JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


How Women Caused EVIL to Happen Today


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14 minutes

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2,918

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179

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In this episode, we discuss family dysfunction and why it s a problem, and the role of women in family dysfunction. We also discuss the difference between women and men and why women are naturally better people than men.

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00:00:00.000 I think the natural order of the world, okay, God, men, women, children, all right, so for those that
00:00:16.960 couldn't hear, God, men, women, children, I think most of the time when evil happens or family
00:00:21.940 dysfunction happens, it's because women think they're equal to men, so I think typically, 1.00
00:00:27.780 it's the women trying to impose their will on men, and a lot of people with daddy issues actually 1.00
00:00:33.120 have mommy issues because the mom, women, it's like our violence is social destruction, so a lot of 1.00
00:00:39.580 people hate the dad, but it's really the mom, and usually when the family's out of order, it's
00:00:45.840 because of the mom, typically, because the mom either didn't listen to the dad, she didn't respect 0.64
00:00:50.660 the dad, or she socially, like she told the kids that the dad was bad, that's what I think most of
00:01:00.940 the time, I'm not saying like this doesn't happen to, there's evil men, there's evil women, but
00:01:04.880 if I had to just go on a balance of probabilities, that's what I think when there's like family
00:01:10.480 dysfunction, and you can always tell when there's family dysfunction based on the children, so like
00:01:14.140 an example I'll give you guys, Will and Jada Smith, right, I knew, remember, no, no, I'll give
00:01:20.840 you an example, right, you guys, do you remember when they were a power couple and everyone loved
00:01:24.740 them, yeah, I knew they were messed up because their kids were so messed up, like why is Willow 0.54
00:01:29.900 and like whatever their names are, they're dressed in like the opposite gen, like that's not normal, 0.60
00:01:33.940 right, from like a, like, I mean, I'm pro like traditionalism, so I think that's like a bad
00:01:40.600 thing, right, and so I knew they were messed up, and so what, what's the problem with that
00:01:44.480 family dynamic, uh, Jada thinks she's equal to Will, and she's constantly imposing her 0.99
00:01:50.260 will on, on Will, and Will listens to his wife, no, seriously, do you guys, do you guys
00:01:55.320 think that like Will's idea was to do the open marriage, no, no, no, it was hers, right,
00:02:00.660 because it was correct, like what happened in the garden of Eve, like, like Adam, Eve had
00:02:05.920 everything, and she wasn't happy, and Adam listened to his wife, and I think that's what
00:02:10.240 we're seeing in society, is women will have everything, they're not happy, and then they 1.00
00:02:14.500 listen, and then the men listen to their wives, and I, I think, you know, when women have the 0.73
00:02:19.500 most choice, unfortunately, we make poor decisions, you know, and again, last hundred years, we've
00:02:25.480 all chosen to be whore, you know, and we, you know, it's like everyone's, and I do just, I
00:02:29.580 do the show so much, it's like everyone's got a toxic ex-boyfriend, everyone, you know, you
00:02:35.340 know, everyone's dated a guy that's cheated, and it's like, we just don't, we're, we just
00:02:39.500 are very loyal to our feelings, so it doesn't mean we're like bad people, it's just kind
00:02:43.600 of how we are, we're loyal to our feelings, where men, I think men naturally, and this
00:02:48.040 is, this is out there, okay, I think men naturally have God inside of them, now again, I'm a Catholic,
00:02:54.020 and the reason I think this is because when men act too bad, other men police them, where
00:03:00.880 when women act bad, other women encourage it, right, so when women get fat, we say, you're 1.00
00:03:06.000 so beautiful, you're a queen, right, when women are whores, we say, don't slut shame, 1.00
00:03:10.180 but when men do drugs, and they become drug addicts, other men say, no, don't do that,
00:03:14.440 don't live your, and they'll even admit that's wrong, and you shouldn't live your life like
00:03:18.140 that, so I think men just are naturally better people than women, I know, I know, this is 1.00
00:03:23.200 like a crazy thought, but yeah, I think, I think, and I think knowing women and female 1.00
00:03:28.600 and female nature helps society more, because it kind of explains our behavior a little bit 1.00
00:03:33.900 better, and I think most of the time, women that impose their will on men, that's when 1.00
00:03:38.740 you get the kids being messed up, and you can always see if a family dynamic is good
00:03:43.580 based on the children, yeah, that's, that's my therapy, that's Pearl's therapy, you know,
00:03:48.980 yeah, what do you, do you guys disagree with that, or agree?
