How Women Respond When They Have No Valid Argument ｜ Pearl Daily
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1 hour and 4 minutes
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160.34656
Summary
In this episode, I discuss how modern women use cheap tactics and insults to get their point across to men. I discuss why they do this and how to counter them. I also talk about how to deal with them.
Transcript
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For those of you that don't know, I moved from Chicago to England about four years ago now, and I started a YouTube show. And when I started this YouTube show, I really got a perspective on how the ladies are in dating. Now, you might think, Pearl.
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I don't know what they were going to say before they were going to say, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl. You hate women.
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And I would just think, you're making me, you're making me, you're making me, you're making me. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. Pearl, you're a misogynist. Pearl, you're a pick me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I stopped the show years ago, and I'm thankful for it because you can't pay me to argue with these women every night.
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At one point, at one point, at one point, guys, we had five plus women in six days a week. And I would see how inconsiderate they were. You would book them for a night and they would cancel an hour before. I would have to book double the amount of guests, double.
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To know how many would show up. So if I wanted five women, I'd have to book 10 because clock worth half are going to show up if that.
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And, you know, recently I've been thinking of the typical responses that women would give to my content. Now, take into account, guys, that most people don't have valid arguments against my position.
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They have no arguments, so they resort to cheap tactics and insults. So let's break down the meaning of them.
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Now, the late and great Kevin Samuels coined the acronym Psy Language. And I believe in this concept wholeheartedly because when talking about modern women, it's how they navigate serious discussions.
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And I will be borrowing his concept this show. So number one is the pick me response.
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Many women, especially older women, will call any woman that isn't a diehard feminist, that doesn't hate men, and doesn't advocate for a leftist agenda, a pick me.
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Like I've said on my previous shows, modern women make up new words or change the definition of words to reshape reality.
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They call me a pick me to shame women that try to do what's necessary to get picked by a man of value.
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They call me a pick me all the time because I advocate for men and because I want to be a wife and have a family.
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Number two, you just hate women. This is the easiest and lowest hanging response.
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It's the go-to for most women that don't have intellectual and emotional capability to argue back a point.
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It's purely emotional, and it's meant to trigger an emotional response.
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I mean, even the other day, I was in Candace Owens' chat, and she was telling me, you just hate women.
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And if you're arguing with a modern woman and she says this, the discussion is over.
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She won't listen to you anymore, and all information that she is absorbing has stopped.
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She has literally brought a childlike argument, tactics, into an adult conversation.
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Most of the time, you can see this coming from a mile away.
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Make more than one good point in a row with a modern woman, and you can expect this response to come at some point.
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Shaming tactics are usually the second most common response from modern women.
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You're a woman. A real woman wouldn't say the things you're saying.
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Shaming tactics have little to no intellectual capacity.
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Modern women use shaming as a tool to be able to sway your position with little to no evidence whatsoever.
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Shame is not a tactic that can be used by men in modern day, because women do not listen to men and their criticisms enough to be shamed.
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I mean, if women listen to men's criticisms, we would all be 120 pounds.
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We wouldn't have five-plus tattoos in two different baby daddies.
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Guilt is what a modern woman uses as an emotional manipulation tactic to make everyone but them responsible for something that is their fault.
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The pay gap, the government, corporations, society in general.
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Everything is not their fault, and they will come up with all sorts of reasons why.
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Modern women will insult anyone that doesn't agree with them or their point of view, no matter how crazy it is.
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There is such an echo chamber with modern women that when the chamber is disrupted, many women cannot handle it.
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You know, I've been called every name in the book.
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It's to the point where I don't even hear it anymore.
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The need to be right refers to a psychological tendency where someone feels the strong compulsion to always be correct in their opinions or beliefs.
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This often stems from a fear of appearing wrong, a fragile ego, or a desire to maintain control of a situation.
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Female empowerment and America's universities created women that need to be right at all costs.
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These women need to feel like they are right more than actually being right.
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And many of them have some high-priced piece of paper to enforce their bad decision-making process that gets them in trouble throughout their lives.
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I would argue that the need to be right makes most modern women unattractive to the men that they want.
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No man who's had to work hard to become a success wants to deal with a woman that's never right but feels she has to prove some point that doesn't need to be proven.
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Let's see most of the responses to my content and evaluate what tactic they are using.
