How Much Does Brittany Renner Get In Child Support
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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and co-parent advocate, to talk about what it's like being a single mom, divorce, and custody issues. We talk about the process of divorce and how it affects us and how we've dealt with it so far.
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adding me to that um when i am in a group setting especially like that that type of panel i'm an
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active listener so when somebody's talking you be quiet you don't talk so i think that's why for me
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when people are going around and there's three people that have made a point whatever i had to
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say i was like i kind of didn't get to say it because again i believe in just listening and
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let people letting people talk and then when it's my turn to talk i'll talk so i didn't have a lot
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of times where it was my turn to talk yeah and when i did i thought i kind of had to like hey
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actually you know so yeah it wasn't like like i and again i liked a lot of the stuff that we talked
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about you know yeah i think if i had to do it again but something tells me you know there may be
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another one in the future yeah do you want to get married
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and are you okay would you be okay with a long-term relationship without marriage
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yes i've actually thought about this because i would i don't even think it's really the paper
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that i want i think it's just the commitment and like i would love i think i like the idea of
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a wedding more than we have to go sign this and then when we divorce the courts are in our business
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because of like what i'm going through with the child support custody stuff um getting out of that
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contract is going to be hard right um so yeah i would be i would want like still i want to ring
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still want a wedding but i wouldn't have to i don't think we would have to do it in front of the
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courts yeah it would just be a commitment to each other and i've like i said i've actually thought
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about that because i think i was watching one of your videos where a lot of women just want the
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celebration the wedding and they and they don't actually care to get married um so yeah i would
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be open to that would you be okay with like because i always say i would be cool with just i want to
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say a courthouse wedding okay but you know i then i'm like you know if he doesn't want to do the
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contract that's fine but yeah i was thinking like just like a small thing with like my parents and my
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immediate family like i i think that sounds nicer than like this big like who needs 300 people at
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a wedding yeah i don't even know 300 people that would show up so no i i love the idea of just like
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the ceremony and reception and people just celebrating your your guys's union and it doesn't have to be
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in front of like i said on paper so that's kind of where i have changed my views a little bit where
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i'm like it's not even really the contract that i'm wanting because like whatever who gives a
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book i just want you and like all the fun stuff that comes along with it that you know
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sorry i just know how the guys are gonna see they're like the fun stuff that comes with it
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they're like they've been sold a fairy tale i mean it is what it is but it's like yeah i mean
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because it's not just about like i want to be able again if especially if i'm marrying someone who has
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all of this i've always been open to prenups like because it's never about like oh i want to take half of
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everything um even when i was with my ex like we had talked about prenups like whatever you know
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i'm cool with that but i think that's just where it's like yeah you you want the the cute stuff that
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comes with marriage but i don't even really know if people actually want to go through the process
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especially of getting out of it i don't think people really want can i ask you because um i was just
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thinking can i ask you about child support and like that so yeah they're they're saying you have you
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get 10 000 a month no on child support no i don't i do not i don't get 200 000 i don't get 10 000
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and right now we are going through the process of child support and custody so unless we can work
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something out between us we will be going to trial probably in a few months right now i'm getting 2500
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a month okay could you do just like 50 50 custody with him would he want to do that because of his career
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he most likely would not be awarded that because he played he's on the road so much um i'm very
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open-minded whenever he wants to see our son and come get him like he's getting him from the the 29th
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to the 7th like because he's traveling on this two-week period right now so anytime he wants him i let him
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see him like i mean he's i i love pj that's why i had a baby with him so despite like all our that's
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been out there and how hard it has been transitioning from romantic to like basically
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strangers that we got a co-parent now um i still love him i love him to death you know but um yeah
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so with the custody stuff i'm very open-minded i just think with his career it would be hard for a
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judge to like award him 50 50 just because he travels so much because in my head like isn't it
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something that could be worked out like outside of court it is but hearts don't break even and he
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i think in his mind he has a number which i won't say but he has a number that he wants to stick to
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and basically when you're going through this process for north carolina law because it's
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very different other places you don't get a percentage if you both combined make a
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annually over 300 000 you're considered off the charts off off grid so then at this point you have
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to prove how much you need in child support so any bills that my son occupies rent car note cable
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groceries those are things that my son occupies and in charlotte um the least amount that i could
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that i could get would be 50 of each of those expenses right the most depending on his career and
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what the judge sees fit it could be up to 97 so whatever bills he occupies would be covered whatever
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for his clothes and diapers and all that and then that's accumulated in a financial affidavit is what
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it's called right and then you present it to him his team if he wants to settle outside if he's like
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actually no that's too high i don't want to do that i'd rather try my chances in court then that's when
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you go to trial do you do you think that he would give you nothing if it was up to him for the first
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two months he gave me nothing do you think that moving forward he would continue to i think he would
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would just give me 2500. um you don't think that's i think that's plenty to raise a kid
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well when you go based on the laws for north carolina it's all the bills that my son occupies
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so my car note is i think it's 2000 um our rent is 2750 um all these bills so i'm saying it's those
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two bills alone are already around but so this is just like the way the men are going to see this is
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like it's like you're almost becoming an entitled and i'm not trying to offend you it's just like
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because to me i'm like 2500 a month auntie said she could do it on like 200 a month no that's that's
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fine but in in reality she doesn't have a baby with an mba player right so what also is it well let me
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finish though so what's why it's entitled it's law it this isn't like my personal opinion and i've learned
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actually a lot about the law in charlotte for child support um my mom got a hundred dollars for me
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and uh my brother but again it goes off based on your income and what the child would be accustomed
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to so that's where all of the the opinions don't matter because if my son is getting picked up in a
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lamborghini it's like he has to be in a equivalent like the judge doesn't want there to be too big of a
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gap and that is law so people can be upset and feel how they want but take it up with your judicial
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system like this is what it is yeah but like the whole point is you don't have to go to court over
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it no i would like to settle it outside but that that is i you can't if i can't let me finish that
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i have tried to settle this outside and there's still a chance that we could right i have given
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my financial affidavit they've subpoenaed my stuff they know what's going all in my business they know
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what's going on it is i do not have the final say okay so if he doesn't want to settle he does not
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have to we can have a judge tell us who should be awarded what and leave it up to chance as many of
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