00:03:52.100 I completely agree, really, yeah, I thought, this is so wild, I've never had a room agree
00:03:56.720 with that, you seem like you disagree a little bit, no, no, no, no, yeah, I agree, so men 0.99
00:04:01.620 are better people than women, to an extent, I think they're stronger people than women, 0.99
00:04:06.200 definitely, I think men are stronger, as I said, and it goes back down to men leading,
00:04:10.380 when, when women allow men to lead, yeah, when men lead, you can see it in the children,
00:04:16.580 the family dynamics, the household, you can see the difference between a child who has
00:04:21.420 both parents at home, yeah, and a difference between a child who has one parent, I can hear
00:04:26.360 it in guys' voices a lot of the time, because they like talk like their mom, because they're
00:04:30.700 like, that's who they had around them growing up, not, not always, I'm not like a hundred
00:04:34.840 percent, but a lot of times, like some guys will come on the show, and I can just like
00:04:37.760 hear it, sometimes women too, it's like the same thing, but it's like, it's like more obvious 0.98
00:04:43.980 than men, you know what I was thinking too, how our language sort of, we tell on ourselves
00:04:49.300 through our language, like, I agree, if a woman acts like a man, it's not necessarily seen
00:04:54.400 as a bad thing, like maybe in dating, but it's like, it's not as looked down upon as if a
00:04:59.180 man acts like a woman, like you say you're acting like a woman right now, like it's 0.73
00:05:03.760 like more of a negative than if a woman acts like a man, yeah, yeah, someone called me 1.00
00:05:07.780 sassy the other day, did it hurt your feelings a little bit, a little bit, yeah, it's all
00:05:14.260 right, it's all right, it's all right, it's all right, yeah, and I was just, I was just
00:05:19.040 saying an opinion, what did you say, I was just like, whoa, okay, and I just moved on,
00:05:24.580 because I thought like, if I said anything about it, I'd be more sassy, so, I was like,
00:05:31.540 I don't care, I'm all right, yeah, what, what do you think is like the worst ways that
00:05:40.520 women try to control men? 1.00
00:05:42.320 Vagina. 1.00
00:05:45.560 Oh, yeah.
00:05:46.740 That's the main, I don't think that's enough.
00:05:50.060 That's always been the main thing.
00:05:50.960 You say the worst way.
00:05:52.100 Yeah, like how, how do you,
00:05:53.140 Through the children, that's the worst thing a woman can do, is try to control a man through 1.00
00:05:57.120 the, that's one of the lowest, lowest things.
00:05:59.960 Have you seen that before?
00:06:02.360 She's done it.
00:06:03.280 No, never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, never, never, never, I completely disagree
00:06:08.280 with any woman who tries to, you know, jeopardise any relationship a child has with their other 0.60
00:06:13.500 parent, because. 0.81
00:06:14.240 It's evil.
00:06:15.040 It is evil, and a child needs that parent, you know, as well as.
00:06:18.420 I think they should face jail time.
00:06:19.920 Yeah, I think it's disgusting, if women that do, do that, and I have seen it, I mean, I've 1.00
00:06:23.800 seen it on TV, and, you know, I've seen it around, but that's, I think that's one of
00:06:28.580 the lowest things a woman could do, yeah. 1.00
00:06:31.360 I thought, I thought the worst way that you can actually, like, I feel like abuse is,
00:06:38.280 like, the worst way, especially, like, emotional abuse, or, like, in other cases, like, I
00:06:43.820 don't know.
00:06:44.020 That's the worst abuse that any man could feel, not being able to have access to their
00:06:47.400 children.
00:06:47.740 Actually, I want to change, I want to change my answer.
00:06:50.160 I think women can emotionally abuse men, but men can't emotionally abuse women.
00:06:54.260 And I feel like women are better at emotionally abusing men, like, when we get the time to do 1.00
00:06:58.480 it.
00:06:58.700 Yeah.
00:06:59.000 I do.
00:06:59.660 Yeah.
00:07:00.820 What do you think?
00:07:02.380 I think you can emotionally abuse women. 1.00
00:07:04.780 Yeah, I don't, I don't think so.
00:07:06.500 No?
00:07:06.700 Yeah, you could be right, tell me why I'm wrong.
00:07:09.400 I'll just, you can just, yeah, you can say things.
00:07:12.540 Like what?
00:07:13.220 That chips away at, you know, you're fat, as a joke.
00:07:16.480 Is she fat? 1.00
00:07:17.200 She's banal.
00:07:18.200 No, she's kind of fat, but it's said it's a joke. 1.00
00:07:20.040 Okay, well then, now you're just truth telling.
00:07:22.180 And then after a while, it just, you know what I mean?
00:07:25.100 But that's what, it goes back, it goes back to what you said, though.
00:07:28.380 No, because you said, you said before that, you know, women can't accept the truth. 0.87
00:07:35.980 Yeah.
00:07:36.620 So it's like, you tell them in a jokey way, and it's the truth, and it's like, fix it.