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But before I start, guys, I have been demonetized on YouTube, so go to theaudacitynetwork.com.
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And I also do read the chat on the website if you want to have your comment read.
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It's the first link in the description, and we are on the Apple App Store.
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Because I don't know what it is with the overweight women having the confidence to insult me the way that they do.
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One of you is stepping up to the place and taking her home at 2 a.m.
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I want to talk about a trending topic online, and that is why does Pearl not get picked?
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I have intentionally avoided talking about Pearl.
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If you don't know who I'm talking about, I'm talking about Hannah Pearl Davis from just Pearly Things.
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I avoided talking about her for a while because I really didn't want to give her more attention.
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I've mentioned her a little bit in my video about being a recovering pick-me girl, which
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is my story, and kind of why pick-mes don't generally get picked.
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You want to check out that video for a little bit more info on that.
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I just kind of touched on Pearl's content a little bit.
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Joel says he wouldn't do it if she was the last woman on Earth.
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I mean, the last woman, if you had no other choice.
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But there's been a lot of talk online about Pearl being kind of this...
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I don't really even know what she'd call herself, but she talks a lot about relationships and
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things, you know, dynamics between men and women, yet she's not in a relationship, and
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she, I think, has never been in a relationship.
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For like a year now, I've been dating the same guy, but it's not really been public.
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And I've just had to deal with these fat women telling me that I...
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And men are not really going after her, even though she seems to be creating her content so...
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Oh, is this fat woman saying that I don't have men after me?
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I'm not saying I'm the best looking, and, you know, this is insult, insult, but what...
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Bongone says, Pearl Reed, I wonder how many men this tubster has thirsting after her jelly
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Solely to cater to men, to bash women and cater to men.
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If she is supposedly giving all this information that men want to hear, and saying all these
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things that men want to hear, why is she herself not finding a man?
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A lot of people have a lot of theories surrounding this.
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There's some very popular ones, and then there's also some obscure ones.
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I actually think there's a very specific reason for this that I want to dive into, and it's
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actually kind of a simple explanation, but I want to talk a little bit about...
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This phenomenon, this question, and kind of the idea of, like, why pick-me's don't get
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First of all, if you're not familiar with what a pick-me is, I have a video going into this
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But in reality, a pick-me usually is in reference to women, although I do think there is a male
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But in this case, I'm primarily speaking about women who essentially will do anything for male
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validation, do anything to get attention from men or chosen by a man or men in general.
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Okay, where is this video for the women on OnlyFans?
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So, where is this energy for the women that are literally selling their bodies to men?
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And usually will sacrifice themselves or sacrifice other women or basically do anything, even if
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it is out of character or even harmful to them or harmful to women in general, solely to get
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acceptance or validation from men or a particular man.
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This is not just about wanting a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship.
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And I have a series of disclaimers I'm going to get into before we get into this video.
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...is if you are desiring a relationship, there's nothing wrong with that.
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I'm not going to tell anybody out there who is like, hey, I want a man.
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Want a relationship, but don't do the things it takes to get into a relationship.
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Man, and I want to be in partnership, and I want to find love, and there's nothing wrong
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If you don't want that, and you're like, I'm happy being single, I'm happy not being
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And I'm going to talk a lot in this video kind of about the idea of like what men want
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and what men are looking for, and like why men are attracted to certain women and why
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I want to make it clear that this is really for educational purposes for women to be aware,
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but if you're a woman who's watching this and going, I don't care what men want, fine.
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I am not at all saying that women need to pay attention to what men want.
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There's no wonder that you have 37,000 subscribers.
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You're going to attract, you might even attract that person that you're trying to attract
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by becoming something else, but it's not going to be a solid, true, deep connection
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and like a healthy relationship because you're just pretending to be something that you're
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I'm going to type something in the chat on the website.
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I can't say it on YouTube, but chat on the website, on theaudacitynetwork.com.
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Why should there be, I can't read this part, a blank for blank in society?
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It's under Santiago because I forgot my login, but it's me.
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That I do understand because Pearl is very, she's very cruel to women very often.
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Women, she tends to blame women for everybody's problems.
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She tends to say things that are very controversial and very insulting towards women in general,
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or sometimes just insult a specific type of woman or insult a specific group of women
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or insult an individual woman, and she is very insulting, which, you know, I really do believe
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is really for clicks and views because she knows that that's going to get more attention.
