JustPearlyThings - Hypergamy Does Not CARE!!!

00:00:00.000 But I just started to notice people were wanting to hear me talk more even when I if you go to my page

00:00:04.200 I have videos where I'm working out people want to hear me talk

00:00:07.580 I have over a million views on every video. I'm talking in mm-hmm

00:00:10.520 So I just give people what I feel like they would like

00:00:13.980 So there's a first dropping doesn't have the same potency as it once did years ago

00:00:17.960 So that's why I don't do it as much. It's just pointless

00:00:20.700 Yeah, in my opinion unless you are trying to like promote an OnlyFans. That's what makes sense 0.99

00:00:26.040 But like I don't have that so like why am I giving all that? I'm gonna just be in the car talking shit 0.99

00:00:31.060 Do you do you regret doing your book? 0.99

00:00:35.460 No

00:00:36.960 It scared away the people that were not for me anyways

00:00:40.800 It helps my books helpful helped a lot of people and it also most importantly it helped me because I have lived with shame my entire life

00:00:50.020 The book helped release some of that

00:00:51.800 But I think even yesterday when we talked about some stuff some more shame came up, right?

00:00:56.560 So this is like a layer-by-layer thing that I've been dealing with my whole life

00:01:01.440 So I I don't regret it. It was a big step. I actually fired my manager

00:01:07.600 The day I posted it because he said you're gonna ruin your life

00:01:10.500 If you post that book, you're gonna lose all your brand deals. Nobody's gonna like you

00:01:14.480 And I fired up and I'm like well if it can be destroyed by the truth

00:01:17.740 Like if my truth makes me undesirable

00:01:21.440 Then I would rather just be seen as undesirable then I don't want to live a lie and act like I'm some

00:01:27.140 You know this little princess has never done anything. I swear 0.63

00:01:30.380 That's not my truth

00:01:31.380 So that's why I'm very big on I accept what comes behind what I've done because I don't want to live a lie

00:01:36.740 I don't want to live a lie. I want to be authentic. I want to be myself

00:01:40.500 Take me as I am or I'm nothing at all

00:01:42.500 This is just me thinking out loud. I feel like it could still be the truth, but the truth that you don't tell everyone

00:01:48.740 You know what I mean? Yeah, I'm mad. I'm just like I don't necessarily like I feel like some guys would have been even with all the stuff

00:01:55.880 If everyone didn't have to know yeah, like they would still look past it

00:02:00.260 But it's like when you put that out there a good guy that maybe would have taken you seriously then like wouldn't you know

00:02:06.620 Yeah, I mean I feel like I'm saying because a lot of times we'll say things like oh if he was like the right person

00:02:12.440 He would just look past it

00:02:14.000 But like I'll use myself in this example. So it's not like personal right

00:02:18.320 but if if there is I think ideally like when I wanted to wait till I was married to have sex

00:02:24.020 Right and if I if I stayed a virgin like

00:02:27.660 There are guys that would have looked at me then that like wouldn't now because I'm not and a lot of times like people's immediately

00:02:34.300 Reactions like well, you could still find a guy even though you're not a very okay, that's fine

00:02:38.740 That's fine

00:02:39.280 But there's still a pool of men that like would probably eliminate me now. Does that make sense?

00:02:44.420 No, I absolutely understand that I'm not saying that there weren't like good guys that may have been interested 0.99

00:02:50.340 Yeah, um, but again this this is my truth and it's like if the dog my grandma always used to say if the dog wouldn't have stopped to shit 0.96

00:02:57.620 He would have caught the rabbit. So it's like I I although it's like okay 0.70

00:03:01.500 We could entertain that. Yeah, it just isn't progressive for me because again, this is my truth. Like I have

00:03:08.500 considered like

00:03:10.180 Maybe I don't write another one not because I'm like I'm so free. I'll be in book number two if you do

00:03:15.120 Absolutely. Yeah, absolutely

00:03:18.060 No, and I know you wouldn't be in there because I feel like

00:03:22.620 Even meeting you and having this conversation and getting to to pick Andrew's brain as well

00:03:27.700 Like I learned a lot and that's what I really pride myself on is being able to sit down with anyone and learning and learning from

00:03:33.980 Everyone so that's why I think now I do view it a little differently

00:03:37.740 I don't know how I feel about another book people have been asking for one. I don't know

00:03:42.380 I'm just not I I don't feel called to do that right now at this point

00:03:46.620 I'll only support it if I get a chapter

00:03:48.620 I got you

00:03:53.020 You could do like pearls of wisdom

00:04:00.700 You definitely need to use that for your show pearls of wisdom. I love that