00:07:41.200 But then they like, they go, it's horrible, so I can't accept it.
00:07:45.820 It's a joke as well, that's even more painful.
00:07:48.860 Remember, you said we have to just take it.
00:07:50.420 Whatever the man says, we just have to take it, and just take it on the chin, and just,
00:07:53.300 well, I think that's, I think, I'm not even saying.
00:07:55.200 Or give it back, do you know what I mean?
00:07:56.760 And then we all grow together, do you know what I mean?
00:07:59.060 You know, and I'm not even saying like, anyone's going to do it perfectly,
00:08:03.540 but I think the ideal is just to listen, right, you know?
00:08:07.460 Communication, yeah.
00:08:08.360 No, no, I think, I think more communication is, like, think about this.
00:08:13.700 Has a woman ever, like, communicated with you, and like, then, she's like, oh, I'm happy now,
00:08:18.940 I solved the problem.
00:08:20.160 There's the but.
00:08:20.900 She's never going to be happy.
00:08:23.300 There's always another problem.
00:08:24.600 There's always another problem.
00:08:25.900 That's why I see up.
00:08:28.160 Yeah, so I actually think we should communicate less.
00:08:31.580 I think communication is not the key.
00:08:34.180 Yeah.
00:08:34.620 Women love communication. 1.00
00:08:35.880 No, because we just, guys, guys.
00:08:38.360 If I'm left, like, any chick, if we're just left, like, like, if the guy lets us communicate
00:08:43.540 as much as we want to, we're just never going to shut the fuck up.
00:08:48.120 Like, we're just going to.
00:08:49.320 It's true.
00:08:49.860 No, I don't, no, I don't think so.
00:08:52.300 I feel like communication to an extent would make sense, but I feel like if you don't communicate
00:08:58.340 as much to your partner, you're never going to really know your partner.
00:09:01.040 It's just going to be, like, two people who are going to be mute in the house.
00:09:03.600 You know what's crazy?
00:09:04.660 Have you ever asked a woman how their day was?
00:09:06.720 And it just goes on and on.
00:09:10.400 Man, I hate that.
00:09:11.520 I'm not a woman like that, bro.
00:09:12.580 We're just, it's the polite thing to do, but it just goes on and on.
00:09:17.360 It's crazy.
00:09:17.900 And what if you don't ask her?
00:09:18.540 With really nothing situations as well.
00:09:20.340 Nothing happens, but if you stop listening, it's all fucked. 0.93
00:09:23.900 It's all just, it's fucked up.
00:09:25.620 If you don't ask her how her day was, then you're not going to win either.
00:09:28.600 Do you know what, like Pearl said, maybe less communication, more understanding, more understanding.
00:09:35.480 Okay, imagine, okay, I have this thought, all right, I want you guys to hear it.
00:09:39.280 I want you to, all right, I think the world would be a better place, okay?
00:09:43.280 Imagine.
00:09:43.960 Women got, like, a talking stick, okay? 1.00
00:09:47.800 And you get, like, two hours of talking a day or whatever, like, we could, we can negotiate what it is.
00:09:53.420 And the guy granted you how much you got to talk based on your behavior for that day.
00:09:58.720 So it's like, if you had sex with him in the morning, you get 30 minutes, you know, then it's like, okay, so you get, then it's like, okay, you cooked him lunch or dinner.
00:10:07.940 Okay, now you get another hour.
00:10:09.600 You see, like, we just keep adding on.
00:10:11.380 What do you, do you guys think the world would be a better place if we had that?
00:10:15.220 No, I feel like, I feel like men will abuse the stick, though, but, like, because of your tightness, you only get 15 minutes to talk today.
00:10:22.580 Like, I feel like men will abuse that.
00:10:24.780 No, because they're going to want, like, they're going to abuse it, like, the more sex I get, the more you can talk.
00:10:31.400 Well, I think their true feelings would come out, no?
00:10:37.080 So if they don't want to speak to you, you'd find out very quickly.
00:10:39.880 Yeah.
00:10:42.300 Yeah?
00:10:42.700 But they're going to want sexual favors. 0.98
00:10:44.640 But then what if you got your hair done and you're like, oh, babe, am I okay to use, like, the stick to just tell you, like, I just want to ask your opinion on my hair?
00:10:55.220 Maybe you can have, like, 15 minutes, like, off the bat.
00:10:58.160 Yeah, just like, a little venting session about how your hair is and then.
00:11:02.420 No, maybe, maybe 10 minutes for the day so you don't talk too much.
00:11:05.460 No venting session.
00:11:07.020 Two minutes, man.
00:11:08.360 Two minutes.
00:11:08.880 Two minutes.
00:11:09.520 You've got to be quick with it.
