats okay so um manny f is a mother allowed to exit motherhood oh if a mother is allowed 0.75

00:08:35.920 to exit exit motherhood should a father be allowed to exit father fatherhood and not have to pay child

00:08:40.800 support um stephen o'brien if he leaves it's different but if it's her yeah um rosalinda lozano

00:08:48.400 five dollar super chat pp um a hundred hundred dollars super chat thank you so much

00:08:57.520 guys um get a camera for ish um for um for the algo chick chick that is yapping needs guidance not 1.00

00:09:06.720 you pearl billy boy um that man the man should want to take care of his child meanwhile girls should have 1.00

00:09:13.520 the choice um christopher surdoch the woman's moral bankruptcy is astounding astonishing or rather

00:09:20.400 astonishingly astonishingly common these days bm mackle show her kevin and jordan asap will for

00:09:26.560 willfully ignorant um ties purpose life coaching it is not it's not a consequence for a woman to bring 1.00

00:09:31.920 up a child if she chooses to ignore five precautions before choosing to have a child remember bringing a 0.96

00:09:37.840 child up and raising a child isn't the same thing brandon shafer um five dollar super chat red devil 0.82

00:09:43.200 studio dave chappelle if you get to kill it i get to abandon it your body your choice my money my rules 0.62

00:09:49.840 garth went there um stay-at-home moms are directly responsible for the success of a family 1.00

00:09:54.480 women often get lost in the lost in the fantasies of tv life and social media 20-year married chick in 1.00

00:10:00.080 the corner you're lost get you you got a mind of a diamond um the stephen pierre jerome what planet is

00:10:08.640 this world living on she uh she's allergic to facts accountability statistics staying on topic and

00:10:13.280 probably good men she's married i wonder what the hell her husband's going through shadow monk returns

00:10:18.080 men all this stuff can be avoided if you just go mig tau mig tau equals no marriage no relationship no

00:10:22.720 cohabitation no children gentlemen wake up um ring ringside with lcd men are the majority majority held

00:10:29.840 accountable women make choices men don't even have shardy in the corner keeps moving the goal post with the 1.00

00:10:34.800 most disingenuous points from negative situations between men and women having a child sentience to

00:10:40.000 the masculine woman in the corner if dating app stats show that 80 of women choose the top 20 of

00:10:44.480 men ask this question if only the top 20 are smashing and potentially reproducing can you apply

00:10:50.560 your logic about most men when most men don't smash michael how is raising a child a consequence if

00:10:56.480 that's what she wanted that way she had the way she had to lie to make her point is crazy honest 0.92

00:11:01.760 citizen domestic violence is meant to create a false perception need for feminism so girls are 1.00

00:11:06.480 eternal victims and men are eternal offenders no one worries about the murder rate of men laws are

00:11:11.280 never a hundred never 100 stop stop crime christopher surdak pearl thank you for presenting us to a

00:11:17.840 prime example of a card carrying misandrist this is example of why marriage is dead still low-key 21

00:11:22.960 jesus christ the lovely lady on the right can hit the hill in the head with a frying pan of facts and 1.00

00:11:27.920 still not get a no accountability whatsoever damn thomas carter here is a fact women in the corner 1.00

00:11:32.800 ignores facts and states opinions the the less leon son 100 the slogan for the child is the best the 0.89

00:11:40.640 slogan best for the child is from hitler um fwic tv f fashion shout out to pearl for standing up for the

00:11:48.400 brothers um the vm maccles the emoji um leah the leon son 100 the black community are stagnant because of the 0.91

00:11:56.960 the abortion the abortion rate is super high in every country so stop saying women don't run to 1.00

00:12:01.600 abortion billy boy so men are stronger thus harsher punishment is a trans woman a woman or say if i'm 0.57

00:12:07.360 a woman dude does the standard change david david um race um my man likes rants you know big up 1.00

00:12:14.880 surprised to see you on this side of youtube united are in the mud still still you know them ones there

00:12:22.400 yeah amen dana what what what kind of societal construct would you like your daughter slash and 1.00

00:12:28.240 son to live in um jc she doesn't understand that child support was put in place in in the child's

00:12:35.120 interest child support is in the court's interest not the child that's bs weldon coven do the ladies 0.67

00:12:40.880 arguing understand we're in the chat and where where we in the chat and the panel are coming from

00:12:45.920 do they understand how one-sided the court system is is alexander alexander ryan beware conflating

00:12:53.040 child support with alimony child support is to help with daycare health insurance clothing and food

00:12:58.480 silent lamont using the child as a proxy or pawn is sinister the leon son 100 walmart is always hiring

00:13:06.480 christopher surdak it's no longer child support now it's hostage taking and women's early retirement

00:13:11.760 to in retaliation funding arthur jr the lady in the back is killing me she doesn't understand 0.96

00:13:16.320 exceptions um okay i think i did these all let me just refresh it and make sure there's no more

00:13:21.600 i said hostage you know yeah some of those are a bit mad no it's true though that the hostage team

00:13:26.960 might have to link you at the bus stop for five minutes and um okay stop stop stop sean sean spencer

00:13:33.920 um two dollar super chat jonathan comp what about sending child support to a card that is able to

00:13:38.800 show exactly what the money was spent on to your caseworker could help with the thieving steve o