00:04:04.900 Yeah, someone said it should be a clips channel

00:04:08.900 I was like what you what you make pearls of wisdom pearls of wins the merch

00:04:13.420 Yeah, yeah, I would love that. That would be so well

00:04:19.660 Sorry

00:04:24.780 Sorry guys, I'm looking at your questions. Let me see some in the chat

00:04:28.620 Let me hear my oil. Am I good someone some

00:04:33.620 Okay, I once had write a children's book

00:04:37.020 Oh, that would be cool

00:04:39.020 Um

00:04:41.020 Yeah, they said would you date someone like I'm gonna give you like one maybe two more questions, okay?

00:04:47.260 Like it's not really oh

00:04:50.380 What's more important loving someone or security?

00:04:55.220 Loving someone 0.95

00:04:57.220 Because I it goes back to if he's a bum 0.99

00:04:59.620 Remember her I'm like no child look at men. No job. Look at men love us with no jobs 0.66

00:05:09.440 Men love I don't know why they take on that. Well, I hear you work

00:05:13.780 blessing

00:05:15.780 Sorry, I won't do

00:05:17.780 But they'll genuinely love us no job you could just be done. Oh, I'm so happy to see you when you when this but they are they have

00:05:27.780 But they have to work still so like they're still providing the lifestyle, right? So hell no, I'm not gonna know

00:05:35.460 It's just that's what this is a Kevin Samuels would say

00:05:37.860 That's what the men do when they make up a lot of money. They know they got to marry a bum 1.00

00:05:41.940 They got it down it like I said a lower paying job cream back, but not I'm just kidding

00:05:47.780 I'm just kidding not no job cuz no job is like why not McDonald's?

00:05:53.620 Like the manager

00:05:55.300 Like the region man. I was trying to make it better. So I'm trying to make it better Brittany

00:06:00.740 What

00:06:02.740 Yeah, flipping burgers

00:06:06.340 He got a raise from 12 to 15 an hour

00:06:09.620 I need my honey bunch to try harder. I can't he's got it even higher than me. But he's jacked. He's in the gym

00:06:15.780 I see what you're trying to do and I just cannot no

00:06:19.860 Look at it. Look at it. So so so that's your option. That's option one. You love him

00:06:25.860 He's the smooth talker. You know the type they make us all fall in love. Absolutely

00:06:31.780 Then you forget their bums. So

00:06:34.660 So so because they had to have the time to learn how to talk

00:06:37.460 Absolutely guys with jobs

00:06:39.460 They don't have the time for this right. So you you really love him

00:06:43.060 He knows how to talk make you feel nice whatever, but he flips burgers for $12 an hour

00:06:48.660 however

00:06:49.940 This is a really you could also you could also that's why it's fun

00:06:57.460 We need to visualize it he's also jacked he's dead now the the old guy let's say

00:07:02.340 So you're 30 let's make him 57

00:07:07.540 I like to be exact 57

00:07:10.580 With a beer belly you're not really attracted to him, but but

00:07:15.220 You're not even worried about child support. This man's so rich. You're not even worried

00:07:21.060 You don't even you are chilling in the you got the car the best see and you had both and you left for some cheating

00:07:28.900 Respectfully, but now these are your options hit 30 the wall has come

00:07:36.340 You're walling

00:07:38.340 I am walling right now um

00:07:41.220 That neither one sounds appealing. No, you gotta pick one. Oh my god

00:07:46.500 I understand you'd rather die alone than do that. I'd rather die alone. I understand but now okay. There's a gun to your head 0.98

00:07:52.100 You have to pick the man

00:07:54.100 And man number two works a lot. He's driven. He's so driven, you know

00:08:01.300 But i'm not that attracted to him. No

00:08:04.740 It's a little simpy

00:08:07.140 More like a little simpy. Okay, uh, she's smiling. She's thinking about security

00:08:11.940 She's thinking about it. She's thinking about it

00:08:17.300 So which one really loves me though

00:08:19.460 They both really love you. Oh fuck. Yeah, you gotta pick one 1.00

00:08:24.100 Oh

00:08:27.140 I feel like a part of me is like shallow and once

00:08:32.660 Once the guy like I want to I don't know I feel like it's where I'm a little shallow with looks the hot guy 0.77

00:08:39.380 The phone we call that the guy at the foam cannon party

00:08:43.380 Okay, I'll explain as many of you know

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JustPearlyThings - December 29, 2022

Hypergamy Does Not CARE!!!

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