00:11:10.900 I heard a guy say that he felt like he could have a great relationship with a woman that didn't speak his language.
00:11:18.240 Wow.
00:11:19.260 And that really changed my view.
00:11:21.200 I was like, wow, men really don't like talking to us that much.
00:11:24.960 The thing is, women talk about communication so much. 1.00
00:11:29.260 But what I've come to realize is it's not actually communication.
00:11:32.340 Women just want to talk. 1.00
00:11:33.700 Yeah.
00:11:34.220 So what it is, is I think the stick will work so well because what will happen is women will start learning how to actually communicate. 0.82
00:11:40.540 You've been thinking about the stick.
00:11:42.920 I feel like you've been thinking about the stick.
00:11:45.140 I've pitched this before.
00:11:47.020 Oh, so he's been thinking about the stick.
00:11:49.100 I mean, if you've only got 15 minutes, you're going to get out the important stuff in 15 minutes.
00:11:53.100 Yeah.
00:11:53.420 I think women are better talkers, but men are better communicators. 1.00
00:11:59.960 Yeah.
00:12:00.260 They just get straight to the point.
00:12:01.420 They just get straight to the point.
00:12:03.240 Definitely.
00:12:03.940 Literally.
00:12:04.520 While we've got that time, we just want to get everything out.
00:12:06.900 Oh, yeah.
00:12:07.200 Remember the other day.
00:12:08.700 I also feel like as women, though, like, you know, because women submissive to our man. 1.00
00:12:14.320 I feel like we want to make our man into our best friend in a way.
00:12:19.280 We want that person to like, you know, when they come home, like we want to be their piece.
00:12:23.160 But we also want them to be like our treasure, if that makes sense.
00:12:27.120 I think women do like naturally just cut everybody off and just want to be by their man. 1.00
00:12:31.160 Yeah.
00:12:32.060 I feel like that's a part of being submissive as well, because realistically, like there's some couples out there when they have problems in the relationships, they don't actually go to their friends or anything like they actually just work that out in their relationship.
00:12:44.260 So I feel like in a way, that's what you would naturally do for your for your man.
00:12:48.100 Like you will just cut the world off for your man because you do want to, you know, I mean, you want to make sure you can work on it.
00:12:53.160 You want to make sure you can work on problems together, not everyone else can help you work on those problems.
00:12:56.580 What did you say?
00:12:57.280 I said, I think that's the mistake.
00:12:58.840 Like thinking that your partner can be your everything.
00:13:01.420 Yeah.
00:13:01.920 Yeah.
00:13:02.580 Like you need your friends separately.
00:13:05.300 He needs his friends separately.
00:13:06.360 He needs his time.
00:13:07.040 You need your time.
00:13:07.780 You need your things.
00:13:08.620 Yeah.
00:13:09.120 He needs his hobbies.
00:13:10.540 That's where women go wrong. 1.00
00:13:11.480 And you come back together when it's right.
00:13:13.480 Yeah.
00:13:14.280 To an extent.
00:13:15.040 Yeah.
00:13:15.160 You know how much pressure is like just put them in just on a daily basis.
00:13:20.940 There's a lot.
00:13:21.720 And then we go home and then just.
00:13:23.280 Get shit.
00:13:24.620 Yeah.
00:13:24.980 It's crazy.
00:13:25.660 You guys have.
00:13:26.160 You guys do have a lot to deal with.
00:13:27.860 Yeah.
00:13:28.780 It's crazy.
00:13:30.480 And then.
00:13:31.920 We don't have the talking stick.
00:13:33.440 So.
00:13:34.340 We're fucked.
00:13:36.300 I feel like everyone's going to take that stick idea from today.
00:13:39.620 I mean.
00:13:40.460 You know, once I had a boyfriend.
00:13:43.400 And I was telling him a story.
00:13:45.020 And he just looked at me.
00:13:45.760 He's like, I don't care.
00:13:47.320 I was like, ah.
00:13:50.580 Did you cry?
00:13:51.540 Did you cry in the walk home?
00:13:52.560 I've done that a lot.
00:13:52.980 Yeah.
00:13:53.560 Yeah.
00:13:53.760 I've done that a lot.
00:13:54.740 No, I just.
00:13:55.440 I'm so honest.
00:13:56.300 I'm really honest.
00:13:56.880 Yeah.
00:13:57.220 No, I kind of respect it.
00:13:58.620 I just kind of took it.
00:13:59.980 I mean, my feelings were a little hurt.
00:14:01.940 But I was like.
00:14:02.480 Maybe my story wasn't as funny as I thought.
00:14:06.080 It never is.
00:14:07.700 It never is.
00:14:09.340 It never is.
00:14:11.980 Women think they're funny. 1.00
00:14:14.100 Hey, I'm hilarious.
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