How To Identify A Feminine Woman
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the importance of women being submissive to their husbands and why it's important to have a strong wife. We also talk about women being the leader of the home and how important it is for them to be submissive.
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How did you do it? Or what are like the common things that women do?
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Yeah, like, because I think a lot of times I'll see people talk about how they're submissive,
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and I don't know how I can't tell. I can't really explain why, but I see the way they interact with each other.
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It doesn't seem like she is, but it's like subtle. I don't know how to describe it, though.
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Well, if that couple I was just telling you about before we went on that she's marrying this man
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who has five children, who his wife died. He went to meet her parents just soon after they met,
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just like six weeks ago. They started dating seven weeks ago. He went and saw her parents a week later,
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but they're like 31, 34. They weren't going to fool around. They're not, like, probably when you meet
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a guy, you're not going to just fool around. You just, you want to know, is this leading to
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marriage or not? And so, he went and met his parents, and after he spent a couple, a day with
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him, he said, I love the way your mother is with your father. She just never interrupts him. She
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doesn't correct him. She listens patiently and looks at him when he's talking. She is affectionate with him
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in every way. She modeled that to her children, her daughters, because one of them is married to
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my son. And so, all three of her daughters have had a really easy time being submissive to their
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husbands, just kind and loving, respectful. The King James says reverence. And it's just such a
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beautiful thing to see because I've seen couples, I saw couples like that when I was growing up,
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but I always, in my mind, was thinking, oh, it's because he's just so perfect, and my husband is
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not. So, but no, she doesn't have the strong personality that I have. She's more of a pleaser.
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So, it comes natural to that type of personality. But even one of the daughters, like who my son's
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married, is strong like me. But because she was modeled that, she's a very kind and respectful
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wife to her husband. So, see, you'll know it when you see it. You'll know when a wife is letting her
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husband leave by the way she just treats her husband in public. She would never say anything
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negative about him. She shows her respect all the time in public towards him and to her children in
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the home even. The children can see that she loves and respects her husband and that he's the leader of
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the home. Whatever you want, honey, you know. Well, yeah, I had a recent red pill where I realized I'm
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like, most women lead relationships, I think, in 2023. Because even I was thinking about how women make
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80% of consumer buying decisions. And I'm like, that means women are making, like whether it's a car, a
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house, like they sell to the women, meaning the women are making all the decisions in the household for
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the most part. And I was like, and so a lot of stuff like you think is traditional actually isn't because
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the man can't make a decision without the woman arguing about it in a lot of relationships I see.
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And, you know, they said that before women's right, women couldn't have a credit, their own credit card.
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And that was really to protect the women because when women didn't even want that because men took their
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credit, when if they got into debt, it was a man who had to go to debtors prison, you know, it wasn't
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the women who got. So now since women have their credit, they own two thirds of the $1.7 trillion
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student loan debt, you know, just, yeah. So, well, I remember, I remember being 18 and like picking a
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college, which I was gonna, I'm gonna talk to you about this too. But I remember thinking like my dad
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was like, do you want the more expensive one? Well, you'll have debt or the cheaper one where
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you won't. I picked the more expensive. Why would I pick that? Like, and luckily, like I, um, my dad's
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business kind of took off. So I didn't end up having any, but that was just because, you know, I was
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lucky. But I was thinking of like, even me who, you know, people would say is more logical. I'm still
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a woman, you know, I'm still gonna. And so you probably thought it was a better college, because
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it costs more money. I don't know. Well, no, I think I just wanted to go there. Like, I didn't
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have a good, I didn't have a good reason. I was like, oh, everyone has debt. I'll just pay it off
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later. American. What? It's the American way to have debt. Now, a massive amounts of debt. Now, all these
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young women I know who have babies have to continue working because of their debt. It's
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like, this is just so upside down. See, when I went to college, I went to a private Christian
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college. I didn't want to, I would have loved getting married right out of high school, um,
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and just starting having babies and staying home with them. That was always my, just what
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I wanted to do. But my dad insisted I go to college, even though he didn't want my mom
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ever to work. He wanted her back in those days. He wanted them, their wives to be home full
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time. He wanted his wife to raise his children. So she never worked. She was always home full
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time with us. And I called him for dad's day yesterday and thanked him again for that.