00:13:43.440 brian women bloated the workforce now labor uh now labor compared to what you're paid is extremely low 1.00

00:13:49.040 for voting too they vote 70 democrats i'm saying i'll take one for the team john smith um can we um

00:13:55.440 can we make big shirley watch hours of kevin samuels clockwork orange style so she can develop some sense 0.95

00:14:00.720 um shadow monk returns it's illogical for any man to get married period many f of the mother okay that's 0.98

00:14:05.760 the oh this is a good question if the mother is allowed to exit motherhood should a father be

00:14:09.840 allowed to exit fatherhood yes or no who said that mothers are allowed to exit mother so they can have

00:14:18.160 an abortion oh you in that regard so if uh there's an unplanned pregnancy should a man be able to

00:14:24.480 financially opt out and say like sign off his rights and have no consequences you say no okay uh if the

00:14:32.560 if the man has no saying whether the child is born or not then yes he should be able to

00:14:36.480 opt out okay i believe both of them take the choice before having sex so yeah yeah i mean he can opt out

00:14:43.760 of fatherhood he he should be able to opt out of fatherhood okay so you'd say yes absolutely yes

00:14:50.960 absolutely you should be able to opt out 100 so do you think then that a man should have a say if a woman

00:14:57.200 has an abortion or not no i think once it's got to that stage closer and you've had unprotected sex

00:15:05.200 with the person i think that act and it turns into uh an embryo you're you're beholden it's happening

00:15:13.360 if she says it's happening it's happening the thing is the thing is i actually i'm not someone who's

00:15:18.320 necessarily for abortion but the point is you decided to have sex with a man who didn't want to have 0.77

00:15:24.480 children and so now that you're forcing him to have children you can't then complain if he doesn't 0.98

00:15:29.440 want to pay for it is is the point yeah she does she those are two different things to me but the

00:15:34.880 thing is i'm not wanting it to happen i think it should be law that he does pay oh god no

00:15:42.320 what i don't think it should be do you not think that's a little bit of a double standard that is

00:15:46.960 madness the child is here no but it wasn't though but not not if she got no no but she's but so i

00:15:54.400 would i'm not really like pro-life in that way i think you have your choices but if she has decided

00:16:00.800 i'm not going to have an abortion and the child comes about i think two parents are then responsible

00:16:07.840 for raising the child that's not financially it's your body your choice yeah but if i don't have a

00:16:14.320 choice in that matter like my i'm like literally your choice was no no no i don't have a choice

00:16:18.960 let's not let's stop playing this game no no let's not playing this game i don't have a choice i do not

00:16:24.080 want that kid i chose to have sex with you i didn't choose to have an offspring and this is what happened 0.99

00:16:27.520 you chose to have an offspring yeah why are you forcing me to have to pay for a kid that i do not 1.00

00:16:32.160 want it's not right the same way i'm not going to tell you get rid of that baby and get out your body 0.95

00:16:36.800 or i can't force you to get rid of that baby you shouldn't be able to force me to have to pay for a 1.00

00:16:41.120 child that i do not want it's not right plain or simple this is very disingenuous to say that 0.82

00:16:46.560 because you know they don't you know they don't because women can have sex without having children 1.00

00:16:51.840 and that we see that's happening rampantly but yet men don't apparently have that same right but it's

00:16:59.360 happened so you had said that's the point that's the point it's happened you paid russian roulette with

00:17:03.920 it so i i shouldn't necessarily be forced to pay for it i think i think once the child comes about you have to

00:17:10.480 pay but i think that would make sense if you made it equal so if a woman gets to opt like like she 1.00

00:17:17.280 was saying like if a woman gets the option to opt out of motherhood shouldn't a man have the option

00:17:22.000 to opt out of fatherhood why does only a woman get that say because the child is here now so so because 1.00

00:17:28.480 of the woman's choice okay so the woman has the choice yes and she's gone through with it and the 0.86

00:17:33.520 child is like six choices i forgot about adoption okay so the child is now here yeah and the man has

00:17:42.720 decided i don't want to be a parent right so then should the state pay for that child to the no the

00:17:49.440 woman should because she made the choice to have it when she could have had an abortion but then 1.00

00:17:53.760 earlier on you guys went through all of the stats of the single parent household right how that actually

00:17:59.040 leads to the detriment of the child yes if it was so the child should be punished for the woman 1.00

00:18:04.480 and the man's choices she'd still be in a single parent if it was up to me it would be equal abortion 1.00

00:18:08.720 wouldn't be legal and the man well i don't child support wouldn't be a thing but i think it should

00:18:13.680 be equal if i think you can say to a woman you should have an abortion and then it takes place is

00:18:18.880 what you're saying no no i'm saying i'm saying i don't believe in abortion i if it was up to me i

00:18:23.120 wouldn't have it but since it's legal i mean i think like that's not going to change anytime soon

00:18:28.160 it's already legal i'm saying it should be equal so a man should be able to financially opt out of a

00:18:33.040 child if if a woman can opt out of being a mother okay it's to make it equal okay so that and you're

00:18:42.720 saying that solely then if it's the woman that's saying i'm gonna have the child all of the financial

00:18:48.480 responsibility should just go on her yes and as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022

How Modern Women DESTROY Men's LIFE

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