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It's very easy when you're talking about someone who does those things to get very insulting
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towards them, and I understand why people tend to take that route because when you have
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someone who's out there like spewing hate and saying a lot of negative things about people
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or a group of people, it's very easy to then jump to, I'm going to insult them.
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But I don't want to approach this from that place.
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I try to never approach my content from a place of, like, hate or hate matching hate
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or as, like, a hit piece or trying to shoot anybody down or anything like that.
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So, like, I don't want to go at this with, like, cheap shots against her.
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I want to look at this situation more as a chance.
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I have been listening for six minutes and gotten nothing.
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Is that she has very low self-esteem and that she...
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I would argue that you have low self-esteem because you won't get on the treadmill.
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How is the woman with a pound of makeup on, fake hair, and overweight
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I'm going to speed this up to 1.5 as a request of Doug on the website.
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She was considered herself, like, the ugly friend or the friend that didn't get much attention
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when she was younger and things like that, you know, from boys specifically.
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I have a great deal of empathy for women who, because this is so common,
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most women have some level of self-esteem issues.
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There was a clip of me years ago talking about how I wasn't the best-looking friend in my friend group.
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How many of you were the best-looking friend in your friend group?
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Now, I never thought I was ugly, but isn't that the experience of most people,
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if you're a normal person, that somebody's going to be better-looking?
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...who's also had very low self-esteem in her life,
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I don't agree with the way that she is dealing with that situation.
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I don't agree with the message that she's putting out,
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because I do think that it is a very dangerous message
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of blaming women for everything and blaming women for everyone's problems
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and spewing a lot of her message, because that's not really the point of this video.
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But I am going to approach this from a certain level of empathy,
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because as much as, like, I would never go on Piers Morgan and say that women shouldn't vote,
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because I've never believed that, and I don't think that that's...
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But that sounds like a reasonable thing to say.
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It's a good message to be putting out in the world.
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I know from my past, and having been a pick-me-girl in my younger years,
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like, I have definitely said some things that were more mis-
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Doug's on the website says she went from sounding like a whale
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I was just thinking, does pick-me shame a woman for doing stuff
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that men would actually appreciate for their spouse?
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Pearl, she's showing her butt crack under her chin,
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Misogynistic or held certain beliefs that were definitely more misogynistic
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because I thought it would get me more male attention
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or it would get me liked by more guys and things like that.
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So, like, I have a certain level of empathy for that.
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Now, I think Pearl has taken it to the extreme.
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She makes a lot of money doing this stuff that's very controversial.
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so I don't really know what her financial situation is now,
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A lot more money than I've ever made on social media,
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because that tends to be what gets attention online
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Tate said she had to be fitter in her younger years.
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I also have some theories about her family life
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from what I've heard about her family dynamic in her home life.
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I'm not going to dive into that, but I do feel...
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I'm just going to leave it that I do feel a certain level of empathy for her
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because I think that a lot of the stuff that she's doing
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I don't necessarily want to say a trauma response,
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and I know she would argue that the word trauma is overused
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but I have empathy for how she ended up where she is.
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but I want to approach this from a place of empathy.
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All right, I'm going to get into the common reasons
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that people give for why Pearl is not in a relationship
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and why men are not interested in dating Pearl,
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To gear her entire life and content solely around catering to men
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Now, let me break down this explanation a little bit.
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I have a lot of videos talking about masculine and feminine energies.
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When I talk about masculine and feminine energies,
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I don't think this is actually what the people that point this out
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but masculine and feminine energies are found in everybody.
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So two people in masculine energy are going to repel sexually.
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Two people in feminine energy are going to repel sexually.
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You can also be in wounded or healed versions of either of these...
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and I'm not going to dive into wounding right now in this video,
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Most of her content is often debates and things like that.
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therefore I will call you names instead of attacking the argument.
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Dane, Pearl, empathy for how she ended up where she is.
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World famous, physically fit, successful, well-educated,
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and she has empathy for you for having a great father.
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...masculine, who is there showing up for a debate,
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probably not going to have a lot of sexual chemistry with her
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because you're going to have two masculine energies
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Now, again, I, and I've mentioned this in other videos before,
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I don't think anybody should be living their entire life
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where being in your masculine energy is just more appropriate
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or being in your feminine energy is just more appropriate.
