Instagram Model Says The Most Delusional Thing EVER!!!!
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Summary
In this episode, we have a special guest on the show. She is a 25-year-old college student from the Bay Area. We talk about her experience with dating and relationships and how she has dealt with the pressures of being a woman in her 20's.
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Okay, so I can tell you that I have younger sisters.
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If I would see something like that on my sister's account,
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immediately I'm going there and shut this account off.
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Of course, and everyone has their different opinions about everything, okay?
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There's a million opinions on a million things.
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Would you want your daughter to do that on Instagram?
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If you're married and you have a daughter and your daughter starts posting.
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I would want her to do whatever she feels comfortable doing.
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Do you think your husband would be okay with that?
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Your husband would say, hey, I'm okay with my daughter showing her breasts on Instagram.
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Well, if you get married to a high value guy that takes care of you.
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Exactly, but I have yet to be married to a high value man.
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It's hard for me to say what I would be like in that situation when I haven't experienced that situation.
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Of course, I'm going to take into consideration your thoughts on how I live and how I perceive myself on social media.
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But at the same time, I'm 1000% going to always be myself.
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And if you do not like that, then you're clean not the man for me.
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And this is, I'm going to be real serious here for a second.
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And if my daughter is on Instagram and I see she posted a picture where you can, you know, see a lot more of her body than you should.
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I'm going to find the guy that took that picture for that.
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And I'm not even like, that's, that's barely an exaggeration.
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Then I can see you're young and you're obviously good looking.
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And I can see that guys would definitely tell you whatever to sleep with you.
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And I can also see that you've probably not dated a truly high value guy because you've never had anybody set proper boundaries on you.
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And that's the only reason you're able to say I'm always going to be me and truthful to myself.
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And the thing is, if you want a man that would take care of you, he's going to have boundaries that you can't cross.
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So you're not going to be able to be you and authentic and all that type of stuff.
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I can only give you my judgment on what I've experienced.
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So like I said, if I've been in a situation like that, I would be able to give you like my boundaries on that.
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And if I would or things on I would and wouldn't do.
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Do you think that men judge women on their past?
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I feel like there's a big standard on, oh, men have a thousand women they've slept with.
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Very few men actually have access to that, right?
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It's just you guys are going after the same guys.
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And then you don't really see the rest of them.
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They complain about all the other guys that are paying money for the dates.
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Like I don't put myself in a bracket in a specific type.
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I vibe with, if I vibe with you, I vibe with you.
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And if I want to feel like I want to get to know you more than I will, but.
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You really should take some of these pictures down.
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It's actually sad to me because you're probably, I'd probably put you top like 20% of beauty to be honest.
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And I'm like, you have the power to be a housewife.
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So, so it's like, it's like you have this inherent value that could get you this amazing outcome.
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That not everybody, it's like this amazing opportunity.
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And you throw it away because it's like you have, you're in lingerie.
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Do you like the attention that you get from those pictures?
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Um, for me, what it does is it gives me more work opportunities, you know, but they're not always, I'm not always naked.
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If they were Katie Price boobs, I would understand.
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Real, real, real, real, real, I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to keep it real.
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Um, like, you know, you're, you're, do you consider, first of all, do you consider yourself a high value woman?
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Um, as a 25 year old woman, I would say, I see myself on the way to be in there.
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Okay, okay, but how do you, how do you, no, I'm serious, like, I just, I'm trying to, okay.
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I feel like it comes with social media, like, for me wanting to be a model, it comes with social media and how people.
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So, yeah, how do we get to, because you know that 90% of your eggs are gone by 30.
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Yeah, so if you, if you, if you're single, if you're single at 30 years old, you're more likely to not have a child than to have one.
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So your, your chance of having a kid drops below 50%.
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So, like, you know, we, we know we're on, like, a bit of a time crunch here as women, right?
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Because you have to convince a guy to, they say, you have to first find the guy you like, which is, like, impossible because every woman's picky.
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And then you also, you also have to convince him that you are trustworthy enough that he can marry you and have children with you.
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And you, you do, and it's like, how do we, how do we get there?
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If this is, I mean, like I said, I'm still young, I think, in my brain, um, not a lot of them.
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For the men you want, they like girls 22, 23, like 25, 26.
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But, to the men that we want, the men that want to be, like, be fathers, the men that want to be husbands, the men that want multiple kids, we're not young.
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Any guy that's for me, I would hope that you wouldn't see that and just judge me by that.
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If you saw me on social media, that would be the first thing that you say.
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Like, if a man is 5'4", you're like, I don't care.
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So you judge men all the time and you rule them out all the time?
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People, I've had, for example, I've shown a guy who's been a guy who's been a guy who's been a guy.
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A girl, like one of my friends, a guy, and they were like, Sinead, like, what are you doing?
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And I'm like, but it's not about, it's not all just about that.
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Just because your friends see him as ugly, it doesn't mean he is ugly.