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But, um, um, so anyway, I went to a Christian college, small Christian college in Santa Barbara,
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Montecito, which is beautiful. Oprah Winfrey has a big estate right near there. It's gorgeous.
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$3,600 a year for everything. And so my roommate that, and that wasn't even that much money,
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even for, if you consider back then, my roommate worked in the summers to waitressing to pay for
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that. You know, people weren't graduating with mass amounts of debt back when I went to college,
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it was just a thing to do. And it wasn't that expensive, but it was, I just went to someone
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to find a husband and find good friends. So, but now, now that it's tens of thousands of dollars and
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they end up in hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt, which keeps them in bondage for many,
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many years, or it puts that, that burden on their husband. The Bible says that debt is bondage,
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you're, you know, bondage to the debt and who wants to be a slave, you know? So.
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What do you think about women going to college? Do you think we should?
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No. Because right now they're all indoctrination centers. That's all they are.
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Even the Christian ones are, they're just, they're just indoctrinating women to become
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feminist with leftist ideals. They've contributed so much to the destruction of our culture.
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They, I think the only ones who should go to colleges are men, because women are taking over
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the medical field and the dental field, which are taking jobs away from men. And they're hurting
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those fields because they're not nearly as reliable in those fields because they have more health
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issues. They have women in the workforce suffer twice the amount of stress-related illnesses,
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diseases than men. They weren't, we weren't created for the stress of the workforce. So they're taking
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away all these jobs from the men. And so the only men, people I think that who should go to college
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are the ones who want to be doctors and lawyers who need a college education. Because most,
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most jobs, you don't need a college education. Have, you know, the men could be plumbers,
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electricians, everything. And women who, you know, it's hard for me to say about women who,
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you know, when, if like my friend who was here that lived with us for a year, she's an OB nurse.
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And I loved her and she loved being a nurse, but her hours were terrible. They're inhumane.
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She'd get up at six in the morning and wouldn't get home until 8 PM. She's 12 hour shifts,
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12 hour shifts. And then they wanted to force that shot on her. And they had to wear a mask all day.
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You know, teaching, which they also say is an ideal job for women, which I did,
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is absolutely exhausting. Try to keep being, keep 30 children in order. It was, I was so exhausted
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when I came home. I just saw this thing about how women in the workforce deprive their husband
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sexually, duh. So exhausted after being at work all day, then you have to take care of the kids
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in the house. We weren't created to do that all. And the only purpose for college is not to make
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you wiser or a better wife or mother or homemade. It's to make, prepare women for the workforce.
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That's all. It's the only purpose. And now to indoctrinate them into the leftist agenda,
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which our world is being destroyed and we have to live with nothing and eat nothing, you know,
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and die. So the world can be to have it, have nothing on it. That seems like that's their agenda,
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you know? Well, yeah. And my school was one of the first to allow trans people in the dorms.
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And so down the hall from me, like I would just, I was so into volleyball when I was younger. I just
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didn't care about anything else. I was just a volleyball player. So I didn't really care at the time,
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but I was looking at it and I'm thinking they were trying to normalize that stuff. And they did,
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because I would see these trans people just walking around campus all the time. They're
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their own little thing. And it's like, this was a Christian school. I mean, I don't think it was
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like known for being Christian clearly, but yeah, most are just Christian name only. They're not
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Christian at all anymore. They don't like, they don't want to stand against culture and make stands
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against all this stuff. Yeah. And I remember talking with some of my cousins about the same
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sex when, because California, when we voted on it, I don't know, not even that long ago, we voted
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overwhelmingly not to allow same sex marriage, but then a judge overruled it. And they were saying that,
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oh, that's okay. I said, no, it's such a slippery slope. It's not okay. You know, no, God doesn't
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want, he designed this male and female for each other, you know, one man, one woman. And he's the
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one who created marriage. He's the one who defines it. It's the only safe place for marriage and sex
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to happen. And so look at where it's sent us. And people used to be okay with Pride Month, it seemed
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like, but now with what the transgender movement's doing to the kids, it seems like people are finally
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taking a stand against it. But I think God's judgment on our nation is too late. We're just so.