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and the majority of men are naturally masculine at their core
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and that most women are going to operate the best
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and when they're in their feminine energy most of the time,
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and primarily are in their masculine energy most of the time.
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to have a healthy connection with both energies.
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she is very much embodying her masculine energy
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is giving us an image of what she would look like
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then yeah, she's probably failing at her purpose.
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That's an appropriate time to be using your masculine energy.
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for women to be very much in their masculine energy.
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who has a deeper connection to his feminine energy.
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So the fact that Pearl embodies more masculine energy
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I'm not going to talk about that in this video.
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She's saying, I don't like that you're telling men
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he worked hard to lead his family and it shows.
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is not going to rule her out of the dating pool.
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which is a factor which I'll get to in a minute.
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And I would say also in approach and things like that.
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The only other one that I'm really familiar with
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who has that very, like she's big into debates.
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They both kind of seem to be worshiping Andrew Tate.
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what Candace Owens is like off camera or anything.
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So I don't know if like when she's at home with her family,
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she's probably not going to attract a masculine man,
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I don't know how authentic her content actually is,
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whether she believes it or whether she doesn't,
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like even if it's not obviously in front of us,
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if I say men don't like old, fat, single mothers,
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Pearl, we know this is torturing you more than us.
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Can you imagine if that woman smashed into the earth?
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You know, inauthentically or very hypocritically.
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there's going to be some kind of a warning sign there,
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even if you're not totally fully aware of what that is.
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there are things like trauma bonding and aspects like that
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or tend to be more manipulative or things like that,
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that's what's keeping Pearl out of a relationship.
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I see you found your January fat calendar, girl.
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you should clearly ask her to be your Valentine.
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even if you're agreeing with some of the stuff that she's saying,
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there's always going to be that thing in your brain that's going to be like,
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And I think that's going to be off putting for people.
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Doesn't mean that people like that won't get into relationships.
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but that is something that's going to keep people hesitant from getting involved with somebody,
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especially somebody who is like sort of mentally healthy and mentally stable.
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The fact that she's talked about women not being able to cook,
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but then she's talked about not being able to cook.
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women spending so much time focusing on their careers when she's primarily been focused on her careers.
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Like she's been shaming women for all the things that.
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She embodies and she's a Venmo is just underscore pearly things.
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I need an audience of men that actually don't like the things that she's embodying.
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There's a lot of men out there that don't care if a woman can cook or that are okay with being with a career woman.
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They even actually want to be with a career woman.
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like Pearl's message and the people she's targeting are men who think that a woman that embodies the things that she embodies are not really what they want.
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And so her audience of men that she's catering to are not the type of men that are going to be attracted to her.
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things that she's doing that goes into the hypocrisy also and the inauthenticity.
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But also she's almost trying to win over an audience of men and be a pick me for men that aren't going to pick her.
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That's not to say there aren't men out there who would pick her.
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But those are not the men that she is targeting.
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And she's also because she's targeting the men that would hate on her.
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She's not surrounding herself with men that would pick her for one.
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But also she's really alienating the types of men that.
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I've gotten a marriage proposal on a first date.
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That might actually be interested in a woman who is,
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There are women out there that embody those things that actually do find partners,
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but she is specifically targeting a different type of guy.
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That's going to find the things that she embodies to be.
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But those guys are not going to want to date her because they're literally,
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I'm going to expose you to Buzzfeed for torturing your male viewers.
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This could be classified as cruel and unusual punishment.
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I'm not seeing her as a woman that they would pick because she's specifically targeting
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guys that don't want the things that she brings to the table.
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She's specifically targeting men who don't want those things.
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So she's saying that women should cater to men,
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And I'm not saying she should be catering to these men.
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Now that's not to say that there aren't men out there who would want the things that
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but she's not targeting those men as her primary audience.
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she can't meet a man who actually is looking for the things that she has to offer in everyday
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She's just probably not going to meet it in the workplace because in the workplace,
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she's targeting an audience of men that are not looking for that.
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It can come across sometimes as being like an egomaniac of being like really arrogant,
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but usually that is overcompensating for low self-esteem and clearly Pearl has very low
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I'm not shaming her for that because I know what it's like to have very low self-esteem.
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I can identify with having very low self-esteem,
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And I actually have a lot of empathy for her for feeling this way.
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I actually wish she felt better about herself because I feel like people who feel better
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about themselves don't feel like they need to take down all women in order to make themselves
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And I don't like the way that she goes about dealing with her low self-esteem,
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but I do think a lot of this is low self-esteem.
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And it's interesting how she's kind of essentially admitted that she wouldn't expect anything from
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a guy that she would be okay with a guy cheating if he, you know, was successful enough or whatever.
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Jack, if you have a guy's kids and he cheats on you, what are you going to do, leave?
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Jack De Niro paid the 10 bucks and said, turn her off.
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This woman appears to spend most of her thoughts insulting everyone else.
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So the next one we have, I feel bad for Pearl because she's ugly and just not as hot as me.
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I'm going to be completely real and honest right now.
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It's not that Pearl is too masculine or argumentative.
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Okay, this woman has a pound of makeup on, probably fake hair, and a filter.
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If you're going to call me ugly, I need to know what you look like.
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But the truth is, men will let you get away with a lot if they find you attractive.
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She says I'm even more argumentative than Pearl.
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They can tell me an objective fact about themselves, and I'll disagree for fun.
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Dane, Pearl is a pick me who has been picked by 1.98 million times on YouTube alone with
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Her, Kenny, her head alone might make Pearl's leg.
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What filter is this man-body looking woman with her huge hands?
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It might have did that when I did a donation for a while.
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I did a fundraiser for my friend Thor a while back, and we were accepting donations on Cash
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It could be a dude under there, and we'd never know.
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Pearl, if this organized hatred campaign against you continues, you might end up as the 48th
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Redhead woman bad might be your ticket to the top.
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Those who find me pretty don't think I'm masculine.
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They say what they need to say to have sex with you.
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Fellas, one in the chat if you've ever lied to get laid.
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If you lied, you said there was a woman that you would never have sex with, but you did it.
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This whole thing proves how utterly useless it is to live for the desire and approval of men.
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Because you will only get male approval in one way.
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And it's not by agreeing with them, or chasing them, or giving them chances time and time again.
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It's by fitting a conventional standard of beauty.
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Lady, you're just not hot enough to have these opinions.
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I can easily equate a woman who will significantly increase my click-through rate on a thumbnail
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Because before shows, we used to have to do pictures.
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You in London, which isn't even the most attractive city ever,
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Like, you wouldn't even make the center of the thumbnail.
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While it might make them desire you, it does not promise respect.
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In fact, oftentimes, it guarantees a level of dehumanization.
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Probably a little higher with makeup, but like...
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She's not gonna do, like, real modeling or, like, get invited
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Because we were trained by a system not made for us.
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A system that rewards women for almost exclusively their reproductive value,
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So many women are constantly minimizing themselves to fit this impossible mold of perfection.
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A template that restricts your passion and extinguishes your soul.
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I see so much collective longing from women for a younger version of themselves.
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A version with scraped knees and dirt under their fingernails.
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One that's unapologetically wild and collects knots in her hair like trophies.
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You do realize that the difference between that blissfully free little girl and you now
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is the fact that you're no longer living for yourself.
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You're instead living for a gruff pat on the back and lingering eyes of people
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who don't care about the inherent value of that joy and authenticity.
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A value that's defined by the shallow physical expectations of a system
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that will never find worth in a version of you that's truly happy.
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So many women, Pearl included, are hunting for this empty approval.
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Some do it by conforming physically and others do it by sculpting their personality and opinions
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But despite the companionship from others lost in the same maze
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And in the process of chasing the unachievable, you will lose.
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Women just have so many words for saying nothing.
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So do I want someone with the nuke bomb that could get through, period?
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You see that this interviewer, he totally agreed with me,
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But I will say that when she first started her way
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there were a lot of things that I was like, yeah, I agree with that.
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And what really sucks about that is the points that she has made
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because of the type of fool that she's made herself out to be.
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See, none of these women can attack the argument.
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She's really doing a huge disservice to those other movements.
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She was very anti-misandry culture, which is great.
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This is why conservative women, they always tone police.
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Nobody's putting a gun to your head and saying,
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Like, the way that she put it, too, was just like, okay.
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Why as women do we have the sensitivity to aging?
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where I said 25-year-old women are better looking
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And all these 35-year-old women tweeted me their selfies
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Hey, it doesn't have to be the end of the world.
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By your 30s, like, you're not supposed to be sexy anymore.
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there's some sort of bad decision women have made